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Encouraging Mindfulness in Young Children 

Helping young children navigate their emotions, improve focus, and reduce stress can be achieved through simple and engaging techniques—mindfulness. Dibber International Preschools highlights the many benefits of introducing mindfulness practices to children from an early age, as it is a powerful tool for enhancing their overall well-being and promoting emotional balance. “Mindfulness for young children is about teaching them to be fully present, to notice their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. It helps them build emotional resilience and mental clarity, which are crucial in their development,” explains Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By starting mindfulness practices early, we are giving children the tools to manage their emotions in healthy ways.” Mindfulness is naturally suited to young children, as they often live in the present. Simple practices like mindful breathing exercises, noticing sensations, or reflecting on experiences make mindfulness fun and relatable. For example, parents and educators can ask children questions like, “How did it feel when you bit into that apple?” or “What did you notice while playing outside?” These questions help children become aware of their emotions and surroundings, fostering emotional intelligence and self-awareness. Key Benefits of Mindfulness for Young Children: “Mindfulness is not just about quiet moments. It’s about giving children lifelong tools to manage their emotions, foster resilience, and thrive in their environment. A mindful child today becomes a balanced and thriving individual tomorrow,” concludes Assis.

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Effective Strategies for Managing Intense Emotions in Children

Managing intense emotions in young children, especially when they manifest as anger or frustration, can be challenging for any parent. Dibber International Preschools is committed to providing parents and educators with practical strategies for handling these situations effectively. With a focus on children aged 0 to 6 years, Dibber is helping families across South Africa support emotional growth and foster positive behaviours. “Emotional regulation is a skill children can learn from an early age,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By teaching children ways to understand and manage their feelings, we are equipping them with tools for life, allowing them to navigate their emotions with resilience and empathy.” One of the key principles behind managing intense emotions in children is validation. When a child has a meltdown or displays aggressive behaviour, the initial step is acknowledging their feelings rather than jumping straight into discipline. Simple affirmations like, “I can see you’re upset,” help children feel understood and can reduce the intensity of their emotions. Assis explains that grounding techniques are also highly effective. “For instance, the ‘Five Senses Activity’ encourages children to identify something they can see, hear, touch, smell, and taste. This practice helps shift their focus from overwhelming emotions to the present moment, providing an immediate calming effect.” Observing patterns and identifying triggers that lead to emotional outbursts is another valuable approach. “If a child becomes irritable when hungry, it’s best to avoid challenging conversations or activities during that time,” Assis advises. “This approach not only helps parents manage child aggression but also teaches children the importance of self-awareness.” Dibber encourages parents to discuss emotions with their children during calm moments, helping them recognise the physical and mental signs of intense emotions. By teaching children to notice when their body feels tense or when specific thoughts accompany frustration, parents empower them to use self-regulation techniques. Deep breathing, counting, or taking a momentary break are all strategies that can prevent emotions from escalating. “Children learn so much by watching their parents. When parents model healthy emotional regulation, they demonstrate that it’s okay to feel strong emotions and that there are positive ways to handle them. These shared practices turn self-regulation into a bonding experience and a valuable learning opportunity,” says Assis. Through strategies like grounding techniques, validation, and modelling, Dibber International Preschools is helping parents and educators manage child aggression effectively. “Our goal is to foster an environment where children learn to navigate their emotions with confidence and compassion. These early lessons in emotional regulation lay the foundation for resilient, well-rounded individuals.”

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THE TOP SEVEN ADVANTAGES TO EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION

