
Communication Shouldn’t Be This Hard!
This article, originally published on Neuroverse.co.za, is shared with permission from its authors, Tamra and Jules – mums and co-founders of Neuroverse. As parents of neurodivergent children, Tamra and I have sat in countless waiting rooms, filled in endless forms, and explained our children’s journeys over and over again—to schools, therapists and doctors. We know firsthand how heavy the hidden load of communication admin can be. When you’re raising a neurodivergent child, the emotional and physical toll may be visible. But the administrative toll? That one’s harder to see—and rarely talked about. Between parent-teacher meetings, therapy sessions, reports, assessments, and doctors’ appointments, communication quickly becomes its own full-time job. And for many South African families, the weight of this invisible workload falls squarely on parents—most often mothers—who are already juggling the complex needs of their child. The Same Questions, Over and Over Again How many times have you filled in the same form about your child’s birth story? Their developmental milestones? Their medication list? Each new specialist, school application, or support service asks for the same information. And as your child grows, this information constantly evolves—medications change, strategies are refined, and goals shift. Keeping it all straight is overwhelming and specialists don’t have one system to communicate with each other across the board. And here’s the thing: our kids need their teams to be connected. When teachers, therapists, doctors, and both parents are on the same page, things just work better. Strategies align. Transitions are smoother. Progress is clearer. Our children feel more supported—because they are. When Communication Breaks Down Let’s be honest: even with the best intentions, things fall through the cracks. A teacher may not know a therapist has changed strategies. A specialist may not realise the child’s anxiety is spiking at school. A divorced co-parent might not be aware of a new diagnosis or medication side effect. It feels like everything exists in its own silo. Yet for a child’s support to be truly effective, everyone needs to be on the same page. Collaborative communication isn’t a luxury—it’s essential. As parents, Tamra and I have been through this exact experience! So, when we found out about Dalza, it really resonated with us, which is why we got on board straight away. It was created by a South African dad with a neurodivergent child who understands EXACTLY. What is Dalza? Dalza is an all-in-one platform designed to simplify and streamline the support of children with additional needs. It lets you securely store and share your child’s developmental history, therapy updates, medication lists, and specialist reports—all in one place. Dalza helps parents create a complete picture of their child by documenting your child’s unique personality, strengths, and areas for growth. It enables seamless Care Coordination by simplifying information sharing and communication between both parents, doctors, teachers, therapists, and specialists. Key Features Parents Love: Why It Matters When professionals collaborate effectively, and parents feel supported rather than solely responsible, the outcomes are better—for everyone. Dalza doesn’t remove the need for hard conversations or strong relationships—it simply makes those conversations easier and more informed. It reduces admin, lightens the mental load, and brings people together around what matters most: your child. Dalza is offering a free 30 day trial (no need to add your credit card details) – check it out for yourself and please let us know what you think and if you love it as much as we do. CLICK HERE






