FOUR THINGS TO DO WITH AN EXPLOSIVE AND ANGRY CHILD OR TEEN

Before I go any further on this topic, it’s always a good idea to seek professional help with a child or teen who frequently becomes explosive and angry when told no. Keep in mind that this column is not a substitute for psychotherapy or family counselling. The advice that I offer is supplemental parent coaching that can help in many situations. The subject of today’s article is a common issue that many parents bring to me in my parent coaching practice. Generally, the child is usually anywhere from 7 to 14 years of age and often explodes at the smallest of problems, especially when they are told they can’t have or do something. The child is also likely to take out their anger on the parent or a sibling. So while you’re waiting for the appointment with your therapist regarding this problem, here are four things you can do immediately. Help them find their place in the family.  A large majority of these children tend to be first born. For many years, they enjoyed being in the family ‘spotlight’ and getting all of their parents’ love and attention. But as other children joined the family, they lost their place and don’t like it. By getting angry with limits and boundaries, they found a new and inappropriate way to fit in by becoming vocal and angry. Help them regain their position as the oldest child by seeking their help, their advice, and their assistance. Find purposeful ways for them to be in charge of activities that helps with the other children, such as reading to them, teaching, or mentoring. Allow them to have a few more privileges than the others so they will feel special and valuable to you. Stop doing too much for your child.  The triggers that cause the explosive episodes are sometimes over the parent trying to get the child to wake up in the morning, dressing them, controlling laundry, or getting them out of the house in the morning. If you’re trying to control the outcome of everything, stop. Some parents struggle with turning some responsibilities over to their children and many children or teens don’t like being controlled. Acknowledge good behaviour more often.  It’s unfortunate that it’s normal for many parents to point out when their children aren’t doing what they should, more often than pointing out when they ARE doing something good. Make it your mission to make a bigger deal of when your children are behaving or doing as you’d like them to do. Spend more time with the explosive child.  His behaviour may be his way of telling you that he doesn’t feel loved by, or important enough to, you. Schedule a date with each of your children (especially the explosive child) every week, even if it means for just a few minutes. Avoid taking him or her out to buy them something. The date should be about the experience of being together, not showering them with material things. Finally, when the anger comes out, don’t give it value by trying to stop it or by fighting back. Remain calm, stay quiet, and be ready to listen.

September 27, 2024

Nipping allergies in the bud

Spring has sprung and while most of us welcome the warmer weather and seeing blossoms on trees, carpets of wild flowers and new buds, millions of people dread this time of the year because of seasonal allergies.  In fact, around 27% of the world’s population suffer with seasonal allergies twice a year – during spring and autumn.   Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund, gives us the low-down on seasonal allergies: What they are, how they can impact your life, avoiding triggers, how to alleviate the symptoms and when to seek help. What are seasonal allergies? Often referred to as hay fever or allergic rhinitis, these are triggered by airborne allergens, which are tiny particles that enter the body through the respiratory system.  These particles include pollen released by trees, grass and weeds, mould spores and dust mites.   When these allergens enter the body, the immune system mistakenly identifies them as harmful and releases chemicals, such as histamine, to fight them off.  The symptoms  Symptoms can last for a few weeks to several months, depending on the severity of your allergies and the length of the pollen season. Most common are: Sneezing Runny or stuffy nose Itchy or watery eyes Coughing or throat irritation Sinus pressure and headaches Fatigue Postnasal drip Ear congestion Less common symptoms include: Headaches Shortness Of Breath Wheezing Coughing If you suffer from asthma as well as hay fever, it is very likely that the seasonal allergy may trigger an asthma attack. Dr Hadebe advises asthma sufferers to take extra precautions and to carry an asthma pump. Impacting your life ‘Whatever the cause of your seasonal allergy, it can make you feel miserable,’ says Dr Hadebe. ‘Allergies can leave you feeling drained and exhausted. ‘This is usually because of disrupted sleep due to congestion and sinus issues, decreased productivity at work or school from fatigue and poor concentration, curtailed socialising by avoiding outdoor activities and compromised quality of life for those with asthma, as allergies can worsen respiratory symptoms. ‘They can cause significant discomfort, disrupt daily activities and your quality of life.’   Try over-the-counter remedies (OTC) Your pharmacist can recommend several types of non-prescription medications to help ease your allergy symptoms. Antihistamines are the first line of defence in treating seasonal allergy symptoms. They work by blocking the action of histamine  Decongestants help to relieve a stuffy nose by shrinking the blood vessels in the nasal passages. However, decongestants may raise blood pressure and should be used cautiously by people with cardiovascular conditions Nasal sprays can help reduce inflammation in the nasal passages and relieve congestion Eye Drops can relieve itching, redness and watery eyes Saline Nasal Irrigation. Using a saline rinse can help flush out mucus and allergens from your nose providing relief from congestion and a postnasal drip When to see a doctor While most seasonal allergies can be managed with OTC treatments, there are times when professional medical advice is needed. You should consider consulting a doctor if: Symptoms persist despite using OTC medications regularly You have breathing difficulties, particularly if you have asthma. Sinus infections or other complications develop  You experience severe reactions such as hives or swelling after exposure to allergens ‘Your doctor may prescribe stronger or more personalised treatment,’ explains Dr Hadebe.  ‘Immunotherapy, in particular, can provide long-term relief by gradually desensitising the immune system to allergens.’ Managing season allergies  Beyond medications, there are lifestyle changes you can make to minimise your exposure to allergens and reduce symptoms: Stay indoors during high pollen counts, especially in the morning when levels tend to peak Use air purifiers with HEPA filters to remove allergens from indoor air Shower and change clothes after spending time outside to remove pollen from your body and clothes Close windows in your home and car to keep pollen from entering Monitor allergy forecasts and take preventative measures when pollen levels are high If all else fails If your seasonal allergies are really bad and nothing else seems to work, your doctor may recommend that you have skin or blood tests to find out exactly what triggers your symptoms.  This can help determine what steps you need to take to identify which treatments are likely to work best for you.  ‘Seasonal allergies are a common but manageable condition,’ says Dr Hadebe.  ‘With the right combination of OTC medications, lifestyle adjustments and, in some cases, professional medical advice, you can reduce the impact allergies have on your life. Always pay attention to your body’s response and don’t hesitate to seek medical advice if your symptoms worsen or persist, despite treatment.’

September 27, 2024

Enhancing Early Childhood Development in South Africa: A Critical Analysis and Call to Action

“The state of early learning and literacy in South Africa presents a profound challenge that requires immediate and comprehensive action. A staggering 81% of Grade 4 learners cannot read for meaning in any of South Africa’s 11 official languages*. This statistic highlights a literacy crisis and signals broader systemic issues within the educational framework that must be addressed to safeguard the future of the nation’s youth. Understanding the Barriers to Early Learning “The root causes of this literacy crisis are diverse and complex. In South Africa, many children, especially from less privileged backgrounds, are denied access to quality early childhood development programs. This lack of access is a primary barrier to forming the foundational literacy skills necessary for future academic success. “The challenges extend beyond access. The quality of education, particularly in early learning, is hampered by several factors: Inadequate Teacher Training: Many teachers lack the necessary training to effectively deliver literacy education, especially in environments with significant language diversity. Socioeconomic Disadvantages: Economic hardships significantly affect children’s educational readiness and access to educational materials at home. Language Diversity: With 11 official languages, South Africa’s linguistic landscape presents unique challenges in teaching and learning, particularly when the language of instruction differs from the children’s home languages. Parental Involvement: The engagement of parents in early learning processes is often limited, which is crucial for reinforcing the skills learned in classrooms. “There is a need for systemic reform. To address these challenges, a concerted effort must be made to improve the quality of ECD facilities, enhance teacher training, and increase parental involvement. We need to ensure that every child can benefit from inclusive and effective early learning opportunities. The Importance of Multidisciplinary Early Learning “The importance of integrating various disciplines into early learning cannot be overstated. By exposing children to a range of subjects from an early age, we not only foster a love of learning but also equip them with critical thinking, problem-solving, and communication skills. These skills are essential for literacy and overall academic success. ” This multidisciplinary approach is pivotal for addressing the literacy crisis in South Africa. It helps children navigate the complexities of language and literacy from a young age, setting a solid foundation for their educational journey. The Transformative Power of Play “Play is not merely a leisure activity; it is a critical educational tool that impacts a child’s cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being. Through play, children engage with their environment and learn crucial life skills that prepare them for future challenges in study, work, and personal relationships. Play integrates children’s natural curiosity with structured learning, thereby creating a dynamic environment that fosters the development of crucial cognitive and social skills. Dibber’s Role and Recommendations “Dibber International Preschools plays a vital role in implementing strategies that address these systemic issues. We are committed to integrating innovative teaching methods and technologies to enhance learning outcomes. Our initiatives include community-based programs, teacher training workshops, and the incorporation of digital tools that facilitate interactive learning experiences. “To combat the literacy crisis effectively, Assis advocates for several policy recommendations: Increase Investment in Early Childhood Education: Prioritizing funding for ECD programs is crucial for improving accessibility and quality. Enhance Teacher Training: Providing ongoing professional development to equip teachers with the skills needed to address the challenges of multilingual classrooms. Foster Parental and Community Engagement: Encouraging active involvement from parents and local communities in educational processes to support children’s learning outside of the classroom. “The challenge of improving literacy rates among young learners in South Africa is formidable but not insurmountable. With strategic investments in early childhood development, comprehensive training for educators, and robust community engagement, significant progress can be made. Our children’s ability to read and comprehend is the cornerstone of their future success. We must all work together to transform our educational system and ensure that every child has the opportunity to thrive. Through collective efforts and innovative solutions, we can pave the way for a brighter educational future for South Africa’s next generation.” *Progress in International Reading Literacy Study (2021 PIRLS) 

September 26, 2024

WHY DOES MY CHILD BEHAVE BETTER AT SCHOOL THEN AT HOME?

Based on helping thousands of parents over the years and spending time evaluating children while they interacted with both parents AND teachers, I’ve found that it is common for children to behave the worst while in the care of Mom!  As strange as this may seem, it is true.  The reason is that in general terms, the mother seems to create a safe environment in which a child can be him or herself. For example, a child craving more attention or power, two common internal needs, may be more likely to act out the desire for these unmet needs in her mother’s presence, rather than anyone else’s.  The more distant in relationship an adult is to a child, the more likely they may be at gaining a child’s cooperation and attention. If this theory is true, what can mothers everywhere begin doing to address this frustration?  Here are 10 things you’ll want to incorporate quickly that may be similar to what the teachers are doing at school.  If you’re doing some of these now, good job and keep them going.  If you’re not, make the time to implement them soon. LIMIT SCREEN TIME.  Remember the phrase, “All good things in moderation.”  Too much screen time can create anxiety in a child if it is not controlled and the parent needs the child’s cooperation. CONDUCT FAMILY MEETINGS.  They don’t have to be long and drawn out, and can even incorporate fun activities.  The best thing about family meetings with younger children is that they are usually short. SPEAK CALMLY, QUIETLY AND RESPECTFULLY.  Children will often quiet down to hear the adult speak.  Be sure that you’re demonstrating the kind of communications that you want him to emulate. COMMANDING AND DEMANDING DON’T WORK.  We no longer live in an autocratic world, so avoid using the parenting methods our parents used.  Teach, demonstrate and use cooperation. LISTEN QUIETLY WHEN SHE COMPLAINS.  Shutting a child down who is complaining will only back fire on you.  Practice empathic listening with your child and avoid solving her problems for her. THE RESPONSE TO “I’M BORED” SHOULD BE “WOW!”  Boredom is a problem owned by your child, not you.  When it occurs, listen at first and be expressive to acknowledge the problem, don’t rescue. LET TANTRUMS HAPPEN.  When your child throws a fit in response to a limitation or boundary, let it happen.  The fit is his way of venting frustration and also hoping you’ll give in.  Don’t cave! PUNISHMENT IS NOT THE ANSWER.  The use of timeout, taking things away, hitting, or yelling are NOT OK.  Nor are they productive in managing behavior effectively and with unconditional love. TALK LESS.  Talking too much to your children will undoubtedly send them into ‘parent deafness.’  If you feel they’re not listening to you, it might be because you’ve trained them to tune you out. VISUAL TIMERS AND SCHEDULES.  Setting the microwave timer to get a child to stop or start an activity does not work.  Seek out visual timers and schedules to increase your effectiveness with transitions.