As parents consider the best path for their child’s development, early childhood education and care stand out as essential building blocks for future success. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the profound impact of early learning on a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development. “Learning begins at birth, and the experiences children have in their early years lay the foundation for lifelong learning. At Dibber, we recognise that tapping into a child’s natural curiosity through structured learning and social interaction offers remarkable benefits,” says Assis. Early childhood care and education provide numerous developmental advantages beyond the classroom. From literacy and numeracy skills to nurturing independence and social interaction, the advantages of early learning experiences are transformative. Here are the top 7 advantages of early childhood education and care: Literacy and Numeracy Skills Early exposure to a structured curriculum helps children easily grasp fundamental concepts like letters and numbers. “A well-designed early education program ensures that children build a strong foundation in literacy and numeracy, essential for future academic success,” explains Assis. Independence Being introduced to a world outside of their home environment allows children to develop independence. They learn to explore, solve problems, and make decisions in a safe and supportive setting. Socialisation Early learning centres provide valuable opportunities for children to socialise with their peers. “Socialisation is critical for children as they learn the basics of teamwork, cooperation, and empathy through interactions with other children of the same age,” says Assis. Confidence Encouraging teachers play a significant role in helping children feel seen and heard. When a child’s contribution is valued, their confidence and self-esteem grow. “At Dibber, we are committed to fostering an environment where children feel empowered to express themselves,” adds Assis. Routine A structured daily routine helps children feel secure and in control of their environment. Knowing what to expect throughout the day supports emotional well-being and helps children manage transitions more smoothly. Lifelong Learning Early childhood education cultivates a positive relationship with learning by making learning enjoyable and stimulating. “When children develop a love for learning early on, they become eager to explore new ideas and challenges throughout their lives,” Assis highlights. Exposure to Diversity Early childhood education introduces children to a diverse world. They meet peers and educators from various cultural, religious, and social backgrounds, helping them appreciate diversity and fostering a sense of unity in difference. “Exposure to diversity from a young age allows children to develop a global mindset, which is invaluable in today’s interconnected world,” notes Assis. The holistic benefits of early childhood education cannot be overstated. Children develop crucial life skills, improve their academic readiness, and build strong social connections, all within an environment that encourages play-based learning. “As we continue to provide high-quality education at Dibber International Preschools, we are dedicated to giving children the opportunity to grow, learn, and thrive in a nurturing environment that supports their development in every aspect of life,” concludes Assis.

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NURTURING MENTAL WELLNESS FROM THE START : building a strong foundation for your child

October is mental wellness month, and while we often associate mental wellness with the teenage years to adulthood,  it is essential to remember that nurturing a child’s mental health begins in the early years. Parenting is a journey filled with love, joy, and the responsibility of shaping a child’s emotional and mental well-being.  “Fostering mental health in children starts from their very first experiences,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By being responsive to their needs, celebrating our rich cultural heritage, and embracing mindful practices, we can help children develop the tools they need to navigate the challenges of life with confidence.” A key element of this journey is embracing South Africa’s rich cultural roots. Our traditions, languages, and stories offer a treasure trove of experiences that can help children feel connected to their identity and heritage. Whether it’s sharing folktales like the stories of Anansi the Spider or teaching simple greetings in Zulu, Xhosa, or Afrikaans, celebrating diversity from an early age fosters a sense of belonging and pride. At Dibber International Preschools, we recognise the importance of creating an environment where children feel comfortable expressing their emotions. “It’s vital for children to develop emotional intelligence early on. We create safe spaces where children can talk about their feelings, whether it’s joy, frustration, or sadness, and we give them the language they need to express themselves,” says Assis. Play also plays a central role in a child’s emotional and cognitive development. Exploring local parks, building sandcastles, or engaging in traditional South African games like “diketo” helps children develop confidence, empathy, and creativity. These outdoor activities support their mental well-being and instil a deep appreciation for nature. Nurturing healthy relationships is another cornerstone of a child’s mental health. “In South Africa, where community is deeply valued, it’s important to teach our children empathy and the importance of kindness,” explains Assis. “By fostering loving relationships at home and encouraging positive social interactions, we lay the foundation for strong connections throughout their lives.” Establishing consistent routines, especially in the early years, also contributes to a child’s mental well-being. Predictable daily rituals provide structure and security, helping children feel in control of their environment. This sense of stability reduces anxiety and teaches life skills like time management and responsibility. Mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing or listening to the sounds of nature, are also effective tools for promoting inner peace and emotional regulation. “Mindfulness is a simple but powerful way to help children manage stress and develop self-awareness. It’s a practice that benefits parents and children, creating a calm and balanced environment at home,” adds Assis. Assis also emphasises the importance of seeking support when needed. “Parenting is not a solitary journey,” she says. “Whether it’s advice from healthcare professionals, joining parenting groups, or simply reaching out to friends, asking for help is a sign of strength. When we have concerns about our child’s development, seeking guidance is crucial for their mental well-being.” Throughout the journey of parenthood, leading by example is one of the most impactful ways to instil healthy coping mechanisms in children. By demonstrating constructive ways to manage stress and healthily expressing emotions, parents teach their children essential life skills to help them navigate future challenges. Finally, celebrating milestones—big or small—reinforces a child’s self-esteem and builds a positive self-image. Whether taking their first steps or making new friends at school, recognising these achievements boosts their confidence and motivates them to keep trying. “Building a strong mental health foundation in a child’s early years is a journey of love, patience, and discovery,” concludes Assis. “By nurturing their emotional well-being and embracing the richness of our cultural heritage, we are laying the groundwork for a resilient and mentally healthy future. Every day is an opportunity to learn and grow together, and these small steps make a big difference in shaping the adults our children will become.” Written by: Kelly Eyre

