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Age restrictions, are they purely suggestions when it comes to social media?

It may feel at times that age restrictions are simply suggestions, however when it comes to the safety of our children online, it’s probably best to pay attention. Age restrictions are in place for a reason, every parent or guardian knows their child best, pushing the limits within reason with your consent. Every parent has the right to decide for their own child. You know your child better than anyone. However, when it comes to social media, you can’t control the world. We’ve all experienced it. Social media can send you to strange and wonderful places. The videos can entertain and memorise you. We’ve all fallen victim to the social media scroll. When it comes to our children, the average age restriction for social media is 13. Legally it is 16 for WhatsApp, a channel frequently used by younger children to communicate. This also happens to be a platform where cyberbullying is gaining momentum. No, we can’t rely on the actual platforms to enforce this at log-in. Although it can be argued that it is their responsibility. This age limit comes from US legislation from 1998 which banned the collection of children’s personal data without parental consent. For many parents, schools and cyber safety experts, this minimum age has become a benchmark. The truth is social media can be toxic. Young children have not yet developed their emotional intelligence to filter out certain content, to read between the lines and to interpret information with a critical eye. Allowing children to access these platforms exposes them to an array of people, places, and situations. All of which you cannot control. The risks are real. The University of Syndey has cited the below to be major risks. Risks include being exposed to online bullying and harassment. They can be exposed to misinformation and inappropriate content. Master manipulators can set into gear their sexual grooming. Youngsters are the most vulnerable to privacy breaches. Children enjoy the freedom that social sites give them, making them feel older than they are, this leads to excessive use, leading to addictive tendencies. Academic studies claim there are links between social media and poor mental health and low self-esteem. Despite there being no correlation between excessive social media use and poor self-esteem, we cannot ascertain a direct causation. It’s important to note that should a young person already experience low self-esteem and depression they will tend to use social media significantly more than others. Emotional intelligence Emotional intelligence is not the ability to understand the difference between happy or sad, like or angry! It’s the ability to manage both your own emotions and understand the emotions of people around you. There are five key elements to consider before you ignore that age restriction: Self-awareness Self-regulation Motivation Empathy Social skills Every year we see significant changes to our children’s behaviour, and in the blink of an eye, we start to notice a big change that has happened in front of our eyes. Let’s give them the time they need to be kids. We’re not saying social media is all bad, it’s a great place to deepen relationships, learn and grow and can be used for positive reinforcement offering great well-being insights and motivation. We’re saying, our children should explore this space when they are ready and equipped to face this world. Refer: https://www.kubbco.com/blog/13-positive-effects-of-social-media-on-our-society-today https://www.facebook.com/share/p/eCCSreSzMCsd8758/?mibextid=2JQ9oc https://www.sydney.edu.au/news-opinion/news/2023/02/10/is-13-too-young-to-have-a-tiktok-or-instagram-account-.html#:~:text=This%20minimum%20age%20requirement%20stems,become%20something%20of%20a%20benchmark.

March 27, 2024

HOW TO KEEP A RECORD OF YOUR BREASTFEEDING

Keeping a record of your breastfeeding may seem a little time consuming. Not only do you need to feed your baby, but then document the entire process as well! However, there is huge merit to the art of keeping a successful breastfeeding log book. Believe it or not, a record of your feeds holds many, helpful secrets for you. The most important one being you will be able to track your little one’s over all health progression. Within this article, we will highlight what metrics you should be keeping track of, and how they will benefit you and your baby in the long run. Read on below now and get acquainted with the art of keeping a record of your breastfeeding and unlock the secrets it holds for you today. Why You Need To Record Your Breastfeeding As a parent, any information you can keep on your child’s development is pure gold. This is where a breastfeeding log book comes in incredibly handy. Within its pages you will be able to document vital statistics of your baby’s feeding habits. These will help you recognize any problems, should they arise, as you will be familiar with your child’s eating habits. Furthermore, a breastfeeding record wont only help you, but others who may eventually become responsible for your child as well. When you eventually return to work, this log book will be able to provide either your nanny or day care centre with crucial information on your baby’s eating habits. They will know roughly when to feed your little one, how much to feed them and knowing how many times they should change your child throughout the day. Criteria To Document In Your Breastfeed Record Here are the top five criteria you should be keeping track of when you begin to record your breastfeeding patterns: #1: How Often Your Child Feeds Keeping a record of feeding frequency helps you in two areas: you will know how often your baby feeds throughout the day. You will also be able to start creating a feeding schedule off of this data. Knowing how much your baby feeds will give you a good indication as to how much milk you will need to have available. Your body is a wonderful thing. During your breastfeeding journey, it should produce the exact right amounts of milk for your little one to feed comfortably. However, keeping a breastfeeding log book will help you understand how much milk you should express and store for times you may not be around to feed your baby. **Top Tip: remember, your breast milk can be frozen without compromising its nutritional value. It can then be used at a later stage. Another wonderful thing about keeping track of feeding habits is that you will begin to be able to build a feeding schedule. You will know exactly when your little one begins to get niggly and be able to swiftly go into feeding mode! Having a schedule will also help you plan your own life. You will be able to schedule event and outings around that precious tie with your baby. As mentioned above, you will also be able to provide other care takers with useful information on when your child should be fed throughout the day. #2: How Long Your Baby Feeds For Knowing how long your little one feeds for is another snippet of useful information. It will help you establish how many minutes need to set aside per feed. You will also be able to track how many minutes is spent on either breast. Once again, this will help you establish an accurate feeding schedule. It will also help you familiarise yourself with how long you should be pumping each breast when you begin to express your milk when going back to the office. #3: When Nature Calls In your feeding log book, you should also track how many soiled nappies your baby produces throughout the day. This is incredible information to have because should your child become ill, and either produce too many or too few soiled nappies, you will be able to pick up on it immediately. Monitor both the wet nappies, as well as the dirty ones. This will allow you to keep track of your child’s digestive health on an ongoing basis. #4: The Weigh In Make a note to also keep track of your baby’s weight within your feeding records. The general rule of thumb stipulates that within the first two week’s of your baby’s life, they should be weighed every five days. Between two weeks to six months, you should weigh your baby once a month. Don’t weigh your baby at home. Rather, take him or her to your doctor and get accurate results! Keeping track of your baby’s weight gain (or loss) will allow you to monitor their growth. Should their weight fluctuate dramatically from one month to the next, you will be able to notice it instantly, and seek the correct help going forward. #5: How Do You Feel Another important metric to take note of is how you feel post feeding. Particularly, monitor how each of your breasts feel after this time. Should one feel particularly full, you will know you need to express that one after each feed. In the same right, should both still feel full, you will know to express both. By doing this, you will also be able to keep track of what feels normal and what doesn’t for you. Should your breasts begin to feel different, keep track of these changes and consult your doctor about them. How To Keep A Record Of Your Breastfeeding Cycles Documenting your breastfeeds sounds simple enough. And truth be told, it is. As such, there is no reason you should be tracking your breastfeeding cycles. You can keep track of your feeds in the following ways: Write them into a note book Make digital notes on your phone Keep a record in a feeding log book We find it

March 26, 2024

Cadbury is back with another fun-filled Easter adventure for Mzansi

Easter is a season of fun, togetherness, and giving. In true Cadbury style, Mzansi’s most generous chocolate, is once again encouraging you to embrace the magical tradition of hiding your favourite Easter treats with love. The Cadbury Easter range is choc-full of fun for the whole family (and all the choc-enthusiasts too)! Spoil loved ones with Cadbury’s wide range of delicious treats to make your Easter celebrations egg-stra special. Featuring the new Cadbury Dairy Milk Hot Cross Bun slab, with chunks of crunchy cinnamon and raisins to and the popular favourite Cadbury Dairy Milk Top Deck Bunnies slab. There are crunchy choc-filled Cadbury mini eggs, tasty Cadbury Creme Eggs, filled with a creamy fondant center, and a decadent new addition to the range, Cadbury Caramel Eggs with a golden gooey center, available in packs of 5 and 3 respectively so there’s more to share (with love) this Easter. Immerse yourself in an egg-citing Easter adventure when you join the Cadbury Hide Them With Love Mzansi* virtual experience. Celebrate the spirit of generosity by finding that perfect virtual hiding spot, across the country’s most iconic landmarks, to hide a special egg for a friend or loved one to find. Guided by Cadbury’s Easter Icon – Fluffy. Expect fun, mystery and the chance to win exciting rewards including vouchers from Uber Eats, Takealot, Superbalist, Flight Centre travel vouchers valued at R20,000.00, and airtime. Great surprises await simply visit cadbury.co.za and follow the simple steps. Step 1: choose your world: explore a map of Mzansi, featuring four vibrant, magical worlds – Cape Town, Gauteng, Gqeberha and Durban. Each world has its own special appeal, find a spot that resonates with you and a special someone. Step 2: Hide your egg: once you have picked your world, it’s time to hide your egg. Explore unique landmarks that catch your eye and let Fluffy guide you to the ideal one. Step 3: Send a clue: get creative and send a clever, heartfelt clue to guide friends and family to your hidden egg. You can also use clues Fluffy has already written and customsie these as you like. Step 4: Win and share: Hiders and finders both stand to win! The more eggs hidden and found the more chances to win! “The 360-degree digital playground was designed to bring the colourful splendour of our nation to life through an immersive experience that allows you to peek behind corners and switch into auto-pan mode to look around and find the perfect hiding spots. It’s the perfect way to celebrate the ritual of hiding Cadbury easter eggs with love this season,” says Lara Sidersky, Mondelez SA Category Lead for Chocolate. Mzansi’s chocolate lovers can follow the #CadburyMzansiHide conversation on www.cadbury.co.za or Instagram and Twitter @cadbury_sa and Facebook@CadburyDairyMilk Perfect for you to hide at home – the Cadbury Easter range is available at major e-tailers including Checkers Sixty60, Pick n Pay ASAP and SPAR2U and participating retailers near you. *T&Cs apply.

