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Top ways to balance work and parenting

We all know that parenting can be a delicate juggling act at the best of times. Whether it is organising day-care, scheduling doctor appointments, making sure they are getting their five a day – being a parent is a lot to handle and think about. Throw a career into the mix, and often balls can start dropping. Here are five ways to not only help you manage your time but make sure that both your children and your job get the attention they need. Switch off This advice comes from some of the most successful business people in the world. Segment your time. When you are at work, focus solely on the tasks at hand. With that level of focus and concentration, you will be able to do your job more efficiently. The same applies at home. Make sure you switch off your work notifications when possible. Give your children and yourself the attention you all deserve when it is time to do so. Schedule This is a biggie! The more organised you are, the more time you have. For your children, for your job, to grab a coffee with a friend. There are many apps you can download to help you manage your and your families’ schedules. Some of them can even be shared amongst family members, so everyone that needs to can lend a hand. Make sure you have all the info you need at the touch of a button. Dentist appointments, Toptots classes, grocery lists and more. Knowing everything that needs to be done is one step closer to getting everything you need done! Prep time Most working parents swear by this. Whether packing lunches the night before or taking a few hours on a Sunday to meal prep for the week – using the time you have to give you breathing room during the crazy periods (AKA, bath and dinner time) is a smart use of time. Again, there are many online tools to assist you in things like meal prepping – use them to give you a helping hand. Time for you A burnt-out parent is not going to have the energy and capability to get anything done. Never mind spending quality time with their children. It is essential that you put yourself on the top of your ‘take care of’ list. Make sure you schedule time to do things you love, see friends and family and look after yourself. Happy parents make happy children.  Delegate You don’t need to do it all yourself. Everyone needs help, whether it be from a partner, parent or friend. There are always people around that are willing to lend a hand; you just need to reach out to them. Learning to let go of tasks, delegate responsibilities and ask for help with help to ease your load to focus on the things that matter – yourself and your children! Toptots Early Learning SA

Bill Corbett

Help! My Kids Won’t Stop Fighting!

Parents generally see their children as wonderful gifts from the heavens but children don’t always see each other in that same light.  They first see their primary caregivers, and the love and attention they get from them, as a limited commodity.  They then see their siblings as competition for that love and attention and sometimes feel they have to fight for it. When a new child enters the family, the oldest or older children sometimes feel as if they have been dethroned and now have to share their parents with this new child.  This can bring about feelings of animosity and jealousy between children.   To deal with this problem effectively, parents can find ways that will allow the older child to become a teacher or leader to the younger child(ren).  You can also give the older child special privileges and give them special time with you, such as one-on-one dates to help them feel like they haven’t lost their place in the family. Fighting and other forms of sibling rivalry also occur as a result of these feelings.  Avoid racing into every little argument or disagreement.  If you do, it will teach your children to create problems just to get you involved.  It will also train them that they are NOT accountable for stopping fights and working things out, it teaches them instead that YOU are responsible for doing that.  Because you ARE responsible for keeping everyone safe, sometimes the only solution is to just separate them.  This is especially true for when toddlers and preschoolers hit one another or begin to fight.  It just means they’ve had enough of that other person for a while and they want them out of their space. Avoid using punishments like time out and avoid taking sides.  When a conflict breaks out, just separate both of them.  It doesn’t matter who started it or who did what, just separate them in different spaces to be apart.  And during this moment of behavior management, remain calm and talk very little.  You can easily transfer your own negative feelings into the relationship between the children.  Sometimes the conflict between the children is actually an imitation of what’s going on with the adults.

Parenting Hub

Body20 Cares Returns in 2026: Powering Hope for Children with Cancer

Sometimes, the greatest strength is found in unity. After raising over R150,000 in its inaugural year, Body20 is proud to relaunch its Body20 Cares initiative for 2026 — a campaign driven by compassion, community, and the belief that true wellness extends far beyond the studio floor. Body20 remains committed to ongoing support throughout 2026 and beyond, ensuring sustained impact for children with cancer and their families. From April to May 2026, 50% of all new members’ joining fees at Body20 studios nationwide will be donated to CHOC Childhood Cancer Foundation South Africa. These funds don’t just support a cause—they wrap children and their families in hope at the very moment they need it most. Supporting CHOC means directly helping children facing cancer and their families find comfort and strength. “This initiative isn’t just an activity for us — it’s a lifeline,” says Philip Hughes, chief executive officer of Body20 Global. “Last year, we witnessed firsthand how small actions, multiplied by many, can create a wave of hope. As Body20 Cares returns, our mission is simple: uplift families, offer practical support, and remind every parent and child battling cancer that they are never alone.” Cancer today touches almost every family, casting long shadows of fear and uncertainty. In South Africa, around 1,000 children are diagnosed with cancer each year—though many more go undiagnosed, and each statistic represents a child, a parent, a story. Despite advances in treatment, a diagnosis brings a tidal wave of emotional, logistical, and financial challenges. Organisations like CHOC are lifelines, offering more than just accommodation—they provide comfort, dignity, and a sense of home when families need it most. “Partnerships like Body20 Cares help us deliver vital support to children and their families,” says Adri Ludick, interim CEO for CHOC. “Every contribution means a family can stay together, a child can rest in comfort, and no one must face this journey alone. Last year, funds from Body20 Cares kept our CHOC Houses open—safe havens like Diepkloof, which offered warmth, food, and daily support to up to 30 people at a time. When hospitals close their doors at night, CHOC keeps hope alive for families in crisis.” Body20 Cares is about more than fundraising—it’s about human connection and shared purpose. Every new member isn’t just prioritising their own wellness; they’re giving a child and parent one less worry, one more day together, and a little more hope. Your participation can help us build a community united by compassion and action. “This is where fitness meets purpose,” Hughes adds. “Every sign-up is more than a membership; it’s a lifeline for a child fighting cancer, and a message to families that they are seen, valued, and supported by a whole community.” As Body20 Cares enters its second year, we invite every South African to stand with us. Join as a member, donate, or spread the word—every action, big or small, has the power to change a life. Your support makes you an essential part of this movement, helping us turn compassion into tangible hope. In a world where time is scarce and health is priceless, Body20 brings together your two most valuable resources. With cutting-edge EMS technology, Body20 helps people transform their wellbeing in just 20 minutes a week. It’s a promise: you can prioritise your health, support your community, and still have time for what—and who—matters most. Powerful transformations don’t just happen in our bodies—they ripple out, touching families, communities, and futures. When we move with purpose, we move the world a little closer to hope. To join Body20 Cares, become a new member at any Body20 studio or donate directly. For information or to get involved, visit https://body20.co.za/body20-cares or contact [email protected] | 087 231 0359. #Body20 #CHOC #Body20Cares #Cancer #ChildrenWithCancer #Children

Bill Corbett

Are You Raising a Praise Junkie?

Extensive research has been done to show the amazing results of praise.  It can motivate both adults and children to perform exceedingly well, but to do it for the goal of obtaining the praise, not for the joy of achieving or the pleasure of the activity.  I first learned of the term ‘praise junkie’ when I read Nurture Shock (2009; Twelve), a book that offers new research-based thinking about children. The authors state that the use of praise is becoming the solution for modern-day parenting that caregivers offer to their children as a way of soothing the anxieties the children experience throughout their day.  More and more parents seem to strive to “make things all better,” so that their children experience less stress.  And over-praised children don’t grow up to be ‘unmotivated softies’ as some have claimed, but instead, researchers have found that they actually become more competitive and overly focused on tearing others down. So if praising our children is discouraged, what are we supposed to do?  The answer lies in our response to our child’s accomplishment.  Instead of making sure that every child receives a trophy, the key is in how we respond to our child individually.  Instead of saying “I’m proud of you,” the most effective parental response is “What did YOU think of the game,“ or “Tell me all about the picture you drew.”  But there is more to this story; allow me to explain. I’m often asked if praise is bad for children and my response has been that it has a time, a place and a season.  I see certain types of praise being necessary in three specific situations: in teaching young, egocentric children learn new social skills (hygiene, chores, etc.), when working with some children with disorders (such as those on the Autism spectrum) and in situations for turning around unhealthy family relationships. In most of these types of situations however, there is a season.  Eventually, the awarding of smiley faces on behaviour charts or rewards for accomplishing new tasks should stop.  Eventually, many autistic children can move past the daily rewards for better cooperation at home and in the classroom as their development progresses.  And if the work is done, unhealthy family relationships can be restored, leading to less praise and rewards. When praise is not or no longer needed, encouragement (as you indicated) is needed instead.  Praise is one person’s judgment of another.  Even the words “Good Job” or “Attaboy” are someone’s evaluation of another person’s creation or performance.  Encouragement is the technique of having that creating or performing person to say “Good Job” with their own voice.  It coaches them to step back and assess what they did, and make internal decisions such as: “Am I happy with what I created?” “Will I do it again?” “Do I love doing this” “Does it fulfil me?” “What will I do with what I created?” When my children were young, I made the switch to stop the praise and instead, use encouragement.  I tried it, sort of as an experiment to see what would happen.  When my children came up to me with a picture they had drawn or a castle they built and said to me, “Look Dad, look at my picture.”  Instead of saying to them “Good Job,” I said “Wow, tell me all about it.”  In that moment, they would describe what they had created and I would avoid providing my opinion.  My job was to be there in that moment and listen. In the beginning, using this new response to whatever they wanted to show me, they would sometimes ask me, “What do you think Dad?”  My response would always be, “I like it, but what do YOU think about it.”  To wean them off the praise society and my parents taught me, I would always pass it back to them.  Because what they thought of their own creation was more important than mine.  Eventually, my children stopped asking me and stopped hanging their pictures on the refrigerator and instead, started hanging them on their bedroom walls or putting them in albums for them to enjoy.  They stopped placing them in public places in hopes of obtaining good words from others. When report cards came home, instead of taking it and reading it, I would hand it back to them and say, “Read it to me.”  They would then read off their grades and I would listen.  Encouragement requires lots of eye contact, much facial expression and few words.  After they had read their grades, I would ask them specific questions to bring out more about the report card, never once applying my opinion.  I would ask questions like what grade were they most proud of and which grade might they change and why.  If they expressed a desire to bring up one grade or another, I would coach them into coming up with ideas and in many cases, I would offer to help in some capacity, still never applying my opinion of them or their grades. Today I’m watching my three children live their lives according to what they enjoy and according to their own opinions of their accomplishments.  They are not performing or creating for other people, they are doing what they love to do for the love of doing the act, not doing it to please others.  I urge all parents to use more encouragement and less praise, every day!