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UNDERSTANDING THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HEALTH IN EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT

This Mental Health Awareness Month, Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools shares her insights.  “As parents, you are the cornerstone of your child’s early experiences, and this period is more crucial than many might realise. Early childhood is a time of rapid growth and development, not just physically but emotionally and psychologically as well. In South Africa, where family dynamics and societal challenges vary widely, nurturing your child’s mental health from the start can have a profound impact on their future. “The first few years of a child’s life lay the foundation for their long-term mental well-being. During this time, the brain is developing at an astonishing rate and the experiences children have shaped their ability to handle stress, build relationships, and understand themselves. Positive early experiences are essential as they set the stage for healthy emotional and psychological development. “One of the most important aspects of early mental health is building resilience. This means helping children develop the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges. A supportive environment, characterised by positive interactions and consistent caregiving, fosters resilience and sets a strong foundation for handling life’s ups and downs. “The relationships children form in these early years are crucial. Secure attachments with caregivers provide a sense of safety and love, which in turn helps them manage stress and build confidence. In South Africa, extended family and community support play a significant role, adding an extra layer of care and connection that can enhance a child’s sense of security. “Now, imagine if every child knew just how valuable they are. Envision a world where children grow up with a deep understanding of their worth and potential. When children are aware of their intrinsic value and feel genuinely loved and appreciated, it profoundly impacts their mental health. They are more likely to approach life’s challenges with confidence, seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles. This self-awareness creates a strong foundation for their emotional well-being and resilience. “Moreover, nurturing a child’s mental health is not just about their individual growth; it’s also about preparing them to positively impact the world. When children understand their worth and feel supported, they develop empathy and a sense of purpose that extends beyond themselves. They are more likely to approach others with kindness and to contribute meaningfully to their communities, fostering a heart for the world around them. “Creating such a nurturing environment involves more than just providing physical care. It includes positive parenting practices, like active listening and offering encouragement, and engaging with community and cultural practices that support well-being. Leveraging community networks and cultural traditions can provide additional layers of support that enrich a child’s development. “If you notice signs of distress or developmental concerns in your child, seeking professional help is crucial. Early intervention can provide the resources needed to address challenges effectively. Additionally, taking care of your own well-being is essential. A balanced and healthy parent is better equipped to create a nurturing environment for their child. “Focussing on mental health and well-being during early childhood is about more than addressing immediate needs; it’s about laying the groundwork for lifelong development. Understanding the significance of these early experiences and actively creating a supportive environment can help your child develop resilience, confidence, and emotional health. Imagine the impact if every child grew up knowing their intrinsic value and was nurtured to embrace a heart for the world—it would enhance their mental well-being and contribute to a more compassionate and empathetic society.”

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NAVIGATING MENTAL HEALTH CHALLENGES IN EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION

Early childhood is a time of immense growth and change, filled with exciting opportunities and unique challenges. For parents with children aged 0 to 6 years, understanding and addressing mental health issues can significantly impact your child’s development and well-being. As October is Mental Health Awareness month, Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools shares her insights.  “Young children often face several mental health challenges during their early years. One common issue is separation anxiety, which may arise when they first start attending school or are away from their primary caregivers. This can result in excessive distress during separations and reluctance to go to school. Behavioural issues, such as tantrums, aggression, or withdrawal, are also prevalent and can be attributed to difficulties in regulating emotions or adjusting to new routines. “Social skills development is another area where young children might struggle. They may find it challenging to share, take turns, or understand social cues, which can affect their ability to build relationships and engage in group activities. Additionally, children exposed to trauma or high-stress environments may exhibit signs of anxiety, depression, or withdrawal, impacting their emotional health and learning capabilities. “For educators, managing the diverse needs of students can lead to emotional burnout. Balancing the demands of teaching while providing emotional support to children can be overwhelming. Effective classroom management and addressing individual student needs require effective strategies, which can be challenging without adequate mental health and emotional support training. “Families also face their own set of challenges. Parental stress from juggling work, parenting, and managing a child’s needs can affect their ability to offer consistent support and impact family dynamics. Communication barriers between parents and educators may lead to misunderstandings and inadequate support for the child. Limited access to mental health resources and support services can further complicate addressing these challenges. “Imagine if every child knew just how valuable they are. Envision a world where children grow up with a deep sense of their worth and potential. When children understand their intrinsic value and feel genuinely loved and appreciated, it profoundly impacts their mental health. They confidently approach life’s challenges, seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. This self-awareness creates a strong foundation for their emotional well-being and resilience. “Moreover, nurturing a child’s mental health is about more than individual growth—it’s about preparing them to contribute positively to the world. When children understand their worth and feel supported, they develop empathy and a sense of purpose that extends beyond themselves. They are more likely to approach others with kindness and a heart for positively impacting their communities. “Identifying and addressing these mental health challenges involves a collaborative approach. For young children, early observation is key. Pay close attention to signs of distress, withdrawal, or behavioural changes to identify underlying issues. Open communication with your child about their feelings and experiences is vital for understanding their emotional state. Seeking support from child psychologists or counsellors can provide targeted help. “Educators benefit from ongoing training in mental health and emotional support strategies. Professional development can equip them with the necessary tools to recognise and address mental health issues effectively. Collaboration with other educators, school counsellors, and mental health professionals can create a robust support system for managing classroom dynamics and addressing individual needs. Self-care is equally important for educators to prevent burnout and maintain their effectiveness. “For families, active involvement with educators is crucial. Regular communication about your child’s progress and challenges can help in addressing any concerns. Seeking out community resources, support groups, and mental health services can provide additional support. Managing parental stress through counselling services or stress-management techniques can improve the family environment and enhance your ability to support your child. “Addressing mental health challenges in early childhood education requires a collective effort from parents, educators, and families. By recognising common issues, fostering open communication, and seeking appropriate support, you can create a nurturing environment that promotes mental well-being. Imagine the impact if every child grew up knowing their intrinsic value and was nurtured to embrace a heart for the world—it would enhance their mental well-being and contribute to a more compassionate and empathetic society.”

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Mysmartkid Smartbox – Learning Through Play

What an amazing product the Smartbox from Mysmartkid has proved to be!  Our first Smartbox was received with great excitement and did not disappoint.  Mysmartkid have a programme that has been developed by experts in the field of early childhood development and it is evident in the choice of educational toys, puzzles and activities that are included in the Smartbox. Each toy has been carefully selected to incorporate the six development areas whilst being age-appropriate.  Parents are encouraged to play with their children and to guide them through each activity included in the Smartbox, but our experience with the Smartbox has proved that because they are age-appropriate, your little one will have no difficulty in accomplishing each game, puzzle and activity on their own.  This not only demonstrates to you, the parent, that your little one can work independently, it goes a long way to increasing your child’s sense of well-being and self-confidence. And so in our first Smartbox, we received a number of really interesting toys and activities for Emily to enjoy.  Her first choice was to create little insects from the Shrink Insect box.  She was required to colour them in herself with the coloured pencils supplied as well as cut them out once she had completed colouring them in.  Punching holes proved a little challenging, but she managed to do that too and together we prepared her shrink insects for the oven.  Eagerly she awaited them coming out the oven to see if they had really shrunk and to complete them by creating legs with the beautiful brightly coloured pipe-cleaners also provided in the Smartbox.  Through this activity, she had made toys for herself to play with and her sense of accomplishment was visibly evident. Emily’s next choice of activity from the Smartbox was to plant the seeds that were all neatly packed together with the very necessary soil, nutrients, tools and seed trays.  Making up the soil was great fun for her and she enjoyed plunging her hands into the wet soil and mixing in all the relevant ingredients and then dividing it into the seed trays.  Preparing each seed tray and dropping the seeds into each compartment was made easy for Emily with the scoop provided in the Smartbox and all the seeds were clearly marked so that she knew what she was planting.  Also included in the Smartbox from Mysmartkid was a progress sheet which she is still working on with her mom, to document the growth of her little plants which are looking really great and probably can be planted into the garden as soon as Spring arrives! Then on a quiet afternoon in her school holidays, Emily decided it was time to play with the last toy in her box which is called Elastica.  This is such an educational toy with a great element of fun and involves having to create images with different coloured elastics that are applied to a pin board.  Included in the Smartbox are a number of cards with the images and instructions on how to achieve them.  There is also a book that you can work with your little one and focuses on achieving solving maths problems.  This particular product can be used in the classroom as well as by occupational therapists to help with fine motor coordination and problem-solving skills. Whilst we await the delivery of our next Smartbox for Emily, we have chosen a few toys off the Mysmartkid website to supplement Emily’s participation in the Mysmartkid early childhood development programme.  We would highly recommend that all parents with young children become members of Mysmartkid.  The benefits of early learning for young children through play, are supported by the team of experts at Mysmartkid who have developed the programme.  It is evident from what Emily has already achieved from just one Smartbox of toys, that the selection for the Smartbox has been done by experts. With everything that we as families are faced with today, the pressures on ourselves as parents as well as on our children to perform, the Smartbox offers our children an outlet to play, learn, develop and grow and that’s what all parents are looking for.