March 21, 2024

The Surprising Benefits of Extra Lessons

Nelson Mandela once said “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world”. Education is not only developed through the amount of words on a page or number of pages in a book; but also through one’s confidence in their ability to learn. In the fast-paced and competitive world of education, parents are constantly seeking ways to provide their children with a competitive edge. One avenue that has gained increasing popularity is enrolling children in extra lessons outside of regular school hours. These supplementary classes, whether in subjects like math, science or language arts can have a profound impact on a child’s academic success and overall development. In this article, we will explore the myriad of benefits that extra lessons offer to school children and why parents might consider incorporating them into their children’s educational journey. Extra lessons help build the foundation of a child’s confidence – children feel more valued as their time is spent with a smaller student-tutor ratio. Extra lessons provide additional support in homework, test preparation, additional reviews as well as a stronger drive for the child to perform his/her very best. The confidence experienced is indispensable for the child, and the success of each child is focused on without distraction. Extra lessons can help to save time and effort, especially in busy homes where parents have limited time to help their children with schoolwork. As private tuition generally takes place in a quite area or even at home, students feel that they have a safe environment for open discussion, they will be more willing to ask questions with confidence and will experience a freedom of speaking out. Extra lessons allow for teaching through innovative methods and tutors are more than willing to experiment with new teaching styles that work more effectively for their individual students. Personalised lesson plans One of the key advantages of extra lessons is the opportunity for personalised lessons which create a learning experience tailored to your child’s individual needs. In a traditional classroom setting, teachers are faced with the challenge of accommodating a diverse range of students learning styles, needs and work pace. In contrast, extra lessons are either done in small groups, or individually, which allows tutors to adapt their teaching methods to suit the individual child’s needs. This individualised attention helps children to grasp challenging concepts more easily which in turn builds a solid foundation for future learning to take place. Improved study techniques Tutors build good relationships with the students they teach. This enables the tutors to understand how each child learns best. They have the time and capacity to guide their students in the best study techniques. Most tutors are equipped with knowledge, skills and resources to bolster a child’s study techniques. Learning this lifelong skill effectively has a lasting impact on a child’s education. Increased self confidence Confidence is a cornerstone of academic success. Sadly, many children struggle with feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt, particularly in subjects they find difficult. Extra lessons offer a safe and supportive environment for children to tackle their weaknesses head-on, free from peer judgement or time constraints. Success breeds confidence! As students grasp difficult concepts and see improvement in their academic performance, they gain a sense of accomplishment. This newfound confidence often extends beyond the classroom, positively influencing other aspects of their lives. A confident child is more likely to actively participate in class, ask questions and approach challenges with a positive mindset. Improved academic results The most obvious benefit of extra lessons is the positive impact they have on a child’s academic performance. Whether a child is struggling with a specific subject, or aiming to excel in a particular are, the additional instruction outside of the classroom can help to make a significant difference. The focused and targeted approach of extra lessons helps to reinforce core concepts, fill gaps in knowledge and provide additional practice, all of which contribute to improved results and a better understanding of subject content. Increased responsibility Enrolling in extra lessons requires a commitment of time and effort, which fosters valuable skills such as time management and discipline. Children learn to balance the demands of school work, co-curricular activities and extra lessons, which develops important life skills that will serve them well in the future. The structured nature of extra lessons creates a sense of responsibility and helps children understand the importance of setting goals, managing their time and staying organised. Increased determination to succeed In the age of digital distractions and instant gratification, cultivating a genuine passion for learning has never been more critical. Extra lessons have the power to reignite this spark by infusing subjects with creativity, enthusiasm, and real-world relevance. Extra lessons prioritise meaningful engagement, employ interactive activities, hands-on experiments, and interdisciplinary approaches to captivate young minds. By instilling a love for learning from an early age, extra lessons lay the groundwork for a lifelong journey of curiosity, exploration, and intellectual fulfilment. A safe space to ask questions Every child is unique, with their own strengths, weaknesses, and learning styles. Extra lessons recognize this individuality and offer tailored support to address each child’s specific needs. Whether it’s providing additional practice exercises, adapting teaching methodologies, or offering one-on-one guidance, tutors can personalize the learning experience to maximize each child’s potential. This personalized approach extends beyond academic pursuits, fostering holistic development by nurturing essential skills such as critical thinking, problem-solving, and effective communication. By catering to the diverse needs of every learner, extra lessons unlock a world of opportunities for personal growth and development. In the modern educational landscape, the quest for academic excellence is a journey that both parents and children embark upon together. As parents, we constantly seek avenues to enhance our children’s learning experiences and equip them with the tools they need to thrive in an increasingly competitive world. By harnessing the power of supplementary learning, we empower our children to unlock their full potential and embark on a journey of lifelong learning and achievement.

March 7, 2024

Cottage Schools and Learning Centres

We would like to welcome all Cottage Schools and Learning Centres, Tutoring Centres, and Private Schools to partner with us for a full schooling solution. Or if you’re a teacher looking for a new educational adventure, why not join our team and start your learning centre? Our Fees: Once off-Centre Registration Fee: R1500 Marketing Material & all Training included. Preschool – Grade 8: R450/student package. American High School Diploma, Grade 9 – 12: R1800 GED: R500/student package (Includes digital course, PDF Study Guide, 1 for each subject, lots of bonus material, Mock Exams) You are most welcome to sign up all your students for our FREE Trial Period (Placement Test included) You may do so here: https://www.educ8sa.net/sign-up/ The following components are also included in our package: Digital Literacy, Core Subjects, and Career Studies. So, tell us a bit more about what you offer. Our program is offered in English. We offer a full curriculum solution based on our American curriculum. Students may log in 24/7/365. Parents can log in at any time to view their child’s progress from the parent portal. Our students work at their proficiency level and their own pace. This makes our program the ideal solution for special needs and exceptional students who need to be challenged. Our Student Managers are on duty from 8 am to 4 pm and are always available to help should a student contact them via their messenger for assistance. These are just some of the fantastic features our program has to offer. Do you offer teacher support? Teacher Support: We are making the teacher’s life easier. Simple to use and easy to learn. We immediately help with saving time for teachers, as we know they can get busy. For example, students automatically begin fixing missing skills from the automatic placement test. In other words, teachers see progress reports without even having to assign a lesson. Even better, the built-in motivation tools and rewards keep students eager to learn more without the teacher’s intervention. We are also proud to announce our 2022 EdTech Breakthrough Award, we were named Classroom Management Solution Provider Of The Year. Our program automatically allows you to monitor students’ progress in real time; this makes it possible to know exactly how each student is progressing. Analyze data for all standards in the common core by student, class, school, and district. The IEP (Individualized Education Program) Our program simplifies the IEP process by allowing you to set student goals that are automatically updated as students progress, saving you hundreds of hours of reporting. What other Support do you offer? Parent Support: Parents can log in anytime to view their child’s progress from the parent portal. Our students work on their proficiency level and at their own pace. This feature makes our program ideal for special needs students and exceptional students who need a challenge. Student Support: Our Student Managers are on duty from 8 am to 4 pm and are always available to help should a student contact them via their messenger for assistance. Assessments & Exams: We prefer the continuous assessment approach; therefore, our students in grades K – 8 do not write exams. For our high school students, exams will depend on their chosen matric option. These are just some of the fantastic features our program has to offer! What is the Registration Process for signing up? Registration Process: 1. Complete our online form https://www.educ8sa.net/sign-up/. Your 14-day FREE trial period starts here! 2. Login, then complete the Placement Test. 3. Notify us once all Placement Tests have been completed. 4. You will receive the results of the Placement Test by email. 5. You will be requested to schedule a Zoom meeting with us to discuss the Placement Test results. 6. We then set up your child’s personalized learning plan. 7. Then Students may start with their lessons. 8. We then invoice you should you wish to sign up! Term Dates & Holidays: Centre Students will follow their term dates. Virtual Students may decide when they take breaks. It’s up to every parent. Our Accreditation: All our courses are accredited and listed on the SAQA website and accepted by our universities and Colleges. Admission Requirements apply. Our accreditation bodies are WASC and the US Council on Education. What you need to start: Internet connection, a device with earphones. Contact us at: 084 685 2138 [email protected] www.educ8sa.com

March 6, 2024

Digital Safety: developing healthy digital habits at a young age

Digital is a fundamental part of our everyday lives including the lives of primary school children. It has become an extension of ways of learning and creativity; however, it also presents risks such as cyberbullying, sexual extortion and risks to privacy. According to the Unicef SA Kids Online Study, 95% of children in South Africa use the internet regularly but are not aware of these risks and how to handle them. An even more shocking 70% of children do not share what they are exposed to. Social Kids South Africa is a programme dedicated to guide and protect children under 11 years old as they navigate the online world. This digital adventure is essential training that children need to ensure they know what information they should share online, how to protect their privacy, understand how an algorithm works and how to deal with cyberbullies. They learn good manners online and how to spot fake news and ensure the site they are on is secure. “The reality is children are being exposed to the digital world from a young age. But what are we doing to show them the right way to surf the net, know their rights and how to handle situations they may find themselves in? We can monitor their online behaviour and try being online 24/ 7 but ensuring a child is aware of the threats, comfortable to communicate and empowered with knowledge, the more likely they are to steer away from dangerous situations”, says Cheryl Barnett, Co-founder of Social Kids ZA. Building digital literacy at a young age empowers your child with the right tools and knowledge to help them when they are older and in the infamous teenage years. Rather than letting your child learn from their peers or through trial and error, Social Kids mascot, Codey Crawler shows children how to be safe when they go online and to think before they click. If your child is playing games on the phone or watching YouTube, they are vulnerable to master manipulators online. The program has 5 adventure levels, each ending in an activity that must be submitted to earn a digital badge. Codey Crawler and his bestie Miss Nadie take little adventurers on a journey with the purpose to upskill them via fun and age-appropriate pre-recorded lessons. Adventure level 1– the adventure begins with the dos and don’ts of digital safety. Children are taught about their digital fingerprint and the trial they leave online. Adventure level 2– teaches the little adventurer what cyberbullying is, how to navigate and stop it by sharing with their circle of trust. This adventure level teaches them to safeguard their information and understand what details are safe to share. Adventure level 3– in this lesson, Codey and Miss Nadie focus on how to spot fake stories, the importance of asking questions and how to fact-check and always ask permission from parents before sharing. Adventure level 4– Codey describes online manners, what certain messages and symbols on the internet mean and how to interpret them. He goes into detail on how to play games safely and when to show your true colours or when not to! Adventure level 5– The last level, Codey reinforces the main topics covered to ensure the brave adventurers can confidently connect with the world. It ensures they understand the dangers that could be out there and highlights the positives that the digital world has to offer. Parents have access to in-depth parent guides; these were created to add value to parents. Showing them step by step how to protect their privacy, educating them on the best ways to set boundaries from a young age and improving their relationships as they grow and learn online. The program can be taken together or via a Jump in- Jump out online class with Miss Nadie in the afternoons, every weekday. Social Kids is a great resource to future proof your kids against online dangers. Not only does it educate them, it also provides parent guides to help set boundaries in place. I found the course useful because it opened up conversations with my son about online bullies and how he would handle them. Creating a safe family space (which Cody teaches us are people we can trust) is a good grounding for kids for that online world out there. Heather Step https://samomblogs.co.za/ Cheryl and Bryan Barnett developed this program to protect their son, “We have seen how fast this digital world is changing and how our children are being exposed to this world, with little to no guidance. The focus only comes into place after they are well into their teens, the bad habits have already been formed. Hence our focus is on the younger generation.” Join Codey Crawler and his friends, for a once-off price of R 425 to access all 5 adventures and parental guides. (Normal price R500)

March 6, 2024

Benefits of Including STEM into the Classroom

In today’s rapidly evolving world, the integration of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics (STEM) education into the classroom has emerged as a crucial component of modern pedagogy. This article explores the myriad benefits of incorporating STEM disciplines into the educational curriculum, highlighting the transformative impact it has on students’ academic development and future prospects. Fostering Critical Thinking Skills STEM education serves as a catalyst for nurturing critical thinking skills essential for navigating the complexities of the 21st century. Through hands-on experimentation and problem-based learning, students are challenged to analyze, evaluate, and synthesize information, fostering a deep understanding of core concepts while honing their analytical prowess. By engaging in STEM activities, students are encouraged to think outside the box, fostering creativity and innovation that are indispensable in an increasingly dynamic world. Preparing Students for Future Careers The integration of STEM education in the classroom is not merely about imparting knowledge; it is about preparing students for the demands of the future workforce. In an era defined by technological advancement and digital transformation, proficiency in STEM fields has become a prerequisite for success in a wide range of career paths. By equipping students with STEM skills, educators empower them to pursue diverse opportunities in fields such as engineering, computer science, healthcare, and renewable energy, ensuring they are well-positioned to thrive in the ever-evolving job market. Encouraging Collaboration and Teamwork STEM education transcends individual achievement, emphasizing the importance of collaboration and teamwork in problem-solving. Through collaborative projects and group activities, students learn to communicate effectively, leverage collective expertise, and navigate diverse perspectives to achieve common goals. By fostering a collaborative learning environment, STEM education cultivates essential interpersonal skills that are invaluable in both academic and professional settings, laying the foundation for future success. Addressing Real-World Challenges One of the most compelling aspects of STEM education is its emphasis on addressing real-world challenges. From environmental sustainability to healthcare innovation, STEM disciplines provide students with the tools and knowledge to tackle pressing societal issues. By engaging in hands-on projects that simulate real-world scenarios, students develop a deeper understanding of the relevance and applicability of STEM concepts, empowering them to become agents of positive change in their communities and beyond. Enhancing Technological Literacy In an increasingly digital-centric world, technological literacy has become a prerequisite for active participation in society. STEM education plays a pivotal role in enhancing students’ technological literacy by exposing them to cutting-edge technologies, software applications, and coding languages. By equipping students with essential digital skills, STEM education empowers them to navigate the complexities of the digital landscape with confidence, opening doors to a myriad of opportunities in the digital economy. Promoting Diversity and Inclusion In the pursuit of STEM excellence, fostering diversity and inclusion is paramount. STEM education initiatives strive to create an inclusive learning environment that celebrates diversity of thought, background, and experience. By promoting equity and access to STEM education for all students, regardless of gender, race, or socioeconomic status, educators cultivate a diverse pipeline of future STEM professionals who bring unique perspectives and insights to the table, driving innovation and progress in STEM fields. The integration of STEM education into the classroom heralds a new era of learning characterized by innovation, collaboration, and opportunity. By harnessing the power of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics, educators empower students to develop critical thinking skills, pursue diverse career paths, and address real-world challenges with confidence and ingenuity. As we chart a course towards a future defined by technological advancement and societal transformation, embracing STEM education is not just a choice—it is a necessity for unlocking the full potential of our students and shaping a brighter tomorrow.