Dalza

Things We Don’t Always Say Out Loud

There’s a version of parenting a neurodivergent child that the world sees: the appointments, the assessments, the school meetings, the research done at odd hours. The way you’ve fought, politely, persistently, and sometimes desperately, to get your child seen and supported. And then there’s the version that is a little quieter. The thoughts and feelings that don’t always make it into conversation, not because they aren’t real, but because there hasn’t always been a space that felt safe enough to hold them. We don’t always say “this is a lot.” Not in a way that asks for pity – just honestly. Parenting any child is full-hearted work. Parenting a neurodivergent child often asks something extra on top of that: navigating waiting lists, decoding reports, understanding your rights under the SIAS policy, and advocating in spaces that weren’t always built with your child in mind. Research confirms what many parents already feel: raising a neurodivergent child comes with significantly higher levels of stress than most people (including well-meaning friends and family) tend to appreciate. Knowing that doesn’t make it easier, but it does mean you’re not imagining it. It really is a lot. We don’t always say “the judgement is exhausting.” Perhaps someone in your family has suggested your child just needs firmer boundaries. Perhaps a stranger in a shopping centre has given you a look. Perhaps you’ve heard, directly or indirectly,  that this is somehow a reflection of your parenting. It isn’t. But carrying that, on top of everything else, takes a toll that rarely gets acknowledged. Many parents, particularly in communities where neurodivergence is still widely misunderstood, describe being blamed long before they receive any support. You deserved support from the beginning. You’re still standing, still advocating, still showing up, and that matters. We don’t always say “some days just feel like grief, and that’s okay.” Nobody talks about how you can be completely, unconditionally devoted to your child and still have days that feel like grief. Not grief for who they are, but for how hard the world makes it for them sometimes. For the energy it takes just to be understood. Researchers call this chronic sorrow: a quiet, recurring heaviness that visits in the gaps, not because of your child, but because of everything around them. It can exist right alongside deep joy, fierce pride, and a love that has genuinely changed who you are. These aren’t contradictions. They’re just the full picture and you’re allowed to hold all of it, without explanation. We don’t always say “I’m not sure I am getting it right.” Most parents of neurodivergent children become extraordinary advocates. They learn the systems, challenge the assumptions, build strategies from scratch. From the outside, it can look remarkably put-together. On the inside, there’s often a quieter voice asking: “am I doing enough?” and “Did I handle that well today?” That voice is not evidence of failure. It’s evidence of how deeply you care. The parents who ask those questions are almost always the ones showing up in exactly the ways that matter. We don’t always say “I need support too.” So much energy goes into finding the right support for your child — the right school, the right therapist, the right approach — that turning the same care toward yourself can feel almost indulgent. Like it’s not your turn yet. But your wellbeing is part of this. Not as an afterthought, but as something that genuinely matters, for you and for the family you’re holding together with so much love and effort. Saying “I need support too” is not a small thing. It might actually be one of the bravest. If you’ve recognised yourself somewhere in these words, that recognition is the whole point. There are more of us in this than you might realise, navigating the same uncharted territory, feeling the same mix of love and uncertainty, doing our best with enormous heart. We’re all in this together. And you are doing better than you think. Written by Dalza Dalza is a platform built by a parent who understands the realities of this journey. If you’d like to learn more, visit Dalza.com References: – Hayes, S. A., & Watson, S. L. (2013). The impact of parenting stress: A meta-analysis of studies comparing the experience of parenting stress in parents of children with and without autism spectrum disorder. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 43 (3), 629–642. – Olsson, M. B., & Hwang, C. P. (2001). Depression in mothers and fathers of children with intellectual disability. Journal of Intellectual Disability Research, 45 (6), 535–543.

Freebees PR

Terrific tea tree oil: Simple ways to incorporate this time-tested multitasker in everyday life

Tea tree oil is one of the most versatile natural ingredients, valued across cosmetics, personal care, household cleaning and even pet products. Commercially used for more than a century, its origins go back much further to the Indigenous communities of Australia, who long recognised its medicinal and cosmetic value. What is tea tree oil?Tea tree oil, also known as melaleuca oil, is an essential oil obtained by steam-distilling the leaves of the tea tree (Melaleuca alternifolia). Native to Australia, the plant thrives in the swampy, coastal regions of the southeast. For centuries, Aboriginal Australians used crushed tea tree leaves to release the oil, inhaling it or applying it to the skin to help relieve a variety of ailments. Today, tea tree oil is widely available in its pure essential oil form and is also commonly blended into skincare, personal care and household products. What are the benefits of tea tree oil? Tea tree oil is valued for its wide range of naturally active properties: What is tea tree oil used for? Thanks to its antibacterial, antifungal, and anti-inflammatory properties, tea tree oil is a popular ingredient in topical skincare products as well as personal and household products. Common uses include: Tea tree oil can easily and safely be incorporated into your day-to-day life. When selecting tea tree oil products, choose items from reputable brands known for the quality of their ingredients.  Essential oil SOiL is known as a leader in the manufacture of essential oils, and their Tea Tree Essential Oil is steam-distilled from the best quality leaves, resulting in a potent, organic oil that can be used for a variety of purposes. Remember to dilute tea tree essential oil with a carrier oil before applying it to your skin.  Skincare Tea tree oil can be very effective in the fight against breakouts and blemishes, making it a popular choice for skincare that works to limit sebum production and remove bacteria from the skin. SKNLOGIC Clarify contains tea tree oil, salicylic acid, and witch hazel to calm inflammation, clear existing breakouts, and prevent new ones from forming. This treatment product can be applied twice daily after cleansing to help unclog pores and achieve a clearer complexion.  Remove sebum, decongest and detoxify the skin and minimise pores with SKNLOGIC Charcoal Detox Masque. Together with tea tree oil and grapefruit extract, the activated charcoal deeply cleanses and purifies skin to minimise breakouts.  Using tea tree soap or shower gel is a fantastic (and gentle!) way to remove germs from the body and keep skin clear and refreshed. SoyLites Glycerine Tea Tree Soap Bar is rich in antibacterial essential oils to keep skin clean and healthy. If you prefer a liquid soap, try SoyLites Tea Tree Liquid Soap, which is gentle on skin and tough on bacteria. The convenient pump bottle is handy for the shower, office or kitchen. Hair care Oily scalp, greasy hair or product build-up? Tea tree oil is an excellent haircare ingredient, particularly for cleansing and refreshing the scalp. Not only does it remove oil and impurities, but it also helps prevent dandruff, reduces itchiness and discomfort and balances the scalp’s oil production.  Naturally Africa Hair & Scalp Oil is a natural blend of vitamin E, tea tree, castor, grape seed, coconut and sweet almond oil. The lightweight, non-greasy formula can be massaged into the hair and scalp to moisturise, add shine, heal and prevent split ends. For very dry hair, we recommend Naturally Africa Hair Food & Scalp Therapy. Infused with vegetable proteins, shea butter, castor oil and tea tree oil, it is intensely hydrating and can be applied every two weeks to give the hair and scalp an intensive moisture boost. It also helps to alleviate an itchy scalp. Home cleaning products Thanks to its disinfectant properties, tea tree oil is an excellent ingredient for household cleaning products. Not only does it effectively kill bacteria, but it is also safe to inhale, which is particularly important when you have children or pets. Earthsap offers a wide range of non-toxic, biodegradable, eco-friendly cleaning products, many of which utilise the power of tea tree oil.  You don’t have to resort to harsh chemicals to keep your toilet seat germ-free.Earthsap Tea Tree Toilet Seat Sanitizer is a compact spray that kills germs and helps to keep your bathroom clean and hygienic. Using a natural formula that’s free of harsh synthetic chemicals, it can be used to limit your family’s exposure to germs and bacteria in public restrooms as well.  Tea tree oil is a great ingredient for dishwashing liquid. Earthsap Tea Tree & Orange Dishwashing Liquid contains tea tree oil for its germ-fighting abilities. The formula is biodegradable, safe for waterways and a must-have for an eco-friendly household. Keep surfaces sparkling and germ-free with Earthsap Tea Tree & Orange All Purpose Cleaner, which quickly removes grease, grime, and bacteria without scratching or damaging surfaces.  There’s a reason why tea tree oil has been trusted for more than a century. With its powerful antifungal, antibacterial, and anti-inflammatory properties, this multitasker is the perfect safe alternative to harsh chemical ingredients.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Smoking and pregnancy – should I quit

If you’re an avid smoker you’re probably wondering if being pregnant means you should wave your smoking habits goodbye. Unfortunately, even if your health isn’t enough for you to stop, your baby’s health should be. What can happen to my baby if I keep smoking? Smoking during your pregnancy is harmful to your unborn baby. The chemicals in cigarettes are both damaging to you and your baby; nicotine and other harmful poisons increase the risk of health problems for unborn babies. Second hand smoke, vaping and e-cigarettes are all still damaging to your baby’s health and should also be avoided (or quitted). You may need to designate your house a non-smoking area, and ask any friends and colleges not to smoke around you. So what exactly does smoking do to your unborn baby? Smoking lowers the amount of oxygen available to your growing baby and nicotine damages the baby’s brain and lungs. Smoking can make it harder to conceive, and if you do fall pregnant, can lead to miscarriages or stillbirth. Babies can be born premature, have a low birth weight, or be born with birth defects.  Smoking during pregnancy can also affect your baby’s health after they are born, leading to cases of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, asthma and other respiratory problems and infections. Help – I am really struggling to quit! Even if you have decided that quitting is in both of your best interests, this may be easier said than done. If you are pregnant already it is best to quit without using any medication, as this is healthier for you and your baby. You also won’t be able to transition to vaping or e-cigarettes, as these too, are harmful and usually contain nicotine, which is damaging to health. In order to quit for good, try avoid the triggers that make you want to smoke, and try find something else that you can do when the craving kicks in. Get the support of your family and friends, or join a stop-smoking group or self help plan. Whatever your plan is to stop, you can be sure that both you and your child’s health will benefit from it.