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Mysmartkid – Early Childhood Development Experts

“What I love about the Mysmartkid concept is that it provides parents with knowledge, skills and activities which facilitate their children’s development in so many areas. This is done in a simple, accessible and really enjoyable way which provides the foundation for lifelong learning.” Says Catherine Barry, Speech and Language Therapist and member of the excellent panel of experts at Mysmartkid. Playing is important to children. It is the way they practice growing up. Toys are the tools that children use in play and so providing them with educational toys that they can derive pleasure from and at the same time enhance their development, is the answer to any parents’ dream.  All parents want to see their children succeed in life and no-one understands this better than the team at Mysmartkid who have developed an exciting early childhood development programme that will suit all budgets.  For just a minimal outlay every two months, the Smartbox from Mysmartkid will be delivered to your door. Not only is the Smartbox filled with really cool toys for your child to enjoy, but the team have expertly and skilfully selected toys that are age appropriate and focus on all areas of early childhood development.  This means that all the necessary skills that your child needs to learn and develop prior to starting school receive attention and you can be assured that they will benefit from playing with these excellent toys. At Mysmartkid, the leading childcare experts are there to guide parents in all aspects of early childhood development. They will give you all the advice you need on how to help your little one reach their developmental milestones – every playful step of the way. Mysmartkid has a philosophy that says they believe that a child’s early years are the building blocks for their future success and that your child’s early years are the windows of opportunity for their future success.  By educating parents and caregivers to help their child reach their full potential, the Mysmartkid programme allows for parents and caregivers to interact with their child through play.  The most fulfilling way for a child to learn is through play and through the Mysmartkid programme your little one will become a rounded, happy, confident and connected child. Children all learn in different ways and there are various parenting philosophies for each method. However, certain basic learning principles apply to all children, at each age and phase. Involving your little one through all their senses and making sure that your timing is right is just one step in the right direction in terms of creating a fun and unpressurised environment for your child to blossom and grow. When you become a member of Mysmartkid, you will receive the Smartbox every two months, which comes with a variety of age-appropriate and very easy-to-use educational toys.  Included in the Smartbox is a full-colour newsletter, which has advice and information that parents can use to help their child reach those all-important developmental milestones.  The contents of the Smartbox are fun.  They have all been developed in such a way as to encourage parents to interact with their child as well as encourage children to think for themselves and solve problems for themselves.  Parents will be surprised to find just how much fun their little ones will have playing with the toys from the Smartbox. The panel of experts at Mysmartkid have selected age-appropriate toys for the Smartbox, for all age groups.  They have identified six main areas of development that you as a parent should be focusing on with your child and the toys that have been selected will aid in doing just that.  In each Smartbox you will also find a milestone development guide, which is very helpful for parents to identify where their little one may be having problems and therefore pay more attention to those areas.  Over and above the toys from the Smartbox, parents are able to purchase many more excellent toys from the Mysmartkid website. Included on the website is an excellent blog which offers articles that will educate parents and give them great tips and ideas on what they can be doing with their child to stimulate them and help with their early childhood development. When joining the Mysmartkid programme, participants will receive two free gifts which is a beautiful Mysmartkid kiddie’s backpack and an exclusive handbook on Early Childhood Development.  Parents will find that this is just the beginning of a long and rewarding relationship with Mysmartkid where they can watch their little one develop into a beautiful well-rounded balanced young person!

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When should a child be referred to an occupational therapist?

