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Putting together your birth plan

As you enter your third trimester you’ll have probably done a fair bit of research on the birth process (if this is your first) and may have a good idea of what you want before, during and after delivery. There are many options and opinions, from whether or not you want pain medication to how many people you would like supporting you. However, trying to keep track of your choices during labour may be tricky, which is why you’d put together a birth plan. So what exactly is it and how do you put one together? Why should I put together a birth plan?  Your birth plan is your choices or preferences before, during and after labour and delivery. While things may not always go according to plan, having your preferences written down and communicated means you, your midwives and doctor have a more mutual understanding. However, if your pregnancy doesn’t go accordingly, you need to be prepared to make adjustments on the day. What should be in my birth plan? Your birth plan is how you’d like everything would go in the best-case scenario. Your birth plan will also have to take into consideration what is available at the hospital or place where you are giving birth. Some birth plans are very basic, just outlining a simple overview, whereas others may be far more detailed and in-depth. The choice is yours. Typically a birth plan will include before, during and after labour and birth preferences. Such as who you want to assist you during birth, whether or not you want any pain medication,  you birthing positions, and requests for newborn care, such as skin-to-skin time. How can I learn more about the birth process?  If you feel like you need to top up your birthing knowledge before putting together a plan they are a few ways you can go about this. Joining antenatal classes are a good way to learn more and to meet other women in your position. Chatting to friends or family who has been through the birthing process themselves is another good way to see what would work best for you. If you and your partner are having a baby together, keep them in the loop as well. Find out what they expect during labour and you can chat about what you want, and what role you see them playing in the process.

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How to Maintain a Healthy Routine During Pregnancy

Pregnancy is a transformative journey, bringing excitement, anticipation, and new responsibilities. Maintaining a healthy routine during this time not only supports your physical and mental well-being but also promotes optimal growth and development for your baby. A balanced routine helps manage energy levels, mood swings, and common pregnancy discomforts. Here’s a guide to creating a sustainable and nourishing routine throughout your pregnancy. 1. Prioritise Balanced Nutrition Eating well is foundational: 2. Incorporate Regular, Safe Exercise Exercise has physical and mental benefits during pregnancy: 3. Establish a Sleep Routine Quality sleep supports both mother and baby: 4. Manage Stress and Mental Well-being Pregnancy hormones can intensify stress and mood changes: 5. Routine Medical Checkups Regular prenatal visits are critical: 6. Organise Your Day Structure creates balance and predictability: 7. Stay Educated and Inspired Knowledge empowers confident parenting: Final Thoughts A healthy routine during pregnancy is about balance, not perfection. Prioritising nutrition, gentle movement, quality sleep, stress management, and medical care ensures both mother and baby thrive. By creating a structured yet flexible routine, expectant parents can navigate pregnancy with confidence, comfort, and joy. Sources:

Sanosan

Why Less Is More When It Comes To Understanding Newborn Skin

A baby’s skin is delicate, unique, and still developing — and sometimes, too much care can do more harm than good. Newborn skin: soft, squishy, and oh-so-kissable. But behind that perfect glow is something many new parents don’t know — a baby’s skin barrier is still a work in progress, and it needs a very different kind of care from ours. “People assume baby skin is just miniature adult skin — but that couldn’t be further from the truth,” says Karen Van Resnburg, brand manager at Sanosan South Africa. “It’s thinner, more sensitive, and far more vulnerable to damage.” Understanding how baby skin functions is the first step to protecting it — and when it comes to keeping it healthy, the golden rule is simple: less is more. At birth, a baby’s skin is still adjusting to life outside the womb. For nine months, they’ve been cocooned in a perfectly warm, moist environment. Once exposed to air, their skin must start regulating temperature, absorbing moisture, and defending against germs — all on its own. Here’s what makes baby skin so different: Newborns don’t get dirty the way adults do. They’re not running around, sweating, or exposed to pollution. Yet many parents instinctively reach for soaps, bubble baths, and wipes multiple times a day — thinking more cleaning equals better care. “The truth is, over-washing can strip a baby’s skin of natural oils and disrupt the protective barrier,” explains Karen. “This can lead to dryness, irritation, and in some cases, conditions like eczema.” Moisturising can be helpful — especially if the skin is dry or flaky — but it’s easy to overdo it. Slathering on thick lotions too often can clog tiny pores or interfere with the skin’s natural development. “Unless your baby’s skin is visibly dry or a healthcare professional has advised it, daily moisturising isn’t always necessary,” says Karen. “The key is to be gentle, responsive, and not overly reactive to every change in your baby’s skin.” How to support the skin barrier — simply and safely Most importantly, parents should know that a little goes a long way. Newborn skin is designed to adapt and strengthen over time. In many cases, it simply needs space to do what it’s naturally built to do. “So much of early parenting is driven by love and a desire to protect,” says Karen. “But when it comes to your baby’s skin, protection sometimes means stepping back — and letting nature take the lead.” Newborn skin care doesn’t need to be complicated. With a bit of knowledge and a less-is-more approach, you can help your baby develop strong, healthy skin — one gentle step at a time. Sanosan focuses on natural ingredients and gentle formulas for healthy skin. Using active ingredients specially tailored to your baby’s skin, natural milk protein is the central ingredient in Sanosan and is especially nourishing. More than 90 % of the ingredients are of natural origin such as organic olive oil, and the formulations are biodegradable. Safety first: all products are clinically tested and are free from parabens, silicones, paraffins, SLS / SLES and phenoxyethanol. For more info visit  https://sanosan.co.za Sanosan is available from Clicks Baby and Online stores, takealot.com, Makro Online and https://medhealthsup.com

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Booster Seats – The Forgotten Step in Child Passenger Safety

Too Big for a Car Seat? Not Yet. The Safety Step Parents Are Skipping They may look big enough to drive around like the grown-ups – but children aged 4 to 12 are often driving unprotected. As South Africa marks Child Passenger Safety Week from 21 to 27 September, experts are urging parents not to skip one of the most crucial, and often overlooked, stages of car safety: the booster seat. “Many parents see the move from a car seat to a seatbelt as a milestone of independence,” says Debbie Billson, from Maxi-Cosi. “But the reality is, a standard seatbelt is not built for a child’s body. Skipping the booster step puts children at serious risk.” South African law currently mandates car seats only for children under the age of 3. But that leaves a dangerous gap. Children between ages 4 and 12, who are too big for toddler seats but too small for adult seatbelts, are often left unprotected. Booster seats are specially designed to fill that gap. They lift the child up so that the vehicle’s seatbelt sits correctly across the hips and shoulder – not dangerously across the stomach or neck. “A poorly positioned seatbelt can cause devastating internal or spinal injuries in a crash,” explains Billson. “With a booster, the same belt becomes a life-saving safety feature.” The Numbers Speak for Themselves Despite this, booster seat usage remains low in South Africa – largely due to lack of awareness and outdated assumptions that seatbelts alone are “good enough.” Children should continue to use a booster seat until they reach a height of 150 cm – typically around 10 to 12 years old. Many children under this height are simply not developed enough for a seatbelt to fit safely on its own. If the lap belt rides up on the tummy or the shoulder belt cuts across the neck, your child still needs a booster seat! Modern vehicles are built with safety in mind, but they’re designed around adult bodies. That’s why Kelston Motor Group, a proud campaign partner, is raising awareness about the importance of proper child restraints – even in the safest cars. “Booster seats aren’t optional; they’re an essential step in every child’s journey to safer travel,” says Peter McNaughton, Managing Director of Kelston Motor Group. “Any child under 150 cm tall still needs a booster seat – no matter how grown-up they look.” Child Passenger Safety Week (21–27 September) is the perfect time to check your child’s car seat setup. Because when it comes to keeping your child safe on the road, there’s no such thing as skipping a step. For more information, please visit: https://maxicosisa.co.za/news/child-passenger-safety/

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Sleep Solutions for Newborns and Parents