September 26, 2024

How to build up your child’s confidence in maths

It’s a common experience… your child sits down to work on Maths homework but very quickly becomes visibly stressed, frustrated, or upset. For many kids, doing Maths can seem like a daunting task, even a scary one. And while many do overcome it, some of us carry this Maths anxiety with us for much of our lives. If you’re looking to help your child reduce their Maths anxiety, we have a few suggestions.  Be Empathetic to Maths Struggles  Empathy can go a long way. Whether it’s because you experienced similar struggles as a child or watched someone else struggle, making your child feel like they’re not alone can help ease their stress. When kids hear that others in their lives faced similar challenges it can help them to feel understood and a little more confident to tackle the task in front of them.   Teach Them to be OK with Making Mistakes  Learning to be OK with making mistakes is distinct from addressing the emotions that bubble up with failure. Once your child is no longer feeling overwhelmed, helping them to feel OK with making mistakes is all about showing them that mistakes are often how learning happens. We often remember our mistakes more clearly than the times we didn’t need to struggle at all. Identifying where we went wrong is one of the best ways to learn how to get to the answer or solution on your own. Understanding the path it took to get something right means committing to memory the path to success.   Tip: Try pointing out something that was previously hard for your child and is now easy because they figured out their mistakes and practiced until they got it. For example, learning to ride a bike, practicing a sport, or an earlier Maths concept.   Explain the Importance of Finding (And Filling) Gaps  Lastly, very often the cause of Maths anxiety is the fact that earlier concepts weren’t mastered. Gaps in foundational knowledge create a shaky foundation for more challenging concepts. Particularly, if children don’t do well in Maths at an early age, it can have a cumulative effect.   At Kumon, we focus on mastery. We start students off at a comfortable starting point, which can sometimes mean starting on material that is below their current grade level. Current struggles might be top of mind for parents and the kids themselves, but often the solution to current struggles is filling in gaps in knowledge of earlier concepts. If a child never fully mastered addition, multiplication, division, and other foundational concepts, they are likely to hit a wall when more complicated concepts are introduced.   Enrol In a Maths Programme to Help Them Practice and Master their Skills  Enrolling your child in an additional Maths study programme (such as Kumon) can help them fill those gaps as they consistently practice their Maths skills. While school studies march on, often leaving a child feeling overwhelmed and increasingly left behind, a supplementary programme can provide additional practice in key concepts and allow them sufficient time to truly master a concept before progressing to the next. This additional support can often help a struggling child to catch up, become confident and finally succeed in a previously dreaded subject. Maths anxiety is a condition that can be very detrimental to a child’s long-term school success, causing them to feel inadequate, not smart enough or even a failure. Anxiety can cause a child to get into a negative reinforcement cycle that perpetuates their feeling of inadequacy. When Maths work comes up they feel anxious because they don’t understand the work. This anxiety causes their brains to become confused or shut down which then prevents them from thinking logically or rationally and reinforces the experience that “I can’t do Maths!”  So, in conclusion, it is important to notice how your child feels about their Maths work and to identify Maths anxiety as early as possible. Then, if you notice this occurring, take every step possible to address the anxiety and to enable your child to overcome, feel confident and believe in themselves. The Kumon Maths programme helps children of all ages and ability levels to develop maths skills and a love of numbers. To find out more about what Kumon has to offer, visit www.kumon.co.za This article is courtesy of the Kumon North America website*   * https://www.kumon.com/resources/how-to-build-up-your-childs-math-confidence/ 

September 26, 2024

The Benefits of Breastfeeding for Mom and Baby: A Comprehensive Guide

Breastfeeding is more than just a method of feeding; it’s a vital component of maternal and infant health. It provides unmatched nutritional benefits and fosters a unique bond between mother and baby. This guide delves into the myriad benefits of breastfeeding for both mother and child, emphasising its importance for long-term health and well-being. Benefits for the Baby Optimal Nutrition Breast milk is the ideal food for infants. It contains the perfect balance of nutrients that are easily digested and absorbed. Here are some key nutritional benefits: Rich in Antibodies: Breast milk is packed with antibodies, particularly Immunoglobulin A (IgA), which protects against infections by forming a protective layer in the baby’s nose, throat, and digestive system. Complete Nutrition: It contains the right amounts of fat, sugar, water, and protein needed for a baby’s growth and development. Adaptive Composition: The composition of breast milk changes according to the baby’s needs, providing tailored nutrition as the baby grows. Enhanced Immune System Breastfed babies have a stronger immune system due to the antibodies and other immunological factors in breast milk. This leads to: Reduced Illnesses: Lower incidence of respiratory infections, ear infections, and gastrointestinal problems. Protection Against Chronic Conditions: Reduced risk of developing asthma, allergies, and type 1 diabetes. Long-term Health Benefits: Lower likelihood of obesity and type 2 diabetes in later life. Cognitive Development Research indicates that breastfeeding contributes to better cognitive development. The presence of essential fatty acids, such as DHA, in breast milk supports brain development, leading to: Higher IQ Scores: Breastfed children often score higher on intelligence tests. Improved Academic Performance: Enhanced cognitive abilities translate to better academic outcomes in later years. Benefits for the Mother Physical Health Benefits Breastfeeding offers numerous health benefits for mothers, including: Faster Postpartum Recovery: The hormone oxytocin, released during breastfeeding, helps the uterus contract and return to its pre-pregnancy size more quickly, reducing postpartum bleeding. Lower Risk of Certain Cancers: Breastfeeding is associated with a reduced risk of breast and ovarian cancers. The longer a woman breastfeeds, the lower her risk. Reduced Risk of Osteoporosis: Women who breastfeed are less likely to develop osteoporosis and hip fractures in later life. Emotional and Psychological Benefits Breastfeeding also contributes to the mother’s emotional well-being: Bonding with the Baby: The act of breastfeeding fosters a close bond between mother and baby, enhancing emotional attachment and mutual trust. Reduced Risk of Postpartum Depression: The hormonal changes associated with breastfeeding can reduce the risk of postpartum depression. Sense of Accomplishment: Successfully breastfeeding can provide a sense of pride and achievement, boosting maternal self-esteem. Practical Benefits Convenience and Cost Savings Breastfeeding is not only beneficial health-wise but also practical in many ways: Cost-Effective: Breast milk is free, which can save families a significant amount of money compared to formula feeding. Always Available: Breast milk is always at the right temperature and ready to feed, eliminating the need for preparation and warming. Environmental Benefits: Breastfeeding reduces the environmental impact associated with the production, packaging, and transportation of formula. Overcoming Common Challenges Despite its benefits, breastfeeding can come with challenges. Understanding these and knowing how to address them can make the breastfeeding journey smoother. Sore Nipples and Breast Engorgement Proper Latch: Ensuring the baby has a good latch can prevent sore nipples. Frequent Nursing: Regular breastfeeding sessions can help prevent engorgement. Comfort Measures: Using lanolin cream and applying warm compresses can alleviate discomfort. Low Milk Supply Frequent Nursing: Breastfeed often to stimulate milk production. Hydration and Nutrition: Drink plenty of fluids and maintain a balanced diet. Lactation Consultants: Seeking help from a lactation consultant can provide personalised strategies to increase milk supply. Returning to Work Pumping and Storing Milk: Invest in a good-quality breast pump and establish a routine to pump and store milk. Supportive Workplace: Know your rights regarding breastfeeding and pumping at work. Many places require employers to provide time and space for mothers to pump milk. Consistency: Maintain breastfeeding routines when with the baby and pump at regular intervals when apart to keep up milk supply. Tips for Successful Breastfeeding Early Initiation: Start breastfeeding within the first hour after birth to stimulate milk production and encourage the baby’s natural instinct to latch. Skin-to-Skin Contact: This helps regulate the baby’s body temperature and promotes bonding. Seek Support: Join breastfeeding support groups or consult with a lactation consultant for advice and encouragement. Stay Informed: Educate yourself about breastfeeding techniques and challenges. Knowledge is empowering and can help you navigate potential difficulties. Be Patient and Persistent: Both mother and baby need time to learn how to breastfeed effectively. Patience and persistence are key to overcoming initial hurdles. Conclusion Breastfeeding is a powerful practice with profound benefits for both mother and baby. It offers optimal nutrition, strengthens the baby’s immune system, and enhances cognitive development. For mothers, it supports physical recovery, reduces the risk of certain diseases, and fosters emotional well-being. Despite potential challenges, the practical benefits and long-term health advantages make breastfeeding a valuable choice for many families. By understanding these benefits and seeking the necessary support, mothers can successfully navigate their breastfeeding journey, ensuring a healthy start for their babies and themselves.

September 25, 2024

CARTOONITO WORLD TOUR

Get ready for a fun-filled TV lineup that’ll keep you laughing and entertained! From the wild adventures of Zig & Sharko to the creative chaos of Bugs Bunny Builders, and everyone’s favorite duo in Tom and Jerry in New York! Plus: Masha & the Bear Silly Sundays Lu & the Bally Bunch Grizzy & The Lemmings Mr. Bean Premiere: 23 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in: Monday to Friday @ 16:15 CAT Available on DSTV Catch Up until 30 September 2024!

September 23, 2024

Pregnancy, your body and your baby – week 35 of your pregnancy

You are now 5 weeks away from your due date, should everything go according to plan. This can be both an exciting and nerve-wrecking time, especially if this is your first pregnancy and you’ve never experienced birth first hand. Your body at week 35 At week 35 you’ll probably be feeling tired and heavy – your body will probably be feeling the strain of growing a baby. Frequent urination, lower back and abdominal pain, constipation, Braxton Hicks contractions, tender breasts and trouble sleeping are all normal symptoms at this time. When your baby moves further down into your pelvis (to get ready for birth) you may notice that your shortness of breath improves. While this may help your breathing, it probably won’t help your frequent need to urinate. Your baby moving down is known as lightening or dropping. Your baby at week 35 Your baby is now roughly the size of a pineapple or melon, has lungs that are almost developed, and a brain and nervous system that are still developing. The musculoskeletal system and the circulatory system are fully developed at this point, and if your baby was born premature they will have a very good chance of survival. Babies born between 34 and 37 are called late preterm, and while they may look like a smaller full term baby there are some challenges that they’ll face being born earlier.  Your baby will also start to move into position for birth around this time, moving down into your pelvis. Things to keep in mind at week 35 During the third trimester it is recommended that you go for a group B streptococcus test. Although this is a common bacteria in the gastrointestinal tract, it can be harmful to newborns. If your test is negative you won’t need to do anything, however, if you are positive you’ll be given antibiotics during labour which will lower the risk of your baby contracting early-onset GBS.

