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Celebrating Roots and Voices: The Heart of International Mother Language Day at Dibber

As an educator and parent at Dibber International Preschool, I carry a deep sense of pride and emotion when I think about the incredible tapestry of languages and cultures that define our community. February 21, International Mother Language Day, isn’t just another date on the calendar for us. It’s a reminder of the roots that ground us, the voices of our ancestors, and the stories that shape who we are. In South Africa, we are blessed with eleven official languages, each a treasure trove of history, traditions, and connections. Language was a tool of division during apartheid, where many were silenced or denied the right to speak in their mother tongue. Yet, post-1994, language became a powerful symbol of unity and nation-building. Our multilingual identity is not just a reflection of our diversity; it’s a testament to our resilience and the beauty of coming together while honouring our differences. But I know, as many of you do, how easily a mother tongue can become lost in the noise of modern life. English often dominates in schools and workplaces, and sometimes our own languages take a backseat. It’s easy to forget how much is at stake when we allow this to happen. Our children deserve more than that. They deserve the richness, the sense of belonging, and the pride that comes from speaking their first language. Language is so much more than words. It’s the way your grandmother’s voice softens when she tells a childhood story. It’s the laughter shared over isiZulu proverbs that carry generations of wisdom, the rhythmic beauty of a Xhosa song, or the heartfelt simplicity of an Afrikaans bedtime story. These moments stay with us; they become part of who we are. For our children, these moments are grounding and affirming, especially in a world that can sometimes feel vast and overwhelming. In our homes and classrooms at Dibber International Preschool, we hold onto these traditions with everything we have. We tell the stories our grandparents told us, we sing the songs that carry meaning, and we share words that feel like home. As a parent of a child on the autism spectrum, and as someone who is on the spectrum myself, I have a profound appreciation for the meaning and weight of words. I’ve seen firsthand how connecting with a mother tongue offers comfort and security. It’s in the familiar sounds and rhythms of our language that my son and I both find a sense of calm amidst life’s complexities. At Dibber International Preschool, we carry these values into every aspect of our teaching. Every child’s language is welcomed, celebrated, and respected. When a child shares a word or phrase in their mother tongue, it’s like they’re sharing a piece of their soul. We encourage this because it enriches everyone. Whether through a story, a song, or simply a greeting, each language adds to the vibrant mosaic of our classrooms. And in South Africa, where multilingualism is part of our daily lives, this celebration of diversity becomes even more essential. What if every child truly understood their value? What if they grew up knowing that their voice, their heritage, and their unique place in the world mattered deeply? At Dibber, we aim to create children for the heart of the world—confident, empathetic, and holistically developed individuals who celebrate themselves and others. We nurture their academic and physical growth and emotional, social, and cultural well-being. This approach ensures that every child feels seen and valued for who they are and what they bring to the world. Supporting a child’s mother tongue doesn’t mean rejecting other languages; it means giving them a foundation. A strong mother tongue gives children the confidence to learn new skills, embrace other languages, and explore the world with open hearts and curious minds. For families worried about losing their linguistic heritage, even small efforts can make a big difference. Read stories together in your language, play traditional games, or simply use your language in daily conversations. These little acts carry immense power. We South Africans know the pain of losing our connection to language and identity. But we also know the joy and pride that come from reclaiming it. International Mother Language Day is more than a celebration; it’s a call to action. Let us hold onto our languages fiercely, teach our children to love and cherish them, and remind them of the stories and people that came before. This day is about so much more than language. It’s about roots, heritage, and the incredible journey of identity. It’s about giving our children the tools to stand tall and proud in who they are while embracing the diversity of the world around them. Let us honour every voice, every story, and every language. Together, we can build a future where all our children feel seen, heard, and celebrated—proud of where they come from and ready to embrace all that lies ahead. By Kelly Eyre, Kelly Eyre, quality and pedagogy lead at Dibber International Preschools

February 26, 2025
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The Importance of Routine

Parenthood is one of the most rewarding journeys, yet it often comes with its fair share of challenges. Many parents find themselves stretched thin between managing school schedules, work commitments, extracurricular activities, and household responsibilities. One simple yet transformative solution exists to alleviate stress for both parents and children: establishing routines. “Routines create predictability for children, offering them a comforting sense of structure and stability,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “For children, knowing what to expect fosters emotional security and supports their developmental growth, while parents benefit from reduced decision-making fatigue and stronger family connections. “Predictability is crucial for young children as it provides a sense of control in their world. Children feel reassured and emotionally secure when daily activities follow a consistent schedule—such as regular mealtimes, bedtime rituals, or designated play hours. This stability encourages healthy emotional regulation, improves sleep quality, and boosts confidence as they learn to navigate their environment independently.  “Simple practices like a calming bedtime routine or a predictable morning schedule can positively impact a child’s mood, behaviour, and ability to focus. These habits prepare children for success not only at home but also in a school setting where transitioning between tasks and adhering to schedules are essential skills. “Parents, too, stand to gain from implementing routines. By reducing the mental load of constant decision-making, routines bring much-needed consistency to parenting. This enables parents to focus more on meaningful interactions with their children and even carve out time for self-care. The beauty of routines lies in their simplicity. A consistent story time, family meal, or evening walk can strengthen bonds and provide moments of restoration for parents. “Moreover, routines don’t have to be rigid to be effective. Families can adapt their schedules to fit their unique needs while maintaining the predictability that helps children and parents alike thrive. “Routines have far-reaching long-term benefits. Children who grow up with predictable schedules are more likely to develop healthy habits, better emotional regulation, and the confidence to navigate the challenges of an unpredictable world. These skills set the stage for academic success, personal growth, and resilience. “By establishing routines that balance the needs of the entire family, parents are laying the foundation for their children’s well-being while reducing their own stress. It’s not about perfection but about finding a rhythm that works for everyone,” concludes Assis. For more insights into child development and fostering emotional security through routines, visit www.dibber.co.za

February 19, 2025
DIBBER SA

Tackling Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry—those moments of bickering, debates, and competition—can feel like an everyday drama in households with more than one child. Whether it’s arguing over who gets the last slice of pizza or the coveted window seat, these conflicts are as common as they are challenging for parents. But sibling rivalry isn’t just about the minor skirmishes—it’s also a powerful opportunity to teach children valuable life skills. “At Dibber International Preschools, we believe sibling conflicts can be transformed into moments of growth,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By teaching children empathy, collaboration, and problem-solving skills, parents can foster stronger relationships between siblings that will benefit them throughout their lives.” Understanding the Root of Sibling Rivalry Sibling rivalry often stems from underlying emotions such as jealousy, competition, or boredom. Though natural, these feelings can escalate into frequent disagreements if not addressed. The key is to approach the situation with empathy and create an environment where each child feels seen, valued, and respected. Tips for Creating Harmony at Home Dibber International Preschools recommends the following strategies for addressing sibling rivalry and fostering harmony at home: Recognise and appreciate each child’s unique strengths and talents. By building their self-esteem, children are less likely to compete for attention and more likely to support one another. Engage siblings in activities that promote teamwork, such as baking, arts and crafts, or building a fort together. These shared experiences teach cooperation and allow siblings to appreciate each other’s contributions. When disagreements arise, guide children through the process of resolving conflicts. Encourage them to express their feelings, listen to one another, and find mutually acceptable solutions. These skills are not only helpful at home but will serve them well in their social and professional lives. Children learn by example. Demonstrating respectful communication and healthy conflict resolution in your own relationships sets a robust standard for your children to emulate. Establishing household rules about acceptable behaviour ensures consistency and fairness, reducing misunderstandings that may lead to conflicts. The Long-Term Benefits of Addressing Sibling Rivalry Parents can transform sibling squabbles into meaningful opportunities for emotional growth by focusing on empathy, mutual respect, and collaboration. “These moments are not just about managing today’s disagreements but about equipping children with lifelong skills,” Assis explains. The result? Lifelong bonds built on understanding and respect. “Parents may feel overwhelmed in the moment, but the effort to nurture harmony will lead to relationships that children treasure well into adulthood,” Assis adds.

February 12, 2025
DIBBER SA

A Guide to Choosing the Best Preschool for Your Child

Sending your child to preschool is one of the most significant milestones in their early years. It sets the foundation for their learning journey and development. Choosing the best preschool can feel overwhelming, but by focusing on a few key aspects, parents can ensure they find a preschool that aligns with their child’s needs and family values. “Choosing the right preschool is more than just a decision about where your child will spend their day—it’s an investment in their future,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of  Dibber International Preschools. “At Dibber, we believe in fostering a love for learning in a nurturing and joyful environment, laying the groundwork for confident, independent, and curious learners.” Key Factors to Consider When Choosing a Preschool 1. Location and Fees: A convenient location can ease daily commutes for busy families. Additionally, parents should explore tuition fees and what they include, such as meals, extracurricular activities, and supplies. Flexible payment options, whether monthly, termly, or yearly, can also make a difference. 2. Safety First: Safety is non-negotiable when choosing a preschool. Top preschools prioritise the well-being of children with measures such as secure drop-off and pick-up procedures, first-aid-trained staff, clean facilities, and clear emergency protocols. 3. A Nurturing Learning Environment: Emotional, social, and cognitive development should take precedence over academics at this stage. A play-based learning approach encourages creativity, problem-solving, and social skills. “Our Nordic-inspired pedagogy is designed to inspire children to explore and learn through play in a supportive and stimulating environment,” explains Assis. 4. Responsive and Individualised Care: Teachers who understand and respect each child’s individuality can make a world of difference. Smaller class sizes often allow for personalised attention, ensuring each child feels valued and supported. 5. Happiness is Key: “Happy children are naturally curious learners,” says Assiss. “A preschool that prioritises joy and play in its daily routines will foster a love for learning that lasts a lifetime.” 6. Questions to Ask: Parents should feel empowered to ask important questions when researching preschools. Inquire about: Choosing the right preschool is about more than just education—it’s about creating a safe, joyful, and inspiring space where children feel confident to explore the world around them. “At Dibber, we see each child as a unique individual with their own strengths, interests, and potential,” says Assis. “By prioritising responsive care, a safe environment, and play-based learning, we aim to create happy learners ready to embrace life’s adventures.”

February 5, 2025
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The Power of Play: A New Year Filled with Learning and Growth

The start of a new year is the perfect canvas for creating playful memories, setting the tone for growth and joy in the months ahead. “Play is an essential part of a child’s growth—it’s how they explore the world, express themselves, and build relationships,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “The games and activities we choose for our children don’t need to be elaborate or expensive. It’s about creating opportunities for creativity, problem-solving, and bonding.” Kick off 2025 with these engaging activities that support your child’s development: “At Dibber International Preschools, play-based learning is central to our philosophy. Every game or activity offers children a chance to connect, learn, and grow,” says Assis. This January, take time to incorporate play into your daily routine. Pick one activity each day and watch how play transforms your child’s outlook and strengthens your family’s connection.

January 29, 2025
DIBBER SA

Rainy Day Adventures: Engaging Indoor Activities for Toddlers

Rainy January days in South Africa bring fresh opportunities for indoor adventures, but for parents, keeping energetic toddlers entertained indoors can feel like a marathon. “Children thrive in environments that stimulate their curiosity and creativity, even when confined indoors,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “Simple, interactive activities at home can offer incredible opportunities for engagement, development, and bonding with your child.” Here are some parent-approved ideas for keeping toddlers entertained on rainy days: “At Dibber, we embrace the power of play as a cornerstone of learning,” says Assis. “Every moment spent playing, exploring, and laughing together builds the social, emotional, and cognitive skills children need to thrive.” This January, embrace the magic of indoor play. Even a rainy afternoon can become a treasure trove of fun, fostering your child’s development while strengthening family bonds.

