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PowerPlastics Pool Covers

What to consider when buying a child safety pool cover to prevent drownings

As a parent, you already know the importance of child drowning prevention and how quickly accidents can happen. What you perhaps didn’t know is that in South Africa, pool safety will become a regulatory issue, governed by the SABS through its building Standards.    According to the Safety Standard (SANS 10134), pool safety will need to be provided on all properties. The most effective way to address this is with a solid safety cover. But not all safety covers are made equal and it is important to understand the criteria when choosing a safety cover.  These are the questions to ask and the critical factors to get right if your safety cover is to perform as it should and keep unsupervised children (and pets) safe. After rain, does the water drain off within 15 minutes, leaving no water pooled on top of the cover? A compliant safety cover must have drainage holes.  Could an object measuring 114mm fit under the edge of the cover? This represents the size of a small child’s head.  Is the cover’s weight tolerance 220kg or more? Can two adults and a child walk on it without harm to themselves or damage to the cover? Are the batons supporting the cover manufactured for solid safety pool covers and able to carry the intended weight? Similarly, are the ratchets of adequate quality? Are the supplier and  the installer accredited by SANS 10134? Does the supplier provide official certification with the safety cover?  The PowerPlastics Solid Safety Cover is the leading child safety cover and complies with all the abovementioned requirements. Solid Safety Covers were first designed and introduced to the South African market by PowerPlastics Pool Covers. Many have tried to copy it but don’t always get the quality right. Cutting corners by using cheap components could result in a pool cover that is as unsafe as an uncovered pool if not even more dangerous, imagine being trapped under a defective cover! A Solid Safety Cover  is a specialist product, and requires specialist design and installation methods.  Go with the original and best in quality cover from PowerPlastics Pool Covers. You will be glad you went the extra mile when your quality safety cover stops a child or pet drowning in your own home.  Learn more at www.powerplastics.co.za 

Philips Avent

Tips for Mums & Dads When Transitioning from 1 Child to 2

Giving birth to your firstborn child sees you worrying about how and what to do right as you find your feet and transition into first-time parent mode. Welcoming your second child into your new family, you will be backed by prior experience to support you in your new role as family ‘multi-tasker’ as you embrace managing the love, care, feeding, soothing, and sleeping of 2 under 2! Welcoming in a second child will be different for every family. Each child is born distinctive from their sibling and your role as mother or father becomes a balancing act which may take time to adjust to. What is true for all second-time parents is that with increased time pressures, there are higher stress levels mothering two children who need round the clock care. Now, instead of taking naps alongside your newborn you will be spending precious time with your toddler. Happily, in the changing world around us, traditional gender roles are evolving as Dads help more around the home and do a lot to ease motherhood for mum’s post the birthing process. Partners may bring their boardroom logic into crises managing a moment with quick thinking and the most direct solution when your toddler and baby are both demanding – at full volume – to be fed! Parenting routines and caring for your kids may come first, and taking time for things other than motherhood at this challenging stage can seem unrealistic but like a diamond is pressured into pure sparkling beauty, it is also an opportunity for you as new mums and dads to set routines, prep meals, and delegate responsibilities with the right tools on hand so you can still carve out space in the day to connect with your partner or spouse, take a restorative five minute walk around the block, or journal in your diary. Philips Avent South Africa share some life tips and home hacks to grounding your new family in a harmonious home routine and setting the perfect scene for both your tiny tykes to grow and thrive: #1 Home Coming & Family introductions: Even kids as young as 18 months to 2 years can feel that things are changing. Prepare your firstborn child for your new arrival into the family only when the time is right and you feel ready to do so. Introduce the idea to your toddler that baby will be someone new to love, and that having a sibling is a privilege and a gift and they can be excited having a new role as an older sibling. Don’t oversell the idea however as you may set them up for rivalry. #2 Home Help Routine: Once your newborn has been introduced home, set up your new routines as soon as possible, by aligning feeding and nap times as much as possible to avoid double duty during the day. Second time Mum Sandy (33) claims her superpowers of adaptation saw her master the art of breastfeeding her newborn and spoon feeding her toddler at the same time. She suggests that for whichever task you avoid or dislike the most, this is the area to adapt and master. “I felt challenged by breastfeeding as I had sore, cracked nipples making it painful, and uncomfortable to feed either of my sons so much so that I would dread feeding times! “I was ecstatic when I discovered Philips Avent nipple shields, they protected my scabbed, sensitive nipples so they could recover and I could breastfeed again. Nipple shields made all the difference, thank goodness.” Breastfeeding your newborn should be your priority, with proper latching and full feeds at correct times. For working mums, you newborn and toddler can still benefit from breastmilk when you master the art of breastmilk pumping to ensure you have milk stored in milk storage bags in the freezer. These can be defrosted for feeds for your newborn by Dad or other caregivers or used for meal top ups of breastmilk for your firstborn toddler. Having the right tools to soothe and protect your breasts and efficiently pump your breastmilk makes it easier to stay comfortable and continue breastfeeding until the minimum 24-month breastfeeding period has been reached. #3 Planning & Prepping Meals In the new era of breast pumping, both the Philips Avent manual and electric breast pumps are quiet, and you can stay positioned upright allowing you to continue pumping and feeding, providing the necessary elixir of breastmilk that your children require during the day. Small and inconspicuous, both the Philips Avent manual breast pump and the Philips Avent electric breast pump will easily fits into your bag when you are on the go. The Philips Avent Natural baby bottle is designed for mums who want to combine breast and bottle feeding, with its soft, breast-shaped teat which encourages a natural latch and mimics the feel of a breast, making the switch between breast and bottle as smooth as possible for you and your baby and other parents and caregivers to step in for supported feeds. The spiral design of the teat and petals ensure it naturally flexes and doesn’t collapse when your little one is feeding, so your baby can enjoy an uninterrupted feed. More importantly the anti-colic valve in the Philips Avent Natural baby bottle is designed to reduce colic and discomfort by venting air into the bottle and away from your baby’s tummy for 60% less fussing at night. Generally, after the first month, babies gain an average of 500g to 1 kilogram per month within the first six months. Breast milk is the ideal first food, but beyond this stage, both milk and solid foods are needed to help your baby grow and continue to gain around 2 kilograms per month. Many babies are happy to wait until around six months to begin weaning and at this age can learn the skills needed for eating solid food very quickly especially if there is an older brother or sister to mimic at feeding times. However, babies

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The Importance of Nurturing Play for Children

Play is an essential part of childhood, and it plays a significant role in a child’s development. Research has shown that play helps children learn and develop a variety of skills, including problem-solving, creativity, communication, and social skills. Additionally, play helps children develop physical strength, coordination, and balance, which are all essential for healthy growth and development. Nurturing Play and Its Benefits Nurturing play is a type of play that focuses on building relationships, strengthening communication skills, and encouraging social interaction. It involves activities that encourage collaboration, cooperation, and empathy, such as group games and role-playing. Nurturing play helps children develop important social skills, such as sharing, taking turns, and resolving conflicts. It also helps children build confidence, self-esteem, and a sense of belonging. Preparing Children for the Future Play not only benefits children in the present, but it also prepares them for the future. As children grow and develop, they face increasingly complex challenges and situations that require critical thinking, problem-solving, and communication skills. By engaging in play, children develop these essential skills, which will help them navigate the challenges of adulthood. Also, play helps children develop a love of learning and a sense of curiosity, which are essential for lifelong learning. By fostering a love of learning in childhood, we prepare children for a future where they will need to continuously learn and adapt to new situations and technologies. Play is an essential part of childhood, and it plays a significant role in a child’s development. One example of nurturing play is My Garden Baby, toys designed to encourage imaginative play and social interaction. With My Garden Baby, children can use these toys to create their own stories and scenarios, encouraging creativity and imagination. They also promote social interaction, as children can play together and collaborate to create their own imaginative worlds.  Nurturing play, in particular, helps children develop important social skills, such as sharing, taking turns, and resolving conflicts, while also building confidence, self-esteem, and a sense of belonging. By engaging in play, children develop important cognitive and physical skills, as well as a love of learning and curiosity that will serve them well in the future. So, let’s encourage our children to play and explore the world around them, and let’s nurture their imaginations and creativity, as they prepare for the future.

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THE SNACK REVOLUTION: SMART NUTRITION ON THE GO

Fuel your day with FUTURELIFE®’s new Smart Oats™ Energy Bars   In a world where we’re always on the move, finding time to take care of our health and well-being can seem like an impossible task. In between rushing to work, fetching kids, hitting the gym and attending meetings, there’s not always time to sit down to a proper meal. Fortunately, FUTURELIFEÂŽ, known throughout South Africa for their nutritional expertise and Smart food™, continues to deliver on their promise of “smart nutrition for life”, and has developed a Smart solution to provide busy individuals with a delicious on-the-go snack, the Smart Oats™ Energy Bar. Scientifically formulated to contain minerals to support immunity, this pocket-sized snack is also convenient and packed with energy. “Given our fast-paced lifestyle nowadays and the expanding role snacking plays, consumers are looking for snacks that will support a healthier lifestyle. Our Smart Oats™ Energy Bars are perfect for busy moms, executives, kids, or anyone looking for a great-tasting, convenient pick-me-up,” says Angela Leach, Head Dietitian at FUTURELIFEÂŽ. Angela adds that the bars are formulated with Zinc, Copper, and Selenium, the bars are also high in dietary fibre,  contain whole grain oats, and 25% less sugar* making them ideal for the whole family. “We understand that snacking is no longer just a source of nutrition and indulgence but also an expression of personal identity and lifestyle choice. Our goal is to empower people to live healthier and happier lives with functional foods, and the Smart Oats™ Energy Bar allows them to do just that” says Angela. Available in three different variants; Yoghurt Coated, Yoghurt and Berry, and Peanut Butter Chocolate, the Smart Oats™ Energy Bars are available at Shoprite and Checkers stores nationwide, so make sure to grab yours and snack smart with FUTURELIFEÂŽ. For more information on FUTURELIFEÂŽ and their wide range of great-tasting products, visit https://futurelife.com. *25% less sugar than the leading yoghurt, berry and peanut butter energy breakfast bars in South Africa as at Nielsen November 2022.

