
Why Can’t my Child Cope with New-Term Change?
Beneath the calendar reminders and stationery lists that accompany a new school year is the real worry: How will all this change affect my child’s body and brain? For many families of neurodivergent children, the weight of that question becomes heavier through the first few weeks of the new school year. Many autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, and sensory-sensitive learners rely on predictability to stay regulated. When people, places, and pace all shift at once, their cognitive load and anxiety can climb, which makes it tougher to focus, follow instructions, or find their footing socially. Practical routines matter: for example, clear, predictable structures and consistent cues reduce uncertainty and support attention. You might also want to consider what experts call “acute monitoring.” In plain language, that means capturing quick notes, often daily or weekly for two to four weeks, to track how the recent changes are affecting your child and to adjust support quickly. What should you track when everything shifts? Keep it light but useful, just the breadcrumbs adults can act on: Equally important is where those breadcrumbs live. School is only a slice of your child’s year (a child spends on average 14% of the year in school). What happens at home, aftercare, and therapy shows up in class, and the other way round. When notes sit in scattered emails and WhatsApp threads, the teachers miss patterns and parents end up re-explaining. Strong parent–teacher partnerships are consistently linked to better academic, social, and emotional outcomes; sharing a clear, current picture is what makes that partnership work. That’s where Dalza helps. It’s an award-winning, secure app that holds a living record of your child. One hub you control, where school, home, and therapy can see the same up-to-date essentials. Tracking Patterns • Feedback • Action Plans (made simple): It only takes a quick note each evening to start spotting patterns and feel the stress of trying to remember it all lifting. You decide who sees what, when (POPIA/GDPR-aware by design). If school staff or therapists change, all the necessary information is immediately available, so your child’s support doesn’t skip a beat. Change is inevitable; disruption isn’t. With a short burst of acute monitoring and one calm place for Patterns • Feedback • Action Plans, your child’s support stays responsive, and you don’t have to hold it all in your head. Try Dalza free at dalza.com.