Sleep is one of the biggest challenges new parents face. Newborns have tiny stomachs, unpredictable schedules, and developing circadian rhythms, which means sleepless nights are normal—but there are strategies that can make a difference for both baby and parents. Here’s a practical guide to help your family get more rest while keeping your newborn safe and content. 1. Understand Newborn Sleep Patterns 2. Establish a Safe Sleep Environment 3. Encourage Day-Night Awareness 4. Feeding and Sleep 5. Create a Bedtime Routine Even in the first months, gentle routines can signal sleep: 6. Parents’ Sleep Strategies 7. When to Seek Help Some sleep difficulties may need guidance: Final Thoughts Newborn sleep is unpredictable, but understanding patterns, creating a safe environment, and establishing gentle routines can make a significant difference. Remember, short stretches of sleep are normal in the early months—focus on consistency, safety, and self-care. Over time, both babies and parents can enjoy more restful nights. Sources:

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Lesser-Known Pregnancy Risks That Need To Be Discussed

Pregnancy is often painted as a glowing, joyful time — but behind the baby bump and excitement, many expectant mothers in South Africa are quietly facing health risks that go unnoticed, undiagnosed, and untreated. “While most women know the basics of pregnancy care, there are lesser-known risks that can have serious consequences for both mom and baby,” says Sr Londe, an independent midwife and Vital Baby’s trusted advisor, working with families across South Africa. “And too often, they’re only picked up when things go wrong.” From vitamin deficiencies to high blood pressure and undetected anaemia, these “silent risks” are more common than you might think — and they’re especially relevant in the South African context. 1. Vitamin D Deficiency – The Hidden Threat You’d think a sunny country like South Africa wouldn’t have to worry about Vitamin D levels — but studies show that up to 80% of South African women are deficient during pregnancy, especially those with darker skin tones or limited sun exposure. Vitamin D is essential for calcium absorption and foetal bone development. Low levels have been linked to gestational diabetes, low birth weight, and even developmental delays after birth. Most women don’t know they’re deficient because symptoms like fatigue and mood swings are brushed off as ‘normal pregnancy symptoms’, but it’s worth testing and supplementing if necessary. 2. Pregnancy Hypertension – Not Just a Late-Pregnancy Problem High blood pressure in pregnancy (also called gestational hypertension or pre-eclampsia) is a growing concern, especially in women over 35, first-time moms, or those with underlying conditions. In South Africa, pre-eclampsia is one of the leading causes of maternal mortality, according to data from the Department of Health. Symptoms can include swelling, headaches, or visual disturbances — but often, there are no early warning signs at all. That’s why regular blood pressure checks at every antenatal visit are so critical. “Hypertension doesn’t just affect the mother,” warns Sr Londe. “It can limit blood flow to the baby, leading to premature birth or growth issues.” 3. Anaemia – Common, but Often Ignored Iron-deficiency anaemia is one of the most prevalent nutritional conditions in pregnant South African women — yet it’s often overlooked as just being “tired” or “run-down.” Anaemia can increase the risk of preterm labour, low birth weight, and even postnatal depression. “Many women assume exhaustion is just part of pregnancy,” says Sr Londe, “but if you’re struggling to get through the day, can’t catch your breath, or feel dizzy often — it’s worth checking your iron levels.” While some of these risks may sound worrying, the good news is they are easily manageable with the right support. The key is awareness, routine checks, and not brushing off how you feel. Pregnancy isn’t just about baby scans and cravings — it’s also a time of massive change for a woman’s body. And while many risks fly under the radar, they don’t have to be scary. “When moms are informed, they’re empowered,” says Sr Londe. “A healthy pregnancy starts with understanding your body, trusting your instincts, and never being afraid to ask questions.” Because when it comes to pregnancy health in South Africa, it’s not just about what’s obvious — it’s about what’s overlooked, so discuss any changes and concerns with your healthcare provider to ensure a healthy, safe pregnancy.  Join Sr Londe for the monthly Ask The Midwife Live on Vital Baby South Africa’s Instagram account to get support and advice on pregnancy, birthing, and the postpartum time. 

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Postpartum bleeding – what is normal?

Giving birth to your baby after 9 months can be a relieving, beautiful and exciting experience. Postpartum your body will still be going through adjustments for a while, and as you care for your new baby, you’ll need to remember to take care of yourself as well. Postpartum bleeding, also known as lochia, is normal after both vaginal and c-section births, however, it is best to know what is and isn’t common in post birth bleeding. Normal postpartum bleeding Lochia is similar to menstruation in the way in which it is made up of blood and tissue, it’s just heavier and longer lasting – it should stop between 4 and 6 weeks after giving birth. Initially, your bleeding will be heavy. This first phase of postpartum bleeding is known as lochia rubra and you’ll experience this in the first 3 to 4 days. Bleeding will be red to reddy brown and you may have small clots. In the next few days after birth your lochia will decrease in volume. Lochia serosa lasts 4 to 10 days and during this period your blood will darken in colour and become more watery. Blood clots should get smaller and disappear. Finally you’ll experience lochia alba, which usually lasts about another 1 to 2 weeks, but can be up to 28 days. Discharge will be yellowy white in colour, you may see pinkish or brown stains on some days. There should be no smell other than what you would experience during a normal period – a strong odor can be a sign of an infection. When to reach out to your doctor Even though lochia is normal, if you are bleeding heavily this can indicate that you have a postpartum haemorrhage. If your bleeding is heavy a week after birth, you experience fever or chills, a tender abdomen or foul-smelling discharge, you’ll need to seek medical assistance.

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Bonding with Your Baby: Tips for New Moms and Dads

The early days of parenthood are filled with awe, excitement, and sometimes uncertainty. Bonding with your baby is more than just cuddles—it’s the foundation for a secure attachment, emotional development, and long-term well-being. Both moms and dads play a critical role in creating strong, nurturing connections with their little ones. Here are practical ways to strengthen that bond while supporting your baby’s growth. 1. Skin-to-Skin Contact Skin-to-skin contact is one of the most effective ways to bond with your newborn: 2. Eye Contact and Talking Even newborns benefit from verbal and visual interaction: 3. Gentle Touch and Massage Touch is a powerful bonding tool: 4. Shared Activities Both parents can participate in activities that strengthen connections: 5. Create a Routine Babies thrive on predictability, and routines foster secure attachment: 6. Include Both Parents Bonding is not limited to moms: 7. Mind Your Wellbeing A happy, healthy parent is better able to bond: Final Thoughts Bonding with your baby is a journey that grows every day. Through touch, eye contact, routines, and shared activities, both moms and dads can create a secure foundation for emotional and social development. Remember, it’s not about perfection—small, consistent acts of love, attention, and presence make the biggest impact. Sources:

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First-Time Parent Survival Guide: What No One Tells You

Becoming a parent for the first time is one of life’s most thrilling yet overwhelming experiences. From sleepless nights to endless diaper changes, first-time parents quickly realise that while advice is plentiful, the real challenges—and joys—often go unsaid. This guide offers honest, practical tips to help new parents navigate the early months with confidence, patience, and a touch of humour. 1. Sleep Will Be a Luxury One of the biggest shocks for new parents is sleep deprivation: 2. Feeding Challenges Are Normal Whether breastfeeding, formula feeding, or a combination: 3. Embrace the Mess First-time parents often feel the pressure to maintain a perfect home: 4. Baby Doesn’t Come with Instructions Every child is unique: 5. Mental Health Matters Postpartum can be challenging: 6. Practical Tips for Survival 7. Celebrate the Small Wins First-time parenting is full of little victories: Recognising and celebrating these wins builds confidence and reduces stress. Final Thoughts Being a first-time parent is a rollercoaster ride of love, exhaustion, joy, and learning. There is no perfect way to do it, and much of parenting is about adapting, experimenting, and enjoying the journey. Trust yourself, ask for support, and don’t forget to celebrate the little moments—they add up to a lifetime of cherished memories. Sources:

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The Powerful Influence of a Mother on a Child’s Development