March 5, 2024

Developing Crucial COMPREHENSION Skills – Bedtime Story Edition

The Primary Goal of Primary School Jimmy sat on the edge of the playground. He looked at the other children playing on the swings while eating his lunch alone. Question 1: Where did Jimmy sit? Answer: He sat on the edge of the playground. Question 2: Why do you think Jimmy sat alone? Answer: He sat alone. Teachers read answers such as these all the time, too many times and realise that the harvest is big and the labourers few. Over the last few years, we have been bombarded with depressing statistics of the decreasing reading levels of school-going children and university students. This leads one to ask the question why we are facing the situation despite an updated curriculum, teachers’ efforts and parents spending hours doing homework at home. Unfortunately, analysing the situation will not lead to a solution, but forces us to think of what should be done. Simply put, children cannot read or can read and have no idea what they read. Reading with insight and reading “between the lines” have become a skill that only a handful of children can apply. We don’t have to dig deep to find the reason for this phenomenon but thank your “digital nannies” for keeping our children occupied. Parents should not underestimate the value of good old-fashioned bedtime stories. However, simply reading bedtime stories is not enough. Children need to interact with stories and parents can use story time as an opportunity to develop comprehension skills. At the beginning of a story, ask the following questions: Look at the cover and tell me what you think the story is about. What characters will be in the story? While reading, it is important to ensure that the child follows the story, understands the words, and can make predictions about what could happen next. Ask leading questions, such as: What does this word mean? What do you think the boy or girl felt like when that happened? What would you have done if you were in his shoes? Why do you think the character said that? How can the character solve this problem? Ask follow-up questions after your child has answered a question, such as: What makes you think that? What do you think would have happened if the wolf did not eat Grandma? When you turn to the next page, you can ask: What do you see in the picture? What do you think will happen next? Reading with understanding is not only beneficial for developing reading comprehension skills, but also helps a child in other subject areas. Parents often say that their children can do Mathematics, but just struggle with word problems, without realising that reading comprehension skills form the basis of solving word problems. Content-based subjects, such as Science, also rely on extracting important facts, making connections, and making inferences. “Fluit-fluit, my storie is uit!” Chrizelle Prinsloo is the owner of Kip McGrath Education Centres, Walmer. She has a background in psychology and has taught in mainstream and special-needs schools both locally and abroad. Chrizelle is passionate about helping children gain confidence in their own abilities and about finding different ways to help them learn.

February 27, 2024

Securing the Future: A Step-by-Step Guide to Joining CryoSave’s Family with Stem Cell Banking

In the ever-evolving landscape of medical advancements, securing the future health of your family has become more accessible than ever. CryoSave, a leading name in stem cell preservation, offers a comprehensive and streamlined process for parents looking to safeguard their child’s health through the preservation of umbilical cord blood and tissue. Let’s take a closer look at what happens when you decide to join CryoSave. Beginning the Journey: Registration Online: To initiate the process, prospective parents can register online through CryoSave’s user-friendly digital application form available on their website, www.cryosave.co.za. This straightforward step sets the foundation for the journey ahead. Delivery of Collection Kit: Once registered, arrangements are swiftly made to deliver the CryoSave collection kit to your doorstep. This kit contains everything necessary for the collection process, ensuring that you, your midwife, or doctor are well-equipped for the upcoming birth. Bringing the Kit to the Hospital: An essential reminder for expectant parents is to take the collection kit with them to the hospital when the time comes for the birth. This proactive step ensures a seamless transition to the collection process. The Collection Process: Risk-Free and Painless: One of the key benefits of CryoSave’s process is that the collection is entirely risk-free and painless for both the mother and the baby. This is a crucial aspect that prioritizes the well-being of all involved. Immediate Collection Post-Birth: After the birth, the collection is performed promptly by your doctor or midwife. A small section of the umbilical cord (approximately 20cm) and 150ml of blood are collected, securing valuable stem cells for future use. Ensuring Completion: Before concluding the collection process, it is vital to ensure that maternal blood samples are collected, all necessary documents are filled out, and everything is packed correctly. This meticulous attention to detail guarantees the integrity of the collected samples. After the Birth: Initiating Contact with CryoSave: With the collection completed, the next step is to contact CryoSave. A seamless communication process is established, marking the beginning of the post-collection phase. Specialized Courier Service: CryoSave takes care of logistics by sending a specialized courier to collect the kit. This courier is entrusted with the safe and timely transport of the samples to CryoSave’s state-of-the-art laboratory for processing and storage. Processing and Storage: Confirmation and Certificate: Once safely delivered to the CryoSave laboratory, parents receive a confirmatory email and certificate. This communication serves as tangible evidence that their baby’s stem cells are securely stored in a liquid nitrogen tank within CryoSave’s highly secured facility. Long-Term Cryo-Preservation: CryoSave South Africa commits to cryo-preserving your baby’s cord and tissue stem cells for a minimum of 20 years, offering peace of mind and a long-term investment in your family’s health and well-being. In the journey with CryoSave, each step is thoughtfully designed to prioritize the safety, comfort, and future health of your family. By seamlessly integrating cutting-edge technology with compassionate care, CryoSave stands as a reliable partner in securing the potential health benefits locked within your baby’s stem cells. For more information on our processes and facilities, visit the CryoSave website and feel free to contact us for an obligation free personalised quote.

February 20, 2024

Helping Teens Avoid Sextortion Scams

Takeaways: Meta has worked with the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) to expand Take It Down to more countries and languages, allowing millions more teens to take control of their intimate imagery. Meta has also partnered with Thorn to update our Stop Sextortion hub, offering new tips and resources for teens, parents and teachers on how to prevent and handle sextortion. Meta is supporting safety organizations and creators around the world to help raise awareness of sextortion scams and what teens and parents can do to take back control. Having a personal intimate image shared with others can be devastating, especially for young people. It can feel even worse when someone threatens to share it if you don’t give them more photos, sexual contact or money — a crime known as sextortion. That’s why, this Safer Internet Day, we’re announcing new efforts to help combat this kind of criminal activity. These include giving more teens control over their intimate images, helping teens — and their parents and teachers — feel better equipped against those trying to exploit them, and supporting creators and safety organizations around the world as part of a global campaign to raise awareness of sextortion. Expanding Take It Down to More Languages and Countries Take It Down is a program from NCMEC, supported by Meta, which is designed to help teens take back control of their intimate images and help prevent people — whether it’s scammers, ex-partners, or anyone else — from spreading them online. First launched last year in English and Spanish, Meta and NCMEC are now expanding the platform to many more countries and languages, making it accessible to millions more teens around the world. There are several ways people can use Take It Down to find and remove intimate imagery, or help prevent people sharing them in the first place: Young people under 18 who are worried their content has been, or may be, posted online Parents or trusted adults on behalf of a young person Adults who are concerned about images taken of them when they were under 18 Take It Down was designed to respect young people’s privacy and data security. To start the process, people can go to TakeItDown.NCMEC.org and follow the instructions to assign a unique hash — a digital fingerprint in the form of a numerical code — to their image or video, privately and securely from their own device. Teens only need to submit the hash, rather than the intimate image or video itself, which never leaves their device. Once the hash has been submitted to NCMEC, companies like Meta can find copies of the image, take them down and help prevent anyone who’s threatening them from posting them in the future. “Making Take it Down available in 25 languages is a pivotal step towards safeguarding children from the horrors of online exploitation all over the world,” said John Shehan, a Senior Vice President with the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. “We aspire to ensure that every child, regardless of language or location, has the opportunity to reclaim their dignity and privacy by having their illicit content removed from participating platforms.” Take It Down builds off of the success of platforms like StopNCII, which helps prevent those seeking to exploit people from sharing adults’ intimate images online. New Resources for Teens, Parents and Teachers to Help Prevent Sextortion These moments can be upsetting and isolating, especially for young people, who may feel too scared to ask for help. That’s why we’ve worked with Thorn, a nonprofit that builds technology to defend children from sexual abuse, to develop updated guidance for teens on how to take back control if someone is sextorting them. It also includes advice for parents and teachers on how to support their teens or students if they’re affected by these scams. The new resources can be found in our updated Sextortion hub within Meta’s Safety Center. Kelbi Schnabel, Senior Manager at Thorn, said: “Our work with Meta to provide targeted, robust sextortion resources has helped Thorn significantly enhance our efforts in combating sextortion. Our joint initiative is already empowering parents and teens to understand the risks and take action, which is a testament to the power of collaborative action in tackling complex challenges like sextortion. The result of our collaboration underscores the importance of accessible, comprehensive resources in the digital era.” To help make sure teens and parents everywhere know about these scammers and what they can do to avoid them, Meta is launching a global campaign, supporting safety organizations and working with incredible creators around the world to help raise awareness. Our Work to Help Protect Teens From Sextortion On Our Apps Today’s updates build on the work we already do to help young people know there are steps they can take if someone has shared, or is threatening to share, their intimate images. We show Safety Notices to people on Instagram when they’re messaging someone who has shown potentially scammy or suspicious behavior. These Safety Notices urge people to be cautious, encourage them to report any account that threatens to share their private images, and remind them that they can say no to anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. We also direct teens to Take It Down at relevant moments when using Facebook and Instagram, such as if they report someone for sharing their private images, for nudity, or for sexual exploitation. And we work to help protect teens from unwanted contact in the first place. We default teens under 16 (and under 18 in certain countries) into private Instagram accounts when they sign up, which hides their follower and following lists, and we restrict adults over 19 from messaging minors who don’t follow them. Last month, we announced stricter default message settings, meaning teens under 16 (and under 18 in certain countries) won’t receive messages from anyone they don’t follow or aren’t already connected to, providing more protection against potential scammers.

