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INTRODUCING NERF FORTNITE – THE ONLY WAY TO PLAY FORTNITE IN REAL LIFE

Calling all NERF Nation fans, gear up and get ready as NERF FORTNITE hits South Africa.  Hasbro has teamed up with Epic Games to introduce a range of officially licensed NERF and SUPER SOAKER blasters inspired by the FORTNITE Battle Royale video game.  The NERF FORTNITE blasters immerse fans into the player-versus-player action of the game, allowing them to play out the Battle Royale in a real-world setting, complete with blasters and accessories that replicate the exciting onscreen battles FORTNITE is known for. The NERF X FORTNITE range include official NERF darts, designed for distance, tested and approved for performance and quality, and constructed of foam with flexible, hollow tips. The FORTNITE themed NERF blaster range is the only way to play FORTNITE In Real Life.  The range isavailable from Takealot.com, Makro, Toys R Us, ToyZone, Toy Kingdom, Game and Checkers.  The full range includes:  NERF ELITE FORTNITE AR-L Blaster features motorised dart blasting. Power up the motor with the acceleration button and pull the trigger to shoot one dart. It comes with a 10-dart clip and 20 Official NERF ELITE FORTNITE darts, enough to fully load the clip and give you 10 backup darts for reloading. Flip up the two sights on the top of the blaster to align your shot. Drop into indoor and outdoor FORTNITE action with this motorised, dart-firing NERF ELITE FORTNITE blaster! Batteries required – not included.  NERF ELITE FORTNITE SP-L Blaster has a detachable barrel to customise for different ways to play. Attach the barrel for distance targeting; remove the barrel when you need a more compact look for smaller play areas or when you need to move fast and stay mobile. The FORTNITE SP-L blaster has an internal clip with a three-dart capacity, so you can load three darts in a row before it’s time to reload. Insert darts, prime, and pull the trigger to fire.   NERF SUPER SOAKER FORTNITE TS-R Water Blaster.  Extend the FORTNITE fantasy into the backyard and drench the competition with pump-action soakage. This NERF SUPER SOAKER water blaster holds up to one liter of water. It’s easy to fill and easy to fire. Open the cap to fill the tank, then move the pump-handle back and forth to overwhelm opponents with massive waves of water. Tag opponents with a powerful storm from the NERF SUPER SOAKER FORTNITE TS-R water blaster!  Blast into big fun with the NERF MICROSHOTS FORTNITE series of collectible, mini-sized NERF toy blasters. Blasters in this assortment include replicas of the FORTNITE TS blaster, FORTNITE RL blaster and FORTNITE Llama blaster, inspired by the iconic purple pinata loot box used in the popular FORTNITE video game. Each MICROSHOTS blaster includes two official NERF ELITE darts and fires one dart at a time with hand-powered action. Look for the MICROSHOTS series of micro-sized blasters for collecting and playing. Each sold separately.N Join the Nerf Nation @NerfSouthAfrica on Facebook and @NerfNationSA on Instagram –  check out the Nerf Nation Social Show (with Zach King) on YouTube for more exciting Nerf Nation fun.  *Nerf and all related properties are trademarks of Hasbro. Use only official Nerf darts designed for this product.  Epic, Epic Games, and Fortnite and their related logos are registered trademarks of Epic Games, Inc. in the USA (Reg. U.S. Pat. & Tm. Off.) and elsewhere.

