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Self-tan tips to ensure an even, streak-free glow this summer

Skirt season is here, and while the temptation to sun tan next to the pool is very real, we know that the only safe tan is a fake tan. Not only can you go from pasty to sun-kissed in a matter of hours, but by opting for self-tan instead, you’ll save yourself from sunburn, premature ageing and even skin cancer. The sun’s rays are dangerous, and when your skin tans, it is actually a sign of damage from UV rays. Applying self-tan at home is a safe and affordable alternative, but some people are still a little bit apprehensive about the process. Getting an even, streak-free glow is much easier than you may think – here’s how.  Prep your skin Preparing your skin for fake tan is arguably the most important step for smooth application. Gently exfoliate your skin the morning of, or the evening before you apply self-tan. Buffing away dry and dead skin cells will ensure a deeper colour, a smoother, more even application and a longer-lasting tan. If you shave, shave your skin at least 24 hours before you apply self-tan to ensure the hair follicles have closed up (to avoid a speckled look). It’s also really important to remove any traces of self-tan you might already have on your skin. St Moriz Tan Remover (R300.00) gently and effectively removes self-tan, without the need for abrasive scrubbing. This moisture-rich formulation leaves your skin super soft, and tan-free – ready for your next application!  Keep skin clean Self-tan should be applied to clean skin, free from deodorant, perfume or moisturiser (with one exception!). Deodorant can turn green when it comes into contact with self-tan, and perfume can cause blotches, so best avoid both of these on the day of your tan. With regards to moisturiser, you should moisturise the driest areas of your body before you apply your tan (such as your knees, elbows and heels) as these areas tend to absorb a lot of colour and can thus get darker than the rest of your body. Select your formula and shade wisely To find your perfect self-tan product, you’ll need to keep a few key variables in mind. Firstly, if you’re new to self-tan application, or if you have very fair skin, opt for a light shade to begin with. Mastering the basics is a lot less stressful when you are working with a natural-looking shade.  Then you have to consider the different types of formulations. For newbies, a tanning moisturiser is a great first product to try.  St Moriz Golden Glow Moisturiser (R150.00) is perfect for those looking for a soft and natural golden glow. It is specially formulated with aloe vera and vitamin E to leave your skin feeling soft and looking beautiful.  Australian Gold Intensifier Bronzing Dry Oil Spray (R290.00) contains immediate bronzers designed to provide dark yet natural colour and smooth skin. It uses the power of natural black walnut in a ColorBoost formulation that helps to leave skin with a deeper, bronzer colour that lasts much longer. It’s also made with nourishing Australian oils and banana extract to help condition and care for the skin.  For that classic sun-kissed look, St Moriz Medium Tan Mousse (R150.00) offers a golden glow and professional finish. A unique blend of active tanning agents leave you with a golden, natural-looking tan. If a quick result is what you’re after, St Moriz Fast Tan Mousse (R150.00) is for you. It gives you a quick tan and allows you to control your shade – bonus! Infused with vitamin E and olive milk, this fast tan mousse makes it easy to achieve the tan you desire in much less time. If you love a spray formula, try Australian Gold Instant Sunless Spray (R390.00). It combines bronzing ingredients and nourishing moisturisers to feed and protect skin while developing a sunless tan that lasts longer. It also contains caffeine to tighten skin, and its oil-free formulation dries quickly and allows for even, streak-free coverage. Use a tanning mitt Don’t ever use your bare hands to apply self-tan as they will over-absorb colour and stain. Instead, use a good quality mitt like St Moriz Tan Applicator Mitt (R99.99), which ensures an even, streak-free finish. For best results, start with your feet, and use long sweeping motions as you work up to your neck. Experts recommend setting aside enough time to take it slow and avoid a rushed job, which often leads to missed spots. Make it last Be sure to wear loose dark clothing after you’ve applied your tanning product, and for the hours in-between your tan application and first post-tan shower, be sure to avoid sweaty exercise or swimming. Keep the water lukewarm for your first shower as hot water can sabotage your glow. After showering, pat your body dry and apply a hydrating moisturiser, a step you must repeat every day (you can even moisturise twice a day if you prefer) to lock your colour in and keep the skin soft and moisturised.  Don’t skimp on UV protection Now that you have the perfect golden tan, it’s easy to forget about sun protection, but it’s important to remember that even though you have a fake tan, you can still get sunburn (and the sun can still damage your skin!). Whether you’re heading out for a swim or staying home, it’s important to apply a good quality SPF every day to protect your skin from UVA and UVB damage. Piz Buin Tan & Protect SPF30 Tan Accelerating Oil Spray (R270.00) protects skin from the sun, is fast-absorbing and non-greasy. It’s a beach bag staple as it’s really easy to apply. If you prefer a lotion texture, then Piz Buin In Sun Moisturising Sun Lotion SPF30(R200.00) is a great option. It comes with advanced UVA/UVB filters to protect the skin from the sun, and is also enriched with antioxidants to prevent premature skin ageing. The non-greasy texture allows skin to breathe.  A hydrating after-sun product like Australian Gold’s Soothing Aloe After Sun Gel (R165.00) is perfect to apply after spending some time in the sun as it’s filled

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Fight the Fade with the New Marc Anthony Complete Colour Care™ Collection

It’s often said that blondes have more fun, but we’re guessing whoever coined that motto isn’t referring to one of the biggest obstacles blondes have to deal with – brassiness! Whether you’ve gone platinum, cool ashy blonde, or wanting to lighten your hair for the warmer months, the new COMPLETE COLOR CARE™ collection by Marc Anthony will fast become your secret weapon in bringing down the brass! With anti-fade technology, fighting the fade and keeping your blonde tresses vibrant and shiny all summer long has never been easier!  COMPLETE COLOR CARE™ PURPLE SHAMPOO FOR BLONDES & HIGHLIGHTS RSP R179.95  Formulated with violet pigments, this purple Shampoo helps neutralise unwanted brassy tones and with anti-fade technology, keeps your blonde colour and highlights looking their best. With added moisture they look and feel it too. Who’s up for some color play?  COMPLETE COLOR CARE™PURPLE CONDITIONER FOR BLONDES & HIGHLIGHTS RSP R179.95  Infused with violet pigment, this Conditioner conditions your blonde colour and highlights to neutralise brass tones. Anti-fade technology keeps your colour vibrant and shiny to keep it going long after your color’s been set. Benefits (Complete Colour Care™ Purple Shampoo and Conditioner): Violet pigments neutralise brass tones Maintains colour vibrancy and shine For all blondes & highlights Anti-fade technology protection Ultra-moisturising Free from sulfates, SLS, parabens and phthalates  Essential ingredients (Complete Colour Care™ Purple Shampoo and Conditioner): Anti-Brass Violet Pigments – prevents unwanted brassy tones Hydrolyzed Quinoa – a multi-functional ingredient that improves both colour uptake and retention while also providing protection and increasing the shine and healthy appearance of the hair Grapeseed Oil – containing both antioxidants and Vitamin E, grapeseed oil has the potential to aid in hair growth, restore moisture to the hair and scalp as well as strengthen and add shine to the hair. It also helps to lock in moisture, therefore preventing split ends and dryness COMPLETE COLOR CARE™ NOURISHING HAIR MASK (for ALL hair shades) RSP R189.95 You’ve got the colour, now get the protection. This hair mask nourishes to reduce fading, locks in nutrients, and protects against environmental damage. For all the time and effort you put in to get your colour just right, it’s time to give back with lushness and body. Rich in fatty acids, Castor Oil helps keep your scalp hydrated and nourished, resulting in stronger, shinier, and healthier hair.  Benefits: Deeply nourishing Anti-fade technology protection For ALL hair shades (not just blonde hues) Free From sulfates, SLS, parabens and phthalates COLOUR BOND INSTANT COLOUR SEALER RSP R179.95 Iridescent looks good on you! Lock in your colour, add shine and prevent colour fade to maintain vibrancy. Sounds dreamy? It’s the innovation of the Colour Bond Color Sealer. It seals the cuticles to lock in mositure and treats your colour right: day and night, from week to week. Benefits: Locks In colour and shine Anti-fade technology protection Extends the life and vibrancy of ALL shades (not just blonde hues) Free From sulfates, SLS, parabens and phthalates Essential ingredients:  Just as the Complete Colour Care™ Purple Shampoo and Conditioner, both the Instant Colour Bond Sealer and Nourishing Hair Mask are infused with Hydrolyzed Quinoa and Grapeseed Oil, boasting a varieties of benefits  Moonstone Extract – energises the scalp which in turn may promote hair growth, adds moisture back into the hair to prevent breakage and strengthens and smooths the surface of the hair, making it silky and accentuating the reflection of light The Marc Anthony Complete Colour Care™ collection is available at Dischem stores nationwide.

Wingu Academy

Bok van Blerk’s Hanna Foundation benefits from Wingu Academy and Umma Afrika’s fundraising drive

The money raised by Wingu Academy and Mahala Loyalty during Mandela Month towards the Umma Afrika Charity Trust was donated to Bok van Blerk’s Hanna Charity and Empowerment Foundation to support families in need. The initial aim was to raise R6 700 between 16 – 30 July 2021, but the Back-a-buddy initiative raised over R7 000! Through the kind donations by Wingu Academy and Mahala Loyalty supporters, Umma Afrika Charity Trust was able to donate 240 Umma Pot Meals (each Umma Pot Meal feeds up to 6 people), as well as care packages to the Hanna Charity and Empowerment Foundation. Thank you to everyone who participated in this worthy cause during a time when communities need it the most!