January 22, 2025
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Indoor Family Activities for those cold Winter Days South African Style

Winter often confines families indoors, but Dibber International Preschools encourages families to view this as an opportunity to bond and learn together. Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the importance of embracing indoor activities that entertain and enrich. “During the colder months, it’s a great idea to engage in activities that keep our spirits high and our family connections strong,” says Assis. Creative Indoor Family Activities for the Winter Season Assis suggests several indoor activities that are perfect for family bonding during Winter: Teaching New Life Skills: This is  an excellent time for children to learn practical skills such as sewing, cooking, or organising. These activities are not just educational; they are opportunities for families to bond over shared tasks and stories. In-House Dance Party: To keep energy levels up and beat the Winter blues, Assis recommends turning up the music for a dance party in your living room. This activity is fun for all ages and a wonderful way to stay active. Indoor South African Braai: Bring the beloved tradition of a braai indoors. Families can cook traditional dishes on the stovetop or oven, creating a festive and educational culinary experience. Indoor Scavenger Hunts: Transform a regular day into an adventure with an indoor scavenger hunt. This activity is fantastic for kids to explore their home environment in a fun and engaging way. DIY Craft Projects with a South African Twist: Crafting projects like beaded jewellery or mini Zulu shields occupy hands and open discussions about South African culture and heritage. Cooking Traditional South African Dishes Together: Winter is perfect for warming up the kitchen with the aromas of dishes like bobotie or koeksisters, teaching kids about culinary traditions while creating delicious meals. Storytelling and Writing: Encouraging children to tell stories or write together fosters creativity and language skills. This time can also be used to share family histories, deepening connections between generations. Creating a Family Time Capsule: Capture memories by creating a time capsule with items that signify current family life to be opened in the future. Playing Traditional South African Games: Games like Morabaraba or Jukskei teach children about cultural history while providing a fun challenge. Exploring South African Music and Dance: Discovering South African music’s diverse sounds and movements can be an enlightening and enjoyable experience for the whole family. Embracing the Spirit of Ubuntu Indoors “The spirit of Ubuntu—’ I am because we are’—guides our approach to these activities, reinforcing the interconnectedness and warmth within families and communities,”  concludes Assis. By incorporating these engaging and educational activities into their routine, families can ensure that the winter season is a time of joy, learning, and togetherness.

July 25, 2024
DIBBER SA

Language and Literacy: The Benefits of Reading in Young Children and it’s Vital Importance in South Africa

As parents in South Africa, we all want the best for our children. We dream of bright futures filled with opportunities. One of the most effective ways to set our children on the path to success is by fostering early language and literacy skills. Reading plays a crucial role in this journey, offering numerous benefits that extend far beyond the pages of a book. In this blog, we’ll explore how reading benefits young children and why it is especially important for us here in South Africa. The Importance of Early Language and Literacy Development Language and literacy are the building blocks of education. They involve the ability to understand, use, and enjoy language in all its forms—speaking, listening, reading, and writing. When we start fostering these skills early in our children’s lives, we lay a strong foundation for their future learning and development. As South African parents, we have the unique opportunity to enrich our children’s lives through storytelling, conversations, and reading. In our culturally diverse nation, this can also mean sharing stories in multiple languages and celebrating our rich heritage while boosting our children’s cognitive abilities. Benefits of Reading for Young Children Cognitive Benefits Vocabulary Expansion: Reading to our children introduces them to a variety of words and phrases they might not hear in everyday conversations. This helps expand their vocabulary and enhances their ability to express themselves. Improved Comprehension Skills: Regular reading helps children understand and process information better. This skill is crucial for their academic success and overall cognitive development. Social Benefits Better Communication Skills: Children who are read to frequently develop superior communication skills. They learn how to articulate their thoughts and listen actively, which are essential skills for social interactions and future learning. Enhanced Empathy: Stories allow children to see the world from different perspectives. This exposure helps them develop empathy and understanding towards others, fostering a sense of community and respect. Emotional Benefits Bonding with Caregivers: Reading together is a special time for bonding. It provides a sense of security and belonging, strengthening the emotional connection between parents and children. Stress Reduction: The soothing nature of reading can help children relax and manage their emotions better, reducing stress and anxiety. Challenges and Opportunities in South Africa South Africa faces several challenges in promoting early literacy, but there are also many opportunities to make a positive impact. Overview of Literacy Rates: Despite progress, literacy rates in South Africa remain a concern, particularly in rural and under-resourced areas. Many children do not have access to books or quality early childhood education. Socio-Economic Disparities: Economic challenges can limit access to books and learning materials, making it harder for some families to prioritize reading. Opportunities for Improvement Government Initiatives: Various government policies and programs aim to improve education and literacy. Supporting these initiatives can help create a more literate society. Community Programs: Grassroots initiatives and non-profit organizations often provide books, training, and support to families and educators. Getting involved in these programs can make a significant difference. Role of Technology: With the rise of digital platforms and mobile apps, more children can access reading materials and literacy programs. Leveraging technology can help bridge the gap for many children. 1,000 Books Before Age 6: A Vital Goal There is a growing movement encouraging parents to read 1,000 books to their children before they turn six. This might sound daunting, but breaking it down means just one book a day over three years. Here’s why this goal is so important: Building a Strong Foundation: Reading a vast number of books exposes children to a wide range of vocabulary, ideas, and concepts, strengthening their cognitive abilities. Developing a Love for Reading: Consistent reading fosters a love for books and learning, setting the stage for lifelong educational success. Improving Concentration and Patience: Regular reading sessions help improve a child’s attention span and patience, skills that are crucial for school readiness. Enhancing Imagination and Creativity: Diverse stories stimulate a child’s imagination and creativity, helping them think outside the box. Strengthening Parent-Child Bond: The daily ritual of reading together strengthens the emotional bond between parents and children, creating lasting memories. In South Africa, reaching this goal can have profound impacts, especially in under-resourced communities where early literacy can be a game-changer for future educational success. The Importance of Reading to Children as Parents As parents, we are our children’s first and most influential teachers. Reading to our children is one of the most impactful ways we can support their development. Here’s why it matters so much: Creating a Nurturing Environment: Reading aloud to your child provides a comforting and secure environment. It’s a special time for bonding and shows your child that they are loved and valued. Setting a Positive Example: When children see their parents engaging with books, they are more likely to develop a positive attitude toward reading themselves. Encouraging Curiosity and Imagination: Books open up new worlds and ideas, stimulating your child’s imagination and curiosity. This encourages creative thinking and a love for learning. Preparing for Academic Success: Early reading habits prepare children for the academic demands of school, giving them a head start in literacy and comprehension skills. Fostering Independence: As children grow, their ability to read independently enhances their self-confidence and sense of achievement. Strategies to Promote Reading in Young Children Tips for Parents and Caregivers Make Reading a Daily Habit: Incorporate reading into your daily routine. Even a few minutes a day can make a big difference. Choose Age-Appropriate and Diverse Books: Select books that are suitable for your child’s age and interests. Include stories from different cultures and languages to broaden their horizons. Engage in Discussions About the Stories: Talk about the stories you read together. Ask questions, encourage your child to share their thoughts, and relate the stories to their own experiences. Role of Schools and Educators Incorporate Regular Reading Sessions: Ensure that reading is a regular part of the school day. This can foster a love for books and learning. Provide a Variety of

July 18, 2024
DIBBER SA

Forgiveness: A Gentle Guide for Young Hearts

Forgiveness is an important value that helps our children grow into kind and understanding individuals. In South Africa, where we have a beautiful mix of cultures and traditions, teaching forgiveness from a young age can help create a community where everyone feels loved and accepted. What is Forgiveness? Forgiveness means letting go of hurt feelings when someone does something that makes us sad or upset. It’s like saying, “It’s okay, I won’t stay mad at you.” Forgiveness doesn’t mean we forget what happened or that it didn’t matter; it means we choose to move forward with a happy heart. Why is Forgiveness Important? For young children, forgiveness helps build strong friendships and maintain a positive outlook on life. It teaches them to be empathetic and to understand that everyone makes mistakes. Practising forgiveness in our diverse South African communities can foster unity and harmony. Teaching Forgiveness You can show your children how to forgive by practising it yourself. If you make a mistake, apologise and explain that everyone can be forgiven. Reading stories that highlight forgiveness can also be very impactful. Tales from our rich South African heritage, like those of Nelson Mandela’s forgiveness, can help children understand the power of forgiving. During playtime, encourage your child to share and resolve conflicts amicably. If a disagreement happens, guide them through the process of forgiving. Praise them when they forgive someone, saying things like, “I’m so proud of you for forgiving your friend. That was very kind.” Encouraging Forgiveness A simple activity to encourage forgiveness is creating a Forgiveness Jar. Have a special jar where your child can place a note whenever they forgive someone. At the end of the week, read the notes together and celebrate their kind heart. Role-playing can also be very effective. Use dolls or stuffed animals to act out situations where forgiveness is needed. This makes the concept more relatable and understandable for young minds. Art and crafts can be another way to help your child express their feelings. Encourage them to draw or paint their emotions. Discuss their artwork and gently guide them towards understanding and expressing forgiveness. Cultural Connections In South Africa, we have a concept called ‘Ubuntu’, which means “I am because we are.” This philosophy emphasises our interconnectedness and the importance of community. Teaching forgiveness aligns perfectly with Ubuntu, helping children understand that forgiving others strengthens our bonds and builds a better society. Teaching forgiveness to our little ones is like planting a seed that will grow into a strong, compassionate tree. As parents, we have the wonderful opportunity to nurture this value in our children, helping them to become loving and understanding individuals. Let’s embrace the spirit of Ubuntu and make forgiveness a fundamental part of our children’s lives. By nurturing forgiveness in our children, we are creating a child with a heart for the world. Thank you for being such wonderful guides for your young ones. Together, we can create a world full of kindness and understanding, one small heart at a time. Article by: Kelly Grace Eyre

July 11, 2024
NB Hearing & Balance

Incidental Learning in Children

The Impact of Hearing Difficulties and the Importance of Early Intervention Incidental learning is the process by which children absorb information from their environment, often without direct instruction. This type of learning is crucial for developing language, social skills, and cognitive abilities. However, children with hearing difficulties may miss out on many of these learning opportunities, which can impact their development. At NB Hearing and Balance, we support early intervention to help children reach their full potential. The Role of Incidental Learning What is Incidental Learning? Incidental learning occurs as children interact with their surroundings. This can happen during conversations while listening to stories, or through observing interactions between others. It plays a vital role in: Language Development: Children pick up vocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation through listening to speech around them. Social Skills: By overhearing conversations, children learn social norms, empathy, and appropriate responses. Cognitive Growth: Incidental learning helps in understanding concepts, problem-solving, and critical thinking. How Hearing Difficulties Affect Incidental Learning Children with hearing difficulties may not fully hear or understand conversations, instructions, or environmental sounds. This can lead to: Delayed Language Acquisition: They may struggle with vocabulary, sentence structure, and overall language comprehension. Social Isolation: Difficulty in following social interactions can hinder the development of social skills, leading to isolation or withdrawal. Delayed Development of Auditory Processing Skills: Hearing loss can lead to auditory processing difficulties that may impact reading and spelling.  Academic Challenges: Hearing difficulties can impact the ability to follow classroom discussions, instructions, and peer interactions, leading to academic delays. The Importance of Early Intervention Early detection and intervention for hearing difficulties are crucial for minimising the impact on incidental learning and overall development. Benefits of early intervention include: Enhanced Language Skills: Early use of hearing aids or other assistive devices helps children hear and learn language more effectively. Improved Social Integration: With better hearing, children can engage more fully in social interactions, leading to better social skills and relationships. Academic Success: Addressing hearing issues early allows children to participate more fully in classroom activities, improving their academic performance. Intervention Strategies: Regular Hearing Screenings: Early and regular hearing tests can detect issues promptly. Solving Medically Treatable Hearing Loss: A thorough assessment can identify hearing loss caused by ear issues, leading to the right referrals and the restoration of hearing as early as possible. Use of Hearing Aids: When medical or surgical treatment is not an option, properly fitted hearing aids or cochlear implants can significantly improve hearing and restore access to sound, improving learning and development. Speech and Language Therapy: Targeted therapy can help children catch up on language skills they may have missed. Educational Support: Schools can provide additional support and resources to help children with hearing difficulties succeed academically. We Can Help! Incidental learning is a critical component of a child’s development, and hearing difficulties can pose significant challenges. However, these challenges can be mitigated with early detection and appropriate intervention, allowing children to thrive. Prioritising hearing health and seeking timely professional help ensures that children have the best possible start in life. If you have concerns about your child’s hearing, don’t wait. Schedule a consultation with NB Hearing & Balance at any of our Cape Town offices and take the first step towards ensuring your child’s healthy development and bright future.