Kaboutjie

Pregnancy and Travel: Tips for Flying the Friendly Skies While Pregnant

Becoming pregnant is one of the greatest gifts a woman could ever experience. Yes, you may have to give up a few things like sushi, your addiction to caramel macchiatos, and your occasional dirty martini, but once you hold that bundle of joy, you realize those small sacrifices are nothing in comparison to the life you just brought into the world. Speaking of sacrifices, there are also sacrifices pregnant women make that they don’t necessarily have to. One of those unnecessary sacrifices that women tend to make is giving up traveling. Air traveling while pregnant is one of the biggest misconceptions in the pregnancy world. The American Pregnancy Association statesthat as long as you are not having any complications or concerns with your pregnancy, it’s perfectly safe for women to travel during their pregnancy. Now, in knowing the pain and discomforts that come with pregnancy, it’s understandable for pregnant women to be wary about traveling. One of the worst things that could happen is to be thousands of feet in the air and experience morning sickness! What You Need to Know The symptoms and discomforts that come with pregnancy can be very mild up to unbearable at times but they aren’t necessarily factors that can prevent you from traveling (unless you’re having complications in your pregnancy). Here are some tips to follow to travel safely and comfortably while pregnant. Air Travel: Pick an Aisle Seat When it comes to air traveling, an aisle seat would be ideal for a pregnant woman. The aisle seat allows you quicker and easier access to the restroom and it also gives you more room to stretch your legs out. [sc name=”Google Ad In Article Ad”] Air Travel: Consider Wearing the Oh-So-Gorgeous Compression Socks Majority of the time, compression socks have been worn by older adults to help with blood flow, and on planes, blood clots are a high risk for not only pregnant women but for people in general, especially those with circulation problems. They’re not the most fashionable type of socks but they are helpful! Some doctors even recommend pregnant women to get up ever so often to do a small walk of the aisle to aid in circulation to the legs and feet. This is another added perk of why that aisle seat will come in handy. ***Big Group Road Trip Consideration: Comfort is Key*** If there is a special occasion coming up that requires you to travel for an extended period of time on the road with a large group of people, you need to have the same type of safety and comfort level in mind as you would on a plane. So let’s say you’re going to your family reunion and everybody really wants to see you now that you’re pregnant. Well, you couldn’t be happier to come but you just need to check on the travel arrangements. You need to let whoever’s in charge of the planning know that in order for you to go, you need to be comfortable. You can even suggest that renting a couple of minibuses would be the best case scenario for not only you but for everyone in attendance as well because those types of buses provide passengers with ample spaceplus, everyone would be able to enjoy each others company on the ride without one person having to worry about navigating through the city. Air Travel: Have Your “Morning Sickness” Kit On Hand They call it “morning sickness” but the truth is that this alleged “morning sickness” can strike at any moment during the course of a day, so when you’re booking your flight be conscious that some flights can trigger nausea with the slightest bump in turbulence. To remedy the nausea that can be associated with flying, you can always ask the steward or stewardess for a clear, caffeine-free soda; the bubbly carbonation is what helps to settle your stomach. You can also keep peppermint oil in your purse or pocket. According to everydayhealth.com, simply smelling peppermint oil can ease nausea. It has that calming and “tingling” effect that actually relaxes your stomach muscles so that the bile in your body can easily break down fats easier. If all else fails, most airlines have those paper (sometimes plastic) bags at each seat in case someone does get sick.

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GOOD NUTRITION FOR TEENS

Garbage in – garbage out? What are we feeding them? Good nutrition is of paramount importance for teenagers. Teens who do not eat correctly are more likely to be overweight, lack energy and enthusiasm and perform poorly at school.

Impaq

How to help your child make their subject selections in Grade 9

This time of the year Grade 9 learners need to make their subject selections for next year, but parents often do not know how to guide them. Educational psychologist, Lizette Erasmus, share some insightful guidelines on subject selections and how they will guide your child’s career choices in South Africa.

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Review: Oh So Crafty

Oh so crafty has brought upon the newest and improved form of art for children, diamond painting! Diamond painting is as easy as sand art. There’s sticky fun of matching shapes and colors to make up a complete picture. There are little patterns and numbers for every different colour to follow. It’s as easy as that. Diamond painting has the same benefits as puzzle building. This product helps develop emotional skills, such as the ability to learn patience and to be rewarded when they complete the puzzle. This product helps grow physical skills, such as hand-eye coordination. You will develop a relationship between what they see, hand movement and the brain relates to this information. This product was a lot of fun to make according to children, tweens, teens and even adults. This product is highly recommended from all age groups. Certainly the best boredom reliever on the market right now! Get your own at https://ohsocrafty.co.za

Prima Baby

FOLD & GO – Group 2/3 Isofix-installed car seat

Fold & Go is the brand new car seat that folds up into a compact unit and can be stored in the boot of the car when not in use. An Isofix-installed car seat, the new iSize regulation no longer categorizes children according to weight but rather to height now, and puts significant new safety demands on high back booster seats, making the Fold & Go one of the safest car seats on the market.

