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Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party makes winter wonderful!

Innovative technology and transformative performances bring Disney classics and new favourites to South African audiences Disney On Ice returns to South Africa for the winter school holidays! Audiences in Pretoria, Cape Town, and Durban, book your tickets to join Mickey Mouse and his friends at Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party, an adventure filled with world-class skating, high-flying acrobatics and unexpected stunts. Look for clues in the search for Tinker Bell through immersive, fantastic worlds. Explore the colourful spirit realm of Coco, sail away with Moana as she bravely saves her island, see Belle in the sky as the enchanted chandelier comes to life, and sing along with Elsa in the icy world of Frozen.  Also, Stitch makes his Disney On Ice debut in South Africa, as he crashes the action with mischievous surprises! Make memories during Aladdin, Toy Story and The Little Mermaid as the search party becomes an all-out celebration, with spectacular special effects, cutting-edge technology, breathtaking performances, dazzling costumes, and all your beloved Disney characters and stories. Produced by Feld Entertainment, Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party is brought to South Africa by leading local promoter, Showtime Management and proudly presented in association with FNB. The show opens in Pretoria on Saturday, 27 June 2026 at SunBet Arena, Time Square and continues for a limited season ending on Sunday, 05 July 2026. Thereafter Disney On Ice skates into GrandWest, Cape Town on Friday, 10 July through Sunday, 19 July 2026, before moving to Durban’s International Convention Centre Arena from Friday, 24 July to Sunday, 26  July 2026.  “We’ve been looking forward to opening this show since we confirmed these runs last year and we know fans can’t wait to join Mickey Mouse and his friends on their search for Tinker Bell,” says Tony Feldman of Showtime Management. “Partnering with FNB helps us bring all the magic and incredible special effects to the show – audiences will love it!” FNB Events Marketing Lead, Nkosana Matyeshana says the bank is proud to partner with Disney On Ice once again, to bring world-class family entertainment to South African audiences during the winter school holidays.  “At FNB, we understand that families are looking for meaningful moments of connection and shared experiences, especially in an environment where daily financial pressures continue to shape household decisions. Through partnerships like this, we want to help make memorable experiences more accessible for our customers and their loved ones. Disney On Ice offers a unique opportunity for families to come together and step into a world of imagination and wonder, and we’re delighted to play a role in helping create those lasting memories. As a brand that’s focused on delivering help that is relevant and meaningful, this partnership reflects our commitment to creating real value for our customers by enabling experiences that bring them and their loved ones closer together.” The technology involved in bringing Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party and its world-class skating, high-flying acrobatics and unexpected stunts to audiences is incredible. Fifteen fully packed trucks bring the production to each venue and the ice-skating surface alone is 35 metres long and 18 metres wide. There are around 173 costumes used during the show, with costume changes of less than 30 seconds required in some instances! The largest prop weighs 450kg and the sets highest point towers 11m up in the air. The lighting design uses 221 fixtures, 185 of them moveable, and 12 powerful projectors create immersive, magical worlds. Sound wise, 100 groups of speakers deliver a massive 200,000 watts of power! It’s time for magic at Disney On Ice and tickets are selling fast! See Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, Donald, Goofy and their friends from Moana, Coco, Frozen, Toy Story, Aladdin, Beauty and the Beast, and The Little Mermaid.  Tickets are now on sale for South Africa’s favourite family winter school holiday outing. Don’t delay, book at Ticketmaster.co.za or Showtime.co.za.  Patrons are asked to please note that owing to safety regulations each person, irrespective of age (including babes in arms and children under two years) must have a purchased ticket. Fans are encouraged to only book through Ticketmaster.co.za the official authorised ticketing agent for Disney On Ice. Tickets from third parties will not be honoured. To discover more about Disney On Ice, log on to www.disneyonice.co.za or visit Disney On Ice on Facebook and YouTube. 

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Understanding Anxiety in Children, And How To Help Them Through It

Many parents will recognise the scene: a school morning that should be ordinary turns into something entirely different. There are tears at the gate, a stomach ache with no clear cause, and a child who, by every measurable standard, is fine, yet is clearly not fine at all. Anxiety in children rarely presents itself as anxiety; instead, it manifests as resistance, irritability, sleeplessness, sudden clinginess, or a sore tummy or tears on a Sunday evening. As South Africa focuses on our youth this June, we must consider the wellbeing of our young people, with mental health firmly included in that conversation. The scale of the issue The World Health Organisation estimates that around one in seven children and adolescents worldwide, aged 10 to 19, lives with a mental health condition (Sept, 2025). Anxiety disorders sit alongside depression and behavioural disorders as some of the most common. The numbers matter, but what matters more is our understanding of the disorder and how we can better support the child. Anxiety isn’t the enemy A useful place to start is by separating the feeling itself from the assumption that the feeling is a problem. Anxiety is, fundamentally, a sense of worry, fear or dread that won’t always respond to reason. It is also a normal and useful human emotion. A small dose of anxiety sharpens a child’s focus before an exam. It produces the energy that gets them onto the sports field with their head in the game. It is hard-wired into our survival system. Faced with genuine danger, the quickened heartbeat, the faster breathing, the sharper senses, are designed to keep us alive. Anxiety becomes a problem when it stops being situational and starts being constant- when the alarm system that should switch off after the threat passes simply does not switch off. At that point, anxiety stops protecting and starts interfering with daily life. One of the heaviest things many anxious children carry is not the anxiety itself but the judgement around it. So many of us were raised to believe we should not feel anxious in the first place, and that shame associated with this belief only compounds the worry. Children need to hear, clearly and often, that anxiety is normal and can be helpful. That it does not define them- it does not make them weak or bad. The moment they learn to notice it and put a name to it is the moment they start to take some control back. Awareness does not amplify anxiety, it quietly gives a child the confidence that they can cope. A useful reminder for any anxious child: “Feelings come and go. You felt different before, and you’ll feel different again.” What’s actually happening inside their head To support an anxious child well, it helps to understand what is happening at the level of the brain. Two parts of the brain do a lot of the heavy lifting here. The prefrontal cortex is the part responsible for focus, impulse control and flexible thinking – the rational executive. The amygdala is the part that processes emotions like fear – the alarm system. In a settled state, the prefrontal cortex keeps the amygdala in check, weighing up whether something is genuinely threatening. When a harmless situation gets misread as dangerous, however, the amygdala fires the alarm. The body switches into fight, flight, freeze or fawn mode. As anxiety climbs, the brain’s executive functioning takes a hit – logic goes offline. This is why telling an anxious child to “stop worrying, it’s not that bad” almost never works. To their brain and body, the threat is entirely real. We are not arguing with their thinking. We are arguing with their biology. What to look out for Part of the parental task is telling the difference between developmentally appropriate fears, everyday worries, and the kind of pattern that signals an actual anxiety disorder. Anxiety in children tends to show up in three ways: If several of these are showing up in your child persistently, and getting in the way of everyday life, that is the signal to take it seriously. What you can do to help Supporting an anxious child starts with the adults around them. Here are some practical approaches that work for the whole family. The goal is not a worry-free childhood Anxiety is not the enemy, it’s a normal, even necessary, human emotion. Learning to regulate emotions is a skill that children learn when they are supported by an adult. When we as the key adult co-regulate, they develop the metacognitive skills to regulate themselves.  With patience, the right strategies, and steady support, we can teach our children something far more useful than a worry-free childhood. We can teach them: “I can feel anxious and still be okay.” For more resources, visit www.bellavista.org.za By Karen Archer, Deputy Principal, Bellavista School

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Local Young Innovators to represent South Africa in New York

Two Grade 8 learners from Pretoria are taking the local STEM field by storm. Johan Vorster and Gustav Heesen were the first grade 7 learners to be crowned Overall Winners of the Gauteng North Imbewu Science Fair in 2025, beating older competitors across several grades. Their innovative project is a smartphone-based application that uses AI to mark tests and assignments, relieving the burden on teachers and allowing them more time to focus on teaching. Johan and Gustav designed, tested and tweaked their model independently, ending up with a cost-effective and accessible solution for overworked teachers. Their system is called Advanced Mark-Allocation System (AMAS), and was built using large language models and N8N flow-gramming software to alleviate the test and assignment-marking burden on teachers. Bigger classes mean more tests and assignments for teachers to grade. This AI system is designed to mark tests and provide feedback to learners based off smart phone photos of the learners’ test papers. The software was tested rigorously, and was able to interpret the information on the photograph even when cursive writing was used. It was also able to correctly interpret very untidy and illegible handwriting, as well as writing with a lot of spelling mistakes. The data from the tests were then used to provide feedback to learners and the teacher. AMAS generates personalised feedback to each learner based on their test or assignment information and results. It goes a step further by identifying areas for improvement and suggesting supplementary activities that could help strengthen the learner’s knowledge in that area. It also provides feedback to the teacher based on the class’s performance and overall strengths and weaknesses. After winning the Gauteng North Imbewu Science Fair this year, Gustav and Johan were crowned as second runners-up in the National Imbewu SAYESS (South African Youth Environmental and Science Symposium) competition and were subsequently invited to participate in the Genius Olympiad in Rochester, New York, USA, in June of this year. The boys and their families are, of course, very proud and excited about this fantastic opportunity to represent the future of South African STEM fields abroad. However, the cost of sending the two learners and a chaperone to the USA is significant. As a result, the families have started a crowdfunding campaign to help them cover the costs. They are almost halfway to their goal, with many individuals and companies pitching in to help get Johan and Gustav to New York for the Olympiad. If you would like to contribute, click on this link to their Back-a-buddy campaign. For more information on their application, AMAS, watch this YouTube presentation the boys made to explain their invention. EduHelp and Holistic Awareness wish Gustav and Johan all the best on their travels and the Olympiad, and we cannot wait to see what the future holds for these two bright young South African innovators! Written By Loudine Heunis This article originally appeared in the EduHelp/ Holistic Awareness newsletter.  Johan Voster and Gustav Heessen with the presentation of their innovative AI test-marking app. Image supplied by the Heessen family.

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A Mom’s Look Inside Sugar Bay Holiday Camp With Actor Lunathi Mampofu

When actor & mom Lunathi Mampofu visited Sugar Bay Holiday Camp in Zinkwazi Beach, it was more than a quick stop at a children’s camp. It was a mom getting to see the place her daughter, Skye, had been talking about long after coming home. Like many parents, Lunathi had felt the nerves that come with sending a child away to sleepover camp. It is one thing to know your child is going somewhere fun. It is another thing to let them go without being able to check in every few minutes, fix every small problem, or know exactly what they are doing throughout the day. That is why her visit to Sugar Bay mattered. Skye was already comfortable there. Lunathi got to see her daughter in the camp environment, moving around with confidence, proud to show her cabin, happy around the pool, and clearly at home in a place that had become special to her. For a parent, that says more than any brochure could. Sugar Bay is a children-only sleepover holiday camp on the KwaZulu-Natal North Coast, based in Zinkwazi Beach. Children and teens come for school holiday camps filled with activities, beach and pool time, cabin life, evening events, friendships and 24/7 supervision. But what stood out in Lunathi’s visit was not just the activities. It was the feeling that Skye had been given space to grow, while still being cared for. She spoke about the value of independence, and how important it is for children to have experiences outside their everyday home routine. At Sugar Bay, Skye gets to make choices, manage small responsibilities, spend time with other children, and enjoy a holiday that feels like her own. That is something many parents want for their children, even if the first step feels emotional. Lunathi’s visit gave a real look at what that can mean. A child who settles in. A child who feels safe enough to enjoy herself. A child who comes home with stories, confidence and a genuine connection to the people and place. For parents who are still unsure about sleepover camp, her experience is reassuring because it is honest. The nerves are normal. Letting go is not always easy. But seeing your child happy, confident and cared for can change the way you look at camp completely. Sugar Bay has been welcoming children and teens since 2001, with over 100 activities, trained counselors, cabin accommodation and a full camp programme designed for fun, friendship and independence. About Sugar Bay Holiday Camp Sugar Bay is a children-only sleepover holiday camp in Zinkwazi Beach on the KwaZulu-Natal North Coast. The camp welcomes children and teens aged 7 to 17 during the school holidays, with over 100 activities, 24/7 supervision, trained counselors, beach and pool experiences, cabin accommodation and a full camp programme built around fun, confidence and independence. Explore upcoming Sugar Bay school holiday camp dates:https://www.sugarbay.co.za/2026-school-holiday-camp-dates Learn more about Sugar Bay:https://www.sugarbay.co.za/about-sugar-bay-holiday-camp Find answers to common parent questions:https://www.sugarbay.co.za/parent-faq Book a Sugar Bay holiday camp:https://www.sugarbay.co.za/book-a-holiday Call: 032 485 3778WhatsApp: 082 525 9503