From the first heartbeat, a mother’s presence offers warmth, safety, and guidance. In those crucial early years—especially the first 1,000 days when a child’s brain and emotional wiring are rapidly forming—the influence of mothers and maternal figures can help shape how children learn and who they become. Across South Africa and beyond, mothers and female caregivers are often the first teachers, role models, and nurturers that children encounter. Their presence anchors childhood in stability, empathy, and love. “We often talk about education starting at school, but it truly begins at home—often in the lap of a mother, grandmother, or aunt,” says Ursula Assis, Managing Director of Dibber International Preschools South Africa. “These early experiences, wrapped in care and routine, shape how children view themselves and the world around them. That is why our approach to early education deeply values the role of mothers and matriarchs as co-educators.” Mothers are often the emotional epicentre of a child’s world. From a warm hug after a tumble to bedtime lullabies passed down through generations, maternal figures provide children with emotional safety, an essential condition for healthy development. Children learn empathy, resilience, and self-confidence when a mother validates emotions or responds with kindness. Early Learning Starts with Mum The influence of mothers on child development often begins with simple, everyday interactions. Singing a folk song in Afrikaans, preparing meals together, or helping with counting games in isiXhosa—these early moments spark language skills, curiosity, and a love of learning. Mothers have laid the foundations for cognitive and social development before formal schooling begins. Whether it’s allowing a toddler to choose their outfit or encouraging them to share their ideas, mothers empower children to be heard. This nurtures independence and helps children build a strong sense of identity. In South African homes, where many mothers juggle work, parenting, and community responsibilities, their ability to balance strength with softness is a profound model for young children. In homes filled with laughter, traditions, and story-sharing, maternal figures quietly shape a child’s understanding of values—respect for elders, sharing with others, and standing up for what’s right. These lessons are often passed down during ordinary routines, becoming extraordinary building blocks of a child’s moral compass. Extended Family: A Collective of Care While mothers hold a special role, South African children are often raised by a robust network of women—grandmothers, sisters, aunts, and caregivers—each contributing in unique ways. This shared responsibility is a celebration of ubuntu, reinforcing a child’s sense of belonging, community, and connection. Dibber honours the vital role of mothers and strong female figures in a child’s early years. The preschool’s educators work hand-in-hand with families, ensuring that what begins at home is nurtured in its classrooms.  When a child feels loved, safe, and seen, the learning never really stops. It only grows stronger.

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New Dad’s roles

The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Know that it’s normal to have fears – there is no simple way to prepare for parenthood and all new parents (yes Moms too!) have some concerns or fears about their new role. Learn as much as you can about your baby’s daily routine and offer to help out with activities you are comfortable doing. Make “Daddy Time” a special time every day by spending one-on-one time talking, reading or singing to the baby – work with Mom to build these activities into the daily routine. Offer to attend your baby’s doctors’ visits whenever possible – it helps you learn about your baby and provides a second set of ears to hear what the doctor has to say. Be actively involved in providing a safe environment for the baby – help keep an eye out for safety hazards. Make sure your baby is never exposed to second-hand smoke and has a drug free place to live. Be gentle with the baby – never shake your baby or toss them in the air. Be mindful of how you talk and act around the baby – a gentle voice and kind gestures are always best. Support from Mom to Dad The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Ask Mom to teach you to do things you may not know how to do yet – this way you can help out and support her as you learn about your new baby. Once you’re comfortable, offer to watch the baby so Mom can get some extra rest – this gives you time with the baby while supporting Mom as well. Take care of yourself, get regular check-ups and exercise daily – work to stay healthy for the newest member of the family. Set a good example and keep smoking and drugs out of your baby’s home. Talk with Mom about how she feels about herself after her pregnancy – she may need your support and encouragement to resume intimacy and sex since things like her self-image and her body may have changed. Treat Mom to small gifts and simple gestures that tell her that you care about her – these will help her understand that she is still special to you even if she is feeling tired and her self-image has changed. Emotional aspects for Dad The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Especially in the first few weeks after birth, use compassion when dealing with both Mom and baby. They both have just been through a difficult experience and your compassion will go a long way in supporting them as they move into the next part of their journey. You may often find yourself in new and challenging situations where you have the choice to either laugh or cry – choose humour, it helps everyone survive and thrive during challenging times. Life doesn’t always prepare us for our role as a parent so as a new Dad you will often find yourself in new situations with no rulebook – rise to the occasion by using your creativity and imagination to overcome new challenges. Remember that patience is a virtue – this is especially true when you have a newborn, so remember to slow down, take a deep breath and relax before you react to trying situations. Always keep in mind that much of what you are doing in the early days after the birth of your baby is a form of service for both baby and Mom – don’t see it as a negative, rather see it as a time for you to develop a new leadership role as you offer yourself in service to others. Dad comforting a crying baby The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. As a first step, always make sure your baby has been fed and changed and that they are comfortable – if so then go on to the next steps to soothe them. Swaddling: holding a baby close can help them feel more secure, so snuggle them in a soft blanket. Side/Stomach: holding your baby on their side or stomach may help calm them. Shhh: making this noise often helps sooth your baby. Sucking: is very comforting for your baby, so if it’s not feeding time, give them a pacifier to suck on. Swinging: gentle movement is often soothing to a baby, so gently rock them in your arms or put them safely in an infant swing. Remember that even though it may be frustrating, it’s important for you to be patient and gentle with your baby. Use this time to bond with your baby and allow Mom a much-needed break from her role as a caregiver. Getting Dad involved The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Talk with Dad about his thoughts, feelings and concerns regarding his role in caring for your newborn – this will help you understand his comfort level. Get Dad involved in your baby’s care – he may need help in learning how to hold the baby or change diapers so include him in as many of the day-to-day activities as you can. Have Dad help with a night feeding when possible – if you are breast feeding consider pumping a feeding ahead so he can take one feeding for you during the night. Have him talk, read or sing to the baby every day – build these activities into your baby’s daily routine. Involve Dad in doctors’ appointments whenever possible. Ask Dad

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Preparing Your Home for a New Baby: A Room-by-Room Checklist

Welcoming a new baby into your home is one of life’s most exciting moments—but it can also feel overwhelming. From cribs to bottles to baby-proofing, there’s a lot to think about. A room-by-room checklist can help you stay organised, reduce stress, and ensure your home is ready for your little one’s arrival. 1. Nursery The nursery is the baby’s safe haven, so make sure it’s ready and comfortable: 2. Bedroom Parents will spend a lot of time here, especially during nighttime feeds: 3. Bathroom Bathing and hygiene are key for baby and parent convenience: 4. Kitchen Feeding time can be hectic, so prep your kitchen for efficiency: 5. Living Areas Make your home baby-friendly and safe: 6. Laundry & Storage Babies generate a lot of laundry! Final Tips for a Stress-Free Home By preparing your home thoughtfully, you’ll create a safe, comfortable, and welcoming environment for your newborn—and enjoy a little peace of mind as you settle into life with your new bundle of joy. Sources:

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Create Magical Moments for Your Little Ones with StickyThings

Why Stickythings Delights Parenting Hub’s Audience At Parenting Hub, you’re part of a supportive, hands-on community of parents who value creativity, connection, and practicality. From pram-friendly walks to enrichment meetups, the focus is always on meaningful, child-centric experiences. That’s why decorating nurseries, play areas, and home learning spaces matters, not only for looks but for nurturing little imaginations. Stickythings.co.za brings your child’s world to life with stylish, easy-to-apply wall stickers, murals, decals and wallpaper.  Moms love how it transforms everyday spaces into memories. What Parents Can Discover 1. Playroom Wonders & Nursery Enchantment Transform your child’s space into a dreamy forest, educational alphabet adventure, or pastel paradise. Choose from thoughtfully designed motifs like the Woodland Forest Wall Art Sticker featuring a majestic tree that towers over 2 meters to spark storytelling and cozy vibes. StickyThings Transform your child’s space into a dreamy forest, educational alphabet adventure, or pastel paradise. Choose from thoughtfully designed motifs like the Woodland Forest Wall Art Sticker featuring a majestic tree that towers over 2 meters to spark storytelling and cozy vibes. StickyThings 2. Custom Creations for Your Unique Family Moments Got a ‘first steps’ milestone or a favourite nursery rhyme? Stickythings offers custom designs, decals and murals tailored to your family’s story. It’s a heartfelt way to mark milestones on your own terms. StickyThings 3. Safe, Stylish, and Stress-Free Worried about fuss? The FAQ covers all the questions parents ask: yes we can help with installation, and yes wall art can be removed cleanly, so you’re decorating worry-free. StickyThings Your Parenting Hub Mom-to-Mom Guide As a savvy Parenting Hub parent, you know the power of purposeful design: environments that bring joy, encourage play, and create great photo ops for memories and milestone sharing. Stickythings helps you: See it in action: Head over to your favourites and the gallery at stickythings.co.za to explore ready-made collections and custom magic. Let your heart and your home grow together. Request a quote or consult with the friendly Stickythings team today!