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CREATIVE EXPRESSION

Creative expression allows children to express their feelings and emotions. It allows them freedom to articulate and express their thoughts – to think critically. Creative expression can be many things – it can be painting, dancing, fantasy play, drama, singing, crafts, building with blocks and making music.

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WHAT IS INQUIRY BASED LEARNING?

One need only watch a young child spending a day at the beach to realise how fundamental curiosity is as a core trait in natural learning. Feeding the desire to delve into discovering things should be at the centre of all of our planning as teachers of learners of all ages. In a constantly changing world, preparing individuals for future careers is a moot point so we re-focus our efforts on skill, creativity and versatility in a yet unknown landscape in which they will spend their lives.

Toptots Head Office

Sensory Integration Difficulties

The number of children presenting with Sensory Integration Difficulties is increasing significantly. It is important that these difficulties are identified early and dealt with timeously as they have a large impact on a child’s functioning in the classroom, at home and in social settings.

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BE A SMART PARENT AND RAISE VICTORIOUS KIDS

From the start, kids are faced with the need to achieve. There are waiting lists to get into pre-school and from there, pressure to not only do your best, but rather ‘be the best’ throughout formal schooling. This all leading to tough competition for the limited spots available at a university. To address this, ambitious parents, who want what’s best for their offspring, are investing huge amounts of time and money to ensure their child has every advantage.

OneAid

Is It A Cold Or Is It The Flu?

Winter is here and so are coughs, colds and flu. Common colds and flu are both caused by viruses and share many of the same symptoms however colds are usually milder and do not cause any serious complications. More than 200 viruses can cause a cold whereas the flu is caused by the Influenza virus. This is why there is no vaccine available for the common cold.

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The Big Question: Should Cellphones Be At Camp?

Do you find yourself constantly asking your child to get off their phone? Or delayed responses because they need to answer a text? Welcome to a world where toddlers have tablets and teenagers are iMessaging on the latest iPhone. A break from the digital world is the goal of our camp, to be able to revel in adventure, friendships, and personal growth. Most camps do not include cellphones on their packing list, and the reason is simple: cellphones take away from the camp experience.

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Parents need to be happy too

In a world where life seems to keep us spinning in a never-ending vortex of fast-paced, pressured parenting, crushing bills and overwhelming expectations, Cindy Glass, Owner and Co-Founder of Step Up Education Centre says, “Parents, it seems, have lost their ability to see themselves as also worthy of happiness, peace and fulfillment. Parents seem hard-wired in continuing old patterns of parental-martyrdom (yes, there is such a thing) and parenting is tougher than ever. Parents tend to be their own biggest critics with feelings of not being good enough, not having enough time, not being organized enough, not having as much energy as one another – the list, unfortunately, does go on and on!” She adds that parents have all but forgotten that they are deserving of all the things that they want for their children – love, purpose, acknowledgment, happiness, fulfillment and peace!

Impaq

Why choose Tourism as a subject?

As tourism is such an integral part of any country’s marketing strategy, it has become vital to offer it as part of our learning package. Not only do learners discover the “treasures” of our country, but also how to manage and use these “treasures” responsibly to the benefit of all. Tourism teaches learners to promote South Africa locally and internationally, and to ensure that tourists experience, appreciate and value our country.

Clamber Club

How to improve your child’s core strength

“Core strength” has been a buzz word in the health industry the last few years, but its importance cannot be undermined especially in children. “The core muscles consist of the abdominal, hip and back muscles who work together to stabilize and align the trunk and pelvis during static and dynamic movements,” explains Clamber Club Expert and Biokineticist, Shehnaaz Bhabha.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Five tips to stretch your medical benefits

