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Raising a Future-Ready Child:Why the Early Years Matter More Than You Think

By the time a child turns six, up to 90% of their brain development has already taken place. This startling fact underpins the mission of Dibber International Preschools, which is equipping South African children from six weeks to six years with essential life skills through play-based learning and globally respected best practices. Early childhood is not just ‘babysitting’ – it is a once-in-a-lifetime window for cognitive, social, and emotional growth that can shape a child’s future. Research shows that the first 1,000 days of life could be key to unlocking a child’s lifelong potential (statssa.gov.za). In these formative early years, positive experiences and stimulation have profound effects: neural connections form at lightning speed, influenced by the environment and care a child receives (thehumansafetynet.org). Early experiences are pivotal in shaping children’s ability to learn, socialise, and thrive.  “The early years are when children’s characters and capabilities are built – it’s when they learn how to learn,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “At Dibber, we recognise that investing in quality early education is an investment in our children’s future and society’s well-being.” Critically, experts note that play-based learning is one of the most effective ways to nurture this development. Young children learn best through play, maximising their natural curiosity and enthusiasm. Studies have found that playful learning supports growth across all cognitive, physical, social, and emotional domains and boosts learning outcomes more than formal, desk-bound instruction (naeyc.org). In other words, play is not ‘just play,’ but a powerful teaching tool that helps children develop creativity, problem-solving abilities, language skills and empathy in an age-appropriate way. South Africa’s Early Learning Challenge South Africa’s context underscores why starting early is so important. The country has approximately seven million children under the age of six, making up a significant portion of our population (statssa.gov.za). Yet many of these children do not have access to quality early childhood programmes. In fact, less than one-third of children aged 0–4 attended any sort of preschool or early learning program in 2021 (statssa.gov.za).  This gap in the early years has led to downstream challenges in the education system. One alarming statistic reveals that 81% of South African Grade 4 students cannot read for meaning in any official language (unicef.org). This finding from an international literacy study is a stark indicator that the foundational skills, like language and understanding, are not being solidified early on. Educational experts warn that children are more likely to struggle later without a strong base in the preschool years, leading to higher dropout rates and fewer opportunities in adulthood. High-quality early childhood development (ECD) programmes have thus become a national priority, seen as a way to ‘future-proof’ a child’s education by addressing learning gaps before they widen. Quality early education has proven long-term benefits for children and society. Research indicates that children who participate in enriching ECD programmes experience: These outcomes show why early childhood development is not just a parental concern, but a national one. As Assis notes, “Investing in early childhood development not only sets children on a path to success but also contributes to the overall well-being of society.” Play-Based Learning at Dibber: Future-Proofing Education Dibber International Preschools has placed these principles at the heart of its curriculum. Drawing on globally respected best practices and a Scandinavian heritage of early education excellence, Dibber’s approach is play-based, holistic, and child-centred. “Our approach goes beyond traditional education,” explains Assis. “Through the Dibber Heart Culture and customised learning, we focus not only on children’s cognitive achievements but also on their health, happiness, and social growth. We want children to become keen explorers who love to learn, developing the confidence and competencies needed for everyday life.”  In Dibber classrooms, you might find toddlers building towers together, dancing and singing, or experimenting with sand and water – all guided activities that teach teamwork, creativity and critical thinking in an age-appropriate way. A warm, inclusive environment is another cornerstone of Dibber’s philosophy. International research by Harvard’s Centre on the Developing Child has highlighted that supportive relationships and a sense of safety are the roots that allow children to thrive. Dibber educators therefore prioritise emotional security and individual attention. Whether a baby in the infant class or a five-year-old in the preschool group, each child is nurtured to feel valued and heard. This emotional confidence, built early, becomes the bedrock for resilience and adaptability later in life. Importantly, Dibber also involves parents as partners in the early learning journey. The school provides guidance to families on extending play-based learning at home, emphasising that everyday moments – like storytime, playtime, or even cooking together – are golden opportunities for development. “Parents are children’s first teachers, and when we work together, we amplify the benefits,” Assis says. This collaborative approach reflects a broader understanding that education doesn’t begin at Grade 1 – it starts from birth, with each loving interaction and playful learning experience contributing to a child’s growth.