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June and July Holiday Camps That Give Kids More Than Just a Break

School holidays can be tricky for parents. You want your child to rest, have fun and enjoy their break, but you also want them to do something meaningful with their time. Something away from screens. Something active. Something social. Something that helps them grow. For many parents, the question is not just, “How do I keep my child busy during the holidays?” It is also, “How do I give my child the kind of holiday they will actually remember?” That is where a sleepover holiday camp can be so powerful. A good camp gives children the chance to make new friends, try new activities, spend time outdoors, build independence and come home with stories they cannot wait to share. At Sugar Bay, a kids-only sleepover holiday camp in Zinkwazi Beach on the KwaZulu-Natal North Coast, children and teenagers aged 7 to 17 enjoy a safe, supervised, screen-free camp experience filled with adventure, friendship and fun. June and July 2026 Holiday Camps at Sugar Bay This June and July, Sugar Bay is hosting three themed holiday camp weeks for children and teenagers aged 7 to 17: Wicked Week: 28 June to 5 July 2026FIFA Week: 5 to 12 July 2026Come Dine With Me Week: 12 to 19 July 2026 Each camp has its own theme, energy and activities, but every week includes the full Sugar Bay experience: over 100 free-choice activities, 24/7 supervision, trained staff, beach and lagoon adventures, creative sessions, sports, evening entertainment and a safe sleepover camp environment. Parents can view the full June and July 2026 holiday camp lineup at Sugar Bay, including dates, themes, costs and booking details. A School Holiday That Feels Like a Real Adventure June and July may be winter in South Africa, but Sugar Bay is based on the tropical North Coast of KwaZulu-Natal, where the weather is much milder than many parts of the country. Campers can still enjoy outdoor activities, beach time, lagoon adventures, creative workshops, sports, themed programmes and evening entertainment. Sugar Bay’s location makes it a year-round camp destination, with plenty for children to do in every season. Why Parents Choose Sugar Bay Sugar Bay is more than a place to keep children busy during the holidays. It is a place where children can build confidence, independence and friendships in a safe, structured environment. Campers choose from over 100 free-choice activities, which means they are not pushed through one fixed programme all day. One child may choose beach games, swimming and surfing. Another may prefer arts and crafts, drama, climbing, skating, sports or creative activities. This freedom of choice helps children discover what they enjoy, try new things at their own pace and experience camp in a way that feels exciting to them. For parents, safety and supervision matter just as much as fun. At Sugar Bay, campers are supervised 24/7 by trained staff, with a dedicated 1:3 staff-to-camper ratio. Parents can read more about safety and supervision at Sugar Bay. Wicked Week: For Creative and Imaginative Campers Sugar Bay’s Wicked-inspired theatre holiday camp runs from 28 June to 5 July 2026. This week is ideal for creative children, musical theatre fans, imaginative thinkers and campers who enjoy stories, costumes, fantasy, art and performance. The benefit of a theatre-inspired camp week is that it gives children a safe space to express themselves. Some campers may step onto a stage for the first time. Others may prefer helping with costumes, props, art, movement or behind-the-scenes creativity. Either way, the theme encourages confidence, teamwork, self-expression and the courage to try something new. Read More: https://www.sugarbay.co.za/post/wicked-inspired-holiday-camp-2026 FIFA Week: For Sporty, Energetic and Team-Spirited Campers Sugar Bay’s football-themed FIFA Week camp runs from 5 to 12 July 2026. With football excitement building in 2026, this camp gives children their own chance to be part of the energy. Campers can enjoy soccer-inspired challenges, friendly competition, cheering, poster making, team spirit activities, themed dining and classic Sugar Bay adventure. It is not only for serious soccer players. Sporty children can get involved on the field, while creative and social campers can take part through cheering, team challenges, cabin spirit and themed activities. The focus is on fun, friendship, confidence, teamwork and adventure. Read More: https://www.sugarbay.co.za/post/fifa-week-camp-july-2026 Come Dine With Me Week: For Social, Creative and Team-Focused Campers Sugar Bay’s Come Dine With Me themed holiday camp runs from 12 to 19 July 2026. This week turns mealtimes into a creative camp-wide challenge. Campers work together on menu ideas, table décor, presentation, entertainment and hosting, while still enjoying the full Sugar Bay sleepover camp experience. The theme encourages communication, cooperation, creativity, confidence and teamwork. It is not only for children who enjoy cooking. Every camper can find a role, whether they enjoy planning, decorating, performing, organising, encouraging others or simply being part of the group. Read More: https://www.sugarbay.co.za/post/come-dine-with-me-camp-july-2026 More Than a Camp Theme The themes make each week exciting, but Sugar Bay is about far more than the theme. For many children, camp is where they make new friends, try something they were nervous to do, spend time away from home, become more independent and enjoy a screen-free holiday filled with real-world connection. Camp gives children the space to grow in ways that feel natural: through play, activity, friendship, choice and shared experiences. Parents often tell us their children come home more confident, more independent and full of stories about the people they met and the things they tried. A Safe, Supervised Sleepover Camp Experience Sending your child away to sleepover camp is a big decision. That is why Sugar Bay places such a strong focus on safety, structure and supervision. Campers are supported throughout their stay by trained staff, clear routines and carefully managed activities. Water activities, excursions, evening programmes and general camp routines are supervised by the Sugar Bay team, giving children room to enjoy independence while parents have peace of mind. You can learn more about Sugar Bay’s safety and supervision on our website. Give Your Child a Holiday They Will Remember Children

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Trampoline Therapy for Autism: Why Bouncing Builds Balance at Rush

Trampoline therapy for autism is one of the most effective and accessible sensory interventions available to South African families — and at Rush, it happens naturally, joyfully, every single session. For a child on the autism spectrum, the world can feel like a constant stream of overwhelming signals: the glare of mall lighting, the unpredictable sounds of a public playground, the sensory chaos of a busy robot intersection. But inside a Rush trampoline park, something measurably different occurs. The rhythmic, predictable bounce of a trampoline mat is not just fun — for many neurodivergent children, it is a form of neurological liberation. Our latest article explains exactly why, and how to make the most of the April 2026 school holidays for your child’s sensory wellbeing. The Science of the Bounce: Proprioception and Vestibular Regulation Trampolining directly stimulates the two sensory systems that children with autism most commonly struggle to regulate: the proprioceptive system, which maps body position, and the vestibular system, which governs balance — making it one of the most neurologically targeted forms of sensory-friendly indoor play available. To understand why a trampoline works so well, we need to look at the hidden sensesthat underpin daily functioning for children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). The Proprioceptive System: Your Child’s Internal Map The proprioceptive system relies on receptors in joints and muscles to tell the brain where the body is in space — without the eyes needing to check. For children who feel chronically clumsy, bump into furniture, or struggle with personal space, this system is under-regulated. The deep-pressure impact of landing repeatedly on a trampoline provides intense, grounding proprioceptive feedback. In practical terms: children who enter our parks feeling frazzled and dysregulated frequently leave visibly calmer, because their nervous system has finally received the high-intensity input it was craving. The Vestibular System: Balance, Focus, and Calm Located in the inner ear, the vestibular system controls balance, spatial orientation, and the ability to filter out irrelevant sensory information. The repetitive up-and-down motion of jumping organises these signals in a way few other activities can match. A 2025 study published in the Multidisciplinary Science Journal found that even short-term trampoline interventions significantly reduced anxiety — measured through heart rate variability — and improved motor proficiency in children with ASD. These are the Rush trampoline park benefits that parents at our Claremont location see every week. A Safe Space for Self-Expression and Stimming At Rush, stimming is not just tolerated — it is the default mode of the activity, which is precisely why trampoline parks are one of the most genuinely neurodivergent-friendly activities in South Africa. “Stimming” — self-stimulatory behaviour such as rocking, flapping, or spinning — is a natural and necessary self-regulation strategy for many neurodivergent individuals. In most public environments, these movements attract unwanted attention or correction. On a trampoline, however, repetitive jumping is the activity. There is no masking required. This matters more than it might initially seem. Chronic masking – the suppression of natural autistic behaviours to conform to neurotypical expectations — is associated with significantly elevated rates of anxiety, burnout, and depression. An environment where a child can stim freely, within a safe padded space, is not a luxury. It is a mental health intervention. The physical intensity of jumping also provides “heavy work”input-  the kind of full-body exertion that lowers cortisol levels, reduces post-session meltdowns, and –  as many parents report — supports better sleep and improved focus once the takkies are back on and it is time for homework or dinner. Social Interaction Without the Social Pressure A visit to Rush trampoline park offers something rare for autistic children: genuine peer connection without the exhausting demands of direct social performance. One of the most overlooked aspects of autism is the sheer cognitive and emotional cost of conventional social interaction. The complex unspoken rules of team sports, the nuance of conversation, the unpredictability of group play — these can be genuinely exhausting for a neurologically different child. Trampoline parks offer a powerful alternative through what developmental psychologists call parallel play. On our wall-to-wall trampolines, children can jump alongsidepeers without any demand for verbal exchange. They share the same space, the same rhythm, and the same physical joy — each within their own defined section of the mat. This builds a genuine sense of belonging and community without the social overwhelm that traditional environments impose. This is what makes Rush the perfect place for trampoline therapy for autism. Over repeated sessions, parallel play often evolves organically into interaction: a shared laugh, a friendly wave, an impromptu synchronised bounce. These micro-connections, built on shared physical experience rather than verbal performance, are developmentally significant and authentic. Sensory-Friendly Session Planning General Timing Guidance For Families: Booking to Visit to Rush To check session times and pricing, visit the Rush holiday pricing and bookings page. Easter and Family Day slots — particularly sensory-friendly sessions — fill well in advance. Frequently Asked Questions About Trampoline Therapy For Autism Is trampoline therapy evidence-based? Yes. Research published in peer-reviewed journals, including a a study by Malque Publishing, has demonstrated measurable reductions in anxiety and improvements in motor proficiency in children with ASD following trampoline-based interventions. While Rush is not a clinical therapy provider, the sensory input provided by trampolining closely mirrors the mechanisms used in occupational therapy settings. What age is trampoline play suitable for children with autism? Rush caters for a wide age range, though suitability depends on the individual child rather than age alone. Toddlers and younger children benefit from smaller jump zones with lower trampoline tension, while older children and teens often respond well to the full park experience. We recommend contacting your nearest Rush park to discuss your child’s specific needs before a first visit. How is Rush different from a regular playground for autistic children? Rush indoor trampoline park offers several structural advantages over conventional playgrounds: Are there any organisations you are involved with? Absolutely. We work closely with Western Cape Autism where we have hosted special play days for kids on the spectrum. Which we will be hosting again this year! See our socials for more information! Our staff is also fully trained to support children with autism, making sure they feel safe, secure, and ready to have a blast at our park. Give Your Child

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Development Through Play: PlayStation by Rush – Your Top Developmental Hub