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WHY DOES PLAYTIME MATTER IN THE EARLY YEARS OF LIFE?

From physical development to social and emotional growth, Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality healthcare, says there are many reasons why playtime matters in the early years of life. Whether building towering block castles or teaming up with friends to save the world, playtime ignites the imagination, inspires learning, and unlocks the boundless potential of children, developing the skills and abilities they need to succeed in life. Affinity Health takes a closer look at how playtime can benefit young children, providing parents with tips and guidance on how to facilitate age-appropriate playtime that supports their child’s growth and development. Playtime Enhances Physical Development Playtime is essential to physical development in young children. It allows them to develop fine and gross motor skills, coordination, balance, and spatial awareness. Playtime can involve simple movements for babies, such as reaching for toys and rolling over, and more complex activities as children grow, involving running, jumping, climbing, and other physical activities. Playtime Stimulates Social and Emotional Growth Playtime is also essential for social and emotional growth in young children. It allows them to interact with others and learn social skills such as sharing, taking turns, and cooperating. Through play, children can learn about their emotions, develop coping mechanisms to deal with them, develop their creativity and imagination, and explore their world in a safe and supportive environment. Playtime Promotes Cognitive Development Playtime is crucial for cognitive development in young children. It allows them to develop their language, communication, and problem-solving skills.  Through play, children can learn about cause and effect, develop memory and concentration, and practice decision-making and critical thinking. Playtime also allows children to explore their interests and develop their passions, laying the groundwork for lifelong learning.   6 Tips for Parents Parents can play a crucial role in facilitating playtime for their children. Here are some tips for parents to remember: Provide a safe and supportive environment for play, with plenty of space and various toys and materials to explore. Offer structured and unstructured play opportunities, allowing children to develop their creativity and imagination while learning necessary social and cognitive skills. Encourage playtime with peers, providing opportunities for children to learn and practice social skills such as cooperation and communication. Get involved in playtime with your child, offering support and encouragement while allowing them to explore and learn independently. Encourage age-appropriate play, with challenging yet manageable activities for your child’s developmental stage. Use playtime to teach your child essential life skills, such as problem-solving, decision-making, and conflict resolution.   Games for Children to Play to Enhance Your Child’s Development Here are some games and activities parents can encourage children to play, listed by age group: Babies (infant to one year) Tummy time: Place your baby on their stomach and encourage them to lift their head and look around. Peek-a-boo: Cover and uncover your baby’s face with a blanket or cloth. Singing and music: Sing songs and play music for your baby.   Toddlers (one to three years) Building blocks: Encourage your child to build towers and structures with blocks. Pretend play: Provide dress-up clothes and props for your child to use in pretend play. Sorting games: Encourage your child to sort objects by size, colour, or shape.   Primary school (three to six years) Board games: Play simple board games with your child to develop critical thinking and decision-making skills. Art and craft activities: Provide materials for your child to draw, paint, and create. Outdoor play: Urge your child to explore the outdoors and engage in physical activities such as running, jumping, and climbing.   Primary school (six to 12 years) Team sports: Encourage your child to participate in team sports such as football, basketball, or soccer to develop social skills and physical abilities. Strategy games: Play games like chess with your child to develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. Volunteering: Inspire your child to participate in community service or volunteer activities to develop empathy and compassion. About Affinity Health Affinity Health is South Africa’s leading health insurance provider, offering you a range of options at affordable rates, including access to the widest national provider network. We understand the importance of medical insurance that meets your needs, budget, and lifestyle. Our range of healthcare products are designed to protect you and your family when it matters the most. We strive to always give our clients peace of mind and the highest standard of service. For more information, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

7 Vital health checks for women

When it comes to healthcare, the focus has moved to preventative managed care and particularly, health checks and screenings. These include tests  carried out by a medical doctor to check for diseases and health conditions, even before you may have any symptoms. By detecting diseases early on they are often easier to treat.  Dr Morgan Mkhatshwa, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund, talks about the most important check-ups for women. Breast cancer From the age of 18 you should do regular self-examination of your breasts, if you see or feel any changes, consult your doctor immediately. Early detection increases the chance of survival and can save your life.  Some doctors recommend having a mammogram every two years from the age of 40 , others believe you only need to start at 50 years of age. A mammogram is a low-dose X-ray which radiologists analyse to look for changes in breast tissue.  Although the greatest risk for breast cancer is age, women can get breast cancer from a very early age, genetics also play a role in determining if you are at risk for breast cancer. Having a first-degree relative (mother, sister or daughter) with breast cancer almost doubles a woman’s risk. Having 2 first-degree relatives increases her risk 3-fold. Breast cancer can affect men too,   so women with a father or brother who has had breast cancer have a higher risk of breast cancer. Cervical cancer South Africa has a high rate of cervical cancer which has been attributed to the fact that not enough women are screened regularly. Screening can detect early changes in the cervix which can be treated and save your life. These include: Pap test (pap smear) which looks for cell changes (pre-cancers) in the cervix that may progress to cancer if not treated.  The Human Papillomavirus (HPV) test. Looks for the virus that causes most cervical cancers It is recommended that between the ages of 21 and 65, women should have a pap smear every two years and, from the age of 30 onwards, a pap smear and HPV test can be done every 5 years. A vaccine has been developed to protect women from getting HPV. It is administered free of charge, annually, to girls between Grade 4 and 7 (9 to 12 years of age) in all government schools. The HPV vaccination can be a cost-effective strategy in lowering the cervical cancer risk among women in South Africa. HIV/AIDS It is a misconception that men predominantly become infected with HIV/AIDS. Studies show that women are getting infected at a faster rate, particularly in developing countries and are both infected more and suffer more, than men. It is advisable for women to have an HIV test annually.  Bone Density As you age, your bones become thinner and weaker. Over time this can lead to a condition called osteoporosis. If you’re aged 65 or older a bone density test is recommended, which is covered by Bonitas. Called a DEXA scan, the frequency of this screening varies depending on your bone density and other risk factors. Your doctor may suggest you have this test earlier if you: Broke a bone in the past Have taken steroids for a long time Have rheumatoid arthritis Are underweight  Have a parent who has broken a hip after a minor injury Treatment for osteoporosis is readily available, ask your doctor.  Colorectal cancer screening These tests look for cancer in the colon or rectum by checking for tissue growths, called polyps. If you don’t have an elevated risk for cancer, then you should start having these tests when you turn 45. A colonoscopy, where the doctor looks at your entire colon, should be done every 3-10 years depending on what is found during your exam. A Faecal Immunochemical Test (FIT) should happen annually. The FIT is also a screening test for colon cancer which tests for hidden blood in the stool, which can be an early sign of cancer.  Skin checks Skin cancer is caused by the abnormal growth of skin cells – usually on the skin that has been exposed to the sun but not always. There are three major types of skin cancer: Basal cell carcinoma, squamous cell carcinoma and melanoma.  Examine your skin carefully at least once a month and, if you are prone to getting lots of moles, go to a dermatologist and have the moles ‘mapped.’  If skin cancers are found early and treated, they are almost always curable.   If you have a history of skin cancer in your family, have your skin checked regularly by a doctor.  Non-communicable diseases (NCDs) Known as lifestyle diseases, NCDs pose some of the biggest threats to the health of South Africans. They are a result of the way we live, combined with genetic, physiological, environmental and behavioural factors. The most common are hypertension (or high blood pressure), diabetes, mental health and obesity. It is imperative to have regular or annual checkups as recommended by your doctor.  Weight and BMI Almost 70% of women in South Africa are overweight or obese. The Body Mass Indicator (BMI) is used to check if you are a healthy weight. To calculate your BMI: Divide your weight in kilograms (kg) by your height in metres (m) Then divide the answer by your height again  Underweight is less than 18.5 and over 30 is considered obese Diabetes With over 4.6 million people in South Africa living with diabetes, it’s important to check your blood glucose. There are two main types of diabetes: Type 1 and Type 2. They are different conditions but are both serious and need to be treated and managed properly. One of the biggest problems with diabetes is when it remains undiagnosed. This can lead to blindness, heart attackstroke, kidney failure, impotence and amputation, so it’s vital to be checked frequently. Blood pressure Hypertension (high blood pressure) is when blood pressure stays elevated over time. It is often referred to as the ‘silent killer’ since nearly 33% of people who have it,

Cartoon Network Africa

JADE ARMOR

Lan Jun is still learning the secrets of Jade Armor – and thankfully, she has her friends, Theo and Lin, and the mystical Beasticons that accompany the armour, to help her contend with an evil array of supervillains and the very real trials of teenage life. A spur-of-the-moment decision by Blue Lynx renders her and Jade Armor unable to fight. A Shard plays havoc with social media and sets the virtual world on a collision course with the real world. Lan Jun learns some heart-breaking news and must journey into the Elemental Fields to find meaning and strength to help her prepare for an epic battle. PREMIERE: Monday, 5 June @ 17:00 CAT TUNE IN: Mondays – Fridays @ 17:00 CAT Available on DStv Catch Up

Cartoon Network Africa

NINJAGO: DRAGONS RISING – Dragons in Danger

Worlds collide, sixteen Ninjago realms combine – and chaos is unleashed across the universe. Spinjitzu Ninja Master Lloyd must train a new generation of heroes to help find Elemental Dragons who can save the planet before the Imperium forces of evil use the same dragon energy to destroy this new, unstable world. Two teenage heroes from different worlds must work together to use their newly discovered Ninja powers to defend the dragons. The outcome of their quest will either unite their world forever – or destroy it completely. PREMIERE: Saturday, 24 June @ 08:05 CAT TUNE IN: Weekends @ 08:05 CAT Available on DStv Catch Up