Lifestyles or Non-Communicable Diseases (NCDs) – such as diabetes – have become an epidemic in South Africa which is why preventative and managed healthcare has become all important. Whether you rely on the public or private healthcare system it is critical that you manage your health and lead a healthy lifestyle, to prevent long term illness.  Cardiovascular (heart attacks and stroke), cancer, chronic respiratory disease and diabetes are on the increase and responsible for the high cost burden of healthcare. For the around 20% (just under 8.9 million) South Africans who are on private medical aid schemes, managing their medical expenses correctly is important if they want to avoid unnecessary out of pocket expenses and make their medical benefits last longer. It also helps them understand the cost associated with the healthcare services they receive and the benefits associated with the plan they have elected. Here are the five tips from Lee Callakoppen, Principal Officer of Bonitas Medical Fund on how you can stretch your medical benefits. 1. Use Designated Service Providers or networks Medical schemes negotiate preferential rates with providers – known as Dedicated Service Providers (DSPs) – who have partnered with them. This allows schemes to ensure that members get the best quality services at the most cost-effective rate so that the benefits are optimised and the scheme at large is sustainable.  So if you use a network hospital, doctor or pharmacy you will not be charged more than the agreed rate. This will help you avoid co-payments and make your medical aid last longer. So, to reduce co-payments and even avoid them altogether, find a healthcare professional on your schemes network.  2. Go generic Use generic medicines which have the same active ingredient, strength and dosage as the original brands and are as effective. Most pharmacists offer a generic option, especially for chronic medication. Medical schemes are more likely to pay in full for generic medicine. Pharmacists are also able to provide sound medical advice on problems such as rashes, colds or illnesses that are not severe, simply ask and buy the recommended over-the-country medicine to save on a visit to the doctor. 3. Managed Care benefits Some schemes offer programmes to help you manage severe chronic conditions such as cancer, diabetes and HIV/AIDS. These programmes are usually covered from the risk portion of your medical contribution and are not funded from your savings account. They help you use your benefits to maximum advantage while ensuring you receive quality care by using specific providers. Other benefits – such as maternity consultations, wellness benefits, preventative care and dentistry – are also paid from risk by some schemes. Again giving you more value for money and are in addition to your savings and day-to-day benefits.  Carefully read through what your plan offers and choose wisely to make sure you find the right plan to suit your specific healthcare needs 4. Know the facts  If you do need to be hospitalised and it’s not an emergency ensure that it’s on your medical aid’s DSP list. Talk to your doctor or specialist to find out all the facts in terms of what they will be charging and compare this to what your scheme will cover. If the difference is substantial, negotiate.  Approach your doctor and ask if they are prepared to adjust their fee. Alternatively, you can also check if there are other healthcare providers on your scheme’s network that will charge you a better rate. You can also avoid the unwelcome surprise of a co-payment or sub-limits by: Making  sure you obtain pre-authorisation Making sure the medical practitioner uses the correct ICD-10 codes Checking what additional costs will apply (if any), what costs will be covered and how you can avoid these. 5. Keep moving One of the best ways to manage your health and the associated costs, is to live a healthy lifestyle and this includes getting enough exercise. Try different exercise routines and find one that works for you. Whether it is a regular short power walk, playing tennis or soccer, riding a bike or attending a yoga or pilates class, it will be beneficial to your mental and physical wellbeing. ‘Be informed and make good and less costly healthcare decisions,’ says Callakoppen. ‘Your health is important, so take time to research and understand the medical aid plan you are on. Read the information sent to you by the scheme or your broker, including the fine print and, if you don’t understand some of the terms, speak to your broker or phone the customer care line. Understand and know your rights in terms of healthcare cover, this will go a long way in helping you make the most of your benefits.’

Prima Baby

SEAT UP 0+/1/2 (0-25KGS) ISOFIX-INSTALLED CAR SEAT

One of the sturdiest and most popular car seats on the market, the Seat Up is the rock solid Isofix-installed car seat that parents have been raving about around the world. The perfect combination of safety, comfort and practicality, Seat Up cocoons the newborn baby with a mini reducer and then gets adjusted at the headrest and sides as the child grows. Also rear and front-facing depending on age group, the seat will be your child’s companion on their journeys until about 25kgs in weight, making it a logical solution in terms of longevity and savings. The 3-reclinning positions will keep comfort a priority too. A definite all-rounder in terms of car seat stars.

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10 smart ways to empower your daughter

We want our girls to have every opportunity to become strong, successful women. How we treat them in childhood has a huge role to play. Find out how you can boost your daughter’s confidence and empower her to be amazing!