Tommee Tippee

NEWBORN NAPPIES: EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT NEWBORN BABY POOP

Babies do three things – eat, sleep and poop. And if you’ve recently become a parent (congrats!), it may come as a shock to you just how many nappies your little one can get through a day.   Newborn poop isn’t very much like its adult counterpart, which can take you by surprise when you first start changing nappies! Here’s everything you need to know about what’s normal and what’s not in the world of newborn baby poop:  How Often Should a Newborn Poop? While there isn’t an exact poop quota your baby should meet each day, here’s what a normal day of pooping might look like:  On average, babies have about four poops a day during the first week of their life. This decreases to an average of two per day by their first birthday.   Breast milk is considered a natural laxative, so breastfed babies may poop at every feed during their first few weeks. Thankfully, this ‘in and out’ phase doesn’t last very long, and they might not poop for several days after the six week mark. Phew!  Formula-fed babies, on the other hand, can poop up to five times a day when newborn, reducing to as little as once per day after a few months.  While all of this might seem like too much poop to handle, there’s generally not a lot to worry about. Some babies are quite literally pooping machines, while others can go a few days without pooping at all!   As long as your baby seems happy, bouncy and is eating well, chances are things are fine – even if you need to change them 12 times a day!   Newborn Baby Poop Chart A better indication of your baby’s digestive health is the colour of their poop.  Below is a rough guide to the different shades of baby poop and what the colours might mean:  Meconium: large, dark, thick and tarry poop that can be sticky and very hard to clean up. Meconium contains cells and other substances that line your baby’s digestive tract during pregnancy. This kind of poop is generally nothing to worry about and will subside after the first 3 or 4 days.   Mustard Yellow: Breastfed babies often poo yellow stools. The consistency will generally be loose (sometimes very loose!), and smell (semi) sweet – not like your average poop!   Pale Yellow or Pale Brown: Babies who are formula-fed might have semi-formed poops that are this colour. They may strain a little to work this kind of poo out, but this is totally normal!  Green: While a few green nappies are usually nothing to worry about, babies who frequently poop green, watery stools might have diarrhoea. It could be a sign that your baby has an allergy or intolerance, so it’s best to check this one out with your health advisor.   Pink or Red: Reddish baby poop could be a sign of blood, but there’s no need to panic if you spot it. Call your doctor and they’ll be able to tell you what’s going on. It could just be a sign of allergies or constipation.   White: Very pale, white poop is very rare, but it could indicate an underlying problem. Contact your doctor straight away if you spot this kind of poop.   Newborn Diarrhoea   We’re sure you’re aware by now just how much a baby’s poo can vary! If your little one is eating well, gaining weight and growing, chances are everything is fine.   While it’s not unusual for breastfed babies’ poop to be loose, if your baby’s poop is frequently watery, it could be a sign of diarrhoea.   Diarrhoea can be a symptom of many things, including infection, teething, antibiotics, dietary changes or allergies. It’s always best to get your baby checked out by a doctor to find the root cause of the problem!  Remember – if your baby does have diarrhoea, it’s important to keep their fluid levels in check. Breastfeed or offer your baby the bottle more frequently to help them get the extra fluids they need.   Newborn Constipation Signs You might think your baby is constipated if they seem to strain when pooping. But if you’re feeding your baby formula this is quite normal. Formula is a little harder for babies to digest (and makes their poop more solid), and it’s completely normal for them to seem strained or upset when passing a poop. As long as their poop is soft and a normal colour, everything should be fine.   Your baby might be genuinely constipated if they show any of the following signs:  Pooping fewer than 3 times a week.   They have hard, dry and lumpy poops that look like pellets.  They’re eating less and aren’t as hungry.  Their little tummy is firm.  Their poops are larger than usual and are difficult to pass.  They seem a little grizzly and fatigued. How to Relieve Constipation in Newborns Constipation can be caused by a number things, including dehydration or a change in diet. Thankfully, these can be easily treated using the following methods:  Massage Lay your baby down on their back on a soft, safe and comfortable surface. Gently give their tummy a massage to help get things moving. You can use your fingertips to make circular motions across their belly in a clockwise pattern.    Movement You can try exercising your baby to help things along. Lay them down on a soft, safe surface and gently move their legs in a cycling motion. These movements will encourage their bowels to function and provide some relief.  A Nice Warm Bath Bathe your little one in warm water to help their abdominal muscles relax and discourage them from straining. This can also help soothe some of the discomfort associated with constipation.   Nappy Cream for Newborns Pooping problems can lead to your baby’s nappy area getting irritated. While nappy rashes are super common, they can also be super uncomfortable for your baby, so

Cartoon Network Africa

Yogi Bear, Cindy, Huckleberry Hound, and a Universe of Hanna-Barbara Characters Welcome You to Jellystone! on Cartoon Network Africa

Original animated ensemble comedy series from Chowder’s C.H. Greenblatt and Warner Bros. Animation marks anticipated return of legendary characters to television after 30-year hiatus  Cartoon Network’s young audience won’t be the only ones delighting in the brand-new, animated series, Jellystone! – there’s something nostalgic for baby boomers and millennials in there too! From 15th of November, Africa’s #1 kids’ channel is bringing on the whacky, wonderful, and absolutely hilarious epic ensemble cast of Hanna-Barbera characters, created by acclaimed showrunner and executive producer C.H. Greenblatt (Chowder, Harvey Beaks) and produced by Warner Bros. Animation.  The series presents a reimagined take on these beloved characters, modernising them for today’s family audience and introducing them to a new generation of fans. Set in the charming town of the same name, Jellystone! follows the Hanna-Barbera characters as they live, work, play, and (often the case) destroy the town in some silly way together.   Huckleberry Hound proudly serves as the town’s mayor; Cindy, Boo Boo and Yogi are the town’s medical staff; Jabberjaw works at Magilla’s clothing store where they supply all the bow ties and hats to the town’s citizens. Every character has a specific role in the community, and their paths cross in fun and ridiculous ways, turning everyday activities into hilarious pandemonium.  “I grew up watching tons of Hanna-Barbera cartoons and have a deep love for these characters,” said Greenblatt. “The massive amount of both classic and not-so-classic characters we were able to use from the Hanna-Barbera library is what really makes the Jellystone! universe special. Rather than recreate the feeling of cartoons of the past, we wanted to have silly, weird fun with these characters and expand their personalities to give them more depth. Chances are, if there’s a character you love, you’ll see them somewhere in this world eventually. We hope long-time fans appreciate our take on this world, and we’re excited that parents get to introduce and enjoy their favourite Hanna-Barbera characters with their kids.” We’re re-writing history at Cartoon Network, so take a trip to Jellystone! from Monday, 15 November, on Cartoon Network Africa.

Tommee Tippee

INFORMATION ABOUT BABY POOP

Tommee Tippee has the information you need about baby poop, including what is considered normal and how often it should happen. How often should babies poop is one of the most commonly asked questions that Tommee Tippee receives from moms, so you’re not alone in wondering this and other baby poop-related questions. Whether you feel you are changing nappies every ten minutes or worrying that you’re not changing them often enough, it is likely that your baby’s bowel movements are normal. Some babies are like little poop machines, pooping several times a day, usually around every feed. Meanwhile, some babies can go several days without pooping once (you can bet you’ll know about it when it does happen though!). You’ll find that you’ll change the most nappies with your newborn. A newborn baby can average around 12 changes in a 24-hour period but you may be relieved to hear that this does slow down as your baby gets older (phew!). This is the time however when your nappy disposal bin will be your best friend. What your baby is fed can also determine how often they poop. Breast milk contains a natural laxative, so breastfed babies can poop more often, typically have several bowel movements each day. Formula-fed newborns may have fewer.  Formula is harder for babies to digest, which changes the texture of their poop to make it more solid. This means it’s more likely for them to become constipated. But before you reach for the prune juice, it’s probably helpful to know that it is totally normal for babies to strain and cry when passing a poop. This alone does not mean that they are constipated. As long as the poop is soft, everything is fine. For more information about how to help a baby poop, keep on reading for a more general baby poop guide. It covers everything you are dying to know about your new favourite subject. You also invited to join the Tommee Tippee Changetime right here https://www.instagram.com/tommeetippeeza/    from 15 – 19 November 2021. Tune into a IGTV series of pre-recorded & live sessions about nappies, fifty shades of poo, nappy rash, sore tummies, along with tips & tricks on how to help you navigate this very important part of your life (and your baby). Is this poop normal? You’re in for a surprise when it comes to the colour, texture and smell of baby poop! With the help of Tommee Tippee though, you can become an expert in one of the most talked about subjects for new parents on what’s normal and what isn’t. Poop. Something you hardly thought about and certainly didn’t talk about before becoming a parent. And now it’s not only a hot topic of conversation but wondering whether the colour, texture, smell or frequency is normal is starting to drive you a little crazy! Baby poop comes in all sorts of shades and forms and can keep even the most experienced parent guessing. Let us help demystify that nappy for you with our handy baby poop guide…. BABY’S FIRST POOP Among the most unusual baby poop is a baby’s first poop. This is because it is made up of something called meconium, which is made up of everything mum ingested while their baby was in the womb. This poop is a dark greeny-black colour and very, very sticky, which can make it quite difficult to wipe away. Yes, it does look and feel like something they tarmac the roads with — this is normal and will likely last for a few days at least. BREASTFED BABY POOP After the meconium has passed, your baby’s poop will start to change to a lighter greeny-black colour and then on to a yellow hue. It is also often quite bright. The texture will change too, from sticky to grainy, even loose. It should be soft and easy to pass. The biggest surprise for new parents is often the smell, as it is far sweeter than you might anticipate – a breastfeeding bonus! BOTTLE-FED BABY POOP It is a little more difficult for a baby to digest formula than breast milk and this results in some small differences in their poop. Bottle-fed baby poop is likely to be bulkier than breast-fed baby poop. Colour-wise, you can expect the poop to be a paler yellow or yellowish brown and it will be stronger smelling. Fortunately, your nappy disposal bin should be helping you keep those nasty niffs away. BABY POOP WHEN INTRODUCING SOLID FOODS All change! With solid foods, your baby’s poop will now become larger and thicker, more like what you’d expect as an adult. And unfortunately they will get smellier too! You may notice that different foods affect the poop differently. Sometimes you’ll see the colour of the poop reflect what you’ve given your baby to eat. You may also notice certain hard-to-digest foods pass straight through. This will change in time, as your baby gets used to different food types. In the meantime, you’ll have fun guessing what those weird little black flecks are (HINT: it’s probably that banana). This poop just got real. JET PROPELLED POOP Yes, your baby can achieve some real force behind that poop! Don’t be surprised if that poop you’ve waited longer than usual for has made its way out of the nappy. What to watch out for with baby poop…   You already know that poop comes in all sorts of shapes and sizes (not to mention smells and colors). Because of this, it is sometimes hard to tell when something is wrong. Nevertheless, there are a few signs you should watch out for that could indicate a greater problem: Diarrhea – runny or even explosive diarrhea could be a symptom of teething or an allergy, but you should check with your doctor in case of infection or other medical problem. Constipation – some babies just don’t poop as often as others (especially if they are bottle fed). However, if your baby is really

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R20 million in bursaries available at The Knowledge Trust Education and Career Expo on WhatsApp