September 23, 2024

Data Science Unleashed: How Wingu Academy Transforms Learning into a Dynamic Journey

In the ever-evolving field of data science, Wingu Academy stands out by turning complex concepts into an engaging and accessible learning experience. Unlike traditional educational approaches, Wingu Academy’s innovative methods make data science not just a subject to learn, but an exciting journey to embark on. Revolutionising Data Science Education At Wingu Academy, data science is more than just algorithms and statistics; it’s a dynamic exploration of how data drives decision-making in the real world. The academy employs cutting-edge techniques to demystify data science. By breaking down intricate topics into manageable, relatable lessons, Wingu Academy ensures that students from diverse backgrounds can grasp and apply data science principles with ease. Hands-On Learning that Inspires What sets Wingu Academy apart is its commitment to experiential learning. Through interactive modules, real-world simulations, and project-based assignments, students not only learn data science theory but actively apply it. This hands-on approach not only enhances understanding but also fosters a genuine enthusiasm for the subject, allowing students to experience the impact of data science firsthand. A Community of Innovators Wingu Academy cultivates a vibrant learning community where students receive personalised support and encouragement. The academy’s dedicated instructors provide tailored guidance, while an interactive online community offers peer support and collaborative opportunities. This nurturing environment helps students overcome challenges and stay motivated, turning potential obstacles into stepping stones for success. Voices from the Wingu Community Students and parents alike celebrate the transformative impact of Wingu Academy. Neo, a 13-year-old student, shares, “Wingu Academy’s approach to data science makes learning exciting and fun. The projects are amazing, and I feel confident using real data to solve problems.” Parent Margo Meier adds, “Wingu has brought a refreshing change to our home. My children are thriving in a supportive and engaging environment that fosters their love for learning.” At Wingu Academy, the future of data science education is bright and promising. Experience how their innovative methods can turn data science into a captivating journey of discovery and achievement. Join the Wingu Academy community today and see how they make the complex world of data science both accessible and exhilarating.

September 23, 2024

BRICK FLICKS WEEK

‍♂️ Get ready for a SUPER LEGO week on Cartoon Network! ‍♀️ From Justice League battles to Super Hero Girl adventures, we’ve got non-stop LEGO action coming your way! Monday 23/09: Justice League vs. Bizarro League Tuesday 24/09: Justice League: Cosmic Clash Wednesday 25/09: The Flash Thursday 26/09: Super-Villain High Friday 27/09: Brain Drain Premiere: Monday, 23 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in: Monday to Friday @ 11:00 CAT Catch up on DSTV until 27 September 2024!

September 23, 2024

HOLIDAY BRAAI

Get ready to celebrate South Africa’s Braai Day with Cartoon Network! We’re bringing family, fun, and FOOD together with an exciting block of new shows and games! 8 NEW episodes of CN Challengers Go! Coach Me If You Can Craig of the Creek CN to the Rescue Garbage Boy and Trash Can Premiere: Monday, 23 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in: Monday to Friday @ 09:30 CAT Available on DSTV Catch Up until 27 September 2024!

September 23, 2024

BATMAN DAY

Get ready to celebrate Batman Day in style with Cartoon Network! Join us for a Teen Titans Go! marathon featuring all the epic TV Knight episodes, followed by LEGO DC Batman movies that’ll have you on the edge of your Bat-seat! ‍♂️ LEGO BATMAN: DC SUPER HEROES UNITE LEGO DC Batman: Family Matters LEGO DC Comics Super Heroes LEGO DC Comics: Batman Be-Leaguered Premiere: Saturday, 21 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in from 08:50 CAT Let’s go Bat-crazy!

September 20, 2024

BATWHEELS Season 2

Gotham’s in good hands… well, wheels! Join Bam, Redbird, Bibi, Batwing, and Buff as they help Batman, Robin, and Batgirl defend the city while learning lessons about teamwork, friendship, and more! Premiere: Saturday, 21 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in Weekends @ 07:30 CAT (2 new eps per day) Get ready for epic action and hilarious hijinks!

September 20, 2024

Safety and sustainability from a single pool cover – the PowerPlastics Solid Safety ticks all the boxes

The PowerPlastics Solid Safety Cover is the leading child safety pool cover in South Africa, favoured for its tamperproof design, overall aesthetics and its ability to create a more sustainable pool.  The PVC cover is supported by batons that rest on the coping and the tension is created with ratchets, providing a complete barrier over the pool. The upside to the water being sealed off to the natural elements is that the cover also saves water, electricity and chemicals.  Parts of South Africa are experiencing water shortages due to either drought or struggling infrastructure, so the need to save water is critical. A solid safety cover gives 98% water savings. And because the water is kept cleaner, the amount of chemicals and filtration needed is reduced. This could have a huge impact on alleviating load shedding if every pool was filtered less. Add these savings up month by month, coupled with safety benefits, and you will find yourself getting a lot more out of your pool – child safety as well as sustainability and a reduced carbon footprint from one pool cover, putting your mind at ease on multiple levels. This is what makes safety covers stand out when compared to other safety methods like nets and fences which still leave the water exposed to the natural elements.  PowerPlastics Pool Covers first designed the PowerPlastics Solid Safety Cover, which has gone on to become the bestselling cover to prevent drownings. The cover tolerates 220kg and can be semi-automated to allow for single-person use. There is no substitute for adult supervision but by using the PowerPlastics Solid Safety Cover as one ‘layer of safety’, you will achieve further peace of mind as well as rescuing your household budgets.  Learn more and get an instant quote on the PowerPlastics Pool Covers online store. www.powerplastics.co.za There are safety covers, and then there are safety covers. Know what you are buying. Understand compliance. Remember this is your child or pet’s life on the line here so it is perfectly OK to ask the difficult questions. A solid safety cover may seem like an easy enough cover to copy but a poor understanding of materials, installation methods and cover upkeep, coupled with lack of experience, all have a direct impact on your cover’s efficiency and longevity. When efficiency relates to lives, it can’t be more critical. If you have any reservations about a pool safety supplier, trust your instinct and go with a brand like PowerPlastics Pool Covers that has been covering pools for decades, not weeks. The questions get a lot harder after a tragedy has occurred in your pool and you are found to be non compliant with SANS 10134. The finer details of safety compliance There has been wide industry collaboration and years of research that has gone into laying out the pool safety guidelines and, in South Africa, the function is addressed by the SABS, forming part of the national building standards, specifically SANS 10134. The cover specs you need to know / the technical questions you should be asking the pool cover supplier to ensure your compliance are: Are there any gaps or openings that allow unsupervised entry? If yes, can I fit a ball of 9cm x 14cm x 30cm through the gap? (this being the size of a child’s head or torso). Can the device bear weights of up to 220 kg? (static load test). Opening test – is the cover sufficiently anchored to prevent a child gaining access to the pool water? Does rain or sprinkler water drain off so the cover is dry within 10 minutes, with no pools forming on top of the cover?

September 20, 2024

The power of dairy nutrition for active teenagers

Making sure that children get the right nutrition daily to support their healthy growth, development, and active lifestyles can be a concern for parents. This is amplified when our children participate seriously in sports, which increases the intensity and frequency of athletic demands on their bodies. Whether your child is just starting out in school sports or is showing promise as a future star, understanding sports nutrition is crucial to their performance, recovery, and overall health. The basics of sports nutrition for active kids   Registered Dietitian, Rosey Lombard says, “A balanced diet is foundational to sports nutrition. However, when it comes to children who are playing sports regularly, there are several important overlays that include focused nutrition that supports performance during training and competition, as well as post-sports recovery and long-term health.”  A well-rounded diet for active children includes: Carbohydrates – the primary energy source for the brain and muscles during sports. Carbohydrates could be a source of dietary fibre, and are essential for gut health. Foods like bread, rice, potatoes, fruit and vegetables provide the energy needed to prepare for and power through high-energy activities. Proteins – the building blocks necessary for muscle development, growth and repair. A varied diet that includes milk, yoghurt, cheese, chicken, fish, eggs and legumes. This typically meets a child’s daily protein needs without the need for additional supplements. Fats – vital for smooth functioning of body cells and providing concentrated energy. Healthy fats from sources like avocado, peanut butter, olive oil, and nuts can help boost the energy (kJ) content of meals without adding too much volume. Vitamins and minerals – richly found in colourful fruits and vegetables to support all systems in the body. While vitamins help support the immune system and promote overall health, minerals such as potassium and magnesium are essential for muscle function. The role of dairy in sports nutrition and recovery “Dairy products play a significant role in the diet of young athletes, says Maretha Vermaak Registered Dietitian at Rediscover Dairy, “They provide high-quality protein, which is crucial for improving performance and aiding recovery after exercise. Research shows that as little as 500 ml of milk or flavoured milk after high-intensity training has all the right ingredients to help replace, repair and grow muscle tissue that broke down during exercise. Having a recovery drink that is nutrient-rich such as milk within an hour after a workout helps your body to maintain energy levels and limits tissue breakdown, making it possible to train just as hard the next day. In addition to protein, dairy provides carbohydrates for energy; potassium, sodium, and magnesium to replace electrolytes lost through sweating, and fluid to prevent dehydration. Dairy is particularly high in calcium, a mineral that is essential to build and maintain strong bones and support muscle function.” Examples of ideal post-exercise dairy-based snacks include: Milk or flavoured milk Yoghurt or drinking yoghurt Fruit smoothies made with yoghurt and milk Cereal with milk or yoghurt Cheese sandwiches Baked potatoes with cottage cheese Tailoring nutrition to your child’s needs Every child is different, and their nutritional needs vary depending on factors such as age, intensity of activity, and personal preferences. Parents should focus on providing sufficient kilojoules to provide energy for daily functions, growth, sports performance, and recovery. Rosey advises, “One way to ensure that your child receives enough energy is by adding healthy fats to meals and snacks. Examples of this would be to add peanut butter to a smoothie or avocado to a cheese sandwich or a handful of nuts to their lunchbox. Fats contain more than double the energy per gram compared to carbohydrates or proteins, making them a dense source of calories.” Pre-training fuel and hydration – Before training, it’s crucial to fuel your child with a carbohydrate-based snack. This could be a quick smoothie, yoghurt with fruit, cereal with milk, or peanut butter and jam toast. Hydration is equally important—encourage your child to drink water or milk throughout the day to maintain optimal hydration levels. Recovery after training – After training, the goal is to replenish the energy expended and support muscle recovery. Within the first hour post exercise, ensure that your child is getting a snack that contains both carbohydrates and some protein. A good example of this would be a flavoured milk,  yoghurt with fruit, or a cheese and honey sandwich. If your child doesn’t feel like eating, a smoothie or milkshake can be a good alternative to kickstart the recovery process. Rosey concludes, “For parents, sports nutrition for their kids need not be complicated, especially if you already have a strong foundation of daily balanced meals. Then it is just a matter of being aware of sufficiently meeting energy needs before sports and focusing on protein-rich snacks for recovery after sports. There’s a wide range of choice of how parents can meet the nutritional needs of their budding athletes, and luckily many dairy products are amongst kids’ favourite foods.” For more information on the benefits of dairy and sports nutrition for children, visit https://www.rediscoverdairy.co.za/sport-nutrition/  For dairy ideas and recipes join the Rediscover Dairy Facebook page: www.facebook.com/RediscoverDAIRY