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Reasons why your baby is crying

The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. If your baby is crying, the first step is trying to figure out the reason.  Some of the most common reasons why a baby is crying are: Hunger is usually the first thing you should think of – they may give other signs first like rooting, fussing, smacking their lips and putting their hands to their lips. A dirty diaper – many infants don’t like a wet or dirty diaper, so changing their diaper when they cry is a simple thing you can do to help calm them. In need of sleep – babies may not just nod off to sleep when they are tired, they may get fussy and cry, so after feeding and changing diapers you may want to try soothing activities like finding a quiet place, holding them close and rocking them to help them get to sleep. Wanting to be held – babies like to be cuddled, so if you have tried all of the above tips without success it could be that your baby just wants you to hold and cuddle them; also talk in a soft voice or sing softly. Tummy troubles – babies can develop gas pains, colic, constipation, milk allergies and other conditions that make them cry; if this happens often talk with your doctor about ways you can soothe their tummy. Needing to burp – a trapped gas bubble in your baby’s stomach can make them uncomfortable, so if they are crying after a feeding, try burping them to see if that helps. Additional reasons are mentioned in the following tip. Additional reasons why your baby is crying The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. In addition to the reasons mentioned in the previous tip, the following are reasons why your baby may be crying: Temperature troubles – babies will often cry if they are too cold, this may happen when you are changing them or washing them; it can also happen if they are too hot, though this is less common. Little irritations – babies are very sensitive to small discomforts like a hair wrapped around a finger or toe, scratchy clothing or being placed in the wrong position, so look for little discomforts if the big things don’t appear to be the cause of their distress. Teething – newborns don’t have teeth coming in but sometimes their teeth will move around under the gums causing them discomfort; their teeth won’t usually start to come in until they are about 4-7 months; a cold washcloth and gentle pressure on their gums may be soothing. Over stimulation – newborns can’t always process all the things that are going on around them, so if you think your baby may be suffering from too much stimulation take them to a quiet spot away from bright lights, hold them close and soothe them until they can calm down. Not enough stimulation – some babies are outgoing and like to see what’s going on around them, so if you think this is your baby’s issue try carrying them in a sling, front carrier or backpack so they can get the extra stimulation they need. Not feeling well – if you’ve met all your baby’s basic needs and they are still crying and fussy they could be coming down with something, so keep a close eye on them, check their temperature if you think they might have a fever and contact your doctor if needed. Things to try to comfort a crying baby The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Sucking is soothing for a baby and can lower their heart rate and relax their stomach, so give them a pacifier or a clean finger to suck on when nothing else seems to stop their crying. Babies are used to being warm and secure in the womb so when all else fails try imitating that experience by swaddling them and holding them securely or carry them with you in a sling. Some babies respond well to sound and movement, so try putting on some music and dancing with them – gently of course! Try white noise – often babies like noises that mimic the whooshing sounds they heard before they were born, so try running the vacuum cleaner, a fan or the water faucet or use a recording of a water fountain, a gurgling stream or waves. A change of scenery can sometimes help, so dress your baby appropriately and step outside your front door; walk around slowly and talk in a soothing tone. Get them moving – babies like motion so try carrying them around or take them for a ride in the stroller or the car; sometime this will work when nothing else seems to help. Massage may be helpful for some babies – don’t worry about knowing the right movements, just try a soft, gentle massage in a warm place free from drafts. Start all over again – sometimes it’s helpful just to start at the top of the list again; change their diaper, hold them close, feed them if their hungry and see if something works the second time around. If you ever think your baby is in distress because of a health-related issue don’t hesitate to contact your doctor. No question is ever “dumb” if it involves the wellbeing of your baby! Feeling frustrated when a baby won’t stop crying The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Keep in mind that crying won’t hurt your baby, they may just need a release so let them cry. Put your baby down and let

NB Hearing & Balance

Tuning Into Sound: How Your Baby Hears You in the Womb

One of the most magical parts of pregnancy is knowing that your baby is already learning about the world before they’re even born. While we often think of touch as the earliest sense to develop, many parents are surprised to discover just how early hearing plays a role in connecting you to your little one. When Does Hearing Develop in the Womb? By around 18 weeks of pregnancy, your baby’s ears have started forming and connecting to the brain. By 25 weeks, they begin responding to sounds. At first, the womb is a muffled, watery world, but by the third trimester, your baby can hear your voice, your heartbeat, and even muffled outside sounds like music or a sibling’s laughter. By the time you reach the final weeks of pregnancy, your baby’s auditory system is fine-tuned enough to recognize your voice! This early familiarity is why newborns often calm when they hear their mother or father speak. It’s a sound they already know and love. Why Sound Matters Before Birth Sound isn’t just background noise for your baby, it’s a vital part of their neurological development. Research shows that prenatal exposure to voices and music helps babies: Your voice is actively helping wire their brain for future communication. How Parents Can Stimulate Their Baby’s Hearing in Utero Encouraging healthy hearing development is simpler than you might think. Here are some gentle, bonding ways to nurture your baby’s auditory world: Newborns show a preference for the language and even the accent or dialect they heard most in the womb, your daily conversations are shaping their early listening skills! Caring for Your Baby’s Hearing During Pregnancy While sound exposure is important, protecting your baby’s delicate hearing begins long before birth. A few tips: Beyond Birth: Supporting Lifelong Hearing Health After your baby arrives, those early familiar sounds continue to comfort and connect them. But remember, even healthy newborns should have their hearing checked. Early detection of hearing difficulties can make a life-changing difference in speech, learning, and development. At NB Hearing and Balance, we’re passionate about supporting families from the very start. Whether you’re curious about your baby’s in-utero hearing, preparing for their first hearing screening, or seeking guidance on lifelong hearing health, our caring team is here to help. The Sweet Sound of Connection Every time you talk, sing, or read to your baby during pregnancy, you’re doing more than bonding. You’re laying the foundation for their language, learning, and emotional connection with you. And that’s something worth tuning into. Learn more about hearing development and schedule a consultation with one of our audiologists. We have various locations throughout Cape Town.

MiniMi

MiniMi is changing gender reveals in SA

Gender reveals are exciting, and many parents want early answers. MiniMi offers a safe, fast, and accurate way to know your baby’s gender from 10 weeks. Gender reveals are more popular than ever, and they’ve become an exciting milestone for expectant parents. But what many people don’t see behind the balloon popping and cake reveals is the growing desire for early, reliable answers about their baby’s gender. MiniMi is a safe, accurate, and fast way to find out your baby’s gender from as early as 10 weeks into pregnancy.  Why gender reveals have taken off  From intimate family moments to elaborate parties, gender reveals are now a celebrated part of the pregnancy journey for many parents. Social media has certainly played a role but so has the emotional connection that comes with knowing your baby’s gender early in the journey.  Parents often say that finding out the gender makes the experience feel more real – it allows them to bond with baby, dream, plan and prepare. And with more people sharing their journeys online, the excitement is contagious.  How MiniMi works  The MiniMi Early Fetal Sex Test is 98% accurate and works by analysing a small sample of blood from a simple blood draw from the mother’s arm. It can be done from 10 weeks of pregnancy, looking for fragments of the baby’s DNA which are present in the mother’s blood. If a Y-chromosome is detected, it indicates that the unborn baby is a male, and if no Y-chromosome is found, it is a female.  Appointments are booked online and the test can be taken at selected Dischem Baby City Mom & Baby Clinics countrywide – click here for a list of available clinics in your area.  Results are emailed to the parents, or a recipient on your choice, such as a friend, or party planner, and are available within 5 working days from when the sample reaches our laboratory in Johannesburg.  Why Next Biosciences launched South Africa’s first early fetal sex test  Before now, South African parents have relied on ultrasound prenatal scans from 16 weeks to determine their baby’s gender, which often can’t be confirmed with 100% certainty, especially if the baby’s position makes it difficult to see clearly. On the other hand, international testing comes with high costs, long turnaround times, and added logistical challenges.  MiniMi has changed that.  By offering this test locally, we’re making early gender discovery more accessible, affordable, and reliable for South African families, with faster results and local support.  Whether you’re planning a gender reveal party or simply want to connect with your baby sooner, MiniMi brings science and celebration together.  No invasive procedures. No long waits. Just peace of mind.  Book your MiniMi test today – click here  Contact us: [email protected] Tel: 011 697-2900

