Dalza

From Lonely Lunches to Gentle Connections: Helping Your Neurodivergent Child Find “Safe” Friends at School

It’s the first term of the year. Your child is met with a sea of unfamiliar faces, and your stomach flips as you think about them enduring more lonely lunches.  Social safety can be shaky for children who learn, think, move, or communicate a little differently. For many, wobbles occur not because they don’t want friends, but because friendship, including reading social cues, sharing airtime, and switching topics, feels like a maze. What a “safe friend” looks like (and why it matters) A safe friend is a peer who respects boundaries, shares an interest (even one!), and doesn’t pressure. For many neurodivergent kids, this kind of companionship keeps their nervous system steadier, helps them be seen for more than their challenges, and also meets a core need: to belong. Be gentle with the realities. As one parent shared, “My kiddo can be overbearing and doesn’t always pick up when others don’t want to play, but is so loving and wants to play with everyone.” That intensity is part of who they are; our job is to channel it toward kinder matches and clearer cues. Start a home conversation: What makes a good friend? Turn “friendship” into an ongoing, low-pressure chat. Together, name what kindness looks like (takes turns, checks in, doesn’t tease). Use concrete examples “A good friend lets you take a quiet break” and role-play both sides: how to invite, how to pause, how to exit kindly. Explain why others don’t always want “the hobby talk” for hours. Special interests are wonderful. They build joy, expertise, and identity when shared with consent. Try this kid-friendly explanation: Three conversation-sharing rules to practise Teach social cues based on a traffic light system.  Coaching at home Keep a quick note on what works Keeping brief notes as the school weeks progress, such as who they sat with, what worked, what didn’t, will help parents and teachers spot patterns and act sooner.  If you prefer one place to keep that picture (and share it with the teacher when needed), you can use Dalza to centralise your notes, spot patterns, give feedback to the teacher (and vice versa) and create an action plan.  Try Dalza for free dalza.com 

DIBBER SA

The Hidden Emotional Load on South African Parents – and How Early Years Education Can Support It

You know that moment when you are sitting in traffic, staring at the red brake lights ahead, and your mind is racing through the list: Did I pack the lunchbox? Did I pay the electricity bill? Will I make it to the office on time? And then, like a punch in the gut, the thought hits: Am I even doing enough for my child? This is the reality for so many South African parents. We are carrying an invisible weight that no one sees, the emotional load that comes with raising children in a country where safety concerns, economic uncertainty, and relentless work-life pressure collide every single day. It is not just about getting through the day; it is about holding it all together while the ground beneath us feels shaky. We wake up to headlines about rising costs, load-shedding schedules, and crime alerts. Then we rush to pack lunchboxes, navigate traffic, and show up at work like everything is fine. But beneath the surface, many of us are running on fumes, trying to be present for our children while silently wondering if we are failing them. Parenting here is not about perfection. It is about survival. And yet, in the middle of this chaos, something powerful often goes unnoticed: the role of early childhood education in lightening that load. Because here is the truth: when parents feel supported, children thrive. High-quality early childhood education does not just teach ABCs; it becomes an emotional anchor for families. It is the teacher who notices your child’s anxious face and gently reassures them. It is the predictable routine that gives your little one stability, so you can breathe a little easier. It is the educator who greets you by name, shares a small win about your child, and reminds you that you are doing an excellent job, even on the days you feel like you are barely holding on. Schools like Dibber understand this. They do not see parents as people who simply “drop and go.” They see you as partners. They know that when you walk through the door, you are not just handing over a child, you are handing over your heart, your worries, your hopes. And they meet that with Heart Culture: a way of being that says, “We see you. We are with you.” It is the quiet reassurance that you are not alone in this. It is sending a photo of your child’s joyful moment during the day so that, stuck in traffic, you feel connected instead of guilty. It is creating spaces where children feel loved, and parents feel seen. Imagine this: a mom who has been up all night worrying about bills walks into a centre where her child runs into the arms of someone who truly knows them. The teacher smiles, says, “He told me the funniest story today,” and suddenly, for a moment, the weight lifts. That moment matters. It is not just childcare; it is care for the whole family. And here is the thing: you do not need a Pinterest-perfect routine to ease the emotional load. Start small. Create one predictable ritual, like a bedtime story or a morning hug. Name feelings aloud, for yourself and your child. “I’m tired today, but I’m happy to be with you.” Lean on your child’s educators, share what is hard, and celebrate what is working. Partnership starts with honesty. Parenting in South Africa is tough, but you are not alone. When early years education is done right, it does not just shape children; it strengthens families. It reminds parents that they do not have to carry the emotional load alone. And in a world that feels uncertain, that kind of support is everything.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Should I be exercising while pregnant, and if so, how much?