Medela South Africa

The Ultimate Solution for breast care and milk collection

Breastfeeding is special for mothers and babies and should be as comfortable as possible. Medela’s breast care range provides additional support when needed and addresses specific issues during breastfeeding. It includes products that help overcome certain challenges during breastfeeding, such as breast milk leakage or sore and cracked nipples. Medela Breast Shells (From R 389.99) Medela breast protection shells offer unique wearing comfort. The discreet shape and the flexible silicone membrane, delicate with the skin, make them pleasant and invisible under clothes. If you have sore or cracked nipples, Medela breast shells protect them and allow skin to recover by preventing your clothes from rubbing on them. Medela Nipple Shields (From R 339.99) Medela’s Contact™ nipple shields make breastfeeding possible when latching on is difficult or painful by protecting sore nipples and helping your baby attach more easily. Product benefits: Enable breastfeeding when latching on is difficult or painful or if you have flat or inverted nipples. Protect sensitive, dry, or cracked nipples during breastfeeding. Made from transparent, ultra-thin, soft silicone that’s comfortable on sensitive skin. Safe and taste-free for your baby. Shape maximises skin contact between you and your baby. BPA free. Medela Disposable Nursing Pad – 60’s (From R 199.95) Medela Disposable Nursing Pads are super absorbent and offer longer protection. The nursing pads are made of super absorbent material that prevents milk leakage and maintains dryness – day or night.  Medela Purelan™ – Lanolin Cream 7G/37G (From R 139.99) In the first few days and weeks of frequent breastfeeding, many women experience nipple soreness and dry skin. Purelan™ lanolin cream gives fast relief for sore nipples and dry skin.  Benefits: Safe for your baby – no need to remove before breastfeeding Effective–rich texture creates a protective layer on the skin’s surface and rehydrates from within 100% natural, single-ingredient lanolin. No additives, preservatives and fragrances added   Medela also offers mothers a range of accessories that make breastfeeding, pumping, collecting, handling, and storing breast milk easier and more convenient. Medela accessories help preserve the valuable nutrients of breast milk during transport.  Medela Quick Clean Microwave Bags (From R 399.99) Medela Quick Clean Microwave Bags 5 Pack is a handy way to sanitize your pumping equipment and breastfeeding accessories quickly and safely. These bags are small and easy to store, and each bag can be used 20 times.   Medela City Style Breast Pump Bag And Cooler Bag (From R 2099.99) Medela City Style Bag is a modern bag essential for carrying all your breastfeeding accessories. In this way, you can carry anything from a thermal bag to your favourite breast pump. Whether for travel or a day-to-day necessity, you will always be accompanied by your favourite accessories. What’s more, this stylish bag can be used while breastfeeding and even after you stop. Medela Cooler Bag consists of a discreet removable cooler bag specially designed to carry four 150ml Medela baby bottles. Its coating provides a refreshing effect so that breast milk can always be in its best condition. Thus, all nutrients and vitamins are preserved for a long time. Milk Collection Breast milk is precious – collecting and storing breast milk for your baby is essential for their health. That is why Medela only offers BPA-free bottles and containers. To make it more comfortable for you and to help ensure your pumping session is a success. Medela Milk Bottles set of 2-250ml/3-150ml (From R 339.99) Medela breast milk bottles are a perfect complement to your breastfeeding experience. Medela’s breast milk bottles are compatible with all our breast pumps, making it easy to pump, store and feed using the same container. This means not a single drop of your precious breast milk is wasted and you have less washing up to do. Medela Breast Milk Storage Bags 25 (From R239,99) / 50 bags (From R 359.99) Medela’s Breast Milk Storage Bags make storing, transporting, and warming breast milk convenient and hygienic. The easy-to-use flat shape is space-saving and makes thawing quick. The double zipper and durable material make the storage of your breast milk safe for your baby. Medela Silicone Breast Milk Collector (From R 339.99) The NEW Medela Silicone Breast Milk Collector is a true breastfeeding companion and breast milk saver. With its double leakproof design, lanyard, and suction base, Medela’s Silicone Breast Milk Collector protects each precious drop of milk from being lost, to ensure your baby receives it all. Easy to use, simply attach the breast milk collector, also known among other brands as a silicone breast pump, on one breast while feeding from the other to capture your natural let-down. Medela Family App The Medela Family app is your personal helper. With the app, you can easily track important stats for pregnancy, baby, and breastfeeding and it gives you tips and support to help you meet your goals. Features of the Medela Family App: Knowledge Centre – A library of expert-written educational articles to help you prepare and learn along your journey. Personal helper – Our smart assistant helps you troubleshoot technical problems and get answers to frequently asked questions. Easy to use – The Medela Family app was designed from scratch with high usability standards including a night mode for easier reading in dim lighting. Virtual milk storage – With this smart milk inventory system you will always know how much milk you have in your stash. Hands-free voice control – Use your voice to track a session! Especially handy when changing a dirty diaper. Baby tracking – The following sessions can be tracked for one or more babies: breastfeeding, pumping, sleep, bottle feeding, diaper changes, weight, and length. Pregnancy tracking – With Medela Family you can track the duration, frequency, and pain intensity of contractions. The Medela Family is available on the App Store, Google Play, and AppGallery. All Medela products are available from Dis-Chem, Baby City, Clicks, Takealot.com and other major retailers.  Follow Medela on Instagram @Medela_sa and Facebook @MedelaSA.

Kumon

A CONSISTENT LEARNING ROUTINE CAN CURB PROCRASTINATION

You’re sitting in front of your computer or on your phone right now. Is there something else you should probably be doing? Procrastination! This is a struggle many people experience because there are endless distractions in life. Children discover this pretty early in life and that can cause problems when things that need to get done (like homework, projects, and chores) don’t get done. So we’ve put together a few tips to help you help your child learn to curb procrastination.  1. Prioritize & Plan  Making things that need to get done part of a predictable routine can help to minimize how much your brain will fight you on it. The longer you put off starting a task, the harder it seems to get started. So, don’t give the brain a chance to trip you up. Encourage your child to get started as soon as they think of the task that needs to get done and at a predictable moment of the day. They arrive at home and know they have homework to do? Get to it. Don’t give them that snack they want until after they’ve already gotten started or after they’ve completed their work.  2. Eliminate distractions  Children naturally have shorter attention spans than adults, so the key to blocking out distractions is setting up a space free of temptation. Creating an area in the house that is quiet and devoid of technology and other distractions can be key to a successful study session.   3. Set Goals  While having long-term goalscan play a big role in motivation and confidence, having short-term goals can be instrumental in the fight against procrastination. Specifically, if you’re focusing on the goal, you might be less likely to get distracted by all of the other things you might be inclined to wander off to. Help your child set small, incremental goals for themselves for each homework period. For example, instead of talking about “studying for your maths test”, try phrasing using the specific goal, “reviewing chapter 2”. One is vague and the other is specific. And if you can focus on a time frame, like aiming to finish by dinner time, this can help motivate your child to get it done. Repeatedly accomplishing these types of small goals can also improve overall motivation as it creates a sense of accomplishment.  4. Reward completion!  A reward can look like a lot of things. It can be extrinsic (external rewards) such as earned time on a device or stickers on a rewards chart. Or it can be more intrinsic (internally focused) like offering praise for work well done. This cycle of effort and praise can help motivate a child, and motivation is one of the greatest tools in curbing procrastination.  A reward can also be a way to bridge one task to the next in the form of a snack break! But take short, planned breaks in between one task and another… ideally not in the middle of tasks. That can lead to loss of momentum and further distraction.   Pssst! Most of these “tips” are actually the lessons that Kumon students learn throughout their Kumon journey. Learn more the Kumon Maths and English Programmes here. This article is taken directly from the KUMON NORTH AMERICA website:  https://www.kumon.com/resources/a-consistent-learning-routine-can-curb-procrastination/

Junior Colleges

Support Healthy Brain Development by Connecting with Your Child

The first five years of a child’s life are crucial for learning and development since the brain is at its most flexible. The brain creates up to one million neural connections every second. First, however, our little ones need our help. Scientists refer to it as ”Serve and Return” This is to interact, converse, and engage in play with your child. Every time we engage with them, make them laugh and play with them, we help develop and enhance their relationships and mental health while teaching them some of the most crucial life lessons.  In collaboration with Minderoo Foundation, Molly Wright, aged seven, presented a TED talk as a resource for parents and caregivers worldwide and was supported by UNICEF. In her talk, Wright highlights what happens when a connection is taken away, just for a moment. I know it’s essential for adults to use their devices sometimes, but kids are hardwired to seek meaningful connections. Not receiving them causes confusion and stress. What if that small moment of disconnect lasted a whole childhood? How challenging it would be for a young child to feel secure, protected, and capable of putting their faith in others, not to mention the long-term effects. Having positive relationships with the adults in their lives gives kids the confidence they need to try new things, explore, grow, and be kids. Additionally, as your child discovers the world, they learn how to reason, comprehend, speak, act, express emotions, and build strong social skills. Here are some ideas to help you keep building this kind of relationship with your little one: Commit to Connection Set aside 10-15 minutes each day with your child. Taking time out from everything else to interact with your child shows how important they are to you. For example, play a game, talk, or go for a walk. Rather than structuring the time, make it a time for you to connect. Play Games  Taking the time to play with your child by doing things they love shows that you take an interest in what excites them and build their confidence. There are also many benefits to using structured play.  Copycat games develop empathy and imagination. Naming games improve vocabulary and attention. Peek-a-boo games help build memory and trust.  Snuggle Time Before Bed Nothing is more effective for fostering a stable connection than a nightly ritual. Reading, discussing your child’s day and snuggling give your child a sense of belonging and stability.  We cannot connect every minute, every day, but a little bit goes a long way. Plus, you will capture beautiful memories that will bind your connection together for a lifetime. Happy connecting! by Danika Wolmarans (Junior Colleges Raslouw)

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Make the most of play time

Play is about so much more than simply passing the time or keeping the kids busy. For kids, it’s a crucial part of childhood development that helps them pick up important new skills while improving their gross and fine motor skills, showing them how to play well with others and, of course, giving them a chance to spend quality time with mum and dad, while building stronger ties as a family.

Good Night Baby

Pillows and Blankets – When are they safe to introduce?