South African matriculants, school leavers and students can register now to attend The Knowledge Trust Career Expo, hosted for the first time entirely on the WhatsApp platform. Expo visitors who have completed the expo’s career guidance journey, unlock access to apply for the more than 140 bursaries, valued at over R20 million. They also have access to more than 20 education institutions, who will be hosting stands at the expo, as well as a wide variety of career guidance, learnership and job opportunities.   The expo, which runs for three months focusing on different topics each month, can be accessed for free by South African youth. For November, the theme is Education and participants can register to connect with educators, training providers and organisations who sponsor young talent.  The expo features a variety of pathways across six different expo halls: business and management; media and communication; science, technology, engineering and maths; health and wellness; tourism and hospitality; and arts, humanities and education.  For the current Matric cohort, the event’s ground-breaking use of the WhatsApp platform enables them to easily co-ordinate browsing the virtual education and employment expo halls with their study and exam timetables, from home, simply via their devices.  For school-leavers and students, it enables them to scout for serious study opportunities, bursaries and sponsorships without incurring any travel spend or major data costs. In addition to accessing the bounty of bursaries, participants have the option to apply for Standard Bank student loans via the WhatsApp bot. Young South Africans can register here to access The Knowledge Trust Career Expo on WhatsApp.   Jaryd Raizon, Africa Director of The Knowledge Trust says, “This expo was designed for youth as a free tool they can explore within the comfort of their homes. At a time when so many other events have been disrupted due to the pandemic, it was vital to provide youth with access to career guidance, education and job opportunities, at scale through affordable technology. At the same time, ensuring Matrics and school-leavers are not further compromised due to COVID-19.” JobStarter, a career coaching platform, is one of the partners at The Knowledge Trust Career Expo.  Executive Director, Marguerite van Niekerk highlights why learners and students should participate: Learners and Matrics – “Taking the first step to planning for your future can feel rather daunting, even frightening.  To know what your next step should be, you need to know what options are available to you because it is important to match your skills, interests and values to study and career pathways that work well for you.  Career Expos like this one are important tools for you to use to discover what’s out there in the world of work and to explore options that suit you.  You are likely to gain insights into careers you haven’t known about or considered.” School-leavers and Students – “The job market is constantly and rapidly changing, and so are the skills-sets that employers need.  The Knowledge Trust Career Expo will provide you with wonderful opportunities to gain insights into different industries and a deeper understanding about your interests, skills and values.  It’s an experience that helps you understand who you are and what you have to offer, which is a crucial first step in your job-seeking journey.  This, in turn, helps you create a better CV and stand out in interviews.” Van Niekerk concludes, “My top tip is to explore every booth in every hall.  Don’t follow your preconceived ideas about study or work that might interest you.  Keep an open mind and check out all the options.  You never know what you might learn about yourself or the world of work that could shift your career trajectory in more fulfilling and rewarding ways.” Unilever’s LevelUp initiative is an exciting feature of the expo this November. The youth empowerment programme will give expo participants access to training modules that will enable them to strengthen their CV as well as build their skills and experience.  LevelUp teaches the basics of personal branding, helps to develop digital skills and offers a range of activities that promote work-readiness. Lisa Andrews, HR Director Talent & Organisation at Unilever says, “Collaborations and partnerships are critical in growing and developing Africa’s youth and we are proud to partner with The Knowledge Trust on such an innovative and purpose driven initiative” Registration for The Knowledge Trust Career Expo via WhatsApp is free here

Tommee Tippee

NAPPY RASH

Nappy rash… it’s sore, it’s red and it’s uncomfy for your little one. But it’s also pretty easy to treat and maybe not as scary as you think it is. Nappy rash isn’t as common in newborns as it is in bigger babies and toddlers, but most babies will get nappy rash at least once in their lifetime. Let’s get into it.  What causes nappy rash? Your baby has super sensitive skin which doesn’t like to be wet or irritated. Unfortunately, your baby also likes to wee and poo in their nappy, and even the most absorbent nappy will still leave some wetness on your baby’s skin. This alone can cause nappy rash, but here are some more common causes to look out for:  Your baby’s nappy isn’t being changed often enough and their skin is becoming irritated by the moisture.  Your baby’s nappy may be too tight and is rubbing on their skin.   The skin in the nappy area has not be clean thoroughly enough during changes.   It could be a reaction to some soaps, wipes or detergent.   Diarrhea is a common cause of nappy rash because of the extra… moisture.  Your baby has recently been treated with antibiotics.   What does nappy rash look like? It’s good to know exactly what you’re looking for when it comes to nappy rash. The rash itself can range from a mild rash to a large rash that can spread across their bottom and thighs. Here are some common signs to lookout for:  Red or inflamed skin. Spotty or bumpy skin.   Skin is hot to touch.   Small blisters in the nappy area.   In severe cases, there might be small specks of blood in their nappy, from irritated skin.  You might also notice that your little one is fussy or seems irritated especially when they’re having a wee or a poo, or when you’re changing their nappy. In other cases, they might not seem bothered at all!  Types of nappy rash  If you’re looking to get scientific, there are a bunch of different types of nappy rash that your baby could get – some more common than others:  Irritant dermatitis – The most common type of nappy rash, caused by a wet nappy being in contact with your baby’s skin. To avoid this, you should change your baby’s nappy regularly and use a solid nappy cream.   Candidiasis (yeast infection) – Yeast overgrowth in the nappy region, often caused by diarrhoea or tight nappies. A good nappy cream should be able to tackle this, but if not you can always visit your doctor.   Bacterial infections – This infection is often caused when baby’s skin is already irritated and bacteria builds in irritated areas. Antibiotics are normally needed for a bacterial infection, so if you notice puss-filled blisters or hard scabs around their nappy area, you should consult your doctor.   How can nappy rash be prevented?  Obviously, the best way to deal with nappy rash it to try and avoid it in the first place. Here are some of the best methods of avoiding nappy rash:  Change your baby’s nappy as soon as possible.   Give your baby a bath once a day – enough to keep them clean and their skin hydrated but not too much to dry out their skin.   Try not to use soap or bubble bath when cleaning your baby.   Dry your baby gently after washing them and try to avoid talcum powder, as it could irritate your baby’s skin.   Make sure your baby’s nappy fits correctly – the nappy should be snug under the belly button and the tape should be fastened evenly.   Have some nappy-free time – especially after a bath, you might want to pop your baby on a towel and let them wriggle around in the nude.   How to treat nappy rash   Sometimes you take all the precautions in the world and can still be stuck with a little nappy rash – it happens. But not to fear – you can almost always treat nappy rash at home.   The best thing to do is invest in a top notch cream or ointment. Look for a cream or ointment that is a great all-round soother and healer for your little one’s sensitive skin, one that contains antiseptic and antibacterial properties will help fight off further infections.   If you think your baby’s rash might be an allergic reaction, try to figure out if you’ve used anything new recently. The culprit is often detergent or soap!   And if your baby’s rash isn’t clearing up after day 4, looks extra sore or is spreading, you should visit your doctor to ensure the rash isn’t infected.   You can also catch the Tommee Tippee Changetime # Nappyfest   on  https://www.instagram.com/tommeetippeeza/.   Dr Aimee Gavin a dermatologist, will be chatting live to AfroDaddy on all things nappy rash.  Tune into the live on Monday 15th November 2021 at 8pm.  

Sudocrem South Africa

Nappy Rash – What do I need to know?

Nappy rash is a common skin condition or skin irritation in babies and toddlers.  Babies and toddlers who wear nappies can develop nappy rash.  Once children are toilet trained at around 2-3 years of age, nappy rash generally isn’t a problem. Until then it’s not uncommon. Most cases of nappy rash are mild and respond very well to simple management like more frequent nappy changing and applying a good quality barrier cream. Sometimes nappy rash needs specific treatments to target the cause of the rash. Try not to worry if your baby has nappy rash. Most babies will, at some time, get nappy rash no, matter how well they are nurtured. Generally, it is not caused by an infection or poor hygiene, but simply due to the sensitivity of a baby’s skin. What are the symptoms of nappy rash? Generally, the skin covered by the nappy appears red, inflamed, and sore. The rash may just be concentrated around the baby’s bottom, or all over the area covered by their nappy. May look spotty, like little pimples.  Can look shiny and red. Blisters and broken skin can be present when nappy rash is severe or caused by a bacterial or other skin infection. What causes nappy rash? A baby’s skin is sensitive to all sorts of irritants and some babies are particularly susceptible to nappy rash. When the skin covered by a nappy is in contact with moisture the skin reacts by becoming red and irritated.  The ammonia and enzymes in wee and faeces irritate their skin and the acidic contact causes their skin to react. Sometimes nappy rash appears very quickly, even between nappy changes. Rubbing caused by friction of the moist nappy aggravates the skin even more. This means the usual protective barrier function of the skin is compromised, causing their skin to react.  Nappy rash can become worse when a baby is teething. How can I prevent and treat my baby getting nappy rash? The key is to change your baby’s nappy frequently.  Removing a wet or soiled nappy so it’s not in contact with their skin is the single most useful thing you can do. Clean your baby’s skin thoroughly after removing their soiled nappy. Use warm water or gentle nappy wipes to remove all traces of wee and faeces from their skin. Allow their skin to dry well. Smear a good quality barrier cream such as Sudocrem Skin & Baby care cream onto their skin which will help to create a protective barrier. If the cream is thick, try warming it between your fingers before you apply it. Even if your baby doesn’t have a nappy rash, or it’s cleared up, use Sudocrem Skin &Baby care cream to ensure the skin barrier is maintained. Use good quality nappies which will help to draw any moisture away from your baby’s skin. Give your baby some time each day to kick freely without a nappy on. During floor time, lay them on a towel and give their skin a chance to ‘breathe’ and never leave a baby unattended. See a doctor or healthcare professional if: Your baby seems distressed or there are any changes in their feeding or sleeping patterns. If your baby has a temperature or any other symptoms which you feel could be signs that they are unwell. If their nappy rash has blisters, pimples or crusts. Sudocrem Skin & Baby care cream has been used and loved by families since 1931.  It’s great for preventing, soothing, and treating nappy rash.  Sudocrem Skin & Baby care cream is a soothing emollient cream that helps in the management of nappy rash. The Zinc Oxide in Sudocrem provides a barrier to protect the baby’s delicate skin between nappy changes. 

Solarpop

Lift-Off with Drone Home

3… 2… 1… LIFTOFF!  With Drone Home, gone are the days of boring family game nights, it’s the only game that literally takes flight!  In Drone Home players assumes command of a group of crash-landed aliens needing help to return home. Each player selects their favourite colour aliens and attempts launch them into the transport drone to send them flying home. Sounds simple, well your opponents are trying their best to secure a seat for their aliens and just might kick your pilot out before the drone takes flight! The first player to send all their aliens home is the winner! Suitable for ages 8 and up, Drone Home will keep the whole family entertained for hours on end. With it’s simple addictive gameplay and active play, younger players will stay entertained and develop important fine and visual motor skills. As a finalist for the Toy of the Year Award (TOTY) 2021 you are rest assured that Drone Home isn’t only adored by families but has gained the attention and approval of leading toy authorities across the world.  Key Features:   Race to the launch pad – Hurry and launch your aliens down your ramp, trying to land in the centre launch pad where the drone awaits! Knock others out of the drone – Another alien landed in the drone? You have mere seconds to propel your aliens to knock them out and prevent the others escape! Lift-off – When an alien lands in the drone, it’s activated and flies up after a small delay! So, if your alien is aboard when it takes off, you’re closer to winning! Closer to winning – The winner is the first player to fly all of their aliens home! Number of Game Players – 2 – 4 Ages – 8 & Up Drone Home is available from Toy Kingdom, Hamleys, C.N.A. Takealot.com, EveryShop and other fine retail stores.