Bill Corbett

What If My Child Won’t Take No for an Answer?

If you’ve said no firmly and you’re child is wearing you down, avoid doing what many parent do when they are tired and overworked; giving in just to stop the pleading and begging. Doing so might stop the noise that’s adding to your stress, but it will also teach your child to repeat this behaviour anytime they receive a NO from you (and others) in the future. BE FIRM, STAY CALM, AND REMAIN QUIET So let me get right to the punch on this question. If your child is asking for something you can’t or won’t give to them and they won’t stop drilling you for it, calmly tell them that you’re not willing to discuss this issue any further and remain completely quiet if they try to engage you further. Be ready and willing to talk to them about any other subject, just not this one. WHAT IF YOUR CHILD HITS YOU IN RESPONSE? If this occurs, the answer is to tell them firmly, “No one is allowed to hit me,” and remove yourself from your child’s access immediately. This means you must go to another place in the house to be away from your child in the moment. If this isn’t easy to do, do your best to remove yourself from your child. Do not hit your child back and avoid yelling or punishing them. Doing so will only reward your child by reacting. WHAT IF THE CHILD CAUSES PROPERTY DAMAGE? Some parents have reported that when they left the area to be away from their child, the child became so angry that they caused some damage to something in the house. While there is a risk that this could occur, it is better to have property damage then physical damage to you or your child. If their behaviour becomes this extreme in response to a no, you should consider seeking help immediately from your child’s paediatrician or a family therapist. OTHER IDEAS TO CONSIDER When your child asks for something and you know that your NO may cause a meltdown, guide your child to a calendar and set a date and time in which the two of you will sit down and discuss the request. They may not be happy with this response, but it will tell them that the door isn’t completely closed on their request. This is also a great technique if what they are asking for is big and you need more time to think about it or research their request, such as piercings, dating, cell phones, etc. Finally, try replacing the word NO with one of these two phrases: “I’m not willing ____________,” or “I’m not ready for you to ___________________.” They put the ownership on you and not on your child. It is also less likely that your child will feel less driven to change your NO into a YES by arguing. When you demonstrate power over your own “will,” or state that you’re NOT READY for them to do something, you don’t have to have a reason for it, or even a date as to when you’ll be ready. Simply tell them they can ask again to see if things have changed.

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DermaFix Cosmeceutical Skin Care Expands Inclusive Sun Protection with Launch of Tinted SPF Dark

In a country where year-round sun exposure is a reality, daily SPF is non-negotiable. Yet for many South Africans with tanned to deeper skin tones, finding a sunscreen that protects without leaving a grey or ashy cast has long been a frustration.  DermaFix Cosmeceutical Skin Care is addressing that gap with the launch of DermaFix Tinted SPF Dark 50ml, a deeper, expertly balanced shade developed specifically for Fitzpatrick IV–VI skin tones. “While melanin-rich skin has natural advantages, it remains vulnerable to UV damage, premature ageing and hyperpigmentation,” explains Ursula Volbrecht, spokesperson for DermaFix. “Tinted SPF Dark delivers broad-spectrum SPF40 protection against UVA, UVB and HEV which is blue light exposure, while blending seamlessly into the skin for a natural, even-toned finish.” More than just sun protection, Tinted SPF Dark reflects the growing demand for multi-functional skincare. The formula works as a sunscreen, light foundation and complexion enhancer in one; ideal for everyday wear, post-procedure protection, or effortless “no-makeup” makeup days.  Importantly, the formulation remains gentle enough for sensitive and pigmentation-prone skin, helping defend against post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation (PIH), which is a common concern among South African consumers.  As a dermatologically approved and clinically effective brand, DermaFix continues to advance targeted skincare solutions across anti-ageing, hyperpigmentation, acne and scarring categories. The introduction of Tinted SPF Dark is a welcome addition for darker skin tones in the medical-grade sun care category, and signals a commitment to innovation.  DermaFix Tinted SPF Dark (50ml) retails at R437 and is available nationwide through dermatologists, doctors, skincare professionals and medi-spas, as well as online at www.dermafix.co.za.

DIBBER SA

Calm Is a Superpower in the Early Years

Walk into a calm room, and something in the body settles: shoulders drop, breathing slows, and thoughts find space. Dibber International Preschools says a calm environment is not a nice-to-have, but one of the most powerful developmental tools in the early years. “The world is stimulating enough,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “A child needs a place to land – somewhere that feels safe and steady. When children feel calm, they become more available for learning, connection, and confidence.” Dibber notes well-designed environments do more than keep children safe. They shape children’s feelings, their willingness to explore, their ability to recover, and the depth of their learning. Calm is foundational, not an afterthought. Dibber explains that young children are not miniature adults. Their developing nervous systems make them sensitive to sensory and emotional tones. Noise, clutter, unpredictability, and tension can tax their brains. When children feel overwhelmed, the brain enters alert mode. The child spends energy on self-protection rather than on curiosity or connection. Deep learning becomes difficult because the brain manages the environment instead of exploring it. “At Dibber, calm is not about control or silence,” says Assis. “It’s about creating an emotional and physical space where children can breathe, belong, and build capability at their own pace.” Dibber emphasises calm does not mean sterile or joyless. Nurturing spaces include gentle movement, soft conversation, and laughter. Each element is intentional. At Dibber South Africa, classrooms are designed with purpose, not just decorated. Each choice answers one question: Does this help each child feel at home and at ease? Dibber says calm environments create ripple effects across every area of development: 1) Emotional security and regulationChildren who feel safe begin to internalise calm. Over time, they learn to self-regulate, manage big feelings, recover from disappointment, and settle quickly. Dibber calls this one of the most transferable life skills. 2) Deeper focus and concentrationA child who is not managing environmental stress is freer to focus on what is in front of them. Even short periods of sustained attention in early years build the foundation for future learning, reading, problem-solving, and creativity. A calm environment lets children try challenges, make a mess, and feel comfortable when they don’t yet know the answer, allowing confidence to take root. 4) Stronger relationships with educators and peersWhen children feel settled, they can connect more easily. Friendships form naturally, trust in educators grows, and children open to guidance and support. Simple measures, such as a consistent bedtime routine, quiet spaces for play, lowering adult voices during transitions, and reducing background noise when focusing, support a child’s nervous system and emotional well-being. Dibber’s approach, rooted in Nordic pedagogy, recognises how a child feels shapes how they learn. Educators maintain calm, supportive spaces that help each child thrive.

Mia Von Scha

Questioning Questions: Why your child needs to ask ‘why’…

There comes a time in the life of every parent when you wish the word “Why” had never been invented. I recall with my own kids how a 5-minute bedtime story suddenly became a 30-minute ordeal: The bear went over the mountain.Why?To get to the other side.Why?To visit his friend.Why?Because he was lonely.Why?Well, if you’ll let me carry on reading we’ll find out. Ok, so sentence number two… It was a lovely warm day.Why? You know how the story goes! So before you move on from why, I have two more why questions for you… Why do kids stop asking questions? And why is it important for us to encourage them to continue? There are three main reasons that children stop questioning. The first is that we discourage the questions. Understandably we get tired of answering a million why’s every day and our tone and attitude towards questioning becomes quite clear. Children get the message that their questioning is annoying. Perhaps they even get the message that they are annoying. The second is that we encourage a very narrow, limited way of thinking. We give definite answers and we don’t explore possibilities. We train our children to think like we think; to believe what we believe; to do things the way they have always been done. The third is that we are afraid of (and so teach our kids to be afraid of) making mistakes. Children learn that there is a right and a wrong answer to any given question and it is bad to give the wrong answer – this will be met with red lines on your page, bad marks, failure and disappointment. But why would we want to encourage this questioning when it drives us nuts? Well, because the quality of your life is directly related to the quantity and quality of the questions that you ask. Questions open doors, they explore new possibilities, they take us outside of limiting beliefs and outdated ways of thinking and being. Questions really are at the very fabric of being alive. They imply curiosity and interest and enthusiasm and a willingness to learn and grow. It is when we stop questioning and start assuming that we know the answers that our life light goes out. We become conditioned and trained and dull and habitual. We stop seeking alternative ways of thinking and being and doing and we become mundane. And our lives become mundane. And then we learn to complain instead of questioning. We whine about the hamster wheel of life without questioning how to get off it. We moan about our relationships instead of seeking alternative answers to how to engage. We hate our jobs but we don’t question why we have ended up where we are and what different choices we could make. It becomes ingrained in us to fear asking questions. We still have that child within that doesn’t want to be annoying, that doesn’t want to be the one to ask a stupid question, what is terrified of the consequences of getting the answers wrong. And so we live small. And constricted. And below our full potential. If we want our children to live rich, fulfilling, exciting lives then we have to encourage questions. We need to encourage the “why’s” of the 4 year old to everything we say, and the “why’s” of the teenager to everything we do. We need to embrace a questioning attitude to our own lives and habits and choices. We need to step out of our comfort zones and risk failure and all the learning that comes with it. Here are some tips to get you going… When your child asks you why they have to do or not do something never answer with “because I said so”. If you have a good reason, explain it to them. If you don’t, then start questioning why they have to do it yourself. (You may find that there are many things you expect just because your parents did it that way or someone else told you it should be that way). Question everything that you believe. From the most basic daily trivialities (the wall is solid) to the most fundamental life issues (I was born) to the things that limit you (I am not good enough) and see what happens. Some lines of questioning can allow you to let go of stagnation and move into new realms, and others may strengthen what you already believe. Either way there will be a depth to your life where previously you were just floating on the surface. Don’t answer all your child’s questions. Teach them how to find answers in the world and send them on a journey of exploration and curiosity. Point them in the direction of knowledgeable people, send them to the library, show them how to use search engines, help them to set up experiments. Be a model of excitement in finding out the answers to things you don’t know and how much you learn along the way. Ask your child questions. Ask deep, open ended, thought provoking questions. Even to the little ones. Encourage them to ponder things; to not need to come up with quick answers; to not know the answer at all. As much as possible, refrain from showing irritation when your child asks questions. If you’re really not up for it, let them know you’ll be happy to continue later. Treat all failure as an exercise in learning. Tell your kids about Edison failing hundreds of times before figuring out the light bulb. Give them examples from your own life where you got something wrong and it helped you to grow. When they get something wrong help them to focus on what they can learn and how this can help them to grow. If your child asks deep and meaningful questions about life / themselves / God / etc, don’t give them a standard practiced response. Rather turn the question back to the questioner. Say something like, “Wow,