When our children are babies it is clear what the guidelines indicate when it comes to safe sleeping.  The cot area should be clear (NO blanket, NO pillow, NO cot bumper), the mattress should be firm and breathable, and you should always put your baby down on their back. When my daughter moved to a big bed close to 3 years of age, having never slept with anything except the sleeping bag and her taglet, I faced the Big Bed with confusion.  The bed sure looks odd without a pillow?   As our babies become toddlers (12+ months), is the fear of SIDS no longer a risk? As I started looking for the answer, I realized it is not so clear.  Most safe sleep guidelines only cover up to 12 months of age.   The recommended age to start introducing a pillow is the same age you move your toddler to a big bed/toddler bed or take the railing down on their cot, which is between 2.5 and 3 years. If your child is younger than this when they move to a big bed then they do not require a pillow, rather just use a safe sleeping bag. When choosing pillows and duvets though, keep in mind that your toddler’s pillow and duvet will differ from yours initially.  When deciding on a pillow, rather choose smaller than too big.  Choose firm pillows for your growing toddler who needs proper neck support.  The same goes for a blankets and duvets, choose one that is not to heavy or too big.  Larger blankets/duvets can present suffocation risk that smaller blankets do not present, even if your child is over 12 months of age. Toddlers easily adapt though to the pillow, not always staying on it all night but that is nothing to worry about.  It is quite a different story though with your toddler and their blanket.  Toddlers are busy sleepers and often kick their blankets off.  Another reason to wait till 2.5 – 3 years to introduce the blanket and rather stick to sleeping bags before this age.  But once they are using a blanket or a duvet,  you want to encourage them to start using it independently.  Make them practice putting the blanket or duvet on them, showing them how to pull it over themselves.  This might take a while to perfect, but if you allow them to practice and not just do it for them, they will get the hang of it quickly. By Jolandi Becker MD and Owner of Good Night References When is it safe to put a pillow in your toddler’s crib or bed? (todaysparent.com)When Can a Toddler Have a Pillow? Age, Considerations, More (healthline.com)When Is It Safe for My Baby to Sleep with a Blanket? (healthline.com)

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International Burger Day on 28 May

Burgers have always been and will always be a firm favourite. And we’ve put together some awesome recipes to help you celebrate the yummiest of yummy “any time meal”. Our added twist is burgers that work for carnivores, flexitarians and vegetarians. So whether you’re thinking local, Asian, Greek or  Plant-based, we have just the burger for you. ASIAN-STYLE MUSHROOM BLENDED BURGER Makes 4 burgers FOR THE BURGERS: 400 grams Beef Burger Mince (80/20 fat ratio) 400 grams mixed Portabella and Portabellini mushrooms, finely diced Âź Cup Panko Bread Crumbs 2 tablespoons Oyster Sauce 3 tablespoons Ketjap Manis (Sweet Soy Sauce) 1 teaspoon Sesame Oil 2 teaspoons garlic powder 2 teaspoons onion powder 1 teaspoon ground ginger Âź teaspoon white pepper ½ teaspoon salt 1 large egg A little oil for frying FOR SERVING: 4 Burger Buns, toasted (Sesame Seed buns are great for this burger) Asian Slaw Mix (green cabbage, red cabbage, carrots & coriander) PREPARATION: For the Burger Patties: Combine all burger patty ingredients in a large bowl and mix by hand ensuring spices well distributed Form 4 burger patties and refrigerate for a minimum of 30 minutes Grill or Fry burger patties (suggest medium) ensuring caramelization on searing BUILD YOUR BURGER: Toast Burger Buns on grill Place a little of the Asian Slaw mix onto your toasted Burger Bun base Top with Mushroom Blended Burger Patty Drizzle with Sriracha Mayo Top with Red onion Pickle & Burger Bun lid Enjoy!!!! Chef’s tips Great served with Asian Slaw Salad, Atjar Tjampoer (Sweet & Sour Vegetable Pickle) and hand-cut potato wedges tossed in rosemary salt Beef mince can be replaced with Ostrich mince for a leaner, healthier option GREEK STYLE MUSHROOM BLENDED BURGER 2 x BIFTEKIA (PATTIES INGREDIENTS: Fresh Tomato – 40g Fresh Parsley – 12g Beef Mince – 300g Button Mushrooms – 300g Stale White Bread – 1 slice Large Onion – 1/2 Dry Oregano – 3ml Ground Cinnamon – 1ml Ground Cumin – 1ml Olive Oil – 12ml Baking Powder – 1ml Salt – 1ml METHOD Drench the slice of bread in water – put aside Grate the tomato & finely chop the parsley – put aside Roughly chop the mushrooms and flash fry – put aside Fry onions in olive oil until soft – put aside Add the cooked mushrooms, onion, bread, spices, herbs, baking powder, chopped tomato and parsley to the raw mince. Add seasoning to taste Mix by hand ensuring ingredients are well distributed Form the burger patty and refrigerate for 30 minutes. Grill or fry patty FOR SERVING: Two toasted Sesame Seed buns A side salad and zucchini fries 2 x tablespoons of tzatziki to spoon over the patties Lentil & Mushroom Burger with Mushroom Bun Serves 4 Ingredients: Patty: 400g white button mushrooms 2 x 400g tin brown lentils, rinsed and drained  ½ red onion, diced 2 cloves garlic, grated 1 Tbsp smoked paprika Âź cup flour Âź cup breadcrumbs Olive oil  Salt and pepper, to taste  Avocado salsa: 1 large ripe tomato, diced (or use a handful of colourful cherry tomatoes)  ½  red onion, diced 2 small – medium sized avocados  Âź cup fresh coriander leaves  Juice of ½ lemon  Freshly ground pink peppercorns, to taste  Salt, to taste  To serve: 8 large portabello mushrooms  2 large carrots, peeled & peeled further into ribbons  2 cups mixed lettuce  Sesame seeds Side suggestion- Sweet potato fries & mayo Method: For the patty:  Blitz mushrooms in a food processor until finely diced.  Add mushrooms to a hot pan with a drizzle of olive oil.  Cook out all of their water. Work in batches if necessary to not overcrowd the pan.  Scrape mushrooms into a large bowl.  Add the lentils to the dry hot pan and toast them until dry.  Add to the bowl of cooked mushrooms.  In the same pan add a fresh drizzle of olive oil and cook the onion until soft.  Add the garlic and paprika and cook for a minute until fragrant.  Add to the bowl of mushrooms and lentils.  MUSHROOM AND BEAN BURGERS  Serves 4 – 6 Mushroom and Bean Burgers: 15ml odourless coconut oil or avocado oil 1 small red onion, finely diced 1 clove garlic crushed 250g white button mushrooms, finely diced 5ml miso paste 1 can black beans, drained and rinsed 45g fresh parsley, chopped salt and pepper 2ml cayenne pepper 60g Parmesan cheese*, finely grated (or vegan cheese) 1 cup – 1 ½ cups mashed potato, cooked and mashed 1 cup panko crumbs or rye bread crumbs 2 eggs odourless coconut oil or avocado oil, for shallow frying To serve: steamed spinach, lemon zest roasted vine tomatoes in balsamic vinegar avocado wedges, grilled red tomato-based chutney a few rocket leaves Heat the oil in a pan and gently fry the onion and garlic for 5 minutes. Place the mushrooms in a food processor and blitz until fine. Add the mushrooms to the onions and fry for 3 minutes. Mash the beans with a fork or blitz in a food processor. Transfer the mushroom mixture to a mixing bowl and stir in the miso paste, mashed beans, parsley, salt and pepper, cayenne pepper, Parmesan cheese, mashed potatoes, bread crumbs and eggs. Mix well together and shape the mixture into patties and place in the fridge for 30 minutes to firm up. Heat some coconut oil or avocado oil in a shallow pan and pan fry the patties for 3-4 minutes per side. Alternatively, arrange the patties on a greased baking sheet and bake at 180°C for 15 – 20 minutes. Serve for breakfast or brunch with wilted spinach, balsamic roasted vine tomatoes, avocado wedges, chutney and a few rocket leaves if desired. FREE RANGE BEEF & PORTABELLO MUSHROOM BURGER  with oven roasted tomatoes (serves 2) BLENDED MUSHROOM BURGER PATTY INGREDIENTS 200g Free Range Beef Mince 200g Portabella Mushrooms One bun per burger 4g Finely Chopped Parsley 4g Hudson’s Secret Burger Spice60 Egg METHOD FOR BURGER PATTY Chop the parsley finely. Chop the portabella mushrooms into small pieces,