Parenting Hub

A holiday could be just what the doctor ordered

After enduring three waves of COVID-19, the vaccine programme now rolling out and the travel and hospitality industry re-opening, now might be the ideal time to plan a de-stressing, year-end family holiday. Many families are still getting over cabin fever, the stress and anxiety associated with the disruptions to work, education, anticipated social events that were cancelled, or at worst, the loss of someone close. A Human Sciences Research Council (HSRC) study in 2020 found that during the first lockdown period 33% of South Africans were depressed. This is double the level of depression and anxiety that a 2018 study found.  The HSRC also reported that 45% of respondents were fearful and 29% experienced loneliness. Research supports the benefits of taking a holiday to counter depressive symptoms, with one study finding that getting away is far more effective than passive leisure activity. Scientists have also found that the psychological benefits of a holiday can last for up to a month after returning home. Besides finally having something to look forward to and the mental health benefits of a holiday, another consideration is the deals that are available as the hard-hit travel and hospitality sectors try to lure back customers.  Personal loan specialists, DirectAxis, canvassed some industry experts to find out how you might regain some sanity while getting the best value for your holiday budget. Be an early bird If you’re planning to fly to your destination, the good news is that with British Airways (operated by Comair), kulula.com and South African Airways all flying again, there’s increased competition and more seats to fill, which should keep airfares in check.  Even so, don’t wait too long before booking. Airlines sell different fare types within each cabin. Typically, the cheapest fares have conditions attached to them, such as penalties for changes to the booking or a limited baggage allowance. The more restrictions there are, the less you’ll pay. Airlines know these cheaper fares will sell quickly. To discourage customers from changing their minds at the last minute and leaving the airline with an unsold seat, they charge hefty fees for cancellations or changes. If you’re sure about your arrangements and book early, you can snap up these lower fares. The other tip is to try to fly during periods of lower demand. Although the year-end break is always going to be busier and fares are likely to be slightly higher than during quieter periods, most people want to be on morning or evening flights so they can make the most of their day. You may be able to save some money if you choose less popular flights during the day or fly on Christmas Day or New Year’s Eve when demand is typically low. Avoid popular flights at the start or end of school holidays which are likely to be more expensive. Expand your horizons The successive lockdowns meant that international tourism all but dried up. While there is now some interest from North America and some European markets with less stringent travel restrictions, industry insiders think the international market won’t recover until after 2023.  This means that some top-end hotels, guest houses and private game lodges which had previously depended on international tourism over the South African summer peak season have had to re-think their sales and marketing strategy to attract local guests. The result is that some of these experiences which domestic travellers may have previously not considered are now much more affordable. With not all international flights having returned and some countries still restricting international travel, now could be the time you could enjoy a once-in-a-lifetime, world-class experience in your own country at a fraction of what you would have paid pre-pandemic. Do your homework Shafeeqah Isaacs, head of financial education at DirectAxis, says the travel experts also provided some sound travel tips: Do some research before you commit. Compare airfares, hospitality rates and understand what is included and what the penalties are for changes or cancellations. Once you’ve narrowed down your choices double check that you’ll get what the website promises on review sites such as TripAdvisor. The internet is a valuable tool, but there’s no substitute for first-hand experience. If you know someone who has visited your destination find out everything you can, good and bad. That way you’ll know what not to miss and can avoid repeating any mistakes they made. Once you’ve booked your trip, plan what you’re going to do when you get there. If you can, pre-book. It could save you money and also avoid disappointment if popular activities are booked up on the day. It will also help you stick to your travel budget. Doing things on a whim can be expensive. When you’ve finalised your plans and booked your trip, consider what you have left of your budget to spend on your holiday. That way you’ll be able to savour the memories as you ease back into daily life, rather than anxiously waiting for January’s paycheque because you’ve over-spent. “A family holiday may not be as costly as you think and will help put the anxieties and stresses of the past 18 months behind you. You’ll also be supporting the recovering domestic travel and hospitality sector,” says Shafeeqah.

Wingu Academy

Eating Disorders – Food for thought

Eating disorders is one subject that is very important to address, especially since it usually has its onset during the teenage years but can even develop at a younger age and continue well into the adolescent years. Eating disorders can cause a lot of conflict, stress and even death in families and thus it’s important to understand the types, causes and treatment. Types There are various types of eating disorders. The most common ones according to the South African College of Applied Psychology include binge eating disorder, where the sufferer overeats; anorexia nervosa, where the sufferer eats too little; bulimia nervosa, where the sufferer attempts to rid themselves of food they’ve consumed; and even rumination disorders where the sufferer regurgitates food.  “The most common factors that come into play are that the person is anxious about their physical appearance, and how it appears to others around them. This also includes that the image that they have of their own bodies, are distorted. Subsequently, they also have eating behaviours that are maladaptive. Research has further shown that eating disorders affect both genders, although they occur more frequently among females,” says Dr Serahni Symington, Child and Adolescent Play Therapist. Causes Dr Symington says that the causes of eating disorders must be understood from an integrative model, because there is not a single causal factor that leads to the development of it. Multiple factors could lead to the development of an eating disorder and is often also accompanied by other diseases like manic depression, anxiety, possessive compulsiveness disorder and substance abuse. According to reports by psychologytoday.com, researchers have long been probing the underlying causes and nature of eating disorders. Unlike a neurological disorder, which generally can be pinpointed to a specific lesion on the brain, an eating disorder likely involves abnormal activity distributed across multiple neural systems. Eating disorders appear to run in families, and there is ongoing research on genetic contributions to the conditions. Other factors—psychological, interpersonal, and social—can play a role in eating disorders. Among identified psychological factors are low self-esteem, feelings of inadequacy and lack of control in life, depression, anxiety, anger, and loneliness. Interpersonal factors include troubled family and personal relationships, difficulty expressing emotions and feelings, a history of being teased or ridiculed based on size and weight, or a history of physical or sexual abuse. Social factors that can contribute include cultural pressures that glorify thinness and place value on obtaining the “perfect” body, narrow societal definitions of beauty that include only those people of specific body weights and shapes, or cultural norms that value people on the basis of physical appearance and not inner qualities and strengths. People with anorexia nervosa see themselves as overweight even though they may be dangerously thin. In bulimia nervosa, despite usually weighing within the normal range for their age and height, sufferers, like individuals with anorexia, may fear gaining weight, desire to lose weight, and feel intensely dissatisfied with their bodies. Many with binge-eating disorders are overweight for their age and height. Feelings of self-disgust and shame associated can lead to bingeing again, creating a cycle of binge-eating. Treatment Because of their complexity, eating disorders require a comprehensive treatment plan involving medical care and monitoring, professional interventions, nutritional counselling, psychotherapy, and, when appropriate, medication management. Treatment for eating disorders lies in recognizing and overcoming underlying triggers. Depending on the type of eating disorder and its associated underlying triggers; medications can be used to ease symptoms of co-occurring disorders such as depression and anxiety. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI) are known to help reduce binging and purging and is specifically used in some cases of bulimia nervosa. The first-line treatment for all eating disorders is psychotherapy, which encompasses a broad range of therapy approaches such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and dialectal behavioural therapy (DBT) which aim to recognize and reduce the harmful thoughts and emotions associated with the eating disorder and works to develop productive coping mechanisms and tools to help the individual engage in positive thoughts, emotions, and behaviours in order to overcome their past traumas and low self-esteem. Other skills and tools learned in therapy include mindfulness, relapse prevention skills, meditation, nutrition counselling, art therapy, and relationship building. The good news Eating disorders can be treated, and a healthy weight can be restored. The sooner an eating disorder is diagnosed and treated, the better the outcome is likely to be.  Wingu Wellness Hub Parents who have any concerns about eating disorders and wellbeing of their children can contact the Wingu Wellness Hub to assist with guidance to get the help they need. Sources:  https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/conditions/eating-disorders, https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/blog/happiness-is-state-mind/201703/eating-disorders-it-s-not-all-about-food

Parenting Hub

Walking the road to wellness

Being healthy and living a full life is what we all want, for ourselves and our family.  An important part of life’s wellness journey is about having the right people to support you – physically, emotionally, mentally and even financially – when it matters most. The latest television ad by Bonitas Medical Fund underpins this ‘holistic’ healthcare message in a simple, real and compelling way. It addresses the fact that medical aid is a necessity but expands on the message to show how the Scheme acts in the best interests of its members and ‘has a plan’ for everyone.  The story is one of perseverance and tenacity as a father tackles his tough wellness journey with the support of his family, friends – and medical aid – in order to walk his daughter down the aisle. ‘The story is about protecting our loved ones and making sure they have the best care possible,’ says Lee Callakoppen, Principal Officer of Bonitas. Produced by Joe Public and shot over three days in various locations, the advert reinforces the Bonitas’ brand strategy of being the ‘Medical Aid for South Africa’ while it introduces a campaign takeout referencing affordable and accessible quality healthcare and better benefits that don’t impact your savings. ‘We are a unique medical scheme,’ explains Callakoppen. ‘In that we offer medical aid solutions for all sectors of the market and the South African population. Our advertising needs to be slightly disruptive and set us apart, which is why we chose to portray a real life family dealing with a healthcare situation that was impacting their lives and future.  ‘We’re always taking strides to see how we can provide our members with more value – and connect with them more strongly. Be it through competitive plan design, the introduction of new benefits that add meaning to their lives or innovation in the way we communicate and engage with them.’ There are several versions of the ad including a 60s, 30s and three 10s which will be flighted across a range of DStv channels as well as Business Day TV, ENCA, eTV and SABC. Supporting the campaign will be radio, print and digital adverts. ‘We are passionate about ensuring South Africans make informed decisions about their healthcare and that they have the cover they need, when they need it. Our hope is that this TV advert will resonate well with viewers and get them thinking about the future of their health.  We believe ‘when I becomes we, illness becomes wellness’ and would like to be the medical aid that takes the wellness journey with them.’ Click here to view the latest Bonitas Medical Fund TV advert

Prima Baby

Keep little ones protected from mosquitos and bugs this summer with Chicco Anti-Mosquito Wipes and Anti Mosquito After Bite Rub

Summer brings lots of fun, warm nights and days spent in nature – unfortunately, it also comes with insects.  Keep your little ones protected from mosquitos and bugs this summer with Chicco Anti-Mosquito Wipes and After-Bite Rub and get the gentlest, most natural solution to all-round cover. Made with naturally effective ingredients such as Melissa, Crabwood and the soothing properties of Xanthoxylum, wipes are easy to use as they sit in strollers, car seats or in their cribs. A gentle wipe-down will keep them refreshed and free from nagging mozzies at all times. If mozzies do manage to get their way, just rub some gentle soothing After-Bite rub into the bitten area and provide relief from itching and stinging. Unlike most mosquito repellents the Chicco Anti-Mosquito range leaves a great smelling, natural fragrance, reminding you that every time you protect your baby you are doing the least possible harm to their gentle skin. Available at Baby City, The Kid Zone, Loot, Takealot and other participating retailers.