July 8, 2024
Curro

Is my child ready to start primary school?

“Will my child be able to keep up in class? Will they make friends? Will they be able to go without me for a longer school day? Will they enjoy school and feel confident to try new things?” These are some of the questions that parents may have as their children near school-going age. Starting “big school” is a major milestone for every child and something that’s both exciting and potentially scary. But how do you know if your child is ready? According to Dr Jenny Wright, Pre- and Primary School Curriculum Head at Curro Holdings, it is important that preschools prioritise their school readiness approach. This will ensure that children and parents navigate the transition from preschool to primary school with ease. She cites Dr Melodie de Jager, founder of the Mind Moves Institute and early childhood development specialist, who says there are three major milestones that signify readiness for primary school: The child can sit still and sit straight. Dr Wright says that this requires core strength, achieved through hours of physical play. Children also need to be able to manage themselves (to self-regulate) for long enough to learn from their seat in the classroom The child can listen to instructions and make a connection between a sound and a picture. This will have come through hours of listening to stories, songs, rhymes and exercises focusing on the ability to work with sounds in spoken language.   The child can grip a pencil with ease. This is learned through fine-motor development play, such as tearing paper, playing with blocks and lego, creating art and patterns, with various media, and manipulating playdough, sand and water.   Beyond these milestones, Dr Wright says the most important thing a parent needs to check is whether the child feels confident. “Are they sure of their ability to problem solve and do things independently?” she says. “Children should not begin Grade 1 before the age of six because they need to be socially and emotionally ready as well as physically and cognitively. All of these factors play a crucial role in learning, coping and belonging at school.” Parents have an important role to play in building a child’s confidence. “Parents need to build a child’s sense of belonging,” says Dr Wright. “A child’s need to feel loved unconditionally is fundamental to their ability to achieve independence and self-confidence. Parents can assist in building a sense of achievement when children manage tasks independently, listen to and follow instructions, or show emotional control and consideration for others. All of these “skills” can be fostered and developed at home and stand a child in good stead for a positive start to primary school.” Grade R is for “ready” Dr Wright says that preschool focuses on early childhood development and that this continues in Grade R. During this ‘reception’ year many multi-sensory activities help children to learn concretely, and thus prepare them for the world of symbols and numbers in Grade 1.  “At Curro, we understand the significance of Grade R in a child’s schooling journey,” she says. “When approached correctly, this foundation can have a major impact on the child’s life-long self-confidence and future academic success. The play-based, skills-based approach followed in our Grade R classrooms is designed to prepare children holistically for the transition to formal learning in Grade 1. The emphasis in Grade R is on purposeful, often teacher-directed play intended to build physical, social, emotional, and cognitive skills. This approach enables children to think, plan, make decisions, and problem-solve; all the while building the essential core strength and physical agility that will be required in a formal, paper-based setting.” She adds that it’s important to allow children to progress and reach their milestones at their own pace. “Some children are developmentally ahead of their peers at the start of Grade 1, but their friends soon catch up. A child should never feel that they are ‘behind’, as a knock to their self-confidence at this stage can be very damaging to their future confidence – even at Grade 12-level. It is important to remember that children starting in Grade 1 are still effectively Grade R learners and should be seen as such. Children learn at their own pace and have their own individual learning styles and needs. Parents and schools should recognise children’s individuality.” For more information about Curro’s preschool and Grade R offering, visit curro.co.za. References  De Jager, M, Efimove, O. and Efimova, V. (2020) GRAVITY – A missing link in child development. Johannesburg, Mind Moves Institute Publishing.

July 5, 2024
DIBBER SA

A Safe Space is Essential to a Child’s Wellbeing and Growth

As a parent what should your pre-school do to safeguard your children? The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child is a comprehensive guide to creating an environment that allows children to thrive. This guide embodies a child’s right to a safe environment and an education that helps them develop who they are, their talents, and their abilities. It’s crucial to acknowledge these rights for every child and provide them with a space where they can thrive. The Importance of a Safe Space Ursula Assis, Country Director, Dibber International Pre-schools, explains. “Children need an environment that promotes healthy practices and focuses on their physical, mental and social wellbeing as this allows them to maximise their learning abilities,” says Assis. A fact reinforced by research from the Thomas B. Fordham Institute that said ‘feeling safe and valued is vital to a child’s development’. The Institute also pointed out that such an environment doesn’t happen by chance – it is the product of strategy, evolving through clearly defined rules and expectations embedded within the school. “We believe it is important to take a proactive and preventative approach to safeguarding children. Health and safety risk assessments are undertaken regularly, and we remain current with any legislative requirements required in South Africa,” adds Assis. What are the key safeguarding strategies in place at Dibber? Staff are trained in health and safety regulations and expectations regarding children’s health and safety as well as environmental and school health and safety. Parents can request insight into the policies defining acceptable and unacceptable standards of health and safety as this gives them visibility into Dibber’s principles and commitment to the health and wellbeing of their children. These policies are included in the parent contracts, unit manager operations handbooks, staff handbooks and staff training materials. Staff undertake continuous assessment and training to ensure the best possible care for children in an environment that is nurturing, safe, and healthy. What legislation is recognised by the school as integral to the health, safety and wellbeing of children? The Children’s Act 38 of 2005 and the Children’s Amendment Act 2007 that regulate the establishment of Early Childhood Development (ECD) centres. The National Environmental Norms and Standards for Premises, Notice 1229 of 2015, National Health Act 61 of 2003. The Occupational Health and Safety Act 85 of 1993. Foodstuffs, Cosmetics & Disinfectants Act 54 of 1972. Regulations No.638 of 22 June 2018 governing General Hygiene Requirements for Food Premises, the Transport of Food and Related Matters. “These are just a few of the Acts and regulatory policies we follow at Dibber. In addition to the above, we follow whitepapers on childhood development, nutrition regulations, and educational policies. Our list is comprehensive and detailed, and consistently updated to ensure we are always aligned with state, provincial and local authority legislation. “We have also developed forms, documents and protocols designed to prioritise a child’s health, safety and wellbeing throughout the school. We have applications and forms for compliance, medication, parental reporting, childcare protocols and a detailed safeguarding policy.” Dibber invests in monthly risk assessments to ensure staff identify and monitor potential hazards, monthly inspections of indoor and outdoor spaces and equipment, and has paid time and attention to cultivating a culture of proactive safeguarding and hazard management. “We have also refined our admissions policy to ensure safeguarding children starts from the very beginning of our relationship with parents and their children. We consider the individual situation of every child and assess any disability and/or neurodivergent developmental condition, so we ensure they can benefit from our resources and staff in a space that prioritises their wellbeing. “All our schools also have stringent access control and security measures in place to ensure the safety and wellbeing of everyone within our facilities. Every step is carefully managed and monitored from arrival to departure to visitors. We believe that by prioritising safety at every touchpoint throughout the school, we give parents peace of mind and children peace within which to thrive. Our focus is on cultivating and maintaining a safe and nurturing environment where children can thrive and discover their full potential,” concludes Assis.

July 4, 2024
DIBBER SA

The power of  play  is real 

With the focus on Youth in June, Dibber International Preschools  emphasises the importance of pretend  play in childhood development. Ursula Assis, Country Director, urges parents and educators not to overlook  the  power  of  play  amidst  the pursuit of academic achievements. “While the focus on achieving specific learning outcomes is important, it’s equally crucial to recognise the role of imaginative play in a child’s holistic development,” says Assis. The Significance of  Pretend Play Pretend  play, or imaginative  play, is a vital  part of childhood that goes beyond mere entertainment. It is integral to the developmental process, helping children explore and understand the world around them. “Engaging in pretend play allows children to use their creativity while developing critical cognitive, social, and emotional skills,” Assis explains.  Stages of Pretend Play and Developmental Milestones Pretend  play  evolves as children grow, with each stage corresponding to specific developmental milestones: Symbolic  Play (18 to 24 months): Toddlers begin to understand object substitution, such as using a block as a phone. Dramatic  Play (2.5 to 3 years): Children start to enact familiar experiences, often using dolls or stuffed animals to represent people they know. Role-Playing (3 years and up): Children adopt various roles from their everyday lives, enhancing their ability to navigate social situations. Imaginary Objects (3 to 4 years): Preschoolers engage with elements that are not physically present, like pretending to drink from an empty cup. Pretend Play with Others (3 to 4 years): This stage involves interaction with peers, where children begin to cooperate and negotiate roles in a shared play scenario. Fantasy Play (4 years and up): Children delve into more complex, imaginative scenarios, often involving magical or fantastical elements. Imaginary Friends (4 to 5 years): The creation of imaginary companions helps children explore different aspects of their personality and the world. The Benefits of Pretend Play Pretend  play is more than just fun. It provides essential benefits that contribute to a child’s development: Creative and Critical Thinking: Children learn to think creatively and solve problems while navigating their invented scenarios. Communication and Social Skills: Engaging in role-play  enhances verbal and  non-verbal  communication, teaching children to express themselves clearly and understand others. Emotional Intelligence: By acting out different roles, children  develop empathy and the ability to manage their own emotions. Self-Regulation and Conflict Resolution: Pretend  play  often requires children to follow rules they set for themselves, helping them develop self-discipline and negotiation skills. Celebrating Youth Month with a Focus on Well-being This June, Dibber International Preschools celebrates the intrinsic value of play in education. “It’s essential that we provide our children with ample opportunities to engage in pretend  play. This  not only  supports their immediate happiness and satisfaction  but also  contributes to their long-term well-being and success,” concludes Assis.  