Mia Von Scha

Teen Privacy

Teenagers are in a stage of life that entails high growth and a lot of personal development and investigation. Time on their own is absolutely essential for them to navigate this time in a healthy way and to get to know themsleves and their bodies, and to get to trust their own decision making and develop independence. Adolescence is a time of breaking away from the parents in order to foster independence and an ability to cope in the world without you. Teenagers need some space to figure things out for themselves, and time just to think and introspect. This does not mean that you leave them alone entirely and disconnect. Teenagers are still experiencing a lot of brain growth which affects their ability to make good decisions and often leads to impulsive behaviour and excessive risk taking. In other words, they still need your guidance, but they need you more as a mentor than a dictator! Think of healthy boundaries with your teens as you would healthy boundaries in any of your relationships. You wouldn’t go digging through a friend’s room or reading their diary unless you were really, genuinely concerned for their safety and wellbeing. If you keep an open channel of communication with your teens, show a real interest in their lives, and have a strong, respectful bond with them then you will find less need to interfere. Children who are treated with respect will also be more likely to respect you and your rules and guidelines. You need boundaries from both sides, but they need to be healthy boundaries. Unhealthy boundaries on the one hand can be parents who interefere too much in their teens lives – who enter their rooms without knocking, who check in on them hourly via phone, who ask too many questions. On the other side of the scale, unhealthy boundaries can be parents who are too removed – who never ask any questions, who appear to show no interest in their teens lives, or alternatively who see themselves as a friend rather than a mentor (who will smoke and drink with their teens and share inappropriate emotional content). The causes of unhealthy boundaries on either end of the scale are usually due to relationships that are not well formed. Parents who connect with their kids on a real, respectful level rarely have inappropriate boundaries as they communicate clearly with their teens and thereby catch problems before they develop. Teens should have as much privacy as they need provided that it is not infringing on their safety and wellbeing, and is balanced by time connecting with the rest of the family. Make sure that you have a daily time to connect with your teenager – have family mealtimes, go for a daily walk together, etc. Other than serious issues like drugs, the only real danger of teens spending a lot of time alone in their rooms is tied into technology. This can be overcome by keeping any devices where you can connect to the Internet in a communal space in the house, or by having a strictly open door policy with regards to technology (ie you need to keep the door open if you are connecting to the Internet). It is also worth discussing these issues with your teens and making them aware of their vulnerability online and the reasons that you are concerned for their safety so that they can be more aware themselves. Again, open communication is key. If you are concerned that your child may be depressed, suicidal, or have a drug or eating disorder for example, and you feel that you need to invade your teen’s privacy for their own safety, it is still best to consult your teen first. Explain that you will be going through his/her room or personal belongings, and even do this together. Make it very clear that you are concerned and only doing this for their wellbeing. If they have nothing to hide, they should be ok with this. If they do have something to hide, they will appreciate your care in the long run. Involve your teens in the rules and decision making of your household. They are much more likely to abide by rules that they have helped to set and that they understand the reasons behind. You win the trust of a child like you win the trust of anyone – by being trustworthy. Treat your children like whole people who deserve respect, understanding and trust themselves. Children, like all people, tend to live up (or down) to our expectations of them. Discuss your expectations with them and make sure these are realistic. Let them know that you trust them to meet these as you know how competent they are (and then act accordingly). When things go wrong (and they will from time to time) treat this not as a failure to be punished, but as an opportunity to connect and find out what is going on. The solution to dealing with teen privacy is trust, open communication, and respect. Every family will have different guidelines, rules and policies with regards to the privacy of their teens. If you keep an open and respectful line of communication between you then you will find solutions that work for everyone and where the teens do not feel the need to rebel against what they perceive to be unfair restrictions.

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Stress and the physical effects on your body

It is common knowledge that an overload of stress is not healthy and can have detrimental effects on your mental and physical health. Dr Morgan Mkhatshwa, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund, discusses how too much stress interferes with the optimal functioning of your body and mind and results in an alarming number of health issues. What is stress? Stress is a natural human response to challenges and threats in our lives. It usually happens when we are in a situation that we don’t feel we can manage or control. Medically, stress causes chemical changes in the body that can raise your blood pressure, heart rate and blood sugar levels. So, what happens to your body? Your Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) is a network of nerves that helps your body activate its ‘fight-or-flight’ response. This system’s activity increases when you’re stressed, in danger or physically active. The body shifts its energy resources toward fighting off a perceived life threat or fleeing from an enemy. The SNS signals the adrenal glands to release hormones called adrenalin (epinephrine) and cortisol. The fight response is your body’s way of facing any perceived threat aggressively Flight means your body urges you to run from danger Freeze is your body’s inability to move or act against a threat Research suggests that stress also can bring on or worsen certain symptoms or diseases. What are the most common physical symptoms in reaction to stress The cortisol and adrenaline hormones released during a stressful situation can cause several changes in your body, including: Increased heart rate and blood pressure: The increased level of hormones can cause your heart to beat faster and your blood vessels to constrict, leading to higher blood pressure. Digestive problems: Stress can affect your digestive system and cause symptoms such as stomach pain, bloating, constipation or diarrhoea. Weakened immune system: Chronic stress can suppress your immune system and make you more susceptible to infections and illnesses. Muscle tension and pain: Stress can cause muscle tension and pain, especially in your neck, shoulders and back. Headaches: Stress can trigger tension headaches, migraines as well as muscular spasms in the neck and shoulders. Sleep problems: Stress can interfere with your sleep, causing difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep or waking up too early. Skin problems: Stress can exacerbate skin conditions such as eczema, psoriasis or acne. Endocrine disorders caused by stress include thyroid hormones leading to hyperthyroidism or hypothyroidism, ghrelin and leptin, the hormones that regulate appetite, increasing hunger, melatonin, resulting in restlessness and insomnia, insulin, contributing to Type 2 diabetes. Mental health issues: Chronic stress can also contribute to the development of mental health disorders such as anxiety, depression and burn-out. How do you monitor your stress levels? To monitor your stress, first identify your stress triggers. What makes you feel angry, tense, worried or irritable? Do you often get headaches or an upset stomach with no medical cause? Is it hard to focus or do you have trouble sleeping at night? Overall, chronic stress can contribute to the development or worsening of chronic conditions such as diabetes, obesity, depression and anxiety.  Stress can be a killer. Which is why it’s essential to manage your stress.  Do this through healthy coping mechanisms such as exercise, meditation, deep breathing or seeking professional help, if necessary. And remember, your GP should be your first port of call for all your healthcare needs. We believe there needs to be coordination of care and encourage you to see your GP, who can refer you to a specialist or auxiliary provider as and if the need arises.

Junior Colleges

Is playdough therapeutic for our children?

Today we will be covering the topic – of playdough. It has a wide array of developmental learning and sensory benefits for children.  What can playdough teach children, and what skills does it develop? Fine motor skills It helps the children`s hand development, strength, dexterity, and controls the need to manipulate everyday items such as scissors, pencils, zippers, and buttons. Social emotions skills Children explore abilities, life experiences, and emotions and learn about cooperation, collaboration, self-control, and making friends. Language and literacy Children discuss what they are creating or their sensory experience; while doing that, they are expanding their vocabulary words like (poke it, squeeze, pull, put and squish it) Science and Maths They create shapes, comparing sizes (small, big, empty, full, etc.) This exercise exposes children to a vast array of Maths and Science concepts. Children can also learn about colours, textures, and shapes as they learn how to manipulate the play dough. It is a fun activity for all children Your child can benefit from using play dough, and these are some benefits Enhances their fine motor skills Improve their pre-writing skills. Develops their creativity and imagination. Enhances Social skills Increases curiosity and knowledge. Develops hand and eye coordination. Sensorimotor, tactile and olfactory. As parents, we always ask ourselves whether play dough is safe for our children. It is non-toxic, non-irritating, and non-allergenic except as noted. Children who are allergic to gluten may have an allergic reaction. Lastly, tips for parents and teachers on how to extend playdough activities Mixing different food colouring. Add glitter. Create monster playdough by putting googly eyes. Stick candles as a birthday cake. Use silver wear for cutting, tooth pics, cups, bowls, wine cork, pine corns, bottle tops, strainers, pipe cleaners, and rolling pins. Playdough is therapeutic for children of all ages.  Please encourage your children to play using it. Start today. By Tessa Masilo (Teacher at Junior Colleges Sunninghill)

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The Importance of Emotional self-regulation in Children

When it comes to children of any age, parenting is tough. One might think they know the answer, and then the question is changed.  Like us, children sometimes find it challenging to regulate their emotions which often leads to meltdowns and the inability to problem-solve.  Emotional self-regulation is as follows: Emotional self-regulation refers to the ability to control and be aware of one’s emotions to take on tasks more effectively. Although this may seem impossible in little humans, it is vital for ongoing development. Children learn to self-regulate over time – some benefits include the following:  Improvement in emotional intelligence  A sense of self-discipline may develop  Becoming more independent  Adapting better to environmental changes As adults, we often find it difficult to control and manage our emotions and behaviours, so the question you may be asking yourself now is, “How am I supposed to get my screaming child to manage and control their emotions?” Well, here are a few simple ideas to get you started. Number 1:  regulate your own emotions and body before approaching the situation and trying to help your child handle it. It is often said that children feed off of their parent’s emotions and behaviours. As hard as it may be – try to sound calm. It would help if you also let them identify how they may feel. (Feelings chart can assist) Number 2: Participate in regulation strategies with your child. This may be things like spending time in a calm and quiet place; the critical component is a connection or tense and release activities (ball up your fists as tightly as you can while breathing in and releasing your fist or exhaling). There are many more effective strategies, but this step’s primary focus is establishing a calmer environment. Number 3: Make use of a problem-solving wheel with different strategies. Visual aids may benefit your child as they can act as a reminder of regulation strategies. Number 4: Verbal reminder: talk your child through each strategy. Allow them to choose which method they would like to use. Giving your child choices is always an excellent technique to establish independence.  Number 5: Listen to your child and ensure that you allow them to express their needs, working collaboratively to find solutions that may be helpful.  These simple suggestions make it easier for you as a parent to connect with your child’s emotions and allow them to establish and regulate their feelings. We tend to forget that our little people are people and sometimes require a helping hand to navigate life.