Mommy Material

From Doubt to Confidence: How a Simple Device Could Have Changed My Breastfeeding Journey

When I became a mom for the first time, I thought breastfeeding would just happen naturally. But the reality was different. My baby would scream after almost every feed, and at just two weeks old, a close family member told my mom that she didn’t think my milk was “any good.” She urged my mom to convince me to take my baby to a nurse, saying, “New moms should think about their baby, not themselves.” Her words crushed me. I refused to go, but for days I lived in silent doubt, questioning whether I was failing my son. Was my milk not enough? Was I starving him without realising it? Then came his scheduled follow-up appointment. To my shock (and relief) he had gained more weight than required on nothing but my breastmilk. Looking back, I often think: if I’d had the MyLee Milk Sensing Device then, I wouldn’t have wasted those days feeling like a failure. I would have had proof; clear, objective reassurance that my milk was nourishing him. I would have trusted myself more. And that’s why I feel so passionate about bringing this technology to other moms. Why Moms Doubt Themselves I now know I wasn’t alone. Studies show that the most common reason moms stop breastfeeding earlier than they want to is due to milk supply-related concerns. Sometimes supply is absolutely fine, but doubt creeps in, while in other cases there may be genuine risks that are best addressed early. Either way, these concerns are real and deserve both attention and support. The truth is, the early days matter more than we often realise. The Crucial First Five Days Recent research published in Breastfeeding Medicine (July 2025, Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine’s special issue) highlights just how important the first five to six days postpartum are. This window is when your body goes through secretory activation — the transition from colostrum to mature milk and the process of building volume. If this process is delayed or impaired, it can affect long-term breastfeeding outcomes. On the flip side, when secretory activation happens on time and milk volume comes in effectively, moms are much more likely to meet their breastfeeding goals. The problem? Until now, there’s been no simple way for mothers at home to know if their supply is on track. That’s where the MyLee Milk Sensing Device changes everything. Awarded as the Breastfeeding Support Product of the Year at the 2024 Baby Innovation Awards, MyLee is developed by MyMilk Lab and available locally through Mommy Material. This small handheld device brings cutting-edge lactation monitoring to moms at home. With just a few drops of milk (even colostrum), the device uses unique conductivity-based technology to analyse biomarkers that reflect electrolyte levels, particularly sodium, which research has shown is strongly linked to lactation progress. This provides real-time insights into whether milk production is progressing as it should. This technology, once only available in research or NICU settings, is now accessible to everyday mothers. Instead of relying on guesswork or worry, moms can finally get answers. Imagine knowing just days after birth whether your milk is on track. Imagine the confidence of being reassured, or the relief of catching a potential issue early enough to get the right support. Backed by Global Research This isn’t just marketing hype. MyLee was highlighted in a 2025 review in Breastfeeding Medicine exploring new point-of-care techniques to support breastfeeding. Here’s what leading experts are saying: As Dr. Angela Lang, Director of Clinical Education at Medela, summarises: “By removing the guesswork and providing targeted recommendations, we empower mothers to take control of their lactation journey.” That empowerment is exactly what MyLee delivers. A New Era of Personalised Breastfeeding Support Every mother and every milk supply is unique. Some moms may only need to pump six times a day, while others may need eight. Generic advice doesn’t always fit and can even cause more stress. MyLee allows breastfeeding professionals to give personalised guidance based on each mom’s unique milk biochemistry. That means targeted recommendations, timely interventions when needed, and reassurance when everything is progressing just fine. It’s not about adding pressure. It’s about removing doubt. It’s about giving moms confidence. From NICUs to Living Rooms Much of the global conversation around milk biomarkers and early monitoring has focused on NICUs and preterm babies, but the truth is that these tools are just as valuable for mothers of full-term, healthy newborns. Every mom deserves to feel confident in her milk supply. MyLee brings the same science-based insights used in specialised care settings straight into everyday homes. More Than Just One Device Breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world, but it isn’t always easy. For too many moms, doubt creeps in at the very moment when reassurance is needed most. The MyLee Milk Sensing Device offers a new way forward; turning uncertainty into confidence, and helping moms trust their bodies again. Because when mothers feel supported, babies thrive; and that is what truly matters. Learn more about MyLee and our full range at www.mommymaterial.co.za or join our community on Instagram @mommymaterialsa.

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Everything you need to know about having a miscarriage

Deciding to become a mom, or even finding out by chance that you’re pregnant can be an exciting time in your life. However, sometimes you will spontaneously lose the embryo before 20 weeks and this is known as a miscarriage. You may be wondering what causes a miscarriage and how to notice the symptoms and signs of one.  What is a miscarriage and what causes them? Miscarriages are defined as the spontaneous ending of a pregnancy before 20 weeks. Miscarriages can both be emotionally and physically painful to deal with, but it is thought (according to the NHS) that 1 in 8 pregnancies end in miscarriage, with many happening before a woman notices that she has missed her period (meaning she probably won’t even know that she’s been pregnant.  American Pregnancy Association (APA) states that the most common cause of miscarriage is an embryo that is genetically abnormal, which can be either genetic or spontaneous. However, miscarriages can be caused by underlying health conditions such as diabetes, or poor lifestyle choices, such as drug use and drinking. Maternal age is also a contributing risk factor, as women over 35 have higher chances of pregnancy loss.  How do I know if I ‘m having a miscarriage? Symptoms of a miscarriage can be similar to that of your menstrual period. You may experience cramps and abdominal and back pain, as well as bleeding which can vary from light spotting to heavy discharge. It is normal to have pain and bleeding after a miscarriage, and these period-pain type signs should stop after two weeks.  If you experience heavy bleeding, fever or chills be sure to seek professional help as you could have an infection. Unfortunately, the miscarriage process can’t be reversed and if you think you are having a miscarriage you should speak to your doctor about how to manage it.  Can I have a normal pregnancy after having a miscarriage? Many women may worry that having a miscarriage may affect their chances of getting pregnant again – however, many women have healthy pregnancies after miscarriage. Most doctors recommend waiting a period of time before trying again, so speak to your health care provider about the best way forward. 

Netcells

The future of your child’s health starts today 

You can’t predict the future – but you can prepare for it with Netcells. Discover this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to protect your family’s health.  Now is an opportune moment to explore the incredible value held within a simple resource: umbilical cord blood. Amidst the wonder of welcoming a newborn into the world, parents are often unaware of the lifesaving potential contained within cord blood and tissue, which are stem cells. Cord blood, collected from the umbilical cord at birth, is rich in haematopoietic stem cells, which have the unique ability to develop into various types of blood cells that are usually produced by one’s bone marrow. This invaluable resource holds promise for future potential medical treatments. Stem cells are the building blocks of life, possessing the remarkable ability to repair and regenerate damaged tissues and organs. Cord blood, specifically, can be used to help treatment over 80 blood-related diseases, including certain cancers, blood disorders, immune deficiencies, and more. Collecting stem cells at birth is easy, painless and a lot less invasive than collecting them later in life. These cells can be stored and preserved for many years, ready to be utilised if the child needs it in the future. They hold the potential to treat not only the child from whom they were collected but also family members who are a match, making them a precious resource for the entire family. Next Biosciences is the longest internationally accredited cord blood bank in South Africa, having stored 22 000+ samples since 2005. We believe education is pivotal in empowering families to make informed decisions about cord blood banking. Discussing this topic with healthcare providers during pregnancy, visiting our stands at baby-related events and expos can provide invaluable insights and guidance. At Next Biosciences we also offer four lab tours a year at our laboratory in Midrand (next is Saturday, 6 September 2025 – RSVP here), as well as one-on-one lab tours during the week.  Understanding the process, benefits, and limitations of cord blood banking is essential for making a well-informed choice. For more information on stem cell banking, click here. Contact us at: [email protected] Tel: 011 697-2900

