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Premature birth – what to expect

Expecting a baby is an exciting time of your life, and you want to make sure that you do as much as you can to make sure your new child is as healthy as possible. Premature birth is something you want to try to avoid or manage as carefully as possible. In many cases the cause is unknown, and according to The World Health Organisation, one in ten babies are born preterm. A birth is considered premature when a baby is born before the 37th week of pregnancy. The final few weeks in the womb are important to your baby’s full development, so being born prematurely can lead to longer hospital stays, short term, and long term complications. Why does it happen? Some of the more common risk factors which contribute to preterm births are having had a premature birth before, you’re pregnant with twins/multiples or you have issues with your uterus or cervix. However, often the cause of preterm birth often can’t be identified. Your health is also a factor that impacts on your likelihood to have your baby prematurely. Smoking during your pregnancy (which is not recommended), diabetes, high blood pressure (which can develop into preeclampsia) and being over or under weight are all potential premature birth causes. To try and avoid preterm birth you can talk to your doctor about any existing health issues, such as depression, diabetes or high blood pressure) before getting pregnant – this way you can manage any problems with a treatment plan. Waiting 12 months between pregnancies and eating healthy (making sure that you get the correct prenatal vitamins needed) can also help prevent premature birth. What if my baby is born preterm? If your baby is born prematurely they are at risk for long and short term complications. Many preterm babies lead completely healthy lives, however, the more premature and underdeveloped your baby is when they are born, the more likely they are to have issues. If your baby is born prematurely they may be put into a neonatal intensive care unit into an incubator. Some babies will spend longer in the unit than others, this all depends on when they are able to live without medical support.

November 21, 2025

Why should I breastfeed my baby, and what if this is not an option?

Breastfeeding is important to your baby’s health and is the safest and healthiest thing that you can feed your little one. It is recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) you should feed your baby exclusively with breastmilk for the first six months. Unfortunately, some moms can’t breastfeed due to medical or health reasons. Read on if you want to know the benefits of breastfeeding, or if you can’t breastfeed your baby, here are some healthy alternatives. What are the benefits of breastfeeding? Breastfeeding is the perfect way to get all the nutrients needed to your baby, as well as being a special bonding experience between mom and child. Breast milk is optimally suited to babies providing all the right nutrients, vitamins and minerals, being easily digestible and helping protect your baby by providing important antibodies. Baby’s who are breastfed have less ear infections, issues with diarrhea and respiratory issues. Benefits of breastfeeding include lowering your baby’s chance of getting infections and breastmilk can also help lower instances of asthma and eczema, and is thought to lower the risk of diabetes as well. Not only is breastfeeding good for your baby, but it’s also good for you. It helps your bond with your baby as your body releases the hormone oxytocin, which helps your uterus reduce to its pre-pregnancy size as well as lowers stress levels. And it’s an added bonus is that breast milk is cost effective and easily available. The only thing lacking from breast milk is vitamin D, and you can supplement this to your little one from birth. What are alternatives if I can’t breastfeed? Sadly some moms aren’t able to breastfeed their babies due to not having enough breastmilk supply, being on medication that could damage their baby’s health and, infectious diseases such as HIV. Although it’s hard not to be able to breastfeed, remember this won’t stop you bonding with or providing nutrients for your baby. The best alternative to your own breast milk is donated breast milk. However, if you are struggling to find adequate supply you can make use of baby formulas. In South Africa, the South African Breastmilk Reserve and Milk Matters supports breastfeeding moms through the provision of donated milk. SABR focuses on helping premature babies under the age of 14 days, and Milk Matters supports babies in neonatal intensive care units (NICUs) in the Western Cape.

