

Newborn Sleep Myths Every Parent Should Ignore
When it comes to newborn sleep, there’s a lot of advice—some helpful, some outdated, and some just plain wrong. With so much information available, it’s easy for new parents to feel overwhelmed or misled. To help you navigate this journey, here are some common newborn sleep myths that you can confidently ignore. Myth 1: “Keeping a Baby Awake Longer Helps Them Sleep Better at Night” Many parents believe that limiting daytime naps will make their baby extra tired and help them sleep through the night. In reality, an overtired baby becomes fussier and has a harder time settling down. Babies need frequent naps to prevent overstimulation, and well-rested babies actually sleep better at night. Fact: Newborns need 14-17 hours of sleep per day and should not stay awake for more than 45-90 minutes at a time before their next nap【1】. Myth 2: “A Full Bottle or Heavier Meal Before Bed Means Longer Sleep” Many parents believe that feeding their baby extra milk or formula at night will keep them full longer and reduce night wakings. However, newborns wake up not just because of hunger but also due to natural sleep cycles and developmental needs. Overfeeding may even lead to discomfort, gas, or reflux, making sleep worse. Fact: A consistent bedtime routine is more effective than overfeeding in helping babies sleep better【2】. Myth 3: “All Babies Should Sleep Through the Night by 3 Months” It’s a common misconception that all babies should be sleeping through the night by three months. While some babies may begin to sleep in longer stretches, night waking is completely normal well beyond the newborn stage. Babies wake for feeding, comfort, and developmental reasons. Fact: Many babies continue to wake up at night until 6-12 months old. Sleep patterns vary, and expecting a young baby to sleep uninterrupted isn’t realistic【3】. Myth 4: “Newborns Should Sleep in a Silent, Dark Room” While a dark, quiet room may help adults sleep better, newborns are accustomed to the noisy, rhythmic sounds of the womb. White noise, soft talking, or gentle movement can actually be soothing for babies and help them settle into sleep more easily. Fact: White noise can mimic the sounds of the womb and help babies sleep better【4】. Myth 5: “Putting Rice Cereal in the Bottle Helps Babies Sleep Longer” This old-school advice is not only ineffective but also potentially dangerous. Thickening a bottle with rice cereal does not improve sleep and can increase the risk of choking and digestive issues. The American Academy of Paediatrics advises against adding solids or cereals to a baby’s bottle unless medically recommended. Fact: Babies should not start solids until around 6 months. Before then, milk or formula provides everything they need【5】. Myth 6: “Babies Will Just Fall Asleep When They’re Tired” Newborns do not have the ability to self-regulate their sleep like adults do. Without guidance, they can become overtired, making it even harder to settle. Establishing a gentle sleep routine helps babies recognise sleep cues and feel secure. Fact: A consistent bedtime routine (rocking, singing, dim lights) helps babies fall asleep more easily【6】. Myth 7: “Holding or Rocking Your Baby to Sleep Creates Bad Habits” Some parents worry that holding, rocking, or comforting a baby too much will create a dependency that makes it harder for them to sleep independently. However, newborns need parental comfort to feel safe and secure. Sleep training techniques should only be considered later, when babies are developmentally ready. Fact: Responding to your baby’s needs builds trust and supports healthy emotional development【7】. Conclusion Newborn sleep can feel like a mystery, but understanding the facts over the myths can help you feel more confident. Babies have different sleep needs, and it’s okay if your baby isn’t following a “perfect” schedule. The key is to follow their cues, create a calming routine, and have realistic expectations. Sources: 【1】 National Sleep Foundation – Newborn Sleep Recommendations【2】 Mayo Clinic – Baby Sleep Basics【3】 AAP – Normal Infant Sleep Patterns【4】 Healthline – The Benefits of White Noise for Babies【5】 American Academy of Pediatrics – When to Start Solids【6】 Parents – Bedtime Routine Tips for Babies【7】 Harvard University – Infant Sleep and Development