  Following is a few easy questions that could help you to determine if a child should be referred to an O.T.  What is fine eye-hand coordination? This is the ability to use eyes and hands together to perform a task.  We all use this skill every day in all different kinds of situation:  tying shoe-laces, writing, cutting, dressing, the list is endless. How will I know if a child has a problem? Drawing shows poor orientation on the page and the child is unable to stay within the lines when colouring/writing. Your child will struggle with activities that kids the same age finds easy e.g. buttoning small buttons when dressing, picking up small objects Your child will rather get involved in gross motor activities e.g. swinging than doing colouring, pegboard tasks, etc. Threading activities will be difficult or avoided Child will find it difficult to cut neatly on a line Handwriting won’t be neat. Muscle tone  Muscle tone refers to the natural stress in the muscle when at rest. It is not the same as muscle strength. A child with a natural lower tone in his muscle will use his muscles with more effort than a child with a natural higher muscle tone. How will I know if a child has a problem? Tires easily / or moves around the whole time to maintain muscle tone Appear clumsy / uncoordinated Child will over emphasize movement / use exaggerated movement patterns Lean on to objects Find it difficult to maintain one position for a long time Slouch in chair Use broad base of support when sitting Drool Fidgety – uses this to build up tone when sitting for long periods of time Usually doesn’t part-take in endurance sport What are visual perceptual skills? These skills are necessary to interpret seen information in the brain. These skills are the building blocks for reading, writing and maths. How will I know if a child has a problem? Kids who struggle with foreground-background will ‘steals’ words/letters from other sentences/words and add it to the word/sentence they are busy reading.  They also find it difficult to find specific words/numbers on a page. Kids with a limitation in position in space and/or spatial-relationships will confuse p/b/d, switching of words in a sentence or switching of syllables. Kids with a limitation in form-constancy will struggle to read different types of fonts/hand writing and to copy writing from the black board. Kids with closure impairment will confuse letters with each another when different fonts of writing are used e.g. a/d; u/a; c/e. Kids with impairment in discrimination will for example struggle to find words/numbers that is the same. Kids that struggle with analysis and synthesis finds it difficult to read words that they have to spell Kids with a limitation in memory will for example struggle to copy work from the black board Kids that struggle with consecutive memory will for example find it problematic to copy words/sentences/numbers correctly from the black board. What is bilateral integration? That is the ability of both sides of the body to work together to perform a task. How will I know if a child has a problem? Appears to be uncoordinated when doing tasks Difficulty in performing gross motor tasks e.g. skipping, galloping, jumping-jacks, etc. Prefers not to cross the imaginary midline of the body Not choosing a dominant hand to write/draw/colour (after age 5) Swapping hands when doing tasks What is dyspraxia? Praxis (a.k.a motor planning) is the ability of the brain to conceive, organize, and carry out a sequence of tasks/actions. Praxis is the ability to self-organize. Praxis includes motor planning, cognitive events and communication. The child may present with the following: Appear clumsy Poor balance Difficulty with riding a bike Poor handwriting Difficulty with remembering instructions and copying from the blackboard May have difficulty with speech and the ability to express themselves Bumping into objects Late establishment of laterality (right- or left-handedness) Poor sense of direction Difficulty in learning new motor skills (crawling, using utensils and tools, catching a ball, penmanship) Difficulty in completing tasks with multiple steps (playing board games, sports,  solving puzzles and learning math skills) Difficulty in doing tasks in the proper sequence (dressing, or following directions with multiple steps, putting together words and sentences in the right order) Difficulty copying designs, imitating sounds, whistling, imitating movements Difficulty in adjusting to new situations or new routines Difficulty in judging distance in activities (riding bicycles, placing objects) or with others (standing too close or too far away) Present with delayed skills – remaining in the early stages of skill acquisition Poor at holding a pencil Forgetful and disorganized Have a poor attention span Need to go right back and begin again at the very beginning of the task when experiencing difficulty, instead of just ‘getting on with it’ Have difficulty using tools – cutlery, scissors, pencils – lots of handwriting problems (although not all handwriting difficulties are the result of motor Dyspraxia) poor balance; Have poor fine and gross motor co-ordination Have poor awareness of body position in space Have difficulty with reading, writing, speech and maths Other signs/symptoms Child acts immature (cries easily, separation anxiety, etc.). Concentration difficulties / easily distracted by things/people/sounds around himself/herself. If a child is struggling with reading, writing, spelling, maths. If a child’s school progress is behind the other kids in the class. If a child has a physical impairment that is influencing his/her playing, walking, running, etc. Hurts himself or other children / appear to be aggressive  –  when children struggle with certain developmental skills they may become angry easily because of frustration.  Kids who have poor self-control/impulsivity often cannot control themselves physically when angry. Hyperactive child / child who fidgets / cannot sit still / talks non-stop – this child may have ADD or ADHD Children who turn the paper when drawing/colouring/writing – this may be because the child is avoiding to cross the imaginary midline of the body A complete occupational therapy assessment will be

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Mysmartkid – The Smart Choice

