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Sandton City creates family-friendly facilities- Iconic mall puts families first with thoughtful upgrades

Sandton City, Africa’s most iconic shopping destination, has elevated its shopping experience with a complete refurbishment of most of its bathrooms, ensuring ultimate comfort, convenience, and choice for visitors. The upgrades include dedicated nursing rooms and purified water dispensers outside each bathroom, promoting sustainability, by encouraging bottle refills and reducing single-use plastic. Additionally, upgraded floor and wall tiling provides a sleek, modern aesthetic, while improved lighting creates well-lit and inviting spaces. The size of the toilet cubicles has been increased for added comfort and accessibility. Push-activated taps have been installed to accommodate individuals with upper limb disabilities. Privacy screens strategically placed in male bathrooms now provide added discretion. As an extension of its commitment to family-friendly shopping, Sandton City offers a full baby care lounge featuring a kitchen, baby change area, feeding rooms, and a play zone, making parenting on the go more convenient. This lounge is situated on the lower level, at entrance 4 near Checkers, and is free-to-use. For easy access to this facility, dedicated mom and tots parking bays, located the centre’s main near entrances, are marked in bright colours for easy identification, adding another layer of convenience. Sandton City thrives on being an unparalleled, world-class retail destination. With over 374 stores, the centre houses an array of highly sought-after local and international brands. To cater to evolving shopper needs, Sandton City recently welcomed Mio Mondo, South Africa’s first luxury kids and baby store, offering a curated selection of designer brands such as Kenzo, Moschino, Karl Lagerfeld, all geared for ages 0 – 16. Parents can also shop a host of family-focused retailers including Dis-Chem Baby City, Koco Bino, Cotton Kids, Keedo, and Naartjie, offering special baby and kids’ apparel and lifestyle products. “At Sandton City, we are always looking for ways to enhance the shopper experience, ensuring that every visitor, whether they’re parents with young children, business professionals, or international tourists, enjoys a world-class environment,” says Dimitri Kokinos, General Manager of Sandton City. “These latest upgrades reflect our commitment to comfort, convenience, and sustainability, reinforcing Sandton City’s position as Africa’s most prestigious retail destination.” For more information and regular updates go to www.sandtoncity.com or follow Sandton City on social media @sandtoncitymall.

May 5, 2025

Getting to grips with flu

Few common illnesses are more unpleasant than the flu. The aches, pains, chills, fever and cough are bad enough. Add the other potential symptoms including runny nose, vomiting, diarrhoea, fatigue or sore throat and you’ll want the illness to be over as soon as possible. Or try to prevent it. Annually, flu kills around 11 500 people in South Africa and 20 000 are hospitalised. ‘The seasons are changing and with it comes the ‘flu virus,’ says Dr Themba Hadebe, Bonitas Medical Fund’s Clinical Executive. ‘Now is the time to take precautions against catching flu, including having a flu vaccine, which is recommended by the World Health Organization (WHO).’ Why a Flu vaccine? Although the flu vaccine will not eliminate your risk of developing flu, it helps reduce your chances of severe infection. What are Flu pandemics? These occur when a new flu virus emerges that is significantly different from circulating seasonal strains, causing widespread illness worldwide. Best known examples are the: 1918 Spanish flu, 1957 Asian flu, 1968 Hong Kong flu and the 2009 H1N1 pandemic. The 1918 Spanish flu pandemic was the most severe, it is estimated to have been responsible for the deaths of 50-100 million people. What is Flu? Flu is a contagious respiratory illness caused by the influenza viruses. It can cause mild to severe illness and can lead to hospitalisation and even death, especially in high-risk groups such as young children, the elderly, pregnant women and people with underlying health conditions. What is the current Flu strain in South Africa? There are four types of flu viruses: A, B, C and D. Most seasonal outbreaks of flu in humans are as a result of the A and B viruses. The most commonly reported influenza viruses for 2024 are type A(H1N1) and type B. What are the most common Flu symptoms in 2024? These may include the following: Fever of 38˚C or higher Aching muscles, especially in your back, arms and legs Chills and sweats Why do I need a Flu shot every year? ‘All viruses mutate – meaning the genetic material of the cell changes – but not at the same rate. Some mutate very quickly, including the flu virus. Which is why we get a new flu vaccine every year,’ says Dr Hadebe. Other preventive measures include frequent handwashing, covering your mouth and nose when you cough and sneeze, avoiding close contact with sick individuals and staying home when ill. Will the flu shot give me Flu? A flu shot cannot cause flu. Flu vaccines are currently made either with flu vaccine viruses that have been ‘inactivated’ and are not infectious or with no flu vaccine viruses at all. Some side effects may occur like redness, tenderness and swelling where the shot was given but this is mild and will only last a few days. These are infinitely preferable to a bad case of flu. Who should get a Flu vaccine? Annual flu vaccines are recommended for everyone six months and older, especially for those at higher risk of complications. The vaccine helps your immune system fight off the virus by producing antibodies which is why it’s best to vaccinate in April or May, before the start of flu season. Flu vaccinations are available at most pharmacies and the costs are generally covered by medical schemes. Anyone in the high-risk groups including: Healthcare workers Individuals over 65 years Individuals with chronic diseases – or comorbidities – for example: Cardiac disease, diabetes, asthma, kidney diseases (due to poorer baseline immunity) Pregnant women People with a BMI over 40 People who are immune compromised Who should NOT have the Flu vaccine? Those allergic to eggs or egg proteins as the vaccine manufacturing process involves the use of chicken eggs Infants under 6 months of age Individuals who may have had a severe reaction to a flu vaccine in the past Individuals who may be suffering from flu symptoms already How is flu transmitted? It spreads mainly through respiratory droplets when an infected person coughs, sneezes or talks. It can also spread by touching surfaces contaminated with the virus and then touching your mouth, nose, or eyes. What are the complications of Flu? Flu can lead to various complications, such as pneumonia, bronchitis, sinus infections, ear infections and worsening of chronic medical conditions like asthma or heart disease. Complications are more common in high-risk groups. ‘Flu viruses spread very quickly from person to person’, says Dr Hadebe. ‘Even if the flu vaccine is not 100% effective, it will reduce your risk of getting flu, and, if you do get it, it will be a great deal milder’.

May 5, 2025

Celebrate World Laughter Day with Mr Bean

Mr Bean leads the way this World Laughter Day, uniting generations through laughter They say laughter is the best medicine, and this year, World Laughter Day on 4 May shines a spotlight on the universal language of laughter. It’s a day when smiles and chuckles bring people together across cultures, generations, and continents. Who better to lead the charge than one of comedy’s most beloved icons, Mr Bean? In South Africa, where Mr Bean: The Animated Series has been Cartoonito Africa’s #1 audience driver since 2017¹, it’s clear that laughter holds a special place in our hearts. With over 311 000 viewers tuning in daily², Mr Bean continues to unite generations through his timeless humour. Why Laughter Matters Laughter is essential for our well-being, especially for kids, helping them build confidence, navigate emotions, and develop social skills. That’s why Cartoonito Africa—home to Mr Bean: The Animated Series—champions laughter as a cornerstone of its programming. The channel offers safe, joyful content that sparks giggles and creates bonding moments for families. Because with kids, laughter isn’t just fun—it’s fundamental. Studies show that people are 30 times more likely to laugh when watching something funny with others (Peterson, 2019), so watching Mr Bean together guarantees a laughter explosion. On World Laughter Day, we’re reminded that no matter your age, laughter truly is one of life’s greatest gifts. He came. He saw. He bowled… kinda. Watch Mr Bean take on the bowling alley! Mr Bean: A Global Icon of Comedy For over three decades, Mr Bean has been making audiences laugh with his quirky antics and childlike charm. From his iconic green Mini to his trusty sidekick, Teddy, Bean’s humour transcends language barriers, proving that physical comedy is universally understood. Did you know Mr Bean’s near-silent comedy is enjoyed in over 200 countries? Or that he was voted South Africa’s ‘Most Liked Character’ by kids in 2024³? It’s no wonder fans of all ages adore him. While kids love his slapstick silliness, lifelong fans of the original live-action series continue to cherish his timeless appeal. Whether you’re 4 or 94, Mr Bean reminds us that laughter connects us all. As Rowan Atkinson, the man behind the beloved character, explains, “I liked the idea of Mr Bean as a timeless, cartoon-like character, so animation felt like a logical development. Of course, the good thing about animation is that you can go anywhere. That’s been the fun of Bean—the variety!” It’s this creative freedom, paired with Mr Bean’s signature silliness, that keeps audiences of all ages coming back for more. His cross-generational charm and universal humour make him the perfect character to celebrate on World Laughter Day. Fun Facts About Mr Bean Did you know Mr Bean is celebrating a huge milestone? Here are some fun facts that show just how iconic this lovable character really is: What’s on Mr Bean’s shopping list? Trouble. Lots of it. Watch this hilarious highlight! What’s Next for Mr Bean Fans? While World Laughter Day is all about celebrating the joy of giggles, there’s even more reason to smile. On Monday, 5 May, Mr Bean: The Animated Series returns with its highly anticipated fourth season on Cartoonito Africa! Packed with 52 brand-new episodes, with returning favourites like Teddy, Irma, Mrs Wicket, and Scrapper, along with new neighbours, the Paliwals, Season 4 promises fresh adventures and plenty of giggles. For an exclusive Q&A with Rowan Atkinson on the new season, click here.