November 14, 2025

Why medical aids must go beyond medicine in managing diabetes

For millions of South Africans living with diabetes, the condition is a daily negotiation between lifestyle, access to care and financial strain. Around 4.5 million people in the country have diabetes and many more remain undiagnosed. As the burden of chronic illness grows, it’s becoming clear that medical aids must go beyond paying for medicine to enabling holistic, continuous care that safeguards both health and dignity. ‘The typical approach for the treatment and management of diabetes comes down to managing glucose levels, but understanding the individual behind the condition, their habits, challenges and support structures, is just as crucial,’ says Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund. ‘Medical aids need to be active partners in helping members live well in a holistic manner, instead of simply focusing on managing the immediate and most obvious aspects of a disease.’ This shift in thinking is crucial, he adds, since diabetes doesn’t exist in isolation, with chronic conditions like hypertension and heart disease often accompanying it. The fragmented approach that focuses narrowly on funding prescriptions leaves patients unsupported in critical areas like nutrition, mental health and education. ‘If medical aids are to deliver meaningful health outcomes, they must replace fragmented care with coordinated, member-centred systems,’ he says. ‘Bonitas’ Diabetes Management Programme represents this evolution in action as a shift from transactional care to proactive, personalised support.’ Holistic diabetes care For medical aids to make a measurable impact on the country’s chronic disease burden, diabetes care must evolve from a benefits table to a coordinated ecosystem. The task is to integrate the many moving parts; the family doctor, pharmacist, dietician, care coordinator and the digital tools need to be part of one ecosystem that helps patients stay engaged. Several schemes are already adopting this approach. Bonitas, for example, offers a Diabetes Management Programme that has been structured around personalisation and continuity, with the treating doctor remaining central to care and supported by a wider clinical team. This allows members with multiple chronic conditions to receive consistent, informed treatment across disciplines. Care coordination is also becoming a cornerstone of effective managed care. Schemes can effectively close the gaps that often lead to disengagement among patients by giving members direct support from healthcare professionals who guide them through treatment plans, assist with lifestyle adjustments and connect them with specialists when needed. In addition, digital tools such as mobile apps, wellness questionnaires and feedback platforms make it easier to track health metrics and access educational resources that encourage members to take ownership of their wellbeing. When used effectively, these systems support the kind of proactive healthcare that prevents complications rather than reacting to them. ‘Diabetes often progresses silently, which makes annual screenings essential for identifying risk early and preventing long-term damage. When patients are diagnosed sooner and have the knowledge and tools to manage their condition, outcomes improve for both members and the medical schemes funding their care,’ says Hadebe. For South Africa to make meaningful progress against chronic diseases like diabetes, medical aids must continue to expand their scope beyond medicine and adopt a long-term, human-centred approach. The future of healthcare lies in understanding and in giving every person the chance to live well, not just live longer.