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Preparing your home for your baby

Waiting for you baby to arrive is both exciting and nerve wrecking. In order to mentally prepare yourself and your family, you can start getting  your home ready for the newest addition of your household. The urge to get your home ready for your baby is also known as nesting, and it’ll normally happen near the end of your third trimester. If you are ready to start spring cleaning, here are some tips on how best to organise your home for little one. Have everything ready for your return from the hospital When you and your baby return from hospital you’ll probably be feeling tired and sore, so making sure your home is ready before you go into labour is a good idea. Food prep, cleaning and buying home supplies are all things that’ll become more difficult with a newborn. Meal prepping, having a stocked baby changing table and home essentials stock piled will all be things you’ll be glad to have done beforehand. Baby proofing your home Baby proofing your home can ideally start up to 3 months before your due date, as this will give you time for any projects that may take slightly longer. Cover all electrical sockets, get safety latches for cabinets and get rid of any loose or dangling cords. Not only can you take your time prepping your home, but you can also make sure that you are ready with baby essentials, such as a changing table, a baby monitor and newborn baby clothes. All things you don’t want to be looking for postpartum with a baby to look after. Don’t over do it Although it can be tempting to go full throttle with home adjustments there are certain things you should avoid to prevent injuring yourself. Don’t move large furniture, as your ligaments and tendons are softened by pregnancy hormones, making a strain or injury more likely. Avoid reaching too high, as this can put strain on your lower back (which may already be achy). Delegating to your family and friends eager to help will give you the opportunity to rest while making sure that your home is perfect for your newest addition.

Wriggle and Rhyme

The surprising secret to building brains: it starts with a song!

We all know that young children, especially toddlers, love to make a noise. Whether it’s banging pots, humming tunes or clapping hands.  But did you know that all that musical play is actually helping to shape their brains? Music education in the younger years isn’t just fun, it’s incredibly powerful for developing auditory processing and listening skills. Sponge brains At this stage of development, toddlers are soaking up sound like little sponges. Their brains are learning how to pick out patterns, differentiate tones, and follow rhythms. These are all the things that are crucial for listening, understanding language, and eventually reading.  When they participate in music activities like singing songs, tapping along to a beat, or moving to rhythms, they’re strengthening neural pathways that support focus, memory, and sound discrimination. From clapping a rhythm to learning to read For example, clapping to a steady beat or echoing a simple melody helps toddlers learn how to listen closely, anticipate what comes next, and stay engaged. These are the very same skills they’ll need in the classroom later on when they’re learning to follow directions, concentrate, and communicate. Plus, music offers a joyful, gentle way to learn and practice these skills. There’s no test, no “wrong” answer — just fun and connection.  Beaters in the air! Our small group music classes also build social skills. We encourage our little RHYMERS to connect with others, take turns, and respond to social cues through sound, which is another win for early listening development. Music supports brain development In short, giving your young child regular access to music is one of the simplest (and most fun!) ways to support their brain development.  So grab a shaker, turn up your favourite music, and have fun together — you’re not just making memories, you’re building lifelong skills. Enjoy some of our unique Wriggle and Rhyme musical stories – more info HERE. Available to stream on your favourite music streaming platform. Musical resources Find us at www.wriggleandrhyme.co.za or on Facebook and Instagram @wrigglerhyme 

Aphrodite’s Garden

The Powerful Benefits of Delaying the Cutting of the Umbilical Cord

In the precious moments after birth, there’s a quiet yet powerful transition taking place—baby’s journey from womb to world. One gentle, yet profoundly impactful choice parents can make during this time is to delay clamping and cutting the umbilical cord. What is delayed cord clamping? Delayed cord clamping simply means waiting before clamping and cutting the umbilical cord—typically 1 to 5 minutes after birth, or until the cord stops pulsating.  Why wait? The benefits are remarkable: Things to consider: Delayed clamping is generally safe for both vaginal and cesarean births. However, it’s always important to discuss your birth preferences with your healthcare provider and include it in your birth plan. As your baby receives this final gift from the placenta, you too deserve care rooted in love and healing. Aphrodite’s Garden Mama Care Gift Set Thoughtfully curated to honour the strength and sensitivity of new motherhood, this all-natural set supports you through birth and postpartum recovery—with plant-based, chemical-free care. What’s inside:  A heartfelt gift for every birthing journey. Shop now at www.aphroditesgarden.co.za

Sanosan

The Unspoken Struggles of Postpartum Skin – How to Restore Hydration and Elasticity After Birth

Hormonal acne, dryness, pigmentation — new moms face more than sleepless nights.  Stretch marks and sleepless nights aren’t the only things women face after giving birth. For many new mothers, the postpartum period brings a whole new set of challenges — and one of the least talked about is what happens to your skin. “Postpartum skin issues are incredibly common, yet so few people talk about them,” says a spokesperson for Sanosan, the trusted baby and mother skincare brand known for its high-quality products with a focus on natural ingredients. “New moms are often surprised by how dramatically their skin changes — from dry, flaky patches and pigmentation, to oiliness and breakouts that make them feel like they’re going through puberty again.” It all comes down to hormones. During pregnancy, elevated levels of oestrogen and progesterone help your skin look and feel great — often giving rise to the famous “pregnancy glow”. But once your baby is born and hormone levels plummet, your skin can be left feeling dull, dry, and irritated. Here are some of the most common skin changes postpartum: While you can’t control your hormones, you can take steps to support your skin’s recovery. According to Sanosan, the key is gentle care and hydration. “Many new moms are tempted to use harsh scrubs or active ingredients to ‘fix’ their skin quickly, but this often makes things worse. Your skin needs time, nourishment, and support — just like the rest of your body after birth.” Here are a few expert-approved tips: Perhaps the most important message for new moms? You are not alone. Too often, women feel guilty for caring about how they look after birth. But wanting to feel comfortable in your skin again doesn’t make you vain — it’s part of healing. Taking care of your skin can be a small but powerful act of self-care in a time that’s otherwise all about giving. So whether it’s dryness, dark spots or stubborn breakouts — know that it’s normal. With the right care, your skin will find its balance again.   Now available in South Africa, Sanosan is a German family-owned company specializing in baby, mama, and kid skincare products, focusing on natural ingredients and gentle formulas for healthy skin. They emphasize quality, safety, and sustainability in their products, aiming to provide the best care for babies, children, and mothers. Using active ingredients specially tailored to your baby’s skin, natural milk protein is the central ingredient in Sanosan and is especially nourishing. More than 90 % of the ingredients are of natural origin such as organic olive oil, and the formulations are biodegradable. Safety first: all products are clinically tested and are free from parabens, silicones, paraffins, SLS / SLES and phenoxyethanol.  Sanosan is available from Clicks Baby and Online stores, takealot.com, Makro Online

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Should I be exercising while pregnant, and if so, how much?

For most exercise is a part of life, so it is natural to want to keep active for as long as possible while pregnant. You may wonder how much exercise you can keep doing as your baby develops, and what routine changes you’ll need to make as your baby grows bigger. If you have a complicated pregnancy or are dealing with a weak cervix, a low placenta or suffering from a heart condition, diabetes or asthma, it is best to consult with a doctor or health professional before putting together a pregnancy exercise plan. What are the benefits of exercise during pregnancy  Improving overall health and wellness, exercise is a vital part of keeping you feeling your best and can help with backache caused by pregnancy, as well as prepare you for labour and delivery. If you were active before your pregnancy, you should be able to keep training with modifications made to your program. Exercises that are low impact and carry small risk of injury are best and you should be able to remain active until birth. Exercising during pregnancy can help boost your mood and energy levels, improve muscle tone, strength and lessen back pain. Exercise can also help reduce fatigue and stress, as well as help improve your sleep, all of which helps make your pregnancy easier on your body and mind. Staying fit can also help shorten your post delivery recovery time, however, getting back into exercise postpartum can be difficult and you should avoid pushing yourself too hard in the beginning. Exercising during pregnancy isn’t only good for your overall wellness, but studies show that it can also improve your baby’s health. What type of exercise should I be doing?  During pregnancy it is important to keep tabs on how your body is feeling. If you have been exercising frequently pre-pregnancy it should be fine to continue to do so in moderation, however, if something feels strange or uncomfortable it is best to consult a health practitioner. Swimming, prenatal yoga and pilates, walking and water aerobics are all exercises that you can focus on during your pregnancy. Water activities are good as they give you buoyancy and put very little strain on your body, especially when you are close to giving birth. If you were an avid runner before, you should be able to continue into pregnancy with some alterations to your program.  Exercise to avoid High impact sports with a risk of falling should be avoided. These include horse riding, mountain biking, downhill skiing. Contact sports, such as rugby, kickboxing and soccer are also preferable to avoid as there is a risk of being hit. Scuba diving is a big no-no as the baby has no protection against decompression sickness.