June 24, 2024
Parenting Hub

Hogan Lovells and Impande partnership puts spotlight on need for urgent intervention in Early Childhood Development

Did you know that 61% of children in South Africa are developmentally behind or at risk due to malnutrition and poor stimulation? In addition, more than 50% of Early Childhood Development (ECD) centres are unable to access the government subsidy and operate from poor facilities with minimum resources. Unfortunately, only 46% of 4–5-year-olds in early learning centres across the country are on track for early learning by the time they start Grade R. For the past fourteen years, Impande, a non-profit organisation, has been working with grassroots organisations in marginalised communities in South Africa, with a keen focus on ECD. The organisation currently operates in all four municipalities in UGU District and Ubuhlebezwe and uMzimkhulu Municipalities in Harry Gwala District, KwaZulu-Natal, as well as Ntabankulu, Umzimvubu, and Winnie-Madikizela Mandela Municipalities in Alfred Nzo District, Eastern Cape. In KwaZulu-Natal, the Early Childhood Development sector faces numerous challenges, including inadequate infrastructure, lack of resources, and limited access to quality ECD programmes. The Department of Social Development in KwaZulu-Natal, reports that only 30% of children aged 0-4 years have access to ECD services. The picture is also bleak in the Eastern Cape, where the ECD sector faces similar challenges. According to a report by the Department of Social Development in the Eastern Cape, only 25% of children aged 0-4 years have access to ECD services. Despite government prioritising the support of ECD, subsidies and resources are still not reaching marginalised communities because most of the centres operating in these areas are unregistered, making them effectively invisible. Brian Lingett, Director at Impande says, “Operating in KwaZulu-Natal and the Eastern Cape is driven by the urgent need for intervention in the ECD sector in these provinces. By working with grassroots organisations in these communities, we aim to improve the quality of ECD programs and ensure that more children have access to them, laying the foundation for their future success in life”. What sets Impande apart from other organisations is the level of data they collect and transform into actionable initiatives and subsequent results with the help of ECD centres. Field workers collect ECD data through the Impande CommCareApp and their case management system allows for the application of an algorithm that produces investment shortlists. Leveraging the power of this technology has to date allowed Impande and its affiliates to support 62,583 children at 1,876 ECD centres and provide more than 1 million meals annually. They have also seen 295 classrooms built, allowed for 221 centres to access funding, and support 1,165 teachers with a basic income through the Small Enterprise Foundation (SEF). Impande works work closely with public, civil, and private sector stakeholders to drive investment in grassroots ECD. All their work is grounded in a solid ECD network to ensure community participation and effective resource allocation ensuring their holistic approach to ECD. Hogan Lovells recently hosted an event which brought together key civil and private stakeholders to address critical issues such as systemic marginalisation and dire poverty, which are contributing factors to children’s development in South Africa. Deepa Vallabh partner at Hogan Lovells said, “the importance of what Impande does and the generational impact of their work cannot be underestimated in the context of South Africa. Intervention at the right time in a child’s development makes all the difference in their ability to succeed and gives them the best chance for a better future. I believe that as corporate South Africa we can play a pivotal role by supporting organisations like Impande and help create stronger foundations for our future talent”. “Hogan Lovells have been providing pro-bono legal work and advice to us now for the last few years which has been a huge help to us as we grow. We look forward to continuing to collaborate closely with them to drive shared value to improve the lives of young children and women in South Africa and shape the future of the country” adds Lingett.

June 21, 2024
DIBBER SA

Embracing Every Step: Navigating Special Needs

“My journey with Dibber International has deeply intertwined with the lives of countless families, each with their unique, cherished children. As someone on the autism spectrum and a parent to a special needs son, I deeply grasp the intricacies and joys of nurturing children with diverse needs. From autism to developmental delays and learning difficulties, every journey is as unique as the precious children it encompasses. “I know firsthand how daunting it can be to embark on this journey. Even with my qualifications and experience, I initially struggled to acknowledge and navigate my son’s challenges. It was a journey filled with denial, fear, and uncertainty. But with the help of dedicated teachers, supportive managers, compassionate doctors, and skilled therapists, we began to navigate this uncharted territory. Each step was arduous, but with their guidance and expertise, we gradually found our footing. Today, we stand stronger, armed with knowledge, resilience, and an unwavering determination to overcome any obstacle that comes our way. “Looking back, I often wished I had the support of Dibber International when our journey began. The personalised guidance, holistic approach, and unwavering support that Dibber provides would have been invaluable during those challenging early days. That’s why I am deeply committed to this cause—not only as an educator but also as someone I wish I had when we first set foot on this path. I’ve learned firsthand that I am not alone, and neither are you. “The COVID-19 pandemic brought unprecedented challenges, disrupting the lives of families and exacerbating existing barriers to education and support services. For young children, especially those with special needs, the absence of in-person preschool experiences deprived them of vital opportunities for social interaction, sensory exploration, and structured learning. The abrupt shift to remote learning posed significant challenges for children who thrive “on routine, consistency, and hands-on experiences. Isolation from friends, teachers, and routine has been particularly challenging for young children’s social and emotional development. Many missed out on crucial interactions and experiences that lay the foundation for empathy, cooperation, and emotional regulation. Furthermore, the sudden change in routine and increased screen time may have impacted their sleep patterns, attention spans, and overall well-being. “As we navigated these turbulent waters, Dibber International’s commitment to families remained steadfast. We adapted our strategies, providing virtual support, resources, and guidance to bridge the gap created by remote learning. However, we acknowledged the limitations of virtual platforms in meeting the holistic needs of young children with special needs. In-person preschool experiences and supportive learning environments became more crucial than ever. “Development in young children under six unfolds across multiple domains—physical, cognitive, social, and emotional. Every milestone, from learning to walk to understanding emotions, contributes to their growth. For children with special needs, this journey may require tailored interventions and support. Early intervention services play a pivotal role in identifying and addressing developmental delays, equipping children with the tools they need to thrive. “At Dibber International, our approach to child development is grounded in the belief that every child possesses unique strengths and abilities. We call it the Dibber Way—a mastery that celebrates individuality and fosters growth. Our team collaborates closely with families to create personalized education plans prioritising each child’s well-being, growth, and happiness. Through play-based learning, sensory exploration, and tailored support, we empower children to reach their full potential, one step at a time. “Together, as a community of parents, educators, and supporters, we stand united in our commitment to nurturing and empowering every child. Though the road ahead may be challenging, it is also filled with endless possibilities and moments of profound joy. With each step we take together, we weave a tapestry of hope, resilience, and boundless love. Let us continue to embrace every step of this journey with open hearts and unwavering determination, knowing that our children’s futures are bright with promise “If you suspect your child may be experiencing challenges or difficulties, trust your instincts and reach out for support. As parents, you know your child best, and early intervention can make a significant difference in addressing developmental concerns. Our teamis here to listen, provide guidance, and support you through every step of the process. From assessment and diagnosis to creating personalized intervention plans, we’ll work together to ensure your child receives the support they need to thrive. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and together, we can empower your child to reach their full potential. “What if all children could know how valuable they are? Together, we create a world where every child is cherished, included, and empowered to thrive, creating a child for the heart of the world.” By: Kelly Grace Eyre

June 17, 2024
Curro

Questions to ask when selecting a preschool for your child

Choosing the best preschool for your little one can be a daunting task – it’s your child’s first experience of school and the beginning of their formal educational journey. It’s therefore important for parents to ask helpful questions as they evaluate their options. Janet Beyrooti, Preschool Curriculum Manager at Curro Holdings, the JSE-listed independent education provider, shares her tips for parents assessing preschools.  “When selecting a preschool, parents should focus on safety, the quality of the teachers, and the school’s approach to early childhood learning, making sure it supports brain development through play in a safe and caring environment,” says Beyrooti. Questions to ask Will the school work on a practical and logistical level for our family? Parents need to ensure the school makes sense for their family. Is it easy to get to? Are the fees within their budget? What is and isn’t included in the fees (for example, is stationery included or are meals provided and are they balanced and healthy) and what is the fee schedule (monthly, termly, yearly)? Is the school safe? Does the school have strong safety policies and procedures? Are the staff trained in first aid? For example, Beyrooti says that preschool standard procedures should include strict health and safety rules, safe sleeping practices, thorough training in first aid and hygiene, and keeping a clean and safe environment for children to play and learn.  Does this school offer a good start for my child’s learning journey? While preschool should not focus on academics in the same formalised way as primary and high school, it’s important that there is a good curriculum in place to help prepare children for the foundation phase of school, which begins at Grade R. “Our curriculum is based on research, ensuring children learn in a safe space both physically and mentally,” says Beyrooti. “Through teamwork, the learning and curriculum smoothly transition from one age group to another.” Will my child receive quality care? Apart from offering a comprehensive curriculum, a preschool should also offer responsive caregiving. “This refers to early childhood development (ECD) staff who understand each child’s needs and preferences. This personal care helps children feel safe and understood, promoting a positive learning environment,” says Beyrooti. Will my child be happy at this school? Happy children learn better. Plus, children who have good early experiences in school are more likely to have a positive attitude towards primary school and learning. Is the preschool a good fit for your child? Beyrooti says that Curro aims to make preschool a happy experience for babies, toddlers and young children by focusing on play-based learning, responsive caregiving, and the assurance that both they and their parents feel safe and supported. “Our ECD staff understands that children have different needs, likes, and dislikes, and this helps to create a loving and personal environment,” she says. Other questions parents may want to ask include the teacher-to-learner ratio, what the policy is when children get sick, what an average day looks like for their child’s age group, and how the school communicates with parents. “Parents need to evaluate their options and then select a preschool that promises the best beginning for their little one,” says Beyrooti. “Ultimately, you’re looking for a preschool that places the child’s natural development – including their critical need to play – at the heart of its approach.”

June 12, 2024
DIBBER SA

Nurturing Minds at Night: Why sleep is your child’s best learning tool

Dibber International Preschools recognises sleep’s profound impact on a child’s holistic development. Emphasising the need for a good night’s rest, Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber International Preschools, discusses the vital role sleep plays in young learners’ physical, emotional, and cognitive growth. The Crucial Link Between Sleep and Early Brain Development “Sleep is not just a restorative process; it’s a crucial building block in a child’s developmental journey,” Assis explains. During sleep, the brain is incredibly active and engaged in processes essential for healthy development, such as memory consolidation, information processing, motor skill refinement, and neural pathway strengthening. Research shows adequate sleep improves focus, enhanced problem-solving capabilities, better mood regulation, and increased resilience. Moreover, it plays a significant role in physical growth, particularly during infancy. Addressing the Consequences of Sleep Deprivation The effects of insufficient sleep can range from mild irritability to more severe impacts on a child’s academic performance, often mimicking ADHD symptoms. “It’s alarming that one in four children under the age of five are not getting the sleep they need, which can lead to long-term issues including obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular problems,” Assis adds. Ensuring Adequate Sleep: Recommendations for Parents Recognising the varying sleep needs of children as they grow, Assis advises parents on how to establish effective sleep habits: Infants (0-3 months) require 14-17 hours of sleep, including naps. Infants (4-12 months) need 12-16 hours, including naps. Toddlers (1-2 years) should get 11-14 hours, including naps. Preschoolers (3-5 years) benefit from 10-13 hours, including naps. School-aged children (6-13 years) need 9-12 hours. Teenagers (14-17 years) should aim for 8-10 hours. Tips for Promoting Healthy Sleep Patterns Assis encourages parents to adopt a consistent bedtime routine to help regulate their child’s sleep patterns. This routine might include turning off screens well before bedtime, engaging in calming activities like reading a book or listening to soothing music, and ensuring the sleep environment is conducive to rest. “Creating a relaxing atmosphere, limiting evening stimulation, and maintaining a regular sleep schedule all contribute to better sleep hygiene. By establishing these habits early, parents can set the foundation for a lifetime of healthy sleep,” says Assis. Dibber International Preschools remains committed to nurturing the academic and overall well-being of its students. It recognises that a well-rested child is better equipped to face the challenges and opportunities of each day. “By prioritising sleep, parents are investing in their child’s future, enhancing not just their health but also their capacity to learn and grow,” concludes Assis. “At Dibber, we strive to support families in understanding and implementing these critical practices, ensuring our students can achieve their full potential.”

June 10, 2024
DIBBER SA

Beyond the Classroom: Dibber’s Seed-to Spoon Philosophy Fosters Healthy Habits

Dibber International Preschools is  a leader in early childhood education based on the Nordic model and international standards. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the importance of early childhood development and literacy in shaping the futures of young learners. “At Dibber, we believe that a well-rounded education begins with the basics, which includes literacy and cognitive skills and well rounded  practices like mindful eating,” says Assis. The Importance of Mindful Eating in Early Education Mindful eating is a practice that involves being fully attentive to one’s food and using all senses to enjoy and appreciate meals. At Dibber, cultivating this habit in young children can significantly improve their lifelong health and well-being. Assis notes, “By teaching children to engage with their food mindfully, we are helping them to develop healthy eating habits that will serve them well throughout their lives.” The Dibber Meal Concept, focuses on nutritious, seed-to-spoon meals that are integral to our educational approach. “Nutrition is as vital to a child’s development as any academic subject,” Assis states. “Our meal concept is designed to nurture not just the body but also the mind, making every meal an opportunity for learning and growth.” Activities and Benefits for Attendees Mindful eating and its benefits for children, include: Enhancing sensory experiences and appreciation for food. Recognising hunger cues to prevent overeating. Promoting better digestion through thorough chewing. “Understanding and nurturing the connection between body and mind from an early age is crucial,” concludes Assis. 