September 19, 2024

Seven tips for supporting your child to develop a love for reading

As well as providing children a window through which to explore their imaginations, reading books allows for the development of essential skills for school and later life. These include comprehension, a wider vocabulary, increased concentration and self-motivation, an awareness of the world around them (particularly if they are interested in non-fiction), and higher levels of empathy and emotional intelligence through relating to the characters they encounter in their favourite books. Some children have a natural interest in reading – they will happily nestle down and read a book of their choice. Christopher Melrose, Deputy General Manager of Kumon Australia & New Zealand, recalls that he was such a child. “I used to enjoy reading the Doctor Do-Little series, and a series called The Three Investigators, about three young boys who solved crime mysteries”, Christopher says. “There was a book by Gerald Durrel called, My Family And Other Animals, which I loved. It was set on a Greek island named Corfu”. “I also used to get given our school textbook list at the end of the year. I remember I was always really excited on the day that I received all my school books [and] I’d actually read all of the novels that were on the reading list for that year. I wasn’t doing it to get ahead or for academic reasons; I just liked reading”. Now Christopher is adamant about encouraging children to read for enjoyment, both for children who are naturally inclined and those who might be a bit more reluctant. Below, we provide some solutions for parents who want to see their children develop a love for reading. When they are young, read aloud with your child Children are never too young to be exposed to reading. Reading aloud to your children introduces them to the beauty of language. When your child observes you reading, they will follow your example and in time, will start to read on their own. We recommend you spend 5-10 minutes reading a book to your young child every day. When reading aloud, make it fun When reading together with your child, let them hold the book. It’s often easier to sit behind your child as they do this. Make sure you read with lots of expression. Put on different voices for book characters – the more fun you make it, the more they will develop a love of books and reading. Before reading a book aloud for the first time, it is best to read the book to yourself first. This will allow you to add more expression when you read it to your child. Establish a routine for reading We highly recommend creating a reading routine. For example, 10 minutes reading before school or at bedtime will demonstrate the importance of daily reading. You may like to schedule in regular visits to your local library to attend events such as story times that promote reading together with your child. If your child is reading independently, spend time at the library or bookstore (or even online for e-books) choosing books together. You can then read passages from each other’s selected books to share the excitement and love of reading. Choose books that are appropriate for their current ability As your child reads, always keep in mind whether the book is suitable for their ability. If your child is having trouble reading a word, simply tell them what the word is so they can continue reading. If they are making many mistakes and losing enthusiasm for the book, it may be best to choose an easier book instead. Visiting Kumon’s Recommended Reading List could be a helpful first step in choosing the most appropriate book: https://www.kumon-english-rrl.com/  When they are ready, encourage your child to read a wide-range of books Children can be encouraged to read on their own at any age. Most children will develop a strong reading habit and love for reading when parents actively read to them from a young age. Reading a range of books broadens knowledge and interest in further learning. Consider recommending not only fiction but non-fiction books for your child to read. This will broaden their knowledge of particular topics. Turn reading into a family activity Be sure you ask your child to describe to you their favourite part of the book they are currently reading. Some families have special book-reading times where all family members sit together and quietly read their own books. This is often followed by a few minutes of discussion. Seek out reading opportunities that go beyond books When visiting public spaces like museums or parks, draw your child’s attention to the great variety of information that can always be found at such places. This helps link reading to real life. The Kumon English programme aims to foster a love of reading and learning in every child. To find out more about what Kumon has to offer, visit www.kumon.co.za. This article is courtesy of the Kumon Australia website* __________________________________________________________________________________ * https://au.kumonglobal.com/seven-tips-for-supporting-your-child-to-develop-a-love-for-reading/ 

September 18, 2024

5 WAYS PREGNANCY WILL TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality health cover, explores five ways pregnancy can transform your relationship. “Pregnancy is a significant life event that not only brings joy and anticipation but also introduces transformative changes into a couple’s relationship, especially if this is your first baby,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “As expectant parents embark on this journey together, they encounter a multitude of emotional, physical, and psychological shifts that can reshape the dynamics of their partnership.” Embracing these changes with love, empathy, and open communication can strengthen the bond between partners as they prepare to become parents together. Deepening Emotional Connection Pregnancy can bring partners closer together. Sharing your hopes and talking about your parenting goals gives couples a chance to connect on a deeper level. Here are some ways to nurture this emotional bond: Communicate openly: Share your feelings, fears, and dreams with one another. Honest and empathetic communication can help you both feel more emotionally connected. Attend prenatal classes together: Participating in prenatal classes can be a wonderful way to learn about pregnancy and childbirth as a team, enhancing your sense of togetherness. Practice mindfulness: As a couple, engage in mindfulness exercises or meditation to stay present and connected during this transformative time. Plan for the future: Discuss your long-term plans and aspirations as a family. Setting goals together and envisioning your future can reinforce your emotional connection and create a sense of unity. Shifting Roles and Responsibilities During pregnancy, a woman’s body undergoes significant changes. Pregnancy may cause increased fatigue, especially during the first trimester. Nausea and vomiting, often referred to as morning sickness, can make certain activities more challenging for expecting moms and aches and pains, including backaches, abdominal discomfort, and breast tenderness, may mean more rest time. To ensure the health of your partner, existing routines may need to be adapted. To navigate this change effectively: Discuss expectations: Have open and honest conversations about roles and responsibilities during pregnancy and after the baby arrives. Clearly define how you both can support one another. Offer practical help: Dads can provide practical assistance with household chores, grocery shopping, and meal preparation to alleviate some of the expectant mother’s physical burdens. Be flexible: Pregnancy can be unpredictable, and plans may need to change. Flexibility and adaptability are essential during this time. Create a support system: Build a network of friends and family who can provide emotional support and assistance during pregnancy and beyond. Knowing that you have a strong support system can alleviate stress associated with shifting roles and responsibilities. Enhanced Empathy and Understanding Pregnancy can foster a deeper sense of empathy and understanding between partners. As the pregnant partner experiences physical and emotional changes, the non-pregnant partner may gain a heightened appreciation for the challenges and joys of pregnancy. Here’s how to cultivate empathy and understanding: Educate yourselves: Take the time to learn about the stages of pregnancy and the physical and emotional changes that occur. Understanding what your partner is experiencing can promote empathy. Offer emotional support: Be attentive to your partner’s emotional needs. Create a safe space for them to express their feelings and concerns without judgment. Plan special moments: Set aside quality time for one another to strengthen your emotional connection. Consider date nights or simple gestures of affection. Preparing for Parenthood Together Pregnancy serves as a natural preparation period for parenthood, allowing couples to grow and evolve as a team. As you plan for your baby’s arrival, you will make important decisions together, such as choosing a healthcare provider, preparing the nursery, and discussing parenting philosophies and methods. To prepare for parenthood as a united front: Attend prenatal classes: Consider enrolling in prenatal classes that cover topics like newborn care, including how to change nappies, feeding, bathing, and basic infant safety. Gaining this knowledge can boost your confidence as new parents and help you feel more prepared for the arrival of your baby. Make decisions collaboratively: Involve both partners in decisions about your baby’s name, nursery design, and parenting strategies. Collaboration fosters a sense of partnership and shared responsibility. Set realistic expectations: Understand that parenthood comes with challenges, and it’s essential to approach it as a team. Discuss your expectations and how you plan to support one another. Intimacy and Sexuality While some couples may experience an increase in sexual desire and closeness, others may encounter challenges. Hormonal changes are a natural part of pregnancy, and they can influence a woman’s libido and sexual response. While some women may experience an increase in sexual desire due to hormonal shifts, others may find that their libido fluctuates or decreases at various points during pregnancy. Pregnancy can also bring about a range of emotions, including anxiety, mood swings, and concerns about the future. These emotional factors can affect a person’s interest in sexual activity and their overall sense of well-being To navigate changes in intimacy and sexuality: Maintain open communication: Talk openly with your partner about your desires, concerns, and boundaries. Keep the lines of communication about intimacy open throughout pregnancy. Explore other forms of intimacy: Intimacy isn’t solely about sexual intercourse. Engage in physical closeness, such as cuddling, kissing, and gentle massages, to maintain emotional connection. Be patient and understanding: Understand that your partner’s comfort and desires may change during pregnancy. Respect their needs and focus on emotional connection and support.

September 17, 2024

Understanding Responsive vs Reactive Parenting

Parenting is a journey filled with countless moments that shape a child’s development and the dynamics within a family. In South Africa, where diverse cultures and traditions influence how children are raised, understanding the difference between responsive and reactive parenting can be particularly valuable. Responsive parenting is about tuning into your child’s needs and responding thoughtfully and emphatically. It involves actively listening to both verbal and nonverbal cues, understanding and validating their feelings, and creating a stable environment where they feel secure. When parents respond with empathy and encouragement, they not only support their child’s exploration and learning but also provide the guidance and reassurance necessary for healthy development. “In South Africa, where the emphasis on strong community and family ties is deeply ingrained, responsive parenting plays a crucial role in fostering trust and connection within the family,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “Being responsive to your child’s needs, especially in communal settings like family gatherings, helps them feel integrated and valued, laying a strong foundation for their emotional development, self-esteem, and social skills.” On the other hand, reactive parenting occurs when responses to situations are driven more by immediate emotions rather than thoughtful consideration. This often results in quick reactions to a child’s behaviour without fully understanding their needs or the context of the situation. Emotional reactions, rather than considered responses, can lead to inconsistency in discipline and create confusion for children about what is expected of them. In busy households, where parents juggle multiple responsibilities, reacting impulsively can strain relationships and create a tense home environment. Finding the right balance between responsive and reactive parenting is key to nurturing a healthy family dynamic. One effective strategy is to take a moment to pause and breathe before reacting to challenging behaviour. This pause allows parents to respond more thoughtfully and constructively rather than impulsively. Understanding a child’s unique temperament and needs can also help tailor responses more effectively. For example, if a child feels overwhelmed in a busy setting, offering a calm and reassuring response can help them feel more comfortable. “Parenting is not about being perfect; it’s about being present and intentional,” adds Assis. “Parents can gain valuable insights and encouragement by seeking support from family, friends, or parenting groups. Regularly reflecting on your parenting approach and adjusting as needed can also help strike a better balance between responsiveness and reactivity.” Parenting is a continuous learning experience. Parents can create a nurturing environment that supports their child’s growth and development by striving to be more responsive and less reactive. In a country like South Africa, where family and community play such a crucial role, responsive parenting benefits children and strengthens the bonds within families and communities. Embracing the journey with patience and reflection fosters a loving environment where children can truly thrive.