November 13, 2025

How to choose the right medical cover in 2026

As medical schemes unveil their 2026 product ranges, South Africans face a recurring challenge. Too many options, too much jargon and the risk of choosing a plan that doesn’t fit is a reality many medical aid seekers are all too familiar with. With contribution increases averaging between 8% and 9% across the industry, getting the right balance between affordability and protection is more important than ever. “Medical aid should feel like a safety net, not a financial burden,” says Lee Callakoppen, Principal Officer at Bonitas Medical Fund. “The key is choosing a plan that works for your life and unique circumstances and understandably this is where most people get stuck.” Step one: Understand your health reality Before comparing plans, take stock of you and your family’s healthcare needs. A young, healthy individual may manage well with a hospital plan, while a family or someone living with a chronic condition may need comprehensive cover. Consider whether you rely on chronic medication, how often you see a doctor, and whether you have any upcoming procedures. Industry trends show that schemes are tailoring their products to different life stages. For instance, Bonitas’ 2026 range introduces BonCore, a digitally enabled hospital plan with day-to-day GP funding aimed at younger members, and BonPrime, which adds a savings component to improve flexibility. These reflect a broader move towards personalisation and digital access in medical aid. Step two: Compare hospital plans and comprehensive cover Many South Africans still misunderstand the difference between these two main options. Hospital plans cover costs only once you are admitted, while comprehensive plans include day-to-day benefits such as GP visits, medication, dentistry and optometry. Cheaper hospital plans might seem appealing but can lead to high out-of-pocket expenses for everyday care. Comprehensive cover, although pricier, may provide better long-term value. Step three: Check provider networks and access to care Not all medical aids give you access to the same hospitals, doctors, or specialists. Before signing up, confirm that your preferred healthcare providers are part of the scheme’s network, especially if you live outside major cities. Using out-of-network doctors often results in co-payments or full out-of-pocket charges. In 2026, several schemes have expanded digital health access, allowing members to consult virtually or through telemedicine platforms. “Bonitas has strengthened its virtual care options and preventative screening network to support early detection and intervention,” says Callakoppen, an approach gaining traction across the sector. Step four: Understand premiums, co-payments and limits It’s tempting to focus only on the monthly premium, but every plan structures its benefits differently. Some lower-priced options carry higher co-payments or strict limits on certain treatments, such as maternity, dentistry or mental health. Reading the benefit guide closely can help avoid unpleasant surprises later. “Out-of-pocket costs can add up quickly,” says Callakoppen. “We’ve seen how members who only compare premiums often end up paying more in the long run.” Bonitas’ own 2026 increases average 8.8%, with certain plans kept below that to maintain accessibility, reflecting broader industry efforts to balance affordability and sustainability. Step five: Consider additional benefits and value-added services Wellness and preventative benefits are becoming central to private healthcare. Schemes are expanding offerings such as mental health support, maternity benefits and chronic disease programmes, with many also providing access to virtual consultations and wellness apps that reward healthy living. One in three South Africans is likely to experience a mental health condition in their lifetime, which has driven several funds to increase cover in this area. For example, Bonitas has made depression a covered chronic condition and now offers access to mental health support via the October Health app. While these value-added services shouldn’t replace core cover, they can make a noticeable difference in daily wellbeing and encourage proactive healthcare management. Step six: Review your cover regularly Life changes and your medical aid should too. Whether you’re planning to start a family, switch jobs or are managing a new condition, reviewing your plan each year ensures it still fits your needs. A registered broker can help compare plans across different schemes, and their services are free to consumers. “Too many people stay locked into outdated plans because switching feels overwhelming,” says Callakoppen. “It’s worth taking the time to reassess to ensure your cover evolves as your circumstances do.” As the 2026 medical aid season is in full swing, the choice can feel daunting. But a little homework and the right expert advice can turn it into an empowering process. Understanding your health needs, your budget and how benefits actually work will help you make a decision that provides real peace of mind.

November 10, 2025

Physical Touch & Newborns- Why is this so Important

The birth of your baby is a beautiful and special moment in both of your lives. You may be wondering about your newborn’s senses, while they are born with all necessary senses, some are less precise than others and develop as your baby grows. Physical touch is an important aspect of your child’s growth, coming from your womb, where they are tightly cocooned in your womb. Skin to skin contact offers benefits to both you and your baby, and touch is one of the senses that can help comfort your baby, making them feel more secure and helping strengthen the bond between the two of you. Why is touch important? Touch enables your baby to learn more about the world, bond with their mother and learn communication skills, as touch and body language will be the first way that you can ‘speak’ to one another. Breastfeeding is an important part of this, as your baby then spends time in her mother’s arms. The benefits of touch goes beyond the physical. Contact between mom and baby has been shown to lower cortisol levels, which in turn benefits the functioning of the immune system. Children that are deprived of touch can be more aggressive with other conduct disorder problems. What is swaddling? Coming from a tightly packed womb, you’ll find that your baby is comforted by touch and close cuddles. Swaddling your baby in a blanket is also another technique that you can use on young babies to help them feel more secure, as it stops them from upsetting themselves from their own startle reflex. It’s important that your newborn finds their new world a comfortable and soothing place. Swaddling is an old technique, and beyond helping your little one feel safe and secure, your baby is likely to sleep better and will be kept nice and cosy in their blanket. If you decide to swaddle your baby it’s best to do so from birth, as opposed to introducing it when they are older as this can increase the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Using the proper techniques when swaddling is also important, as incorrect wrapping can lead to issues.