Koa Academy

WHY EDUCATION SHOULD BE DESIGNED FOR THE INDIVIDUAL, NOT THE AVERAGE

Whenever we design one thing for many users, we rationalise that if we ‘design it for the average’, we’ll have a good fit for most users.  An example of this was in 1926, when the US Air Force was coming up with a design for their first fleet of fighter planes. They constructed the cockpits based on the average measurements of over 100 of their prospective Top Gun pilots.   After around 25 years of inexplicable crashes involving highly trained pilots, they decided to revise their cockpit design. They doubled down on their assumption about designing it for the average pilot, and this time they took many more measurements from over 4000 pilots, hoping to have ‘a better average’.  But the plane crashes they put down to ‘human error’ only increased. As Koa Academy CEO and Principal, Mark Anderson tells the story: “Then along came Lieutenant Gilbert S Daniels, a Harvard graduate who had studied the law of averages.  He had a firm belief that if you wanted to design something for an individual human being, the average was useless.  He went on to prove this by studying the data of the 4000 pilots and showing that not one of them fell into the ten most basic average measurements, even with a generous 30% margin of error. In other words, not one of the individual pilots was average in every way, and so none of them fitted into the cockpit with optimal access to all the aircraft’s controls.” Daniels concluded that in designing a cockpit for the average, they had effectively designed ‘a cockpit for no one’.  Anderson maintains that the same is true for our traditional education system. “Teaching to the middle is simply not a good way to educate individual human beings; it’s not a good way for any child to learn.  We’ve known this for a long time, and school leaders, teachers and parents have been yearning for a shift from teaching to the middle to teaching the individual child.” Finding the ways to individualise learning has been a passion for Anderson since his early days of teaching.  Technology has been a key to unlocking how one education system can individualise learning for many.  “We’ve finally solved the dilemma of teaching to the middle, where some are frustrated and bored, and others are frustrated and confused,” he says.  At Koa Academy, a high engagement online school, learners in close-knit Pods are working at their own pace on personalised pathways and engaging with content that is delivered optimally for them. Their progress is tracked and measured against targets that each individual child has set under the guidance of their teacher.   When the US Air Force finally introduced adaptable features in their cockpits and each pilot could fit optimally, crashes due to ‘human error’ became very rare.  In the same way, no child gets left behind, or gets left unattended out ahead, because their learning path is highly adaptable to their unique learning needs. Discover Koa Academy here

Sanlam Savings Jar

Saving Can Be Child’s Play

As South Africans, our experience with money is probably as diverse as our population. Unfortunately, the significant gaps in understanding basic financial concepts continue to be a barrier to living the lives we deserve. This makes taking a one-size-fits-all approach to financial education as effective as trying to build a house using only a hammer. While access to financial infrastructure is one way to broaden socio-economic inclusion, another is addressing the knowledge gap in ways that work.  This needs to be a nuanced approach that’s sensitive, sustainable, and accessible. It needs to empower people to live with confidence, go after their goals and believe they can build a better life. Ideally, it should start in childhood, but be an ongoing journey. In fact, the earlier in childhood we can start, the better. Starting Young It has long been known that play is one of the most powerful ways in which children learn. This is what makes the Sanlam Savings Jar app such an innovative and apt solution to the question of how to teach children sound financial lessons. In the app, which essentially gamifies the idea of saving, players become young dragon masters embarking on a fantastical quest. The more they save, the more their mystical dragon grows. Mariska Oosthuizen, Head of Brand at Sanlam, says, “We know that gamification is a powerful means to educate young people. The Sanlam Savings Jar breaks down basic financial concepts, like planning, goal setting, needs versus wants, and appreciation of money and how to earn it. It’s critical to teach children these concepts early on as habits are formed from as young as seven.” By making the idea of saving fun, whether for a rainy day or a sunny one, much of the stigma and discomfort is removed from conversations about money. A key first step in closing the financial literacy gap in South Africa involves families being able to talk freely about the subject. Turning it around An alarming finding comes from the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development, which ranked South Africa the worst of 30 countries for financial competency in 2018. This worrying reality need to be addressed urgently and head-on. Teaching children how to plan, especially where money is involved, starts to empower them to live with confidence. Upskilling their financial literacy will do exactly this and help South Africa as a nation, move away from some of the troubling tendency toward over indebtedness.  Here are a few ways you can help improve your child’s financial literacy:  Teach them about managing debt: Debt is a tricky one to teach little people about. Offer to ‘advance’ your child the money they need for a desperately desired toy, but make sure they understand the ‘conditions’ upfront. Talk about what the toy is worth. Now, show them the impact of interest. By taking your loan now, they’ll have to ‘pay’ more for the toy in total. Work out a roster of chores they can do to ‘pay back’ the money. And make sure they know that if they don’t do the chores, they could lose their cherished toy! It sounds harsh, but it’s wise to teach these lessons to older children in the safe space of your home. Practice saving and investing for different goals: Ponies and Playstations don’t grow on trees but the money you need to buy them can be grown in a bank account. Through games like the Sanlam Savings Jar app your little one can take their first steps to becoming Baby Bezos. Give them financial confidence: Few things are as gratifying as the hands-on-hips confidence your mini me displays when they do something well. That confidence can be built with financial literacy too. Give them little savings tasks and reward them when they do these well. If it all goes according to plan then, in a few years’ time, they’ll have the financial confidence to start to build their best, independent lives.  

FYI Play it Safe

Shocking anonymous match-making in apps used by teenagers

We all know technology changes rapidly and apps are launched every single day. We also know that many of these apps are targeted at our tweens and teenagers, and even those not aimed at them are not always adequately protected to limit our children’s exposure to these apps. Do we fully understand and realise the full consequence of this and what can we do to support our children? Founder and CEO of FYI play it safe, Rachelle Best, put it to the test: “When we launched FYI play it safe, the app that alerts parents when their children are potentially exposed to harmful situations, I personally tested many of the popular apps. As I have a teenage daughter, I wanted to see what she would be exposed to and what her experience would be like  when using these apps. I was absolutely horrified by what I found access to and the content I was exposed to.”  My testing included a number of the anonymous chat apps and websites, such as Omegle and Anonymous Chat for two. Even though these apps accommodate younger users, time and time again, I was matched with a stranger aged between 18 and 23. A mix of male and female – even though we have no way of knowing whether the personal details of the other person were true. The average conversation went something like this: [Anonymous] male or female?  Female [FYI] [Anonymous] age 14 [FYI] [Anonymous] what you up to? I’m in class [FYI] [Anonymous] want to have some fun Yes, sure, what type of fun? [FYI] 5th message – the stranger either started with very explicit sexting or tried to jump to another platform like Snapchat or KIK to exchange pictures. Even worse, some of them recommended we continue our chat on “lamourly.fun” – a very explicit pornography site.  On average, it took 5 messages in about 30 seconds. This is just the pornography risk that anyone who engages on anonymous chat apps (including our children) gets exposed to. In addition, apps that we use every day launch new features to help them stay relevant and compete with other apps.  Whether it is self-destructing messages or a place where you can hide your “private” information. Our children are typically the first to know about these changes, which they then test and use.  Changes to apps or launching new apps aren’t all bad and it enhances our mobile experience, but it makes parenting in the digital world really tough. For parents to keep up with all the new apps our children use and changes to the apps we have already “approved” for their use can be a full time job!  The good news is that, because of the technology FYI play it safe uses, we will know when a new app is launched and we monitor it by default. Also, before a message self-destructs, we would have captured and analysed it already. FYI play it safe is not a parental control app, but rather an app that gives you insight into what is really going on in your children’s digital lives. It sends parents alerts when their children are exposed to or show signs of cyberbullying, depression, self-harm, suicidal ideation, or when they engage in adult content such as pornography, sexting or drugs. FYI play it safe is the one app no parent should be without. Download the app at www.fyiplayitsafe.com and follow the easy three-step sign-up process to start your free 7-day trial.

Stimulus Maksima!

Why does reading matter?

 Why do we tell children to read? Why do we always tell children that reading is beneficial for them? And is it even true in this digital age? Does reading novels actually help older children in any way? Does reading to younger children have identifiable benefits? And, finally, does reading really matter in any way? Yes – reading is vital, life-changing and stimulating for some very important reasons. Let’s take a look at how reading assists children in their everyday lives, and then look further to see how it can give them an overall fulfilling, rewarding life. Books help children develop vital language skills. In children, reading skills do exist, but they need to be developed. Learning in school, and later on at university requires advanced levels of reading. No reading SKILL equals no advancement in the university of life. Whatever path you want to follow in life, be it academia, sciences or even entrepreneurship and the arts, you need reading skills. And to cope with life as a normal functioning adult, reading skills are of utmost importance for everyday use. People studying futurology have hailed the death of the written word as imminent. However, the exact opposite has happened. With the advent of the internet and the overload of information that we are bombarded with every day, reading a vital skill that everyone wants to acquire as fast as possible. Skimming and searching through copious amounts of information as fast and as accurately as possible is a valued skill. Paperless does not mean without the written word. You can read the same report in many different ways, formats and presentations at the click of a button. A couple of written words today can cause an international uproar in minutes. In order to understand what you read, other skills are also necessary, such as critical thinking, evaluation, anticipation, and moderation. Without these skills, reading would not mean much at all. The more children read, the better they become at reading. Yes, it’s true. If children enjoy what is being read to them, the more interested they will become in doing as much as possible to fine tune and develop their reading skills. This means they will be fully capable adults with access to all information anywhere they choose. It is also important to enjoy the activity of reading. If it takes you out of your life and introduces you to other worlds, thoughts, places, and things, then you are the richer for it. When a child struggles to read, it will continuously be an emotional obstacle. So, it is important to forge a positive attitude towards reading as early as possible. Children who read frequently will develop enquiring minds and become more interested in becoming avid readers themselves. If you read out loud to children, they become familiar with grammatical styles and expression. Through this, they learn to speak better and develop a greater understanding of how to express themselves verbally. Through this they are also able to pick up on empathy as they read stories through the eyes of different characters. They learn to identify similarities and differences between themselves and various characters. The list goes on. Children who read a lot regardless of whether it is newspapers, the internet, books or magazines are exposed to a greater range of new and interesting vocabulary. They do not have to understand the actual word as most times they can work it out from the context of the sentence and next time they see it, they will have learned something without even realising it. Reading aloud also helps children with the pronunciation of words as they link the word on the page to the word that is being spoken – this is true even if they cannot yet sound out the word themselves. Reading is an amazing experience. It can open up a whole new world to children, enhancing their lives with places, things, and descriptions they have never heard of before. Reading also brings a completely new world to a child – whether it is factual, scientific or simply for self-interest. There are so many resources available from which children can read, that if they take to it and realize how useful it can be, then, literally, the world is their oyster – there is no end to what they can read and access. It would be a magical experience for them. Reading will open up a whole new understanding of humanity, and its history from all over the world. And nowhere is it more obvious that we live in a “global village” than when thinking of this in relation to children growing and developing their hungry minds. Aspects such as peaceful coexistence throughout the world and concern for humanity are all by-products of reading. Children will learn these things through the reading of non-fiction books, and other materials that are set in other periods of time, in other countries and cultures. Books bring a real live world into the life of a child. Through their imagination, they can go places and feel things without any consequences. They don’t have to answer to anyone. They can travel with their minds and meet all sorts of unsavory or popular characters who they can revisit, whenever they feel the need, by simply rereading the book. Discovering a sequel or other stories by the same author is even more exciting. Lessons in life skills such as problem-solving, cause and effect as well as conflict resolution and learning about accepting responsibility for your own actions are all explained and contained between the exciting pages of novels. Mystery stories or investigations into plots can all challenge young minds to solve theories – and then feeling terribly pleased when they do it correctly as it unfolds in the book. Furthermore, their confidence is given a great boost. Everybody knows that children copy what they see and hear from the world around them. There are plenty of children’s TV programs that leave much to be desired