February 7, 2024

How Impaq helps you work through the CAPS curriculum

Whether you are a homeschooling veteran or a nervous newcomer, looking at all the content you need to cover can be overwhelming. Luckily, Impaq makes working through the CAPS curriculum easy! All you have to do is pick a grade, complete your registration, and you’ll be provided with everything you need to complete the year at home (and have some fun along the way). Here’s how we help you make learning at home a breeze. Read more here: From CAPS to Cambridge and everything in between Planning for the year ahead Dale Carnegie knew a thing or two about planning for success as he famously said: “An hour of planning can save you 10 hours of doing”. And by now, you might be wondering how many hours you need to spend planning for the year ahead to save time down the road. The answer? Almost none. With Impaq Homeschooling, the planning is already done for you. We provide carefully crafted lesson plans that tell you exactly how much time you need to spend on each subject, and how to integrate the lesson plans with the learner material. The curriculum is broken down into bite-sized bits to help you and your child know exactly what to focus on during each term. Lesson plans, along with weekly calendars and additional resources are available on the Optimi Learning Portal (OLP). CAPS made easy As a homeschool parent, the CAPS curriculum can seem content-heavy, and you might be wondering what to focus on. As of 2024, Impaq will be providing our learners with a framework of what to concentrate on for each subject. We have organised the content to make it easier for homeschool parents to work through the curriculum challenges and ensure that their child masters the basic concepts. All these resources can be found on OLP. All the support you need As a homeschooling parent, you will receive your very own facilitator’s guides to help you teach your child at home. These detailed guides accompany the lesson material your child receives and give you step-by-step guidance to set your child up for success. Prepping for tests and examinations is also made easy as you can find suggested timetables for Grades 4 to 9 on OLP. You can then decide whether to stick to these timetables or to create your own. Grade 10 to 12 learners write tests and exams according to a strict timetable If you find yourself needing some additional support, especially in certain subject areas such as Mathematics and Physical Sciences, you can reach out to our team of education specialists. They are always happy to assist and support parents with any academic queries. You can also find the answers to most of your homeschooling questions on our client helpdesk. Enjoy online resources The Optimi Learning Portal (OLP) serves as our learning hub and contains a treasure trove of digital resources. Along with the lesson material your child receives, they can find additional resources per subject on OLP, including educational videos, quizzes, previous examination papers, helpful notes and much more. Learners can also easily access both live and pre-recorded subject guidance sessions on OLP. These sessions focus on providing guidance on how to complete specific assessments, revision for more difficult concepts, as well as enrichment lessons. Track your child’s progress Tracking your child’s progress is as easy as logging in to OLP. With the click of a button, you will be able to see which lessons your child has completed (marked in green) and which lessons they still need to complete (marked in red). You will also be able to capture the marks for their tasks, tests, and examinations (depending on their grade) and generate report cards. The advantage of keeping track of your child’s progress is that you can easily see which subjects or topics they need a bit more help with. This individualised attention ensures that your child fully grasps the concepts before moving on to more advanced topics. A fun adventure Now that the planning is done, the content is sorted, and you have access to additional support, you can spend your time on making learning fun. With everything laid out for you, you’ll have more time to focus on your child and plan exciting excursions and activities. If you find you have some extra time or your child is especially interested in a certain subject or topic, why not incorporate it into your daily lessons? Learn a new language like isiZulu, take up a new hobby such as robotics, learn how to develop successful study habits or take your learner on a virtual adventure through the African bush. Also read: Say yebo to isiZulu! The benefits of multilingualism Register today With Impaq as your guide, homeschooling has never been easier. Ready to get started? Register online or send an email to [email protected]

February 2, 2024

The GED learning path

What topic will we be covering today? We will be discussing the GED learning path through Educ8 SA. A Grade 12 alternative Recognised by SAQA (NQF 4) Flexible Affordable Self-Paced Free Placement Test Affordable Fees: Monthly subscription of R500 Package includes: Digital Lessons PDF Study Guides Bonus material and links Study tips and tricks Typing Course Students work at their own pace and schedule exams once our pre-readiness test has found students to be exam-ready. Exams are written at any Boston College nearest to your location. Exam Fees: $80 / subject Due at the time of booking Give us more information about the GED course offered The GED is a high school Grade 12 equivalency credential. Let’s give you some background…in the 1940 veterans returning to the USA after World War 2 needed to obtain academic credentials to get civilian jobs and gain access to tertiary education or training. The GED test was developed for this purpose, similar to an adult matric. It has subsequently been written by more than 17 million students in the USA and around the world, including South Africa! What subjects does GED test? The GED Test consists of four subjects which you can write on different days: Reasoning through Language Arts 150 minutes (including 10-minute breaks) Mathematical Reasoning Is GED recognised in South Africa? When you research GED you will see that many different institutions accept them widely in South Africa but also abroad, if this is the route you are looking at going. So please make contact with Educ8 SA to discuss all your GED questions. We are happy to assist. Contact Us Today! 084 685 2138 [email protected] www.educ8sa.com

January 23, 2024

Have you asked your child: ‘What’s the worst thing you have seen online?’

Devices, always connected to the internet, play a significant role in the childhood of our youngest generations. There’s so much that is good in this, and so much also that is an outright threat to their mental and emotional well-being. You might think that the worst of this is cyberbullying or exposure to pornography, but unfortunately, the internet is also awash in violent and gory, cruel and upsetting content. Many parents don’t grasp or fully consider the vastness of internet content, some of it specifically linked to children’s interests. A shocking example of this was brought to light in the latest episode of the FYI play it safe podcast, Sip the Tea. A young tween recounts how he was an ardent My Little Pony fan when he was little and how he inadvertently stumbled upon animated content showing the disturbing torture and massacre of the little ponies he loved. Years later, this childhood shock and horror is still on his mind. Rachelle Best, founder of FYI play it safe says, “When we planned the production of our Sip the Tea podcast, I knew that we were going to get some real stories about pornography and cyberbullying but I didn’t realise the full extent of exposure to the upsetting content our children have come across. I didn’t realise that the most loaded question I had to ask would be: ‘What is the worst thing you have seen online?’. Every answer I got held a shock for me, and I would have to compose myself consciously. The range, and the amount of upsetting content out there is unbelievable. The vast majority of exposure to upsetting content came from links passed onto them or from Discord servers inviting them to participate. The trouble is that once you have consumed certain content, then the algorithms take over and play a major role in feeding more and more of this extreme, upsetting content.” The Sip the Tea podcast is going ‘behind the screens’ of South African children and bringing to light the real-life experiences in their digital lives. Through skilful and sensitive guided conversations, Rachelle is succeeding in providing parents and educators not just with an expanded view and deeper insights, but also practical advice on how to improve protecting kids online. Key to this is fostering open communications between tweens, teens and the important adults in their lives. Across the wide-ranging first season of Sip the Tea, Rachelle shows that our children want to have opportunities to safely have conversations about their digital lives and their disturbing experiences. Threats of taking away their devices or being shamed for stumbling across certain content inhibit or completely shut down these opportunities. Parents need to rethink their strategies for keeping their kids safer online. Stepping away from judgement and punishment enables parents to have trusted, open conversations with their children. This presents more chances to know what your children are experiencing and gives parents more opportunities to help their children process upsetting content. The Sip the Tea episode on upsetting content is an eye-opener. When you put a device in their hands, no parents imagines that their child might see a live stream of someone committing suicide. But this happened to a South African boy when he was just thirteen years of age. The person was not a stranger – it was his best friend. Rachelle says, “Children are born curious. If you send them a link, they will click on it. Unless you talk regularly to your child about the scope of upsetting content on the internet, and unless you have a real intention to raise a responsible digital citizen, chances are high that they will be exposed to upsetting content, and they may also share it. It’s important that parents have hard conversations with their kids about what’s out there, why it is wise to avoid it and how to do that. Children are not just curious, they are also impressionable, and unfortunately, exposure to upsetting content can have long-lasting effects.” Research has shown that exposure to horror, violence, cruelty, and gore can significantly disrupt children’s well-being. Impacts include fearfulness and anxiety, sleeplessness and nightmares, trauma response and post-traumatic stress, as well as behaviour change. These may be short-term consequences, but a long-term effect may be desensitisation and diminishing of natural empathy, kindness and sensitivity to others. To learn more about the platforms that are the main sources of upsetting content, and how and why it goes viral, tune into Sip the Tea. Parents, principals, teachers, and community leaders are invited to join the free webinar Sip the Tea – unfiltered truth from our children on 14 March 2024. FYI play it safe CEO, Rachelle Best will be reviewing the findings and learnings from Season 1 of Sip the Tea and discussing social media and the apps our children are using; stranger danger and online grooming; exposure to explicit and upsetting content; and cyber bullying. Register now for the free Sip the Tea – unfiltered truth from our children webinar on Zoom: 10:00 – 11:30am Session 18:00 – 19:30pm Session You can find Sip the Tea on all major podcasting platforms, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. Episode 1 Teens and technology Episode 2 Social Media and the apps our children are using Episode 3 Stranger danger & online grooming Episode 4 Pornography Episode 5 Pornography addiction Episode 6 Gaming Episode 7 Cyber bullying Episode 8 Upsetting content For more information visit www.fyiplayitsafe.com

January 23, 2024

FACTORS INFLUENCING CHILD MENTAL HEALTH AND TIPS FOR SUPPORTING THEM

Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality health coverage, explores factors shaping children’s and teens’ mental well-being and tips to champion their mental health. Factors Influencing The Mental Well-being of Children While we know early life experiences, including prenatal factors, infancy, and childhood, significantly influence a child’s mental health, many other things can contribute to healthy emotional development. A few factors include: Genetic Factors A child’s mental health can be influenced by their genetics and how their brain works. Each child has their genetic makeup, which can make them more or less likely to face mental health issues. While there are no genetic tests to confirm a diagnosis of a mental disorder, the chance of a child having a specific mental disorder is higher if other family members have that same mental disorder. When we understand more about a child’s genetics, we can provide better care and support. Family Environment The family environment is a critical factor in a child’s mental health. Stable and supportive family relationships provide a secure foundation. At the same time, conflict, neglect, or abuse can lead to serious mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, eating disorders, dissociative identity disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Peer Relationships Peer relationships and social interactions are essential for children’s development. Positive friendships and social connections contribute to a child’s emotional resilience. In contrast, bullying or social isolation can lead to depression or anxiety. Media and Technology Use The influence of media and technology on children is a growing concern. Excessive screen time, exposure to inappropriate content and cyberbullying can lead to depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, self-harming behaviour (especially for girls), alcohol and drug use and dependence, aggression, and involvement in violence or crime (especially for boys). Parents and caregivers should monitor and guide their children’s media consumption. Community and Socioeconomic Factors Community and socioeconomic factors, such as access to healthcare, economic stability, and neighbourhood safety, can impact a child’s mental health. Ensuring that children have access to essential resources and support systems is crucial. Traumatic Experiences Traumatic events like natural disasters, accidents, or violence can impact a child’s mental health. Identifying and addressing trauma through counselling and support services is essential for healing and recovery. Access to Mental Health Services Access to mental health services is critical in addressing child mental health challenges. Many children and adolescents require professional help to manage their emotional well-being effectively. Increasing access to mental health care is essential. 10 Ways to Support Your Child’s Mental Well-being Encourage children and teens to express their thoughts and emotions openly. Create a safe space where they feel heard and validated. Foster healthy relationships within your family. Teach conflict resolution, empathy, and practical communication skills. Promote a balanced approach to education that values overall well-being. Encourage extracurricular activities, hobbies, and interests beyond academics. Educate young individuals about responsible digital usage, including limiting screen time, avoiding cyberbullying, and maintaining a healthy online presence. Prioritise physical health through regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep. These habits are fundamental for both physical and mental well-being. Seek professional help when necessary. Mental health professionals can provide therapy and counselling tailored to the individual’s needs. Teach resilience-building skills, including problem-solving, stress management, and coping strategies. These skills empower children to navigate challenges effectively. Raise awareness about mental health issues and reduce stigma. Educate children and teens about the importance of seeking help when needed. Introduce mindfulness practices and relaxation techniques to reduce stress and anxiety. These skills promote emotional regulation. Engage with schools, communities, and organisations that promote mental health awareness and provide resources for support.

