An estimated one in three South Africans will experience a mental health condition during their lifetime, yet many people still struggle to distinguish between poor mental health and mental illness.
While the terms are often used interchangeably, they are not the same thing. Everyone has mental health, just as everyone has physical health. Mental health refers to our emotional, psychological and social wellbeing and can fluctuate in response to stress, life events and everyday challenges. Mental illness, on the other hand, refers to diagnosable conditions such as depression, anxiety disorders, bipolar disorder and schizophrenia that can affect how a person thinks, feels and functions.
According to Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund, knowing the difference between a difficult period and a potential mental illness is an important first step towards getting help.
“It’s normal to experience stress, sadness or worry from time to time. However, when these feelings persist, worsen or begin affecting daily functioning, they may indicate something more serious that requires attention and support,” he says.
Recognising the signs early can make a significant difference. Here are five indicators that it may be time to seek professional support.
- Persistent feelings of sadness, anxiety or hopelessness
Everyone experiences difficult emotions from time to time. However, if feelings of sadness, worry, fear or hopelessness continue for several weeks and begin interfering with your daily life, it could be a sign of an underlying mental health condition.
Pay attention to emotional changes that don’t improve with rest, self-care or changes in circumstance.
- Changes in your sleep patterns
Mental illness often affects sleeping habits.
You may struggle to fall asleep, wake frequently during the night, experience restless sleep or find yourself sleeping significantly more than usual. Over time, disrupted sleep can affect concentration, energy levels, mood and overall wellbeing.
- Withdrawing from people and activities
A common warning sign of mental illness is losing interest in activities that once brought enjoyment or distancing yourself from family, friends and colleagues.
While it’s natural to need time alone occasionally, ongoing social withdrawal may indicate that something deeper is affecting your wellbeing.
- Difficulty coping with everyday responsibilities
If routine tasks suddenly feel overwhelming, or you’re struggling to focus, make decisions, meet deadlines or manage responsibilities that once felt manageable, it may be a sign that your mental wellbeing requires attention.
“One of the biggest misconceptions about mental illness is that seeking help is a sign of weakness,” says Dr Hadebe. “In reality, recognising when you need support and taking action is a sign of strength.”
- Relying on unhealthy coping mechanisms
Turning to alcohol, overeating, substance use or other unhealthy habits to cope with emotional distress may provide temporary relief, but often masks underlying challenges.
Recognising these behaviours early can help prevent them from developing into longer-term problems and can signal the need for professional support.
Mental illness is not a personal failure, and effective treatment and support are available. The earlier a condition is identified and managed, the better the outcome is likely to be.
“We need to normalise conversations about mental illness in the same way we normalise conversations about physical health,” says Dr Hadebe. “Awareness helps reduce stigma and encourages people to seek help before challenges become crises.”
Understanding the difference between mental health and mental illness can help people recognise when they or a loved one may need support. If symptoms persist, worsen or begin affecting daily life, speaking to a healthcare professional is an important step towards recovery.
Bonitas members also have access to a dedicated Mental Health Programme, which offers professional guidance, counselling support and resources to help them better understand and manage their condition.
Looking after your mental health is important, but recognising the signs of mental illness and seeking help early can make a meaningful difference to your long-term health, wellbeing and quality of life.
For 2025 we have a renewed Female Health Programme:In collaboration with CareWorks, it’s accessible to all female members aged 18 and above, with an emphasis on preventative care and early detection of female-specific health issues. In addition, we have an enhanced Maternity Programme to support expecting mothers. This includes early identification of and weekly engagement for high-risk pregnancies, post-childbirth care and associated mental health follow-up calls for new mums, given the prevalence of pre and postnatal depression. Also, milestone reminders for children under 3 and cover for antenatal vitamins through savings, day-to-day benefits or the Benefit Booster
Bonitas Medical Fund
0860 002 108
View Website: www.bonitas.co.za
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