Parenting Hub

This Children’s Day, Pampers Celebrates Single Parents who brought the world home when their babies couldn’t step out through their campaign #MamaUyindlovu

Pampers also steps up to support young children with early childhood development scholarships In celebration of National Children’s Day in South Africa, Pampers is celebrating single parents who bravely navigated lockdown parenting with little to no support. 40% of parents in South Africa are single moms. Though the past year has been challenging for most parents, it has been undoubtedly been even much more so for single parents who spent months isolated from family, friends, and childcare facilities that would form part of their support system. The campaign called #MamaUyindlovu, highlights the unique struggles and triumphs of renowned singer, Busisiwe “Cici” Thwala as she experienced first time motherhood during the COVID-19 related lockdowns. It also recognizes how she left no stone unturned to ensure her baby was safe and thriving developmentally during the height of the pandemic, despite the isolation. “My son Dialo is just over a year old, so he spent most of the first year of his life in lockdown. I was worried at first that he was missing out on crucial social contact with others. But I realized that I had an opportunity to do things differently and that’s when I decided to create special moments where we would explore and learn about the world in our home in creative ways.” said Cici.  Damilola Oyebanjo, Brand Director, Pampers South Africa, says, “Pampers exists to celebrate and support parents to give babies the brightest beginnings in spite of these unprecedented times. Children’s Day presents the perfect opportunity for us to celebrate single moms, who are bringing up the next generation. 40% of parents are single moms in South Africa, and despite the challenges, all parents are showing incredible resilience and are giving their little ones a great foundation because of their active involvement and investment in their child’s development.” Committed to making a meaningful difference and stepping up as a #ForceforGood, Pampers has pledged to donate towards early childhood learning scholarships by partnering up with SmartStart.  SmartStart is an early learning social franchise that boasts over 6000 sites across South Africa. This is part of Pampers’ efforts to support the happy and healthy development of little ones as they continue their journey of discovery in our post-lockdown world. “Early learning is critical for a child’s future success. Yet many children from disadvantaged communities cannot access quality early learning due to economic barriers. We’re excited to be partnering with Pampers to grow access to our quality early learning programmes through early learning scholarships. We believe this kind of support is essential to parents during these times.” said Samantha Maasdorp, Network Strategist Lead at SmartStart.  The partnership with SmartStart aims to support South African moms by providing early learning opportunities for their little ones during national lockdowns, especially single moms.  Pampers is calling on all local communities to join in saluting single moms and supporting the right of all children to access quality early education this Children’s Day.  “Through National Children’s Day we are presented with a unique opportunity to come alongside parents, as a brand, to support the holistic development of children by creating greater access to the critical development resources they need to have a brighter future,” concludes Oyebanjo Damilola, Pampers Brand Director.  

My Breastpump

How to be #preemiestrong

November is dedicated to all the parents and little warriors that find themselves in a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). No mommy ever thinks that something might go wrong and that her baby will be born too early and need to be in a NICU. NICU’s are not really spoken about and can be scary if you suddenly find your baby in one. For myself this is a very special month because both of my children were born too early and it would have been amazing to have had this type of information and support 11 years ago. For myself the first time realizing that my baby was going to be born at 33 weeks, I was scared and did not know what to expect. I did not even know what I needed to ask for help with. The day after my baby was born, a friend of mine arrived at ICU and gave me a breast pump. For this I will always be grateful because she helped me start my journey of breastfeeding, even though it was not what I had planned but it ended up being so very special. Every drop that I pumped for my babies, was a love letter sent to them.  So what does a mom need to know if her baby is in NICU.  Your baby is in the care of professionals who want you baby to grow and get stronger so that your baby can go home, but you are still your baby’s mom. You are an important part of the NICU team and we consider you as your baby’s life support. Ask questions, be available, get to know your NICU team and try to practice skin to skin as soon as possible. Find out more about why Skin to Skin is so important . Protect your milk supply. Mothers own breast milk is lifesaving. Colostrum and mature milk are known for their antibody, stem cells, easy absorption, correctly balanced nutrition (for a premature infant) and it is protective against Necrotising enterocolitis (NEC). A mom needs to start expressing as soon as possible after birth as she can. Ideally to start within 1 hour if possible and then to express for 10 -12 times in 24 hours. This will help you to get your milk supply up and way ahead for your baby’s current needs but get you ready for when your baby comes home. You should be aiming for 750ml by day 14.  In order to be able to express this amount you will need a high-quality hospital grade breast pump like the Ameda Mya Joy. Find a South African Certified Lactation Consultant to help you with your breast feeding and expressing.  Make use of donated breastmilk if you need it. Throughout South Africa we have a variety of breast milk banks that collect and send out breast milk for premature infants. If your baby needs breast milk in the first week, ask your NICU team for more information about breast milk banks. This will give you time to recover from birth and build up your own milk supply. If you have lots of breast milk and you would like to share with other mothers in NICU then please contact the South African Breast Milk Reserve and they will let you know the process. Donating your breast milk can really make the difference for a premature infants life. Syringes can be very useful to collect your first few drops of breast milk. They are sterile so you can use them straight away to suck up the colostrum drops and send to the NICU. Remember to label them Have a pumping bag ready to take to the NICU. This will allow you to spend more time and be able to pump while you are with you baby. In your pumping bag you will need: Breast pump Microwave sterilizing bag. It is always better to have your own way to sterilize your breast pump parts. This helps you to be in control of your sterilizing and not needing to share equipment with other moms, thus reducing the risk of cross-contamination.  Breast milk storage bags .These are so useful. Make sure that you label the bags with your baby’s name, date of expressing and amount. This way you make sure that you baby will get your breast milk and that the oldest milk is used first.   Breast pads can be very useful to help prevent any unwanted leaking. You can try the disposable breast pads  or the washable breast pads depending on your preference.  Have some snacks and drinks available. These are so useful if you have been in the NICU all day. You don’t need to leave and it can help keep you hydrated for all the pumping.  To help you with bonding, you can use a NICU bonding heart.  These are the most amazing little hearts that helps your baby to smell you even while you are away.   The octopal is the cutest little octapus but is also calming aid that helps your baby to feel at home and helps to stop them from pulling out their tubing and drips.  Join a support group. There is a lovely support group for NICU parents on Facebook called My Little Prem Support SA (@MyLittlePrem), where you can share your stories and chat to other moms that are going through or have gone through similar experiences like you. Your friends and family might not understand how strange and difficult NICU can be for a parent, and it is so amazing to be able to relate to other mothers who have followed the same journey as you have. It does help to make you feel less alone and more heard.  Find your preemie nappies that will make such a difference in your little one’s life Finally buy your baby a coming home outfit. You might find that new born clothing is a bit large for your little one. We love the Little Little Prem

Bonitas – innovation, life stages and quality care

Keeping kids healthy throughout the year

Parents are often very good about getting their children off to a healthy start at the beginning of the year with medical check-ups and healthier schools lunches but it’s equally important to maintain a healthy lifestyle throughout the year. So, here are some tips on what you should be doing to maintain your child’s health.

Glenoaks Remedial and Special Needs School

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL THROUGH MULTI-DISCIPLINARY THERAPY AT GLENOAKS REMEDIAL AND SPECIAL NEEDS SCHOOL

A young poet, Mattie Stepanek, once said: “Unity is strength… when there is teamwork and collaboration, wonderful things can be achieved.” The multidisciplinary team (MDT) working at Glenoaks remedial and special needs school, epitomises collaboration through its remarkable interdisciplinary approaches that aim to enhance the potential and learning of every child in our school. It is only through collaboration and the sharing of knowledge, that one can optimise learning.  An integral part of the MDT team at Glenoaks School is the passionate therapy team. The primary purpose of any therapy is to increase a child’s participation, independence and engagement in activities that are relevant to their life. Glenoaks’ therapists are onsite for the full school day which allows them the opportunity to provide therapeutic intervention based on the learner’s individual needs. Intervention occurs individually, in pairs, in groups or even within the classroom itself to ensure carryover of skills being learnt. Glenoaks’ therapists provide not only assessment and intervention services to the learners but also support and guidance to the teachers and parents. They are involved in every aspect of learning and take part in case discussions, placement decisions and termly parent feedbacks – which provides the opportunity for parents to gain information about their child’s areas of strengths and difficulties holistically.  THE DIFFERENT THERAPEUTIC DISCIPLINES OFFERED AT GLENOAKS INCLUDE:  Psychology Our Psychologists primarily focus on the emotional well-being of our learners. An eclectic therapy approach is utilised, which is flexible and multifaceted.  Many children experience problems that affect how they feel, think or act and therapy helps them with this. The aim of therapy is thus to assist our learners to overcome behavioral, emotional and social problems that interfere with success at school and at home.  Therapy helps them to cope better, communicate better and do better. Through talking, playing, drawing, practicing new skills and solving problems, learners display: Improved communication and personal skills Ability to manage stress more effectively Better expression and understanding of emotions Improved self-esteem and confidence Improved problem-solving abilities Our Psychologists also provide parental guidance, to assist parents in supporting their children to reach their full potential and offer parent counselling, by providing a space for parents to discuss and explore their own emotions with regards to accepting and understanding their child’s areas of weakness and celebrating their strengths. Occupational Therapy Our Occupational Therapists use an interdisciplinary and multidisciplinary approach to assess and treat learners with challenges in the areas of gross motor, fine motor, visual perceptual development, as well as sensory processing. The aim of Occupational Therapy in the school environment is to enhance a learner’s ability to fully access the learning environment and actively engage in the learning process so that they may participate in all aspects of school life (academic and non-academic). Our therapists use a variety of games, sensory activities, functional activities and academic-related tasks to meet these outcomes. In addition to this, the learning environment is taken into consideration, with classroom and activity accommodations recommended and implemented when necessary.  Speech, Language Therapy and Audiology Our Speech Pathologists and Audiologists primarily focus on the assessment and treatment of social and cognitive communication difficulties. One of the most crucial aspects of learning is the development of communication skills. In order to communicate however, children require language. Reading, writing, listening, and speaking are all forms of language and proficiency in the understanding and use of language will enable a child to be able to cope better at school. Speech and Language Therapy is therefore provided to students who present with delays or deficits in communication that are impacting on their social and academic performance.  Our therapists focus on developing the learner’s speech, voice, fluency, auditory processing and receptive (understanding what is said) and expressive (expressing one’s thoughts logically and coherently) language skills in order to support their interpersonal communication and curricular goals. Through collaboration with the MDT, our Speech Pathologists aim to improve and facilitate success in oral and written communication, executive functioning, literacy, critical thinking and reasoning. Remedial Therapy Our Remedial therapists focus on assisting learners overcome or cope with their academic difficulties. Remedial therapy, also referred to as learning support, acknowledges the potential of learners to grow at their own pace towards their maximum level of independence in their academic learning. Our therapists focus on developing and improving reading, reading comprehension, spelling, writing, and mathematical skills.  Individualised strategies and practising learning styles of choice are used to support learners in reaching a level of achievement according to their unique abilities. The remedial therapy department works in collaboration with people from the multidisciplinary therapy team, family and community to which the learner belongs, to accommodate and meet specific support needs. Robert John Meehan said: “Every child has a different learning style and pace. Each child is unique, not only capable of learning but also capable of succeeding.” Successful children become successful adults who have a good self-esteem and self-worth. They enjoy learning new things and are not afraid to explore new avenues. Glenoaks’ MDT team nurtures our learners to achieve their potential and achieve success – whether it be academic or within the more practical realm. Authors:  Meera Rijhumal – Speech Language Therapist & Audiologist – Glenoaks School Karen Jacobs – Speech Language Therapist and Audiologist – Glenoaks School

