“Parenting in the early years is an adventure. One moment, you’re watching your child turn snack time into a science experiment, and the next, you’re untangling playground disagreements. But beyond the daily chaos, one of the most valuable lessons we can teach our children is how to embrace others—quirks and all. “At Dibber, we believe in nurturing hearts and minds for the future. That means raising children who don’t just exist alongside others but truly see, value, and respect them. Inclusion isn’t just a concept—it’s a way of life, and it starts in early childhood. “As an educator, a special needs parent, and someone who is autistic myself, I understand inclusion from multiple perspectives. I’ve seen firsthand the joy and growth that happens when children are given the space to connect with those who experience the world differently. But I’ve also encountered moments that remind me of the work still to be done—like when a parent once said, “That child has something wrong in his head and needs to be removed” about my son. Statements like this come from a place of misunderstanding, and that’s exactly why we need to keep having these conversations. “We all see our children as perfect in their own way. But every child has challenges, a unique way of thinking, and moments of joy and struggle. Some differences stand out more than others, and too often, children who communicate, learn, or express emotions differently are misunderstood. Rather than approaching differences with fear or judgment, we can choose curiosity and kindness. “Early childhood is the foundation of lifelong learning. If we want to build a more inclusive society, we have to start by fostering inclusion in the places where children spend their earliest years. At Dibber, we see every child as competent and full of potential. That means we don’t just include children with diverse needs—we celebrate them. “If your child has a disagreement with another, instead of immediately assigning blame, take a moment to ask, “What happened?” Encourage them to consider different perspectives. Autism, ADHD, sensory processing differences—these aren’t things to be ‘fixed.’ They are simply different ways of experiencing the world, and when we talk about them openly, they become a natural part of life. “Children naturally gravitate toward those who are similar to them, but true growth happens when they form relationships with those who see the world differently. When we help children build friendships based on understanding rather than sameness, we give them a skill that will serve them for life. “Imagine telling a child who wears glasses that they can’t be part of a school because their eyesight isn’t ‘normal.’ It sounds absurd. Yet, when it comes to neurodivergent children, exclusion still happens too often. The truth is that inclusive education benefits everyone. It teaches patience, adaptability, and social skills that matter in the real world. Like our communities, our schools should reflect diversity’s beauty—not just a narrow version of it. “To the parent who once questioned my child’s place in school, let me reassure you: His mind is just fine. In fact, it’s filled with creativity, curiosity, and insights that might surprise you. The real challenge isn’t his brain—it’s a world that sometimes struggles to make room for different kinds of minds. “So, if your child has a neurodivergent classmate, take a moment. Instead of jumping to conclusions, encourage them to ask questions and be open. Teach them to be kind, not cautious, to be inclusive, not indifferent. Because one day, they will grow up and enter a world filled with people who think and experience life in all sorts of ways. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if they were prepared for that? Imagine if a child knew how valuable they are. “Inclusion isn’t about charity; it’s about humanity. As parents and educators, we have the power to raise a generation that sees the value in every mind, every perspective, and every person. Let’s make the most of that opportunity. “One day, your child may have a friend who communicates differently, a colleague who approaches problems from a new angle, or a partner who sees the world in a unique way. The empathy and understanding they learn now will shape how they navigate life later. So, let’s teach them to appreciate—not just accept—differences. Because the world isn’t made for only one kind of mind, and neither should our schools, our communities, or our hearts.” By Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead, Dibber South Africa