Development through play is not a catchphrase –  it is the most powerful cognitive and physical tool available to children under eight. At our toddler indoor park, every climbing frame, tunnel, and soft-fall surface has been designed around this single principle. As the June 2026 School Holidays approach, parents across the Southern Suburbs are asking: where can my child actually grow during the break? The answer is in the heart of Kirstenhof — and it starts with movement. The Science of Active Play: How Movement Builds the Brain Active physical play directly stimulates the neural pathways children need for reading, writing, and emotional regulation — making a visit to a quality indoor playpark one of the most developmentally valuable activities of the school holidays. At Playstation, the benefits extend far beyond basic fitness. When children engage in multi-level exploration on our structures, they are simultaneously fine-tuning two critical sensory systems that underpin all future learning: the vestibular and proprioceptive systems. Vestibular System: Balance and Spatial Awareness The vestibular system, located in the inner ear, governs balance and spatial orientation. When children navigate our multi-level climbing structures –  shifting weight, changing direction, reading height — they are directly training this system. Research shows that a well-developed vestibular system improves a child’s ability to sit still and focus in a classroom environment, making holiday play a genuine investment in Term 2 readiness. Cross-Lateral Movement: The Reading and Writing Connection Our tunnels and obstacle courses require cross-lateral movement — where a limb crosses the body’s midline. This seemingly simple physical act stimulates communication between the brain’s left and right hemispheres. Neurologically, this is the same cross-hemisphere coordination that underlies reading fluency and handwriting. In short: crawling through a tunnel at our indoor funpark is quietly preparing your child for literacy. Proprioceptive Input: From Climbing Walls to Fine Motor Skills Scaling a climbing wall gives the body constant feedback about its own position and the force required to move. This proprioceptive input — what parents might describe as takkie-to-eye coordination — directly informs the fine motor control needed for holding a pencil, cutting with scissors, or kicking a ball accurately. Every grip on a climbing hold is, in effect, a handwriting lesson. Parent Insight A 2023 position statement from the American Academy of Pediatrics confirmed that unstructured active play is essential for healthy brain development in children under eight — and that the benefits cannot be replicated by screen time or structured academic prep. Social and Emotional Milestones: Building the Bravery Muscle Playstation is where children develop confidence, resilience, and social skills — not through instruction, but through the natural challenges of active, child-led play. There is a specific magic that happens when a child faces a new climbing challenge. It is the moment they decide to try anyway — building what developmental psychologists call self-efficacy, or what we simply call the bravery muscle. Every facilitator is trained to encourage rather than direct, the fear of failure is replaced by the thrill of resilience. Children learn, viscerally, that challenge is survivable — a lesson that transfers directly to the classroom and beyond. The park also functions as a miniature society. In a single afternoon, a child will practise: How to parent Stress free? The Playstation experience is designed to be as restorative for parents as it is energising for children. For South African parents, sourcing quality, stimulating activities during school holidays can feel like full time job. PlayStation by Rush removes that friction entirely. Our Kirstenhof venue features a full-service café with barista-made artisan coffee, freshly prepared light meals, and free Wi-Fi — all with clear sightlines to every play zone. This “park-and-recharge” design means you are not stuck on a hard plastic bench watching the clock. You can catch up on work emails, have a real conversation, or simply sit with a warm cup of coffee while your child builds skills you cannot teach from a worksheet. Parent Tip Aim for the first session of the day during school holidays. Earlier sessions are quieter, giving younger toddlers more room to explore at their own pace — and giving parents the most peaceful café experience of the week. Frequently Asked Questions What is the best clothes to wear to an indoor playpark?  Stick to lightweight, breathable fabrics like cotton or moisture-wicking athletic gear. You’ll want clothes that allow for a full range of motion – and don’t forget grip  socks. Do parents have to pay?  No. Parents enjoy free entry at our park! We only charge for the little ones who are using the equipment, so feel free to come in, relax, and supervise without an extra ticket. Is there high-speed Wi-Fi and a workspace for parents?” Yes! Our café is fully equipped with complimentary high-speed Wi-Fi and a dedicated, comfortable seating area designed for those who need to catch up on emails or finish a project. What are Playstations opening hours? Monday- Friday 9:00am – 6:00pm Saturday, Sunday9:00am – 5:00pm Have more questions about development through play? Reach out to us on social media! How Movement Can Help Your Kids The June 2026 school holidays are a genuine opportunity to invest in your child’s development — not just fill time. Whether you are looking for a once-off holiday treat or a weekly ritual that builds long-term skills, our indoor playpark is ready to welcome your family. Let development through play be the best decision you make these holidays. Your child gets confidence, coordination, and pure joy. You get barista coffee and breathing room. Book Now To Secure Your Sessions

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Where Did All the Good Places Go? A Study of “Third Places”

May drags on. Every parent knows the feeling. Kids are locked in study mode with June exams looming. They spend their afternoons hunched over textbooks instead of running around like they’re supposed to. The weather is turning; the days feel shorter. Everyone is a little grumpy and cooped up. Nobody says it out loud, but the whole house has that end-of-term energy—restless and tired all at once. And the worst part? There is nowhere obvious to go. With the colder, rainy weather keeping everyone away from parks and beaches, the options are slim. In Joburg, Durban, and even Cape Town, “other” places to go are few, far between, and generally expensive. You’ve got the mall. You’ve got restaurants that technically allow children. You’ve got a park if you’re lucky, though it probably doesn’t have much going on. What you don’t have is that one place—the place where you can just pitch up as a family, decompress, and actually enjoy an afternoon without planning it three weeks in advance. That place has a name: The Third Place. And we’ve somehow built entire suburbs without them. The Concept of the Third Place Sociologist Ray Oldenburg named it back in 1989, but the concept is ancient. It’s simple: It’s the corner café, the public square, the library that doesn’t shush you, or the park that actually has soul. Third places are where community happens by accident. You aren’t there for a meeting or to tick off a checklist; you’re just there, and so is everyone else, and somehow that’s enough. Most of the world’s great cities are built around them. Joburg and Cape Town? Not so much. We built the highways first, then the estates, then the shopping centres. The third place was left out of the blueprint entirely, costing us that vital sense of community. What That Actually Costs Us Kids aged 8 to 14 are spending roughly 6 hours a day on their screens. Before we complain about TikTok, we have to realize that’s what happens when there is nowhere else to be. The phone isn’t the sole problem; the absence of alternatives is. May makes it worse because the pressure to be “productive” takes over. Study. Revise. Prepare. Kids who should be outside figuring out the world are instead being asked to sit still and perform. There is no release valve—no place to just be a kid for an hour before dinner. Parents feel it too. You’re managing the studying, the moods, the screen-time negotiations, and the guilt about those negotiations. You could use somewhere to sit with a coffee or a good book that doesn’t require you to be “on” the entire time. That isn’t a luxury; it’s what a functioning neighbourhood should provide. The Urban Gap As our society has urbanised, there has been an intrinsic loss of easy, cost-effective third spaces. In cities like Durban, Cape Town, and Joburg, spaces are becoming increasingly inaccessible. Our cities are no longer walkable, and any sort of activity has be.Up – Your preferred third place Indoor playparks are the perfect third space for you and your child. Our indoor facilities are designed for screen-free fun, featuring a dedicated giant maze, soft play area, multi-court, trampoline zone, and more. It is a “kids’ fun zone” that has it all. Here, children have the space to breathe, run, chat with friends, and let their imaginations run wild. Meanwhile, parents finally have a space where they can grab a coffee, have a snack at our café, or read a book—all with the peace of mind that their young ones are safe and active. Book Now Visit any of our be.UP parks today in Cresta, Gateway, or the Waterfront.

DIBBER SA

Why Emotional Safety in Young Children Is the New Literacy

A child who feels safe learns differently. Before letters, numbers, and formal instruction can truly take root, children need something more fundamental: the emotional security to explore, question, connect and participate with confidence. According to Dibber International Preschools, emotional safety is becoming one of the most important foundations of early childhood development. When children feel seen and heard, they can engage with learning and develop the confidence needed to navigate the world around them. “At Dibber, we believe emotional safety is not separate from learning – it is what makes learning possible,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When children feel secure, they are more open to trying, speaking, listening, exploring and growing. That sense of safety shapes not only how they learn, but how they experience themselves in the learning environment.” Dibber notes that literacy in the early years cannot be viewed solely through the traditional lens of reading and writing. It also includes the ability to understand and regulate emotions, and to form healthy connections with others. In this sense, emotional literacy is becoming just as important as academic literacy in laying the foundation for later success. In a preschool environment, emotional safety is often built through small but meaningful daily experiences. A calm response to a child’s distress, routines that create predictability, and spaces where feelings are acknowledged rather than dismissed all help children feel secure. These seemingly ordinary interactions have a profound impact on how children absorb and respond to new information. “When children know they are safe, something shifts,” adds Assis. “They begin to participate more freely. They ask more questions. They recover more easily from frustration. They become more able to focus and more willing to engage. This is why emotional safety deserves to be treated as a core part of early education.” Dibber believes emotional literacy must be nurtured with intention. Children are not born knowing how to name, manage or work through feelings. They learn this through steady guidance. When children are assisted in understanding what they feel, they can communicate their needs, relate to peers, and remain engaged in learning much more easily. This is particularly important because emotional and cognitive development are closely connected. When children experience emotional insecurity or ongoing stress, their ability to focus, remember, and process information can be affected. By contrast, when they begin to understand and express their emotions, they are often better able to manage reactions, resolve conflict and participate meaningfully in group settings. For Dibber, this understanding aligns strongly with the Nordic approach to early childhood education, which places emotional development at the centre of learning rather than treating it as an added extra. Through play, storytelling, shared routines, and guided interaction, children are supported in building self-awareness, empathy, and confidence, as well as in other crucial areas of development. In the South African context, Dibber also sees a natural connection between emotional safety and the philosophy of Ubuntu. Based on the understanding that people grow through connection, care and shared respect, Ubuntu reinforces the idea that children thrive best within environments where belonging is actively nurtured. This strengthens emotional safety not as an individual achievement, but as a shared responsibility between educators, families and communities. At Dibber, this feeling of belonging is intentionally woven through daily learning experiences. Children are encouraged to care for one another, express themselves, work through conflict with support and experience their learning environment as a place where they are valued. Creating emotional safety does not require complicated systems. It begins with consistency, presence and emotionally responsive adults. When educators take time to acknowledge feelings and create space for expression through play and conversation, children begin to trust both the environment and themselves. Over time, this trust becomes the base for deeper learning, stronger relationships and more confident participation. “Emotional well-being is not a soft add-on to education,” says Assis. “It is part of the foundation. When children feel emotionally safe, they are better able to become curious, capable and connected learners. Without that foundation, learning can remain shallow and inconsistent.” Emotional safety is not simply an added advantage in the early years. It is one of the conditions that allows meaningful learning to happen at all.