September 16, 2024

Pregnancy, your body and your baby – week 34 of your pregnancy

You have now reached week 34 of your pregnancy. Your birth date is ticking closer and closer, it’s less than two months away now. During this week your baby may drop lower into your abdomen, getting ready for the big day. Your body in week 34 Your body may be feeling the strain of your growing baby. Your breasts are becoming fuller as you approach the final stages of your pregnancy, which could mean they are feeling tender and itchy as the skin stretches. Be sure to invest in a supportive bra to help with the discomfort. Your back and pelvis may also be feeling the strain, and this is generally accompanied by shortness of breath. Leg cramps, worry about your pregnancy and the frequent urge to use the bathroom can mean that your nights are lacking in sleep, leaving you feeling tired and drained during the day. A pregnancy pillow is one way which can help you feel more comfortable at night. Something else to keep in mind, is to be aware that your pregnancy hormones will have made your ligaments looser and muscles more relaxed, so take care when exercising so as to avoid injury. Your baby at week 34 Your little one is getting bigger, and is now roughly the size of a melon. The space inside your womb is also getting tighter, and you might see a little hand or foot pushing a bulge into the side of your belly when they kick. Things for you to keep in mind at week 34 Whether it’s a home birth or hospital that you have chosen, make sure that you feel familiar and comfortable with the process to eliminate any unexpected surprises. If you’ve chosen a hospital, make sure you know which buildings and rooms you need to be in beforehand, and make sure you know where the emergency exit is, just in case. The same goes for the prep of a home birth, ensure that you have a solid back up plan, should anything go wrong during the process.

September 16, 2024

Unlocking the Power of Analytics: How Wingu Academy Prepares Students for Data-Driven Careers

In today’s rapidly evolving digital landscape, analytics stands at the core of strategic decision-making across industries. At Wingu Academy, we are committed to preparing students for the exciting and dynamic field of data analytics. Our innovative approach equips learners with the essential skills to excel in a data-centric career, ensuring they are ready to meet the demands of the modern workforce. The Rise of Analytics Analytics involves the sophisticated process of interpreting data to make informed decisions and solve complex problems. With organisations increasingly relying on data to drive their strategies and operations, the need for skilled analysts has never been greater. Whether it’s business analysts uncovering market trends, marketing analysts optimising campaigns, or operations managers improving efficiency, a strong grasp of analytics is crucial. Mastering these skills not only provides students with a competitive edge but also opens doors to a wealth of career opportunities in various sectors. Wingu Academy’s Comprehensive Curriculum At Wingu Academy, we embrace the British International Curriculum, renowned for its flexibility, critical thinking, and global perspective. Our curriculum is designed to cater to students from early years up to A levels, providing a robust foundation in analytical skills that evolves with their educational journey. Our programs delve into key areas such as data interpretation, statistical analysis, and data visualisation. Our approach emphasises not just the acquisition of technical skills but also the development of a critical mindset. Through a blend of theoretical knowledge and practical application, students are encouraged to think creatively and analytically, enabling them to approach data problems from multiple angles. Interactive Learning and Support Our online platform is designed to deliver an engaging and interactive learning experience. Students participate in simulations and case studies that mimic real-world scenarios, allowing them to apply their skills in a practical context. Live classes are a cornerstone of our educational model, providing a dynamic environment where students can interact with instructors and peers in real-time. The feedback from students highlights the effectiveness of these live sessions, with many praising their clarity and practical relevance. Our dedicated instructors are qualified teachers and are committed to supporting each student’s learning journey. They offer personalised guidance and support, helping students navigate challenges and master analytical techniques. This individualised approach ensures that every student receives the assistance they need to succeed. Student Success Stories From Neo, a 13-year-old student: “Wingu Academy’s online learning platform is easy to understand. The live classes are practically the best place to be. You should join Wingu Academy because it’s educational, the teachers are fun, and they actually help you get through the work you need to complete.” Neo’s enthusiasm reflects the broader success of our students, who consistently achieve remarkable results and gain valuable skills that set them apart in the job market. Event Highlight: Important Webinar for iGCSE & AS Subject Choices Attention all Wingu Academy students and parents!  Join us on 5 September 2024 from 17:30 to 18:30 for an informative session on IGCSE and AS subject choices and requirements. What Will be Covered: Subject choices and requirements for IGCSE and AS Career possibilities based on selected subjects University exemption requirements This session is crucial for students in Stage 9 and iGCSE to ensure they are well-informed about the expectations and options available at these levels. We’ll also have a Q&A segment to address any uncertainties. RSVP here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1MuaHv0N8Jki1HCM2y0zszhYyctH9Z9jso2CZ4bg3B2Q/edit  “The future depends on what you do today.” – Mahatma Gandhi

September 16, 2024

Tips for Breastfeeding in Public: Confidence and Comfort

Breastfeeding is a natural and healthy way to feed your baby, but doing so in public can be a daunting experience for many mothers. Concerns about privacy, societal judgment, and personal comfort can create anxiety, making it challenging to breastfeed confidently outside the home. This article provides tips to help breastfeeding mothers in South Africa feel more comfortable and confident when breastfeeding in public, ensuring a positive experience for both mother and baby. Understanding Your Rights Before diving into practical tips, it’s essential to understand your legal rights regarding breastfeeding in public. In South Africa, the law protects the right to breastfeed in public spaces. According to the South African Department of Health, mothers are encouraged to breastfeed their children wherever and whenever needed. Knowing and understanding these rights can empower you and reduce anxiety about potential confrontations or negative reactions. Choose Comfortable Clothing One of the most practical steps to increase comfort while breastfeeding in public is choosing the right clothing. There are several options designed to make breastfeeding easier and more discreet: Nursing Tops and Dresses: These garments have hidden openings or panels that allow easy access for breastfeeding without exposing too much skin. Button-Down Shirts: These provide quick access to the breast and can be paired with a nursing bra for additional convenience. Nursing Bras: These bras have cups that can be easily unclipped and folded down, making breastfeeding more straightforward and comfortable. Choosing clothing that you feel comfortable and confident in can significantly impact your breastfeeding experience in public. Practice at Home Practicing breastfeeding at home can help you feel more confident when you need to do it in public. Find a comfortable position and practice using any nursing covers or specific clothing items you plan to wear outside. This practice can help you become more adept at handling your baby and adjusting your clothing discreetly. Use a Nursing Cover or Blanket If you prefer more privacy while breastfeeding in public, a nursing cover or blanket can be helpful. These covers are designed to drape over your shoulder and provide a barrier between you and the public. Some nursing covers even have adjustable necklines, allowing you to maintain eye contact with your baby while ensuring privacy. While nursing covers can provide a sense of security, it’s important to remember that they are not necessary for everyone. Some mothers and babies find them uncomfortable or restrictive. Choose what works best for you and your baby. Find a Comfortable Spot When breastfeeding in public, finding a comfortable and relatively private spot can make the experience more enjoyable. Many public places now offer designated nursing rooms or areas specifically designed for breastfeeding mothers. If these are not available, look for quieter, less crowded spots where you can sit comfortably. Some places to consider include: Cafes or Restaurants: Many establishments are breastfeeding-friendly and may have a quiet corner where you can nurse your baby. Parks: A bench under a tree can provide a peaceful spot for breastfeeding. Stores with Fitting Rooms: These can offer privacy if you feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in a more open area. Responding to Public Reactions Despite the increasing acceptance of breastfeeding in public, you may still encounter negative reactions or comments. Knowing how to respond can help you stay confident and calm. Here are some tips: Stay Calm and Polite: If someone confronts you, respond calmly and politely. You can inform them that you have the legal right to breastfeed in public. Focus on Your Baby: Remember that your baby’s needs come first. If you encounter negativity, focus on your baby and try not to let it affect your confidence. Have a Response Ready: Prepare a simple, respectful response in case someone comments on your breastfeeding. Something like, “I’m just feeding my baby. Thank you for understanding,” can be effective. Build a Support Network Having a support network can significantly boost your confidence when breastfeeding in public. Connect with other breastfeeding mothers through local support groups, online forums, or social media. Sharing experiences, tips, and encouragement with others who understand what you’re going through can be incredibly empowering. Educate Yourself and Others Education plays a crucial role in normalising breastfeeding in public. The more informed you are about the benefits of breastfeeding and your rights, the more confident you will feel. Additionally, by educating those around you, you can help create a more supportive environment. Share Information: Share articles, research, and personal stories about breastfeeding with family and friends to help them understand its importance. Advocate for Breastfeeding-Friendly Spaces: Encourage local businesses and public spaces to provide designated breastfeeding areas and support breastfeeding mothers. Use Distraction Techniques If your baby is easily distracted by the environment when breastfeeding in public, consider using distraction techniques to keep them focused. Some strategies include: Maintaining Eye Contact: Making eye contact with your baby can help them stay focused on breastfeeding. Covering Your Baby’s Head: A lightweight blanket or nursing cover can block out visual distractions and help your baby concentrate on feeding. Stay Hydrated and Nourished Breastfeeding can be physically demanding, so it’s essential to stay hydrated and well-nourished. Carry a water bottle and healthy snacks with you when you go out. Staying hydrated and maintaining your energy levels will help you feel better and more confident while breastfeeding in public. Practice Self-Care Finally, don’t forget to take care of yourself. Being a new mother can be overwhelming, and it’s important to prioritise self-care. Make time for activities that help you relax and recharge, whether it’s taking a walk, reading a book, or spending time with loved ones. The more relaxed and confident you feel, the more comfortable you’ll be breastfeeding in public. Conclusion Breastfeeding in public can be a positive and empowering experience with the right preparation and mindset. By understanding your rights, choosing comfortable clothing, practicing at home, and finding supportive environments, you can build the confidence needed to nurse your baby wherever you go. Remember that breastfeeding is a natural and essential part of motherhood,