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Perfectionism can be self-destructive

Mfundo (not his real name), a grade 1 learner, was struggling at school. His distraught parents explained that he was acting out in class and fighting with his classmates.  His teacher did not know how to handle his angry tantrums and aggressive behaviours. His parents admitted that they were experiencing similar behaviours at home and they were confused. You see, Mfundo was an achiever. He was top of his class in academics and a champion on the sport’s field. He seemed unbeatable. So, why was Mfundo’s behaviour out of control? On further investigation, it became clear that Mfundo was an exemplary young man when he was on winning, but whenever he made a mistake or did not come first, he became angry and aggressive. He was known to punch children who dared stand ahead of him in a school line, or who ran ahead of him in a race. His parents were surprised that it was concluded that Mfundo suffered from a low self-esteem! How could this be, they wondered? You see, Mfundo defined his self-worth on winning. He ONLY felt worthy of love, acknowledgement, purpose and joy when he was on top. In his mind, when he was not number one, he was nothing and that was a dangerous place for him to be! Nobody can always be number one. We are hard-wired to experience challenges, failures and disappointments. It is at these times that we learn our greatest lessons. Mfundo, like so many children, had to learn to love and appreciate himself in all circumstances.  He had to learn that NOT being number one, did not mean that HE was less. He had to learn the value of falling and being willing to rise again. So, what do you do if your child is like Mfundo? Teach them: To always try their best: Striving for non-existent perfectionism is self-destructive. Their time, effort, skills and attitude count more than the win: Only one person can be number one, but EVERYONE can feel a sense of accomplishment when they have a can-do mindset! Making mistakes and failing from time-to-time is normal and expected: The very fact that your child is human guarantees this! It is the lessons that are learnt and how they choose to rise again that will ensure consistent success in their lives! That YOU, as their parents, are not perfect: Model tools and attitudes that will assist your children in loving themselves through their challenges, just as you do the same! Be happy for themselves when they win, but, to be happy for others who do the same. Being happy for others is a sign of positive self-esteem! Help your children grow and learn as they embrace successes and failures in an environment which encourages them to believe in their capabilities and talents. Help them to strive to be the best version of who they were born to be and perfect is not it!

Toptots Head Office

Process Art and Early Childhood Development

Process art is all about the experience children have when they are creating. We encourage it at Toptots to enable the child to explore and be exposed to different mediums. Process art needs to be open ended and the child should be left alone to explore and create without any adult interference. Children learn through play and open-ended activities – this gives them the chance to explore and ask questions and see how things work. Process art is all about the actual process and not the end product.

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CHICCO BATH THERMOMETERS

Parents often struggle with knowing the correct temperature of their baby’s bath water.  Whilst it is safe to say that bath water is often best at 37 degrees Celsius, how do we know the water is that exact temperature? Chicco introduce two cute bath time favourite toys that act as thermometers and read bath water temperature.  Throw them in before placing baby inside the water and rest assured the water is fine for baby’s delicate skin. The floating fish thermometer (both in pink and blue) is a cute bath toy that reads temperature with a sensitive thermo-strip that changes colour with water temperature. Also available is the digital whale in orange colour.  Chuck the whale in the bath and watch as it digitally tells you the exact temperature of the water while he bops about and makes a great bath time toy. Fish thermometer available at Baby City,  www.takealot.com, www.loot.co.za, selected Kids Emporium stores and Whale Digital Thermometer available at www.takealot.com, www.loot.co.za, selected Kids Emporium stores. 

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Review: Happy Yosh

Helping your child to understand their emotions and what emotions are from a young age is imperative to the healthy development of emotional intelligence. These skills can be introduced from as early as 3 years of age.   Often times parents do not take the time to teach this vital skill to their child, which results in a child not being able to effectively understand or express themselves. The Happy Yosh Book by Pauline Gerson is an easy and interactive book targeted for children between the ages of 3 and 7 years.  It is easy to understand as well as beautifully illustrated.  The book is aimed to allow your child to firstly understand the basic emotions such as: Sad, Happy, Scared and Angry. Once a child is able to understand what these emotions are, you can explore further into topics such as “What makes you happy?”, “What makes you scared?”. This certainly is an easy way to open conversations and then to start adapting these into general daily life.  A child that has a greater understanding of their emotions and how to handle them, provides a good foundation for when they get older. We would highly recommend purchasing this book from Smart Emotions. You can do so by visiting www.smartemotions.co.za emailing [email protected] or Give them a call on 083 556 8684 The book is available in both English and Afrikaans.