Good Night Baby

Separation anxiety in babies

At around 6 months of age, babies reach a big developmental milestone. They start to perceive relationships, and most importantly, the effect of distance. Babies start to realise that objects and people can come closer, and move further away, or even disappear around a corner or in the distance. This is a wonderful milestone that encourages babies to move by means of rolling, creeping and crawling. You will also start to realise at this stage that your baby is not happy with you putting him down and leaving him behind, because along with this milestone comes separation anxiety. The severity and effect of separation anxiety in babies differs from child to child. It also comes and goes from 6 months until late toddlerhood. Separation anxiety can last between 2 and 3 weeks at a time and has an effect on your child’s mood and behaviour, as well as their sleep. Whether or not your baby has been sleep trained, your baby might start screaming the second you put him or her in their cot and leave the room at this age. At first this might give you a big fright and cause confusion. Here are some tips on how to deal with your baby’s anxiety: Practise separation during the day: From playing peek-a-boo and hide-and-seek, to leaving your child with a trusted caregiver. Practise going away and coming back. Practise reassurance.      Don’t let your child get over-tired: Children are more susceptible to separation anxiety when over-tired. Finding the optimal time to put your baby down for sleep might just make a big difference. Have a fixed routine: Routine is predictable and it makes a baby feel safe. During a phase of separation anxiety, stick to your routine and your child will know exactly what to expect. Your child knows that after a nappy change and story in the room, he will sleep, and when he wakes up, you will return. Comfort items: A comfort item is familiar, and is your child’s sleep buddy. It comforts and provides feelings of control and safety at sleep time. Don’t feed the anxiety: Do not make a big fuss about leaving your child; stay calm. Treat the situation like every other day. Children feed off our energy, and if the caregiver gets nervous about leaving the child, the child will definitely feel anxious. The fact that your baby is learning that you are able to move away from him, makes it is a great time to sleep train as they understand what is happening and will be able to learn from it. To teach him or her that they are still okay even if you are not in the room is a way to not feed the anxiety, but to help your baby get used to these feelings for short periods of time. To conclude, if you find that you and your baby are in a phase of separation anxiety, give your baby extra cuddles during bedtime and follow your normal routine. If your baby starts crying in their cot, give him or her some time to work it out for themselves. Do regular checks on your baby for extra reassurance but let your child fall asleep independently as usual. By Magriet Rothman – Good Night Sleep Consultant Resources:https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-sleep-patterns/wonder-weeks-chart-baby-toddler-sleep/ https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/separation-anxiety/https://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/separation-anxiety-and-separation-anxiety-disorder.htm

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WHEN AND HOW TO EXERCISE POST CAESAREAN

If you are wondering what life post caesarean surgery is going to be like, this is the blog for you. We will be looking at how and when you will be able to start exercising again after your op, and what exercises may actually aid your recovery. Read on below now for these tips. Pelvic Floor (Or Kegel) Exercises You may have been practicing Kegel exercises before the birth of your child. This is the first type of exercise you will be able to, and should do post caesarean. This will help you with any incontinence you may experience, as well as help you re-strengthen your pelvic floor. Once your catheter has been removed, you will be able to start up on these exercises once more.  Abdominal Exercises You will also need to re-strengthen your abdominal muscles. These will help you protect your spine during recovery and keep your core strong. Here is a recommended ab exercise for during recovery: Lie on your side with a slight bend in the knee Relax your abdominal muscles and begin to inhale and exhale gently While exhaling, try to pull in your abdomen muscles ever so gently Whilst doing this, gently squeeze your pelvic floor as well Hold this pose for ten seconds Repeat this process ten times When To Start Physical Exercise Post Caesarean If you want to begin your physical work out again, you will need to wait between 6-8 weeks post caesarean as a general rule of thumb. Begin with light, low-impact exercises such as swimming, Pilates or yoga. Wait until 12 weeks to begin more high impact workouts such as running or resistance training. However, remember to always consult with your doctor before beginning any form (low or high intensity) training post your caesarean operation. 

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Parental Rights and Responsibilities

Parental responsibility is the responsibility to care for the child, to maintain contact with the child, to act as guardian of the child, and to contribute to the maintenance of the child. The Children’s Act further sets out that a person may have full or specific parental responsibilities and rights. Full parental responsibilities and rights means that a person may be entitled to all the rights set out in the Act. Specific parental responsibilities and rights means that a person may only have a specific right in terms of the Act; for example, the right to act only as guardian of the child.

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Ease Your Child’s Winter Woes With PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops For Pain And Fever

As a parent, nothing is more important than ensuring that your little one is healthy and happy. However, during the winter months, babies and young children are more vulnerable to typical winter ailments.1 Infants run a higher risk of respiratory infections because their immune systems aren’t fully developed.2  PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops help with the relief of mild pain and fever associated with colds and flu.3 One of the most significant challenges when it comes to administering medication to babies is ensuring accurate dosing. This is where PandoÂŽ Infant Drops excel.  The medication is specifically designed to be administered in small doses, making it easier to get the dosage just right.  The dropper that comes with the medication is also designed to be easy to use and accurate, making sure that you can give your baby the correct amount of medication every time. Formulated To Be Gentle On Your Baby’s System PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops contain paracetamol, which is a trustworthy4 solution for treatment of pain and fever in children.5 This means that you can rest easy knowing that your baby is getting the care they need.  Another benefit of PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops is the convenience they offer. The small bottle with a dropper, can easily fit into your nappy bag, handbag, and car cubbyhole, making it easy to take with you wherever you go.  Whether you’re heading to the park, going on a road trip, or simply running errands, you can be confident that you have the medication you need to take care of your little one. The dropper also makes administering the medication convenient. You can easily give your baby the medication without having to worry about spills or getting it all over their face, or your clothing. This means that you can administer the medication quickly and efficiently, even when you’re in a hurry. Specially Designed For Infants It’s worth noting that PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops are formulated specifically for infants up to a year old. Overall, if you’re looking for a pain and fever medication that is easy to use, then PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops is an excellent choice. With its accurate dosing and convenience, you can be confident that you’re giving your baby the care they need during the winter months.   Other PanadoÂŽ Products Suitable For Your Child  In addition to PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops,3 Panado’s range for children includes PanadoÂŽ Paediatric Syrup, Strawberry (50 ml | 100 ml),6 PanadoÂŽ Paediatric Syrup, Peppermint Alcohol and Sugar-Free (50 ml | 100 ml),7  and PanadoÂŽ Paediatric Syrup, Peppermint 5 ml Sachets. Make pain and fever care easy by shopping for PanadoÂŽ products from independent pharmacies and selected Clicks, Dis-Chem, and Pick ‘n Pay stores. For more information, visit https://panado.co.za/ and join the conversations on Facebook. #Panado #ADoseOfCare         2023050910278218 References: Medical Academy. Winter illnesses and children: when to be concerned? Available from: https://www.medicalacademic.co.za/winter-ailments/winter-illnesses-and-children-when-to-be-concerned/. Last accessed 27 March 2023. UTHealth Houston. Six tips for children’s wintertime illnesses. Last accessed 27 March 2023. Available from: https://www.utphysicians.com/six-tips-for-childrens-wintertime-illnesses/  PanadoÂŽ Infant Drops (Drops). Approved package insert, August 1990.  IRI Data for MAT August 2021. de Martino M, Chiarugi A. Recent Advances in Pediatric Use of Oral Paracetamol in Fever and Pain Management. Pain Ther. 2015;4(2):149-168. doi:10.1007/s40122-015-0040-z. Last accessed 27 March 2023. Available from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4676765/ PanadoÂŽ Paediatric Syrup Strawberry. Approved package insert, March 2002.  PanadoÂŽ Paediatric Syrup. Approved package insert, April 2010.

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Reading with your baby

Babies can have fun with books long before they know any words, and they’ll also be picking up skills they will need later when they begin learning to read. Even small babies love listening to the sound of your voice as you share books cuddled up together, and they soon come to associate reading with this positive feeling of warmth and security. By looking at books, children become familiar with how books and stories work. As babies, they learn which way up to hold a book and how to turn the pages. Later on, they get to know that stories have a beginning, a middle and an end, and often follow a predictable pattern. They also become familiar with storybook language, which is more formal than everyday speech. These are all vital skills that will help a child learn to read when the time comes. Babies have a very short attention span, so it’s best to start with short sessions of just a few minutes at a time. As their concentration improves, you can gradually lengthen the time you spend reading together. As you read, look at each page in turn and give your baby time to look at the pictures. Wait for them to coo or point at things that interest them, and respond when they do. Point to the pictures on the page, say the names of objects and describe what you can see. It’s good to ask lots of questions, such as ‘Where’s the cat? Can you see its tail?’, even though you’ll have to answer the questions yourself. From about 12 months, try to set up regular reading times, maybe first thing in the morning, after lunch, before a nap or at bedtime. Bedtime stories often become an important part of a child’s routine and can be continued long after children are able to read for themselves. Did you know? Studies show that women tend to read to children more than men, but it’s very important – particularly for boys – that dads, or other male relatives, read to children as often as they can. Information taken from: Usborne Parents’ Guide: Help your child to read and write Article By: Usborne Parent Guide Help your child read and write – Usborne Publishing

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Tips on how to get your child to do their chores

Do your kids whine and moan about having to help you around the house or yard?  Does it seem like pulling teeth to get them to do the smallest of tasks?  And if you do assign them some household chore, do they avoid doing it until you are yelling and doling out punishments?  If you’re finding yourself in this situation way too often, let me offer some advice. When you think back to your own childhood, you probably hated the thought of having to do your chores too. Why? Because many parents ruled with the “iron hand” of autocracy to ensure that you did what you were told. Most parents today have replaced that unhealthy approach to parenting with more democratic means for raising their children. The bottom line is that when you remove fear from rearing children, you leave room for opinions, feelings, and resistance; all things that get in the way of efficiency. So how do you get kids to do their chores? If you’re using more respectful and democratic parenting methods at home like I am, then the secret is to extend that style of parenting to chores. This means setting things up in advance, incorporating their opinions and ideas, and establishing verbal and written agreements. It also means using respect to get them to follow through when they fall short. As part of your next weekly or bimonthly family meeting, establish the list of chores the grownups will do and ask everyone to help construct a list of all the other chores that need to be done.  Listen to your children’s and teen’s ideas on how and when these chores will get done.  Draft a schedule that everyone agrees to and consider getting everyone to sign it. If any of your children are extremely resistant and uncooperative, postpone the discussion until the next meeting. Chore assignments will be more effective when you have a unanimous agreement by all family members.  It’s also equally important that all chores have an assigned date, time, and schedule for completion.  There should be no question as to when it should be done and what the finished job looks like. I cannot emphasise enough the importance of using very specific parameters when getting kids to complete tasks.  And most importantly, you do not have an agreement with a child until they utter the words of the entire agreement! Whenever you notice that someone did not complete an assigned and agreed upon chore, commit to NOT coaxing, reminding, or scolding. In fact, do not speak at all! Simply find that child in question and placing your hand on his or her back, gently and lovingly guide them to the location of the chore that wasn’t completed. If they resist and fight your guidance, then something in your relationship with that child needs to be addressed before this follow-up method will work. Finally, I’m often asked at what age a child is old enough to help with chores.  My suggestion is that children as young as preschoolers can do some chores, but of course, the task assigned to them must be age and ability appropriate. Getting children this young to cooperate with chores and tasks requires that the assignments be few, simple, easy to do, and implemented with lots of fun, excitement, and praise when successfully completed.