NB Hearing & Balance

Protecting Hearing from Newborn to Adulthood 

We live in a country where daily life can include everything from bustling taxi ranks and construction noise to loud music and community events, and protecting your hearing is not just important; it is essential across every stage of life. The reality is that noise-induced hearing loss is permanent but often preventable with appropriate precautions. At NB Hearing and Balance, we believe that building good habits early and maintaining them over time can make a meaningful difference. Why Noise Awareness Matters Sound is measured in decibels (dB), and prolonged exposure to sounds above 85 dB can increase the risk of hearing damage. For context, busy traffic or a minibus taxi ride can reach this level, while concerts, nightclubs, and even some religious services can exceed 100 dB. Other cultural and social environments often celebrate music and community gatherings, both important aspects of life, but they can also increase the risk of long-term hearing damage if precautions are not taken. Protecting Hearing from the Very Beginning: Newborns and Infants Did you know that newborns have highly sensitive auditory systems, and early exposure to loud environments can be harmful? In addition, identifying hearing challenges early is critical for speech and language development. Tips for newborn hearing protection: Early Childhood and Primary School Years Our school environments can sometimes be noisy, and children may also be exposed to loud music through headphones, tablets, or shared devices. At this stage, education and habit-building are key. Tips for protecting young ears: This is also the stage where early signs of hearing or auditory processing difficulties may become noticeable, particularly in classroom settings. Teenagers and Young Adults: High-Risk Years Teenagers and young adults are among the most at-risk groups for noise-induced hearing damage. Social activities often include loud music, whether through headphones, clubs, festivals, or car sound systems. Often, music and nightlife are vibrant parts of youth culture, and awareness becomes especially important. Practical strategies: Temporary ringing in the ears (tinnitus) after a night out is a possible early warning sign and should not be ignored. Adults in the Workplace and Daily Life It is not unusual for many to be exposed to occupational noise, particularly in industries like mining, construction, manufacturing, and transport. Even outside of formal workplaces, daily exposure to traffic, generators during load shedding, and urban noise can add up. Workplace and lifestyle tips: Employers also have a responsibility to implement hearing conservation programmes, but personal awareness remains crucial. Older Adults: Maintaining Hearing Health Hearing changes can naturally occur with age, but lifelong noise exposure can accelerate this process. Untreated hearing loss in older adults is linked to social isolation, reduced quality of life, and even cognitive decline. The good news is that proactive care can help maintain hearing and overall wellbeing. Key considerations: A Lifelong Commitment to Hearing Health Protecting your hearing is not about avoiding sound; it is about managing it wisely. Consistent actions can have a lasting impact. Whether it is lowering the volume, wearing ear protection, or scheduling a hearing check, these steps help preserve one of our most important senses. Hearing connects us to people, to environments, and to experiences. Taking care of it should be part of everyday life. Our audiologists are here to help and have convenient locations across Cape Town. Contact us, we are here to listen.

EduHelp

Helping Your Child to Create Consistency

Consistency is one of the surest roads to success in any sphere of life. Being disciplined enough to show up and do the work required to achieve an aim or complete a project will all but guarantee seeing the results you want. However, where do we learn what consistency means, and how to achieve it? What are the steps to follow? Lack of consistency is one of the things many of our learners struggle with, and if we are being honest, the same holds true for us as adults.  But what is consistency? What does it actually mean? Consistency, in this context, refers to regularity and reliability. Doing the work you have taken responsibility for so that others can count on you. Delivering that which you have been tasked with doing in a timely way, and at the level of quality and completeness that makes it effective. Or showing up for someone in a way they can count on. If you, as a parent, miss picking your child up from school or activities every so often, it means they can’t feel safe in the knowledge that you will be there at the agreed-upon time and place every time. Likewise, if a learner is expected to be in class every day at a certain time but they only show up randomly, their attendance is inconsistent.  The question is how to instil this sense of consistency in our young learners. Simply providing the tools and the encouragement is not enough. Teaching them how to study, but not how to keep showing up every day from the first to the last day of school, is not sufficient. So how do we teach our learners to become consistent and reliable, to show up for themselves and others? One very useful method of practising and instilling consistency is the notion of taking just one small, initial step. Doing one meaningful thing, however small, that takes you in the direction of your goal. For example, let’s say we have a learner who tends to procrastinate doing homework. Often, they experience a degree of task paralysis, where they put off even getting started because the project is too overwhelming, or seems too hard, or just not really fun. One way of bypassing that feeling of paralysis is with the 5-minute rule. It’s such a negligible amount of time that your brain can’t really push back against it too much. Learners can literally set a timer for five minutes, get all their materials together and start the timer when they start working. More often than not, when the timer goes off, they will continue working because they feel that they’ve just started or that it’s not so bad once they get into the flow  .  EduHelp founder, Melissa van Hal, talks about breaking the task down into smaller steps to overcome resistance or overwhelm in her booklet, Proactive Steps (2025). If it still feels like too much, break it down even further. Physically move towards the area where you will do the task. Pick up one tool (like a pen or a notebook) that you will use for the task, and just interact with it. Say to yourself out loud, “I will start by doing …”. These are all small steps that get your brain ready to perform the task before you actually sit down to do it. It primes your brain to start thinking about how to do the task, instead of the difficulty of getting started on it. But how does this relate to consistency? Accomplishing tasks, doing chores, and checking items off a to-do list all trigger the brain’s reward system. When this system is activated, it releases dopamine, the brain’s feel-good hormone. This is the same hormone released through likes on social media, and game designers specifically build lots of small rewards into games to keep people playing for longer and coming back more often. When we break our tasks down into smaller, more manageable steps and execute these, the dopamine released enhances our positive feelings about the task and ourselves, prompting us to take another step.  We can encourage our learners (and ourselves!) to make physical to-do lists with the steps needed, as checking items off that list adds an extra boost of self-confidence and accomplishment. However, it’s important to pay attention to when feelings of overwhelm and the desire to procrastinate come up. This can alert you to what your triggers are and help you to work around them with self-compassion. Taking the time to celebrate the small wins, giving yourself a mental pat on the back or a quiet “good job!” can be the impetus for taking one more step toward your goal. The more you practise this, the better your results will be, and the more likely you are to start your next task that little bit more easily.  Consistency is not only a requirement for success in our professional lives, it also builds trust in our personal lives and shows people that they can rely on us. As such, it is one of the most vital skills to learn, and instilling it at an early age is one of the best lessons we can teach our children.  If your learner is struggling with consistency, feels anxious or overwhelmed by tasks and projects, or just cannot seem to get started, reach out to us on eduhelp.co.za and let’s chat about how we can support you and your learner on their educational journey. Also, check out my related article titled Consistency vs Cramming on our blog page. With a little bit of strategy and encouragement, you can help your learner to become more consistent and boost their self-confidence to boot!

The Collective Genius Centre

Managing Exam Stress & Preparing Smart: A How-To Guide

Exams can feel overwhelming for any learner, but for many, especially neurodivergent learners (such as those with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or anxiety), the pressure can be even more intense.  The good news is that stress doesn’t have to take over. With the right strategies, preparation, and support, you can approach exams with confidence and control. This guide is designed specifically for South African learners, taking into account curriculum demands, and common challenges faced in classrooms. Understanding exam stress Exam stress is your body’s natural response to pressure. A little bit can help you stay alert, but too much can lead to: For neurodivergent learners, these feelings can be stronger or show up differently, for example: Understanding how stress affects you is the first step in managing it. Why early preparation matters Cramming the night before doesn’t work well for most learners, and it’s especially difficult for neurodivergent brains that benefit from structure and repetition. Preparing early helps you: Step 1: Start early (even if it’s just a little) You don’t need to study for hours every day. Start small: Tip: Break work into chunks. Instead of “Study Natural Sciences,” try: This is especially helpful for learners who feel overwhelmed by big tasks. Step 2: Create a flexible study plan A study timetable helps you stay organised, but it must be realistic. Here are some good timetable habits: For neurodivergent learners: Use visual planners or colour-coded schedules Try apps or alarms for reminders Keep routines consistent (same time, same place) Step 3: Study smarter, not harder Not all study methods are equal. Passive reading is one of the least effective. Better techniques include: Neurodivergent-friendly strategies include: Step 4: Adapt study methods to your brain There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach. If you have ADHD: If you are autistic: If you have dyslexia: Step 5: Manage stress in healthy ways You can’t eliminate stress completely, but you can control how you respond. Simple techniques that help include: Avoid: Step 6: Take care of your body Your brain works best when your body is supported. For many learners, especially neurodivergent ones, fatigue can make focus and emotional control much harder. Step 7: Ask for support You don’t have to do this alone. Speak to: In South Africa, many schools also offer concessions or accommodations for learners with diagnosed learning differences, don’t hesitate to ask about these. Step 8: Focus on progress, not perfection Exams are important, but they don’t define your worth or your future. Instead of thinking: ❌ “I must get everything right” Try: ✅ “I will do my best with the preparation I’ve done” Final thoughts Exam stress is real, but it’s manageable. The key is starting early, finding study methods that work for your brain, and taking care of yourself along the way. For neurodivergent learners especially, success doesn’t come from doing things the “normal” way, it comes from doing what works best for you. You are capable. You are not alone. And with the right strategies, you can handle exams with confidence.

Rush Extreme Sports

Redefining play: Creating inclusive spaces for children on the autism spectrum

In a move that reflects a growing shift to combine enjoyment with personal growth, social connection and community impact, Rush, an indoor playpark, has invested in specialised autism training for its teams. ‘We recognise that traditional high-energy environments can be overwhelming for some neurodivergent children,’ explains Richard Poulton, National Brand Manager at Rush. ‘So we partnered with by Autism Western Cape to  equip our staff with the understanding and practical tools needed to better support children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and their families.’ ASD is a neurological condition that affects how individuals communicate, interact socially and experience the world. In South Africa, approximately 1 in 31 children are diagnosed with ASD, highlighting the need for more inclusive public and recreational spaces.  The team behind Rush then took meaningful steps to ensure that play is accessible to all children, including those on the autism spectrum by hosting a free dedicated, neurodivergent-friendly open day, at Rush in Claremont on Wednesday, April 29. Around 200 children – aged between 3 and 16 – together with their parents and caregivers attended. Space for every child to play The open day was designed for families within the ADHD and autism community. By adjusting the environment from sensory stimuli (no music or televisions), including chill tents and ensuring trained staff were present, Rush created a space where children could have fun on their own terms, free from pressure or overstimulation. ‘Play is a fundamental part of childhood development but for many families navigating autism, finding safe and supportive environments is not always easy,’ says Julia Iles from Rush. ‘This initiative is about removing barriers, not just for a day but as part of a longer journey towards more inclusive spaces.’ Why play and movement matters Beyond its social benefits, play, particularly activities like trampolining, can offer meaningful developmental support for children on the autism spectrum. Research shows that trampoline-based activities can: For some children, the rhythmic motion of jumping can also serve as a form of self-regulation, helping them manage stress, anxiety or sensory input. A collaborative approach Autism Western Cape played a central role in facilitating both the training and coordinating the upcoming event. ‘True inclusion starts with understanding and responsiveness,’ says Roshan Subailey of Autism Western Cape. ‘By investing in training and creating spaces like this, Rush is demonstrating what it means to move beyond awareness towards meaningful, everyday inclusion. These initiatives show how organisations can create environments where neurodivergency is embraced and supported.’ From awareness to action While awareness of autism has grown, practical inclusion remains a challenge, particularly in leisure environments designed around noise, movement and stimulation. The training programme addressed this gap head-on and provided staff – from front-of-house teams to court monitors – with foundational understanding of autism, including: ‘The training really shifted our perspective. We feel more confident now in how we approach and support children who may experience our spaces differently,’ says Shameerah Toffey, team leader at Rush. Looking ahead While this open day marks an important milestone, Rush sees this as part of a broader, ongoing commitment. ‘We’ve always believed in the power of play to bring people together.  ‘Beyond the social, mental and physical benefits of play, there is something incredibly rewarding about watching children simply being themselves. For our teams, that joy becomes more meaningful when working with children for whom play does not always come easily. Creating an environment that feels softer, gentler and truly safe, allows them the freedom to relax, engage and enjoy play their own way.  ‘This is not a once-off involvement,’ Poulton adds. ‘It’s about creating inclusivity into how we think about play, design our spaces and engage with every family who walks through our doors feels genuinely special.”