From the moment that you engage with the Smartbox from Mysmartkid, you will be hooked and more importantly, so will your little one!  Mysmartkid has developed an exciting and interesting early learning development programme for young children specifically designed to cater for every stage of development.  Boasting a panel of experts which includes an educational psychologist, occupational therapist, art psychotherapist, a counselling psychologist and a speech and language therapist, Mysmartkid affords parents an outstanding opportunity to establish all the very basic skills required for their future. Mysmartkid programme is based on six core developmental areas that address your child’s emotional, physical, cognitive and social growth.  Each Smartbox contains carefully selected age-appropriate educational toys that will keep your child occupied for hours and at the same time stimulating and equipping them with skills and brain development necessary for a solid foundation for school. Because Mysmartkid is an interactive programme whereby parents are encouraged to play with their little ones, each Smartbox also contains a Parent Guide book.  Each Parent Guide book addresses all of the six core developmental areas which are : Wellbeing Identity Creativity Concepts Communication My World These developmental areas are in line with the Department of Education’s Early Learning and Development Areas (ELDAs) making parents feel safe in the knowledge that they are purchasing and introducing their children to, a programme that has been well-researched and has the backing of an incredible panel of experts in the field of Early Learning. Mysmartkid philosophy is that a child’s early years are the building blocks for future success. The early years of a child’s life are the windows of opportunity for their future success.  They fully understand that many parents and caregivers already know how important Early Childhood Development is, but that they may not be sure how best to help their child reach their full potential. Mysmartkid believes that the most fulfilling way for a child to learn is through play which results in a well-rounded, happy, confident and connected child who will become actively involved in the world.  The beauty of the programme is that it not only guides parents in terms of each of the important milestones in a child’s development, but it also equips parents with expert tips on how to guide their child’s development in terms of achieving each of those milestones.  Even more importantly, Mysmartkid totally gets that all children are different and that they each develop in their own time and because of this, encourage and advise parents to use the Parents Guide, but to not compare their child’s progress to others.  They make parents feel comfortable knowing that their child will progress and reach each milestone at their own pace and when they are ready. Each Parent Guide book included with every Smartbox plays a vital role in making the most of the age-appropriate toys and educational tools in the Smartbox.  Whilst the toys have been developed for children, adults too will find them intriguing.  There is little more reward than spending quality time with your little one and what could be better than playing together with toys that will entertain your child while at the same time, stimulate those vital skills and brain development required at that specific time in their life. Being part of the Mysmartkid programme is a journey that parents can embark on with their young children – a journey of exploration and discovery.  It is a journey where interest is maintained through the ongoing anticipation of delivery of the next Smartbox and the discovery of new and interesting toys. It too is a journey that begins with setting the foundation for your child’s future – something that every parent wants to achieve for their child. “Helping children to think and solve problems creatively is as simple as providing opportunities to paint, draw, invent, explore and play. Joining in the fun and spending valuable time together has amazing benefits for you and your child alike! The Mysmartkid programme is something we as parents could all use and I am excited to be a part of it!” says Debbie Mynhardt member of the panel of experts at Mysmartkid.

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Play Is Very Important For Your Child’s Development And Education