January 16, 2024

Finding the perfect balance between screens

It’s all about balance, and that’s something that Codey tries to show children in his online adventures. Play your 20 minutes on a screen and then move! Meet friends or play with your imagination. Taking a break from a screen is easy to do when you have a fun alternative to look forward to. The Codey Crawler adventures take children through how to be safe when they play games or watch YouTube, but it’s not just all about being online. Social Kids has joined forces with the experts at Kids Collab, an organisation that promotes an active lifestyle and safe space for kids to play, together we’ve created some alternatives to relieve a child’s eyes and get that blood pumping and imagination soaring. Physical activities to play, brought to you by Kids Collab: 1) The Stocking Adventure Time to practice kicking and striking. Before you start, gather a small ball or pair of socks rolled up and a stocking. Place the socks at the one end of the stocking and tie it around your child’s waist. Now encourage them to try kick the ‘ball’ using one foot. After a few attempts, change it up so that the stocking is tied to a stable branch. Using a bat or rolled up newspaper, encourage them to hit the stocking as they create their own swing ball. 2) Magic Carpet Ride Who thought collecting teddies around a room could be such fun. All you need is a box, some teddies/toy, some rope and a stable object. Tie the rope to a stable object and place the box at the end of the rope. Scatter the teddies around the area near the rope. Encourage your child to sit in the box and pull themselves forward, while they collect the teddies on the way. Tip: place the box on top of a blanket for a smoother ride. 3) Fun with Colours Ready to practice some balancing while having fun with colours. All you need is scissors, tape, a pencil and a few different coloured pieces of paper. (Tip: include a pillow to make it more fun). Make a simple colour wheel on a piece of paper using the different colour paper and place the matching colours on their shoes/feet. Encourage your child to balance on one leg while they pick up the colour off their foot and match it to the colour on the wall. To challenge their balance a bit more, have them stand on a pillow and perform the same activity. 4) A simple balloon A blown up balloon can give hours of fun, the floor is larvae, keep the balloon up high, balloon soccer or try keep the balloon up without using your hands. The games are boundless. 5) Save the ducks Learning to transfer objects in different ways can be loads of fun. Collect small/lightweight objects to mimic ducks (plastic cups, socks or balls), Sit on a chair, collect the ‘ducks’ between your feet and transfer them into the basket in front of them. Next, try encouraging your child to lie on their back and transfer the ‘ducks’ with their feet overhead into the basket behind them. Don’t forget to add it the imaginative play element 6) Memory Game Ready to have some fun jumping in a bag. Get out your socks, some cups and a material bag (e.g. woollies tote bag). Place all the socks around the garden, making sure they have matching pairs and place the cups over it to cover them. Encourage your child to hop around the garden in their bag, trying to locate the matching pairs. They can only pick up one cup at a time and once they have found the matching pair, encourage them to place it in their bag until all the socks have been collected. Thanks to passionate teams like Kids Collab and Social Kids, parents have access to a wealth of information to help you better balance your child’s time online and still grow up in a technology driven world with a balanced outlook on life. Let’s build those healthy digital habits from a young age. Register for a once-off fee of R500 to access all 5 adventures, parent guides, WhatsApp support line and supervised classes if you need them.

January 11, 2024

Lifesaving SA and DHL launch an online water safety learning platform

Every year, hundreds of families across South Africa lose loved ones in preventable drowning accidents. For youth 17 and under, drowning represents the second highest cause of accidental death after road accidents. The highest percentage of deaths are in children aged 1-9 years. This problem is not unique to South Africa, but follows trends seen globally, where 90% of the world’s accidental drowning deaths occur in middle to lower income countries. (World Health Organization) Following on from the success of Lifesaving SA’s WaterSmart School programme, in partnership with the Department of Education and DHL, Lifesaving SA has launched a free online e-learning WaterSmart hub, making water safety content accessible to all South Africans. While water safety training does take place in South Africa, its reach is limited. This is because programmes currently depend on in-person instruction conducted by volunteers, such as those working with Lifesaving South Africa (LSA). In 2016, Lifesaving SA launched WaterSmart, a paper-based educational programme written for the Department of Education Life Skills Orientation curriculum for grades 4-6. Since its inception, each year 50 lifeguard facilitators present this programme in hundreds of underprivileged schools, thanks to the sponsorship from corporates such as DHL, who through its partnership with Lifesaving South Africa, connect people and help save lives. In 2021 the KZN Department of Education partnered with Lifesaving SA where 6700 teachers and supervisors were trained to present the programme in their classrooms. In 2022 the programme was presented to 607 770 learners in more than 6000 schools, reaching over a million learners to date. The DHL Lifesaving WaterSmart Online Hub seeks to address the problem of drowning in South Africa by teaching learners about the various dangers water poses, empowering them to better manage risks and maintain a constant awareness and vigilance whenever water is around. The hub includes animated video content and interactive quizzes and spot the risks, making it fun and easy for children to learn about water safety and prevent drowning. The characters and scenes are presented in a simple, easy to understand format, allowing a greater audience to be reached. The content draws upon materials already developed by LSA for in-person training, including the character of “Resci,” who guides learners through the content. Teachers and parents are guided with learning plans, downloadable resources such as workbooks, readers, and posters to assist with delivering the programme to their learners and after each module is completed the learner is presented with a certificate. Jed Michaletos, Managing Director of DHL Express South Africa, expressed his delight, adding, “As a business, we talk about delivering excellence in a digital world, so when we had the opportunity to work with the Lifesaving SA team to digitize their learning materials, we jumped at it. This will increase the reach of the programme dramatically through ease of access – and really help deliver the message of water safety, to all. This project is a true demonstration of our organisational purpose, of Connecting People and Improving Lives.” With summer having finally arrived after a long and wet winter, DHL and Lifesaving SA want to ensure that children are taught how to be safe around water to prevent unnecessary drownings because one life lost to drowning is one life too many. To access the hub, visit https://watersmart.dhllifesaving.com/library/home or click on the QR code to start learning. For more information about Lifesaving South Africa visit www.lifesaving.co.za and follow us on social media X – @LifesavingSA Facebook – Lifesaving South Africa Instagram – lifesavingsouthafrica

December 5, 2023

Unlock the Magic of Christmas with the 2023 Top Toy Trends

Geoffrey’s Big Book of Toys is Out! 68-page catalogue of dreams with the Top Toys revealed Toys R Us has revealed its expert prediction of all the toys and trends set to be the most popular for this year’s festive season, family play, pop culture, minis and collectibles are all top of the list. Experts at the retailer forecast that the microtrend of minis, nostalgic toys and interactive toys will take top spots with the retailer also predicting that imaginative play and roleplaying toys are set to be huge this year. Recognised globally as the leader in toys, Toys R Us, has spent months sourcing, testing, and predicting trends and have carefully curated an assortment that showcases top toy trends, inspired by popular culture, that stimulate imagination and growth as well as encouraging family and interactive play across several age groups. “This year’s festive season has more ways to play with new entrants and brands as well as different targeted age groups,” says Catherine Jacoby, Marketing Manager at Toys R Us. “We recognise that the holiday season is about bringing the family together and this has been one of the key focuses as we source our ranges.” “Life is busy but the range of family play on offer brings life back to basics with games and puzzles,” she says. “The Twister Air combines family play, getting the body moving with technology while honing gross motor skills and keeping the mind and body active.” Jacoby explains: “Moments in pop culture are shaping the trends, whether its Barbiemania, Disney’s 100th anniversary, the return of the ‘90s with Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Transformers and Sonic the Hedgehog, pop culture is translating to toys in a very engaging way.” “Consumers are driven more than ever by experiences and parents are looking for value and toys that give their children memories outside of the digital world,” she says. “We’re seeing kids of all ages most interested in quieter and comforting toys or stress-relieving toys that transcend age which we are seeing a rise in this year,” she adds. “This includes LEGO, dollhouses and role-playing games.” She continues: “The trend of creating shows no signs of slowing down as toys like the Kenwood Mixer, which is just like the real thing allow kids to partake in daily meal preparation and learn about healthy living.” In addition to this she adds LEGO and the Cool Maker Stitch ‘n Sew Style Fashion hitting the top of the wish lists. “It’s safe to say that popular movie franchises and shows will have a benefit to the physical products in store,” she explains. “We certainly can’t overlook Barbie, which has been one of the most popular, prolonged trends of the year and is showing no signs of slowing down.” “We’re prepared for the new generation of Tweens to enter our world as we close the gap and continue to provide kids aged 7-12 years old with opportunities to play,” she says. “We’ve sourced more toys that cater to this demographic, including fidget and sensory toys, collectibles, arts and crafts as well as tech toys.” “The launch of an exclusive brand in WOW generation aspires to the creative, tech and fashion child, while our older aged products in technical remote-control cars, drones and gel blasters will find the tweens outdoors playing longer with new interests,” she explains. “Bitzees is a new and interactive toy which takes virtual pet playing on a handheld gaming device to new levels being one of the most wanted toys for this season.” She notes that similarly, nostalgia is at an all-time high, look out for re-launches, re-vamps, and twists on toys from the past. “That being said you can expect a full reign of nostalgia with kids and adults alike as Pokémon and the Bitzee Interactive Digital Pet making the top toys list.” “The Y2K nostalgia trend will continue with ‘Kidults’ seeking out toys from their past.” she adds. “Toy purchases this year will go beyond just the kid market into young adults looking to reconnect with their youth, whether it’s collectible figurines, trading cards or blind bags we’re seeing top brands like Pokémon, Mini Brands, Mini Verse and L.O.L Surprise continuing to grow.” “Kidulting is huge and keeps growing, it’s for this reason we have the Toys R Us Fanvault and a lot of what is on the shelves this year are meant for parents and kids to enjoy together,” says Jacoby. “This includes the newest version of Twister and LEGO sets.” Jacoby says that the 2023 most popular toy guide would be incomplete without a mention of Squishmallows, Rainbocorns or Magic Mixes, these interactive toys have been an evergreen trend for the past three years and all of them hit our top toys trend list. “The tiny-fication of everything into collectible mini forms continues unabated. And some of the mega-trends we continue to see are toys that surprise, colour changing toys, pocket size anything and food creation.” She explains that this year parents can expect screen-free toys to top the list of trends and toys that encourage hands-on play and skill building. “We’re so excited to kick off the most magical time of the year with the coolest and most sought-after toys of the season.” “By identifying the top play trends we’re making it easier than ever to find toys every kid will love, spreading joy and delight to families and kids of all ages,” Jacoby explains. “Combined with the launch of the top toys, Geoffrey reveals the ‘Big Book of Toys’, a special bumper gift guide featuring 68 catalogue pages filled with wondrous toys including something for everyone this festive season which will be available in-store nationwide as well as online from the 25th of October.” In addition, Jacoby says, one lucky customer could stand a chance to win their wish list valued at R10,000 by creating their gift registry online at www.toysrus.co.za oR by cutting out their favourite toy from the catalogue, sticking it on the entry form provided and dropping

December 4, 2023

What topics will be covered today?

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December 4, 2023

How do I make my child love reading?

As a grade six English teacher at Maragon Ruimsig, I am frequently asked this question at Parents’ Evenings. The child concerned inevitably struggles with the comprehension section of my assessments and while the diagnosis is simple, the “medication” is very difficult to administer…think squirming cat here and the thankless task of attempting to force a pill down the hapless feline’s throat! An almost impossible task.