Mia Von Scha

Calming a Child with Sensory Processing Difficulties

Many people are unaware that there is a difference between a tantrum and a meltdown. While both may involve screaming, kicking, shouting, biting and even swearing, there are some fundamental differences. Tantrums involve a child who has been frustrated in their attempt to do or have something, they usually only occur with an audience and they’ll usually abate once the child has what they want. Meltdowns on the other hand are a reaction to feeling overloaded or overwhelmed and there is no end goal or need for an audience. Meltdowns are the most common complaint of parents who have children with sensory processing issues and can result from trips to the supermarket, parties, classrooms or even just a bumpy sock. Most often, these children have trouble transitioning from one activity to another and may meltdown every day when they have to move from playing to school or from bath-time to bedtime. Their brains are continuously receiving jumbled messages from their senses and just getting through the day can be incredibly frustrating and overwhelming. Because they are often not getting enough proprioception, they seek ways to stimulate their muscles and joints (which can be very calming for them) and so may seem to be in perpetual motion. They tend to be both under and over stimulated at the same time! Here are some tips both for avoiding the meltdowns in the first place, and for calming a child who is becoming over stimulated and ready to crack. Firstly, predictability is very important for these children. They need to know what is happening and what will happen next and need lots of warning if there will be changes in their routine and/or if they need to transition to a new activity or environment. Making a picture chart of their daily routine can be helpful with the little ones so that they know what to expect next. Consistency is important too. Being very consistent with rules and consequences and with your own reactions to things. Never ever restrict movement time as a punishment. I’m not a fan of punishment at all, as “bad behaviour” is really just a communication from a child that something is not right, but these children do need predictable and clear boundaries in order to feel safe. It is essential to keep their blood sugar levels stable. Low blood sugar levels can exacerbate the symptoms and meltdowns. High protein, high fat and low carb diets are ideal. Sugar is a no-go area. Having a sensory retreat can be very helpful for recovering from a meltdown. Have a quiet, dark area like a tent with lots of pillows, some soft music, a chew toy and maybe even a weighted blanket. When you’re out and about, make sure you have a bottle with ice cold water and a straw for them to drink from, keep a pack of chewy snacks like biltong, raisins etc, have a stress ball or Prestick or a strip of Velcro for them to play with, get them to carry a heavy backpack, and consider purchasing some soundproof headphones to block out excess noise. At home, useful aids include an indoor or outdoor trampoline, a weighted blanket, a pilates ball, a rocking chair or swing. They need safe ways to jump, kick, run, push, pull and punch. This could involve jungle gyms or pull up bars, or even just pushing a heavy bag around the house or pulling a heavy wagon on a walk (or even pushing the trolley or carrying heavy groceries at the shops). Bath time can be improved by scrubbing them with a rough brush or sponge or giving them a deep massage after the bath, having a massage jet spray in the bath, and buying them an electric toothbrush instead of the ordinary ones. At cooking time, give your sensory child something to do like heavy mixing, rolling of dough, carrying heavy pots or tenderising meat with a mallet. Helping around the house can also be very calming for them – get them to vacuum or move furniture so you can clean or to do the heavy digging in the garden. Playtime on rainy days can be supplemented with indoor obstacle courses or creating an indoor sandpit with beans or popcorn instead of sand and the usual cups, shovels, cars etc. Other calming tips can include using a special video or song to transition between two activities, placing a heating pad on the back of their neck, using lavender or chamomile essential oils dropped behind their ears, drinking chamomile tea, and even sandwiching them between two pillows and squashing them. There is some research now to suggest that kids with sensory processing issues have inflammation in the brain, which can be relieved by supplementing high doses of Omega 3’s and curcumin (the active ingredient in turmeric). A regular probiotic can also help. It is also hugely beneficial if you are calm. Doing some deep breathing when your child is losing it will ensure that you can think clearly and come up with solutions to pull them out of their meltdown instead of joining them in it! Remember that your child is not trying to be naughty or difficult, they are genuinely struggling to keep it together in the world and to feel ok in their own skin. A bit of patience, a lot of creativity, and some forethought can go a long way towards helping these kids to get through a day without a meltdown.

Bill Corbett

Four Classic Reasons a Child Misbehaves

I’ve been working with parents and other caregivers for over 20 years, helping them find solutions to their children’s challenging behaviour s. The adults who come to me want to know what to do about the behaviour  and providing them with easy-to-apply solutions is my ultimate goal.  To get there, I ask the caregivers a series of questions about the behaviour  and all contributing factors that will help lead me to the underlying problem that is causing the child’s challenging behaviour. According to leading psychologists, a child’s behaviour  falls into one of these four primary categories. See if you can connect past or reoccurring incidents of challenging behaviour  from your child, to either of these. Communications When a child is tired, grouchy, and whiny, he or she is not likely to walk up to the parent and say, “Gee dad, I’m feeling a little tired right now.  Do you mind if I lie down and take a nap?” They are however, very likely to not cooperative, throw a fit, or refuse to get into the car seat. In this case, their behaviour  is communication about the fact that they have had enough stimulation and need sleep. Expression of Needs On occasion I would take my 3 year old granddaughter to the mall with me and like her mother many years before; I would sometimes end up chasing her through the crowd. In a quick moment if I let go of her hand, with a mischievous smile she would run from me yelling, “Catch me grandpa!”  Her giggling told me that she wanted to play with me and her way of expressing that need was to run away and get me to chase after her.  This required me to firm up the boundaries on the next trip and to find more appropriate ways to satisfy her need to play. Experimentation A woman contacted me for help with her five year old.  The little girl began walking around on her hands and knees, barking like a dog.  She was probably experimenting with the act of pretending to be a dog, to see what it felt like, and to see what the reaction of her adult caregivers would be.  The woman initially became very annoyed with the constant barking.  Her scolding created a new motivation in her daughter to do it more because it became unexpectedly fun for the little girl to drive mommy crazy! Unconscious Drives Famed psychodynamic psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that processes are constantly working in the unreachable subconscious region of the mind.  These processes are thoughts that can trigger emotions and behaviour s in an adult or a child.  If a child is living in a situation where adult chaos is present, the chaos can become worry, fear, or anxiety for a child which can then generate challenging behaviour s for the caregivers.  The adult chaos may be in the form of parents fighting, a single mother feeling and acting stressed, parents and grandparents in conflict, or even a teacher who has not been taking care of herself.  Children look to their caregivers for a sense that things are OK and when they don’t appear OK, the child is likely to reflect that unstable sense through their own behaviour .

Mia Von Scha

Why do children lie?

The question of why children lie begs the greater question of why any of us lie. If you think back to the last time you lied (and I’ll bet my life you can think of a time), look at what was going on internally and this will give you a good idea of why your children do it and how to avoid it in future. Now before we get to that, let me just say that we all have all traits. We are all liars sometimes and every one of us will be pushed to lie under certain circumstances. So firstly, please never label your child as a liar. Once we apply a label to a child they are more likely (not less) to repeat this behaviour and to incorporate it into their sense of self as they grow up. ALL children lie sometimes (as do ALL adults). Ok, so it’s normal to lie sometimes, but why, and why do some lie more often? Going back to why we all do, lying is a fear-based behaviour. The child believes, for whatever reason, that if they tell the truth it will result in more pain than pleasure. And where do they get this message? From us, of course. We’re constantly giving kids unconscious messages that telling the truth will get you in trouble. “Who ate the sweets?” “I did” “Right, go to your room”. Sound familiar? What we need to get into the habit of doing is praising truth-telling and taking responsibility more than we punish “bad” behaviour. If our children own up and say that they “did it” we should be actively praising this behaviour and pointing out that while the behaviour is not ok with us, we’re really impressed that they told the truth. Children will only lie if they are afraid of our reaction to the truth. I know that many people worry that if they take this approach they will be too soft on the bad behaviour and will end up with unruly kids. One of the fundamental structures for well-behaved, compliant children is being their primary attachment (which implies complete trust, openness and closeness). If your children trust you completely and feel connected to you and loved no matter what they do they will actually be less likely to produce so called “bad” behaviours in the long run. Of course they will make mistakes along the way and present “negative” traits (like we all do) including lying, but this will not develop into any kind of delinquency if that adult-child connection is in place. And part of keeping it in place is keeping the lines of communication open and allowing your children to tell the truth and know they will be safe. I think this is a fundamental skill to work on when your children are little and to instil a sense of open communication and acceptance BEFORE they become teenagers. Once our kids hit the teen years, if we’ve shut off honest communication, we are in for a different level of trouble with our children lying to us about things that can be life threatening, or where they really could use our adult help and guidance. The next time your child lies to you think about why they would be afraid to tell the truth and then instead of punishing them for lying, rather address the rift in your relationship.

Dalza

What the Latest Research Actually Says About Screens and Your Child’s Brain

Parents everywhere are trying to navigate screens with as much intention as possible,  and often with a fair amount of guilt. A wave of new research has added fuel to the conversation, including a large 2025 study tracking over 10,000 children with brain scans, which found that higher screen time in middle childhood was associated with subtle changes in the brain regions involved in attention and self-regulation. 1 The effects were real but small, and the researchers are clear that they’ve found an association, not proof of cause and effect. So, what does the fuller picture actually tell us? It’s Not Just One Study A longitudinal study from A*STAR in Singapore found that high screen use before age two was linked to premature brain-network specialisation, slower decision-making at eight, and higher anxiety at thirteen, but screen time at ages three and four didn’t show the same effects, suggesting infancy is a uniquely sensitive window.2 A Karolinska Institute study tracking over 8,000 children found that social media use specifically was associated with growing inattention over four years, while TV and video games were not.3 And a meta-analysis of over 81,000 children found that those with more than two hours of daily screen time were significantly more likely to show attention-related difficulties.4 Content Matters More Than the Clock A 2025 study of over 41,000 children in Shenzhen found that the type of content matters far more than the clock. Passive screen use (cartoons, educational videos, autoplay) was linked to increasing attention difficulties the more children watched. But interactive content that required children to respond, make choices and think showed no such link, even at higher levels of use.5 This is the most empowering finding in the research: a child building in Minecraft is doing something fundamentally different from a child watching autoplay. The question isn’t just how long, but what is the screen asking my child’s brain to do? What Should Parents Do? The research doesn’t support panic. Effect sizes are small at the individual level. But it does support thoughtfulness: Prioritise interactive over passive. Apps and games that require thinking carry less risk than scrolling and autoplay.5 Take social media seriously. Of all screen types, social media is the one most consistently linked to growing concentration difficulties over time, and that finding held up regardless of a child’s background or starting point.3 Protect off-screen experiences. Executive function is built when children wait their turn, tolerate boredom and navigate friendships. Screens become a problem when they replace these moments. Read together. The Singapore team found that parent-child reading at age three significantly buffered the brain-network effects of earlier screen exposure.6 It’s never too late to add connection. Hold boundaries kindly. Children’s developing brains aren’t equipped to self-regulate screen use. A boundary isn’t a punishment — it’s space for the slow work of growing up. Dalza is a care coordination platform for children with learning differences, helping families connect the dots between school, therapy and home. Learn more at dalza.com. References 1. Shou, Q., Yamashita, M., & Mizuno, Y. (2025). Translational Psychiatry, 15, 447. 2. Huang Pei et al. (2025). Neurobehavioural Links from Infant Screen Time to Anxiety. A*STAR, Singapore. 3. Nivins, S. et al. (2025). Pediatrics Open Science, 2(1), 1–10. 4. Liu, H. et al. (2023). Reviews on Environmental Health, 39(4), 643–650. 5. Wu, J-B. et al. (2025). PLoS ONE, 20(4), e0312654. 6. Screen time, brain network development and socio-emotional competence. Psychological Medicine (2024).