Solarpop

25 Years of Pokémon!

For more than 25 years, children all over the world have been discovering the world of Pokémon. It is almost a sure thing that parents have been introduced to the world of Pokémon through their children watching the animated series, bringing home trading cards from school or playing one of the many video games. As the Pokémon franchise is turning 25 years old this year, the chances are good that parents have great memories of Pokémon from their own youth. With 2021 being the 25th Anniversary of the Pokémon brand, it is no wonder that Pokémon is being celebrated worldwide across various platforms. The brand has such an amazing following that celebrities such as Katy Perry and Post Malone even lent a hand in celebrating Pokémon! Besides a long running animated series that has been a staple on South African television channels and more recently streaming channels such as Netflix, the Pokémon Trading Card Game (TCG) especially enjoys a strong local following. It’s no surprise as the Pokémon Trading Card Game is beloved by young and old alike. With the generational gap it breaches, it has become a pastime parents enjoy with children. In the Pokémon Trading Card Game, players build decks around their favourite Pokémon and then play against each other to prove who is the best Pokémon Trainer. There are many ways for players to start their Pokémon Trading Card Game journey, but typically younger players will start with the Pokémon Battle Academy, which is a step-by-step guide guiding children and parents alike through the rules. Players can also start out with theme decks – preconstructed decks designed to cover the basics of the game.  Once players understand the rules they can augment their card collections with booster packs that provide more cards, letting players develop more diverse decks and unique strategies. With thousands of cards to choose from, the game is never the same twice.  It is during November and December when Pokémon’s anniversary celebration will truly reach its peak with the local release of a Trading Card expansion named aptly named Celebrations! The Celebrations expansion offers plenty to be excited about, allowing players the opportunity to stroll down memory lane with classic Pokémon TCG cards. Celebrations will allow players to add a variety of Legendary, Mythical, and other beloved Pokémon to their collections, including Mew, Ho-Oh, Zamazenta, Flying Pikachu, and Surfing Pikachu.  The Pokémon TCG: Celebrations expansion includes: 4 Pokémon V and 2 Pokémon VMAX 25 classic Pokémon TCG cards More than 45 cards The Celebration set will contain some sough after items such as the Elite Trainer Kit, the Pikachu Premium Figure Collectors Box and the Pikachu V-Union box set which will delight young and old. Pokémon Celebrations will truly make an amazing gift under Christmas trees this year and create lasting memories your children will remember when they are celebrating the 50th anniversary with their children.  

Sinta Ebersohn

Are You Walking Away or Being Left Behind?

How do you feel about your divorce – are you ready to get on with it or are you resisting the process? Upon his return from a business trip, Sean greets Rachel with a nonchalant brush on the cheek. “We have to talk” he whispers in her ear as he pushes past her to tuck the kids into bed. While she listens to the laughter from the bedrooms, Rachel wonders whether his work will take him away from home again soon. She boils the kettle and starts to prepare his coffee, just like she has always done for the past twelve years that they have been together. “Leave the coffee. Let’s sit down.” he says. He is going away again soon, she sighs. “Rachel, I am not happy. I want a divorce.” What? It seldom happens that two people agree to get divorced at the same time, for the same reasons. What normally happens is that one spouse announces the wish to get divorced, to the surprise and devastation of the other. We go through a lengthy process of weighing our expectations, emotions and fears before making such a life-changing decision. By the time we make up our minds, we have mourned the loss of our marriage to a degree and come to terms with the reasons why the union did not last. When Sean was ready to announce his intentions to Rachel, he had a fairly clear picture of the way he wanted to go forward. Rachel, however, literally has the carpet pulled out from under her and has to deal with an overwhelming array of emotions – utter surprise, disappointment, feelings of rejection, fear, anger etc. It is little wonder that conflict ensues. Traditionally, Sean, who is eager to dissolve the marriage and get on with his life, would employ an attorney to start litigating the process of divorce. On the other hand, Rachel, might consult a counselor in an effort to figure out what went wrong and appeal to Sean to join her, in a desperate attempt to save her marriage. All the while, because they find themselves in two completely different places in their lives, they are drifting further apart and the situation becomes untenable for both of them. If they opted for a mediation process, they would be able to get together with a skilled professional and ascertain their individual needs, which are quite different at this stage, as well as the needs of their children. Getting a clear picture of what everybody wants and needs, helps to establish empathy and insight while laying a safe foundation for negotiating the specifics of a divorce settlement. If, however, it becomes apparent that one or more parties involved need support such as therapy for Rachel and/or Sean or play-therapy for the children, decisions and arrangements can be made to ensure the well-being of the whole family. In some cases, couples might even realise that they would rather make an effort to resolve their differences and reconcile, which could also be facilitated by mediation. Furthermore, if Rachel and Sean discover that they require some legal or financial input, it can be acquired as part of a collaborative process. This applies to any assistance or service relevant to a civilised separation. Read this article for more information about the Ownership and Collaborative Management of your Divorce. In order to reach an amicable and fair divorce agreement, everybody has to be satisfied that they are being heard and their interests are being protected. Where litigation is designed to argue and win the fight, mediation is designed to communicate and compromise. That is why it is of the utmost importance that both Rachel and Sean not only grasp where the other person is at in their divorce process, but also have compassion for each other’s perspective on the situation, depending on who is walking away and who is being left behind. It reminds me of that Kenny Rogers song “I’m running and she wants to walk…” If you’ve had it and want out pronto like Sean, be patient with your partner who desperately needs to make sense of what is happening first. On the other hand, if you’re devastated and wish that you could wake up from this nightmare, try to understand that your partner might be way beyond any desire to make amends.

Koa Academy

HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILD KEEPS THEM SAFER ONLINE


When our children were little, we bought them their first bicycle.  We bought a helmet too.  We didn’t just spend hours training them on how to ride their bike, we told them about the rules of the road, the risks of the road and how to ride safely.  We made our own family rules about when and where they could ride, supervised and unsupervised.  We balanced giving them opportunities to enjoy their freedom on their bike and mitigating the risks.  It was easy, because most of us went through exactly the same thing with our parents when they gave us our first bike. When it comes to our children’s use of social media, online gaming and the Internet, we’re understandably less assured because for most of today’s parents, we have no experience of being a child or a teen immersed in the digital world.  Our experience of the internet, social media and online gaming is rooted in our adulthood; so, we are guessing and assuming when it comes to our children’s reality.  For some parents, this makes us back-off from what we can’t know; for others, it makes us double-down with severe limits and a pervasive atmosphere of distrust and overbearing monitoring.  Both of these tactics make our children more vulnerable to the risks of their inevitable online activity. At a recent Koa Academy webinar, Mark Anderson, CEO and Principal of the high-engagement online school brought together ICT law specialist, attorney Arinda Truter and parent, Rachelle Best who is the founder of FYI Play It Safe, a non-intrusive, consensual family monitoring app. The conversation centres on how critical the parent-child relationship is to ensure that our children’s online interactions are safe and happy. Just like we were the first to teach our small children to look left, right and left again before crossing the road, we need to be the informed and authoritative voice when it comes to rules that govern our children’s forging of a lifelong digital footprint.  As parents, we cannot ignore or avoid that the digital world is as visceral as the physical world.  Like road use, there are laws and consequences if those laws are broken.  Like road use, it is an essential aspect of life with risks and advantages.  If we are to guide and protect our kids effectively, we need to know and understand the digital world as well as we know the road. Luckily for us, there are advanced tools and free access to trustworthy content that does enable parents to leapfrog the disadvantages of not having experienced a childhood in the Digital Age.  We can get up to speed and be empowered.  We can use tech innovations that support our daily mission to safely raise our children.  We can learn the global rules and country laws that govern digital spaces.  We can be agile enough to help our children become not just productive citizens in their geographical space but also positive citizens in a digital world.  At the root of all this, is the quality of our relationship with our children.  Anderson says, “Open engagement and ongoing conversations in the family are the bedrock of keeping children and teens safe online.  Know the risks, know the rules and talk about what’s happening online every day, because it is constantly changing.  Our children are growing up in a world where most people’s work will happen online in the near future.  We need to be raising children who are adept and competent at being positive digital citizens, and from education to family security, there is so much available to support parents.” Watch the Online Safety Webinar with Koa Academy, FYI play it safe and DML inc here

SAHomeschoolers

The time is ripe for home education

The past 2 years have brought about a growing interest in home education. The disruption caused by the pandemic along with health concerns and the periodic closure of schools have caused many parents to re-think the education of their children. Crisis-schooling with its flood of worksheets, WhatsApp messages with homework assignments, Zoom lessons, unmotivated learners and parents having to juggle their work responsibilities and school-at-home was exhausting and frustrating. Many parents longed for schools to re-open, but others started looking at educational alternatives. Home education offers up-to-date methods of education that support learning from home, is cost-effective, child-centred, and flexible. Due to the increased demand for alternatives to the standard school-going norm, the home education expo organizers SAHomeschoolers and KragDag created an online home education expo platform www.homeschoolexpo.africa in 2020 as an alternative to the physical expos. It showcases multiple educational options, with workshops and talks. Fortunately, it is possible to again host an in-person expo this year on 6 November in Durbanville, Cape Town. The expo will be held in conjunction with Cape Home Educators (CHE), a volunteer association that promotes home education and supports home educators in the Western Cape. The upcoming Cape Home Education Expo will give parents the opportunity to explore educational solutions and network with other families who are doing the same. Visitors can listen to well-known speakers such as Adv Andre Williams from the Pestalozzi Trust, veteran homeschool moms Linnie Luus and Wendy Young from Footprints on our land, and online providers of the CAPS and Cambridge curriculums like Brainline, Evolve and Wingu academy. Topics ranging from teaching toddlers to matric alternatives will be discussed. More and more families are exploring alternatives and they find support structures that best fit their children’s education irrespective of whether families choose online schooling, a mix-and-match approach, a textbook approach, or natural learning. Home education is about providing one’s child with an education that is flexible and easily adapts to new methods, tools, and approaches as necessary, rather than getting stuck in a one-size-that-doesn’t-fit-all approach. For more info on the upcoming Cape Town Home Education Expo and to book a ticket visit the homeschoolexpo.co.za website. We look forward to seeing you there and helping you find answers to your questions.