May 2, 2025

Twinkl’s Assessment Range: Empowering Your Child’s Academic Success

As a parent, you play a crucial role in your child’s educational journey. Regular assessment practice is key to helping your child build confidence, track progress, and achieve academic success. Twinkl provides a comprehensive range of assessment resources designed to support learners at every stage, making exam preparation and revision easier and more effective. From early Foundation Phase assessments to Intermediate Phase tests and Senior Phase exam papers, Twinkl offers trusted, CAPS-aligned resources that help your child stay on top of their learning throughout the year. Covering all key subjects — including Languages (English and Afrikaans Home and First Additional), Mathematics, Social Sciences, Natural Science and Technology, Life Orientation, Creative Arts, and Economic Management Sciences — Twinkl’s assessments are tailored to meet the needs of South African learners. Why regular assessment practice matters: Twinkl’s assessments come with marking sheets, making it easy to review your child’s work and celebrate their progress. By integrating regular assessments into your child’s routine, you can provide valuable support and set them up for success — all with the help of resources created by educational experts. Explore Twinkl’s assessment range and FREE assessment guides today and give your child the tools they need to thrive! Link: https://www.twinkl.co.za/l/7c7xd

May 2, 2025

Ninjago: The Forbidden Five Return in an Action-Packed Season 3!

Get ready for high-stakes adventure as Ninjago: The Forbidden Five returns exclusively to Pay TV with a brand-new Season 3, premiering Monday, 5 May 2025! This season, the stakes are higher than ever as the villains hunt for ancient weapons that could unleash the terrifying Chaos Dragon. Meanwhile, the Ninja face their biggest challenge yet — tracking down their missing teammates and stopping the Forbidden Five before chaos consumes their world. Don’t miss a moment of the action! 📺 Premiere: 5 May 2025⏰ Watch Monday to Friday at 15:15 CAT📦 Episodes: S3 301–310 (10 half-hour episodes) Where heroes rise and legends are made!

May 2, 2025

Mr. Bean is Back in a Hilarious New Season 4 on Cartoonito!

Get ready for even more chaos and laughter as Mr. Bean returns to Cartoonito with a brand-new Season 4, premiering Monday, 5 May 2025! Join the ever-clumsy and quirky Mr. Bean as he stumbles his way through absurd misadventures, turning everyday tasks into hilarious disasters. With his faithful teddy bear, Teddy, and his grumpy landlady, Mrs. Wicket, chaos is never far behind! Tune in to catch all the fun: 📺 Premiere: 5 May 2025⏰ Watch Monday to Friday at 16:45 CAT📦 Episodes: S4 401–413 (13 x 11-minute episodes) Only on Cartoonito – where laughter never ends!

May 2, 2025

The lowdown on diabetes in children and teenagers

The diagnosis of type 1 diabetes in children can be overwhelming, especially in the beginning. Suddenly you and your child – depending on your child’s age – must learn how to count carbohydrates and monitor blood sugar levels and give injections. But even though there is no cure, it can be managed. Diabetes is a chronic disease, characterised by high levels of blood glucose. ‘In type 1 diabetes your immune system, the body’s system for fighting infection, attacks and destroys the insulin-producing cells of the pancreas,’ explains Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund. ‘It can lead to serious damage to the heart, blood vessels, eyes, kidneys and nerves. However, advances in blood sugar monitoring and the delivery of insulin have improved blood sugar management and quality of life for children with type 1 diabetes.’ Statistics currently show that there are close to 5 000 adolescents that live with Type 1 diabetes in South Africa. Type 1 diabetes can be either: Hyperglycaemia: When your blood sugar levels are too high. It is the hallmark of diabetes onset and it usually continues to occur on and off after you start treatment Hypoglycaemia: Sugar levels are too low. This usually occurs as the result of diabetes treatment, particularly insulin administration which lowers blood sugar How does diabetes in children and adolescents start? It can come on suddenly or gradually in children and teens and parents often aren’t aware of the symptoms or patterns that point to a potential diabetes diagnosis. Symptoms may be similar to those of flu but, if diabetes is the cause, the sooner it’s diagnosed, the better. Symptoms of Hyperglycaemia: High blood sugar Increased hunger The body’s cells are not able to utilise glucose for energy due to a lack of insulin or insulin resistance, leading to a craving for more food. Dry mouth: A dry mouth is one of the most common symptoms which can cause trouble chewing, swallowing or speaking, dry cracked lips, sores or infections in the mouth or a furry, dry tongue Frequent urination (especially at night): Excess glucose in the blood spills into the urine, drawing water with it and increasing the frequency of urination. This in turn increases thirst Weight loss: Despite increased food intake, the body starts breaking down fat and muscle for energy, due to the lack of insulin Fatigue: The body’s cells cannot use glucose for energy efficiently, leading to feelings of tiredness and fatigue Blurry vision: High sugar levels in the blood can damage the tiny blood vessels in the eyes, causing fluid to seep into the lens, potentially causing blurry vision Slow-healing sores or frequent infections: Over time, high blood sugar levels narrow your blood vessels, slowing blood circulation and restricting much needed nutrients and oxygen from getting to the wounds. As a result, even small cuts and wounds may take weeks or months to heal Fruity-smelling breath: The breakdown of fat for energy produces ketones, which can cause a fruity smell in the breath Ketoacidosis: This is when blood sugar levels are very high and the body starts making ketones. It is a very serious condition that needs immediate in hospital treatment, sometimes in the intensive care unit. If not treated right away, there is a risk for diabetic coma. A child with a diabetic coma loses consciousness because of brain swelling due to very high blood sugar levels Symptoms of Hypoglycaemia: Low blood sugar Trembling: Low blood sugar levels trigger the release of adrenaline, which causes shakiness Sweating: The body’s response to low blood sugar includes releasing adrenaline, which can cause sweating Hunger: The brain detects low blood sugar and signals the body to eat Irritability or moodiness: Low blood sugar levels can affect brain function, leading to mood changes Fatigue: The brain and muscles are deprived of glucose, leading to feelings of tiredness Paleness: The body’s stress response to low blood sugar can cause blood vessels to constrict, leading to paleness Headaches: The brain is sensitive to changes in blood sugar levels, low levels can cause headaches How is type 1 diabetes treated? A daily dose of insulin is needed to keep the blood glucose level within normal ranges. Insulin is given either by injection or via an insulin pump. Your child’s healthcare provider will show you how to give your child insulin with either method. Dr Hadebe says, ‘to make it easier for children and adolescents to monitor glucose levels and administer insulin the Scheme offers Insulin Pump Therapy and Continuous Glucose Infusion Monitoring device (CGM) to members under the age of 18.’ Eating the right foods to manage blood glucose levels. This includes timing meals and counting carbohydrates Exercise Regular blood testing Regular urine testing for ketone levels How can I help my child live with type 1 diabetes? The diagnosis affects the entire family emotionally – there are various support groups and organisations for children with Type 1 diabetes and their families. A younger child may not understand all the life changes, such as glucose monitoring and insulin injections, this can lead to anxiety and depression. They may feel different from their peers, try to treat them as a normal child, with managing diabetes as just one aspect of their daily life. Ask your healthcare provider for more information and call them if you need help. Also ensure they are following the treatment plan and are eating the right foods, exercising and testing their blood and urine. Early detection and comprehensive management are key to ensuring children with Type 1 diabetes lead healthy, fulfilling lives. Remember that your GP is your first port of call for all your healthcare needs.