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Sibling Rivalry Survival Guide: What’s Normal and What Needs Help

Sibling rivalry is a common part of growing up in many families. While it’s normal for siblings to squabble and compete, constant fighting or deeper emotional issues may indicate a need for intervention. Understanding the difference helps parents foster healthier relationships and a more peaceful home environment. 🤼‍♂️ Why Sibling Rivalry Happens Siblings share a unique bond but also compete for attention, resources, and their parents’ love. According to child psychologist Dr. Laura Markham, rivalry often stems from children’s natural desire for individuality and the challenge of navigating shared space and parental expectations. ⚖️ What’s Normal? These behaviours are typical and often help children develop conflict resolution and negotiation skills. 🚨 When to Get Help If rivalry escalates to this level, it may impact children’s emotional wellbeing and require guidance from a counsellor or family therapist. 🛠️ Tips for Parents to Manage Rivalry 💬 The Role of Communication Open family discussions where everyone’s feelings are heard can defuse tension and build empathy. Encouraging siblings to talk through issues helps develop emotional intelligence and long-lasting bonds. Sources:

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Yes Day vs No Day: What Happens When You Let Kids Lead (Temporarily!)

Parenting often feels like a balancing act between setting boundaries and giving children freedom. Enter the playful experiment of “Yes Day” and “No Day” — where kids get to call the shots for a day (or parents say “no” to everything). These extremes offer surprising insights into children’s behaviour, family dynamics, and the value of limits. 🎉 What Is a “Yes Day”? Popularised by books and movies, a “Yes Day” is a day when parents agree to say “yes” to almost every reasonable request their child makes. From extra treats to spontaneous outings, this day is meant to encourage fun, creativity, and a sense of empowerment for kids. 🚫 What Is a “No Day”? A “No Day” flips the concept — parents say “no” to all requests, teaching children about limits, patience, and self-control. While less common and often more challenging, it can provide insight into children’s reactions when their desires are consistently denied. ⚖️ What Happens When Kids Lead? 🧠 Psychological Benefits and Challenges Child development experts emphasise the importance of balance. According to Dr. Laura Markham, author and clinical psychologist, allowing children to experience choice and autonomy supports healthy development. However, consistent boundaries teach security and social skills. 💡 How to Make These Days Work Sources:

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A Day in the Life of a Stay-at-Home Parent: Unfiltered and Real

Being a stay-at-home parent (SAHP) is often painted with idealised images of playdates and picture-perfect moments. But the reality? It’s a complex, demanding role filled with love, exhaustion, and everything in between. Understanding the true daily experience helps break stereotypes and highlights the dedication behind the scenes. 🌅 Morning Chaos and Routine The day usually begins early — often before the household fully wakes. From breakfast battles to diaper changes or school prep, SAHPs juggle multiple tasks simultaneously. According to a study by the American Psychological Association, the multitasking load for SAHPs can rival that of full-time jobs, with emotional labor adding to the challenge. 🎨 Balancing Play, Learning, and Household Duties Throughout the day, stay-at-home parents switch between caregiver, teacher, chef, cleaner, and entertainer. While playtime is crucial for child development, there’s also meal planning, laundry, cleaning, and endless errands. This constant shift requires stamina and flexibility. 😴 Managing Exhaustion and Self-Care It’s not uncommon for SAHPs to feel isolated or overwhelmed. The National Alliance for Caregiving notes that lack of adult interaction and continuous caregiving duties can contribute to stress and burnout. Carving out moments for self-care, even brief ones, is vital to maintain well-being. 🤝 Support Networks and Coping Strategies Successful SAHPs often rely on community — online groups, family, or friends — to share experiences and advice. Planning breaks, sharing childcare duties when possible, and setting realistic expectations help sustain this demanding role. 💬 Why Sharing Real Stories Matters Honest conversations about the highs and lows normalise the experience and validate feelings. It encourages other parents to seek support and feel less alone. Sources:

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Birthday Party Etiquette for Modern Parents

Birthday parties are a joyful milestone for children and a chance for families to connect. But for modern parents, navigating party etiquette can sometimes feel like walking a social tightrope — from RSVPs to gift-giving, food allergies, and screen time rules. Understanding the unspoken expectations helps reduce stress and ensures everyone enjoys the celebration. 🎉 Why Birthday Party Etiquette Matters Birthday parties aren’t just about cake and presents. They’re opportunities to teach children social skills such as gratitude, respect, and generosity. Parents also set the tone for kindness and community by modelling good manners and consideration. 📝 The Modern Parent’s Guide to Party Etiquette 1. RSVP Promptly Respect the host’s planning by replying as soon as you receive the invitation, whether it’s digital or paper. This helps organisers prepare food, favours, and activities. 2. Gift Giving Made Simple It’s the thought that counts! Consider the host’s preferences — some families may ask for no gifts or suggest donations to charity. A thoughtful card or small token is often appreciated. 3. Mind Food Allergies & Preferences Always check with the host about any dietary restrictions your child may have. Avoid bringing outside food without permission. 4. Stick to the Schedule Arrive on time and be mindful of the party’s duration. If you need to leave early, let the host know in advance. 5. Supervise & Support While kids play, parents can socialise but should stay accessible. Help younger children engage and be kind to others. 6. Respect Screen Time Rules Many parties have specific rules about devices. Follow the host’s guidelines about phone or tablet use during activities. 7. Thank You Notes Teach your child to send a thank you note afterward, either handwritten or digital, to show appreciation. 🎈 Teaching Kids Through Example Modelling good party manners teaches children respect and empathy. Use the party as a chance to discuss sharing, taking turns, and handling disappointment gracefully — like if a game doesn’t go their way. Sources:

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Your pregnancy – a comprehensive guide

Morning sickness remedies The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Relieving morning sickness often takes some trial and error before you find a method that works for you. Here are a few suggestions you can try to see if you find them helpful. To find relief from a smell that is bothering your stomach try carrying a handkerchief or washcloth with a few drops of an essential oil in it that does not cause nausea, such as lemon. It may relieve morning sickness if you breathe into the handkerchief or washcloth, so you no longer smell the bothersome odour. Eat smaller meals every two hours or so. If you have morning sickness try eating cold foods as they have fewer smells that can make you feel sick. Vitamin B6 and B12 taken regularly as advised by your doctor could help reduce your nausea and/or vomiting due to morning sickness. Folic acid and pregnancy The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Neural tube defects are birth defects of a baby’s brain and spinal cord that occur early in a pregnancy. They can often be prevented when the mother takes folic acid just prior to getting pregnant and through the first part of the pregnancy. Because much of this time period occurs before a woman knows she is pregnant, and 50% of all pregnancies are unplanned, it’s recommended that all women of childbearing age have folic acid supplementation. The recommended amount of folic acid intake is about 400 micrograms (or 0.4 milligrams) for women of childbearing age. For women who have had a pregnancy that resulted in a neural tube defect a higher dose is often recommended. Less folic acid is required at other life stages so check with your doctor to determine your exact needs. First Trimester The first trimester (weeks 1 to 12) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. The first trimester can be a difficult time for many pregnant women.  Some may feel great, while others may feel horrible.  Here are some of the changes you may experience during the first 3 months: Nausea is normal in up to 85% of women; this may or may not include vomiting Light spotting is normal and about 25% experience this during implantation Tender breasts Constipation Increased vaginal discharge that is thin and milky white in colour Increased fatigue Cravings and aversions to certain foods Increased urination Heartburn Mood swings Gaining weight Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Significant bleeding, cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain (more than 3 kg (6.5 lbs.) per month or less than 1 kg (2 lbs.) per month) Second Trimester The second trimester (weeks 13 to 27) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Most women find the second trimester the easiest and most enjoyable.  Usually, morning sickness and fatigue fade and you start feeling like your usual self again.  There are many big changes that occur during these weeks, some of these include: Growing breasts Gum discomfort, swelling or bleeding Increased pressure on back which can cause back pain Nasal congestion and increased nosebleeds Thin, milky white vaginal discharge continues Increased urination, heartburn and constipation continue Increased hair growth of current hair and in new places such as the face, arms or back Headaches Haemorrhoids Flutters of movement can sometimes start to be felt around 20 weeks Increased sensitivity to the sun Stretch marks, spider and varicose veins may show up Brown pigmentation on the face (“mask of pregnancy”) and a darker line down the abdomen (linea nigra, Latin for “black line”) may appear Increased weight gain Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Significant bleeding, cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain (more than 3 kg (6.5 lbs.) per month or less than 4.5 kg (10 lbs.) by 20 weeks) Third Trimester The third trimester (weeks 28 to 42) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. The third trimester can bring some uncomfortable symptoms as you prepare for the birth of your baby.  Here’s what to expect during this time: Back pain Braxton Hicks contractions Increased breast size Increased discharge from previous months Fatigue Increased urination, heartburn and constipation continues Haemorrhoids Difficulty breathing Swelling in your feet, ankles and hands Increased weight gain Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain Pain or burning with urination Sudden swelling in your feet Contractions that are regular and get closer and closer together and more intense Spotting or any bleeding Nutrition Good things to eat The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Good nutrition is essential for a healthy pregnancy.  Here are some ways to eat healthy during your pregnancy: Take your prenatal vitamin Eat a variety of foods each day Eat more fibre (pasta, rice, fruits, veggies and cereals) Eat more calcium (at least 4 servings of dairy products, green leafy vegetables, etc.) Eat more iron (red meat, eggs, green leafy vegetables, beans/lentils, dried fruit and iron-enriched cereals and grains) Bad things to eat The

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