As parents we constantly worry that we are not giving our children the very best educational foundations to prepare them for the adult, working world. We want our children to be a success in this highly competitive, fast-moving world of technology and we will pour our time, effort and money into extra-mural activities and extra-lessons in order to achieve just that. Sadly, this often comes at the expense of time spent in simple, unstructured play. More and more today, play time is being lost to structured learning activities. This does not simply reduce the freedom and joy of childhood; it removes a cornerstone of development. Yes, play is actually an essential part of child development and therefore of learning! Let’s look at how play helps your child’s development: Gross motor skills: It is easy to see how running, jumping, climbing and swimming develop your child’s muscle strength and coordination. What is less obvious is that if your child’s sporting activity becomes too regulated too soon, he is going to specialise before he has developed an overall good coordination. The more diverse a child’s physical play can be, the more chance he has of developing his muscles and overall coordination in a balanced way. He is less likely to develop early tight tendons ( I see many children with tight tendons at the back of the knees) and less likely to develop weak core muscles (we are seeing more and more young children walking around with poor posture due to weak core muscles). So encourage your child to do unstructured physical fun activities, such as climbing trees, sawing wood, jumping on a trampoline, before you set him on the road of specialised coaching in a specific sport. Fine motor skills: So many parents, in their keen desire to prepare their child for school, give them workbooks and pencil and paper tasks. Many parents begin teaching their child to write so that they can “hit the ground running” when they enter school. Unfortunately, this can have the negative effect of your child developing an inefficient pencil grip, which hampers writing for many years to come. This is because using a pencil correctly requires a child to have finger and thumb stability and a fairly high level of coordination. The best way to help your child be ready to learn to write is to play lots of hand-strengthening games at home. Games that include flicking marbles, crumpling paper, cutting, beading, tying knots and weaving pieces of paper to make table mats. Climbing on the jungle-gym is also a very good way to help your child develop both the coordination and hand muscle strength to prepare him for easy and efficient writing. Sensory Integration: We need all our senses to work and interact together so that we can be comfortable in our environment. Children begin developing their senses and the communication between them through interaction with the environment. The more opportunity children have to play with diverse media and in different sensory settings the better they can develop their sensory systems. A child with an inefficient sensory system struggles to work and learn at his real potential. Visual perceptual skills: Visual perception develops through a child’s interaction with his environment. When a child stretches his arm to reach a high branch, or climbs through a tunnel in an obstacle course, he is developing his spatial perception. Shape perception is developed by a child grasping and manipulating many different objects in play. When he cannot find the toy he wants and has to search for it in his toy-box, he is developing figure-ground perception. Figure-ground perception helps him separate the words from a body of text for reading and find his place when he is copying from the board in school. Verbal skills and Language: Children playing are constantly talking, either with themselves, explaining the aspects of the imaginary situation, or with the other children involved. Researchers have found that less verbal children speak more during imaginary play. In imaginary play, children are therefore experimenting with and developing their language and communication skills. Playing games where word sounds are changed and learning silly rhymes or making up nonsense words, helps children develop their phonics skills and auditory processing. If these are simply taught in a formal way, the child feels no real ownership and finds it harder to remember all the different sounds the written letters represent. If he plays games and experiments with the sounds in words, his feeling of being in control of the words and the sounds is greater, making it easier for him to learn and remember his phonics. He develops an actual concept of how sounds make up words. The reading programme I developed uses play to build phonics skills, the games continue the child’s reading development with fun and movement. This reduces the sense of apprehension so many children have around learning phonics and reading and allows them to develop their skills, while discovering that reading and the written word is fun. Thinking skills (cognition): Thinking is a kind of “inner speech”. We talk silently to ourselves to think through things and solve problems. Children in imaginative play begin to develop this skill through talking aloud and explaining everything that is happening in the game. (Think of the children playing in the “home corner” in your playschool and how they tell each other what to do and talk to the dolls and teddies). Slowly, as they become more practiced, this talking changes to become “inner speech” (they think it but don’t say it out loud). This is a major foundation for developing thinking and reasoning skills. We also know that showing a child how to do something has far less educational impact on him than providing him with the material and allowing him to play and experiment and discover for himself. Reading: To read well, a child needs to have developed the ability to notice the separate sounds in words. He also needs to be able to recognise

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Making Learning Fun

The early years are regarded as most critical for establishing the foundation for development and academic success for children. Play is vital for children to learn new skills such as fine and gross motor skills, language and communication, cognitive skills and social and emotional development. All of these skills combined form the basis for early childhood development. Teaching these skills is as simple as playing a game. Take for example playing “Peek -a-Boo”. This simple game teaches them about object permanence (the fact that something still exists even if you can’t see it). The usual fit of laughter that accompanies the game is what play is all about. Most babies develop physically, mentally and emotionally in a similar pattern. These developmental steps are known as milestones. Reaching certain milestones prepares the child for more advanced development later on. Missing a milestone could have adverse consequences later on, for example, a baby who does not crawl and immediately starts to walk may suffer from low muscle tone and/or problems with fine motor skills such as holding a pencil. Another important element of learning is repetition. Repetition provides a more comprehensive understanding of concepts as the child is able to take in different information each time. Repetition is also important for physical brain development as nerve connections that are repeatedly used become stronger. Repetition allows the child opportunities to strengthen these connections. Little Thinker has designed and developed the THINKER BOX – an innovative home stimulation program to help you ensure your children reach their core developmental milestones through play. The THINKER BOX contains age appropriate and fun activities to do with your children. By encouraging learning through play, you can make sure your child reaches all their important developmental milestones. Each module covers a three month period and includes five boxes (Monday to Friday) containing flashcards and the items for the activities, a milestone development tracking chart and two reading books. Our product has been reviewed by a physical therapist, so you have the added comfort that the activities are indeed focused on the core developmental milestones per age group. How the THINKER BOX helps you: We’ve done all the research on early child development – so you don’t have to Flashcards are simple and easy to understand The age appropriate activities are easy to do The equipment for activities is included The structured, yet fun format ensures that you do the right activity at the right time A developmental milestones chart helps you track your child’s progress and identify possible delayed development areas

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