Vital Baby

Keeping Baby Healthy: Simple Hygiene Habits Every Parent Should Know

For new parents, keeping a baby clean isn’t just about bath time. Everyday hygiene routines, from proper handwashing to trimming tiny nails and keeping feeding equipment clean, play a vital role in protecting babies from common infections while their immune systems are still developing. Simple daily habits can make a significant difference in a baby’s overall wellbeing. “Babies are naturally more vulnerable to germs because their immune systems are still maturing,” says Sr Londe, independent midwife and Vital Baby South Africa’s trusted advisor. “The good news is that small, consistent hygiene practices can greatly reduce the risk of common illnesses and help babies stay comfortable and healthy.” Here are some of the key hygiene habits parents can easily incorporate into their daily routines. Handwashing: The First Line of Defence Handwashing remains one of the simplest and most effective ways to prevent the spread of germs. Parents and caregivers should wash their hands before feeding baby, after nappy changes, after using the bathroom, after handling pets and after returning home from outings. “Hands carry a surprising number of germs throughout the day,” explains Sr Londe. “Before handling your baby, it’s always a good idea to wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water.” As babies grow into curious toddlers, parents can start teaching them to wash their hands before meals and after playtime, helping to establish healthy habits early. When soap and water aren’t immediately available, gentle baby-safe wipes can be useful for cleaning little hands and faces while out and about. Nail Care: Small but Important Baby nails grow quickly and can easily collect dirt or bacteria. Because babies often touch their faces, long nails may also lead to scratches that can become irritated or infected. Regular trimming helps prevent this, and many parents find it easiest to trim nails after bath time when they are softer. “Using tools designed specifically for babies can make nail care safer and less stressful,” says Sr Londe. “Parents often feel nervous at first, but with the right tools and a calm moment during the day, it quickly becomes part of the routine.” Baby grooming essentials such as dedicated nail care sets or grooming kits can help make these tasks easier to manage.  Nasal Care: Helping Baby Breathe Comfortably Blocked noses are common in babies, particularly during seasonal changes or colder months. Because infants rely heavily on nasal breathing, congestion can sometimes interfere with feeding and sleep. “Even mild congestion can make babies uncomfortable,” says Sr Londe. “Using saline drops and gentle nasal aspirators can help clear the nasal passages safely and provide relief.” Keeping baby’s sleeping environment well ventilated and free from irritants such as cigarette smoke or strong fragrances can also support healthy breathing.  Preventing Common Infections While it’s impossible to completely avoid germs, parents can take several practical steps to reduce the risk of infection. Keep toys and teethers clean. Babies explore the world by putting objects into their mouths, which means toys and teethers should be washed regularly using warm soapy water and allowed to dry properly. Teething toys such as the Infantino 3 Stage Teether are designed to support babies through different developmental stages and can be easily cleaned as part of a daily routine. Practise safe feeding hygiene. Whether breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, it’s important to ensure bottles, teats and feeding equipment are properly sterilised. Prepared formula should be stored according to guidelines, and unfinished milk should be discarded after feeds to prevent bacterial growth. Keep surfaces clean. Changing stations, highchairs and kitchen counters should be wiped down regularly with baby-safe cleaning products to reduce the risk of cross-contamination. Limit exposure to illness. During flu season or when respiratory infections are circulating, it’s sensible to limit babies’ contact with people who are unwell. Parents can also encourage visitors to wash their hands before holding baby. Building Healthy Habits from the Start Maintaining baby hygiene doesn’t have to be complicated. With consistent routines such as handwashing, cleaning toys, safe feeding practices and gentle grooming, parents can significantly reduce the risk of common infections. Having the right baby care essentials on hand can also make these routines easier. Items such as Vital Baby’s PROTECT Nailcare Set, HYGIENE Hand & Face Wipes, and the new biodegradable and recyclable Vital Baby EarthSmart Baby Care Kit which includes various health and grooming products, can support parents as they establish these daily habits. “Parenthood comes with a lot to learn, but when it comes to hygiene, the basics really do matter. Small everyday habits help protect babies while giving parents confidence that they’re doing the very best for their little ones,” concludes Sr Londe. Vital Baby is a family-run business with over 45 years of experience in the baby industry. Their mission is to create products that make family time effortless and enjoyable for parents. The Vital Baby range, now including biodegradable and recyclable EarthSmart products, is 100% BPA-free and covers every stage of your baby’s development, from feeding and weaning, to hygiene and soothing. Explore the range online at Vital Baby® (vitalbabyshop.co.za) and Amazon, or find at Clicks, Dischem, and selected Woolworths.

Sanosan

Understanding Your Baby’s Sensitive Skin: What Every Parent Should Know

A baby’s skin is one of the most delicate parts of their developing body. Up to five times thinner than adult skin, it loses moisture more easily and is far more vulnerable to irritation, dryness and environmental stressors. For new parents navigating the early months of childcare, understanding how to properly care for sensitive baby skin can make a meaningful difference to a child’s comfort and wellbeing. From nappy rash to dry patches and irritation caused by harsh ingredients, many common skin concerns can be prevented with gentle care and the right skincare choices. Why baby skin needs special care Newborn skin is still developing during the first year of life. Because the protective skin barrier is not yet fully mature, babies are more prone to dryness, redness and reactions to environmental triggers such as heat, friction, or fragranced products. Regular bathing with mild cleansers, followed by moisturising with products formulated specifically for babies, can help support the skin’s natural barrier and maintain hydration. “Parents are often surprised to learn just how sensitive baby skin really is,” says Karen Van Rensburg, spokesperson for Sanosan South Africa. “The products used on babies should be especially gentle and carefully formulated to support the skin’s natural development while helping protect it from everyday irritants.” Common causes of irritation Many baby skin issues arise from everyday factors, including: Being mindful of these triggers can help parents prevent discomfort before it begins. Choosing the right skincare products Dermatologically tested products specifically designed for babies can help reduce the risk of irritation. Parents should look for formulas that are gentle, nourishing and free from unnecessary harsh additives. “Using products designed with babies’ sensitive skin in mind can help parents feel confident they are supporting their child’s skin health from the very beginning,” Van Rensburg adds. Skincare ranges enriched with nourishing ingredients such as natural milk protein, which is known to help support the skin’s protective barrier, can provide gentle care while maintaining moisture balance. Building a gentle skincare routine A simple, consistent routine can help protect delicate baby skin: By understanding how delicate baby skin is and choosing products carefully, parents can help reduce irritation while keeping their babies comfortable and happy. “With so many options out there, we understand how important it is to trust the products used on a baby’s skin,” says Van Rensburg. “Gentle, thoughtfully developed skincare can help support healthy skin while giving parents peace of mind.” Sanosan specialises in baby skincare inspired by the natural nourishing properties of milk protein, formulated to help support the skin’s protective barrier while keeping baby skin soft and healthy. The range is developed specifically for delicate baby skin and dermatologically tested to ensure gentle, effective care. www.sanosan.co.za  

Dalza

73% Better Outcomes. Not From More Therapy. From Connection

Why the people already in your child’s life might just need a way to work together You find the right OT. You get a great teacher. The speech therapist has a plan. On paper, everything’s in place. But in practice? The OT doesn’t know what the teacher is doing. The teacher hasn’t seen the speech therapist’s report. And you’re the only person connecting the dots, relaying messages, re-explaining, holding the whole picture in your head because nobody else is. It’s exhausting. And the research says it’s also the thing most likely to be limiting your child’s progress. 73% Better Outcomes. Not From More Therapy. From Connection. A major meta-analysis in JAMA Pediatrics found that when a child’s support team actively coordinates (sharing strategies, aligning goals, tracking progress together) the chance of meaningful improvement rises to 73%. Not from new interventions. Just from making sure the people already involved are actually working together. This matters especially for children with learning differences. A skill practised in the therapy room doesn’t automatically transfer to the classroom. If the teacher doesn’t know the strategy exists, or is using different cues, even excellent therapy can stall. That’s not your child failing. That’s a gap in the system around them. And it cuts both ways. Teachers often want to involve parents more closely, but the mechanisms just aren’t there. Contact ends up being a rushed chat at pickup or a termly report. The willingness exists on both sides. What’s missing is a simple way to make it happen. What You Can Do Ask your child’s team one question: do you have a way to share information with each other, not just at annual reviews, but week to week? Can the OT’s recommendations actually reach the classroom? Does the teacher know what the therapist is working toward? If the answer is no, that’s the gap to close. You need the people already in your child’s life to be connected. If you’re tired of being the go-between, Dalza gives your child’s whole support team (teachers, therapists, and you) one shared space to stay aligned. No more re-explaining. No more lost reports. Teachers and therapists join for free. We spend so much energy finding the right people for our children. The next step is making sure those people can actually talk to each other. That’s where the real gains are. Asarnow, J. R., Rozenman, M., Wiblin, J., & Zeltzer, L. (2015). Integrated medical-behavioral care compared with usual primary care for child and adolescent behavioral health. JAMA Pediatrics, 169(10), 929–937.

Wriggle and Rhyme

Memory – Take Note of the Role of Music!

