In a nutshell, emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand and control one’s thoughts and feelings. In addition, emotional intelligence refers to the ability to communicate feelings in an appropriate manner and to have the ability to empathize with the feelings of others, thereby interacting with others on an emotional level. When children and adolescents (and adults for that matter!) have high levels of emotional intelligence they will:
Have a good self-concept as they will really know themselves;
They will have a good understanding of their feelings, so they will be able to deal with for example, patterns of thinking which may not be constructive;
Be more resilient to setbacks;
Have a good ability to problem solve; and
They will have the ability to be self-motivated, and thus find it easy to set goals for themselves, problem solve and deal with conflict effectively.
The Sandton Psychology Centre has a child psychology division where a psychologist who specilasies in children’s issues can assist with a variety of difficulties and concerns. If you are looking for a child psychologist contact the Sandton Psychology Psychology Centre.