September 16, 2024

Transport Month and the Silent Killer Let’s Be Quick to Save Lives

The African Brain Child research group (ABC) in Paediatric Neurosurgery at the University of Cape Town found that our hospital sees some 2 000 children (age 0 -12) with head injuries annually. Road accidents account for almost 80% of severe head injuries in children at the hospital. Of children admitted after a severe TBI (traumatic brain injury) sustained as a passenger in motor vehicle accidents, 96% were not wearing a seatbelt. Statistics showed a 22.6% increase in the Western Cape’s road accident deaths for the festive season last year. According to Arrive Alive, car safety seats reduce the risk of death in passenger cars by 71% for infants and 54% for toddlers. Since 2012 over 11 500 children have been placed in car safety seats through the Car seats for kids campaign run by our partner, Wheel Well. The “Be Quick to Click Car Seat Drive 2024”, initiated by African Brain Child in partnership with Supa Quick and Wheel Well, is a call to safeguard the lives of children against traumatic brain injuries (TBI’s) – “the silent killer” –  by putting more children into secure car safety seats this October, Transport Month. Anthony Figaji, Professor of Neurosurgery, South African National Research Foundation SARChI Chair of Clinical Neurosciences, and Director of African Brain Child, sees road accidents as the single biggest killer of healthy children in South Africa: “We have seen the human cost of motor vehicle accidents and TBI’s in children we have not been able to save” he says. “We have also seen those we have been able to save, but whose lives have been permanently impacted by injury that is readily preventable with the click of a seatbelt. There is an African saying that ‘It takes a village to raise a child.’ It also takes one to protect it. We need to rally personal responsibility around seatbelt usage – together as society.” For children, surviving a TBI often isn’t the end of the story; emerging research shows that a single TBI may cause long term inflammation that can damage neurons for years after the injury. This means that a child suffering a TBI today may face further degeneration of their brain 20 or even 30 years from now. From gathering dust to saving lives: an urgent call for car seats Seatbelts are an essential safeguard against TBI’s for older children, but toddlers and babies need the protection of a quality car safety seat. It is illegal in South Africa for an infant (a child under 3 years) to travel without being strapped into a suitable car seat – but they can be expensive and something that many families simply can’t afford. In South Africa, most children impacted by TBI’s are from lower-income households. At the same time, many families have car seats, quickly outgrown and now unused, sitting in the garage – “we’ll get around to selling it online at some point” – that could be donated, refurbished and fitted to safeguard the life of a child. How concerned South Africans can support the Be Quick to Click campaign: Car Seat Donations: Unused car seats can be dropped off at any Supa Quick branch nationwide and Be Quick to Click will donate it to a family that needs it in October, Transport Month. The Be Quick to Click team will clean, inspect, and ensure that each seat meets the highest safety standards, before passing it on to a family in need. Car Seat Sponsorship: By making a financial contribution, individuals or companies will directly support efforts to provide safe car seats for children across South Africa. Donations will help Be Quick to Click to cover the costs of cleaning, refurbishing and certifying used car seats, or purchasing new ones, for families who need them. Every donation counts toward making our roads safer for children. Receive a Car Seat: To mark Transport Month Be Quick to Click, Supa Quick and Wheel Well will hand over donated, checked and vetted car seats to families on 26 October 2024 at Supa Quick, cnr Main & Constantia Main Rd, Plumstead, Cape Town. Any family wanting to receive a car seat can come down to Supa Quick between 9am – 12pm to receive a car seat on the day. Support Be Quick to Click: Be Quick to Click is a project of the African Brain Child Initiative to drive public awareness, both in road users and authorities, of the importance of seatbelt usage and the ready prevention of TBI’s. ABC is an internationally respected, leading research unit in traumatic brain injury in Sub-Saharan Africa. Based in the Paediatric Neurosurgery Unit at Red Cross War Memorial Children’s Hospital, ABC is committed to providing advanced medical and surgical care, innovative research and promoting public awareness through social engagement. To join the drive to save lives, visit https://bequicktoclick.com/car-seat-drive/ For more information on the impact and prevention of TBI’s in children, download the Be Quick to Click Research Report here.

September 16, 2024

CALLING ALL BATWHEELS

Get ready to roll with the Batwheels crew! Meet Bam, Bibi, Redbird, Buff, and Batwing as they speed into action to save Gotham! ✨ Premiering Monday, 16 September 2024 ⏰ Tune-in Monday to Friday @ 15:15 CAT Available on DStv Catch Up until 20 September 2024

September 16, 2024

Can pacifiers harm your baby’s teeth?

Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality health coverage, explores how pacifiers can affect your little one’s smile and how to minimise any negative oral health impacts. Pacifiers, often known as soothers or dummies, can be a lifesaver for parents trying to soothe a fussy baby. But, as with anything, there’s a time and place for them, especially when you start thinking about your baby’s oral health and the development of their deciduous teeth (milk teeth) and permanent teeth. The Pacifier: A Parent’s Best Friend Pacifiers have been around for ages, and there’s a good reason for that. They tap into a baby’s natural sucking reflex, which can be incredibly calming. They’ve been known to help babies fall asleep, reduce crying, and even offer some benefits, like reducing the risk of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) in infants. “The modern pacifier, as we know it today, began to take shape in the late 1800s,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “Over the years, inventors and designers began experimenting with safer, more hygienic materials like rubber, which was gaining popularity thanks to its durability and softness, making it ideal for an infant’s delicate mouth.” The Potential Pitfalls for Pearly White  As babies grow and their teeth start to come in, parents might wonder if pacifiers can cause dental issues. The answer isn’t straightforward – it depends on a few factors, such as how often a baby uses a pacifier and for how long. Bite Problems Extended pacifier use can lead to problems like an open bite, where the front teeth don’t meet when the mouth is closed, or a crossbite, where the upper teeth bite inside the lower teeth. These issues arise from the constant pressure the pacifier exerts on the teeth and jaw. Tooth Misalignment Just like with an open bite, prolonged sucking can lead to the front teeth being pushed out of alignment, leading to what’s often called “pacifier teeth”. Changes in the Roof of the Mouth The sucking action can also affect the roof of the mouth, potentially leading to its abnormal development. Not All Doom and Gloom Before you toss all the pacifiers in the rubbish, it’s crucial to note that these potential issues typically stem from long-term use, especially beyond the age of two or three. Many children use pacifiers without any long-term effects on their teeth, particularly if they stop using them early. Guidelines for Healthy Pacifier Use To keep the pacifier from becoming a problem for your child’s dental health, consider these tips: Timing: Introduce a pacifier after breastfeeding is well-established, usually around three to four weeks of age, to avoid nipple confusion. Moderation: Use pacifiers for soothing purposes only, and try not to let your child have one in their mouth all day long. Weaning Off: Start to wean your child off the pacifier between six and 12 months old, and aim to stop its use altogether by the age of two or three. Hygiene: To prevent tooth decay, keep pacifiers clean and free of sugary substances. Don’t Dip: Avoid dipping the pacifier in sweet liquids like honey or syrup, which can lead to cavities. Orthodontic Pacifiers: Consider using orthodontic pacifiers designed to reduce the risk of dental problems. The Weaning Process: Tips and Tricks Weaning your child off a pacifier can be challenging but not impossible. Here are a few strategies to make the transition smoother: Gradual Reduction: Start by limiting pacifier use to specific times, like naps or bedtime. Comfort Alternatives: Offer other forms of comfort, such as a favourite stuffed animal or blanket. Positive Reinforcement: Praise your child for not using the pacifier and offer small rewards for pacifier-free time. The Pacifier Fairy: Some parents succeed with a “pacifier fairy” who takes the pacifier away in exchange for a small gift. When to Seek Professional Advice If you’re concerned about your child’s teeth or the impact of pacifier use, it’s always best to consult a paediatric dentist. They can offer personalised advice and help you develop a plan to ensure your child’s oral health is proper.

September 13, 2024

Banishing breakouts – a safer way to zap zits for teens

The only thing worse than a bad hair day, is a bad skin day. We all know how it goes; your teen has a hangout planned with new friends or a link up with a crush, and they wake up that morning with a glaring zit on their face. As parents, we are the ones trying to help them manage their despair and find solutions so that they can face the day with confidence. It’s a somewhat cruel twist of nature that just at the time when social life, identity and appearance are most top of mind for us as humans, we are also inundated with the hormones that puberty brings. The majority of teens battle with pimples, blackheads, whiteheads and in some cases, acne for years on end. While acne should be brought to a dermatologist’s attention, they are on their own when it comes to trying to keep garden variety pimples under control. Qualified pharmacist and aromatherapist, Dorcye Sher, the founder of Aromatic Apothecary developed the formula for her Zap-Zit range to help her children when they were in their teens. Her goal was to come up with a fast-acting natural product that would not dry out the skin or lead to scarring and more outbreaks. Unsightly pimples present three main challenges – a bacterial infection, an excess of oil from the skin’s own sebaceous glands, and inflammation which causes swelling and discoloration. Pimples engender such shame that in desperation to just get rid of them, too many teens squeeze pimples as soon as they see them. While this changes the look of the blemish, it’s not actually for the better. Doryce says, “Squeezing a pimple exacerbates the inflammation in the area and causes greater and potentially long-lasting skin damage than the pimple itself. Most importantly, squeezing a pimple risks spreading the infectious bacteria over a greater area of your skin and igniting a much worse outbreak. Zap the zit, don’t squeeze it.” The beauty of an aromatherapy formula for the treatment of pimples is that the blend of essential oils does more than any one ingredient. Do an internet search and you will find that Tea Tree oil is often recommended as a seemingly stand-alone pimple treatment because it does have significant anti-infectious properties. The trouble is that Tea Tree oil should not be applied neat to the skin. It is a safe ingredient in a blend, but undiluted tea tree oil can irritate, burn and cause skin inflammation. Some people even have a mild allergic reaction to it. The formula for Zap-Zit Mini Roll-on synthesizes three essential oils, anti-infectious Tea Tree, anti-inflammatory and calming Lavender and Bergamot, which is a natural, anti-microbial astringent that gently dries up excessive oil and can help to tighten pores. Bergamot is photosensitising so it is safer to only use it in minute amounts and in a balanced aromatherapy blend such as the Zap-Zit Mini Roll-on. Parents of teens care about avoiding pimples, and it helps to have a proven strategy to deal with them.  We must be aware that many products that promise to get rid of pimples and achieve that proverbial advertising-perfect ‘clear and glowing skin’ can be harsh and drying. In the short term, this might well knock a pimple back, but there is a longer-term concern. Doryce says, “Temporarily drying out your face because you have a pimple doesn’t help, it just fuels endless cycles of outbreaks. Instead, we should take the view that a pimple is a sign that we need to be restoring balance to our skin.  A pimple is toxins breaking out of our skin. It’s a message from our body, and our response should be to react holistically because we achieve that ‘clear and glowing’ skin we all aspire to more effectively and consistently through sensible self-care and the restoration of balance.” How can parents help their teens with their skin care? There are healthy lifestyle factors that support a clearer skin. Parents should encourage healthy eating and make healthy foods available including plenty of vegetables and healthy fat such as olive oil and nuts. Urge your teen to limit fast foods and snacks so that they reduce their intake of sugar, refined carbs and fats. Drinking plenty of plain water every day helps to flush out toxins. Exercising is also important, and parents can help teens make a habit of washing their sweaty faces with warm water straight after physical activity. Sufficient sleep is important for every bodily system, including the skin. Give your child a Zap-Zit Mini Roll-on to keep at their bedside so it can be easily applied to clean skin before they go to bed. Here’s Doryce’s recommended daily skin care routine for teens: The hygiene factor – There are plenty of teens who are scrupulous about twice-daily face washing and still get pimples or even acne. Hormones are at play, and of course, an outbreak is not a sign of poor hygiene. That doesn’t mean they can slip up. Morning and evening, teens need to be consistent about washing their faces with a good cleanser. Target the pimples not the face – Dry and apply Zap-Zit Mini Roll-on directly on any blemishes. You can repeat this, three or four times a day. Do not use fingers to apply the remedy.  The applicator is anti-infectious, and fingers are not. If you are dealing with a whitehead or swelling under the skin, use the tip of the applicator to gently massage the swelling. Don’t forget to moisturise – Make sure the skin is nourished with a good moisturiser because deliberately drying out the skin only stimulates sebaceous glands and leads to more pimples. Skin should not feel tight after the skin care routine. The normal and balanced feel of skin is soft and flexible, yet not oily. Don’t touch your face – Help your teen be mindful of the connection between the face and hands. Often unconsciously, we touch our faces repeatedly during the day. This can be amplified