Have you ever heard a song and it has brought back a memory? That memory may include the place where you heard the song, what you were doing at the time, how you felt and sometimes even a sensory trigger, like the memory of a certain taste or smell. The effect is so profound that a heart-warming movement called “Music and Memory” (http://www.musicandmemory.org) creates personalised playlists for residents with dementia in nursing homes. Apparently, the response is incredible!  Eyes light up and bodies start to move with the rhythm, as the music awakens memories of forgotten lives. All this from a piece of music! So why does music impact memory so profoundly? Neuroscientists have analysed the brain mechanisms related to memory, finding that words set to music are the easiest to remember.  We can all relate to that – just try and remember anything set to a tune and your powers of recall will be stronger! Apparently, the hippocampus and the frontal cortex are two large areas in the brain associated with memory and they take in a great deal of information every minute. But, we all know from experience, that retrieving all that information is not always easy. However, the structure of a song helps us to remember, because it provides a rhythm, rhyme and sometimes alliteration, which helps to unlock that information with cues.  The cues can also include things like the melody, emotions or images that the song lyrics evoke. Neuroscientists are constantly discovering more and more about how music affects memory. A 2009 study done by cognitive neuroscientist Dr. Petr Janata at the University of California, found a potential explanation for the link between music and memory by mapping the brain activity of a group of subjects while they listened to music.  Dr. Janata found that songs linked to strong emotions and memories corresponded with fMRI images that had greater activity in the upper part of the pre-frontal cortex, which sits right behind the forehead. This suggests that this area of the brain, which is also responsible for supporting and retrieving long-term memories, acts as a “hub” that links together music, emotions, and memories. The soundtrack of our lives … Janata explains that listening to a piece of familiar music “serves as a soundtrack for a mental movie that starts playing in our head,” calling back memories of a particular person or place. What about music in the brains of children? Over the past 14 years of using music as a catalyst for learning at our Wriggle and Rhyme music classes, we’ve seen, first hand, how music-based activities affect children’s brains. The responsibility to fill children’s brains with positive, learning experiences is not one that we take lightly.  We recognize that because our programs are set to music, we are building memories that may last a lifetime. Music education is therefore both a privilege and an exquisite burden! Whether you’re a parent, caregiver or educator, bear that in mind!  When it comes to music, everything that you expose your child/ren to needs to be done intentionally, with purpose.  You could be impacting your child’s memory for the rest of their lives! So, can I encourage you to build musical memories that evoke rich, joyful experiences for years to come? Because, when it comes to memory, we need to take note of the role of music! Musical resources

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

The First Signs of Labour

If you’re expecting your first baby you’ve probably read up a little (or a lot) on pregnancy and birth process. Labour is something you’ve probably wondered about and seeing as every pregnancy is different, many moms experience different labour signs. However, there are a few tell-tale signs to look out for that you are about to meet your new baby soon.  What to look (or feel) out for  You may be worried that you won’t distinguish normal late pregnancy signs from the fact that you’ve started labour. Luckily your due date should give you an indication of when you could expect your baby to arrive, but this won’t always be the case. Here are some indicators that your baby is on the way.  One of the more obvious signs of labour beginning is regular contractions. This will be different to the Braxton Hicks contractions you may have been experiencing leading up to this point. Labour contractions are longer, stronger and more frequent – when they come every 5 minutes you should call your doctor or midwife.  Another sign your baby is on her way is your cervix dilating or beginning to open. This can start happening in the days or weeks before you deliver. Your baby will also move down into your pelvis during this time – which is known as your baby dropping.  When your labour begins, the mucus plug which seals your cervix opening comes away. This jelly-like pink mucus is known as a show, and you may notice it when it passes out your vagina.  Lower back pain, diarrhoea and looser feeling joints are all other signs that your labour may be starting. Another sign is your water breaking, this can happen in a gush but a trickle is more likely, most moms-to-be go into labour within 24 hours of their water breaking.  Be sure to keep your birth partner in the loop about how you are feeling mentally and physically around the time of your birth. If you are at all worried about your baby or experience anything abnormal be sure to let your doctor know as soon as possible. 

Wingu Academy

The Rise of Globally Recognised Online Schools: Excellence Without Borders

Online schooling has evolved from convenience to global academic credibility. In 2026, leading online schools are: The shift has been driven by: Today’s top-tier online schools offer: At Wingu Academy, this global standard is reflected through: Affordability and accessibility are also key drivers. AI-supported systems help reduce operational inefficiencies, making high-quality education more scalable and cost-effective. This creates a powerful outcome: World-class education that is both accessible and sustainable.

DIBBER SA

5 Things Children Learn Outdoors That Classrooms Can’t Teach

Some of childhood’s most powerful lessons begin outdoors, where curiosity leads, and growth flourishes beyond any classroom’s four walls. While classrooms offer structure, routine, and guidance, outdoor environments offer something different. They offer real-world experiences that spark curiosity and build confident problem-solvers. Dibber International Preschools says that the advantages of learning outdoors go far beyond fresh air and playtime. They support cognitive, emotional, social, and physical development in ways that are difficult to replicate indoors. “Outdoor learning gives children permission to explore the world as it is – unpredictable, fascinating, and full of opportunity,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When children climb, dig, observe, build, and imagine outdoors, they develop confidence, independence, and the kind of real-life problem-solving skills that stay with them.” Outdoor spaces invite children to notice what’s around them and follow their natural interests. A short walk through a garden or park can become a moment of discovery; for example, insects moving beneath a leaf, stones of different shapes and textures, changing clouds, or a trail of ants carrying food. These observations often lead to questions that come from genuine wonder: why leaves fall, how birds build nests, or where rainwater goes. Unlike structured indoor activities, outdoor learning gives children control to learn through direct experience—developing observation, attention, and deeper curiosity about the world in ways that structured classrooms alone cannot achieve. A key advantage of outdoor learning is that children face challenges and must respond creatively. Balancing, building, or crossing a puddle requires quick thinking and adaptation. These moments develop perseverance and flexibility—skills that support learning and coping after preschool. “When the environment is real, the learning becomes real,” adds Assis. “Children learn to try, to adapt, and to keep going — and those are powerful foundations for life.” Outdoor learning encourages children to take small, age-appropriate risks in a supported environment. Climbing a low hill, navigating playground equipment, or exploring a new path can feel like a major accomplishment to a young child. Every success helps children trust their own abilities. Over time, these experiences build independence and self-belief. Children begin to feel capable, not because they have been told they are, but because they have experienced it for themselves. Being outdoors creates calming, sensory-rich experiences that support emotional regulation and well-being. Listening to birds, feeling the wind, or standing in the shade grounds children in wonder. These experiences help children develop empathy for nature and living things, while forming early values around caring for and being responsible for the environment. Children who spend time outdoors often carry a stronger appreciation for the natural world into later childhood. Outdoor environments naturally encourage cooperation and communication. Whether children are building something together, inventing a group game, or investigating a shared space such as a park or playground at your local restaurant. They practise key social skills: taking turns, listening, negotiating, supporting each other, and solving small conflicts. Outdoor play often encourages teamwork without forcing it. Children learn to join in, lead, follow, and connect, building social confidence through lived experience. At Dibber, outdoor play and exploration form part of the daily rhythm. Carefully designed outdoor spaces support movement, discovery, and imagination while ensuring children feel safe, supported, and free to learn through any and all experiences. “The outdoors invites children to be active learners,” says Assis. “These are the moments where children discover what they can do — and who they are becoming.”

Aphrodite’s Garden

How do you measure the worth of a mother?

How do you place a value on the woman who carried you before you ever took your first breath…who felt your heartbeat before you were seen, who gave of her body, her strength, her energy—quietly, willingly, with love? How do you measure the years that followed—the sleepless nights, the constant worry, the sacrifices no one noticed…the gentle words when you needed comfort, the strength she showed when you needed guidance,and the way she held everything together, even when she herself felt tired? A mother’s love is not something that can be counted or repaid.It lives in the small, unseen moments… repeated every day, over a lifetime. Some gifts will never equal that kind of love. But Mother’s Day offers something just as meaningful—a moment to pause, to reflect, and to choose a gift that truly honours her. Because sometimes, in the busyness of life, we choose what is familiar or convenient—something beautiful, thoughtful, and given with love…yet still missing the deeper intention of what she truly deserves. And a mother deserves more than a gesture. She deserves something thoughtful. Intentional. Meaningful. A gift chosen with care—something that nurtures her health, supports her wellbeing, and reminds her that she is deeply valued not only for what she does, but for who she is. Our Mother’s Day collection has been thoughtfully curated with pure, natural ingredients, developed with the guidance of a board-certified doctor of complementary medicine, ensuring that every product is created with purpose and care. Because the best gift for a mother is not simply something she can open. It is something that supports her, restores her, and gently gives back to the woman who has given so much. This Mother’s Day, choose a gift that reflects her worth. Give a gift with intention. Why We believe the Peri/Menopause Wellness Gift Set would be the perfect gift for mother Beautifully presented and intentionally curated, this set makes a meaningful gift for yourself or a loved one navigating menopause—a season that deserves softness, support, and care. What’s Inside the Peri/Menopause Wellness Gift Set: Chill Hot Flash Cooling Mist  – A refreshing botanical mist designed to bring instant cooling relief when you need it most. Hormone Synergy Aromatherapy Roller  – A grounding aromatherapy blend created to support emotional balance and hormonal harmony. Relax Aromatherapy Massage Oil  – A deeply calming massage oil designed to ease tension and restore emotional equilibrium.

DIBBER SA

The First Six Years Shape Everything That Follows

The early years can feel like a blur: routines, small decisions, and constant adjustment. Yet research across neuroscience, psychology, and education highlights one truth. Early childhood development is not just another phase. It shapes how all future learning and well-being take root. Dibber International Preschools says experiences, relationships, and environments from birth to age six do more than influence development. They help build the brain’s foundation for language, emotional regulation, social intelligence, curiosity, and resilience. “The first six years are when children build the ‘how’ behind everything; how they cope, how they connect, and how they learn,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. These years are not a waiting room for ‘real school’. They are the most developmentally intensive window of childhood, and they deserve thoughtful, heart-led care.” Dibber notes that the brain grows fastest in the first five years. By primary school, about 90% of brain structure is in place, forming the foundation that shapes how children learn and approach life for years ahead. This period is often called a sensitive developmental window. During these years, the brain is highly responsive to experience. It stays capable of change throughout life but is never again as open or influenced by everyday interactions as it is between birth and age six. Early development is not only about skills and knowledge. It is also about learning to feel safe. Dibber explains that when young children experience chronic stress, the brain shifts into an alert state. It starts to prioritise threat detection over exploration. Over time, this can affect attention, memory, and emotional regulation. The opposite is also true: steady warmth, care that responds to the child, and safe feelings help children stay calm and ready to learn. Dibber says it is common to think that what children do not learn now can simply be taught later, just as easily. While growth is always possible, some skills develop best within early windows. Language is a clear example. The brain absorbs language – its sounds and structure – most strongly in the early years. Children in language-rich environments usually develop more confident communication, comprehension, and expression. The same applies to life skills that support learning and relationships: focus, impulse control, cognitive flexibility, empathy, and a healthy sense of self. These are part of a child’s lifelong toolkit, shaped through daily interactions. Dibber emphasises that quality in early childhood development is not about pressure or academic acceleration. The best environments share a few key qualities: warm relationships with trusted adults; open-ended, child-led play; language-rich conversations where questions matter; calm, inviting spaces for exploration; and freedom to try, fail, try again, and feel quiet pride in I can. “The early years lay the deep structure of how a child thinks, feels, relates and learns,” says Assis. “When childhood is respected, when play is protected, and relationships are steady, children don’t just get ready for school. They get ready for life.”