November 7, 2025

Bonitas and partners drive family health access at Mpumalanga Family Health Day

Access to healthcare is one of South Africa’s most pressing public health challenges, with many families still facing barriers such as long travel distances, overburdened clinics and limited screening opportunities. These realities mean preventable or manageable conditions often go undetected until they become serious. Against this backdrop, Bonitas Medical Fund’s recent Family Health Day in Mpumalanga demonstrates how targeted partnerships can help bridge the gap between available healthcare and real access. In partnership with the Gift of the Givers Foundation, the Rotary Action Group for Family Health & AIDS Prevention (RFHA) and the South African Department of Health (DoH), Bonitas Medical Fund hosted a Family Health Day at Elukwatini Stadium in Mpumalanga on 30 October 2025. The initiative formed part of the national Close the Gap campaign, which aims to place one million additional people on antiretroviral therapy (ARVs) by December 2025. “Our goal is to take healthcare to where people are,” says Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas Medical Fund. “When families have easy access to screening and counselling, they’re more likely to seek help early to ensure preventable health issues do not become life-threatening illness and disease.” Bringing family healthcare closer to home The Family Health Day offered an integrated package of services, including HIV testing and counselling, TB screening, vital-signs and diabetes checks, STI testing and immunisations through the Department of Health and RFHA. Communities were also provided access to optometry and audiology screening, dental care, mental-health support, menstrual-health education and hygiene pack distributions through Gift of the Givers. “Families were able to have several checks done in a single visit thanks to multiple services being clustered under one roof, on a single day,” says Hadebe, adding that this approach tackles three core barriers to care: cost, travel distance and lack of coordinated services. A recent study on healthcare access and the relation to deprivation in low-income urban households found that among low-income households in Gauteng, access to healthcare was significantly influenced by multiple deprivation factors. These included the availability, quality and proximity to healthcare facilities. Vision, hearing and dental issues often go untreated as people living under challenging socio-economic conditions tend to prioritise immediate survival needs. Providing access to these essential services helps restore dignity and confidence, while creating opportunities for early intervention. “We know that good health begins with access,” says Hadebe. “When the private and public sectors collaborate, we can reduce the inequalities that hold families back from living healthier lives.” Supporting national goals The Mpumalanga Family Health Day directly contributes to South Africa’s “Close the Gap” campaign by increasing testing, treatment referrals and health education. Beyond HIV and TB, the initiative addresses broader determinants of health, such as vision, hearing, dental and mental well-being, which are critical to family stability and productivity. Family health must not be a once-off intervention, but an ongoing commitment to ensuring that everyone, regardless of where they live, can access the care that helps them thrive. “A project like this is a great example of how our partnership with GOTG is perfectly aligned as both GOTG and Bonitas have the drive to help others. And, in terms of the Scheme, it’s our way of moving a step closer to providing quality healthcare for all South Africans,” Hadebe concludes.