May 1, 2025

Fitness with Purpose: Body20 Launches Body20 Cares in Support of Children Battling Cancer

50% of all joining fees donated to CHOC Childhood Cancer Foundation SA South Africa’s award-winning tech-driven fitness franchise, Body20, is turning sweat into support with the launch of the 2025 Body20 Cares charity drive, in aid of childhood cancers and life-threatening blood disorders. For two months, 50% of all new joining fees across Body20’s 47 nationwide studios will be donated to CHOC Childhood Cancer Foundation South Africa, in partnership with The Cows, a spirited fitness-based fundraising initiative known for their cow-print gear and high-energy sporting challenges. Together, these organisations provide emotional and practical support to families navigating the unimaginable journey of childhood cancer. At its core, Body20 is more than a fitness studio – it’s a wellness partner for modern, time-strapped adults. Using Electro-Muscle Stimulation (EMS) technology, each 20-minute session delivers the benefits of hours in the gym, helping members achieve real results in strength, weight loss, and overall health. Every programme is backed by certified personal trainers, nutritionists, and mental wellness tools through a partnership with October Health, offering a holistic, science-backed approach to wellbeing. But for Body20, real health goes beyond physical transformation. It’s about connection, empathy, and community impact. “With Body20 Cares, we’re taking our commitment to wellness beyond the studio walls,” says Johan Laas, Marketing Manager at Body20. “Wellness isn’t just about your body, it’s also about compassion, purpose, and community. We’re giving our members a way to contribute to something bigger, while staying aligned with their own personal growth.” The campaign’s alignment with CHOC and The Cows was a natural extension of Body20’s values. “Our franchisees and members are already passionate about fitness, and The Cows bring that same spirit to their fundraising,” adds Laas. “We believe strongly in CHOC’s mission, and as a family-oriented brand, supporting children and their families facing cancer hits close to home for many of us.” As a business built on connection and care, Body20 is proud to be part of a movement that brings communities together for a greater good. “We’re here to transform lives,” says Laas. “Not just our members’, but also those who need support the most.” Ready to do good while doing good for yourself? Join Body20 this May and be part of a fitness movement that makes a difference. https://body20.co.za/body20-cares or contact [email protected] or 087 231 0359.

May 1, 2025

Can My Baby Really Hear Me Speaking?

We are often told that playing music to your unborn child can increase their brain development, but parents often ask, “Can my baby even hear the music or hear me talking”? Well, the answer is: Yes, they can! While your baby’s ears start to develop at around 7 weeks gestation, it takes some time for their ears to mature and send signals to the brain. Studies have shown that the earliest detection of sound in utero is at 19 weeks gestation. At first, they may only be able to hear low-pitched sounds, like a mother’s heartbeat or bodily sounds (yes, that rumbling tummy that tells you to eat more, can be heard by your new developing soul!). However, as the cochlear (the inner ear organ of hearing) and the auditory neural pathways (the highways to the brain) develop, your baby will be able to hear more sounds and may even start responding with movement or kicking, around 24 weeks of gestation. Why Does My Baby Not Always Respond to Dad’s Voice? The amniotic fluid surrounding the baby will muffle environmental sounds, so these sounds will be heard at a much softer volume than the sounds inside your body. Therefore, your baby will hear your own voice at a much louder volume than any external sounds. The baby will become more familiar with your voice than other voices as they can hear you more clearly than other voices. (Tell Dad to talk right next to your belly, and see what happens then 😊) How Can I Stimulate My Baby’s Hearing While Pregnant? While there is no research evidence that playing music to your baby in utero will improve their IQ, there is certainly no harm in playing music to your baby and continuing with normal daily sounds, and your developing baby may show some interesting responses (such as quietening down or livening up)! Research has shown that the greatest behavioural in-utero responses by babies, are recorded in response to a mother’s voice. Therefore, reading or singing to your baby may stimulate their auditory development more than external music. The familiarity with mom’s voice has also shown positive effects once a baby is born, as they already recognize your signature sound. Babies who are born prematurely have shown positive effects when listening to recordings of their mom’s heartbeat and voice, even while in Neonatal Intensive Care. This familiar auditory stimulation helps to regulate heartbeat (which is likely to show contentment) and improve their newly developing auditory processing. Can Noise Exposure Affect My Babies Hearing While Pregnant? Although there is insufficient data to support this, prolonged exposure to very loud noises during pregnancy may contribute to foetal hearing loss, as very loud sound over an extended period of time is known to contribute towards damage to the cochlear hair cells in adults. Have Your Baby’s Hearing Tested at Birth It is important to regularly have your babies hearing tested, and we can screen your baby’s hearing from 48 hours after birth. This is pivotal in ensuring that any risk of hearing loss is identified as early as possible. Early intervention has a positive impact on speech, language and learning for your baby. Contact us if you are in Cape Town! Our rooms are conveniently located in Sea Point, Durbanville, Hout Bay, Wynberg and Noordhoek.

May 1, 2025

How to Keep Your Relationship Strong After Having Kids

Welcoming a child into your family is a profound and joyous event, but it also brings significant changes that can challenge even the strongest relationships. The transition to parenthood requires couples to adapt to new roles and responsibilities, which can sometimes strain their bond. However, with intentional effort and understanding, it’s possible to maintain and even strengthen your relationship after having children. Understanding the Challenges The arrival of a child often shifts the dynamics of a relationship. Sleep deprivation, increased responsibilities, and reduced personal time can lead to stress and misunderstandings. Research indicates that couples often experience a decline in relationship satisfaction after the birth of their first child, with the joys of parenting sometimes overshadowed by the added responsibilities. en.wikipedia.org Effective Communication Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of any strong relationship, especially after becoming parents. Discussing feelings, concerns, and expectations with your partner regularly fosters mutual understanding and prevents resentment from building up. Dr. Carly Snyder, a reproductive and perinatal psychiatrist, emphasises the importance of setting aside daily time to talk and share feelings, which can significantly impact relationship satisfaction. parents.com Prioritise Couple Time Amid the demands of parenting, it’s crucial to carve out time for each other. Whether it’s a scheduled date night or a simple walk together, these moments help maintain your connection and remind you of your bond beyond parenthood. Small gestures of intimacy, such as affectionate messages or notes, can also make a significant impact. parents.com Share Responsibilities Equitably dividing parenting and household duties ensures that neither partner feels overwhelmed. Sharing responsibilities fosters teamwork and prevents feelings of imbalance, which can lead to tension. The concept of “mankeeping,” where women take on the emotional burdens of their male partners in addition to household tasks, has been identified as a factor that can lead to burnout and resentment. Balancing the relationship requires open communication, sharing responsibilities, and setting healthy boundaries. adelaidenow.com.au Seek Support Don’t hesitate to seek support from family, friends, or professional counsellors. External support can provide relief and offer new perspectives on managing challenges. Marriage coaches Bridgette Reed and her husband emphasise the importance of clear communication, self-awareness, and considering therapy to help couples navigate the challenges of parenthood while maintaining a strong relationship. parents.com Embrace Flexibility Parenthood is unpredictable, and flexibility is essential. Being adaptable in your routines and expectations can reduce stress and promote harmony in your relationship. Experts suggest that there’s no one-size-fits-all strategy and stress the need for couples to find a balance that works for their individual situations. They also highlight the importance of communication and flexibility in maintaining healthy partnerships while parenting young children. parents.com Maintain Individual Interests While parenting requires collaboration, maintaining individual interests and personal time is equally important. Encouraging each other to pursue personal passions contributes to personal fulfilment and enriches your partnership. Engaging in hobbies, exercise, or social activities outside of parenting responsibilities helps maintain a sense of self and prevents burnout. Physical Intimacy and Affection Physical closeness, whether through intimacy, cuddling, or simple touch, plays a significant role in maintaining a strong relationship. While exhaustion and stress can impact a couple’s physical connection, making an effort to show affection can help strengthen emotional bonds. Small, meaningful touches, such as hugs or a gentle hand squeeze, can release oxytocin—the “bonding hormone”—which helps maintain emotional closeness. Conclusion By implementing these strategies, couples can navigate the challenges of parenthood while keeping their relationship strong and fulfilling. Parenthood brings about profound changes, but with open communication, shared responsibilities, and intentional efforts to prioritise your partnership, your relationship can thrive in this new chapter of life. Sources