June 6, 2024
DIBBER SA

UNLOCKING SOUTH AFRICA’S FUTURE – the critical role of quality Early Childhood Development and Education

In a world where investing in the future is paramount, no investment is more crucial than that in early childhood development. Research¹ has shown that the first one thousand days in a child’s life could hold the key to unlocking their lifelong potential. By age five, almost 90% of a child’s brain is developed, making these formative years pivotal in shaping their future. Ursula Assis, Country Director, Dibber International Preschools comments.  South Africa’s Alarming Literacy Statistic “Like many nations, South Africa faces the challenge of ensuring quality early education for its youngest citizens. Shockingly, an international report² reveals that 81% of Grade 4 learners in the country cannot read for meaning in any of the official languages. This stark statistic underscores the urgency of addressing early childhood development. The Impact of Quality Early Education “Early childhood programmes that are sustained and of high quality can have long-lasting impacts on children. These programmes prepare them for formal schooling and set them on a path to lifelong success. Benefits include: Improved Academic Performance: Quality early education lays a solid academic foundation, allowing children to excel in reading, math, and language skills throughout their school years. Enhanced Social and Emotional Development: These programs focus on building crucial social and emotional skills, such as cooperation, communication, and empathy, which are vital for positive relationships and emotional well-being. Long-Term Educational Attainment: Children who receive quality early education are more likely to graduate from high school and pursue higher education, leading to better career opportunities and economic stability. Reduced Special Education Placements: Early childhood education identifies and addresses developmental delays or learning difficulties early on, reducing the need for special education services later in a child’s school years. Economic and Social Benefits: Quality early childhood education programs contribute to a more skilled and productive workforce, lower crime rates, and decreased reliance on social welfare programs, benefiting society as a whole. A Unique Approach to Nurturing Children’s Potential “Our approach goes beyond traditional education. The Dibber Childhood places an emphasis on not only a child’s learning achievements but also their future health, happiness, and growth. Through the Dibber Heart Culture and customised approaches to learning, children become keen explorers who love to learn and develop the competencies needed for everyday life. The emphasis is placed on developing all aspects of a child, from the cognitive and physical to the emotional and social. “A warm and inclusive atmosphere fostering positive and supportive relationships is also vital in early childhood development. Jack Shonkoff, Director of the Centre on the Developing Child at Harvard, highlights the importance of these relationships, which are the roots that allow all children to thrive. Children need to feel valued, know how to form relationships and understand their role in a greater community and the world. Everyday Moments are Golden Opportunities “There is great importance in tiny everyday moments that leave lasting traces, influence relationships, and shape culture, so we strive to make every everyday moment “golden” by actively building trust with the children and nurturing their sense of self-worth. “Investing in early childhood development not only sets children on a path to success but also contributes to the overall well-being of society.”

May 28, 2024
DIBBER SA

WHY RESPONSIVE PARENTING IS THE NEW BUZZWORD IN MODERN CHILD REARING

A fresh parenting style has been capturing caregivers’ attention worldwide: Responsive Parenting. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this emerging trend, explaining its significance and its profound impact on child development. Understanding the Core of Responsive Parenting Assis describes responsive parenting as a holistic approach that focuses on the child’s needs, emotions, and developmental milestones. This style is distinguished by its sensitivity, empathy, and commitment to fostering a secure, nurturing environment. “Responsive parents are keen observers of their child’s behaviour. They engage in active listening, validate their child’s feelings, and provide guidance that is attuned to the child’s emotional state,” Assis explains. This approach is about being present and connected with the child, ensuring that the parent’s actions and responses are consistently supportive and encouraging. It’s about establishing trust and mutual respect, where the child feels valued and understood. The Four Pillars of Traditional Parenting Styles To appreciate the uniqueness of responsive parenting, Assis contrasts it with the four traditional styles: Authoritarian, Authoritative, Permissive, and Uninvolved. Each style represents a different approach to discipline, communication, and nurturing. While Authoritative parenting shares some similarities with the responsive model, especially in terms of nurturing and communication, responsive parenting goes a step further by prioritising the child’s emotional and psychological needs. The Benefits of Adopting a Responsive Approach Research has shown that responsive parenting has a myriad of benefits. “Children raised in a responsive environment tend to excel in cognitive, social, emotional, and physical development,” Assis states. These children often develop secure attachments with their caregivers, which leads to better problem-solving skills, independence, and emotional regulation. Furthermore, responsive parenting fosters a peaceful home environment where children feel loved and supported, reducing the likelihood of behavioural issues. Practical Applications of Responsive Parenting Responsive parenting is actionable in daily interactions. It involves: Being sensitive to the child’s needs and responding warmly. Accepting and understanding the child’s emotions. Setting realistic expectations and helping the child achieve them. Engaging in meaningful conversations and reasoning with the child. Demonstrating consistent behaviour for the child to model. Embracing Imperfection in Parenting Assis emphasises that responsive parenting is not about perfection. “Even the most responsive parents have their off days. It’s about the effort and intention behind our actions,” she remarks. Mistakes and missteps are part of the parenting journey. Apologising and reconnecting with the child after a mistake teaches them about humility, resilience, and emotional intelligence. Responsive parenting represents a paradigm shift in how we approach child-rearing. It underscores the importance of a nurturing, empathetic relationship between parent and child, laying the groundwork for an emotionally healthy, secure, and capable future generation. As Assis concludes, “In the end, it’s not about adhering to a perfect parenting model but about being the loving, present, and responsive caregiver that every child deserves.”

May 21, 2024
DIBBER SA

EXPLORING THE IMPACT OF HELICOPTER PARENTING

In the delicate balance of parenting, a fine line exists between nurturing and hovering too closely. Helicopter parenting, characterised by overprotection, micromanagement, and excessive involvement, while rooted in love and concern, can inadvertently hinder a child’s development. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this and its long-term effects on children, urging parents to find a healthy balance between support and autonomy. Understanding Helicopter Parenting As Assis explains, helicopter parenting stems from a deep desire to shield children from harm and ensure their success. However, this hyper-vigilant approach can impede children’s ability to develop crucial life skills, such as independence, resilience, and problem-solving. The Long-Term Impact on Children Assis outlines five significant long-term effects of helicopter parenting on children: Decreased Confidence & Self-Esteem: By constantly intervening and limiting their independence, helicopter parents inadvertently hamper children’s confidence and self-esteem, hindering their ability to navigate challenges with resilience. Inability to Cope with Emotions and Failures: Sheltering children from failure deprives them of valuable learning experiences and coping mechanisms, leaving them ill-prepared to handle setbacks and disappointments. Increased Anxiety: The constant pressure to meet parental expectations and the lack of autonomy can lead to heightened stress and anxiety levels among children, affecting their overall well-being. Sense of Entitlement: Children accustomed to having their every need catered to may develop a sense of entitlement, expecting success without putting in the necessary effort or facing adversity. Non-Existent Life Skills: Overprotected children may lack essential life skills, such as problem-solving and resilience, making it challenging for them to navigate the complexities of the real world independently. How to Avoid Helicopter Parenting Assis offers practical advice for parents on how to avoid falling into the trap of helicopter parenting: Empower Independence: Allow children to tackle challenges and solve problems on their own, gradually increasing their autonomy as they grow. Encourage Resilience: Support children in facing setbacks and disappointments, emphasising the importance of perseverance and resilience in overcoming obstacles. Promote Life Skills: Provide opportunities for children to develop essential life skills, such as decision-making, problem-solving, and emotional regulation, through hands-on experiences and real-world challenges. Be the Net When They Fall Assis underscores the importance of being a supportive presence in children’s lives, offering comfort and encouragement when they encounter difficulties. Parents can help children build the resilience and confidence they need to thrive by serving as a safety net rather than a hovering presence. “It is important to balance support and autonomy in parenting, allowing children the freedom to explore, learn, and grow while providing a safety net of love and guidance. By avoiding the pitfalls of helicopter parenting and fostering independence and resilience in children, parents can empower them to become capable and confident individuals, prepared to navigate life’s challenges with courage and resilience,” concludes Assis.

May 14, 2024
DIBBER SA

FOSTERING RESILIENCE IN YOUNG CHILDREN IS VITAL TO THEIR HEALTHY DEVELOPMENT

How do we do this? Nurturing resilience in young children is paramount for their growth and development in a country and world filled with challenges. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this crucial aspect of parenting, teaching, and early childhood education and development. As Assis explains, resilience refers to a child’s ability to respond positively to adverse events. While some may perceive resilience as an innate trait, she stresses that it can also be cultivated through cognitive, emotional, and social skills. “Resilience is not just about bouncing back from setbacks; it’s also about equipping children with the tools to navigate life’s uncertainties with confidence and adaptability,” says Assis. Here are nine practical ways parents can foster resilience in their young children, according to Assis: Setting Boundaries: Assis advises parents to set boundaries and encourage independence in their children. Saying ‘no’ when appropriate and allowing children to tackle tasks independently instils a sense of self-reliance and responsibility. Avoiding Overprotection: While ensuring safety is essential, she cautions against overprotecting children. Allowing them to explore, experiment, and occasionally experience failure is crucial for their growth and resilience. Building Strong Family Bonds: A supportive and loving family environment lays the foundation for resilience. Spending quality time together, fostering open communication, and nurturing emotional stability contribute to a child’s ability to cope with challenges. Asking Empowering Questions: Assis suggests asking ‘how’ questions to encourage problem-solving skills and a positive outlook instead of focusing on mistakes. This approach helps children develop resilience by shifting their perspective from dwelling on failures to finding solutions. Embracing Mistakes: Making mistakes is a natural part of learning and development. Assis advocates for allowing children to make and learn from mistakes, emphasising that resilience is built through overcoming challenges. Encouraging Healthy Risk-Taking: It is key to highlight the importance of encouraging children to take calculated risks and step out of their comfort zones. Providing guidance on assessing risks and taking appropriate precautions empowers children to explore new opportunities confidently. Storytelling and Inspiration: Sharing stories of resilience and perseverance inspires children to believe in their own abilities. Assis recommends storytelling as a powerful tool for instilling values of determination, passion, and resilience in young minds. Positive Communication: The tone of communication plays a significant role in shaping children’s perceptions and responses to challenges, with parents encouraged to communicate positively and emphasising encouragement and support rather than fear or negativity. Providing Unconditional Support: While fostering independence, the importance of maintaining a supportive presence in children’s lives needs to be stressed. Knowing they have a reliable source of love and guidance gives children the confidence to navigate obstacles and seek help when needed. In conclusion, Assis reiterates that parents play a crucial role in modelling resilient behaviour for their children. By incorporating these strategies into parenting practices, parents can empower their children to thrive in the face of adversity. Dibber International Preschools is dedicated to supporting parents in this journey of fostering resilience and nurturing the next generation of confident, resilient individuals.

May 7, 2024
Junior Colleges

SCREEN TIME AND ITS’ EFFECT ON LANGUAGE DEVELOPMENT

Technology has become part of our daily life. Living in a time where everything is rushed and screen time opportunities are growing, children are exposed to screens for increased periods. What is the effect of increased periods of screen time on my child’s language development? According to recent research, screen time may have some positive effects if your child is exposed to screen time, as the World Health Organization (WHO) set out. Some positive impacts include expanding your child’s vocabulary, exposing them to cultural diversity, and keeping them occupied in a safe environment. However, suppose a child is exposed to screen time for long periods. In that case, it may negatively affect their language development as screen time may not encourage your little one to participate in a conversation actively. The WHO encourages parents not to expose their children to screen time between birth and two years and to limit screen time to less than 1 hour per day between the ages of three- and five years.  Recent studies have suggested that the adverse effects of screen time appear to outweigh the positive influences thereof. During the first three years of life, the brain experiences rapid growth due to neural plasticity. The first three years of life are crucial for language development; therefore, as the parent, you will be advised and encouraged to spend as much one-on-one time with your little one to expand their vocabulary and limit screen time as much as possible. In addition, remember to read a book daily; this will expand their vocabulary, increase sentence length, and create a love for books that will be important for later learning, and create time for you and your little one to spend together. Written by Michelle McDonald (Speech-Language Therapist)

March 15, 2024
Junior Colleges

Is your child a bully?