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HOW TO REDUCE INFLAMMATION THROUGH DIET

Incorporating anti-inflammatory foods into your diet and limiting your intake of pro-inflammatory foods may help to reduce inflammation in the body and boost overall health, says Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality healthcare. Inflammation: What is It? When the body is threatened in some way, such as by an accident, an illness, or some other type of stress, it responds by triggering a natural process known as inflammation. Inflammation involves a complicated chain of events that result in the body ridding itself of dead or damaged cells and tissues so it can start recovering. While acute inflammation is generally a good thing, prolonged inflammation has the opposite effect on the body. It can cause serious health issues, such as cardiovascular disease, cancer, and autoimmune diseases. Lifestyle choices, environmental circumstances, and nutritional deficiencies can all contribute to persistent inflammation. According to Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health, while the link between diet and inflammation is multi-faceted, there is evidence certain eating patterns may lead to chronic inflammation in some people. Fruits and vegetables, whole grains, nuts, and fatty fish have, for example, have been shown to help reduce inflammation. However, highly processed, and refined meals, sugary beverages, and those high in trans fats and saturated fats have been shown to induce inflammation. But, as Murray points out, everyone’s physical make-up is unique, so what triggers inflammation in one person might have no effect on another. “If you’re having persistent inflammation, it’s recommended that you see a healthcare professional to determine the root reason and create an efficient and tailored treatment plan,” says Murray. Potentially Anti-Inflammatory Foods Researchers have shown that consuming certain meals can help lower inflammation. Examples of such foods are: Fruits and Vegetables Fruits and vegetables have anti-inflammatory properties because they are rich in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Eat a rainbow every day by loading up on berries, greens, and cruciferous veggies like broccoli and cauliflower. These meals also tend to be high in fibre, which helps with digestion and soothes the stomach. Omega-3 Fatty Acids This beneficial fat has been shown to help reduce inflammation throughout the body. Omega-3 fatty acids are found in abundance in fatty fish like salmon, sardines, mackerel, chia seeds, flaxseeds, and walnuts. One way to guarantee adequate intake of omega-3 fatty acids is to take a supplement. Grains Grain products like whole wheat and other whole grains are a great way to get the anti-inflammatory benefits of whole foods without sacrificing any of the deliciousness. It is recommended that refined carbohydrates, such as white bread and pasta, be replaced with whole grains to promote good digestion and reduce inflammation. Herbs and Spices Turmeric, ginger, and garlic are just a few examples of spices and herbs that have anti-inflammatory characteristics and can help the body deal with inflammation. Soups, stews, and stir-fries, for example, can all benefit from the addition of these spices and herbs, which also contribute to a balanced, anti-inflammatory diet. Possible Inflammatory Foods There is evidence that some foods can promote inflammation. Examples of such foods are: Refined sugars and harmful fats The inflammation-inducing refined sugars and harmful fats found in processed foods like chips, cookies, and sugary drinks. Eating full, nutrient-dense foods rather than processed foods can help lower inflammation. Saturated Fat Saturated fat, which is abundant in red meat, is a known inflamator. When trying to lower inflammation in the body, it’s recommended to swap out some of the red meat in your diet for leaner forms of protein like chicken, fish, and legumes. Inflammation-inducing fried foods include, but are not limited to, French fries, chicken wings, and doughnuts. Rather than frying your meals, try baking or grilling it to cut down on the amount of bad fats you consume. Alcohol Consuming large quantities of alcohol is associated with increased inflammation throughout the body. Limiting alcohol consumption and drinking lower-alcohol beverages like wine or beer can help reduce inflammation. Lifestyle Modification for Inflammation In addition to modifying your food, Affinity Health suggests the four following additional adjustments to your daily routine: Exercise: Inflammation can be reduced by regular exercise’s positive effects on the circulatory system, the nervous system, and the immune system. Get at least 30 minutes of moderate-intensity activity on most days of the week. Lowering Stress: An anti-inflammatory way of living should include trying to lower stress levels, as this is a known aggravating component in the body’s inflammatory response. If you’re looking for a way to relax and de-stress, try out some yoga, deep breathing exercises, or some meditation. Getting Enough Sleep: The immune system must be kept in good working order, and systemic inflammation must be kept to a minimum, both of which are greatly aided by getting a good night’s sleep. To better your overall health and reduce inflammation, you should aim for seven to eight hours of sleep per night. Quitting Smoking: Stopping Smoking can have numerous positive effects on health, including a decrease in inflammation. Giving up cigarettes is a fantastic beginning to living a healthier, less inflammatory life.   About Affinity Health Affinity Health is South Africa’s leading health insurance provider, offering you a range of options at affordable rates, including access to the widest national provider network. We understand the importance of medical insurance that meets your needs, budget, and lifestyle. Our range of healthcare products are designed to protect you and your family when it matters the most. We strive to always give our clients peace of mind and the highest standard of service. For more information, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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WHY ANDROID DEVICES ARE SAFER FOR KIDS

The debates about whether children should own smartphones, and if so, at what age, have become a very modern parenting dilemma.  There are no ‘right or wrong’ answers to these ‘Big Questions’ about kids and smartphones.  The near-universal uptake of smartphones for children, at increasingly younger ages, is a clear indication that today’s parents mostly believe that the benefits of their children owning smartphones outweigh the risks.  It’s hard to argue against the convenience of an always-connected family or the many valuable opportunities for children to engage in the digital world.  That doesn’t mean that parents aren’t uneasy about their decision to put a smartphone in their child’s hands.  Although research on this topic is currently limited, it is understandable that parents worry about the impact of prolonged screen exposure on their growing child’s cognitive and social development.  However, there’s plenty of evidence that Internet-connected devices increase children’s vulnerability to encountering inappropriate and harmful content, as well as being subjected to online bullying, harassment, and grooming. This raises, perhaps, the more pertinent Big Question when it comes to kids and their internet-connected devices – How do we keep them safe online?  Luckily, parents now have access to a wide range of parental control tools that are designed to address this concern. It’s important to recognise that online safety starts with the careful selection of a smartphone or tablet.  Both Android smartphones and iPhones offer some built-in parental control features that empower parents with functionalities like app restrictions, screen time limits, content filters, usage reports and location tracking. While experts may not fully agree on this matter, there’s a growing inclination towards Android devices as particularly safer for children because they are more customisable, enabling parents to set up an extensive ecosystem of online safety that is far more robust than just using the device’s standard controls. Rachelle Best, CEO and Founder of the AI-powered monitoring app, FYI play it safe, highlights the need for parents to employ a combination of strategies to create a robust ecosystem for online safety. She says, “Android smartphones offer more flexibility, so parents have more choices available, and it’s easier and more effective to implement a comprehensive safety solution for their children. What is important to note is that whether an Android phone is safer for your child ultimately depends on how it is configured and used.  Built-in parental controls offer only a basic foundation and don’t come with advanced features. This means that they are not sufficient as a stand-alone solution.  It’s quite common for parents to discover that their children find ways to bypass standard screen time limits and app restrictions.  To establish an effective ecosystem for your family’s online safety, parents should complement parental controls with advanced monitoring solutions like FYI play it safe.  Additionally, fostering a family culture of open communication when it comes to online threats and staying safer is essential.” In addition to the greater scope of customisation, there are several compelling reasons why many parents choose android devices for their children: Superior content control: Android devices enable less integration between apps and messaging services and have more controls on content access within individual apps.  This makes it easier for parents to prevent children from inadvertently engaging with inappropriate or harmful content. Extensive app store selection: Android has a larger app store offering parents more options when it comes to parental controls and device monitoring.  This ensures that you have access to the latest and most advanced safety and security apps to keep your child safer. Varied price range: Android offers a much wider range of devices at an array of price points.  It’s easy to find a phone or tablet that fits your family budget. Personalised user accounts: Parents can set up multiple user accounts on an Android phone or tablet, each with different restrictions and permissions, so that parents can easily customise their controls for each child in the family. The FYI play it safe app, which is now available on Google Play, draws on AI and ML to monitor the content of children’s online activity across multiple devices in real-time and provides parents with proactive alerts when their children are exposed to online risks.  It monitors all the content that the child engages with, including social media, in-game and instant messaging chats.  New accounts and apps are included by default without parents needing their child’s account credentials.  Best says, “Securing FYI play it safe’s spot on Google Play is a significant milestone in our mission to keep children safer online. The app’s presence on the platform not only increases our visibility to millions of Android users but provides parents with the reassurance that FYI play it safe is a reliable solution to help them improve their family’s online safety. The streamlined installation process simplifies the user experience, making it more convenient for families to adopt our technology and join us in creating a safer digital environment for children worldwide.”