April 30, 2025

Breaking the Good Kid/Bad Kid Labelling Cycle

Labelling children as “good” or “bad” is a common practice that can have significant implications on their development and self-perception. This dichotomous labelling not only oversimplifies complex behaviours but also influences how children view themselves and their abilities. Breaking this cycle requires a conscious effort from parents, educators, and caregivers to adopt more nuanced and supportive approaches to child development. Understanding the Impact of Labels Labels such as “good” or “bad” are often assigned based on a child’s behaviour in specific situations. While seemingly harmless, these labels can lead to: According to labelling theory, individuals subconsciously notice how others see or label them, and their reactions to these labels over time form the basis of their self-identity. It is through this social process of labelling that behaviours are reinforced, influencing an individual’s self-concept and social identity. (Wikipedia – Social Conditioning) The Role of Social Conditioning Social conditioning plays a significant role in how labels are assigned and perceived. From a young age, children are conditioned to conform to societal norms and expectations. Behaviours that align with these norms are often labeled as “good,” while those that deviate are labeled as “bad.” This conditioning can limit a child’s ability to express themselves authentically and develop a healthy self-concept. Margaret Mead’s theory of social development suggests that one’s identity is shaped by outside forces. While the self exists at birth, initial interactions influence the development of one’s identity. As individuals interact with various groups, starting with family and extending to friends, they develop their perception of self. This process highlights how external labelling can significantly impact self-identity. (Wikipedia – Social Conditioning) Moving Beyond Dichotomous Labels To break the cycle of labelling children as “good” or “bad,” consider the following strategies: 1. Focus on Specific Behaviours Instead of assigning labels, address specific behaviours. For example, instead of saying, “You are being bad,” say, “Running indoors can be dangerous; please walk.” This approach separates the child’s identity from their actions. 2. Use Positive Discipline Positive discipline focuses on guiding and teaching rather than punishing. It emphasises understanding the reasons behind a child’s behaviour and addressing underlying needs. This approach helps children learn appropriate behaviours without feeling shamed or labeled. (Wikipedia – Positive Discipline) 3. Encourage a Growth Mindset Promote the belief that abilities and behaviours can change with effort and learning. Encourage children to see challenges as opportunities for growth rather than as reflections of their character. 4. Provide Constructive Feedback Offer feedback that is specific, actionable, and focused on improvement. Instead of labelling a child as “good” or “bad,” provide guidance on how they can improve their behaviour or skills. 5. Model Desired Behaviours Children learn by observing adults. Model the behaviours you wish to see, and acknowledge your own mistakes to show that learning is a continuous process. 6. Avoid Comparisons Comparing children to their siblings or peers can reinforce labelling and negatively impact self-esteem. Focus on each child’s individual strengths and areas for growth. 7. Create an Inclusive Environment Foster an environment where all children feel valued and understood. Encourage empathy, cooperation, and respect among children to reduce the tendency to label each other. The Importance of Language The language used when communicating with children significantly impacts their self-perception. Common phrases, even when well-intentioned, can be problematic. For example: It’s crucial to use supportive, guiding language to foster children’s confidence and emotional well-being. (Parents – Things You Should Never Say to Your Child) Challenges in Modern Parenting Modern parenting trends often involve avoiding the word “no”, fearing it may harm children’s self-esteem or suppress their curiosity. However, experts emphasise the importance of setting boundaries for children’s safety and cooperation. The word “no,” when used thoughtfully, helps establish necessary limits and teaches cooperation, vital for future social interactions. Balancing warmth with boundaries is crucial for healthy child development. (The Guardian – Why “No” Became a Dirty Word in Parenting) Conclusion Breaking the cycle of labelling children as “good” or “bad” requires a conscious effort to focus on specific behaviours, use positive discipline, and promote a growth mindset. By being mindful of the language used and the potential impact of labels, parents, educators, and caregivers can foster healthier self-perceptions in children. This approach not only supports individual growth but also contributes to a more empathetic and understanding society. Sources

April 30, 2025

Why Playdates Are Just as Important for Parents as Kids

Playdates have long been recognised as essential for children’s social, emotional, and cognitive development. They offer opportunities for kids to engage in unstructured play, develop friendships, and learn vital social skills. However, the significance of playdates extends beyond the benefits they provide to children; they are equally crucial for parents. This article explores the multifaceted advantages of playdates for both children and their caregivers, highlighting how these interactions foster community, support mental health, and enhance parenting skills. Benefits of Playdates for Children Before delving into the advantages for parents, it’s essential to understand why playdates are vital for children: The Overlooked Benefits of Playdates for Parents While the advantages for children are well-documented, playdates also offer significant benefits for parents: Navigating Challenges in Parent Playdate Interactions While playdates offer numerous benefits, they can also present challenges for parents: Strategies to Maximise Playdate Benefits for Parents To fully harness the advantages of playdates, parents can consider the following strategies: Conclusion Playdates are more than just a time for children to play; they are pivotal in fostering a supportive community for parents. Through these interactions, parents can combat isolation, share knowledge, and build lasting relationships that enrich their parenting journey. Recognising and embracing the dual benefits of playdates can lead to a more connected, informed, and resilient parenting experience. Sources:

April 29, 2025

The Importance of Hydration for Growing Kids

Ensuring that children maintain proper hydration is crucial for their overall health and development. Water plays a vital role in numerous bodily functions, including temperature regulation, digestion, and cognitive performance. Despite its importance, many children do not consume adequate amounts of water daily, leading to potential health risks. This article delves into the significance of hydration for growing children, the recommended daily water intake, the consequences of dehydration, and practical strategies to encourage healthy drinking habits. The Role of Water in Children’s Health Water is indispensable for various physiological processes that are especially critical during a child’s growth years: Recommended Daily Water Intake for Children The amount of water a child needs can vary based on age, activity level, and environmental factors. While individual requirements may differ, general guidelines suggest: These recommendations include water from all sources, such as beverages and food. It’s important to note that active children or those in hot climates may require additional fluids to stay adequately hydrated. verywellhealth.com Consequences of Inadequate Hydration Failure to maintain proper hydration can lead to dehydration, which poses several health risks: Children are more susceptible to dehydration than adults due to their higher body water content and metabolic rate. Factors such as fever, vomiting, diarrhoea, and excessive sweating can exacerbate fluid loss. verywellhealth.com Strategies to Promote Healthy Hydration Habits Encouraging children to develop regular drinking habits is essential for preventing dehydration and promoting overall health: Addressing Challenges in Maintaining Hydration Despite best efforts, ensuring children drink enough water can be challenging: Recognising and Managing Dehydration Early identification of dehydration is crucial for prompt intervention: Conclusion Hydration plays a pivotal role in the health and development of growing children. By understanding the importance of adequate fluid intake and implementing practical strategies, parents and caregivers can foster healthy hydration habits that support children’s physical and cognitive well-being. Proactive measures, education, and attentive monitoring are key to ensuring children thrive in their daily activities. Sources

April 29, 2025

When Should Kids Start Doing Chores? Age-Appropriate Tasks

Introducing children to household chores at an early age fosters responsibility, independence, and a sense of contribution to the family unit. Assigning tasks that align with their developmental stage ensures safety and promotes skill development. Below is a guide to age-appropriate chores for children: Toddlers (Ages 2-3) Source: The Spruce Preschoolers (Ages 4-5) Source: WebMD Early Elementary (Ages 6-7) Source: American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Tweens (Ages 10-12) Source: GoHenry Teenagers (Ages 13-18) Source: Wonderful Life Farm Assigning chores not only aids in the smooth running of the household but also equips children with essential life skills, preparing them for future independence. Sources:

April 28, 2025

Cartoonito’s Movie Star Holidays – A Week of Animated Adventures!