Vital Baby

Dads – how can you make a difference in Mom and Baby’s breastfeeding journey

Breastfeeding may be a mother’s role, but fathers have a powerful part to play — from late-night bottle prep to emotional support. There’s a long-held stereotype that breastfeeding is a one-woman job. But ask any mother who’s done it — and she’ll tell you the truth: breastfeeding might be a solo act in practice, but it takes a team to make it work. More South African families are starting to understand the importance of active dad involvement in the breastfeeding journey — and the results are healthier babies, more confident moms, and stronger parent partnerships. “Breastfeeding doesn’t just impact the baby and the mother — it shapes the family dynamic,” says Sr Londe, independent midwife and trusted advisor for Vital Baby. “When dads step in to support the process, it creates a ripple effect of encouragement and connection.” While only moms can do the actual feeding (unless they’re expressing), the success andsustainability of breastfeeding often depend on the dad’s support. Research shows that when fathers are informed, present, and positive about breastfeeding, mothers are more likely to start breastfeeding, feel confident doing it, and continue for longer. In fact, a study published in the Journal of Human Lactation found that mothers were twice as likely to continue breastfeeding at six months if they felt supported by their partners. So, what does a supportive breastfeeding dad look like? It’s not about doing it all — it’s about being there, in big and small ways: Encouraging her when it gets tough Breastfeeding can be physically and emotionally challenging — especially in the first few weeks. Dads can help by listening without judgement, offering words of encouragement, and reminding her of the bigger picture when it feels overwhelming. Taking care of the little things Changing nappies, soothing the baby after feeds, sterilising bottles or breast pumps, and handling burping — these seemingly small actions allow mom to focus on feeding and recovery. Getting informed “Men don’t have to guess their way through it,” says Sr Londe. “Learn about how breastfeeding works, understand what mom is going through, and show her she’s not alone.” That means attending antenatal classes, reading up, or simply asking questions. Helping with night feeds If baby is bottle-fed with expressed milk or formula at times, dads can take the night shift or early morning feed. It’s a game-changer for sleep and helps fathers bond with their babies. It’s time to ditch the outdated narrative that dads only come into their own once the baby is weaned. Today’s fathers are embracing nurturing roles from day one, and brands like Vital Baby are encouraging this shift with products and support that empower dads to show up — confidently and hands-on. “The more we normalise the role of dads in early feeding and baby care, the more we support families as a whole,” says Sr Londe. “Breastfeeding is not a women-only world — it’s a family journey.” Being present, proactive, and positive — these are the hallmarks of modern fatherhood. And in the world of breastfeeding, that presence can mean the difference between isolation and teamwork. So to all the dads wondering how to help: Your role is vital. Your support is powerful. Your presence is enough.

Parenting Hub

Calming Eczema-Prone Skin

Whether you’re an eczema veteran or newbie, E45 – an expert in dry, itchy skin – has a tailored solution to keep your body feeling calm, hydrated, and comfortable. What is Eczema? Eczema is a family of inflammatory skin conditions that bring along itchiness, dryness, rashes, scaly patches, blisters, and even skin infections.1a There are seven types of eczema: atopic dermatitis, contact dermatitis, dyshidrotic eczema, nummular eczema, seborrheic dermatitis, and stasis dermatitis.1b For many people with eczema, the term “flare-up” is all too familiar. It’s used to describe those frustrating periods when symptoms intensify and are prolonged.1c Atopic Eczema  Atopic eczema is the most common type of eczema and can be persistent and frustrating to manage.2a It’s especially common in children, often making an appearance before their first birthday, although adults can develop it for the first time later in life as well.2b While atopic eczema is a long-term (chronic) condition, there’s good news – it doesn’t always stick around forever. Many children experience significant improvement as they grow, and in some cases, eczema may even clear completely over time.2c  How to Treat Eczema-prone skin Eczema is like that overdramatic friend who insists on making everything about them. Change your laundry detergent? Cue the full-blown tantrum. Step outside on a breezy day? Here comes the fiery protest. Dare to enjoy a long, steamy shower? Unacceptable! While it is true that eczema can be unpredictable, keeping your skin moisturised can make all the difference.6 The Link Between Eczema and Skin Hydration Healthy skin feels soft and supple thanks to its water content.3aTo maintain that smooth, hydrated feel, the top layer of skin needs at least 10 % water, with an ideal range of 20 – 35 %.3b To lock in moisture, the skin’s sebaceous glands produce sebum – a natural mix of fatty acids, sugars, and waxes – which forms a protective barrier against water loss.3c  People with eczema have a weakened skin barrier, making their skin more prone to dryness, irritation, and allergens.4a This barrier weakness is partly due to lower levels of ceramides, natural lipids that help lock in moisture and protect against irritants.4b When the skin’s barrier is compromised, allergens and irritants can penetrate more easily, triggering inflammation, itchiness, and flare-ups.4c E45 Cream5a, with its rich emollient action5b, is more than just a moisturiser – it’s an intensely hydrating solution for managing a wide range of dry skin conditions, including eczema.5c Suitable for the whole family (including babies and children5d). This fragrance-free and non-greasy formula5e contains Medilan,5f a medical grade, highly purified and hypoallergenic form of lanolin, light liquid paraffin5g, and white soft paraffin5h that work together to lock in moisture and keep skin hydrated. E45 Cream is available in 50g, 125g, 500g tub, and 500g pump, simply apply twice a day or as needed for relief.5 Final Thoughts  With daily use of E45 Cream, you can soothe, protect, and strengthen eczema-prone body skin. Stick to the routine, and you’ll be well on your way to keeping flare-ups at bay and feeling more comfortable in your skin every day. For more information and references, visit E45 and join the conversations on Facebook, YouTube, Tik Tok and Instagram. E45’s range of products are available from selected independent pharmacies, Clicks and Dis-Chem stores. The range is also available from Takealot. Keep a look out for the new packaging designs which will be filtering into stores shortly. 17.02.2025.1000001298. February 2025.