Dalza

Autism Awareness Month: What Acceptance Actually Looks Like at Home

Every April, the world turns its attention to autism. The blue lights come on. The social media posts go up. Schools run assemblies. Companies share infographics. And somewhere in the middle of it all, you’re still trying to get your child’s shoes on before the school run. Autism Awareness Month matters. But for the parents living it every day, awareness was never really the problem. You’re aware. You’ve been aware since the first sleepless Google search, the first assessment, the first time someone said “have you considered…”. What you actually need is acceptance. And not the hashtag kind. The kind that shows up in the small, unglamorous moments of daily life. Awareness vs. Acceptance: What’s the Difference? Awareness says: “I know autism exists.” Acceptance says: “I’m going to make space for what that actually means – for your child, in your home, in your school, in your life.” Awareness is a poster on a wall. Acceptance is the teacher who reads your child’s profile before the first day of term and adjusts without being asked. It’s the family member who stops saying “but they look so normal” and starts asking “how can I help?” It’s the therapist who listens to what’s working at home, not just what’s in the textbook. Acceptance lives in the detail. And it starts at home. What Acceptance Looks Like in Your House Here’s the thing nobody tells you: acceptance isn’t a moment. It’s not a switch you flip after diagnosis. It’s something you build, bit by bit, on the hard days and the good ones. It’s letting go of the timeline. Your child’s milestones won’t always match the chart on the paediatrician’s wall. That’s not failure, that’s their story unfolding at their pace. The comparison trap is real, and stepping out of it is one of the most powerful things you can do. It’s trusting your instincts. You know your child better than any report can capture. When something feels off, or when something is working, that knowledge matters. Don’t let it get drowned out by professional opinions that only see a slice of who your child is. It’s being honest about the hard stuff. Acceptance doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine. Some days are brutal. Meltdowns are exhausting. Admin is relentless. Saying “this is hard” isn’t the opposite of acceptance, it’s part of it. It’s celebrating what others might miss. The first time they made eye contact with the waiter. The sentence that came out of nowhere after months of silence. The fact that they tried the new food, even if they spat it out. These moments are enormous, and you don’t need anyone’s permission to treat them that way. What Acceptance Looks Like Beyond Your Front Door Home is one thing. But your child doesn’t exist in a bubble — they move through schools, therapy rooms, family gatherings, and a care system that doesn’t always join the dots. Real acceptance means the people around your child see the full picture, not just a diagnosis or a set of challenges. It means their teacher knows what lights them up, not just what triggers a meltdown. It means the occupational therapist knows what happened at school last week before the session starts. It means you’re not the only person carrying all of that context in your head. That’s exhausting work. And too often, it falls entirely on you. The Invisible Load of “Awareness” Here’s what Autism Awareness Month rarely talks about: the sheer weight of being the person who holds everything together. You’re the translator between the school and the speech therapist. The administrator who files every report, chases every referral, remembers every medication change. The advocate who has explained your child’s needs so many times you could do it in your sleep, and sometimes you practically do, at 11pm, drafting yet another email. That load is invisible. And in a month dedicated to awareness, it deserves to be seen. Small Shifts That Make a Real Difference You don’t need to overhaul your life this April. But here are a few things worth considering: Share the context, not just the crisis. The people supporting your child do better work when they can see beyond the appointment or the classroom. A short note about what’s changed at home — sleep patterns, a new anxiety, a breakthrough — can shift the quality of support your child receives. Let people in. Not everyone, and not all at once. But the right people — the teacher who cares, the therapist who gets it, the family member who’s willing to learn. Give them the information they need to show up properly. Stop carrying it alone. This one is easier said than done. But if there’s one thing this month could mean for you, let it be this: you were never supposed to be the only one holding the full picture of your child’s world. Your Child’s Story Deserves More Than a Month Autism Awareness Month will end. The blue lights will switch off. The social media posts will slow down. But your child’s story keeps going. It unfolds every single day — at home, at school, in therapy, in the car, at bedtime, in all the places that don’t fit neatly into an awareness campaign. That story deserves to be seen, understood, and supported all year round. Not just by you, but by everyone who plays a part in your child’s life. Dalza gives peace of mind to parents of children who learn, think, move, or communicate a little differently. One shared space where your child’s care team can see the full picture — so you’re not the only one holding it all together. Find out more at dalza.com

Sugar Bay Holiday Camp

Are Holiday Camps Safe? What Parents Should Know Before Sending Their Child to Camp

For many South African parents, the idea of sending a child to a holiday camp can feel unfamiliar. Most parents remember school camps from their own childhood. Tents, basic accommodation, muddy fields and short trips organised by teachers. Modern holiday camps are very different. Instead of basic school trips, they are purpose-built environments designed to give children a safe, structured and exciting holiday experience filled with activities, friendships and adventure. Many parents quietly wonder the same thing:Will my child be okay without me? Will they feel safe? Will they make friends? These are completely natural questions. Any parent considering a camp experience wants to know their child will be well cared for before making that decision. The most common question is also the most important one: Are holiday camps actually safe for children? Understanding how modern holiday camps operate Well-run kids holiday camps operate very differently from what many parents imagine. Children follow structured daily schedules that include organised activities, meals and supervised downtime. Campers move between activities in small groups guided by trained staff members. Instead of children being left to entertain themselves, the day is carefully planned so that campers are always part of a supervised activity or group environment. This structure helps ensure that children remain safe, engaged and supported throughout their stay. For many parents, learning how camps actually operate helps them realise that a reputable camp environment is often far more organised and supervised than they initially expected. Why camp experiences can be valuable for children Beyond safety and supervision, holiday camps offer children something many parents feel is increasingly rare today: the chance to explore independence. Children have the opportunity to try new activities, meet people they’ve never met before and navigate situations on their own while still being supported by responsible adults. They might try a new sport, participate in a team challenge, discover a creative interest or simply enjoy the freedom of being active outdoors with other children. These experiences help children develop confidence, social skills and resilience. Many parents find that children return home from camp more independent and more confident than when they left. For many families, it becomes one of the most memorable parts of childhood. What parents should look for in a safe holiday camp Before choosing a school holiday camp in South Africa, parents should always look for clear information about how the camp operates. Some important questions to ask include: Reputable camps are transparent about these systems because safety and trust are essential for families. Sugar Bay, a Trusted Holiday Camp in South Africa Located at Zinkwazi Beach on the KwaZulu-Natal North Coast, Sugar Bay Holiday Camp has been welcoming children aged 7 to 17 during every South African school holiday for more than 25 years. Over that time, millions of parents have trusted Sugar Bay to provide a safe and structured environment where children can experience adventure, build friendships and develop confidence. Safety and supervision are central to how the camp operates. Children are supervised 24 hours a day, and the camp maintains an exceptional 1 counselor for every 3 children ratio, allowing staff to closely monitor and support campers throughout the day and night. Counselors also stay in the cabins with campers, ensuring children are never without adult supervision. All staff members working with children are carefully selected, background checked and required to have police clearance. They are also trained in First Aid, CPR and youth supervision to ensure they are prepared to respond appropriately to any situation. The resort itself operates with multiple layers of security including electric perimeter fencing, controlled access gates, CCTV cameras, night watchmen and 24-hour armed response. Sugar Bay also operates a dedicated on-site health centre run by a qualified nurse, with doctors on call and private hospitals nearby should medical care ever be required. Water activities are supervised by qualified lifeguards and trained safety staff, and children participate according to their swimming ability to ensure activities remain appropriate and safe. Campers take part in over 100 structured activities, including beach activities, water sports, sports, creative projects and team challenges designed to keep children active, social and engaged throughout the camp experience. These systems and decades of experience are part of the reason Sugar Bay has become one of the most trusted holiday camps in South Africa, chosen by families for more than two decades. Many campers return year after year, and today some of the children who attended Sugar Bay in its early years are now sending their own children to experience the same friendships, adventures and lifelong memories. Parents who would like to learn more about how the camp operates and explore upcoming camp dates can visit: Learn more about Sugar Bay Holiday Camp:https://www.sugarbay.co.za Learn more about Sugar Bay Holiday Camps Upcoming Camps: https://www.sugarbay.co.za/sugar-bay-camp-blog/categories/upcoming-sugar-bay-camps-2026 Helping children grow through experience Sending a child to camp for the first time can feel like a big step for any parent. But when camps are run professionally with strong safety systems, trained staff and structured programs, they can offer children something incredibly valuable. The chance to try new things.The chance to make new friends.The chance to discover what they are capable of. For many families, holiday camps become one of the ways children are able to experience independence, adventure and connection in a safe and supportive environment. And often, those experiences become some of the most meaningful memories of childhood.