Prima Baby

Keep little ones protected from mosquitos and bugs this summer with Chicco Anti-Mosquito Spray and Anti-Mosquito Roll On

Summer brings lots of fun, warm nights and days spent in nature – unfortunately, it also comes with insects.  Keep your little ones protected from mosquitos and bugs this summer with Chicco Anti-Mosquito Spray and Anti-Mosquito Roll On and get the gentlest, most natural solution to all-round cover. Made with naturally effective ingredients such as Eucalyptus and Citrodiora, the lotion is available in either a convenient spray and rub or a roll-on. Unlike most mosquito repellents the Chicco Anti-Mosquito range leaves a great smelling, natural fragrance, reminding you that every time you protect your baby you are doing the least possible harm to their gentle skin. Available at Baby City, The Kid Zone, Loot, Takealot and other participating retailers.

Wingu Academy

Wingu Academy’s Wellness Hub takes the lead in providing a safe online learning environment

Student well-being is a core focus area for Wingu Academy, especially due to the increase in mental health awareness in the online environment.  In fact, Wingu Academy takes this so seriously that they have a dedicated wellness hub, called Wingu Wellness. The vision is to collaborate with students, guardians, and parents, as well as the valued staff of the Academy, to build a safe online learning environment. “Wingu Wellness provides up to date information on mental health issues, learning barriers, coping mechanisms and stress management, to mention a few. Working alongside top names in the field, like Dr Serahni Symington, counsellor and play therapist specialist, we will be providing counselling and mediation sessions and webinars free of charge, to anyone in the Wingu Family.” says Ian Strydom, Wingu Academy’s Managing Director. Services offered by Wingu Wellness Hub Current services include:  Organising concessions for learners with learning barriers; Wellness consultations with a wellness coach or qualified counsellor;  Monthly webinars; Sensitivity training; Resolution of behaviour misconduct; Assisting students and parents with day-to-day educational needs, i.e. study assistance, identifying learning styles, etc. Diagnostic Testing facilitated by Educationist, Dr Belinda van der Westhuizen Family mediation offered through Dr Serahni Symington How does Wingu Wellness assist students? The Wingu Wellness Hub will be assisting students by offering free consultation sessions with either the Wellness Coach or a trained psychologist. This will act as a safe space for learners to talk about what is weighing on them. We also provide learners applicable content to assist them in matter that they do not feel comfortable coming forward about. We also provide external coaching in the form of play therapy for the younger learners, by referring them to Dr. Symington.  Wingu Wellness will also act as a means to further promote the many social clubs within the Academy to assist learners in still benefitting from the social aspects that are sometimes lacking in the cyber world.   How does Wingu Wellness assist parents/guardians? Assistance includes the same support as to students, but on top of that also offering family mediation through Dr Symington. “We offer comprehensive and professionally verified content to assist in matters dealing with how to cope with situations such as moving a learner from a mainstream school into an online learning environment or to things like dealing with family trauma.” says Panashe Tiffany Saungweme, Associate Director of Human Capital.  How does Wingu Wellness assist staff members? Not only do the teachers and staff have access to the Wingu Wellness Hub through the Academy’s platform, which gives them the opportunity take full advantage of the consultations, posted contented and the many services offered by Dr Symington, they also have access and can benefit from the internal wellness check-ins aimed at reminding the Wingu staff to ensure they keep in mind the importance of their own well-being. The staff benefit from life coaching through the Hub in order to thrive in their personal and professional lives.   Aiming to assist the Wingu Family with their overall well-being. “Wingu Wellness is not just an initiative to create awareness of mental barriers we may all have, but rather a platform providing a safe space to find solutions and encourage positive well-being behaviour for everyone part of the Wingu Family.” Strydom concludes.

LEGO South Africa

Girls are ready to overcome gender norms but society continues to hamper creative potential

New research commissioned by the LEGO® Group reveals that girls today feel increasingly confident to engage in all types of play and creative activities, but they remain held back by society’s ingrained gender stereotypes as they grow older. The study was carried out by the Geena Davis Institute in recognition of the UN’s International Day of the Girl and to mark the launch of a new LEGO® campaign, ‘Ready for Girls’, which celebrates girls who rebuild the world through creative problem solving. The research, which surveyed nearly 7,000 parents and children aged 6-14 years old in China, Czech Republic, Japan, Poland, Russia, UK, and USA highlights the need for society to rebuild perceptions, actions, and words to support the creative empowerment of all children. It also supports many of the findings in the LEGO Play Well Study 2020, which included the feedback of South African children and their parents. Ready for Girls The research findings show that girls are ready for the world, but society isn’t quite ready to support their growth through play. Girls feel less restrained by and are less supportive of typical gender biases than boys when it comes to creative play, with 71% of South African parents believing that it’s more acceptable for girls to be ‘boyish’ than it is for boys to be ‘girlish’.  According to the Geena Davis Institute study, 82% of girls believe it’s OK for girls to play football and boys to practice ballet, compared to only 71% of boys. However, despite the progress made in girls brushing off prejudice at an early age, general attitudes surrounding play and creative careers remain unequal and restrictive, according to this research: For most creative professions, parents who answered the survey imagine a man, regardless of whether they have a son, daughter, or both. They are almost six times as likely to think of scientists and athletes as men than women (85% vs. 15%) and over eight times as likely to think of engineers as men than women (89% vs. 11%). The children surveyed in this research share these same impressions except girls are much more likely than boys to consider a wider range of professions to be for both women and men. Our insights further indicate that girls are typically encouraged into activities that are more cognitive, artistic, and related to performance compared to boys who are more likely to be pushed into physical and STEM-like activities (digital, science, building, tools). Parents from this study are almost five times as likely to encourage girls over boys to engage in dance (81% vs. 19%) and dress-up (83% vs. 17%) activities, and over three times as likely to do the same for cooking/baking (80% vs. 20%). Adversely, they are almost four times as likely to encourage boys over girls to engage in program games (80% vs. 20%) and sports (76% vs. 24%) and over twice as likely to do the same when it comes to coding toys (71% vs. 29%).  The Play Well Study 2020 highlighted that 75% of South African children only play with toys designed for their own gender, while more than half of South African children said that people make fun of them when they play with games or toys marketed for children of the opposite gender. When it comes to parents’ perceptions of gender, 84% of South African parents agree that gender differences are driven more by societal expectations than by biology, but only a little more than half allow their children to, wear, or play with things that are geared towards the opposite gender. Rebuilding the World This was launched on The International Day of The Girl (11th October), the LEGO Group is calling on parents and children to champion inclusive play. To help, they have developed a fun 10-step guide and invite parents to share photos of their child’s LEGO creations against a pre-defined AR backdrop featuring the words ‘Get the World Ready for Me’. “As a Mom of three children, I have long admired the LEGO Group and I’m heartened by its global commitment to this study to inform how we can dramatically inspire creativity in girls through play and storytelling,” said Geena Davis, Founder of the Geena Davies Institute on Gender in Media. “We also know that showing girls unique and stereotyped activities can lead to an expanded viewpoint of possibilities and opportunities.” The role of LEGO play The LEGO Group believes in the value of learning through play and that the development of 21st century skills from LEGO play are equally relevant to all children. While many parents perceive the LEGO brand as a good example of an inclusive toy brand, LEGO play is still considered more relevant to boys than girls, with 59% of parents saying they encourage their sons to build with LEGO bricks compared to 48% who say they encourage it with their daughters. This view became more pronounced when parents were asked to complete an implicit bias assessment and 76% said they would encourage LEGO play to a son while just 24% would recommend it to a daughter.  “The benefits of creative play such as building confidence, creativity and communication skills are felt by all children and yet we still experience age-old stereotypes that label activities as only being suitable for one specific gender. At the LEGO Group we know we have a role to play in putting this right, and this campaign is one of several initiatives we are putting in place to raise awareness of the issue and ensure we make LEGO play as inclusive as possible. All children should be able to reach their true creative potential,” says Julia Goldin, Chief Product and Marketing Officer, the LEGO Group. The ‘Ready for Girls’ campaign aims to help girls rebuild the story and welcome more girls to LEGO building, ensuring they aren’t losing out on the benefits of LEGO play due to societal expectations. The company will ensure any child, regardless of gender identify, feels they can build anything they like, playing in a way that

The Lily Rose Collection

Style, function, exclusivity: new luxury bag range launches online in South Africa

Born in South Africa in 2020 – Luxury Neoprene Bags. For fashionistas, workaholics, party girls, super moms, sweat addicts, baby mammas & YOU! The Lily Rose Collection was created to allow fashion-savvy women to easily switch between casual weekend style and glam working executive mode, without having to swap out her handbag.  Crafted for stylish women who value practicality and convenience, every bag in the Lily Rose Collection is made from neoprene – a hardworking material offering no-snag protective cushioning that’s also weather-, water- and heat-resistant so it will last for ages. The added bonus? The entire bag is plastic- and latex-free.  The Lily Rose Collection bags are washing machine-friendly, extremely durable yet lightweight and with just the right amount of stretch to fit in that little something extra – because you can never have enough space in your handbag. With limited signature prints – photographed in Cape Town using locally-grown blooms – reminiscent of luxe Victorian fabrics, it’s apt that the brand name is the Lily Rose Collection. With lilies representing devotion to oneself, family or career, and roses known to signify love and passion, who better to turn to for a statement piece to carry all your daily essentials?  But you’ll love your Lily Rose Collection bag for more than just its good looks, because the designers really have thought of everything. A wide opening with a roomy main compartment, two zipped pockets, colour-matched canvas hand- and shoulder straps for ease of use, built-in elasticated mesh storage pouches for a water bottle or your wallet – plus, there are thoughtful details like zip stoppers, protective feet and a gorgeous, branded puller to secure everything inside.  Whether you opt for a soft, neutral colour palette like the Tranquillity bag, something bold like the Passion bag or attention-grabbing like Abundance, there’s a feminine print to suit every taste because a Lily Rose Collection bag is a style statement.  What’s new?? The Lily Rose Collection will be launching an all-new range of Neoprene beach bags just in time for the December holidays. Locally designed, locally manufactured in gorgeous new prints. Every beach bag will come included with a PC lotion bag to store your sunblock and the like – so keep your eyes peeled for the Launch! Currently available in South Africa, visit www.lilyrosecollection.co.za for more information or to start your collection today. 

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