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Panado® Proudly Launches Berry Nice 5 ml Sachets to Make Life Easier For Parents On-the-Go

Panado® is the trusted1 name parents reach for when they need the power to fight their little one’s pain and fever.  But as any parent knows, pain and fever never arrive at a convenient time.  A fever can spike halfway through a long car trip or teething pain can creep in during a weekend away. A sore ear can appear mid-grocery shop or on the taxi ride home.  And a sore throat? It always seems to show up just before bedtime at Gogo’s house. That’s where Panado®’s newest offering – Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2 – fit neatly into real life with children. Ready to work immediately,3 gentle on stomachs4 and made for those unexpected moments when parents need pain and fever relief.  Your perfect backup for life’s little surprises Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2 offer on-the-go pocket power for parents and are compact, easy to store, and ideal for travel. Whether tucked into your pocket, a handbag, nappy bag, backpack or car console, they’re a practical solution when families are out and about. Easily accessible, they offer a solution for unexpected pain or fever emergencies. Small enough to carry, pain & fever relief when you need it most Suitable for babies and children from three months and older2, each sachet contains a single 5 ml dose of Panado® Strawberry Syrup2, powered by paracetamol, which has over 150 years of clinical experience5. There’s no bulky bottle to pack and no messy spills to deal with. Parents simply tear open the sachet, administer the right dosage using a medicine measure or syringe, and toss what’s left once the correct dose has been given. No mess. No stress. Just pain and fever relief.  Dosage is calculated according to a child’s age and weight, and parents can check the Panado® dosage calculator at panado.co.za/dosage-calculator, or scan the QR code. This extra step helps ensure the right dose every time.  Big relief in one tiny sachet The Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2 contain the same trusted2 formulation, strength and berry nice flavour parents are familiar with, ready to work immediately3 when pain or fever strikes. Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets1 complement the existing Panado® paediatric range, which includes Panado® Strawberry Syrup2, Panado® Peppermint6 with improved taste7 and Panado® Infant Drops8, recognised as a Product of the Year 2025 winner, voted for by 2,000 South African consumers in a Kantar survey and awarded in the Child – Health category.9 Parents trust1 Panado® to bring comfort when it matters most, helping your little one settle, feel better and get back to being their happy, playful self, wherever the day takes you. Panado® products are available from Baby City, Pick n Pay, Checkers including Hypers, Shoprite, Clicks, Dis-Chem and independent pharmacies. For more information, visit: https://panado.co.za/ and join the conversations on Facebook.  For references and legal disclaimers, visit https://panado.co.za/references. Approval ticket #02.20261000004801. February 2026.

Bill Corbett

Help! My Kids Won’t Stop Fighting!

Parents generally see their children as wonderful gifts from the heavens but children don’t always see each other in that same light.  They first see their primary caregivers, and the love and attention they get from them, as a limited commodity.  They then see their siblings as competition for that love and attention and sometimes feel they have to fight for it. When a new child enters the family, the oldest or older children sometimes feel as if they have been dethroned and now have to share their parents with this new child.  This can bring about feelings of animosity and jealousy between children.   To deal with this problem effectively, parents can find ways that will allow the older child to become a teacher or leader to the younger child(ren).  You can also give the older child special privileges and give them special time with you, such as one-on-one dates to help them feel like they haven’t lost their place in the family. Fighting and other forms of sibling rivalry also occur as a result of these feelings.  Avoid racing into every little argument or disagreement.  If you do, it will teach your children to create problems just to get you involved.  It will also train them that they are NOT accountable for stopping fights and working things out, it teaches them instead that YOU are responsible for doing that.  Because you ARE responsible for keeping everyone safe, sometimes the only solution is to just separate them.  This is especially true for when toddlers and preschoolers hit one another or begin to fight.  It just means they’ve had enough of that other person for a while and they want them out of their space. Avoid using punishments like time out and avoid taking sides.  When a conflict breaks out, just separate both of them.  It doesn’t matter who started it or who did what, just separate them in different spaces to be apart.  And during this moment of behavior management, remain calm and talk very little.  You can easily transfer your own negative feelings into the relationship between the children.  Sometimes the conflict between the children is actually an imitation of what’s going on with the adults.

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Body20 Cares Returns in 2026: Powering Hope for Children with Cancer

Sometimes, the greatest strength is found in unity. After raising over R150,000 in its inaugural year, Body20 is proud to relaunch its Body20 Cares initiative for 2026 — a campaign driven by compassion, community, and the belief that true wellness extends far beyond the studio floor. Body20 remains committed to ongoing support throughout 2026 and beyond, ensuring sustained impact for children with cancer and their families. From April to May 2026, 50% of all new members’ joining fees at Body20 studios nationwide will be donated to CHOC Childhood Cancer Foundation South Africa. These funds don’t just support a cause—they wrap children and their families in hope at the very moment they need it most. Supporting CHOC means directly helping children facing cancer and their families find comfort and strength. “This initiative isn’t just an activity for us — it’s a lifeline,” says Philip Hughes, chief executive officer of Body20 Global. “Last year, we witnessed firsthand how small actions, multiplied by many, can create a wave of hope. As Body20 Cares returns, our mission is simple: uplift families, offer practical support, and remind every parent and child battling cancer that they are never alone.” Cancer today touches almost every family, casting long shadows of fear and uncertainty. In South Africa, around 1,000 children are diagnosed with cancer each year—though many more go undiagnosed, and each statistic represents a child, a parent, a story. Despite advances in treatment, a diagnosis brings a tidal wave of emotional, logistical, and financial challenges. Organisations like CHOC are lifelines, offering more than just accommodation—they provide comfort, dignity, and a sense of home when families need it most. “Partnerships like Body20 Cares help us deliver vital support to children and their families,” says Adri Ludick, interim CEO for CHOC. “Every contribution means a family can stay together, a child can rest in comfort, and no one must face this journey alone. Last year, funds from Body20 Cares kept our CHOC Houses open—safe havens like Diepkloof, which offered warmth, food, and daily support to up to 30 people at a time. When hospitals close their doors at night, CHOC keeps hope alive for families in crisis.” Body20 Cares is about more than fundraising—it’s about human connection and shared purpose. Every new member isn’t just prioritising their own wellness; they’re giving a child and parent one less worry, one more day together, and a little more hope. Your participation can help us build a community united by compassion and action. “This is where fitness meets purpose,” Hughes adds. “Every sign-up is more than a membership; it’s a lifeline for a child fighting cancer, and a message to families that they are seen, valued, and supported by a whole community.” As Body20 Cares enters its second year, we invite every South African to stand with us. Join as a member, donate, or spread the word—every action, big or small, has the power to change a life. Your support makes you an essential part of this movement, helping us turn compassion into tangible hope. In a world where time is scarce and health is priceless, Body20 brings together your two most valuable resources. With cutting-edge EMS technology, Body20 helps people transform their wellbeing in just 20 minutes a week. It’s a promise: you can prioritise your health, support your community, and still have time for what—and who—matters most. Powerful transformations don’t just happen in our bodies—they ripple out, touching families, communities, and futures. When we move with purpose, we move the world a little closer to hope. To join Body20 Cares, become a new member at any Body20 studio or donate directly. For information or to get involved, visit https://body20.co.za/body20-cares or contact [email protected] | 087 231 0359. #Body20 #CHOC #Body20Cares #Cancer #ChildrenWithCancer #Children

Dalza

Things We Don’t Always Say Out Loud

There’s a version of parenting a neurodivergent child that the world sees: the appointments, the assessments, the school meetings, the research done at odd hours. The way you’ve fought, politely, persistently, and sometimes desperately, to get your child seen and supported. And then there’s the version that is a little quieter. The thoughts and feelings that don’t always make it into conversation, not because they aren’t real, but because there hasn’t always been a space that felt safe enough to hold them. We don’t always say “this is a lot.” Not in a way that asks for pity – just honestly. Parenting any child is full-hearted work. Parenting a neurodivergent child often asks something extra on top of that: navigating waiting lists, decoding reports, understanding your rights under the SIAS policy, and advocating in spaces that weren’t always built with your child in mind. Research confirms what many parents already feel: raising a neurodivergent child comes with significantly higher levels of stress than most people (including well-meaning friends and family) tend to appreciate. Knowing that doesn’t make it easier, but it does mean you’re not imagining it. It really is a lot. We don’t always say “the judgement is exhausting.” Perhaps someone in your family has suggested your child just needs firmer boundaries. Perhaps a stranger in a shopping centre has given you a look. Perhaps you’ve heard, directly or indirectly,  that this is somehow a reflection of your parenting. It isn’t. But carrying that, on top of everything else, takes a toll that rarely gets acknowledged. Many parents, particularly in communities where neurodivergence is still widely misunderstood, describe being blamed long before they receive any support. You deserved support from the beginning. You’re still standing, still advocating, still showing up, and that matters. We don’t always say “some days just feel like grief, and that’s okay.” Nobody talks about how you can be completely, unconditionally devoted to your child and still have days that feel like grief. Not grief for who they are, but for how hard the world makes it for them sometimes. For the energy it takes just to be understood. Researchers call this chronic sorrow: a quiet, recurring heaviness that visits in the gaps, not because of your child, but because of everything around them. It can exist right alongside deep joy, fierce pride, and a love that has genuinely changed who you are. These aren’t contradictions. They’re just the full picture and you’re allowed to hold all of it, without explanation. We don’t always say “I’m not sure I am getting it right.” Most parents of neurodivergent children become extraordinary advocates. They learn the systems, challenge the assumptions, build strategies from scratch. From the outside, it can look remarkably put-together. On the inside, there’s often a quieter voice asking: “am I doing enough?” and “Did I handle that well today?” That voice is not evidence of failure. It’s evidence of how deeply you care. The parents who ask those questions are almost always the ones showing up in exactly the ways that matter. We don’t always say “I need support too.” So much energy goes into finding the right support for your child — the right school, the right therapist, the right approach — that turning the same care toward yourself can feel almost indulgent. Like it’s not your turn yet. But your wellbeing is part of this. Not as an afterthought, but as something that genuinely matters, for you and for the family you’re holding together with so much love and effort. Saying “I need support too” is not a small thing. It might actually be one of the bravest. If you’ve recognised yourself somewhere in these words, that recognition is the whole point. There are more of us in this than you might realise, navigating the same uncharted territory, feeling the same mix of love and uncertainty, doing our best with enormous heart. We’re all in this together. And you are doing better than you think. Written by Dalza Dalza is a platform built by a parent who understands the realities of this journey. If you’d like to learn more, visit Dalza.com References: – Hayes, S. A., & Watson, S. L. (2013). The impact of parenting stress: A meta-analysis of studies comparing the experience of parenting stress in parents of children with and without autism spectrum disorder. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 43 (3), 629–642. – Olsson, M. B., & Hwang, C. P. (2001). Depression in mothers and fathers of children with intellectual disability. Journal of Intellectual Disability Research, 45 (6), 535–543.

Bill Corbett

Dealing with Your Child’s Power Struggles

Power struggles develop every day at work, at the store, and even jockeying for that spot in the parking lot.  Just look around you the next time you’re out driving; someone cuts you off, blocks you from entering a lane, or rides your bumper.  Initiating a power struggle is a way of expressing the frustration of being overpowered by others, the feeling of having little or no power, or being ignored and forced into feeling insignificant.  It makes us want to push back for our own power.  The same goes for children.  When they feel overpowered or insignificant, and want something from us (or know we want them to cooperate), they then initiate a power struggle. What to Do When They Want Something from You. Here’s a technique for situations when a child asks for something repeatedly until you cave in.  It might be a cookie right before mealtime, a toy while in the store, something they want to play with, or a place they want to go.  When your child first asks for the item you don’t want him to have, be firm and loving by stating, “I’m not willing for you to have that right now.”  Avoid saying “No” because it might encourage him to try harder to make you say “Yes.”  Using the term “willing” sets up a personal boundary and avoids defiance.  Children who throw fits to get what they want have been taught to do this by adults around them who have given in to their demands.  If he drops to the floor and goes into a meltdown, let it happen.  It indicates that you are winning and he is simply using another technique to get you to crack.  If you can learn to do this on a regular basis, you will actually teach your child that you mean what you say.  He may throw more fits in the beginning as a way of expressing, “I don’t like this new thing you’re doing,” but he will eventually learn to respect you for your boundaries.  The most valuable lesson he will learn from your actions is creating respectful boundaries with others. What to Do When You Need Their Cooperation. Solutions to handling a power struggle when you want something from them are very different.  I suggest replacing commands or orders with clear and appropriate choices.  For example, instead of saying, “It’s time to take your bath,” give him a choice by saying, “Would you like mommy to give you your bath or grandma?”  I remember picking up my granddaughter from the day care center one day and I could sense that she was overtired.  I knew she would not respond cooperatively to my request to get into her car seat so I offered a choice.  I said to her in a cheerful voice, “Would you like grandpa to put you in your seat or would you like to do it yourself?”  Immediately she declared with a whine that she would do it herself and strapped herself in.  Giving your child choices makes her feel powerful and creates less need to struggle with you.