Causes and possible solutions! As a parent, it is devastating news to learn from the schoolteacher or principal that your child is a bully. Thinking that your child could harm others is a painful thought. Children’s friendship skills are essential indicators of your child’s general mental health level. If your child participates in verbal or physical bullying, it could signify severe distress. Your child might be experiencing depression or anxiety and is struggling to regulate his emotions and behaviour.  Time to highlight a few examples of why a child may act unfriendly towards other children: He wants to fit in with the group that bullies a particular individual in the classroom. He is often bullied at home or school and tries to regain a sense of power by acting aggressively towards others. He wants to seek the attention of his class peers, teachers, or parents and feels he cannot get it any other way. He tends to be more assertive and impulsive than others. He is inclined to view the behaviour of others as hostile, even when it is not. He does not fully understand how his behaviour makes the other children feel (this is especially applicable to young children). Let’s have a look at valuable tips you can do as a parent to ensure your child harbors respectful relationships with others: Communicate  Be open and listen to what others have to say about your child’s behaviour and your own.  Set the example at home Parents must realise that their behaviour could influence their children, including how they speak to their children and spouses, and how they deal with anger and other challenging emotions. So make sure your homelife reflects the behaviour you would like your children to adopt. Put meaningful consequences in place. Punishment is only effective when it is meaningful and restricted. A privilege that is withheld for too long, for example, when you take away your child’s phone for cyber-bullying, loses its validity. Instill positive reinforcement and not negative reinforcement. Once your child has regained his privileges, you should explain the situation to him and allow for him to apologise. Monitor the situation Those surrounding him should always be on the lookout for problematic behaviour and praise him when he shows kindness towards others. Stay connected You should keep an open communication channel with your child, talk to him daily, and ask open-ended questions. Communication will place you in a better position to recognise signs of bullying. Children who share their news with their parents willingly feel comfortable speaking to them, which is an accomplishment. Therefore, you need to stay connected with your child in a supportive, non-judgmental manner. Connection is key to reducing aggressive behaviour in your child. However, if you are continuously working on your child’s friendship skills but the bullying continues, you should seek help. Your child might need a therapist’s help to work through underlying problems. 

March 12, 2024
The Turning Point Education

Unlocking the power of reading

READING … It has been said that in Grade 0 – 3 a child learns to read and from Grade 4 up, they read to learn. Learning to read is different from learning to communicate. Children are born with the inherent ability to learn to communicate, but they are not born with the inherent ability to learn to read. As such, teaching reading needs to be systematic and intentional.  Sadly, for many of our children, they miss out on the foundations of learning to read which impacts negatively on their ability to learn throughout life. Although accurate statistics are hard to come by, the evidence is conclusive that South Africa’s rate of illiteracy in our schools it frighteningly high. In 2021, the Progress of International Literacy (PIRLS) study reported that 80% of students in South Africa, in Grade 4 were illiterate! This is beyond frightening and we need to systematically and intentionally intervene to turn the tide of growing illiteracy.  In a world dominated by screens and soundbites, the art of reading seems to be fading into the background. Yet, it’s importance remains as crucial as ever. Learning to read properly isn’t just about deciphering words on a page, it’s about unlocking a world of possibilities, expanding horizon and empowering individuals to navigate the complexities of life with confidence and insight. The Gateway to Knowledge Reading is a key that opens countless doors to knowledge, wisdom and imagination. From textbooks to literature, news articles to scientific papers, reading with comprehension allows a person to access to a wealth of information. Mastering the skill of reading is paramount! It takes a child beyond the doors of their classrooms into a world of possibilities.   Once you learn to read, you will be forever free.” — Frederick Douglass   Empowering Critical Thinking Reading isn’t merely about absorbing words. It’s about engaging with ideas, analyzing perspectives and challenging assumptions. Proper reading comprehension cultivates critical thinking skills essential for navigating an ever increasingly complex world. Student who can read effectively are better equipped to evaluate information critically, discern fact from opinion, and form their own well-informed judgments. Fostering Empathy and Understanding Literature has the power to transport readers into the lives of others, which fosters empathy and understanding. Through the pages of novels, short stories and poems, children encounter diverse characters and perspectives, gaining insights into different cultures, experiences and emotions. These literally journeys broaden children’s worldview and cultivate empathy, which is a vital attribute for building harmonious relationships and thriving in a multicultural society. Enhancing Communication Skills Reading also extensively is a cornerstone of success in both academic and professional realms. Reading extensively exposes students to various writing styles, vocabulary and sentence structures, which enhances their own language proficiency. Furthermore, exposure to well-written texts serves as a model for developing coherent arguments, articulating thoughts clearly and communicating ideas persuasively. These are skills which are invaluable in academic essays, presentations and other everyday interactions.  “Children are made readers in the laps of their parents.” -Emilie Buchwald Fuelling Imagination and Creativity Books are portals to boundless worlds limited only by one’s imagination. Through the pages of fiction, students embark on fantastical adventures, explore distant galaxies and immerse themselves in richly imagined landscapes. Reading stimulates creativity, igniting the imagination and inspiring individuals to think innovatively. For students nurturing creativity through reading fosters a sense of possibility and fuels their aspirations for the future. Building Resilience and Grit The journey of learning to read proficiently is often fraught with challenges – encountering unfamiliar works, grappling with complex concepts and overcoming moments of frustration. Through perseverance in the face of these obstacles that resilience and grit are forged. Students who persist in honing their reading skills develop the confidence to tackle academic challenges head-on and the resilience to navigate setbacks with determination. Cultivating Lifelong Learning Reading is not merely a skill to be mastered in school but is lifelong companion on the journey of personal growth and self-discovery. Students who cultivate a love for reading are more likely to become lifelong learners, continuously seeking out new knowledge and experiences beyond the confines of formal education. Whether delving into non-fiction to expand the expertise or losing themselves in the pages of fiction for pure enjoyment, the habit of reading enriches their lives immeasurably. In an age dominated by rapid technological advancements, the ability to read properly remains a timeless and indispensable skill. For children, mastering this skill is not just about meeting their academic requirements but about equipping them with the tools needed to thrive. By unlocking the power of reading, children embark on a journey of discovery, a journey that transcends the confines of the classroom and shapes the course of their lives.   And all this begins by parents developing a love of books in their children!

February 15, 2024
Wingu Academy

Wingu Academy Unveils the Early Years (Stage R) Oxford International Program: The evolution of learning in South Africa

In a groundbreaking development for the Wingu Academy, we are thrilled to announce the upcoming launch of the Stage R Early Years Program, scheduled to commence in 2024.  This transformative educational initiative promises to usher in a new era of learning, providing our students with a world-class educational experience designed to prepare them for the challenges and opportunities of the 21st century. Learn more about the Stage R Oxford Program and sign up for this exciting journey by clicking here. Stage R Implementation: South Africa’s educational landscape is undergoing a transformation, marked by recent legislative shifts such as the proposed BELA Bill, which mandates an additional 1-2 years of schooling and makes Stage R compulsory for children. Under these new regulations, Wingu Academy’s Early Years (Stage R) program gives South African children the best possible Stage R education. This groundbreaking program sets a new standard in home education, incorporating the internationally respected Early Years program from the Oxford International Curriculum.  The Oxford International Curriculum is recognized globally for its impeccable standards and comprehensive approach to education, making it the perfect choice to support our young learners on their educational journey. Implementing the prestigious Oxford Curriculum at Wingu Academy will open the door to a myriad of benefits for our Stage R students: Enhanced Learning Opportunities: The Stage R Oxford Program will provide our young learners with access to a more enriching and challenging curriculum, enabling them to realize their full academic potential. Preparation for the Future: In an ever-competitive and increasingly globalized world, the program will equip Stage R students with the skills and knowledge necessary to thrive and succeed. Personal Growth: Beyond academics, the program will focus on character education and extracurricular activities to foster essential life skills, including leadership, teamwork, and resilience. Global Citizenship: Exposure to diverse perspectives and cultures will broaden our Stage R students’ horizons, making them more informed and compassionate global citizens. As we embark on this new chapter in our school’s history, we eagerly anticipate the endless possibilities it holds for our Stage R students.  The Early Years (Stage R) program will undoubtedly shape the future of education at Wingu Academy, enriching the lives of our Stage R students and preparing them for a bright and promising future.

November 21, 2023
Parenting Hub

Creating a good self-esteem with your preschooler

Healthy self-esteem is like a child’s armour against the challenges of the world. In the early years a child is still developing ideas about himself. These are largely based on his interactions with others. These opinions that a child has about himself forms his self-esteem. Lynn van Jaarsveld, Principal of Trinityhouse Pre-Primary Little Falls, gives some guidelines to help build a positive self-esteem: make rules that are reasonable praise accomplishments—rather than ignore and punish remember the value of positive statements be neither over-protective nor under-protective help your child to deal with failure in a constructive manner show your child that you love them affirm your child’s worth spend time, plenty of time with your child pray with your child encourage independence teach your child responsibility never make comparisons between children don’t expect perfection Most important of all, is to have fun with your preschooler.  Kids who know their strengths and weaknesses and feel good about themselves seem to have an easier time handling conflicts and resisting negative pressures. They tend to smile more readily and enjoy life. These kids are realistic and generally optimistic. Taking responsibility and pride in who you are as parents is a sure sign of healthy self-esteem and the greatest gift you can give to your child. By Lynn van Jaarsveld (Principal of Trinityhouse Pre-Primary Little Falls)

November 20, 2023
Glenoaks Remedial and Special Needs School

Does your child have Visual Perception challenges?