September 13, 2024

The pressure to be the “Perfect Mom” in the age of social media

When we think of motherhood, it is synonymous with love, nurturing, happiness, faith and boundless sacrifice. However, we find ourselves in an era of curated personas, where perfection is toted and flaunted at us on a permanent basis. Motherhood has fallen prey to this too. It’s become entangled with pressure.  Pressure to be perfect. Social media has created an unrealistic portrayal of motherhood that can leave moms feeling inadequate and overwhelmed. As Moms, we can often fall into the “Comparison Trap”. We see the highlight reels of moms with perfectly behaved children baking Pinterest-worthy cupcakes in spotless kitchens. We see meticulously planned family outings. We see meticulous homes. This curated content creates a skewed reality, leaving us thinking that every moment of motherhood has to be perfect and anything less than that, is a failure. The desire to present oneself as a competent and capable parent is nothing new, but the rise of social media has intensified this pressure to extraordinary levels. Mothers are bombarded with images of picture-perfect families enjoying idyllic moments, accompanied by captions extolling the joys of parenthood. These carefully curated posts can create a distorted reality. For many mothers, the pressure to live up to these unrealistic standards can lead to feelings of inadequacy and guilt. They may find themselves comparing their own lives to the images they see online, feeling like they fall short in every aspect. From the cleanliness of their homes to the nutritional content of their children’s meals, every detail becomes a potential source of anxiety as they strive to measure up to an impossible standard. The pressure to be a perfect mom in the age of social media can have tangible consequences on women’s mental health. Research has shown a correlation between heavy social media use and increased feelings of depression, anxiety, and loneliness. Moreover, the pressure to maintain a perfect image online can take a toll on mothers’ relationships with their children. Focused on capturing the perfect moment for social media, some mothers may prioritise the appearance of a happy family over genuine connection and quality time with their children. This can lead to feelings of disconnect and resentment, both for the mother and her children, as they struggle to live up to unrealistic expectations. The pressure to be a perfect mom on social media is not only detrimental to individual mothers but also contributes to a culture of judgement and shame surrounding motherhood. Women who deviate from the norm or openly discuss the challenges they face may be met with criticism and scrutiny from others who adhere to the illusion of perfection. It starts to become a dangerous comparison trap. Moms on the receiving end bombard themselves with questions: “Why aren’t my kids this well-behaved?” “Why can’t I get my house this clean?” The truth is, these online snapshots don’t capture the meltdowns, the tantrums, the overflowing laundry baskets that are a very real part of motherhood! The antidote to the comparison trap lies in embracing authenticity. Moms need to reclaim the narrative and showcase the beauty of real, messy motherhood. Sharing the challenges along with the triumphs and sleepless nights next to the heart-warming cuddles. This doesn’t mean oversharing every detail of your child’s life or your journey as a mother and a family. It’s about finding balance! Sharing moments that resonate with other mothers and reminding them they’re not alone in the trenches. Taking away the pretence of the “Perfect Mother”. Social media takes away the realness of motherhood, to a degree.  Those real moments. Those tangible moments. Those moments that make you want to cry first and then reach for your camera so you can capture them and never forget them. One of the best ways to counteract all the pressure moms feel from social media, to be the perfect Mom, is doing a digital detox.  Look at who you follow and what comes into your feed. Does it add value to your life? Does it make you feel good as a Mom? Is it informative? Does it give you confidence? If it doesn’t do any of those things, then hit the unfollow button. Find your tribe. It is crucial to curate your own online space, filled with positivity and encouragement, not perfection. Keep your focus on striking a balance. Don’t be scared to unplug from social media. Schedule breaks from your phone and computer. Set a limit to the amount of time a day you’re online. This helps keep the pressure at bay and forces you to focus on the realness of your own life. Finally, the “Imperfect Mom”, is the “Perfect Mom”. We are human. We make mistakes, and anyone who tells you differently is probably trying to sell you something you really don’t need. Navigating through motherhood is a journey, it is not a destination. Books, learning aids, social media, podcasts – the list is endless – are all tools that we use to create a framework of what we think is needed. But it is how we build off that framework that ultimately makes all the difference in our lives and in our children’s lives. Social media should be a platform to celebrate the motherhood journey in all its messy yet insanely rewarding glory. By embracing realness, encouraging supportive online communities, such as the monthly Vital Baby Instagram Lives with Sr Londe, and prioritising positive connections, mothers can rewrite the narrative of motherhood in the social media age. It takes a village Moms. Let’s focus less on perfect and feeling pressured to be something that in reality doesn’t exist. Let’s rather celebrate the imperfect moms who are doing the best they can, because that’s what truly makes you perfect for your children. Vital Baby’s Commitment As a company deeply invested in maternal and child health, Vital Baby celebrates South Africa’s cultural diversity. We collaborate with midwives, community leaders, and healthcare providers to create products that align with cultural values. Our mission is to empower families while respecting their unique traditions and recommend balancing cultural beliefs with evidence-based

September 13, 2024

Parent’s late night worries proliferating Google searches: What are the top eight concerns?

As the world quiets down and little ones drift off to sleep, many parents find themselves in the glow of their screens, typing out their latest concerns and questions. The age of instant information has made it easy for parents to seek answers in the middle of the night. Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools explores the top eight concerns keeping South African parents of children under six awake and offers insights and advice to ease those worries. Developmental Milestones Every parent wonders if their child is on track with their development. From the first words to taking those initial steps, concerns about whether a child is meeting milestones can be overwhelming. Parents often compare their children’s progress to others, which can fuel anxiety, especially when extended family or community members express concern. It’s crucial to remember that every child develops at their own pace, and there is a wide range of what is considered normal. However, if you’re concerned about your child’s development, it’s important to consult with professionals, including paediatricians, early childhood educators, and therapists. Teachers and managers of schools and early childhood centres can also provide valuable insights into your child’s progress and suggest activities to support their development at home. Health and Nutrition In South Africa, where access to healthcare can vary widely, parents may worry about whether their children are getting the right nutrients or are healthy. Concerns often centre around ensuring a balanced diet, understanding the importance of specific nutrients, and knowing how to handle common childhood illnesses like colds or fevers. South African parents may also face challenges related to food security and access to nutritious foods. It’s essential to offer a variety of foods and encourage healthy eating habits from an early age. Consulting with healthcare professionals, such as paediatricians and nutritionists, can provide reassurance and guidance. Understanding the local healthcare system and having access to emergency services or local clinics can also help parents manage health concerns more effectively. Education and Learning With the country’s diverse education system, parents often worry about giving their children a good start. Questions about the best early childhood education options, how to encourage a love of learning, and whether they’re doing enough at home are common. The country’s unique blend of public, private, and home-schooling options can make this decision even more complex. To support your child’s early education, consider engaging with teachers and school administrators to understand the curriculum and how you can complement learning at home. Creating a stimulating environment through educational toys, books, and interactive play can also nurture a love of learning. Remember, the goal is to foster a supportive learning environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, regardless of the formal schooling path chosen. Behavioural Issues Tantrums, picky eating, and bedtime struggles can cause sleepless nights for many parents. These common behavioural issues often lead parents to search for solutions and advice on managing these challenges without resorting to harsh discipline. Finding a balanced approach can be challenging in South Africa, where different cultural norms and parenting styles exist. Positive parenting techniques, such as using time-outs, setting clear boundaries, and offering choices, can help manage these behaviours. Understanding developmental stages and the reasons behind certain behaviours can also provide context and reduce frustration. Engaging with professionals, including paediatricians and child psychologists, can offer strategies tailored to your child’s needs. Additionally, teachers and caregivers can provide insights into your child’s behaviour in different settings and suggest consistent approaches across home and school environments. Safety Concerns In a country with diverse social and economic landscapes, safety is a top priority parents. Concerns often revolve around childproofing the home, road safety, and teaching children about stranger danger and personal safety. Given the country’s unique context, parents may also worry about neighbourhood safety, access to safe play areas, and emergency preparedness. To address these concerns, parents can take practical steps such as installing safety gates, securing hazardous items, and teaching children basic safety rules like not talking to strangers and understanding emergency contact information. Additionally, it’s beneficial to familiarize yourself with local safety resources and community support systems, including neighbourhood watches and emergency services. Schools and early childhood centres often have safety protocols in place, so engaging with teachers and administrators can also provide peace of mind and ensure consistent safety practices. Screen Time and Technology In our digital age, parents often worry about the impact of screen time on their young children. The prevalence of smartphones, tablets, and TVs has made it challenging to limit exposure, leading to concerns about the appropriate amount of screen time and its potential effects on development. South African parents may also face the challenge of balancing educational content with entertainment. Experts recommend that children under two years old should avoid screens altogether, and for older children, screen time should be limited to high-quality, educational content. Co-viewing programs with your child and discussing the content can enhance their understanding and learning experience. Encouraging other activities, such as outdoor play, reading, and creative arts, can provide a balanced approach to technology use. Schools and early childhood programs can also guide appropriate technology use, ensuring that it complements rather than dominates a child’s day. Socialisation and Friendships Parents frequently worry about their child’s social development, especially if they are shy or reserved. Common concerns include questions about making friends, attending playdates, and developing social skills. In South Africa’s culturally diverse context, parents may also consider how to expose their children to different languages and customs. Encouraging interaction with peers through playdates, preschool, and community events can help children develop social skills and build friendships. Participating in group activities, such as sports, dance, or cultural programs, can also foster social development and a sense of belonging. Parents can model positive social behaviour by demonstrating good manners, empathy, and effective communication. Additionally, teachers and early childhood educators can provide feedback on your child’s social interactions and suggest ways to support their development both in and out of the