Bill Corbett

What If My Child Won’t Take No for an Answer?

If you’ve said no firmly and you’re child is wearing you down, avoid doing what many parent do when they are tired and overworked; giving in just to stop the pleading and begging. Doing so might stop the noise that’s adding to your stress, but it will also teach your child to repeat this behaviour anytime they receive a NO from you (and others) in the future. BE FIRM, STAY CALM, AND REMAIN QUIET So let me get right to the punch on this question. If your child is asking for something you can’t or won’t give to them and they won’t stop drilling you for it, calmly tell them that you’re not willing to discuss this issue any further and remain completely quiet if they try to engage you further. Be ready and willing to talk to them about any other subject, just not this one. WHAT IF YOUR CHILD HITS YOU IN RESPONSE? If this occurs, the answer is to tell them firmly, “No one is allowed to hit me,” and remove yourself from your child’s access immediately. This means you must go to another place in the house to be away from your child in the moment. If this isn’t easy to do, do your best to remove yourself from your child. Do not hit your child back and avoid yelling or punishing them. Doing so will only reward your child by reacting. WHAT IF THE CHILD CAUSES PROPERTY DAMAGE? Some parents have reported that when they left the area to be away from their child, the child became so angry that they caused some damage to something in the house. While there is a risk that this could occur, it is better to have property damage then physical damage to you or your child. If their behaviour becomes this extreme in response to a no, you should consider seeking help immediately from your child’s paediatrician or a family therapist. OTHER IDEAS TO CONSIDER When your child asks for something and you know that your NO may cause a meltdown, guide your child to a calendar and set a date and time in which the two of you will sit down and discuss the request. They may not be happy with this response, but it will tell them that the door isn’t completely closed on their request. This is also a great technique if what they are asking for is big and you need more time to think about it or research their request, such as piercings, dating, cell phones, etc. Finally, try replacing the word NO with one of these two phrases: “I’m not willing ____________,” or “I’m not ready for you to ___________________.” They put the ownership on you and not on your child. It is also less likely that your child will feel less driven to change your NO into a YES by arguing. When you demonstrate power over your own “will,” or state that you’re NOT READY for them to do something, you don’t have to have a reason for it, or even a date as to when you’ll be ready. Simply tell them they can ask again to see if things have changed.

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DermaFix Cosmeceutical Skin Care Expands Inclusive Sun Protection with Launch of Tinted SPF Dark

In a country where year-round sun exposure is a reality, daily SPF is non-negotiable. Yet for many South Africans with tanned to deeper skin tones, finding a sunscreen that protects without leaving a grey or ashy cast has long been a frustration.  DermaFix Cosmeceutical Skin Care is addressing that gap with the launch of DermaFix Tinted SPF Dark 50ml, a deeper, expertly balanced shade developed specifically for Fitzpatrick IV–VI skin tones. “While melanin-rich skin has natural advantages, it remains vulnerable to UV damage, premature ageing and hyperpigmentation,” explains Ursula Volbrecht, spokesperson for DermaFix. “Tinted SPF Dark delivers broad-spectrum SPF40 protection against UVA, UVB and HEV which is blue light exposure, while blending seamlessly into the skin for a natural, even-toned finish.” More than just sun protection, Tinted SPF Dark reflects the growing demand for multi-functional skincare. The formula works as a sunscreen, light foundation and complexion enhancer in one; ideal for everyday wear, post-procedure protection, or effortless “no-makeup” makeup days.  Importantly, the formulation remains gentle enough for sensitive and pigmentation-prone skin, helping defend against post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation (PIH), which is a common concern among South African consumers.  As a dermatologically approved and clinically effective brand, DermaFix continues to advance targeted skincare solutions across anti-ageing, hyperpigmentation, acne and scarring categories. The introduction of Tinted SPF Dark is a welcome addition for darker skin tones in the medical-grade sun care category, and signals a commitment to innovation.  DermaFix Tinted SPF Dark (50ml) retails at R437 and is available nationwide through dermatologists, doctors, skincare professionals and medi-spas, as well as online at www.dermafix.co.za.

DIBBER SA

Calm Is a Superpower in the Early Years

Walk into a calm room, and something in the body settles: shoulders drop, breathing slows, and thoughts find space. Dibber International Preschools says a calm environment is not a nice-to-have, but one of the most powerful developmental tools in the early years. “The world is stimulating enough,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “A child needs a place to land – somewhere that feels safe and steady. When children feel calm, they become more available for learning, connection, and confidence.” Dibber notes well-designed environments do more than keep children safe. They shape children’s feelings, their willingness to explore, their ability to recover, and the depth of their learning. Calm is foundational, not an afterthought. Dibber explains that young children are not miniature adults. Their developing nervous systems make them sensitive to sensory and emotional tones. Noise, clutter, unpredictability, and tension can tax their brains. When children feel overwhelmed, the brain enters alert mode. The child spends energy on self-protection rather than on curiosity or connection. Deep learning becomes difficult because the brain manages the environment instead of exploring it. “At Dibber, calm is not about control or silence,” says Assis. “It’s about creating an emotional and physical space where children can breathe, belong, and build capability at their own pace.” Dibber emphasises calm does not mean sterile or joyless. Nurturing spaces include gentle movement, soft conversation, and laughter. Each element is intentional. At Dibber South Africa, classrooms are designed with purpose, not just decorated. Each choice answers one question: Does this help each child feel at home and at ease? Dibber says calm environments create ripple effects across every area of development: 1) Emotional security and regulationChildren who feel safe begin to internalise calm. Over time, they learn to self-regulate, manage big feelings, recover from disappointment, and settle quickly. Dibber calls this one of the most transferable life skills. 2) Deeper focus and concentrationA child who is not managing environmental stress is freer to focus on what is in front of them. Even short periods of sustained attention in early years build the foundation for future learning, reading, problem-solving, and creativity. A calm environment lets children try challenges, make a mess, and feel comfortable when they don’t yet know the answer, allowing confidence to take root. 4) Stronger relationships with educators and peersWhen children feel settled, they can connect more easily. Friendships form naturally, trust in educators grows, and children open to guidance and support. Simple measures, such as a consistent bedtime routine, quiet spaces for play, lowering adult voices during transitions, and reducing background noise when focusing, support a child’s nervous system and emotional well-being. Dibber’s approach, rooted in Nordic pedagogy, recognises how a child feels shapes how they learn. Educators maintain calm, supportive spaces that help each child thrive.

Dalza

73% Better Outcomes. Not From More Therapy. From Connection

Why the people already in your child’s life might just need a way to work together You find the right OT. You get a great teacher. The speech therapist has a plan. On paper, everything’s in place. But in practice? The OT doesn’t know what the teacher is doing. The teacher hasn’t seen the speech therapist’s report. And you’re the only person connecting the dots, relaying messages, re-explaining, holding the whole picture in your head because nobody else is. It’s exhausting. And the research says it’s also the thing most likely to be limiting your child’s progress. 73% Better Outcomes. Not From More Therapy. From Connection. A major meta-analysis in JAMA Pediatrics found that when a child’s support team actively coordinates (sharing strategies, aligning goals, tracking progress together) the chance of meaningful improvement rises to 73%. Not from new interventions. Just from making sure the people already involved are actually working together. This matters especially for children with learning differences. A skill practised in the therapy room doesn’t automatically transfer to the classroom. If the teacher doesn’t know the strategy exists, or is using different cues, even excellent therapy can stall. That’s not your child failing. That’s a gap in the system around them. And it cuts both ways. Teachers often want to involve parents more closely, but the mechanisms just aren’t there. Contact ends up being a rushed chat at pickup or a termly report. The willingness exists on both sides. What’s missing is a simple way to make it happen. What You Can Do Ask your child’s team one question: do you have a way to share information with each other, not just at annual reviews, but week to week? Can the OT’s recommendations actually reach the classroom? Does the teacher know what the therapist is working toward? If the answer is no, that’s the gap to close. You need the people already in your child’s life to be connected. If you’re tired of being the go-between, Dalza gives your child’s whole support team (teachers, therapists, and you) one shared space to stay aligned. No more re-explaining. No more lost reports. Teachers and therapists join for free. We spend so much energy finding the right people for our children. The next step is making sure those people can actually talk to each other. That’s where the real gains are. Asarnow, J. R., Rozenman, M., Wiblin, J., & Zeltzer, L. (2015). Integrated medical-behavioral care compared with usual primary care for child and adolescent behavioral health. JAMA Pediatrics, 169(10), 929–937.

DIBBER SA

5 Things Children Learn Outdoors That Classrooms Can’t Teach

Some of childhood’s most powerful lessons begin outdoors, where curiosity leads, and growth flourishes beyond any classroom’s four walls. While classrooms offer structure, routine, and guidance, outdoor environments offer something different. They offer real-world experiences that spark curiosity and build confident problem-solvers. Dibber International Preschools says that the advantages of learning outdoors go far beyond fresh air and playtime. They support cognitive, emotional, social, and physical development in ways that are difficult to replicate indoors. “Outdoor learning gives children permission to explore the world as it is – unpredictable, fascinating, and full of opportunity,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When children climb, dig, observe, build, and imagine outdoors, they develop confidence, independence, and the kind of real-life problem-solving skills that stay with them.” Outdoor spaces invite children to notice what’s around them and follow their natural interests. A short walk through a garden or park can become a moment of discovery; for example, insects moving beneath a leaf, stones of different shapes and textures, changing clouds, or a trail of ants carrying food. These observations often lead to questions that come from genuine wonder: why leaves fall, how birds build nests, or where rainwater goes. Unlike structured indoor activities, outdoor learning gives children control to learn through direct experience—developing observation, attention, and deeper curiosity about the world in ways that structured classrooms alone cannot achieve. A key advantage of outdoor learning is that children face challenges and must respond creatively. Balancing, building, or crossing a puddle requires quick thinking and adaptation. These moments develop perseverance and flexibility—skills that support learning and coping after preschool. “When the environment is real, the learning becomes real,” adds Assis. “Children learn to try, to adapt, and to keep going — and those are powerful foundations for life.” Outdoor learning encourages children to take small, age-appropriate risks in a supported environment. Climbing a low hill, navigating playground equipment, or exploring a new path can feel like a major accomplishment to a young child. Every success helps children trust their own abilities. Over time, these experiences build independence and self-belief. Children begin to feel capable, not because they have been told they are, but because they have experienced it for themselves. Being outdoors creates calming, sensory-rich experiences that support emotional regulation and well-being. Listening to birds, feeling the wind, or standing in the shade grounds children in wonder. These experiences help children develop empathy for nature and living things, while forming early values around caring for and being responsible for the environment. Children who spend time outdoors often carry a stronger appreciation for the natural world into later childhood. Outdoor environments naturally encourage cooperation and communication. Whether children are building something together, inventing a group game, or investigating a shared space such as a park or playground at your local restaurant. They practise key social skills: taking turns, listening, negotiating, supporting each other, and solving small conflicts. Outdoor play often encourages teamwork without forcing it. Children learn to join in, lead, follow, and connect, building social confidence through lived experience. At Dibber, outdoor play and exploration form part of the daily rhythm. Carefully designed outdoor spaces support movement, discovery, and imagination while ensuring children feel safe, supported, and free to learn through any and all experiences. “The outdoors invites children to be active learners,” says Assis. “These are the moments where children discover what they can do — and who they are becoming.”