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Art is Fundamental

What is art? Art is the “expression or application of human creative skill and imagination” thus may be brought through in a child in many forms: Music, Dance, Literature or Visual Creative Arts. Art is a fundamental; this could almost be considered part of a vital milestone in the pre-school child’s learning. In my experiences with visual arts, the atelier is a place of research and experimentation where the child can express themselves through the stimulation of their own creativity. The experience is one of enjoyment and plays a role in shaping their own sense of personal, social and cultural identity.  The art activities set out are of great importance as: They help develop fine motor, gross motor and hand-eye co-ordination skills. Problem solving abilities develop as they explore a huge variety of new materials and tools around them. Art is one of the many languages of the world, discussions and conversations lead in different directions building on vocabulary and then where children of a limited vocabulary also have an outlet to express themselves. The stages of art from scribbling to consciously drawing shapes, form a foundation for school readiness. They teach children about cause and effect appealing to the child’s sense of curiosity. Therefore, open–ended art is essential as it helps children not to be afraid of change and allows for a higher order thinking. A sense of pride is developed, through the planning of an activity to the final outcome, it all has a purpose. The child’s self-esteem develops through activities where they can express their own thinking through the freedom of choice. Independence is encouraged and taking responsibility for an activity boosts self-confidence. Working in groups at times, spark collaboration, socialising and compromise, which are all life skills that are crucial for development. Cultural identity and differences are built on through the introduction of various artists and their art works. Art should no longer just take on the form of using only some or other mark-making tool onto paper. Art is the discovery of building, fitting, fixing, breaking and composing of loose parts, using old things to become new things. Thus, repurposing and upcycling. Our mind sets have been shifted from the traditional ridged and somewhat constricted views of what constitutes art or an artist. I think we as teachers are only scrapping the tip of the iceberg of the possibilities available worldwide.  So, when teaching, we should then take on the opportunity to explore and expose our children to the wealth of resources available. Once we take on this ‘new age’ way of thinking we can then understand the full rich meaning of why art is so fundamental in learning, in the classroom and beyond. By Charlene Lang (Teacher at Maragon Ruimsig Pre-Primary) 

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Review: Chicco Bath Temperature Indicator & Bath Thermometer

Bath Temperature Indicator The Chicco Bath Temperature Indicator is a wonderful device that can be used to not only measure the temperature of a room but is able to measure the bath temperature as well – did we mention it is super cute and it floats! With the digital display, you can monitor your child’s bedroom temperature and ensure that the bath is just right with one simple product.  This product will set you back approximately R120 Bath Thermometer Another super cute floating device that can be used to get the best temperature measurement for your little one’s bath. With the thermo-strip, the thermometer will tell you what the ideal temperature is without the guessing games. Both of these amazing and fun thermometers are available from leading retail outlets as well as Takealot, Loot and selected Kids Emporium stores.  This product will set you back approximately R120

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ALLOWANCE AND BUDGET FOR TEENS

Children and teenagers have to be shown and taught how to deal with money. We are advised that, “The love of money is the root of all evil.” The source of this wisdom is the Book of Timothy in the Bible. This well-known adage is often mis-quoted as, “Money is the root of all evil,” which does not mean the same at all. It is greed and corruption and the misuse of the currency which can cause trouble for us, not the cold, hard cash or credit cards in your wallet. In accordance with your family’s wishes and beliefs, it is a good idea for children to learn to manage small amounts of money and experience having to budget for desired items. We know that we are living in a world and society where many young people feel entitled to have everything they want, or least everything their friends have. Not every family has the same financial means and children should be taught to understand that fact. Teach your children not to show off with money. Decide, as a parent, with your teenager, what would be a reasonable weekly allowance. Receiving a weekly amount to begin with may be better than a monthly sum, which may seem large and be squandered initially. Just like all adults, all children are different, so watch, without interfering, how your teenager manages money in the early stages. The amount to give depends on you as a parent and also on what you expect your teen to buy with this allowance. Do you give your teen a separate budget for cellphone usage or to buy family gifts? Those details need to be negotiated between you and your teenager.  The teenager is still at school and either living at home or in the boarding house at school. He should not have to pay for his daily lunches at the tuckshop at school from his allowance. To avoid this expensive trap, pack an interesting and healthy lunchbox and provide a water bottle for school every day. If the child, sometimes, wants to buy something at the tuckshop, then that item should come from his allowance. Many parents believe that children should do chores around the home in exchange for an allowance. These chores could include cleaning the house, taking care of the garden or swimming pool or feeding the family’s pets. A lot of teens also do the cooking at home if a parent is busy at work or with younger siblings.  Some parents are stricter than others and will deduct from an allowance for tasks not performed satisfactorily. Doing work in exchange for an allowance can teach responsibility and give your teen a taste of what the real world will be like. Everyone needs to learn to perform basic tasks like ironing a short or polishing school shoes. It is reasonable to expect a teenager to budget for non-school clothing and entertainment, such as movies or treats with friends. Should she wish to buy more expensive items of clothing, she should learn to save her allowance and budget. This is good training for when she is an adult and working and earning her own money for the first time. Teach your teenager to work wisely with money and save a small amount every month. Allow him to learn the value of money whilst still in the safety of your home. Encourage him not to be extravagant or to waste money unnecessarily. Enjoy and use your money carefully, but don’t LOVE it! By: Mrs Tracy Freemantle (Teacher at Pinnacle College Kyalami)