October 31, 2025

Don’t wait until it’s too late: Making mental health benefits work for you

October is Mental Health Awareness Month, a timely reminder of the importance of taking care of one’s health and wellbeing. And while access to mental health resources is scarce for most South Africans, those with medical aid have a wealth of mental health benefits at their fingertips but are not taking full advantage of them. This underutilisation may stem from a lack of awareness of what benefits are available on their medical aid plans, but can also be linked to stigma surrounding mental health and wellbeing as well as negative social attitudes around mental illness. With mental health prevalence being a key concern in South Africa, the South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) anticipates that 1 in 3 South Africans will be diagnosed with a mental health condition in their lifetime. Recent SADAG research also shows that 52% of employed South Africans suffer with mental health conditions with burnout, depression and anxiety most prevalent. What’s more, SADAG reported receiving up to 3,000 calls per day to its helpline, with hundreds more emails, SMSs, WhatsApps and social media messages from people seeking help, resources and support. “Many people don’t realise that their medical aid includes mental health coverage,” says Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas. “The delay in finding the right help can cause manageable conditions to escalate, sometimes even requiring hospitalisation, but this can be avoided by ensuring those with medical aid are aware of and empowered to tap into their mental health benefits.” “We’ve seen that mental health admissions are highest among members aged 35 to 55, with females experiencing a higher rate of hospital admissions compared to males,” adds Dr Hadebe. “However, despite lower admission rates, males have a significantly higher risk of suicide, highlighting the importance of proactive mental health screening and early intervention for all members.” The importance of early intervention In light of South Africa’s ongoing and often silent mental health burdens, Bonitas has taken concrete steps to ensure its members use their mental health benefits to the fullest. Hadebe says that all Bonitas plans now include depression as a chronic condition, enabling easier access to treatment without added cost. “We have expanded our mental health programme, providing consultations with psychologists and psychiatrists, counselling sessions and stress management support. Members can access these services through the Bonitas app, which integrates with October Health, offering convenient and confidential care,” Hadebe says. To promote early intervention, Bonitas has made mental health a key focus of its preventative care and screening initiatives. Through these initiatives, members are encouraged to recognise symptoms early and access the support and treatment they need before conditions become more sever. Additionally, the scheme has also realigned its referral protocols with wellness screening providers to ensure members are promptly connected to support. “Mental Health Awareness Month is a reminder that benefits exist to help, but only if they are used. As a medical aid scheme, we have a responsibility to make mental health support accessible and visible,” says Hadebe, “which is why it is so crucial to break down stigma and ensuring members know how to use their benefits. Mental health is just as important as physical health, and early intervention can prevent more serious complications.”

October 22, 2025

What is HELLP?

Pregnancy and the arrival of a new baby is a time of great excitement and joy for expectant parents. However, occasionally there can be complications, which is why pregnant moms should have regular health checks and be aware of any unusual symptoms that may develop. Over the past few years, there has been discussion around a condition known as HELLP Syndrome. It’s a life-threatening complication in pregnancy that can be difficult to diagnose. We reached out to Dr Morgan Mkhatshwa, Head of Operations at Bonitas Medical Fund and his clinical team, to get some answers and advice about HELLP. What is HELLP Syndrome? HELLP (Haemolysis, Elevated Liver enzymes, Low Platelet count) Syndrome usually develops before the 37th week of pregnancy but can occur shortly after delivery. It’s a serious complication that affects the blood and liver. H = Haemolysis is the breakdown of red blood cells that carry oxygen from lungs to the rest of the body. EL= Elevated liver enzymes. High levels of these chemicals in the blood can be a sign of liver problems. LP = Low platelet count. Platelets are little fragments of blood cells that help with blood clotting. A low platelet count can lead to serious bleeding. What causes HELLP? ‘We don’t know what causes HELLP syndrome,’ says Dr Mkhatshwa, ‘however, you are at risk if you have pre-eclampsia or eclampsia.’ About 1 to 2 in 10 pregnant women (10 to 20 percent) with pre-eclampsia or eclampsia develop HELLP. Pre-eclampsia is caused by high blood pressure. It usually starts after the 20th week of pregnancy or giving birth. Eclampsia is when pre-eclampsia is uncontrolled and causes seizures. Many women are diagnosed with pre-eclampsia before they have HELLP which is a more severe form of pre-eclampsia. What are the symptoms / signs of HELLP? You may feel tired, have pain in the upper right part of the belly, bad headaches and nausea or vomiting. You may also experience swelling, especially of the face and hands and blurry vision. Some women develop HELLP suddenly, without having any signs or symptoms. If you have any signs of HELLP Syndrome, call your medical practitioner, emergency services or go to a hospital emergency room for medical care right away. How is HELLP diagnosed? To find out if you have HELLP Syndrome, your healthcare provider will do a physical exam to check for: Belly pain or soreness, especially in the upper right side An enlarged liver High blood pressure Swelling in your legs Other tests could include: Blood tests to check your liver enzyme levels, lactate dehydrogenase and full blood and platelet count with a peripheral smear Urinalysis to check for protein in the urine A CT scan to see if there’s bleeding in your liver Non-stress test or ultrasound to check your baby’s health. A non-stress test checks your baby’s heart rate, in the womb, to see how the heart rate changes when your baby moves. This test is to make sure your baby’s getting enough oxygen. Ultrasound uses sound waves and a computer screen to show a picture of your baby inside the womb Is HELLP painful? Symptoms of HELLP include serious pain just below the ribs, or the upper right side of the chest area (where the liver is), shoulder pain or pain when breathing. How is HELLP treated? You may be given medication to control your blood pressure and prevent seizures or you may require a blood transfusion to treat anaemia and low platelet levels. Early birth may be necessary because HELLP complications can get worse and harm both you and your baby – either through an induced labour or by C-Section depending on the health assessment results of the baby. How does it impact the baby? Infants born to mothers with HELLP Syndrome may have a variety of birth injuries: Intrauterine growth restriction (IUGR) or severe respiratory distress. Are there long term effects of HELLP? A history of HELLP Syndrome means you are at increased risk for recurrent pre-eclampsia and HELLP Syndrome as well as increased long-term morbidities, particularly depression and chronic hypertension. Can HELLP develop after childbirth? Yes, up to 30% of all patients who develop HELLP Syndrome do so after giving birth, typically within 48 hours. Can I have another baby after HELLP syndrome? If you had HELLP in a previous pregnancy, regardless of the time of onset, you have a greater risk for developing it in future pregnancies. ‘The condition is serious but rare’, stresses Dr Mkhatshwa. ‘Throughout your pregnancy it’s important to understand the changes your body is going through and to discuss any unusual pain or symptoms with your medical practitioner. This will ensure you receive the right help especially if you develop a complication and make the pregnancy and birth the joyous event it should be!’