November 29, 2023

Teens & tweens are watching porn & we need to talk about it

Parents of today’s adolescents grew up in a world where pornography was something you had to get your hands on, which was difficult to do while you were underage. There wasn’t much of it around to start with, and then there was a host of regulations and restrictions that limited the range and possibility for adolescents to be exposed to adults-only content. While you might have managed to find the odd magazine under your big brother’s mattress, there wasn’t much chance of becoming a regular consumer of all sorts of porn. Contrast this with a recent episode of the Sip the Tea podcast, where a teen girl recounts her story of being, in her words ‘addicted to porn’. She tells Rachelle Best, founder of FYI play it safe, that she engaged with pornographic content from the age of 9 years and went on to compulsively consume it for years. The girl, now 17, articulates the impact that this has had on her self-esteem and body image. Instead of a carefree youth, she describes one wracked with guilt and shame. Curiosity about the adult world and, about the secrets that adults keep, is of course, perfectly normal, healthy child behaviour. It tests the boundaries that parents put in place when it comes to the aspects of human life that we worry that children may find disturbing, frightening or shocking. As adults, not just parents, we have a universally recognised duty to protect children when it comes to violence, cruelty, war – and sex. This duty is a legal requirement in the case of human sexual behaviour because in South Africa, as in many countries in the world, it is illegal for any adult to be involved in exposing a child to pornography. The digital era has fundamentally redefined childhood, and when we put a tablet, or a gaming console, a phone or laptop into our child’s hands, something parents do when their children are at younger and younger ages, we give them the keys to a limitless, unregulated world. The proliferation of violent and sexual content across the digital world is unfathomable. It’s no exaggeration to say that ’porn is everywhere’. There’s just so much accessible, pornographic content that it is now impossible to believe, that purposefully or inadvertently, your child won’t be exposed to it. This reality is demanding new approaches to sex education, new openness in parent-child communications and new strategies for parenting digital natives. UNICEF, the United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund, has asserted that “pornographic content can harm children”. The organisation has expressed its alarm at the “massive quantity” of pornography available and its easy accessibility to children of all ages. It suggests that: “Exposure to pornography at a young age may lead to poor mental health, sexism and objectification, sexual violence, and other negative outcomes. Among other risks, when children view pornography that portrays abusive and misogynistic acts, they may come to view such behaviour as normal and acceptable.” Counselling Psychologist, Elliott Kotze who works extensively with adolescents presents another view. He says, “Currently, peer-reviewed evidence on the effects of exposure to porn in childhood is scarce. There is also an argument that porn is not addictive which suggests that compulsive porn consumption is not about the media, but about underlying issues. For instance, sexual shame is often inherent when it comes to compulsive porn consumption. Another potential cause for compulsive porn consumption, with or without masturbation, is a need for self-soothing or emotional or sensory regulation. This can become problematic when it becomes the person’s only way to self-regulate.” Elliott is clear though that unintentional exposure to pornography in childhood can be traumatic. He says, “For a child who inadvertently clicks on a link or is shown porn onscreen by a friend in the playground, there is a trauma response risk. If they are not ready or equipped, and don’t understand what’s going on, what they see is likely to be shocking and disturbing to them, and they would need capacity from their parents or a professional to process this.” For adolescents that develop a compulsive use of pornography, Elliott says, “Typically, it is distress that drives compulsive behaviours, and to treat this there needs to be an understanding of that distress. Adolescents face many challenges – mental health challenges such as anxiety and depression, relationship challenges or sexual or arousal challenges. All of these can lead to a compulsive use of pornographic content. Simply taking away the child’s ability to access porn without addressing the underlying issues that are driving the behaviour will inevitably lead to a range of sexual and relationship challenges further down the line.” Elliott offers the following advice to today’s parents: Provide matter-of-fact, accurate sex education that is free of shame – “It’s important to talk about bodies using the biological, shame-free terminology for all body parts. Discuss the role of sex in reproduction and the role of sex in bonding and healthy pleasure. Focus on the care of our bodies and our mental health. Talk about consent and what that looks like, how to give it and how to respect it. Give your children a vision and blueprint for healthy relationships.” Be committed to non-judgement and be solutions-oriented – Be the wise guide your kids can come to when they need to talk about their distress. Elliott says, “Parents can help their children deal with compulsive behaviours and tackle the underlying causes. They can help them develop healthier ways for self-soothing and self-regulating without adding to the shame and guilt the child probably already feels in relation to their behaviour.” Adequately prepare your child – “Open communication is essential to helping your child navigate adolescence,” Elliott says, “Puberty comes along, and bodies develop. It’s a time full of body hair, smells, spontaneous arousal and breast buds. All these changes can be disconcerting and distressing for children who have not been adequately prepared for it. The science has shown that children who are underprepared for puberty, or who have

November 23, 2023

THANK YOU FOR THE MUSIC

It’s got to be one of the top karaoke songs of all time! ABBA’s “THANK YOU FOR THE MUSIC”. How often haven’t you heard it and found yourself singing or humming along to those famous words? “Thank you for the music, the songs I’m singing, thanks for all the joy they’re bringing”. Let me introduce myself. My name is Kirsty Savides and I’m the Founder and Programme Director of Wriggle and Rhyme, a music and movement programme for babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers. ABBA’s words have been ringing in my ears recently. You see, October 2023 marked Wriggle and Rhyme’s 15th birthday. It’s been 15 years since I ran the first ever Wriggle and Rhyme class from the lounge in my home in Fish Hoek. Since then, the business has grown and evolved. I’ve gone through all the stages of motherhood with the business – from exciting conception to a crying newborn, to a demanding toddler, to a feisty tween, to a maturing teenage. Here are some highlights: In 2011, we branched out into PRE-SCHOOLS in Cape Town. We extended the programme from babies and toddlers, to include children up to Grade R level. We now have hundreds and hundreds of children participating in our music and movement classes in pre-schools each week. In 2013 the BABY and TODDLER programmes were licensed to allow other women to run classes from their venues too. We now have branches in MEADOWRIDGE, RONDEBOSCH, CLAREMONT and MELKBOSSTRAND. In 2017 we partnered with Lifeline Energy to bring our music to children across the African Continent. Lifeline Energy distributes solar-powered radios and MP3 players to prisons, refugee camps and schools across Africa. These children are now also singing our songs each week! We’ve also created a range of unique and fun musical stories to enjoy. Originally available on CD, these can now be accessed through your favourite music streaming platform – SPOTIFY, APPLE MUSIC, iTUNES, AMAZON etc. Running a business in South Africa has not always been easy. We’ve had to weather global recessions, the really difficult COVID season and ongoing loadshedding. Sometimes the song in our hearts has been upbeat and full of joy, sometimes it’s been melancholy and slow. These are still challenging times that we’re living in. With the rising cost of living, wars and rumours of wars across the world, pain and suffering all around us. It’s easy to become despondent and feel anxious. But, I wake up every single morning saying “thank you for the music”. Not just for Wriggle and Rhyme, but thank you that I get to be part of something that contributes so beautifully to the lives of children. Thank you that Wriggle and Rhyme assists our family and many others financially each month. Thank you that I have the flexibility to spend time with my children each day. So, as we celebrate Wriggle and Rhyme’s 15th birthday, I’m resolved, more than ever, to live in gratitude for all that life brings – the ups and downs, the highs and lows. My song today and every day is, “thank you for the music!”. If this resonates with you, come and sing along with us. Join our team and discover the joy of adopting Wriggle and Rhyme into your own family! For more info about the W&R business opportunity, have a look at www.wriggleandrhyme.co.za/join-the-team For more info about the W&R musical stories and online resources, have a look at www.wriggleandrhyme.co.za/our-music Find us on Facebook and Instagram @wrigglerhyme #wrigglerhyme

November 21, 2023

5 TIPS TO CLEAR MY RACING MIND TO GET A GOOD NIGHT’S SLEEP

Affinity Health is a leading provider of high-quality health cover, sharing five tips to clear a racing mind and pave the way for a peaceful, rejuvenating sleep. “Sleep is as crucial as diet and exercise. It’s the body’s natural reset button – a time for the brain to process, repair, and rejuvenate,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “But when a racing mind impedes this process, it can lead to fatigue, decreased cognitive function, and a plethora of health issues impacting overall health and daily functioning.” The Effects of Lack of Sleep on the Body and Mind Lack of sleep, or sleep deprivation, has profound effects on both the body and the mind. Physiologically, sleep deprivation can weaken the immune system, increase the risk of chronic conditions such as obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease, and disrupt hormonal balances, including cortisol and insulin production. Cognitive and mental repercussions are equally concerning. A sleep-deprived brain struggles with memory consolidation, attention, decision-making, and problem-solving. Moreover, emotional regulation is compromised, often resulting in mood swings, increased irritability, and a heightened risk of mental health disorders like depression and anxiety. Furthermore, prolonged sleep deprivation can lead to microsleeps, brief episodes of sleep that last a few seconds, which can be particularly dangerous during activities like driving. How Much Sleep Should Adults Be Getting? The National Sleep Foundation recommends that adults aged 18 to 64 get seven to nine hours of sleep per night. However, some people feel well-rested and function efficiently with as little as six hours, while others might need up to 10 hours. “It’s essential to note that individual sleep needs can vary,” adds Hewlett. “Factors influencing these needs include genetics, age, overall health, stress levels, physical activity, and lifestyle. Adults must pay attention to their bodies and assess their feelings during the day to determine the right amount of sleep for them.” Restful Sleep Is Within Reach These five tips, while simple, can create a profound shift in one’s sleep quality. 1- Establish a Pre-Sleep Ritual A routine signals the brain about what’s next: by crafting a calming pre-sleep ritual – be it reading, deep breathing exercises, or listening to soft music – individuals can train their minds to transition into a state of relaxation. Choose activities that resonate with you. It’s about consistency and association. 2 -Digital Detox In our interconnected era, screens are a significant culprit behind sleep disturbances. The blue light emitted by phones, tablets, and computers disrupts the production of melatonin, the sleep hormone. Affinity Health recommends powering down all electronic devices at least an hour before bedtime to let the brain unwind naturally. 3- Mindful Meditation Mindfulness and meditation have surged in popularity due to their profound benefits. Focusing on the present moment and practising deep, rhythmic breathing can replace the chaos of racing thoughts with a peaceful stillness conducive to sleep. 4- Journaling Transferring worries onto paper can be a cathartic process. By jotting down nagging thoughts, concerns, or to-do lists, individuals can free up mental space, allowing the mind to rest. 5 – Optimal Sleep Environment The setting plays a pivotal role. A calm, dark room, a comfortable mattress, and soft, breathable bed linens can make a difference. Consider introducing calming scents like lavender, known for its sleep-inducing properties.

November 13, 2023

Why Unstructured Play Is Serious Business

The usual advice includes tips on how to help your kids navigate the transition to online learning, how to keep them busy and avoid boredom, and why schedules and routines are important now more than ever. All but one of the bases is covered, and that base is unstructured play. Why Is Unstructured Play Important? Unstructured play, also known as free play, has no specific learning outcome. But don’t let that put you off. Numerous studies show that unstructured play is an important part of your kid’s physical, emotional, mental, and social development. Unstructured play is especially crucial for the development of three skills: Creativity and imagination: The absence of fixed rules allows children to create their own guidelines Problem-solving abilities: During free play, kids work together to solve problems such as who takes the first turn in a game and establishing other rules of play Social skills: Free play encourages kids to take turns, learn to share, and make decisions together How to Encourage Unstructured Play The idea of unstructured play might be completely foreign to parents who value routine. Here are a few tips to help encourage free play among your kids: Don’t Make it Part of a Routine Kids thrive on routine, but extremely rigid schedules and heavy parental control are not always beneficial for their development. A fundamental part of growing up is learning how to tackle new challenges and going beyond predetermined routines. Instead of adding unstructured play to your routine, look for opportunities to incorporate it into your day. For instance, the next time you head out to your favourite burger restaurant, let your kids run wild in the play area. Selected Wimpy Playworlds around the country are open and have all the necessary hygiene protocols in place to let your little one play safely. Let Your Kid Take the Lead If your kid is used to following a set of rules all the time, they never get the chance to think outside the box and practise being in control. If your kid is using their bubble wand as a drum, that’s fine. Stepping in often takes away your kid’s autonomy to create something new. Instead of telling them that their wand is strictly for blowing bubbles, say something encouraging like, ‘I didn’t realise that was a drum. That’s really interesting!’ Bring Playfulness into Everyday Activities Incorporating playfulness into everyday tasks such as clearing the table or cooking dinner turns mundane chores into spontaneous play sessions. You can invite your kids to get creative and add food colouring to their favourite dishes, make square pancakes, or turn the family garden into a pretend farm. In our fast-paced, digitally-enhanced lives, it’s easy to lose sight of an age-old development tool that comes naturally to our kids. You can let your kid learn and thrive by simply giving them the freedom to play – with you, their peers, or on their own.