This holiday season, Cartoonito Africa is bringing you a fun-filled movie marathon featuring some of your favorite animated stars! From Scooby-Doo’s mystery-solving escapades to Tom and Jerry’s hilarious chases and Looney Tunes adventures, there’s something for the whole family to enjoy. 🌟🎥 A Star-Studded Lineup! 📅 Monday, 28 April – Looney Tunes: Rabbit Run 🐰🏃Bugs Bunny is on the run in this fast-paced adventure, filled with classic Looney Tunes humor! 📅 Tuesday, 29 April – Tom and Jerry: The Magic Ring 💍🐱🐭When Jerry gets stuck with a powerful magic ring, Tom is in hot pursuit—leading to chaos and comedy! 📅 Wednesday, 30 April – LEGO Scooby-Doo! Blowout Beach Bash 🏖️👻Scooby and the gang head to a beach party, but ghosts turn their vacation into another spooky mystery! 📅 Thursday, 1 May – Tom and Jerry: Spy Quest 🕵️‍♂️💥Tom and Jerry team up with Jonny Quest for an action-packed spy adventure! 📅 Friday, 2 May – Scooby-Doo! Triple Feature! 👀👻 📅 Saturday, 3 May – Tom and Jerry: Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory 🍫🎩Tom and Jerry take on the sweetest adventure of all in a wacky retelling of the beloved classic! 📅 Sunday, 4 May – King Tweety 👑🐦Tweety takes the royal spotlight in this hilarious full-length adventure! When & Where to Watch? 📅 Premiere Date: Monday, 28 April 2025📺 Tune-in: Every day @ 09:40 CAT⏳ Final movie: Sunday, 4 May 2025 Don’t Miss This Holiday Movie Marathon! With hilarious hijinks, thrilling adventures, and mystery-solving fun, Cartoonito’s Movie Star Holidays is the perfect way to enjoy the holidays! Gather the family and tune in every morning for a new animated blockbuster! 🍿🎥✨

April 28, 2025

Why Kids Love Watching the Same Shows on Repeat (and Why It’s Okay)

Children often exhibit a strong preference for watching the same television shows repeatedly, a behaviour that can puzzle and sometimes concern parents. However, this tendency is rooted in developmental benefits and serves various psychological and cognitive functions. Understanding the reasons behind this repetitive viewing can help parents appreciate its value and manage screen time effectively. The Comfort of Familiarity Repetition provides children with a sense of predictability and security. In a world that is often new and unpredictable to them, familiar shows offer a safe environment where they know what to expect. This familiarity can be especially comforting during times of change or stress, helping to regulate emotions and provide stability. Enhancing Comprehension and Learning Repeated viewing allows children to grasp narratives and concepts more deeply. Each repetition offers an opportunity to understand the storyline better, recognise nuances, and anticipate outcomes, which enhances comprehension skills. This process mirrors how repetition is used in educational settings to reinforce learning. For instance, the children’s program “Blue’s Clues” was designed with repetition in mind. Research indicated that repeated viewings of the same episode improved children’s problem-solving abilities and increased audience participation. Children became more skilled at solving similar problems not presented in the episode after multiple viewings. This approach demonstrated that repetition could foster empowerment and engagement in young viewers. en.wikipedia.org Building Confidence and Mastery When children watch the same show repeatedly, they become familiar with the content, which can boost their confidence. Anticipating what happens next and understanding character motivations provide a sense of mastery. This mastery is satisfying and encourages them to apply similar skills in new situations, promoting cognitive development. Emotional Regulation and Coping Mechanism Familiar shows can serve as a tool for emotional regulation. Children may turn to beloved programs to soothe themselves when they are upset or anxious. The predictability of the content provides a calming effect, helping them manage their emotions more effectively. Parental Perspectives and Nostalgia Many parents are turning to TV shows from the ’90s and early 2000s for their children as a gentler alternative to today’s stimulating programming. Classic shows like “Franklin,” “Little Bear,” and “Max & Ruby” offer a calming and soothing viewing experience, appealing to parents seeking a break from fast-paced content. These slower-paced shows can enhance children’s focus and emotional regulation, making them developmentally beneficial. parents.com Cognitive Benefits of Repetitive Viewing Watching certain types of television content, such as game shows like “Jeopardy!” and “Wheel of Fortune,” can boost cognitive health. These shows enhance problem-solving skills, improve memory, and strengthen the mind by requiring viewers to pay close attention and process information quickly. Engaging in these activities can boost mental acuity and help with accessing stored information faster, which is particularly beneficial for older adults. nypost.com Recommendations for Parents While repetitive viewing has its benefits, it’s essential to maintain a balanced media diet. Here are some recommendations for parents: In conclusion, children’s inclination to watch the same shows repeatedly is a natural behaviour that supports various aspects of their development. Recognising the benefits of this repetition can help parents make informed decisions about media consumption and appreciate the positive role it plays in their child’s growth. Sources

April 25, 2025

Discover the Magic of Twinkl Literary Classics for Little Learners

Step into a world of wonder and imagination with the Twinkl Literary Classics for Little Learners range — a beautifully curated collection of timeless tales thoughtfully adapted to ignite a love of reading in young children. This range offers a gentle introduction to some of literature’s most cherished stories, designed to nurture curiosity, empathy, and a lifelong passion for books. Why Introduce Classic Literature to Little Learners? In an age where digital distractions are everywhere, sharing classic stories with children opens a door to rich storytelling traditions, diverse cultures, and timeless life lessons. These beloved tales connect readers to historical contexts, moral dilemmas, and universal themes, helping children explore complex emotions and understand the world through different perspectives. Reading classic literature at a young age can also enhance language development and vocabulary, introducing children to beautiful, expressive language they may not encounter elsewhere. The vivid imagery and memorable characters spark imagination and creativity, encouraging children to dream big and think beyond their immediate surroundings. Moreover, these stories help build resilience and moral reasoning as children witness characters navigating challenges, making difficult decisions, and growing through adversity. This not only fosters empathy but also empowers young readers to see themselves as capable of kindness, bravery, and perseverance in their own lives. Thoughtfully Adapted for Young Readers The Twinkl Literary Classics for Little Learners range carefully reimagines classic tales to suit young audiences. We’ve simplified intricate subplots, adjusted complex themes, and ensured the language remains accessible and engaging for early readers — all while preserving the heart and essence of each original story. Sensitive and Age-Appropriate Storytelling We understand that some classic tales touch on challenging themes like loss, conflict, or hardship. Rest assured, any sensitive content has been handled with care, softened to align with the emotional maturity of younger readers. When pivotal to the plot, these themes are presented gently, providing an opportunity for meaningful conversations without overwhelming little minds. Shared Reading and Meaningful Conversations Reading these stories together can be a special bonding experience. As you turn the pages with your child, you can explore big ideas, answer curious questions, and encourage thoughtful discussions. This shared experience helps foster critical thinking and emotional growth, allowing children to reflect on the story’s characters, choices, and underlying messages. Sparking a Lifelong Love of Literature Above all, the Twinkl Literary Classics for Little Learners range is designed to inspire joy and wonder. We hope these adaptations become treasured favourites in your home, laying the foundation for a lifetime of literary exploration. After all, stories have the power to captivate, comfort, and empower — and every child deserves the chance to discover the magic of books. The range of Twinkl Literary Classics for Little Learners can be found here: https://www.twinkl.co.za/l/yxsux

April 25, 2025

Why Kids Need More Outdoor Play (and How to Make It Happen)

In today’s fast-paced, technology-driven world, children are spending more time indoors than ever before. Increased screen time, structured schedules, and safety concerns have contributed to a decline in outdoor play. However, outdoor play is crucial for a child’s physical, mental, and emotional well-being. It promotes healthy development, enhances social skills, and fosters a deeper connection with the natural world. This article explores the importance of outdoor play and provides practical ways for parents and educators to encourage kids to spend more time outside. The Benefits of Outdoor Play 1. Physical Health and Development Outdoor play provides children with plenty of opportunities for movement, which is essential for their physical health. Activities such as running, climbing, jumping, and balancing improve: According to the Centre’s for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), children should get at least 60 minutes of physical activity per day to support healthy growth and development【1】. Outdoor play naturally encourages kids to be active, reducing their risk of childhood obesity and related health issues. 2. Mental and Emotional Well-Being Spending time in nature has been linked to reduced stress, anxiety, and depression. Studies show that exposure to green spaces improves children’s mood, concentration, and self-esteem. The American Psychological Association (APA) highlights that outdoor play helps regulate emotions, making children more resilient in handling everyday challenges【2】. Additionally, children who engage in unstructured outdoor play experience lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol, helping them feel calmer and more balanced【3】. 3. Cognitive and Academic Benefits Outdoor play stimulates curiosity, creativity, and problem-solving skills. When children explore nature, they encounter new sights, sounds, and textures, encouraging critical thinking and sensory development. Research from Harvard University suggests that time spent outdoors improves attention span and memory, which translates to better performance in school【4】. Activities such as building forts, observing insects, and playing in the dirt ignite a child’s imagination and encourage self-directed learning. 4. Social Skills and Emotional Intelligence Outdoor play provides opportunities for children to interact with peers, develop friendships, and practice cooperation. Through group games, role-playing, and shared adventures, kids learn essential social skills such as: Studies show that children who engage in regular outdoor play are more likely to develop strong interpersonal skills and form positive relationships【5】. 5. Connection to Nature and Environmental Awareness Regular exposure to nature helps children develop a sense of responsibility and appreciation for the environment. Kids who spend time outdoors are more likely to: According to the National Wildlife Federation, children who play outside frequently are more likely to care about protecting the planet as they grow【6】. Barriers to Outdoor Play Despite its numerous benefits, many children struggle to get enough outdoor time. Some common barriers include: Understanding these barriers is the first step toward creating solutions that encourage outdoor play. How to Encourage More Outdoor Play 1. Make Outdoor Play a Daily Habit 2. Provide Engaging Outdoor Activities Make outdoor play fun and exciting by offering different activities, such as: These activities stimulate creativity and keep kids engaged. 3. Organise Playdates and Group Activities Children are more likely to enjoy outdoor play when they have friends to play with. Plan: Social play helps kids develop relationships and look forward to outdoor activities. 4. Create an Inviting Outdoor Space Make your backyard or local park a fun and safe environment for play: A child-friendly space encourages regular outdoor engagement. 5. Lead by Example Children imitate adult behaviour, so if they see parents enjoying outdoor activities, they’ll be more inclined to join. 6. Limit Screen Time To create a balance between screen time and outdoor play: Conclusion Outdoor play is not just a fun pastime—it’s a critical part of a child’s development. It supports physical health, mental well-being, social skills, and cognitive growth. Unfortunately, modern lifestyles have significantly reduced children’s exposure to nature and free play, but parents and educators can take intentional steps to reintroduce outdoor activities. Sources

April 24, 2025

Pokémon Horizons: A New Season of Adventure Awaits!