Breastpumps and Beyond

The Twistshake Food Processor Product Review

Recently, the Twistshake Food Processor has been introduced to South Africa. This is a remarkable product and offers a 6 in 1 user experience. Take a look at everything you need to know about the Twistshake Food Processor below, and see why you should own one today. The 6 In 1 Functionality Of The Twistshake Food Processor This machine will allow you to perform the following functions: Steaming: you will be able to steam fruit, vegetables, or meat products for your baby’s next meal Heating: you will be able to heat your baby’s bottle for breastmilk, or bowl or plate for puree o the Twistshake Food Processor Warmer: You will also be able to keep your baby’s freshly prepared food warm for a set period of time on this device Blending: you will be able to blend and puree foods to make your own baby food at home Sterilizing: this product also allows you to sterilize bottles and pacifiers Descaling: you can automatically descale your Twistshake Food Processor with the simple push of a button Why The Twistshake Food Processor Is A Must Have All parts of the Twistshake food processor are made from food grade materials, meaning harmful things such as BPA, BPS and BPF are nowhere to be seen. Furthermore, you will be able to seamlessly make great, nutritional food for your baby. Know exactly what is going into their food by making it from the comfort of your own home! With the automated cooking pre-sets, you will be able to whip up healthy food in no time.  What Your Twistshake Food Processor Will Come With The Food Processor A Blending Jar The Steam Container Accessories: your processor comes with a set of tongs, a ladle and two squeeze bags to package your baby’s puree into

Mia Von Scha

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU LIKE ONE CHILD MORE THAN THE OTHER