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Staying healthy during your pregnancy

Welcoming a new addition to the family is exciting but also a little daunting. Parents are anxious to make sure everything is done correctly to ensure the best start for their little one. Part of this preparation is also maintaining a healthy lifestyle and diet, during the pregnancy, crucial for both the mother and developing baby. Dr Themba Hadebe of Bonitas Medical Fund says that what you eat during your pregnancy, directly affects foetal development. ‘A diet rich in vitamins, minerals and other key nutrients can help ensure a healthy pregnancy outcome. Proper nutrition supports the development of your baby’s brain, bones and organs. It also aids in building the placenta, which supplies the baby with oxygen and nutrients.’ He advises eating a balance diet that includes a variety of food groups, such as fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains and healthy fats. Each offers unique benefits that support both maternal health and foetal growth. What foods should I be eating?  Bearing in mind that you may feel nauseous in the beginning and not be able to eat certain foods and may have cravings for others, as far as possible try to follow a balanced diet, rich in nutrients. Foods you should include in your diet are dairy products, such as milk and yoghurt, as they provide extra protein, calcium and probiotics. Legumes, such as lentils and soybeans, are other good foods to include as they contain protein, fibre and folate, which is particularly important during pregnancy.  Sweet potatoes, which are high in vitamin A and fibre, are also a good addition to your shopping list. Other wholesome foods include eggs, broccoli, lean meat and berries.  ‘During pregnancy your vitamin and mineral needs will change,’ say Dr Hadebe. ‘And although a heathy diet should supply most of the vitamins and minerals needed, often healthcare professionals suggest prenatal vitamins as a good way to supplement and cover nutritional gaps, even though they don’t replace a healthy lifestyle and diet.’ What vitamins and minerals are essential and why?  Folic Acid: Or folate helps prevent neural tube defects, such as spina bifida and supports the development of the baby’s brain and spine. Iron: Supports healthy growth and helps prevent anaemia by ensuring that blood (in both mom and baby) carries oxygen effectively. Iron-rich foods like lean meats, beans and spinach can help but most pregnant women need an iron supplement to meet the increased demands.  Calcium: Calcium supports the development of the baby’s bones and teeth. If the mother’s calcium intake is inadequate, the baby will draw from the mother’s stores, potentially weakening her bones. Dairy products and leafy greens are great sources of calcium. Vitamin D: Aids in calcium absorption and supports the baby’s bone health. Exposure to sunlight and foods like fortified dairy and fatty fish (salmon, mackerel) can help ensure adequate vitamin D levels.  Omega-3 Fatty Acids: These essential fats, found in fatty fish, like salmon and also flaxseeds, support the baby’s brain and eye development. Omega-3s can also help reduce the risk of preterm birth. Vitamin C: Helps with iron absorption and boosts the immune system. It can be found in citrus fruits, strawberries, bell peppers and broccoli. Iodine:  Essential for the production of thyroid hormones that regulate the development of the foetal brain and nervous system. You will need more iodine than usual when you’re pregnant or breastfeeding.  Iodine can be found in dairy products, eggs and seafood. ‘Getting the correct micronutrients is essential for a healthy pregnancy and best possible development of your baby,’ says Dr Hadebe. ‘Deficiencies can lead to complications such as hypertension and low birth weight which is why prenatal supplements are often prescribed.  However, it is important not to exceed the recommended dosages.  Consult your doctor or gynae before starting any supplements, they will help determine the appropriate dose for your individual needs.’ In additional to a balanced diet, Dr Hadebe also recommends you exercise regularly – it’s a great way to stay in shape, boost your mental health and releases ‘feel good’ endorphins. In addition to maintain a healthy lifestyle, cut out alcohol and nicotine, cut down on caffeine and find way to manage your stress levels.   *Plan dependant.

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Early Education Milestones Every Parent Should Know

Watching your child grow and learn is one of the most rewarding parts of parenting. Early education milestones provide helpful markers to understand your child’s development and ensure they’re on track with skills they’ll need in school and life. While every child develops at their own pace, knowing typical milestones can guide you in supporting your child’s learning journey—and alert you early if extra help is needed. Here’s an overview of key early education milestones from birth to age five: Birth to 12 Months: Foundations of Learning 1 to 2 Years: Exploring and Communicating 2 to 3 Years: Building Independence 3 to 4 Years: Developing Skills 4 to 5 Years: Ready for School Tips for Supporting Milestones at Home: When to Seek Help If you notice your child is consistently missing several milestones or seems to struggle with basic skills, consider discussing your concerns with a paediatrician or early childhood specialist. Early intervention can make a significant difference. Final Thought: Knowing early education milestones empowers you as a parent to provide the best support for your child’s growth. Celebrate their unique journey, and enjoy the adventure of learning together! 📚 Sources:

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Symphysis pubis dysfunction (SPD) and to deal with it

Symphysis pubis dysfunction or SPD is pain in your pelvis, which is caused by the relaxing of ligaments in the pelvic bones too early before birth. Many aspects of pregnancy can cause discomfort, and SPD is one of them. Here are the signs of SPD and what you can do if you think you to alleviate your discomfort if you are suffering from it.  What is SPD and what causes it? Not all moms-to-be will experience SPD but it is thought to be fairly common in pregnancy. SPD is a pain in the symphysis pubis (which can range from moderate to serve) caused by the relaxing and stretching of the ligaments around the pelvic bone. Pain can be brought on by opening your legs, walking up stairs or even turning over in bed, and this may be accompanied by a clicking/grinding sensation in the pubic area.  The cause of SPD in pregnancy is the hormone relaxin, aptly named as it relaxes your joints and ligaments to make it easier for your baby to come out at birth. SPD happens when these hormones come into play too early. Not only that but you’re shifting centre of as your baby grows, which can cause main in your lower back and pelvis as your body shifts to accommodate your little one.  What can I do to relieve SPD  Living with SPD can be uncomfortable at best, so you may be wondering what you can do to help alleviate some pain. Being fit before pregnancy can help, as stronger glute and abdominal muscles can help support your pelvis. Physiotherapy can help manage SPD pain, as a physio will be able to work with you as your pregnancy and pain levels change. Speak to your doctor first, as they may have recommendations for you. Your pelvis should return to normal between 4 and 12 weeks after birth. 

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Winter Listening: Outdoor Sound Play for Children’s Growth

When we think of listening, we often imagine quiet, focused moments indoors — reading a story, following instructions, or singing a lullaby. But in reality, the world outside offers one of the richest soundscapes for nurturing a child’s listening development. Even in winter, perhaps especially in winter, nature becomes an immersive sensory classroom. It’s just a matter of tuning in. Winter is not silent. It whispers and whooshes. It crunches and drips. It hums, howls, and hovers with stillness, all of which offer rich opportunities for children to engage in listening, sensory play, and early auditory training. At NB Hearing and Balance, we believe in supporting children’s hearing health in a holistic way, and the outdoor environment provides a meaningful, natural space to help develop listening skills while encouraging curiosity and movement. Why Listening is More Than Hearing For young children, listening is an active process. It involves detecting sounds, distinguishing between them, interpreting what they mean, and learning to respond appropriately. These skills form the foundation of communication, learning, and social development. In children with normal hearing and those using hearing aids or cochlear implants, auditory training supports the brain’s ability to process and make sense of sound. One powerful way to build these skills is through sensory-rich environments, and winter landscapes, despite the chill, are full of unique sensory invitations. From the sound of boots crunching on frosted grass to the distant rumble of thunderclouds, every auditory encounter is a chance for growth. The Soundscape of Winter: A Natural Playground for the Ears Let’s take a closer (or rather, a deeper) listen to the sounds of winter. You may be surprised how much is happening when you pause to hear it: When we frame these everyday moments as meaningful listening experiences, we’re not just going for a walk; we’re participating in auditory learning. Linking Nature Sounds to Sensory Play Sensory play is essential to early development. It helps build nerve connections in the brain, supports language development, and promotes fine and gross motor skills. Importantly, it also fosters mindfulness and emotional regulation. By incorporating listening into sensory play outdoors, parents and educators can encourage whole-child development. Try some of these activities: The Role of Listening in Auditory Training Children with hearing difficulties, whether permanent or temporary, benefit greatly from intentional auditory training. Outdoor sound-based play can be part of a structured approach to developing these skills. The unpredictable nature of outdoor environments challenges children to listen carefully and adapt to new sound patterns, supporting the development of auditory memory and attention. For children using hearing aids or cochlear implants, caregivers can: At NB Hearing and Balance, we work closely with parents to personalise listening goals based on each child’s developmental needs and hearing profile. The environment,  indoors and out, becomes part of the therapeutic toolkit. Tips for Safe and Successful Winter Listening Play Listening is Learning — Wherever You Are Winter’s soundscape may be subtle, but it’s filled with opportunity. When we bring children outside and guide them to listen with curiosity, we’re nurturing not just hearing, but awareness, attention, language, and joy. At NB Hearing and Balance, we advocate for natural and engaging ways to support your child’s auditory development. If you have concerns about your child’s hearing, speech, or sensory responsiveness, contact our team — we’re here to help you navigate the journey toward stronger listening, inside and out.  Give us a calll, we are conveniently located in Cape Town, we help families connect through sound from Fish Hoek, to Hout Bay, Wynberg, to Sea Point, and the Durbanville surrounds.

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