Dalza

Autism Awareness Month: What Acceptance Actually Looks Like at Home

Every April, the world turns its attention to autism. The blue lights come on. The social media posts go up. Schools run assemblies. Companies share infographics. And somewhere in the middle of it all, you’re still trying to get your child’s shoes on before the school run. Autism Awareness Month matters. But for the parents living it every day, awareness was never really the problem. You’re aware. You’ve been aware since the first sleepless Google search, the first assessment, the first time someone said “have you considered…”. What you actually need is acceptance. And not the hashtag kind. The kind that shows up in the small, unglamorous moments of daily life. Awareness vs. Acceptance: What’s the Difference? Awareness says: “I know autism exists.” Acceptance says: “I’m going to make space for what that actually means – for your child, in your home, in your school, in your life.” Awareness is a poster on a wall. Acceptance is the teacher who reads your child’s profile before the first day of term and adjusts without being asked. It’s the family member who stops saying “but they look so normal” and starts asking “how can I help?” It’s the therapist who listens to what’s working at home, not just what’s in the textbook. Acceptance lives in the detail. And it starts at home. What Acceptance Looks Like in Your House Here’s the thing nobody tells you: acceptance isn’t a moment. It’s not a switch you flip after diagnosis. It’s something you build, bit by bit, on the hard days and the good ones. It’s letting go of the timeline. Your child’s milestones won’t always match the chart on the paediatrician’s wall. That’s not failure, that’s their story unfolding at their pace. The comparison trap is real, and stepping out of it is one of the most powerful things you can do. It’s trusting your instincts. You know your child better than any report can capture. When something feels off, or when something is working, that knowledge matters. Don’t let it get drowned out by professional opinions that only see a slice of who your child is. It’s being honest about the hard stuff. Acceptance doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine. Some days are brutal. Meltdowns are exhausting. Admin is relentless. Saying “this is hard” isn’t the opposite of acceptance, it’s part of it. It’s celebrating what others might miss. The first time they made eye contact with the waiter. The sentence that came out of nowhere after months of silence. The fact that they tried the new food, even if they spat it out. These moments are enormous, and you don’t need anyone’s permission to treat them that way. What Acceptance Looks Like Beyond Your Front Door Home is one thing. But your child doesn’t exist in a bubble — they move through schools, therapy rooms, family gatherings, and a care system that doesn’t always join the dots. Real acceptance means the people around your child see the full picture, not just a diagnosis or a set of challenges. It means their teacher knows what lights them up, not just what triggers a meltdown. It means the occupational therapist knows what happened at school last week before the session starts. It means you’re not the only person carrying all of that context in your head. That’s exhausting work. And too often, it falls entirely on you. The Invisible Load of “Awareness” Here’s what Autism Awareness Month rarely talks about: the sheer weight of being the person who holds everything together. You’re the translator between the school and the speech therapist. The administrator who files every report, chases every referral, remembers every medication change. The advocate who has explained your child’s needs so many times you could do it in your sleep, and sometimes you practically do, at 11pm, drafting yet another email. That load is invisible. And in a month dedicated to awareness, it deserves to be seen. Small Shifts That Make a Real Difference You don’t need to overhaul your life this April. But here are a few things worth considering: Share the context, not just the crisis. The people supporting your child do better work when they can see beyond the appointment or the classroom. A short note about what’s changed at home — sleep patterns, a new anxiety, a breakthrough — can shift the quality of support your child receives. Let people in. Not everyone, and not all at once. But the right people — the teacher who cares, the therapist who gets it, the family member who’s willing to learn. Give them the information they need to show up properly. Stop carrying it alone. This one is easier said than done. But if there’s one thing this month could mean for you, let it be this: you were never supposed to be the only one holding the full picture of your child’s world. Your Child’s Story Deserves More Than a Month Autism Awareness Month will end. The blue lights will switch off. The social media posts will slow down. But your child’s story keeps going. It unfolds every single day — at home, at school, in therapy, in the car, at bedtime, in all the places that don’t fit neatly into an awareness campaign. That story deserves to be seen, understood, and supported all year round. Not just by you, but by everyone who plays a part in your child’s life. Dalza gives peace of mind to parents of children who learn, think, move, or communicate a little differently. One shared space where your child’s care team can see the full picture — so you’re not the only one holding it all together. Find out more at dalza.com

Sugar Bay Holiday Camp

Are Holiday Camps Safe? What Parents Should Know Before Sending Their Child to Camp

For many South African parents, the idea of sending a child to a holiday camp can feel unfamiliar. Most parents remember school camps from their own childhood. Tents, basic accommodation, muddy fields and short trips organised by teachers. Modern holiday camps are very different. Instead of basic school trips, they are purpose-built environments designed to give children a safe, structured and exciting holiday experience filled with activities, friendships and adventure. Many parents quietly wonder the same thing:Will my child be okay without me? Will they feel safe? Will they make friends? These are completely natural questions. Any parent considering a camp experience wants to know their child will be well cared for before making that decision. The most common question is also the most important one: Are holiday camps actually safe for children? Understanding how modern holiday camps operate Well-run kids holiday camps operate very differently from what many parents imagine. Children follow structured daily schedules that include organised activities, meals and supervised downtime. Campers move between activities in small groups guided by trained staff members. Instead of children being left to entertain themselves, the day is carefully planned so that campers are always part of a supervised activity or group environment. This structure helps ensure that children remain safe, engaged and supported throughout their stay. For many parents, learning how camps actually operate helps them realise that a reputable camp environment is often far more organised and supervised than they initially expected. Why camp experiences can be valuable for children Beyond safety and supervision, holiday camps offer children something many parents feel is increasingly rare today: the chance to explore independence. Children have the opportunity to try new activities, meet people they’ve never met before and navigate situations on their own while still being supported by responsible adults. They might try a new sport, participate in a team challenge, discover a creative interest or simply enjoy the freedom of being active outdoors with other children. These experiences help children develop confidence, social skills and resilience. Many parents find that children return home from camp more independent and more confident than when they left. For many families, it becomes one of the most memorable parts of childhood. What parents should look for in a safe holiday camp Before choosing a school holiday camp in South Africa, parents should always look for clear information about how the camp operates. Some important questions to ask include: Reputable camps are transparent about these systems because safety and trust are essential for families. Sugar Bay, a Trusted Holiday Camp in South Africa Located at Zinkwazi Beach on the KwaZulu-Natal North Coast, Sugar Bay Holiday Camp has been welcoming children aged 7 to 17 during every South African school holiday for more than 25 years. Over that time, millions of parents have trusted Sugar Bay to provide a safe and structured environment where children can experience adventure, build friendships and develop confidence. Safety and supervision are central to how the camp operates. Children are supervised 24 hours a day, and the camp maintains an exceptional 1 counselor for every 3 children ratio, allowing staff to closely monitor and support campers throughout the day and night. Counselors also stay in the cabins with campers, ensuring children are never without adult supervision. All staff members working with children are carefully selected, background checked and required to have police clearance. They are also trained in First Aid, CPR and youth supervision to ensure they are prepared to respond appropriately to any situation. The resort itself operates with multiple layers of security including electric perimeter fencing, controlled access gates, CCTV cameras, night watchmen and 24-hour armed response. Sugar Bay also operates a dedicated on-site health centre run by a qualified nurse, with doctors on call and private hospitals nearby should medical care ever be required. Water activities are supervised by qualified lifeguards and trained safety staff, and children participate according to their swimming ability to ensure activities remain appropriate and safe. Campers take part in over 100 structured activities, including beach activities, water sports, sports, creative projects and team challenges designed to keep children active, social and engaged throughout the camp experience. These systems and decades of experience are part of the reason Sugar Bay has become one of the most trusted holiday camps in South Africa, chosen by families for more than two decades. Many campers return year after year, and today some of the children who attended Sugar Bay in its early years are now sending their own children to experience the same friendships, adventures and lifelong memories. Parents who would like to learn more about how the camp operates and explore upcoming camp dates can visit: Learn more about Sugar Bay Holiday Camp:https://www.sugarbay.co.za Learn more about Sugar Bay Holiday Camps Upcoming Camps: https://www.sugarbay.co.za/sugar-bay-camp-blog/categories/upcoming-sugar-bay-camps-2026 Helping children grow through experience Sending a child to camp for the first time can feel like a big step for any parent. But when camps are run professionally with strong safety systems, trained staff and structured programs, they can offer children something incredibly valuable. The chance to try new things.The chance to make new friends.The chance to discover what they are capable of. For many families, holiday camps become one of the ways children are able to experience independence, adventure and connection in a safe and supportive environment. And often, those experiences become some of the most meaningful memories of childhood.

DIBBER SA

Understanding Attention Levels in the Early Stages of Childhood

Parents often worry when a toddler doesn’t listen or seems distracted. Dibber International Preschools reminds families that attention and listening skills develop gradually, and that what appears to be inattention is often a normal part of early childhood development. “Attention is not something children either have or don’t have, it’s a skill that grows with time, practice and the right environment,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When adults understand what attention looks like at different ages, they can respond with more patience and less pressure, and children feel safer and more capable.” Attention is a child’s ability to focus on an activity, sound, object, or instruction for a period. In the early years, attention and listening form the foundation for everyday learning – from following simple instructions and taking turns, to participating in play and engaging in classroom routines. At Dibber, educators see attention as part of holistic development, supported by a stable rhythm, calm transitions, language-rich interactions, and play-based learning. 0–12 months: brief focus and quick shifts Babies are learning to process the world for the first time. Their attention is naturally short and easily redirected by a new sound, bright object, or familiar voice. They may quieten, turn towards a caregiver’s voice, or track movement, but not for long. Dibber encourages caregivers and parents to support this stage with calm, close connections, slow speech, expressive facial cues, and quieter spaces where babies can notice sounds without feeling too overwhelmed. For families in busy homes, even small changes can make a difference. This is called 60-second quiet rituals – micro-habits that are simple to try each day. For example, try turning down the television or music for just one minute, setting aside a single minute for quiet play or reading in a cosy spot, or creating a brief routine where you connect without background distractions. These quick and intentional pauses help babies notice sounds and faces, even when the environment is lively, making it easy for parents to experiment and see what works for their family. 1–2 years: deep focus on what matters to them Toddlers often become intensely absorbed in play and may not respond immediately when called. This is not defiance, it’s concentration. At this age, switching attention between activities can be difficult. “Calling a child’s name, pausing, and waiting for eye contact before giving instructions can make a remarkable difference,” says Assis. “This small habit helps children learn how to shift their focus without feeling rushed.” 2–3 years: growing flexibility and early listening routines As toddlers approach three, they begin to show more flexibility – they can pause play, listen briefly, and return to what they were doing. However, they still struggle to hold multiple instructions in mind at once. Simple, single-step instructions work best, especially when paired with actions, routines, or visual cues. Songs, short stories, and listening games can also strengthen attention in gentle, enjoyable ways. 3+ years: stronger focus and decision-making From age three onwards, children typically become more able to sustain attention and follow brief instructions, even with some distractions around them. They also start making small decisions about where to direct their attention, which supports independence and confidence. There will still be moments that require reminders, but encouragement and positive reinforcement support growth far more effectively than repeated correction. “At Dibber, the message to parents is reassuring,” Assis adds. “Every child develops at their own pace. With warmth, consistency, and supportive environments, children learn to focus, listen, and engage with the world with growing confidence.” To learn more about Dibber’s play-based approach and family support, visit www.dibber.co.za.

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