Visual perception is a fundamental aspect of human experience. It is the brain’s ability to make sense of what the eyes see. It allows us the ability to interpret, filter, organise and make sense of the world around us, from recognising faces, to reading words, to judging distances and perceiving colours. During development, good visual perceptual skills are important and make up part of the foundation of learning. Difficulty with visual perceptual skills can lead to problems with learning. In this article we explore what visual perception is, the various aspects of it and highlight some key red flags that parents should be aware of.  Visual perception can be divided into the following complex processes: Visual Memory – Record and store information to be recalled and accessed later. Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Memory include: Recalling site words Spelling – especially remembering how words are spelled Reading fluidly – each word read seems brand new Writing – recalling letter formation Drawing – remembering what an item is supposed to look like from past experiences Math skills – remembering how the problem is supposed to look, graphing, or using a calculator Completing life skills such as following a recipe, reading a map, shopping, using the internet, and typing Visual Sequential Memory – Similar to visual memory but helps us remember and recognise people, places we have been, and a series of events, equations, and procedures. This helps us to work through, plan and prepare for our days, and to access necessary stored information for engagement with all our daily tasks. Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Sequential Memory are the same as for Visual memory. Form Constancy – Distinguish one shape from another which is similar. This can include difference in size, colour, or shape. For example, the difference between b and d. Red flags that indicate challenges with Form Constancy include: Difficulty completing worksheets/puzzles, and sorting items that are slightly different Slow or delayed learning to read, especially with different fonts, or writing styles Unable to effectively read other people’s handwriting Figure Ground – Filter, sort and extract the most important information from a busy background, which is important when organising your environment, including your room, your workspace, your work book etc.  Red flags that indicate challenges with Figure Ground include: Difficulty locating objects in competing environments such as a drawer, folder, or crowd Loses their place when reading, copying from the board, or writing from a model Struggles to find personal items in a crowded space Slow to complete work Unable to effectively sort items from a large pile Spatial Relations – Process and organise visual information from our environment and decipher where it is in relation to ourselves. Spatial relations include laterality and directionality. Laterality is the ability to distinguish between left and right on oneself.  Directionality is telling the difference between right and left on objects or someone else. Red flags that indicate challenges with Spatial Relations include: Knowing their left and right Reading similar letters such as b/d p/q without errors Forming letters/numbers correctly Following directions involving space, such as “go right” Moving around their environment without bumping into objects Learning social skills involving body language and spatial distance from others Copying written work, staying inside the lines, or writing within certain confines Completing puzzles – knowing which way to place a piece Visual Closure – Detect, differentiate, select, draw conclusions, and understand information when we are only given certain pieces of information, rather than the entire account, story or explanation. Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Closure include: Difficulty completing puzzles Challenges with dot-to-dot activities Refusal to engage in tasks such as puzzles, dot-to-dot and colouring activities Slow reading fluency Visual Discrimination – Identify detail, determine similarities and differences in shape, colour, position, and orientation. The other six skills require some level of visual discrimination.  Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Discrimination include: Difficulty sorting similar items such as coins, socks, silverware, especially those with subtle differences Difficulty effectively read maps Challenges with reading words that are similar such as “cat” and “cap” Difficulty completing puzzles or spot the difference pages Visual Motor Integration – Integrate the visual information received in the brain with fine motor skills. It involves interpreting and responding to visual information accurately and effectively, typically using precise motor movements.   Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Motor Intergation include: Difficulty with fine motor skills  Messy handwriting  Poor hand eye co-ordination  Inaccurate cutting  Avoidance of activities  Difficulty with spatial awareness Visual Attention – Attend to visual information, while filtering out unnecessary details. Red flags that indicate challenges with Visual Attention include: Bumping into things, clumsy movements Not being able to find items Difficulty with reading and writing    What If my child has poor Visual Perception? If your child has poor visual perceptual skills, this can affect their participation in daily tasks and specifically in their school environment with reading, writing, organisation, and other executive functioning skills.  Visual perception plays a crucial role in a child’s development and learning. Whilst some variations in visual development are normal, parents/care givers and teachers/therapists should be attentive to red flags that may indicate potential issues. If you notice any red flags in your child’s visual development, it is essential to consult with an eye care professional such as a Behavioural Optometrist for a comprehensive assessment of the eye and its behavioural response to its environment. An Occupational Therapist, a Remedial Therapist or an Educational Psychologist can carry out the necessary assessments to determine the areas where your child is struggling and is able to provide appropriate assistance where necessary.  Early detection and intervention can make a significant difference in a child’s visual development and overall well-being.  Written by Nicky Forssman – Occupational Therapist Glenoaks School

October 30, 2023
Junior Colleges

Emotional and Social Milestones of a 6-year-old

Why it’s important to nurture empathy in kids? Parents should consider teaching empathy and nurturing emotional intelligence in their children for several reasons. In its most basic form, empathy is the ability to put oneself in another’s shoes and comprehend their emotions and experiences. Empathy can also be useful in teaching children about bullying and how to avoid it. Thus, teaching empathy is an important factor in preventing bullying at school. How can parents encourage emotional intelligence and empathy in their children? Make sure your child’s emotional needs are met – To be able to feel and express empathy for another person, a child’s emotional needs must first be satisfied. Before she can help someone else, she must be able to rely on her parents and caregivers for emotional support. Teach your child how to cope with negative emotions – Negative emotions like anger and jealousy are common in children and adults. A child with good emotional intelligence and empathy is more likely to be taught how to handle these feelings positively in a problem-solving manner by sympathetic parents. Ask, “How would you feel?” – When a pre-schooler smacks a sibling or a friend or takes away a toy they’re playing with, a parent should explain that such action might hurt a person. “How would you feel if someone took your toy away?” or “How would you feel if someone smacked you?” are some examples of questions to use. Name that feeling – Identify and categorize feelings and emotions as much as possible to assist your child in understanding them. If your child behaves kindly toward someone, you can say: “That was very good of you to be so worried about your friend; I’m sure it made him feel much better when you were so kind to him. If your child behaves unpleasantly, you can say: “I understand you may be angry, but it made your friend sad when you stole his toy from him.” Talk about positive and negative behaviours around you – In real life, as well as in books, television, and movies, we are always exposed to instances of good and bad behaviour. Discuss with your child any behaviour you notice, such as someone making another person upset or acting like a bully, or someone helping others and making them feel better about themselves. Set a good example – By watching you and other adults in their lives, your child learns how to interact with others. Show them what it is to be helpful or kind and loving. You can teach your child to be sympathetic by helping family members and neighbours and supporting friends and those in need or going through a difficult time.

October 17, 2023
Parenting Hub

The power of play-based learning in preschool

For many parents, play seems frivolous. However, there’s a method in the madness –  in it lies the freedom to think, express, interact, and explore As adults, we forget what it’s like to lose ourselves in play. Yet, from an early age, it’s a critical part in how we develop into well-rounded people. Several studies show why play is important in animals and humans alike. A study involving young rats found that play triggered lasting changes in parts of the brain used for thinking and processing social interactions, while adults who play are more productive at work, cope better with stress, and can find original solutions to problems. We need play at any age, but it’s hugely consequential in early childhood development (ECD). A preschooler messing around in a sandpit, fumbling with building blocks, or scribbling on a blank piece of paper doesn’t appear to be learning anything – but look closer. See them digging, then using a spade to transfer the sand into a bucket. Look at them carefully creating a mini-city on the carpet. Watch their little wrist and fingers intently clutching a crayon, making swirling, repetitive circles. “There’s a method in the madness,” says Janet Beyrooti, Preschool Curriculum Manager at independent education provider Curro Holdings. “A child playing in a sandpit with a bucket and a spade, putting the sand in with precision and speed, doesn’t start like that – there’s more sand out of the sandpit than in it. However, children who master something as ‘simple’ and playful as putting sand in a bucket, master hand-eye co-ordination. They can look up at the whiteboard in primary school, quickly look down and copy what they see, and write at speed.” A 2019 academic paper entitled Toward a South African Pedagogy of Play talks about the “paradox of play”: how it’s messy and chaotic, yet a school is a place of rules and order; how play can feel timeless yet schools run on timetables. To address these contradictions, the authors argue that an intentional approach to play – that leverages its power – is needed. With this in mind, Curro takes a play-based, child-initiated learning approach in their enriched preschool curriculum, where young children are allowed to play freely indoors and out, and where they can learn through doing, at their level, in a safe environment. Through child-initiated learning, Curro’s ECD practitioners guide children through skills development, but the children take the lead, and everything happens through play. “You and I have life experience,” explains Beyrooti. “We may want to tell a child not to mix all the paint colours because it’ll make a brown picture – that’s adult-initiated. The child needs to experience what happens if they mix everything. Or, if you tell them they’re building something too high it’ll fall, those are just words. We need children to experience these skills, through play, and that’s what we’ve created as a school.” According to Beyrooti, a young child thinks creatively first because they don’t yet have enough verbal skills. If they don’t have the freedom to do this, there can be delays when entering primary school. This creative thinking is fostered through play: the child stacking building blocks is practising planning where the date should go in an exercise book, and the child making big, circular scribbles is learning how to write by building an automatic response to go ‘over the top’. They can’t form letters yet, but, says Beyrooti, letter formation is an ‘over the top’ movement with the wrist and fingers. Every alphabet letter, even if it’s not a circle, begins as a circular movement at the top, anticlockwise – and it all starts with a scribble, she emphasises. “By the time a child reaches primary school, you can see who has played enough,” says Beyrooti. “Those exposed to play-based learning are the children who can now put their creative thinking into words, they’re physically agile with well-toned muscles and tendons, they have seamless hand-eye co-ordination, and soft skills like communication and problem-solving already have a strong foundation. Research also supports the idea that children with well-developed soft skills tend to excel professionally. This is possible because they’ve been given the freedom to think, express, interact, and explore from the very start – all through play,” she concluded.

October 11, 2023
Bennetts

How to Develop Early Maths Skills (Number Concept)

Learning to count from one to ten, and later to a hundred, is an important milestone in early math development.  However, it is equally important for young children to learn to understand the “how many-ness” or the value that every number represents. Teachers and therapists refer to this important school readiness skill as number concept.  Grade R’s typically count to a hundred, but few truly understand the quantities that different numbers describe. In other words, many children freeze when you ask: “If you have six balls and your friend has eight balls, who has more?” Children who don’t understand the value of numbers will naturally not be able to conjure up a mental image of two sets of objects (in this case, a set of six balls and a set of eight balls) and then compare the sets against each other to determine which one of the two is bigger or smaller. And, as a result, they won’t be able to add and subtract with understanding.  It’s important to play games with your child on three levels if you want him to develop a clear understanding of the value of different numbers. Firstly, use body movements to demonstrate numbers. Secondly, provide many opportunities for him to use his hands to handle and count off certain numbers of objects. And thirdly, make sure to include games that encourage your child to visualize different numbers of objects in his mind’s eye.  You can, for instance, teach a three-year old to do the following: To include body movements, ask him to move (e.g. clap, jump or twirl) one, two or three times. To incorporate the handling of objects using his hands, you can ask him to hand you one, two or three of something whenever the opportunity pops up. To involve the mind’s eye, you can place a pile of single Lego blocks, 2-block-towers and 3-block-towers in a bag and then take turns with your child to use your sense of touch to find one of each number without looking. Then arrange your towers from one to three.  Games should naturally become more challenging as a child grows older.  However, the basic prerequisite for success remains unchanged throughout the first seven years: the more concrete (hands-on and tangible) the experience, the easier it is to learn. Children progress from concrete functioning to abstract reasoning as they enter primary school. Children function on a concrete level up to Grade R (where they still need to touch and handle tangible objects to discover and understand ideas about those objects) before moving on to being able to fully grasp unseen ideas on an abstract level in Grade 1.  Most importantly, they need time and playful practice or else they won’t grow into being comfortable in the world of representations and symbols. It’s crucial for every Grade R learner to reach the point (by the end of the year) where he or she is able to picture an image in the mind’s eye of a number line. After throwing two dice, he should be able to name the number shown on any one of them at first glance (without counting), before shifting his attention to the second dice to “count on”. In other words, if the dice landed on three and four, he could look at one and say, three”, before pointing to each of the dots on the second dice as he counts on: “four – five – six – seven … it’s seven!” (Alternatively, he could choose to start with four, and then continue with “five – six – seven” on the second dice.) He should be able to arrange the numbers 1 to 10 in order, with each of them in its proper place, based on the value that it represents. When you point to any number from 1 to 9 on the number line, he should be able to name the number that is “one bigger” or “one smaller”. As he enters Grade 1, he can learn to do this without looking. What can I expect from my child at every age along the way? Toddlers discover the meaning of “one and many” during the second year of life. Two-year olds usually learn to rote count to three and you can teach them to hand you either one or two toys. Three-year olds can be expected to count to five and they understand the concepts of one, two and three well enough to be able to hand you that many of an object.  Well-developing four-year olds can be expected to rote count to 10 and count off any number of objects from 1 to 5. Most five-year olds can count to 20 and have a real understanding of numbers up to 10. Finally, a six-year old should be able to count to 100 (also in tens), count off any number of objects between 1 and 20 and arrange the numbers from 1 to 10 in order to build a number line.  Learning to work with numbers is much like learning to speak a special kind of language. Learning the language of mathematics is largely about getting better at understanding the properties of numbers and recognizing relationships and patterns ever more quickly.  Naturally, acquiring these skills takes time simply because learning a new language always involves building new brain wiring. Ultimately, you want your child to reach a point where navigating around in the world of numbers will become second nature to him – like a golfer’s swing. Any kind of math play is better than none, but if you want your child to benefit optimally, you’ll need to play as many age-appropriate games as possible at home from toddler stage, and repeat them often. This article is written by: The Practica Programme is a comprehensive research- and play-based home programme.  This unique system has stood the test of time since 1993, and it comprises of a wooden box with specialized apparatus, parents’ guides, an advisory service and educational newsletters.  From birth to 23 months of age, parents choose from a balanced selection of more than 1000 activities to develop the 14 fundamental skills age-appropriately. For children between 2 and 7 years, the 50 school readiness skills are divided into 6 groups and tackled systematically, year by year, with 10- to 20-minute games that can be adapted to a child’s level of functioning. 