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HOW TO GET KIDS TO NOT HIDE THEIR MISTAKES

It’s a week night and your child is stressing over a test at school the next day.  Your child then tells you that some friends are coming by to pick your child up because they are going to the library to study for this exam.  You trust that your teen is being truthful and you watch the car drive away, headed to the town library.  But what happens next is a parent’s nightmare. Somewhere between your house and the library, your child’s friends discuss going to a party they heard about on social media that has no adult chaperones.  Your teen objects to the idea but in that moment influenced by peer pressure, the group decides to go find that party and your teenager goes along for the ride.  Your teen may be thinking that there is still a possibility that the library will be their real and final destination that evening. Later that evening, the party-goers begin pairing off and disappearing in rooms and dark corners of the house.  Another teenager begins flirting with yours and the situation gets very uncomfortable.  Your child immediately exits the house, sits down on the front steps, and calls you from their cell phone.  They admit to you not being at the library, apologise sincerely, and provide you with the address to come pick them up fast. I bet I’d have trouble finding any parent who wouldn’t want this to be the outcome for a similar situation involving their teenager.  So, in order for your (future) teen to feel comfortable taking this action in a similar situation, what would be required to exist in your relationship with your child?  If you said trust, you’re right.  In that trust, your teen would have to feel safe calling and being with you, not feeling fearful of repercussions to admitting they made a mistake, and feeling comfortable calling you for help. Back to the present moment, what can you begin doing now on a daily basis to ensure that your relationship with your children will be built on trust?  Here are five things you can begin doing right away. Listen More and Lecture Less.  Announce an “open door policy” in your family that your children (and teens) can talk to you anytime, about anything, and without judgment, ridicule, or punishment. Remain Calm if You Catch Them in a Lie.  Lying is normal for most children and a natural means of protection from parents who get angry and punitive in reaction to mistakes, poor judgment or misbehaviour. Commit to NOT Yelling.  No human, child or adult, enjoys being yelled at.  It kills the spirit, fosters fear, and provokes fight or flight; your child or teen will yell back or ‘run away.’ Quell Your Anger.  Understand your own emotions and do all you can to manage them.  If you’re easily brought to anger, seek out professional counselling.  Develop the habit of taking a timeout to cool down before speaking or taking action in the face of your child’s behaviour. Apologise When You Make a Mistake.  Tell your family that you are working on learning to be a calmer parent (and spouse).  When you make a mistake and yell, spank or punish, take ownership for what you said or did and apologise for it.  Provide a ‘make up’ to the recipient of your words or actions and acknowledge the fact that you’re a “work in progress.”

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6 Things to remember when introducing finger foods

From around seven to nine months old your little one will be ready to start on finger foods. Keep these important things in mind as your child takes this next step on their exciting food journey.  1. Readiness clues So how exactly do you know that your baby is ready to move from purees on to finger foods? At around seven to nine months old, your child will start to master the pincer grasp – this means they can pick things up with their fingers and don’t need to use their whole hand – and will be able to bring their hand to their mouth with intention. One of the easiest clues that your child is read for finger food is that they will start reaching out to steal food out of your hands or off your plate! 2. Keep it soft When first introducing finger foods start with softer textures so that they are easy to chew or suck and your little one can move the food around their mouth easily. Try mango, avo or banana, as well as sliced hard-boiled eggs and softly toasted bread. Initially you’ll need to take the crunch out of veggies like carrots so that your baby can chew them easily – simply lightly steam or roast.  3. Size it right  To make grasping easier, don’t slice food too thinly. Prep food to be about 2-3cm thick and about 6-9cm long. You don’t want your child to feel frustrated because they can’t pick it up! 4. Add dips Finger foods love a dip – and so will your little one. They are a great way to introduce new tastes, flavours and textures to your child and are so easy to make: just add a tablespoon of Squish 100% Fruit and Veg Puree to yoghurt or smooth cream cheese and mix well. Or you could simply use the puree on its own – there are a variety of flavours to choose from, including Squish 100% Summer Berries, Banana + Apple, and Sweet Potato, Apple + Cinnamon. Squish 100% Fruit and Veg Purees are packed full of natural goodness. They are completely free of added colourants, flavourants and preservatives, and have no added cane sugar. The resealable lids on Squish pouches cut back on waste too – just use what you need, then screw closed and pop back in the fridge for later. You’ll find more dip inspiration under the Quick + Easy Recipe tab on our website, like this tasty and nutritious Bean Dip.   5. Take these precautions Choking is always a concern, especially when your little one first starts eating solids and finger foods. Make sure your child is sitting securely in their highchair to minimise choking risks – and sit with them so that you can supervise. Now isn’t the time to multitask! If they start to get sleepy while eating, remove the food. Also, remember your child should not eat in the car, unless there is an adult sitting in the back seat to keep an eye on them.  6. Get adventurous Once your little one has mastered basic finger foods, you can start to increase their menu options. Try these yummy recipes – they’re all packed with Squish goodness: Cheesy Veg Balls and Potato Pops.

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All you need to know about your newborn

Newborn Hearing Newborns can hear immediately upon birth and are able to distinguish their mother’s voice above all else. If your baby does not seem to react to your voice or does not startle with a loud noise, be sure to tell your paediatrician. Stimulating your baby’s sensesBelieve it or not your baby will learn a lot in their first year of life. One way you can help them learn is to provide stimulation for them in different forms. This can be done in a variety of ways such as stimulating their vision and hearing or through touch and movement. Remember to spend some time every day working to help your baby explore the world around them. Stimulating your baby’s vision Here are a few ways to help stimulate your baby’s vision: Make eye contact with your baby during times when their eyes are open. Look them right in the eye. They recognize faces very early in life, especially yours!This helps them develop their memory. Use a mirror to let your baby stare at his or herself. They will enjoy looking at “another” baby and watching the movements it makes. Stick out your tongue for your baby or make funny faces. Starting at 2 days old newborns can begin to mimic simple facial movements as they begin to develop problem solving skills. Hold up two pictures for your baby to look at. They should be similar, but with some sort of difference between the two – maybe one has a house and the other doesn’t. Even young babies will look back and forth between the two to try and figure out the difference between them. This can help them develop letter recognition and reading skills later. Stimulate your baby with laughing and singing Laughing and singing are great ways to stimulate your baby and have fun at the same time. Here are a few suggestions: Find ways to get your baby laughing. This can be through methods like gentle tickling, blowing on their arms and tummy, or making funny faces. As they get older you can joke around more too. Laughter is great for babies! Sing song to your baby. Learn as many as you can or make up your own words to songs you already know. Play music to your baby. This can be Bach or Mozart or even the Beatles. Learning music rhythms may help them learn math skills later on. Talk away. In other words, have a silly, fun conversation with your baby. Chat away and pause at places where your baby would speak in the conversation. As your baby grows, they will learn   to start chatting to fill in the spaces you leave. Be sure to make eye contact and smile a lot! Play peek-a-boo, it’s great for getting babies to giggle and laugh – it also teaches them that objects can disappear and then come back. Physical activities for your baby As your baby gets older and is more mobile encourage physical activities that can help with motor skills, coordination and problem-solving. Here are a few suggestions: Turn yourself into a playground by lying on the floor and letting your baby crawl all over you. This will help boost their problem-solving skills and coordination. Teach them to move to music. You can teach them to do the twist, twist and shout or even twirl like a ballerina. This helps them develop skills like balance and coordination as well as a sense of rhythm. Create an obstacle course by laying toys, boxes or sofa cushions on the floor and then show your baby how to crawl over and around or under the items. This helps with problem-solving, strength and coordination. Play pick up by allowing them to drop toys or pieces of wadded up paper off their highchair into a bucket or other safe container. This helps them learn and explore the laws of gravity.

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YOUR GUIDE TO A HEALTHY PREGNANCY

Looking after your health is important, but even more so when you are an expectant mom.  There are several steps you can take to ensure you have a healthy pregnancy and give your little one the best possible start in life, here are a few tips brought to you by Bonitas Medical Fund. Eating right is vital Eating healthily during pregnancy will help your baby to develop properly.  There’s no need to go on a special diet but, it is important to eat a variety of foods every day to get the right balance of nutrients that you and your baby need. Eating healthily often means just changing the  the foods you eat so that your diet is varied. Staying active is a must Regular exercise will help you control your weight, improve circulation, boost your mood and help you sleep better. Pilates, yoga, swimming and walking are all great activities for pregnant women. Aim for 30 minutes of exercise most days of the week. Listen to your body though and don’t overdo it. Be sure to check with your doctor first, before starting any exercise programme. Approach chores with caution Chores like scrubbing the bathroom or cleaning up after pets can become risky when you are pregnant. Exposure to toxic chemicals, lifting heavy objects or coming into contact with bacteria can be harmful.  So, avoid heavy lifting, climbing on ladders, changing the kitty litter, using harsh chemicals and standing for long periods of time. Take care of your feet Weight gain during pregnancy throws off your centre of gravity, which puts extra pressure on your feet. This can cause painful flattening out of the feet. You may retain fluids too, which can make your feet and ankles swell. To prevent this, wear comfy shoes with good support. Many pregnant moms find they need a larger shoe size even after they give birth, so go a size up if you need to. Benefits for you and your baby Bonitas offers a wide range of maternity benefits as well as benefits for newborns and babies.  These are paid for from Risk so they are in addition to your savings and day-to-day benefits. Some are: Maternity benefits Having children is expensive. That’s why Bonitas pays for your maternity benefits in addition to your savings and day-to-day benefits so you can focus on the things that really matter. Contact The Bonitas Maternity Programme today to see all the benefits when you click here. Bonitas is also in the process of establishing a comprehensive mother and baby support programme which will offer pregnant moms a range of benefits including: 24/7 pregnancy care helpline Dedicated Bonitas care advisors Pregnancy education SMSs and emails Online pregnancy education Bonitas pregnancy events with expert speakers on prenatal and postnatal care The full programme has bee available since March 2020 and will ensure there is sufficient support for moms throughout the pregnancy journey.  Education and information will be provided to allow for healthier pregnancies which in turn could support higher incidences of natural birth. But there will also be management and support for pregnancy complications including miscarriage and gestational diabetes. In addition, your stay in hospital when your baby arrives will also be covered. Please make sure you pre-authorise your hospital stay after your 24th week of pregnancy. Please note: Your maternity benefits will depend on the medical aid option you have selected.   Newborn hearing screening Significant hearing loss is the most common disorder at birth which is why screening all newborns for hearing loss is internationally recommended. We cover two electrophysiological techniques, auditory brainstem responses (ABR) and optoacoustic emissions (OAE) for all babies under 8 weeks old, in or out-of-hospital allowing you to ensure your baby’s hearing is intact or intervene early if necessary. Congenital hypothyroidism screening Cover for TSH tests (to screen for congenital hypothyroidism) is available on all options for children under a month old. Help is just a call away with BabyLine BabyLine (0860 999 121) is the first dedicated children’s health advice line in South Africa. It is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. The service is run by paediatric-trained nurses who assist with any queries related to your little one’s health and wellness. The benefit is available to all Bonitas members and is for children under 3 years, it offers: Home care advice Clinic/primary care/GP referral for the same day Clinic/primary care/GP referral for the following day After-hours care within the next six hours Immediate referral to the E

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