For most exercise is a part of life, so it is natural to want to keep active for as long as possible while pregnant. You may wonder how much exercise you can keep doing as your baby develops, and what routine changes you’ll need to make as your baby grows bigger. If you have a complicated pregnancy or are dealing with a weak cervix, a low placenta or suffering from a heart condition, diabetes or asthma, it is best to consult with a doctor or health professional before putting together a pregnancy exercise plan. What are the benefits of exercise during pregnancy  Improving overall health and wellness, exercise is a vital part of keeping you feeling your best and can help with backache caused by pregnancy, as well as prepare you for labour and delivery. If you were active before your pregnancy, you should be able to keep training with modifications made to your program. Exercises that are low impact and carry small risk of injury are best and you should be able to remain active until birth. Exercising during pregnancy can help boost your mood and energy levels, improve muscle tone, strength and lessen back pain. Exercise can also help reduce fatigue and stress, as well as help improve your sleep, all of which helps make your pregnancy easier on your body and mind. Staying fit can also help shorten your post delivery recovery time, however, getting back into exercise postpartum can be difficult and you should avoid pushing yourself too hard in the beginning. Exercising during pregnancy isn’t only good for your overall wellness, but studies show that it can also improve your baby’s health. What type of exercise should I be doing?  During pregnancy it is important to keep tabs on how your body is feeling. If you have been exercising frequently pre-pregnancy it should be fine to continue to do so in moderation, however, if something feels strange or uncomfortable it is best to consult a health practitioner. Swimming, prenatal yoga and pilates, walking and water aerobics are all exercises that you can focus on during your pregnancy. Water activities are good as they give you buoyancy and put very little strain on your body, especially when you are close to giving birth. If you were an avid runner before, you should be able to continue into pregnancy with some alterations to your program.  Exercise to avoid High impact sports with a risk of falling should be avoided. These include horse riding, mountain biking, downhill skiing. Contact sports, such as rugby, kickboxing and soccer are also preferable to avoid as there is a risk of being hit. Scuba diving is a big no-no as the baby has no protection against decompression sickness.

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Prioritising smarter healthcare decisions in 2026