September 20, 2023
Junior Colleges

Sensory, Sensory, and again Sensory

Why do you always hear Sensory play so much in Pre-school? Sensory play forms part of playing. It plays a big role in a child’s development from an early age. That is why we, as teachers, always say that children learn through play. It helps children to develop neuropathways and better comprehend classroom subject matter such as language and motor skills Throughout the world, there are four different ways to learn things, which is also called the VARK method.  1. V for Visual learner (eyes/sight),  2. A for Auditory learner (ears/hearing),  3. R for Reading and Writing learner (eyes/hands) and  4. K for Kinesthetic learners (whole body/physical/hands-on) or a combination of these Our five senses are used when we take part in sensory play, which stimulates the neuro system. This is very important because having different senses stimulated allows children to learn and figure out through which sense they learn best. How can you, as a parent, make a sensory bin at home? You will need a large container where children can explore space, measurement, and textures (www.himama.com) and use their five senses. You don’t always need to add all five senses at once. Fun, interactive, and messy are a must. The messier, the better (sorry, Moms!). You can include the following items in your sensory bin: beads, cotton, cups, feathers, flour, flowers,measuring tools, play dough, raw and cooked spaghetti/pasta, rice, wool, etc. What does a sensory bin look like? https://i.pinimg.com/236x/5f/3d/d2/5f3dd2c9fb56d0fcf60b7a1465a3330c.jpg

August 10, 2023
Future Nation Schools

Unlocking literacy: 5 simple strategies parents can use to give pre-schoolers a head start

South Africa faces a significant literacy crisis in children under the age of 10. Despite efforts to improve educational outcomes, a new report from the 2030 Reading Panel has found that most children leave grade one without knowing the alphabet, while 82% of children cannot read for meaning by the time they reach Grade 4. While teachers are essential in imparting knowledge and nurturing academic skills, parents possess a unique advantage of being intimately involved in their child’s day-to-day life. By actively working on literacy with their children, parents can create a supportive learning environment that complements the efforts of teachers.  “The first five years of life, when the brain is developing and maturing, is the most intensive period for acquiring the speech and language skills necessary for literacy later in life. These skills develop best in a world that is rich with sounds, sights and consistent exposure to the speech and language of others. It is for this reason that pre-school forms such a crucial part of your child’s developmental journey. But it is not the responsibility of teachers alone to help children develop these skills,” says Mampho Langa, Head of Schools at Future Nation Schools (FNS), “parents play a crucial role in this too. In this article, we share some of practical steps, inspired by ta combination of project-based learning, learn-to-play and Montessori pre-school teaching methodologies we use here at FNS, that parents can use to boost literacy rates during the pre-school years and set their children up for lifelong academic and personal success.” 1. Nurture your child’s curiosity Project-based learning (PBL) promotes curiosity and prompts learners to gather information, analyse it and arrive at conclusions based on evidence. This makes it an effective approach to engage children in meaningful, hands-on activities that promote literacy buy encouraging your child to explore topics that they are interested in and create projects around them. For example, if your child loves animals, you can help them research different animal species, create a mini zoo with toy animals, ask them questions that prompt them to think about animals differently (like why zebras have stripes) and then read books to them that answer those questions. In so doing, these PBL techniques will develop your child’s comprehension skills while nurturing their curiosity and creativity. 2. Make learning tangible and multisensory PBL emphasises a child-centred approach to education that empowers children to take an active role in their learning journey. One of the key ways this is done at a pre-school level is by incorporating a wide range of materials that promote language development. For instance, use textured materials for tracing letters, engage in sensory play with letter-shaped sand, or encourage your child to write words in shaving cream. These multisensory experiences reinforce letter recognition, fine motor skills and memory recall, making the learning process more engaging and effective. 3. Foster a love for independent reading Independent exploration and self-directed learning is a key component of project-based learning. By simply engaging with books, your child embarks on a journey of appreciating literature and narratives, igniting their imagination and nurturing their curiosity. Encourage your child to engage in independent reading by creating a literacy-friendly environment. Set up a cosy reading nook with a bookshelf containing a variety of age-appropriate books. Encourage your child to choose their own books in order to foster their independence and personal preferences. Describing pictures in the book, explaining the meaning of the story and encouraging the child to talk about what has been read to them and to ask questions will not only improve their understanding of the world and their social skills but it will enhance their literacy skills as well.  4. Encourage collaboration and language development: Collaboration and effective communication are essential skills emphasised in PBL education. Encourage your child to engage in group activities that promote language development and social interaction. Set up playdates with peers, engage in shared storytelling sessions, or organize mini-group projects where children work together to create a story or a book. Collaboration enhances language skills, vocabulary development and critical thinking abilities. 5. Connect literacy with real-life experiences PBL education emphasise the importance of connecting learning with real-life experiences. Help your child make meaningful connections between literacy skills and their everyday life. For example, while grocery shopping, ask your child to help you find items on a shopping list or read labels to you. Encourage them to illustrate their own recipes or create a menu for a pretend restaurant. By linking literacy to practical experiences, children develop a deeper understanding and appreciation for reading and writing. “There you have it”, concludes Langa, “five simple ways that you can incorporate aspects of project-based learning, learn-to-play and Montessori pre-school teaching into your child’s day-to-day activities that can greatly enhance their child’s literacy skills during the preschool years. By embracing hands-on projects, promoting independent reading, utilising multisensory approaches, fostering collaboration, and connecting literacy with real-life experiences, you can create a vital foundation for your child’s lifelong love of reading and learning.” Literacy skills are one of the five areas that schools test for when assessing whether a pre-school child is ready to go to primary school. At 6pm on 29 August 2023, Future Nation Schools will be hosting a free virtual talk about School Readiness Assessments for parents and guardians interested in finding out more about this vital step in their child’s education journey. Book your seat for this talk here.  About Future Nation Schools Founded in 2017 by Sizwe Nxasana and Dr Judy Dlamini, Future Nation Schools are a network of independent schools that aim to lead the African Education Revolution through relevant, futuristic, Africa-focused and technology-enabled education. Future Nation Schools, which has campuses in Fleurhof and Lyndhurst, offers quality, affordable, African-centred education for Pre-School, Primary and High School. The curriculum comprises an enhanced National CAPS curriculum, delivered through Project Based Learning, and an IEB examination in Grade 12. 

August 9, 2023
Junior Colleges

Meal prep for busy families

Who knew that being a mom or dad meant you would have to come up with delicious meals every day for the rest of your days? Dinner time can be very stressful, yet it can be super easy if you are prepared and organised. What do we know about children’s nutrition? A balanced diet consisting of fruit, vegetables, protein, and grains is the best way. That means that if planned right, you never have to feel guilty by pulling out a pizza from the freezer because your child eats healthy food most nights and days. Here are the steps to weekly meal preparation: Plan a menu It is important to choose things that your family likes. For example, if Spaghetti Bolognaise is a hit, make a batch enough for 3-4 meals.  Planning the menu will also ensure that you can shop for the right ingredients so that you don’t have to stop at the shop every couple of days and save money in the long run. Ensure that you have enough containers This is a once-off purchase that you can use time and time again—choosing containers that are freezer friendly. Portion out your meals  Make sure that you can take out your meals, and they feed your family with just enough. You will only be able to reheat food that has yet to be reheated.  Variety Children love variety, though they don’t mind having the same or similar foods on a specific day. For example, Mondays could be beef day, Tuesdays could be chicken days, and Fridays could be pizza day. While they love variety, they also love predictability.  Get the children to help. Children love to assist in the kitchen. They can do age-appropriate chores like mashing potatoes or mixing ingredients. This is a great way to teach your child about healthy eating habits and allow them some bonding time with you. Remember to have fun! Dinner times can often be a time of stress and anxiety, let’s choose to create great memories for our children. 

July 18, 2023
Parenting Hub

DOES DAYCARE BUILD YOUR BABY’S IMMUNE SYSTEM?

You’ve probably heard that children who attend daycare get sick more frequently, but according to Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality healthcare, there is a silver lining to sniffles and colds. “Exposing your child to more children at a young age helps your child develop better immunity,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “A baby’s immune system is immature at birth. Your baby does have some natural immunity, thanks to antibodies they were exposed to in utero. Breastfed babies benefit from antibodies in their mother’s milk as well. However, when a baby is exposed to bacteria and viruses in the environment, its immune system begins to strengthen. Yes, these pathogens can sometimes make your baby sick, but they also stimulate the production of natural antibodies, allowing them to fight off infections more effectively in the future. That means that children exposed to more germs at a young age will have stronger immune systems by the time they start school.” What Research Suggests The idea that children in daycare get sick more frequently when they’re young but benefit from improved immunity later in life isn’t just a theory; there’s plenty of research to back it up. For example, a Canadian study published in JAMA Pediatrics found that children who began group child care before the age of two and a half had fewer respiratory and ear infections between the ages of five and eight than those who had not been in daycare. According to University of Arizona College of Medicine researchers, the protection may last even longer. Children who had attended daycare as toddlers had fewer colds up to the age of 13 in their study. According to a study published in the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology, daycare may also reduce a child’s risk of developing asthma. Researchers discovered that children predisposed to the condition due to their mothers’ asthma or allergies had lower IgE antibodies (an indicator of allergic sensitivity) when they attended daycare. Interestingly, there is also a link between group care and a lower risk of leukaemia, although the reason for this is unclear. Good to know: Despite these benefits, parents may want to wait until their child is three months old before enrolling in daycare. Contagious infections that are normally minor in adults can be much more serious in newborns, and your child may need to be hospitalised if they develop a fever of above 38 degrees Celcius or higher before the age of three months. How To Naturally Boost Your Child’s Immune System While research supports the hypothesis that immunity acquired in daycare protects a child from colds later in life, no parent wants their child to be sick. As such, Affinity Health offers these top tips to boost your child’s immune system: Probiotics Probiotics aid in immune system regulation by balancing the good bacteria (flora) in the stomach. These “beneficial” microorganisms may help to reduce the risk of diarrhoea and respiratory infections. Serve your child live-cultured products like organic yoghurt and Gouda or cottage cheese. Nutrition A healthy immune system is built on a nutritious diet. Ensure your child eats a healthy diet and avoid serving processed foods containing chemicals and toxins that compromise their ability to fight illness and stay healthy. If your child has food allergies or requires a special diet, consult a nutritionist or paediatrician. Increase Their Uptake Of Vitamin C Almost all citrus fruits are high in vitamin C, and with so many options, adding more Vitamin C into your child’s diet is simple. Good sources of Vitamin C that most children enjoy include oranges, strawberries, blackcurrants, kiwifruit, potatoes, green peas, and tomatoes. Encourage Your Child To Exercise Physical activity may aid in the removal of bacteria from the lungs and airways. This may lower your child’s chances of contracting a cold, flu, or other airborne illness. Ensure Your Child Gets Adequate Sleep If your child is 12 or younger and gets less than 10 hours of sleep per night, or if your tween or teen gets less than eight and a half hours, they are at risk of having a weakened immune system. Make good sleeping habits a priority in your household. Allow Your Children To Be Kids, Get Dirty Outside, And Play With Friends Not all germs and bacteria are harmful to your child’s health. Exposing children to the everyday microbes found outside in nature – including dirt – can help a child develop a strong, healthy immune system.

July 17, 2023
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