The journey continues in the exciting new season of Pokémon Horizons, as Liko and Roy set out on a global quest to uncover the mysteries of the Six Hero Pokémon and the legendary land of Laqua. But along the way, new challenges and powerful opponents will put their Pokémon Trainer skills to the test like never before! New Challenges and Powerful Battles Await! As Liko, Roy, and their friend Dot continue their adventure, they encounter a thrilling new challenge—Tera Training! 🌟🔥 To grow as stronger Trainers, they must master Terastallization and battle against some of the region’s toughest Gym Leaders. But their journey isn’t just about training. The Rising Volt Tacklers are also resuming their pursuit of the legendary Six Heroes, including the black Rayquaza. As they race to uncover the secrets of Terapagos, they must outmaneuver the Explorers, who are determined to find Laqua first! When & Where to Watch? 📅 Premiere Date: Saturday, 26 April 2025📺 Tune-in: Weekends @ 10:15 CAT🎥 Episodes: Season 2, Episodes 1-15 (15×22’) Don’t Miss This Epic Pokémon Adventure! With powerful battles, new discoveries, and high-stakes rivalries, this season of Pokémon Horizons is not to be missed! Join Liko, Roy, and their Pokémon partners as they push their limits, unlock new abilities, and search for legendary secrets in this action-packed new season!

April 24, 2025

How to Help Your Child Through Friendship Struggles

Friendships play a pivotal role in a child’s emotional and social development. They provide companionship, support, and a sense of belonging. However, it’s common for children to encounter challenges in their friendships, leading to feelings of isolation or distress. As a parent, understanding how to support your child through these struggles is essential for fostering resilience and social competence. Understanding the Importance of Friendships in Childhood Friendships during childhood are more than just playmates; they are fundamental to a child’s growth: Given these benefits, it’s concerning that recent studies indicate many children face difficulties in forming and maintaining friendships. A poll by C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital revealed that one in five parents reported their child had few or no friends, with 90% of these children expressing a desire for more friendships. parents.com Common Friendship Challenges Among Children Children may experience various obstacles in their social interactions: Understanding these challenges is the first step in providing effective support to your child. Strategies to Support Your Child Through Friendship Struggles Navigating Parental Involvement Balancing involvement in your child’s social life is crucial. Overstepping can hinder their ability to develop independent social skills, while under-involvement may leave them feeling unsupported. The key is to guide without controlling, offering support while allowing your child to navigate their social world. A recent poll indicated that many parents are concerned about their children’s friendships, with some organising playdates or enrolling their children in activities to facilitate social connections. However, experts emphasise the importance of allowing children to form their own friendships to develop autonomy and social competence. parents.com Understanding Modern Challenges: The “Too Cool” Culture Recent trends, such as the emergence of the “Too Cool” (TC) culture, have introduced new challenges in children’s social landscapes. This phenomenon involves exclusive cliques that engage in behaviours like bullying, leading to increased anxiety and social issues among children. Experts highlight the role of social media in exacerbating these behaviours, making it essential for parents to educate their children about healthy friendships and the impact of exclusionary behaviours. couriermail.com.au The Role of Schools in Supporting Friendships Educational institutions play a significant role in fostering healthy peer relationships. Many schools implement programs that promote emotional intelligence, empathy, and conflict resolution skills. Collaborate with your child’s school to ensure they are receiving support in developing these essential skills. Conclusion Helping your child navigate friendship struggles is a multifaceted process that involves open communication, teaching essential social skills, and providing appropriate support while encouraging independence. By understanding the challenges and implementing supportive strategies, you can empower your child to build and maintain meaningful friendships that contribute to their overall well-being. Sources

April 24, 2025

Autism Awareness Month: Autism Spectrum Disorder and the Need for Effective School Alternatives

Autism spectrum disorder. It’s a complex topic, to say the least, and one that presents countless challenges to the parents, caregivers and teachers of affected children. While designated days like World Autism Awareness Day in April is an important part of creating awareness about autism, the challenges remain plentiful. Not least among the challenges is finding a suitable school for the child on the spectrum. The reality for many hundreds of children on the spectrum is that they simply have to cope in a mainstream environment, due to the lack of options. One alternative in this regard is home and online learning as it provides structured, curriculum-aligned education that can simply and effectively be tailored to meet the individual needs of the learner in question. Education today is about putting the needs of the learner first, which starts with the acknowledgement that the days of a one-size-fits-all approach are both outdated and simply no longer necessary. Alternative options, like homeschooling, bear exploring if we are serious about ensuring our children get a relevant education, while taking the needs of the learner and his/her family into consideration. A common concern for parents considering homeschooling is whether their child will miss out on social experiences. The reality is that home and online schooled learners often have more flexibility to engage in activities outside of a school setting. Joining homeschooling groups, sports clubs, or online communities can help learners build strong social connections. For families with children involved in sports, music, or other demanding activities, home and online schooling provides the flexibility to balance education with personal passions. It also allows for real-life learning experiences that bring lessons to life in ways that textbooks cannot. Importantly, homeschooling does not mean children need to be formally educated by their parents. Parents, or caregivers, play a supporting role in homeschooling, and do not need to take on the role of teacher. One of the biggest challenges in traditional schooling is that every child is expected to learn at the same speed. Some children grasp concepts quickly and feel unchallenged, while others need more time and may fall behind. Homeschooling removes these pressures, allowing learners to master subjects at their own pace. This creates a deeper understanding of the material and fosters a love for learning, rather than just studying to pass exams. Unlike in a traditional school where subject choices can be limited by resources, home and online schooling offers learners more flexibility to explore their interests. Whether it’s advanced mathematics, coding, creative arts, or entrepreneurship, learners have the freedom to shape their education in a way that aligns with their future aspirations. This personalised approach makes learning more meaningful and engaging. Ultimately, parents know what’s best for their child. If homeschooling aligns with your family’s needs, trust your decision and embrace the flexibility, quality, and opportunity it offers. By Louise Schoonwinkel, MD at Optimi Schooling of which Impaq is a registered trademark

April 23, 2025

Mom Brain is Real – Here’s Why and How to Cope

The term “mom brain” often refers to the forgetfulness and mental fog that many mothers experience during pregnancy and postpartum. While sometimes used humorously, this phenomenon has scientific underpinnings that validate its existence. Understanding the causes of “mom brain” and adopting effective coping strategies can help mothers navigate this challenging period. Understanding “Mom Brain” During pregnancy and the postpartum period, women undergo significant hormonal fluctuations that lead to structural and functional changes in the brain. Research indicates that these changes, such as reductions in grey matter volume, are associated with enhanced maternal behaviours and emotional bonding with the infant. These adaptations prepare mothers for the demands of caregiving but can also result in cognitive changes commonly referred to as “mom brain.” parents.com Additionally, the transition to motherhood involves new responsibilities, sleep deprivation, and increased stress, all of which can contribute to feelings of mental fog and forgetfulness. Coping Strategies for “Mom Brain” Recognising that “mom brain” is a real and common experience can alleviate self-imposed pressure. By implementing these strategies, mothers can support their cognitive health during this transformative period. Sources:

April 23, 2025

Teaching Kids About Personal Space and Boundaries

Understanding and respecting personal space is a fundamental social skill that children need to develop for healthy interactions. Teaching these concepts early fosters empathy, self-awareness, and respectful relationships. Understanding Personal Space Personal space refers to the physical area surrounding an individual that they consider their own. Encroachment into this space without consent can lead to discomfort or anxiety. Children may not inherently understand these boundaries, making it essential to teach them explicitly. Strategies for Teaching Personal Space and Boundaries By implementing these strategies, parents and educators can effectively teach children about personal space and boundaries, promoting respectful and empathetic interactions. Sources:

April 23, 2025

Every Child Belongs: Growing Hearts and Minds at Dibber

“Parenting in the early years is an adventure. One moment, you’re watching your child turn snack time into a science experiment, and the next, you’re untangling playground disagreements. But beyond the daily chaos, one of the most valuable lessons we can teach our children is how to embrace others—quirks and all. “At Dibber, we believe in nurturing hearts and minds for the future. That means raising children who don’t just exist alongside others but truly see, value, and respect them. Inclusion isn’t just a concept—it’s a way of life, and it starts in early childhood. “As an educator, a special needs parent, and someone who is autistic myself, I understand inclusion from multiple perspectives. I’ve seen firsthand the joy and growth that happens when children are given the space to connect with those who experience the world differently. But I’ve also encountered moments that remind me of the work still to be done—like when a parent once said, “That child has something wrong in his head and needs to be removed” about my son. Statements like this come from a place of misunderstanding, and that’s exactly why we need to keep having these conversations. “We all see our children as perfect in their own way. But every child has challenges, a unique way of thinking, and moments of joy and struggle. Some differences stand out more than others, and too often, children who communicate, learn, or express emotions differently are misunderstood. Rather than approaching differences with fear or judgment, we can choose curiosity and kindness. “Early childhood is the foundation of lifelong learning. If we want to build a more inclusive society, we have to start by fostering inclusion in the places where children spend their earliest years. At Dibber, we see every child as competent and full of potential. That means we don’t just include children with diverse needs—we celebrate them. “If your child has a disagreement with another, instead of immediately assigning blame, take a moment to ask, “What happened?” Encourage them to consider different perspectives. Autism, ADHD, sensory processing differences—these aren’t things to be ‘fixed.’ They are simply different ways of experiencing the world, and when we talk about them openly, they become a natural part of life. “Children naturally gravitate toward those who are similar to them, but true growth happens when they form relationships with those who see the world differently. When we help children build friendships based on understanding rather than sameness, we give them a skill that will serve them for life. “Imagine telling a child who wears glasses that they can’t be part of a school because their eyesight isn’t ‘normal.’ It sounds absurd. Yet, when it comes to neurodivergent children, exclusion still happens too often. The truth is that inclusive education benefits everyone. It teaches patience, adaptability, and social skills that matter in the real world. Like our communities, our schools should reflect diversity’s beauty—not just a narrow version of it. “To the parent who once questioned my child’s place in school, let me reassure you: His mind is just fine. In fact, it’s filled with creativity, curiosity, and insights that might surprise you. The real challenge isn’t his brain—it’s a world that sometimes struggles to make room for different kinds of minds. “So, if your child has a neurodivergent classmate, take a moment. Instead of jumping to conclusions, encourage them to ask questions and be open. Teach them to be kind, not cautious, to be inclusive, not indifferent. Because one day, they will grow up and enter a world filled with people who think and experience life in all sorts of ways. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if they were prepared for that? Imagine if a child knew how valuable they are. “Inclusion isn’t about charity; it’s about humanity. As parents and educators, we have the power to raise a generation that sees the value in every mind, every perspective, and every person. Let’s make the most of that opportunity. “One day, your child may have a friend who communicates differently, a colleague who approaches problems from a new angle, or a partner who sees the world in a unique way. The empathy and understanding they learn now will shape how they navigate life later. So, let’s teach them to appreciate—not just accept—differences. Because the world isn’t made for only one kind of mind, and neither should our schools, our communities, or our hearts.” By Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead, Dibber South Africa

April 22, 2025

YouTube vs. Kids’ Brains: How to Balance Screen Time

In today’s digital age, platforms like YouTube have become integral to children’s lives, offering educational content, entertainment, and avenues for creativity. However, excessive screen time has raised concerns among parents, educators, and health professionals regarding its impact on children’s cognitive development, physical health, and overall well-being. Striking a balance between the benefits of digital media and the potential risks associated with prolonged screen exposure is crucial. The Appeal of YouTube to Young Minds YouTube’s vast array of content caters to various interests, making it particularly appealing to children. From educational videos and tutorials to entertainment and gaming channels, the platform offers endless possibilities for exploration. This diversity, coupled with the platform’s algorithmic recommendations, can lead to extended viewing periods, often without children realising the passage of time. Potential Impacts of Excessive Screen Time While digital platforms provide valuable resources, excessive screen time can have several adverse effects on children: Expert Recommendations for Screen Time Health organisations have provided guidelines to help parents manage their children’s screen time: The Role of YouTube Kids To address concerns about inappropriate content, YouTube launched YouTube Kids, a platform designed to offer child-friendly videos. However, reports have highlighted that even on this platform, some harmful content can slip through its filters. Paediatricians recommend that parents manually adjust settings and remain vigilant about the content their children access. parents.com Strategies for Balancing Screen Time Achieving a healthy balance between screen time and other activities involves several strategies: The Importance of Open Communication Engaging in open dialogues with children about screen time is essential. Discussing the reasons behind screen time limits and involving children in setting these boundaries can lead to better adherence and understanding. Experts emphasise that instead of imposing rigid limits, focusing on balancing screen use with other activities and involving kids in creating boundaries fosters healthier habits. parents.com Conclusion YouTube and similar platforms offer valuable content that can contribute positively to children’s development when used appropriately. However, it is imperative to balance screen time with other essential activities to ensure holistic growth. By setting clear boundaries, encouraging diverse activities, and maintaining open communication, parents can help their children navigate the digital world safely and healthily.

April 22, 2025

What’s in a Baby’s Name? The Psychology Behind Name Choices

Choosing a baby’s name is a significant decision that reflects cultural, social, and personal factors. This article explores the psychological aspects influencing how parents select names for their children. 1. Cultural and Societal Influences Names often mirror societal trends and cultural values. For instance, the recent shift among celebrities toward traditional names like “Jack” indicates a desire for stability and familiarity in uncertain times. The Sun 2. Implicit Egotism and the Name-Letter Effect Psychological research suggests that individuals have a preference for letters in their own names, a phenomenon known as the “name-letter effect.” This implicit egotism can influence major life decisions, including career choices and places of residence. en.wikipedia.org 3. Nominative Determinism The concept of nominative determinism proposes that people might gravitate toward professions that fit their names. While debated, some studies suggest that a person’s name can influence their life choices and behaviours. en.wikipedia.org 4. Desire for Uniqueness vs. Tradition Parents often balance the desire for unique names with traditional ones. The trend of choosing “Ivy League” names exemplifies this, where names like “Brooks” and “Vivienne” are selected for their classic charm and perceived sophistication. nypost.com 5. Family Dynamics and Emotional Connections Family relationships and emotions play a crucial role in naming decisions. For example, some parents wish to honour deceased relatives by naming their children after them, which can lead to complex family discussions. parents.com 6. Socioeconomic Aspirations Names can reflect parents’ aspirations for their children. Choosing names associated with success or higher social status can be a way for parents to express their hopes for their child’s future. Conclusion The psychology behind baby name choices is multifaceted, influenced by cultural trends, personal preferences, societal norms, and psychological phenomena. Understanding these factors can provide insight into how names shape and reflect individual identities.