November 10, 2023

The Screen-Free Sleep Aid Every South African Parent Needs to Know About

In an era marked by rising screen addiction among children, Morphée has introduced an offline innovation designed to mitigate digital dependence and revolutionise sleep. My Little Morphée, an internationally established screen-free sleep aid designed for children aged three to ten, has made its debut in South Africa. Developed in conjunction with a team of international experts including sophrologists, psychologists and hypnotherapists, My Little Morphée has been dubbed an ‘offline oasis,’ shaping the sleep aid landscape by offering a non-digital approach to self-soothing, daytime serenity and peaceful sleep, without the harmful effects of screen exposure. Its key feature being an extensive content library containing 192 audio journeys, spanning eight to twenty minutes, including soothing stories, guided meditations and soft music tracks. Children can choose a travel companion from an array of friendly animals in soothing settings, fostering essential life skills such as boldness, confidence, wisdom and generosity. The product also features nature sounds and white noise, teaching children how to master their emotions and self-regulate. According to Morphée’s South African Brand Manager, Daniella Degens, “We have received numerous positive reviews from our international team regarding the efficacy of My Little Morphée, especially when it comes to children who struggle to self-sooth. Parents also find the safety of its screen-free nature really reassuring, particularly for younger children.” Endorsed by a wide spectrum of international medical professionals including doctors, paediatricians, psychologists, nurses, physiotherapists, sophrologists, yoga practitioners and teachers, My Little Morphée is a trusted choice for parents seeking to provide their children with a healthier and more wholesome alternative to screen-based products. “Distinguishing itself from traditional story boxes, this beautifully designed product serves as a compelling solution to helping families break free from the modern-day challenge of digital devices. It goes beyond entertainment, inviting children to explore a wide range of creative and calming journeys, without the harmful effects associated with screens. Serving as an introduction to self-regulation and meditation, My Little Morphée alleviates anxiety, enhances concentration skills, boosts self-confidence and sooths children to sleep – all of which contribute positively to their overall health and well-being” says Daniella. Designed with French flair, commitment to quality and an APP-free, WiFi-free and screen-free experience, My Little Morphée has been crafted with modern travellers in mind, offering the added convenience of a three-hour battery life. Since its inception in 2008, the brand has experienced exponential growth across six continents, earning numerous international awards, including ‘Best Sleep Product of the Year’ and the ‘Healthy Sleep Awards,’ cementing My Little Morphée’s prominent position on the global stage. Poised to challenge the conventional notion of child entertainment by providing an enriching alternative that captivates children’s imaginations, My Little Morphée emerges as a much-needed screen-free solution for South African parents. Other products in the collection include My Morphée created for adults featuring a comprehensive selection of sophrology and meditation sessions, cardiac coherence and immersive journeys, along with The Morphée Zen designed to manage stress in an instant. Website: https://sa.morphee.co RRP: R2490 including VAT

November 9, 2023

What is your child’s online maturity?

It may feel strange that we’re talking about online maturity when we are showing children aged 7 to 11 years old the right way to play and learn online. The reality is some children have already had extensive exposure to online platforms by the time they are 8 years old. Online maturity plays a huge role in your child’s digital future. How you behave and engage with technology at a young age will determine how you move forward as you get older. Here are the key elements that determine your child’s online maturity: Access to devices Access to online means they can get online to play games, stream TV, watch YouTube channels or have their own device with internet access. Does your child have the freedom to access technology when and as they please? Is there a time limit already set up with rules and boundaries already in place? Who do they access the internet with? If your child is streaming TV, they can access the profile themselves, but are they playing various games or browsing YouTube channels unmonitored? When they go online, do they do it alone, or with a watchful eye behind every click? Are they allowed to access the internet with older siblings, family, or friends? Do you have privacy settings set up on all devices or child-friendly browsers in place? Whether they have supervised access or not, have you taken the steps to protect all devices in the household? Does your family have regular open conversations about the digital world? Do you discuss the dangers of playing online together? The Codey adventure has been designed to appeal to a wide range of ages, however, a child’s individual online maturity and environment will play a large role in his or her experience of the adventure. If at times, the delivery may seem slow, this is a deliberate action, to ensure there is repetition and reinforcement of key concepts. The content is what is important. If your child does have a high online maturity, use this time together to discuss what they know. Use the opportunity to improve your communication and understanding of each other’s perspectives. By starting the conversations now, you are creating a better relationship moving forward. If there is only one change we can make with our future surfers, it must be to – Think. Before you click! Codey Crawler and the Social Kids team will sleep well at night and you as a parent or guardian can rest easy that you are talking to your children about what they do online. We will have a safer, wiser, and kinder internet in the future. Join us – Make the time or use our supervised classes – Just don’t do nothing!

November 8, 2023

Setting boundaries – how to draw the line before it gets blurred

First, we need to look at why we need to set boundaries? Boundaries are the rules you set, about how others are allowed to treat you. The purpose of setting a healthy boundary is to protect and take good care of you, as well as, the relationship with others. Whether it be in relationships, at work, at home or at school, they are crucially important to your personal well-being, as well as that of others. Why then, are we afraid of setting boundaries if they are there to protect us? Everyone is different Something that affects you might not be a big deal to someone else. This could make you feel like your boundaries are wrong. Fear of Rejection You might feel afraid to enforce your boundaries because it might upset someone else Effort Enforcing boundaries can feel like a lot of work, so you might be tempted to ignore issues in the hopes that they will go away on their own. It is thus unfortunately easy for lines to get blurred. These adapted guidelines from psychcentral.com may help you in the process of setting healthy boundaries: Enjoy some self-reflection To successfully introduce and set boundaries, it’s key to understand why they’re each important to you and how they will benefit your emotional well-being. Sometimes stuff happens to people that makes them feel uncomfortable, but they’re not sure why. The first step in having healthy boundaries in any situation is spending the time to explore what’s happening to you and why you feel uncomfortable. Start small If you don’t have many boundaries in place already, the prospect of introducing more might seem overwhelming — so build them up slowly. Doing so allows you to take things at a more comfortable pace, and it provides time to reflect on whether it’s heading in the right direction or if you need to make some tweaks. Set them early It can sometimes be hard to start putting boundaries in, especially in pre-existing relationships. Rather set them straight away. By setting boundaries and expectations from the very beginning, everyone knows where they stand, and feelings of hurt, confusion, and frustration can be lessened. Be consistent Letting boundaries slide can lead to confusion and encourage new expectations and demands among those around you. Try keeping things consistent and steady. This helps to reinforce your original thresholds and beliefs, and it ensures those lines remain clearly established. Create a framework Boundaries may vary, depending on the type of relationship. However, if you find it helpful, there’s no reason not to have a few basics in place that can be adapted accordingly. Feel free to add extras In some aspects of our lives, there may already be boundaries in place, but consider these the minimum. Setting boundaries in certain aspects of your life, may lead to more productivity and feeling empowered. Be aware of social media These platforms allow for more communication than ever, but they’ve also encouraged some considerable boundary blurring. Oversharing can become a concern, especially on public platforms where family and friends may post personal information or photos that we don’t want shared publicly. If you deem a particular action as boundary-crossing in real life, your concerns are no less valid when it occurs digitally. Talk, talk, talk Communication is critical in the world of boundaries, especially if someone consistently oversteps yours. While you might need to raise your concerns, these discussions need not be confrontational. By approaching the situation relevant to the circumstances in context, it may prevent confrontation, resentment or awkward situations before it becomes a concern. Be your biggest champion For boundaries to have a strong foundation, you need to show yourself a bit of love. A lot of it comes down to self-worth and self-value. If this is lacking, you may find it difficult to set and enforce boundaries to protect yourself. Changing your internal dialogue will make you feel more deserving. Gain some perspective Not having boundaries can be detrimental to our mental health, but going too far and over-thinking them can also impact our emotional well-being. It’s good to have boundaries, but don’t be dictated by them. Sometimes you’ve just got to go with your gut instinct. We can forget that we’re actually quite good at navigating most things and are quite intuitive as human beings. Also, flexibility is not always a bad thing, as long as it justifies a positive outcome. Recognizing the boundaries of others In addition to setting your own boundaries, it’s important to appreciate those of others, too — even if they’re different from your own. Repeatedly violating boundaries can breed resentment and contempt, and cause people to withdraw. So, take a moment to consider what may be important to the other person. On a final note Don’t feel guilty about setting boundaries. They’re essentially a form of self-care, and we actively look to incorporate other elements of this into our lives daily — from eating a balanced diet to exercising. This should not be different! At Wingu Academy we have a dedicated Wellness Hub to assist in both academic and mental well-being. The Wellness Hub offers a range of free resources to parents, learners, as well as staff members to support personal growth and well-being. Read more about setting boundaries at: https://psychcentral.com/lib/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries#recap

October 25, 2023

Breast Cancer – different screening tools

Radiologists from the SCP Radiology practice and Dr Lizanne Langenhoven, who specialises in the treatment of breast cancer, talk about the different kinds of screening for breast cancer. Dr Langenhoven says, ‘When you consider that around 90% of women find their own breast lumps, it is a very important part of the screening process. Although 80 percent of these lumps are not malignant, there are cases where women owe their lives to their own self-examination.’ A guide to self-examination: Lying down or in the shower: Place your right hand behind your head. Using the pads of the fingers on your left hand, feel for changes in your entire breast in a circular. Do the same above and below and in your armpit area. In front of a mirror: Check for any dimpling, puckering or changes in either nipple. See your doctor or clinic if you have any of these symptoms. Have regular screenings at your doctor or clinic. The different screenings include: Mammogram: Is breast imaging using low-dose X-rays to form a 2D image. The advantage is it often reveals abnormalities undetected in a clinical breast examination. Four images are taken, two of each breast. The breast is lightly compressed for less than 1 minute during the examination to improve diagnostic accuracy. Tomosynthesis: This is a form of 3D mammography and uses X-rays as well as sophisticated software to create a 3D image of the breast. It is considered better at detecting cancer and reducing false positives in dense breast tissue. It is invaluable in problem-solving and is used in combination with 2D mammography. Breast Ultrasound: Ultrasound is a supplementary investigation used to further evaluate morphology, blood flow, and consistency of masses and lymph nodes that are abnormal mammography. It uses no radiation but rather real-time imaging, using sound waves to create an image. It’s a slightly longer process and is also valuable in problem-solving. It is used in combination with a mammogram not in place of it. MRI: The digital MR image is created using strong magnetic fields and radio waves but no radiation. You will receive an intravenous injection and then lie on your stomach, in an MRI ‘tunnel’ for around 45 minutes. An MRI for breast screening is usually used for problem-solving, high-risk screening and for women who have breast implants. Biopsy: A breast biopsy may be recommended when a suspicious area is found in your breast, like a breast lump or other signs and symptoms of breast cancer. It is also used to investigate unusual findings on a mammogram, ultrasound, or other breast examination. Thermography: Thermography is a test that uses an infrared camera to detect heat patterns and blood flow in body tissues. Digital infrared thermal imaging (DTI) is the type of thermography that can be used to show these patterns and flow in the breasts.