Parenting Hub

Panado®’s New Pocket-Sized Power Sachets, Keep Parents Prepared for Pain Or Fever Anytime, Anywhere

Panado® understands that even with the best planning, pain or fever in children can still catch you by surprise.  A fever can spike late at night. Teething pain can strike on a weekend away. A temperature can creep up mid-shop, a headache can hit halfway through a long car trip, or a small burn can turn a relaxed afternoon into a stressful one. Readiness means having a plan in place for when children don’t feel well, wherever they happen to be. Being pain and fever ready isn’t about expecting the worst. It is about knowing that common childhood symptoms are part of growing up, and that understanding how to manage them can take much of the fear and anxiety out of the moment1a. When parents feel calmer and more in control, children feel safer too1b. The calm spreads, easing stress and helping everyone cope better until your little one feels well again1c. To support readiness in everyday family life, Panado® has introduced the perfect backup every parent needs, offering a practical way to manage pain and fever anytime, anywhere – Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2. Each sachet contains a single 5 ml dose of Panado® Strawberry Syrup2, powered by paracetamol, an ingredient with more than 150 years of clinical experience3. The sachets are sealed, hygienic, compact, simple to store and easy to carry, making them ideal for travel and day-to-day outings.  Containing the same trusted4 formulation, strength and berry nice flavour parents are familiar with, the Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2 are ready to work immediately5 and are suitable for babies and children from three months and older.   Slip one into a pocket, handbag, nappy bag, backpack, pram organiser, or car console and you’re always prepared. There is no bottle to pack and no risk of spills. When needed, a sachet is torn or cut open, the correct dose is measured using a syringe or medicine measure, and any remaining liquid is discarded.  To help parents feel confident, dosing is based on a child’s age and weight. Clear guidance is available via the panado.co.za/dosage-calculator online or by scanning the QR code on the pack, reducing guesswork at moments when you want reassurance. The sachets are part of the Panado® paediatric range, which includes Panado® Strawberry Syrup2, Panado® Peppermint6, suitable from Day 1 and Panado® Infant Drops7. Panado® Infant Drops were named a Product of the Year 2025 winner in the Child Health category8, based on votes from 2,000 South African consumers in a Kantar survey. When a child has pain or fever, readiness is about having something familiar you can rely on, without scrambling or second guessing. Panado® Strawberry 5 ml Sachets2 supports that peace of mind by fitting into real family life, not just the medicine cupboard at home, so you can focus less on the moment of panic and more on comforting your child. Panado® products are available from Baby City, Pick n Pay, Checkers including Hypers, Shoprite, Clicks, Dis-Chem and independent pharmacies. For more information, visit: https://panado.co.za/ and join the conversations on Facebook.  For references and legal disclaimers, visit https://panado.co.za/references. Approval ticket # 02.20261000004930. February 2026.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

What your medical aid should be doing for you while travelling this Easter

With the Easter long weekend just around the corner, many South Africans are gearing up for family getaways, road trips and well-earned breaks. While flights, accommodation, admin and packing tend to dominate the planning process, the one thing many people forget to plan for is what to do if they get sick or injured while travelling. Whether it’s a fall in Clarens, food poisoning in Bali or a sudden illness on a family road trip, medical emergencies can happen anywhere, and when they do, the situation can quickly become overwhelming if you don’t know what support you have or how to access it. Lee Callakoppen, Principal Officer of Bonitas, says that South Africans on medical aid should ensure they fully understand the benefits that are available to them in an emergency, before it’s too late.  “Healthcare planning might seem like the last thing on your mind when preparing for Easter travel, but knowing your plan and what sort of help you have at your disposal in case something goes wrong offers a great deal of peace of mind,” he says. “Not to mention, it avoids exorbitant out-of-pocket medical costs or the stress of finding yourself or loved ones stranded without assistance.” Callakoppen explains that healthcare planning for travel goes far beyond having a generic insurance policy or carrying a copy of your medical aid card. It’s about understanding the layers of support that are available to you and knowing how to access them if something goes wrong. “In a medical emergency, timing and coordination are critical,” he says. “You might need help with getting an ambulance to your location, securing hospital admission or making sure you’re brought home safely if that becomes necessary. These are the kinds of interventions that can make a frightening experience a little less overwhelming.” Understanding international travel benefits For those heading overseas this Easter, it’s vital to understand what your scheme covers. From hospital stays to emergency evacuations and specialist treatment, knowing your benefits can make a significant difference. Bonitas covers leisure and business trips by paying claims for emergency medical and related expenses directly to the medical service provider while you and/or your dependant(s) are on an insured international journey. “Too often, people assume travel insurance will take care of everything,” says Callakoppen. “But in many cases, your medical aid is your first line of defence. Insurance is important, but it works best when used in tandem with your scheme benefits, and that means taking the time to activate your international travel cover before departure. Being able to reach someone immediately for guidance, especially abroad, brings invaluable calm and control.”  When emergencies strike closer to home Medical emergencies aren’t only a concern abroad. Even local trips, whether a drive to the coast or a day out with the kids, can quickly become stressful without support. “Access to real-time emergency coordination can be a lifesaver,” he says. “We often think about cover in terms of what’s paid for, but in those first critical moments, what you really need is someone to help navigate the chaos – whether it’s dispatching an ambulance, keeping you calm while you wait for help, or liaising with emergency services on your behalf.” Bonitas SOS was created with that exact need in mind, offering 24/7 emergency support service that connects members to assistance at any time, covering the cost of care while also helping to manage the emergency while it’s happening. A bit of planning can go a long way when it comes to managing the unexpected. Knowing what your medical aid covers, how to access help, and what steps to take before you travel won’t stop emergencies from happening, but it can make them a lot easier to deal with when they do. Know your numbers One of the simplest and most effective things you can do before heading off this Easter is to save the Bonitas SOS emergency number in your phone – and make sure everyone travelling with you has it saved too. In a stressful situation, the last thing you want to be doing is searching for a contact number. Having it on hand means help is only one call away, no matter where you are. For more information, visit www.bonitas.co.za.

DIBBER SA

Understanding Attention Levels in the Early Stages of Childhood

Parents often worry when a toddler doesn’t listen or seems distracted. Dibber International Preschools reminds families that attention and listening skills develop gradually, and that what appears to be inattention is often a normal part of early childhood development. “Attention is not something children either have or don’t have, it’s a skill that grows with time, practice and the right environment,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When adults understand what attention looks like at different ages, they can respond with more patience and less pressure, and children feel safer and more capable.” Attention is a child’s ability to focus on an activity, sound, object, or instruction for a period. In the early years, attention and listening form the foundation for everyday learning – from following simple instructions and taking turns, to participating in play and engaging in classroom routines. At Dibber, educators see attention as part of holistic development, supported by a stable rhythm, calm transitions, language-rich interactions, and play-based learning. 0–12 months: brief focus and quick shifts Babies are learning to process the world for the first time. Their attention is naturally short and easily redirected by a new sound, bright object, or familiar voice. They may quieten, turn towards a caregiver’s voice, or track movement, but not for long. Dibber encourages caregivers and parents to support this stage with calm, close connections, slow speech, expressive facial cues, and quieter spaces where babies can notice sounds without feeling too overwhelmed. For families in busy homes, even small changes can make a difference. This is called 60-second quiet rituals – micro-habits that are simple to try each day. For example, try turning down the television or music for just one minute, setting aside a single minute for quiet play or reading in a cosy spot, or creating a brief routine where you connect without background distractions. These quick and intentional pauses help babies notice sounds and faces, even when the environment is lively, making it easy for parents to experiment and see what works for their family. 1–2 years: deep focus on what matters to them Toddlers often become intensely absorbed in play and may not respond immediately when called. This is not defiance, it’s concentration. At this age, switching attention between activities can be difficult. “Calling a child’s name, pausing, and waiting for eye contact before giving instructions can make a remarkable difference,” says Assis. “This small habit helps children learn how to shift their focus without feeling rushed.” 2–3 years: growing flexibility and early listening routines As toddlers approach three, they begin to show more flexibility – they can pause play, listen briefly, and return to what they were doing. However, they still struggle to hold multiple instructions in mind at once. Simple, single-step instructions work best, especially when paired with actions, routines, or visual cues. Songs, short stories, and listening games can also strengthen attention in gentle, enjoyable ways. 3+ years: stronger focus and decision-making From age three onwards, children typically become more able to sustain attention and follow brief instructions, even with some distractions around them. They also start making small decisions about where to direct their attention, which supports independence and confidence. There will still be moments that require reminders, but encouragement and positive reinforcement support growth far more effectively than repeated correction. “At Dibber, the message to parents is reassuring,” Assis adds. “Every child develops at their own pace. With warmth, consistency, and supportive environments, children learn to focus, listen, and engage with the world with growing confidence.” To learn more about Dibber’s play-based approach and family support, visit www.dibber.co.za.

be.UP Park

Rediscover Play: March Holiday Fun at be.UP Park

The first term of 2026 has been a marathon of lunchboxes and early mornings, but the break is finally here! While the kids rev up with excitement, parents often feel a sense of “holiday burnout,” wondering how they will find the right school holiday activities to keep everyone engaged. The mental load is heavy. However, as the March holidays approach, there is a shift in the air. We don’t just need a break from school; we need a break from the consistent “no.” No, don’t jump on the couch. No more screen time. No, stay inside. At be.UP Park, we strive to create a space for “yes”—where a family adventure replaces discipline with discovery. We want parents to feel that same sense of confidence and calm that their children find through movement. Read on to see how you can take your kids on a family adventure this holiday. The Hero’s Journey: Discover Shared Bravery  In every great adventure, the hero must leave their “ordinary world” to find their strength. At be.UP, that journey is built into the very architecture of our park. When you watch your child stand at the edge of the zipline, nervously shuffling toward the drop, you are witnessing a transformation. In that moment, they move from fearful and hesitant to the realisation that they can accomplish something that once scared them. As a parent, you are not just a spectator; you are the Mentor. You are the safe guide who allows them to test their limits so they can eventually fly. Consider the impact of your role: This is the heart of March holiday fun: the bridge of trust, connection, and pure joy built between you and your child. The Science Of Play  So why is physical activity, like our March holiday fun, so much better than screen time? Rather than spending the break tethered to a screen, engaging in a family adventure helps your child’s development in the long run. According to the Child Mind Institute, physical play is a primary driver for developing executive function and emotional regulation. When children engage in the “heavy work” of navigating a giant maze or the weightlessness of a trampoline, their brains release a powerful cocktail of endorphins and dopamine. This leads to what we call the “Post-Play Glow,” where: By choosing a high-quality kids holiday program or an active afternoon out, you are investing in your family’s well-being. A Sanctuary for the “Quiet Hero”  But don’t worry, we haven’t forgotten about you, the hero behind the scenes. Every explorer needs a base camp, and the be.UP Café is yours. While the kids are busy conquering peaks and navigating labyrinths, you can decompress in your base camp. At Be.UP Cafe thats why we’ve designed a space where you can transition from “Chaos Manager” to “Quiet Observer.” Find our Menu for some fuel while the kids refuel  Capture The Light Before the New Terms Starts  The 2026 school calendar is short, and the autumn sun will dip lower before we know it. Public schools close on 27 March and reopen on 8 April, with Human Rights Day and the Easter weekend falling right in the mix. These moments of connection are the ones that stick—the stories they will tell at the dinner table aren’t about the levels they reached in a game, but the time they raced you down the slide. Don’t let these holidays slip away into a blur of domestic chores and screen time. Choose a family adventure that leaves you with more than just a receipt; leave with a core memory of triumph and a family that feels truly connected. Your family adventure is waiting, and our sessions fill up faster than a kid down on a zip line. Check our holiday hours and gift your family a day of “Yes” by booking your session here.