September 12, 2024

How to identify signs of hearing loss in babies

Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality health coverage, raises awareness about hearing loss in babies. Understanding Hearing Development in Babies Even before birth, babies develop their sense of hearing in the womb. By the time they are born, they can already recognise familiar voices and sounds. Babies refine their hearing abilities in the first few months of life. They should startle at loud noises, turn their heads toward sounds, and coo in response to voices. Most babies should be babbling and responding to their names by six months. “About 1 to 3 babies per 1,000 are born with hearing loss, making it one of the most common congenital conditions,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “It’s crucial to screen newborns for hearing loss shortly after birth to ensure early detection and intervention.” Certain factors can increase the likelihood of hearing loss in babies, including a family history of hearing loss, maternal infections during pregnancy (such as rubella virus or cytomegalovirus), exposure to ototoxic medications, premature birth, low birth weight, and complications during delivery. Signs of Hearing Loss in Babies While every child develops at their own pace, sure signs may indicate a potential hearing problem. Here are some red flags to watch out for: Lack of Startle Response: Babies with normal hearing typically startle at sudden loud noises. If your baby doesn’t react to loud sounds like a door slamming or a dog barking, it could be a sign of hearing loss. Limited or No Babbling: Babbling is an essential milestone in language development. Babies with hearing loss may not babble as much or at all. Pay attention to whether your baby is making vowel sounds like “ah” or “ooh” and consonant sounds like “ba” or “ma”. Lack of Response to Voices: By three months, most babies should turn their heads or react when they hear familiar voices. If your baby doesn’t respond to your voice or seems indifferent to sounds, it’s worth investigating further. Delayed Speech and Language Development: Hearing loss can significantly impact speech and language development. Suppose your baby is not meeting developmental milestones related to language, such as cooing, babbling, or saying simple words by one year. In that case, it’s important to consider hearing as a possible factor. Difficulty Locating Sounds: By six months, babies should be able to turn their heads toward sounds. If your baby consistently struggles to locate the source of sounds or only responds when they see the speaker, it could indicate hearing impairment. Inconsolable Crying: While babies cry for various reasons, persistent crying without an apparent cause could indicate frustration due to difficulty hearing or understanding the world around them. What to Do If You Suspect Hearing Loss Don’t hesitate to take action if you notice these signs or have concerns about your baby’s hearing. Early intervention is crucial for minimising the impact of hearing loss on your child’s development. Here are the steps you can take: Schedule a Hearing Screening Your paediatrician can perform a hearing screening or refer you to a paediatric audiologist for further evaluation. Many hospitals offer newborn hearing screenings shortly after birth, but additional screenings may be necessary if there are concerns. Observe Your Baby’s Reactions Consider how your baby responds to sounds and voices in different environments. Keep a diary and write down any observations or concerns you can highlight to your baby’s paediatrician. Seek Early Intervention Services If hearing loss is confirmed, your baby may benefit from early intervention services, such as speech therapy or sign language instruction. These services support your child’s development and help them thrive despite hearing challenges. Educate Yourself Take the time to educate yourself about hearing loss in babies, available treatments, and resources for support. Knowledge is power and can help you effectively advocate for your child’s needs. Connect with Support Groups Reach out to support groups or online communities for parents of children with hearing loss. Connecting with parents who have had similar situations may provide helpful advice, encouragement, and emotional support. Technological Advances Fortunately, technological advances, such as hearing aids and cochlear implants, have revolutionised the treatment of hearing loss in babies. These devices can provide access to sound and help infants with hearing loss develop speech and language skills on par with their hearing peers. Let’s commit to raising awareness about the importance of early detection and intervention for hearing loss in babies. Remember, you are your baby’s best advocate. Trust your instincts, seek guidance from healthcare professionals, and embrace the journey of supporting your child’s hearing health every step of the way.  

September 12, 2024

The Importance of Keeping a Breastfeeding Log

Keeping a record of your breastfeeding may seem time-consuming. Not only do you need to feed your baby, but you also need to document the entire process! However, maintaining a detailed breastfeeding log has significant benefits. A record of your feeds can provide valuable insights. The most crucial benefit is the ability to track your baby’s overall health and development. This article highlights the essential metrics to monitor and how they can benefit both you and your baby in the long run. Read on to learn about the art of keeping a breastfeeding record and discover the secrets it holds for you today. Why You Need to Record Your Breastfeeding As a parent, any information you can gather about your child’s development is invaluable. A breastfeeding log book is a vital tool that helps you document your baby’s feeding habits. This allows you to spot any potential issues early on by becoming familiar with your child’s eating patterns. Moreover, a breastfeeding record isn’t just helpful for you. It can also be crucial for others who may take over caring for your baby. When you return to work, this log can provide your nanny or daycare center with essential information about your baby’s eating habits. They will know when to feed your baby, how much to feed them, and how often to change them throughout the day. Key Metrics to Document in Your Breastfeeding Log Here are the top five metrics to track when you begin recording your breastfeeding patterns: 1. Frequency of Feeds Recording how often your baby feeds helps in two ways: it lets you know your baby’s feeding frequency and helps you create a feeding schedule. Understanding how much your baby feeds will give you an idea of the milk supply you need. Your body naturally adjusts to produce the right amount of milk for your baby, but keeping a log helps you know how much to express and store for times when you may not be available. Top Tip: Remember, your breast milk can be frozen without losing its nutritional value and used later. Tracking feeding habits also helps you establish a schedule, making it easier to anticipate when your baby will get hungry. This helps you plan your activities around feeding times and provides other caregivers with valuable information on when to feed your baby. 2. Duration of Feeds Knowing how long your baby feeds is another useful piece of information. It helps you determine how many minutes to set aside per feed and how many minutes your baby spends on each breast. This information is crucial when you start expressing milk and need to know how long to pump each breast. 3. Diaper Output Track the number of soiled diapers your baby produces daily. This data is essential for monitoring your baby’s health, as a sudden increase or decrease in soiled diapers can indicate potential health issues. Keep track of both wet and dirty diapers to monitor your child’s digestive health. 4. Baby’s Weight Record your baby’s weight in your breastfeeding log. The general guideline is to weigh your baby every five days during the first two weeks, then once a month from two weeks to six months. For accuracy, it’s best to have your baby weighed by a doctor. Tracking weight gain or loss helps you monitor your baby’s growth. Significant weight fluctuations can be a sign of underlying issues that need medical attention. 5. Your Own Well-being Lastly, note how you feel after feeding, particularly how your breasts feel. If one breast feels fuller, you may need to express milk from it. Monitoring your breasts can help you recognise what feels normal and detect any changes that might require a doctor’s consultation. How to Keep a Record of Your Breastfeeding Cycles Documenting your breastfeeding sessions is straightforward. Here are a few methods: Write in a notebook Make digital notes on your phone Use a dedicated feeding log book Setting up a template for daily records can save time and ensure you don’t miss any key information points. Maintaining a breastfeeding log might seem like an additional task, but its benefits far outweigh the effort. It not only helps you monitor your baby’s health but also provides valuable information to other caregivers, ensuring your baby receives consistent and accurate care.

September 12, 2024

Play and project-based learning: cultivating future leaders through innovative education

Imagine a world where children are confined to desks, memorising facts without understanding their real-world applications. The anxiety of test scores and the pressure to conform stifle their creativity and critical thinking. Now, contrast this with an environment where learning is an adventure, where curiosity is the driving force and where children are encouraged to explore, experiment and innovate. The latter is not just a utopian dream; it is a necessity in our rapidly evolving world. On 11 June 2024, the world celebrated the United Nations’ inaugural International Day of Play. To commemorate the day, Future Nation Schools hosted a groundbreaking FutureTalk webinar titled “Play as a Pathway: Cultivating Future Leaders Through the Power of Play” where educators and thought leaders discussed the transformative potential of play and project-based learning (PBL) in shaping the leaders of tomorrow. This event highlighted the importance of these methodologies in modern education and their ability to foster environments where students thrive emotionally, intellectually and develop leadership skills. The power of play in education The amygdala, a part of our brain responsible for processing emotions, often reacts to stress and fear, impacting our ability to think clearly and make rational decisions. This is a common experience in traditional education settings, where the fear of failure can overshadow the joy of learning. But by integrating play and PBL into our educational systems, we can mitigate this stress, fostering environments where students thrive on all levels. This because, explains Nompumelelo Dlamini, Head of Primary School at Future Nation Schools, play is not just a break from serious learning; it is the foundation of cognitive, social and emotional development. “Play-based learning transforms classrooms into vibrant spaces of discovery and collaboration. It enhances motor skills, improves hand-eye coordination and fosters fine motor development. More importantly, it cultivates critical thinking and problem-solving abilities, essential traits for future leaders.” Research supports the learn-through-play (LTP) approach According to studies by Piaget and Vygotsky, play is a pivotal aspect of learning, essential for developing critical thinking and problem-solving skills (Smith and Pellegrini, 2013). As a pedagogical approach, LTP leverages children’s natural curiosity and creativity to facilitate educational outcomes. Rooted in the understanding that play is a fundamental aspect of human development, LTP integrates playful experiences with structured learning objectives, allowing learners to explore, experiment and engage with concepts in a context that feels both intuitive and enjoyable. This method is particularly impactful in early childhood education but extends its benefits across all age groups, enhancing cognitive, social and emotional development. LTP encourages active participation, problem-solving and critical thinking, making learning a dynamic and interactive process. By fostering an environment where mistakes are seen as opportunities for discovery, LTP cultivates resilience, adaptability and a lifelong love for learning. When children engage in play, they explore new concepts, experiment with roles and navigate social interactions. This natural form of learning helps them master complex ideas, build resilience and prepares them for life’s myriad challenges and adventures. Project-based learning: a hands-on approach to real-world skills  Project-based learning (PBL), on the other hand, takes the principles of play a step further by immersing students in real-world projects. This teaching and learning methodology encourages learners to investigate, collaborate and create, transforming theoretical knowledge into practical skills. In essence, PBL allows students to take ownership of their learning, fostering independence and confidence. “Project-based learning bridges the gap between theory and practice. It equips students with the skills to tackle real-world challenges, promoting critical thinking and problem-solving. By working on projects, students not only gain knowledge but also develop resilience, adaptability, and a collaborative spirit essential for future leadership roles,” adds Dlamini. “Moreover, integrating play into the curriculum fosters creativity and emotional intelligence, providing a well-rounded foundation for children to grow into effective leaders.” Enhancing educational outcomes with LTP and PBL  As pedagogical strategies, the integration of LTP and PBL is shown to significantly enhance educational outcomes in various domains, including mathematics, literacy and life skills. For mathematics, the LTP approach encourages children to engage with numerical concepts through interactive play. This method demystifies abstract mathematical ideas, making them tangible and understandable. PBL complements this by providing practical, real-world problems for learners to solve, thereby reinforcing their understanding and application of mathematical principles. Together, they not only increase engagement and enjoyment in learning mathematics but also bolster learners’ confidence in their problem-solving capabilities. In terms of literacy, the combination of LTP and PBL lays a robust foundation for emergent literacy skills. Through LTP, children expand their vocabulary and narrative skills in a natural and engaging manner, while PBL approaches literacy by contextualising reading and writing within meaningful projects, which require communication and storytelling. The integration of these methods fosters a print-rich environment that stimulates cognitive engagement and social interaction – essential components for developing strong literacy skills. For life skills, this educational synergy cultivates critical thinking, collaboration and adaptability – competencies that are indispensable in the 21st century. The hands-on, exploratory nature of LTP, alongside the inquiry-based focus of PBL, equips learners with the resilience to face challenges and the social skills necessary for teamwork. This educational approach not only prepares learners academically but also instils in them the intrinsic motivation and values needed to navigate and succeed in life beyond the classroom. Additionally, there is a growing body of research supporting the use of LTP and PBL in schools. Researchers have found that schools where these teaching methods are practised see a decline in absenteeism, an increase in cooperative learning skills and improvement in learner achievement. When technology is used to promote critical thinking and communication, these benefits are enhanced. The intersection of play and PBL in leadership development “Project-based learning and learn-through-play bridge the gap between theory and practice. These two pedagogies equip learners with the skills to tackle real-world challenges, promoting critical thinking and problem-solving and creating learning environments where learners not only gain knowledge but also develop resilience, adaptability and a collaborative spirit essential for future leadership roles,” says Sahar Mohy-Ud-Din, Strategic Education Advisor at

September 11, 2024
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