April 22, 2025

Educ8 SA – Family and Education

Homeschooling provides a unique opportunity for families to bond and instill valuable life skills and principles in their children. Here are some ways homeschooling can help build great family values: 1. Quality Time Homeschooling allows parents to spend quality time with their children, strengthening their relationships and creating lasting memories. 2. Shared Values By homeschooling, parents can pass on their values, beliefs, and principles to their children, helping shape their moral compass and character. 3. Character Development Homeschooling provides opportunities for children to develop important life skills like responsibility, self-discipline, and time management. 4. Emotional Intelligence The close relationships formed through homeschooling help children develop emotional intelligence, empathy, and social skills. 5. Resilience and Adaptability Homeschooling teaches children to be adaptable, resilient, and flexible, essential qualities for navigating life’s challenges. 6. Family Traditions Homeschooling allows families to create and maintain meaningful traditions, fostering a sense of identity and belonging. 7. Community Involvement Many homeschooling families participate in community service projects, teaching children the value of giving back and social responsibility. 8. Parental Involvement Homeschooling enables parents to be actively involved in their children’s education, providing guidance, support, and encouragement. 9. Sibling Bonding Homeschooling provides opportunities for siblings to bond and develop lifelong relationships, built on shared experiences and memories. 10. Lasting Memories Homeschooling creates a treasure trove of memories, from field trips and projects to family learning experiences and milestones. By incorporating these values into their homeschooling journey, families can create a nurturing environment that fosters academic excellence, personal growth, and lasting family bonds. The Benefits of Studying through Educ8 SA In today’s fast-paced and ever-evolving world, accessing quality education has become more important than ever. Educ8 SA, as a leading education provider in South Africa, we offer a range of benefits to students who choose to study through our platform. Flexible Learning Our online and distance learning model provides students with the flexibility to study at their own pace, anytime and anywhere. This means that students can balance their studies with work, family, or other responsibilities, making it easier to achieve their educational goals. Access to Quality Education We partner with top institutions and industry experts to provide students with access to high-quality education. Their courses are designed to meet the needs of the modern workplace, ensuring that students gain relevant skills and knowledge that are in demand. Affordable Education We offer affordable education options, making it possible for students to access quality education without breaking the bank. Their payment plans and financial assistance options also provide students with peace of mind, knowing that they can manage their finances while studying. Personalised Support We provide students with personalised support throughout their studies. From academic support to career guidance, students have access to a team of dedicated professionals who are committed to helping them succeed. Career Opportunities Our course are designed to prepare students for the modern workplace. With a focus on practical skills and industry-relevant knowledge, students are equipped to take on new challenges and pursue exciting career opportunities. Studying through Educ8 SA offers a range of benefits that can help students achieve their educational and career goals. With flexible learning, access to quality education, affordable education options, personalised support, and career opportunities, Educ8 SA is the perfect choice for students who want to succeed in today’s fast-paced world. Join the Educ8 SA community today and start achieving your dreams!

April 18, 2025

Celebrate Easter with Cartoonito Africa! A Special Holiday Lineup for the Whole Family

This Easter, Cartoonito Africa is bringing families a joy-filled celebration with a special selection of episodes from some of your favorite shows! 🌸🐰🎉 Whether you love adventure, laughter, or heartwarming stories, there’s something for everyone in this egg-citing Easter lineup! What’s in Store? 🐻 Grizzy and the Lemmings – Get ready for hilarious chaos as Grizzy takes on the mischievous Lemmings in their never-ending battle for fun! 🐻 Masha and the Bear – Follow Masha’s playful adventures with her lovable bear friend in these charming tales of friendship. 🚧 Bugs Bunny Builders – Join Bugs and his Looney crew as they build, fix, and create in their fun-filled world of construction! 🚂 Thomas & Friends – Hop aboard for exciting railway adventures with Thomas and his locomotive pals. 🎶 Cocomelon – Sing, dance, and learn with JJ and friends in these cheerful, educational episodes. 🕷 Lucas the Spider – Step into the adorable world of Lucas, the curious little spider, as he discovers the joys of everyday life. 🌈 Lu & the Bally Bunch – Celebrate the power of friendship and imagination with Lu and the Bally Bunch! 👶 Baby Looney Tunes – The Looney Tunes gang like you’ve never seen them before—adorable, mischievous, and full of Easter fun! 🌊 Zig & Sharko – Expect wild antics and crazy chases as Zig tries (and fails!) to outsmart Sharko once again! Don’t Miss the Feature Film – King Tweety! 👑🐦 📺 Following the special lineup, enjoy the animated movie King Tweety at 12:20 CAT! Watch as Tweety takes center stage in a royal adventure like never before! When & Where to Watch? 📅 Premiere Date: Monday, 21 April 2025📺 Tune-in Starts: Monday, 21 April 2025 from 09:00 CAT⏳ Final Day: Monday, 21 April 2025 Make this Easter extra special with Cartoonito Africa’s Easter celebration—where laughter, adventure, and fun-filled moments await the whole family! 🌸🐣✨

April 17, 2025

Teen Titans Go! See Space Jam – A Hilarious Watch Party with the Titans!

Get ready for out-of-this-world laughs as the Teen Titans take on Space Jam in Teen Titans Go! See Space Jam! 🚀🏀 This action-packed crossover brings together the iconic Nerdlucks (the Space Jam villains) and the Titans for a movie night like no other! What’s the Story? The Nerdlucks, the sneaky little aliens who once tried to capture Michael Jordan and the Looney Tunes, arrive at Titan Tower. To Cyborg’s shock, his fellow Titans have never seen Space Jam! Determined to fix this, he organizes a special watch party, where each Titan brings their own unique take on the film: 🎬 Cyborg – Drops fun facts and trivia 🧐😂 Raven & Starfire – Provide hilarious commentary 🎤🍑 Beast Boy – Keeps track of all the “butt shots” (because someone has to) 🤦‍♂️😡 Robin – Doesn’t trust the Nerdlucks and is convinced they have a sinister plan! 👀 Are the Nerdlucks just innocent movie buffs, or are they up to something sneaky? You’ll have to tune in to find out! When & Where to Watch? 📅 Launch Date: Friday, 18 April 2025📺 Tune-in: Friday, 18 April 2025 from 11:00 CAT🔁 Missed it? Watch the repeat!📅 Sunday, 20 April 2025 @ 9:10 CAT Don’t Miss This Hilarious Crossover! With action, comedy, and plenty of Looney chaos, Teen Titans Go! See Space Jam is a must-watch event for superhero and basketball fans alike! Don’t miss out on this laugh-out-loud adventure! 🏀🚀

April 17, 2025

Why Reading with Your Child Matters

Many parents treasure bedtime stories as part of their child’s nighttime routine. It’s a cherished moment to snuggle up and unwind after a busy day, but the benefits of reading together go far beyond relaxation. With World Book Day 2025 on the horizon in April, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the incredible impact reading can have on your child’s development — and to discover the wonderful world of Twinkl’s Book Boma collection. The Magic of a Bedtime Story Setting the Tone for Sleep: A predictable bedtime routine is essential for children, helping them transition from a day full of activity to a calm and restful state. Reading a story signals to their brain that it’s time to wind down, promoting better sleep — especially when this routine is consistent. Building Language and Vocabulary: Storytime exposes children to new words and phrases, enriching their vocabulary and strengthening communication skills in a natural, engaging way. Fostering a Love for Reading: Reading regularly with your child can cultivate a lifelong passion for books. Letting them choose a story or two adds excitement and ownership to the experience, encouraging them to look forward to reading. Boosting Listening Skills: Sitting still and paying attention to a story helps children develop their listening abilities — an essential skill for learning and social interactions. Strengthening Parent-Child Bonds: The closeness of cuddling up with a story makes children feel loved and secure. This one-on-one time nurtures your relationship and provides your child with the attention they crave. Lowering Stress and Anxiety: The soothing sound of a parent’s voice can calm an anxious mind. Reading aloud provides comfort and security, promoting relaxation and emotional well-being. Creating a Safe Space for Conversations: For older children, reading together can open the door to important conversations. A story might spark discussions about school, friendships, or feelings they might otherwise struggle to express. Accessing Books Doesn’t Have to Be Expensive You don’t need to spend a fortune to build a home library. Public libraries are treasure troves of stories, and second-hand bookshops are filled with affordable finds. But if you’re looking for a convenient, digital option, Twinkl’s Book Boma collection offers an amazing range of ebooks — perfect for reading on tablets or computers. These books are designed to engage young readers with captivating stories and beautiful illustrations, making them ideal for bedtime or anytime reading. Plus, they’re easily accessible, so you can browse and pick a story together without leaving home. Celebrate World Book Day 2025 with Your Child World Book Day, celebrated annually, is a global event dedicated to the joy of reading. It’s a wonderful opportunity to introduce your child to new books, dress up as their favourite characters, and participate in fun reading activities. Why not mark the occasion by exploring Twinkl’s Book Boma collection or visiting your book store? You could even start a new tradition of reading a special story every World Book Day — creating memories that last a lifetime. At the heart of it all, reading with your child is about connection. It’s about sharing laughter, adventures, and precious moments that strengthen your bond. Whether you’re discovering a brand-new ebook or revisiting an old favourite, the time you spend reading together is a gift that will shape your child’s future. So, grab a book, snuggle up, and let the stories begin — because every page turned is a step toward a brighter, more imaginative world. Learn more at : https://www.twinkl.co.za/l/17wjho

April 17, 2025

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