Dalza

Medication, Supplements & Big Decisions: Moving from Anecdotes to Evidence – What to Consider for Your Neurodivergent Child

This article is adapted, with permission, from content originally published by Tamra and Jules, co-founders of The Neuroverse (theneuroverse.co.za), two South African mums building a supportive neurodivergent community. How to observe what matters, share it responsibly, and build a balanced picture with your care team When families begin exploring medication or supplements for a neurodivergent child, the process can feel overwhelming. Opinions come from everywhere — WhatsApp groups, school gates, family chats, and social media. But big decisions shouldn’t rest on anecdotes alone. A calmer, more grounded approach is to gather real-world observations from home and school, understand what professionals look for, and share information in a way that protects your child’s privacy. 1. Know What Professionals Actually Look At Across ADHD, autism, anxiety, and sensory regulation differences, clinicians focus on patterns over time, not isolated moments. Common areas they monitor include: These are the kinds of signals paediatric and mental-health professionals typically use to understand whether a child is coping, struggling, or responding to an intervention. 2. Supplements & Nutrition: Helpful Context, Not a Standalone Answer Many families explore supplements or nutritional support alongside (or before) medication. These can influence energy, mood, and regulation — but they still require the same principle: track what changes, when, and how much. Nutrition can support regulation, but it doesn’t replace structured observation or professional guidance. 3. Build a Shared Picture with the School Teachers often see patterns parents don’t — focus during lessons, transitions, sensory overload moments, social fatigue, appetite dips. A balanced view comes from combining home and school signals.Dalza makes this easier: teachers, therapists, and co-parents can see the same context (with your permission), so you’re not rewriting the same story in every meeting. 4. Log First, Decide Later Before making any decision — medication, supplements, or both — capture one to two weeks of simple notes: Dalza keeps these logs, reports, and observations in one secure place, so you’re not piecing things together from memory or multiple apps. 5. Share Only with the Right People Medication and supplement decisions are sensitive. Dalza’s parent-controlled sharing means you choose exactly who sees what — your paediatrician, therapist, teacher, or no one at all. Big decisions feel less daunting when they’re based on patterns, not pressure.With clear logs, shared context, and a connected care team, you can move forward with confidence — whatever path you choose for your child. Dalza is free for 30 days, so you can try it out risk-free. To get started today, simply add your name and email here. 

Rush Extreme Sports

Beyond the Gym: Discover the High-Flying Fitness Benefits of Trampolining

For many South African teenagers, the word “exercise” often conjures images of fluorescent lights and the repetitive hum of a treadmill. While staying active is a top priority, the traditional gym environment doesn’t always ignite the spark of excitement that young adults crave. At Rush South Africa, we are redefining what it means to get fit. Through high-energy play, we offer a vibrant, social, and incredibly effective alternative to the standard workout—one where “takkies” are optional, but fun is guaranteed. A Fresh Perspective on Fitness: Why Movement Should Feel Like Play The teenage years are a critical time for developing a lifelong relationship with physical health. Unfortunately, when exercise feels like a chore or a high-pressure performance—a phenomenon often called “gymtimidation”-it’s easy to lose motivation. In our busy cities like Johannesburg and Cape Town, teens spend hours navigating “robots” on the way to school and sitting at desks. By the time the afternoon rolls around, the last thing the brain wants is more rigid structure. This is where high-energy recreation changes the game. Trampolining removes the “work” from working out by tapping into a natural, instinctive joy. Teen fitness trends 2026 show a massive shift toward “social wellness” and “JOMO” (the Joy of Missing Out) on stressful gym culture in favour of movement that resets the nervous system. Instead of counting down the minutes on a stationary bike, jumpers at Rush are too busy mastering a new tuck-jump or competing in a friendly game of dodgeball to notice they are getting a full-body workout. The Science of the Bounce: NASA-Proven Efficiency It might look like simple fun, but every bounce is a powerhouse for the body. In a landmark study, NASA researchers discovered that “rebounding” is actually the most efficient and effective form of exercise yet devised. They found that for similar levels of heart rate and oxygen uptake, the biomechanical stimuli (the actual work your muscles and bones do) is significantly greater on a trampoline than on a treadmill. Choosing high-energy play over a standard gym circuit offers several unique, science-backed benefits: Master the Air: Elevate Your Skills with Professional Training While the freedom of a freestyle jump is liberating, many teens find they want to take their “flips” to the next level. This is where the transition from recreation to formal training begins. Unlike a gym, where the end goal is often purely aesthetic, our park activities build functional “agility” and “air awareness.” For those looking to turn their weekend energy into a disciplined craft, we offer specialized gymnastics training in Cape Town.  These one on one  ‘flip out’ classes aren’t just about looking “cool” in a Reel; they are about building the cognitive focus, core stability, and discipline required for competitive sport. By mastering technical maneuvers in a safe, foam-padded environment, build a sense of physical competence that translates into psychological confidence. You can explore our structured programs and sign up for a trial session on our Rush Classes page. Jump Into Action: Secure Your March 2026 School Holiday Spot The school year moves fast. According to the official Department of Basic Education 2026 School Calendar, Term 1 is set to conclude on 27 March 2026. This marks the perfect window to break the cycle of academic stress and sedentary habits. Instead of spending the holidays behind a desk or a gaming console, why not master the art of flight? Our holiday passes and special event nights are designed to keep the energy high and the boredom low. For the truly ambitious jumpers who want to mirror the stamina of a pro cyclist, we offer Rush Unlimited,  a promotion is designed specifically for active families who want more than just a quick jump. For just R215, kids can enjoy extended jump time on weekdays, giving them hours of social, screen-free fun.  Ready to fly? Don’t wait until the school holidays begin—our sessions fill up fast! Book your spot now at Rush South Africa and discover why the best way to get fit is to simply start jumping.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Postpartum bleeding – what is normal?

Giving birth to your baby after 9 months can be a relieving, beautiful and exciting experience. Postpartum your body will still be going through adjustments for a while, and as you care for your new baby, you’ll need to remember to take care of yourself as well. Postpartum bleeding, also known as lochia, is normal after both vaginal and c-section births, however, it is best to know what is and isn’t common in post birth bleeding. Normal postpartum bleeding Lochia is similar to menstruation in the way in which it is made up of blood and tissue, it’s just heavier and longer lasting – it should stop between 4 and 6 weeks after giving birth. Initially, your bleeding will be heavy. This first phase of postpartum bleeding is known as lochia rubra and you’ll experience this in the first 3 to 4 days. Bleeding will be red to reddy brown and you may have small clots. In the next few days after birth your lochia will decrease in volume. Lochia serosa lasts 4 to 10 days and during this period your blood will darken in colour and become more watery. Blood clots should get smaller and disappear. Finally you’ll experience lochia alba, which usually lasts about another 1 to 2 weeks, but can be up to 28 days. Discharge will be yellowy white in colour, you may see pinkish or brown stains on some days. There should be no smell other than what you would experience during a normal period – a strong odor can be a sign of an infection. When to reach out to your doctor Even though lochia is normal, if you are bleeding heavily this can indicate that you have a postpartum haemorrhage. If your bleeding is heavy a week after birth, you experience fever or chills, a tender abdomen or foul-smelling discharge, you’ll need to seek medical assistance.

DIBBER SA

Seven NASA-Inspired Activities That Make Space Real for Little Learners

Outer space has a unique way of capturing a child’s imagination – from glittering stars and distant planets to powerful rockets exploring the unknown. Dibber International Preschools encourage parents and caregivers to lean into that curiosity, using simple, hands-on activities that introduce early science concepts in ways young children can understand and enjoy. “Children are naturally wired for wonder,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “When we follow their curiosity and turn big ideas into playful experiences, we’re not only teaching them about space – but we’re also building confidence, problem-solving, language, and a love of learning that lasts.” At Dibber, we use play-based learning to make complex ideas approachable. Space-themed activities support key early learning areas such as fine motor development, collaboration, early maths and sequencing, and cause-and-effect thinking, all while keeping learning joyful and pressure-free. Seven easy, low-cost ideas help teach outer space to children using everyday materials and a spirit of exploration: 1. Build a balloon-powered rocket Using paper, tape, a straw and a balloon, children create a rocket that shoots forward when released. It’s a simple, exciting way to introduce early physics. This activity can elicit cause-and-effect, motion, curiosity, and experimentation. 2. Make planet masks Children choose a planet, decorate it using colours and textures, then become the planet through role-play. This blends creativity with early astronomy knowledge.This can build imagination, confidence, storytelling and most importantly, planet recognition. 3. Explore gravity with a rocket launch activity Through safe, simple demonstrations, such as launching lightweight objects or testing different launch methods. Children begin to grasp that rockets need energy to lift off.This creates observation, early science language and problem-solving in young children. 4. Play a solar system matching game Match planets to pictures, colours, rings, or simple clues. Turn it into a cooperative game with turn-taking and shared discovery.Activities such as this will help the little ones strengthen their memory, sequencing, and cognitive development. 5. Go on a space-themed scavenger hunt Hide stars, planets, astronaut symbols or space words around the home. Children hunt for clues while learning new vocabulary in motion, slowly building language, teamwork, and active learning. 6. Express space through art Invite children to draw galaxies, rockets, moons or imaginary planets. Ask questions about their artwork to deepen understanding and encourage communication. This will enhance their visual thinking, self-expression, creativity and imagination. 7. Learn with interactive space games Puzzles, mazes, and simple mission games help children practice logical thinking and focus while reinforcing spatial concepts and increasing concentration, reasoning, and persistence. Dibber’s approach to early education encourages children to explore big ideas through play, creativity, and gentle guidance. Space-themed learning becomes an opportunity to nurture curiosity, independence, and joy while supporting key foundational skills that help children thrive in later learning. All effort parents make, no matter how small, contributes to this journey and makes a meaningful difference in their child’s educational experience. “Space is a wonderful theme because it invites children to ask questions and imagine possibilities,” adds Ursula. “And when children learn that their questions matter, they develop the confidence to keep exploring – not only the universe, but the world around them

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