We all have times where we favour one child over another. Children go through different phases and some of these can be extremely challenging. It is easier to get on with and ‘like’ the child not going through a difficult phase or one who has a naturally more cooperative temperament. These are usually transitory fluctuations in the way that we like our children (note this does not mean that we love one more than another, but that they’re easier to get on with at that time) and can change from day to day or month to month.  Long-term favouritism usually comes from a parent who has not accepted all parts of themselves. We will all project the parts of ourselves that we are too humble or too proud to admit that we have onto the people around us. For example, all people are sometimes energetic and sometimes lazy (these are both natural human traits that we all have in some form). But if you are too proud to admit that you are ever lazy, you may project this ‘undesirable’ trait onto one of your children. You then place a label on that child and judge them as being ‘less than’ the child in whom you have projected more satisfying traits. And the more we label someone, the more we tend to only see that side of them, instead of seeing them for the whole person that they truly are.  Another reason that we may have favourites has to do with our own values. A parent will tend to like a child more if they have similar values to their own. For example, if the parent values education, knowledge and status, and has one child who is academic, head girl, and has been recognised in her community, and another child who loves fashion, make-up and partying, it is easy to see who might become the favourite. The fact is, that in any family you will have one (or more) children who tend to value things that you don’t. This does not make them wrong or inferior or unworthy, just different to you. In fact, when we start looking at self-development, it is the child most different to yourself from whom you can learn the most and grow the most.  The main danger in favouritism is that the unfavoured child will suffer a blow to their sense of self-worth. Our self-worth is responsible for our overall success, creativity, confidence, happiness and inner peace. A positive sense of self worth allows us to explore the world and try new things, to fulfil our dreams, to avoid peer pressure and to feel loved and loveable. If a child feels that they are not as loved, that they are somehow less than their sibling, they can start labelling themselves as ‘unworthy’, ‘unlovable’, ‘not good enough’, etc.  In my experience of coaching adults, the majority of their problems come from these kinds of limiting beliefs about themselves. Having one of these beliefs will hamper your relationships, career, friendships, health and general well being in life. A child experiencing this may, on the one hand, become an over-achiever, trying to prove their worth to the parent/s. (Just as a side note, the favoured child may also end up with self-worth issues, believing that there is something that they DO that makes them favoured and therefore trying desperately to hang onto this status.) Or, they may give up, see themselves as not worth the effort, and fall prey to peer pressure, drugs, alcohol, and other forms of delinquency.  The best way to avoid this is to seriously look at yourself. If you find that you are favouring one child over another, ask yourself what it is in yourself that you are trying to avoid. Ask yourself if you could learn something from the least favoured child. Learn to accept all parts of yourself and you won’t have to reject these parts in someone else (whether that be a child, spouse, co-worker or friend). Everyone in our lives, and particularly our children, can help us to grow as human beings and to find wholeness. If you’re struggling to do this on your own (and often it is very difficult to see our own flaws objectively) then work with a friend, coach or therapist to uncover what is really going on. Every child is a unique individual, different from everyone else and from themselves yesterday, and learning and growing at their own pace. Appreciate each child for who they are in this moment, knowing that they (and you) will change as time goes on. Every child deserves your love, regardless of what they are going through at the time.

Parenting Hub

Review: Chicco Thermo Distance Thermometer

Certainly the worst part about winter starting and the chill in the air is the sick kids! As a parent, you sit up late at night wondering if your child has a fever and we always seem to have everything in the medical kit except for a good, quick and accurate thermometer.  There is nothing worse than trying to hold a thermometer under the arm of a wriggly and cranky child.  The Chicco Thermo Distance Thermometer is a non contact thermometer and can measure temperature approximately between 4 and 6cm away from the child. The thermometer is not only quick in reading the temperature in a single second but it can be used from birth upward.  Best of all, when your little one is sleeping, there is no need to wake them to take their temperature. You simply do this by changing the device to night mode. The Chicco Thermo Distance Thermometer has a large LED display so you will be able to check temperatures from now on without disturbing your child!  The Thermo Distance records the last measurement temperature taken, so it will be useful for wanting to check if your child’s temperature has gone down or has continued to rise. The Thermo Distance also indicates if it has taken the temperature of your child or of an object close by, thus ensuring that the measurement is accurate every time.  This product certainly is a must in any medicine cabinet and is available from leading retail outlets as well as Takealot, Loot and selected Kids Emporium stores. This product will set you back from R900 upward

Breastpumps and Beyond

How To Prepare For Your Caesarean Birth

Preparing for a Caesarean birth is a simple, but needed, process. As with a natural birth, there are a few simple tick boxes you will need to have in place for preparation of the arrival of your baby. Read on below now to get the gist of what to consider when leading up to your C-section.  The List Of Preparation Tasks For Your Caesarean Who Will Be With You? Consider whom you would like to accompany you into the delivery room before your surgery. Make a list of the people, or person, who you’d like by your side, and make the hospital staff aware of your choice. Do You Want Music? some moms like to listen to a little music before the birth of their baby. If you would like that, consult with your doctor to see if this would be allowed. If you re given the green light, start compiling a play list to help you through your delivery! Do You Want A Camera? ask your midwife if you will be allowed to bring in a camera into the delivery room. If you will be, ensure you designate someone as your photographer. Where Would You Prefer The Screen Placement? if you would like to see the birth of your baby, be sure to ask the doctor to lower the screen upon delivery. Also, if you would prefer no screen, be sure to ask for that pre-surgery as well. How would You Like Delivery To Occur? be sure before you go into your operating room that the staff are aware of your delivery requirements. Would you like silence during the birth so that the first voice your baby hears is your own? How soon post-delivery would you like skin to skin contact with your baby? Be sure to stipulate all of your requirements clearly with your delivery team to avoid disappointment!

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