For many South African families, January is a time to plan and budget for the year ahead and set smart financial goals. While travel and big ticket spends are almost always the first to be considered, budgeting for healthcare is often left to chance or ignored altogether. This can leave families in stressful circumstances in the event that a loved one becomes unexpectedly ill or in need of medical care, and even for those with medical aid, understanding how to budget smartly for the next 12 months has never been more important. According to Mr Lee Callakoppen, Principal Officer at Bonitas Medical Fund, ‘Smart healthcare budgeting has little to do with your monthly medical aid contributions. Rather, families need to assess their needs and understand what benefits they will likely use, plan for the unexpected but inevitable out-of-pocket costs, and ensure they are investing in preventative care that protects their health and their finances.’ Evaluate the benefits Taking an honest look at how often GP visits are needed, whether there are chronic medicine needs, or if specialist consultations will be required more than once a year per family member is crucial. Other considerations include the life stages of family members, family size and medical history. All of these factors will determine how much needs to be put away towards healthcare costs as a minimum and will help avoid unnecessary monthly expenditure. Similarly, gap cover – a benefit that most people admittedly tend to underestimate in importance – can protect against unexpected shortfalls when specialists charge above medical scheme rates, particularly during hospital procedures. However, it’s important to note that gap cover is not a replacement for adequate hospital cover. Families should check whether their current plan offers comprehensive hospital cover before taking on additional gap insurance, ensuring they only pay for coverage that provides real value. Hospital cover should remain your top priority, but even with your current plan, there are ways to get more value without extra cost. Families can manage day-to-day expenses by using network GPs, medicine that is on the formulary, and setting aside a small monthly buffer for unexpected costs. Smart use of your existing benefits can help your savings or day-to-day benefits last longer, keeping your family healthy while staying on budget. Callakoppen advises, ‘Think of healthcare as a household account: budgeting for it upfront allows families to manage the year with confidence, even when the unexpected happens.’ Preventative care and real value matter Preventative healthcare plays a critical role in both health and financial planning. With immunisation coverage declining in parts of South Africa, families should take heed that neglecting to stay on track with vaccinations and routine check-ups can result in costly hospital admissions or complications from chronic conditions. Be sure to have regular screenings and simple lifestyle checks taken care of early in the year to prevent bigger and more costly challenges down the road. Making the most of your existing benefits also matters. Medical schemes like Bonitas support proactive care by providing access to networks of GPs, specialists, preventative screenings and wellness programmes that help catch issues before they become expensive problems. Families can also get more value by understanding how to use their current plan effectively. Knowing which providers are in-network, scheduling appointments strategically and using available wellness programmes ensure they are able to better maximise on benefits without extra costs.  ‘Medical cover and healthcare planning are investments in your family’s wellbeing,’ concludes Mr Callakoppen. ‘With thoughtful planning, families can navigate the year ahead with confidence, ensuring both peace of mind and financial stability.’

Cartoonito

Scooby-Doo! And The Crypto, Too – Mystery and Fun for the Whole Family

Get ready for a thrilling adventure with Scooby-Doo! And The Crypto, Too! When the world’s greatest heroes, the Justice League, mysteriously vanish, a terrifying phantom takes up residence in their famed headquarters, the Hall of Justice. It’s up to Scooby, Shaggy, and the Mystery Inc. gang to solve the mystery and save the heroes — with a little help from their new pal, Krypto the Superdog! Packed with laughs, clever sleuthing, and action, this is an adventure the whole family can enjoy together. Tune in, cheer on your favourite super sleuths, and enjoy a fun-filled morning of mystery and excitement that’s perfect for kids and parents alike. 📺 Premiere: Saturday 24 January 2026⏰ Tune-in Saturday @ 09:40 CAT on DSTV Channel 302 Don’t miss out – Big Laughs and Fun Adventures make Kids Happy!

Wingu Academy

January Admissions 2026: How to Ensure Your Child Is Registered with a Legitimate Online School

The beginning of the academic year always brings a rush of administrative pressure, but the stakes in 2026 are higher than usual. After recent media coverage revealing online providers who failed to register learners for their official exams, parents and teachers are rightfully more cautious. Why Early Placement Matters More Than Ever Wingu Academy is reminding families—especially those who have not yet placed their children—to contact the school directly as soon as possible. January placement ensures: Understanding the Accreditation Landscape Umalusi’s emphasis on its “non-negotiables” has reshaped the 2026 environment. Wingu meets all nine, including: Wingu also exceeds requirements with: Parents and Teachers Are Encouraged to Reach Out Now If your child—or the child of a colleague or friend—doesn’t have a confirmed placement for 2026, January is the final moment to secure a dependable academic pathway. A quick call or message to Wingu Academy ensures the admissions team can walk you through the process smoothly and transparently. This year, more than any before, accuracy and governance matter. Don’t delay.

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