October 23, 2023

Q and A – why are some women reluctant to go for a mammogram

The World Health Organization creates awareness around breast cancer in October. First initiated in October 1985, Breast Cancer Month has grown exponentially globally and this year is no exception. According to the Cancer Association of South Africa (CANSA), it’s far better to have an early-stage diagnosis, as it results in better breast cancer treatment and long-term survival. CANSA recommends monthly breast self-examination, annual medical check-ups, and screening. Radiologists from the SCP Radiologist Practice and Dr Lizanne Langenhoven, who specialises in the treatment of breast cancer, address some of the concerns around breast cancer screening. If early detection is recommended and provides the best outcome, why are women reluctant to screen for breast cancer? An informal survey amongst women, who are hesitant to go, even though they have the means to go, shows that the top reasons include the following: It’s going to be too painful Many women still rely on their mother’s experience with early mammograms which were painful. Mammography machines have progressed exponentially since the early days, so the level of discomfort experienced during the procedure is now significantly reduced. Modern technology and digital equipment allow us to use less compression and still obtain quality imaging. Also, the amount of pressure is different for each individual, depending on the breast size and composition. Pressure is often manually adjusted so speak to your mammographer if you experience any discomfort. Fear of exposure to radiation A mammogram uses relatively low-dose radiation. The total dose is approximately 0.5 mSv (2D mammogram). To put it into perspective, we are exposed to 3.0 mSv of background radiation from our natural surroundings per year. Radiologists also strictly follow what’s known as the ALARA principle – to always apply radiation “as low as reasonably achievable”. The benefits of mammography thus far outweigh the risks from this low dose radiation. Fear of finding out you have breast cancer Dr Langehoven says, ‘The good news is that our understanding of the different subtypes of breast cancer has improved significantly over the past few years! We no-longer follow a one-type-fits-all approach and many women may even safely be spared chemotherapy in a curative setting. ‘As with everything else in life, it is easier to address a ‘small’ or ‘early’ problem than it is to address a much larger problem! I’ve seen breast cancer diagnosed at a size of 2mm on mammogram – meaning that treatment is tailored to a very low risk situation. In short, the earlier we become aware of an existing problem, the sooner it can be addressed and with much less invasive treatment.’ I don’t go for mammograms, I only go for thermography At present, thermography cannot substitute mammography but may be used as complementary screening. Dr Langenhoven cautions that thermography is not all it is cut out to be. In order for the cancer to give off heat signals, it has to be significant in size. Mammography on the other hand can detect changes in the breast before they progress to cancer. A mammogram therefore picks up the disease course much sooner than thermography. Why mammography instead of ultrasound, which doesn’t use radiation? Mammography is our workhorse. We look for masses, calcifications, and architectural distortion. Ultrasound is a supplementary investigation used to further evaluate morphology, blood flow, consistency of masses, and lymph nodes that are abnormal on a mammogram. Tomosynthesis is also supplementary, used to further evaluate architectural distortion seen on a mammogram. They all work together. With denser breasts mammography is less sensitive, which is when we add the supplementary investigations to improve the sensitivity of detection. If am diagnosed with breast cancer I am going to die anyway, so I would rather not find out This statement is not true in the current day and age where 90% of women with early breast cancer can be cured of their disease, says Dr Langenhoven. ‘In the same way we don’t drive cars from the 50’s, our treatment is no longer ancient either!’ The side-effect profiles of our new drugs are aimed at improving quality of life during treatment, and the fact that we now identify and treat 4 distinct subtypes of breast cancer means that we can target the specific growth-pattern at play and avoid unnecessary treatment. Previously, because we didn’t know which women had aggressive breast cancers and who didn’t, all women were treated more or less the same up to a few years ago. This meant that women feared finding out they had breast cancer for fear of the radical and toxic treatment they would be subjected to. This has really changed over the past 10 or 15 years and our approach has changed to be specific and conservative when we advise treatment. It is tailored to the specific characteristics of each women’s disease. Surgical outcomes are so much better and very few women would ever be offered a ‘flat’ mastectomy as part of their treatment plan. We no longer approach breast cancer surgery without consideration of the cosmetic outcomes and quality of life of the woman behind the cancer. The notion that cancer means suffering and death comes from a bygone time and we should do all we can to change this outdated perception. The survival rate of breast cancer depends on a number of factors including the type of cancer, the immune receptors, the grade, and the speed at which it is growing – these all determine the survival rate. A big tumour that is slow growing and has a low grade has a more favourable outcome after treatment, than a small tumour that is high grade and fast growing. However, if a cancer is found early and the grade is established earlier, then tailored treatment can begin earlier which may slow down or limit the progress. An early diagnosis will improve treatment outcome. The advantage of screening is early detection for better treatment outcomes and prognosis. Dr Langenhoven adds that early detection really counts when it comes to treatment related side-effects and cost of treatment. An early cancer may very

October 16, 2023

Always online – SA teens share real-life experiences

FYI play it safe launches ’Sip the Tea’ podcast If you’re the parent of a teenager, you most likely don’t know as much about their online life as you should. Our children are immersed in the digital world, inhabiting digital environments, and gathering in digital spaces that most parents don’t even know exist, never mind understand how to navigate. It doesn’t help that these virtual locales where teens meet up and hang out are ever-changing; they can disappear in a whiff, migrate at a whim and new ones pop up every day. It’s nearly impossible for parents to keep up. Our tweens and teens range across a multitude of social media, gaming environments and messaging platforms where they find the connection and validation that is so vital to their life-stages. But they also encounter risks and dangers. ‘Sipping the tea’ is teen slang for side-eyeing the juicy ‘gos’ and listening in to get the latest scoop. Rachelle Best, parent of a teenage daughter and the CEO and Founder of the AI-powered monitoring app, FYI play it safe, is the host of Sip the Tea. Across the first season of eight episodes launching on 17th October, Rachelle, in conversation with presenter, Amy Maclver, tackles major themes impacting on teens’ online lives, such as cyberbullying, online grooming, pornography and exposure to upsetting content. Teens’ voices, digitally altered to protect identity, are prominent throughout the series, as they open up to Rachelle about their own experiences as well as share insights about the experiences of their siblings and friends. Rachelle says, “Parents listening in may be surprised at the frankness and honesty. Teens so often have the reputation for reticence or even being secretive when it comes to connecting with adults. “In my journey, both through Sip the Tea interviews and engaging with children in schools, one glaring truth has emerged — our kids crave open and honest conversations about the digital world’s lurking risks and threats. They are not just curious; they’re deeply disturbed by the dangers they face online. Remarkably, many of these young people don’t merely seek protection; they aspire to help us, the adults, understand the real risks they face. Most agree that there should be limits and protections on children’s online activity – in fact, they recommend these. What they don’t want though, is to be judged and punished for their curiosity or their mistakes. They don’t want the adults to overreact. They don’t want the WIFI switched off or to have their devices taken away. Instead, they’re offering us a unique opportunity — a chance for parents to reshape their approach to online safety. It’s an invitation to build an understanding relationship with their teen based on open and honest communication.” On the one hand, there are parents who are prone to overreact and rigidly police their children’s devices, and on the other are those who have their heads in the sand and believe the risks will never materialise with their children. Rachelle says, “Unfortunately, the ‘not my child syndrome’ is rife in South Africa. There are parents who do nothing or so little to create a family online safety ecosystem, and then blithely say they don’t need to because they ‘trust their child’. However, online safety should not be linked to the trust-relationship with your child. Harmful content is everywhere, and your child does not necessarily have to go looking for it to be exposed. A child may see porn through no fault of their own, think that the trust-relationship with their parents is now ruined and that their parents won’t trust them again. When I conducted the Sip the Tea interviews, I anticipated some shocking stories about online grooming, cyber bullying and pornography; what I didn’t expect is the extreme cruelty that some of the children had encountered. We hear from these kids’ stories, that they have been exposed to some of the most horrific scenes imaginable, which is bound to make a lasting impact on their emotional well-being.” The family online safety ecosystem that Rachelle refers to here is the use of multiple solutions that goes beyond just deploying the phone’s screen time limit and parental controls to restrict access to some known websites and apps. While these play a role in the online safety ecosystem, their efficacy is partial. Latest solutions such as FYI play it safe draw on AI and ML to monitor the content of children’s online activity across multiple devices in real-time. This provides parents with proactive alerts when their children may be exposed to online risks. It dynamically monitors all the content that the child engages with, including social media, in-game and instant messaging chats. Apart from opening parents’ eyes to online risks, Sip the Tea offers a balanced view of the lives of our digital natives. Rachelle says, “There are so many benefits to teens being online. It’s wonderful to hear how they make lasting friendships and find acceptance and reassurance in the digital world. There’s so much to learn, so many opportunities to find and develop your passions and so many ways to grow as a responsible digital citizen. What’s important for parents is to become empowered and knowledgeable. We need to understand teen digital spaces better, we need to be clear about risks and threats, and we need to be proactive when it comes to helping our teens stay safer online.” You can find Sip the Tea on all major podcasting platforms, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more, from 17th October 2023. Episode 1: Teens and tech – We explore the technology setups that tweens and teens have at home. We delve into the rules, controls, and guidance in place to ensure safe and balanced digital engagement. Episode 2: Social media and the apps they use – We lift the curtain on the online social worlds of today’s youth. From Snapchat and TikTok to Discord, we explore the apps they’re using and the experiences they’re having on these platforms. Episode 3:

October 16, 2023

Digital eye strain at work? Here’s how to help those tired eyes

Thursday 12 October is World Sight Day and, this year, the focus (pun intended) is on eye care at work. In this day and age, digital eye strain is arguably the greatest contributor to eye health issues at work. With the average office worker spending seven hours a day in front of a screen, it’s not surprising that at least half of computer users experience it. Symptoms include blurred vision, headaches, red or scratchy eyes, dry eyes and increased sensitivity to light. You may not be able to change the amount of time you’re in front of a computer, or the factors that can cause eye strain, but Wesley Language, Head of Optometry at Spec-Savers, shares some steps you can take to reduce it. Rest your eyes Look away from your computer screen regularly and focus on distant objects, as this relaxes the focusing muscle inside the eye, which in turn reduces eye fatigue. It’s advisable to keep the 20/20/20 rule in mind: every 20 minutes look away from your screens at something that is 20 feet (6 metres) away from you for 20 seconds. This allows your eyes to relax and can alleviate symptoms. Use adequate lighting and reduce glare Glare reflected from light-coloured walls and shiny surfaces, as well as reflections on your computer screen, can cause eye strain. Some ways to reduce this include: Attach an anti-glare screen to your monitor, especially if there’s a window behind you. Reduce the external light by covering windows with curtains or blinds, reduce the lighting in your room and avoid sitting under big overhead fluorescent lights. If you’re a specs wearer, use lenses with an anti-reflective coating to reduce glare. Adjust your monitor’s display settings Make sure the brightness matches the surroundings (bright room, bright screen) and adjust the text size and contrast so that it is comfortable to read. Black print on a white background is the best combination for comfort. If you’re on a screen at night, adjust the monitor’s colour temperature to reduce the blue colours on your screen. Blue light is short-wavelength visible light, and there is evidence that this may be associated with certain eye conditions. Modify your workstation The way you sit at your desk and arrange your equipment can affect your vision. Place documents on a copy stand next to the screen so you don’t need to keep looking down at a piece of paper and then up at your monitor. Make sure your workstation and chair are at the correct height. Improper posture while working on your computer can also add strain. Your computer screen should be 50 to 60 centimetres from your eyes and the centre of the screen should be 10 to 15 degrees below your eye line. Your chair should be set up so that your thighs are parallel to the floor and your back is slightly reclined Enlist the help of customised blue light computer glasses These special-purpose glasses are prescribed specifically to reduce blue light exposure and differ from regular eyeglasses or reading glasses in various ways. The usual positioning of a computer screen means that it’s within your intermediate zone of vision, which is closer than driving (distance) vision, but farther than reading – or near – vision. Generally, computer glasses have about 60% of the magnifying power of reading glasses to enable optimal magnification in this intermediate zone. Computer glasses should accurately correct any astigmatism you might have, and precise measurements should be taken to ensure the optical centre of each lens is directly in front of your pupils when you are using your preferred working distance. For these reasons, computer glasses should be customised to your individual needs. Using weaker, non-prescription reading glasses for computer use typically won’t provide the accurate vision correction you need for sustained clarity and comfort while at your computer. The very best thing you can do, though, is to have a comprehensive eye exam this World Sight Day to rule out any vision problems you may have. When you have your test, let the optometrist know you use computers regularly and how long you use them for. And while you’re there, please spread the love by pledging your eye exam, using #LoveYourEyes to post on social media.

October 12, 2023

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