October 20, 2025

Due soon? What to include in your hospital bag

With your due date fast approaching, this is a very exciting, yet stressful time for most moms to be. Here is a great list of what to pack for the big day! Ideally, you should have your bag ready to go by 36 to 37weeks, apart from the last minute grabs such as your tooth brush and phone charger. Please see our extensive list of the essential items and also items to make you feel more comfortable for mom and baby (and dad, of course!) Baby Car seat – Many hospitals won’t let you leave without one. Please make sure you know how to strap baby properly into the seat and the seat is secure in the car. Safety first! A going home outfit: It’s important to keep baby skin to skin (this means no clothes on baby; only a nappy) for as long as possible, as this promotes growth, bonding and a calming period for you and your baby. When it’s time to go home, pack different outfits in different sizes as you don’t know how big or small baby will be. Aim for an outfit in Newborn sizes, and 0-3 months. Don’t forget a beanie or socks if the weather is cold. Blankets or Muslin wrap to keep baby nice and cosy. Bottles – If you are going into the hospital knowing you are going to bottle feed, take your bottles with. The hospital usually supplies the formula, but if you have a preferred brand, take some along. If breastfeeding doesn’t work for you, don’t stress! The nurses will provide the bottles and formula. Nappies and wipes to keep baby clean and dry. The nurses in the hospital will show you how to change baby if you are a first time mom. Mom Your medical aid information, your pre authorization/ doctors forms, your ID card and all other important documents you may need. Keep this safely in a folder all together to avoid any stress. A robe or dressing gown – This is such a handy item to have to cover up and make you feel comfortable Pyjama’s that button down at the front – If you are breastfeeding it’s a lot easier to undo the buttons than lift your top continuously. Comfortable, soft and loose pants such as lights weight shorts, stretchy leggings or sleep pants are ideal. Maternity pads and disposable breast pads. Nursing bras are also wonderful and offers great support for breastfeeding moms. Slippers or slip in shoes. Your feet may be a little swollen after delivery, so don’t feel bad leaving the hospital in the snuggest and easiest pair of shoes you can slip into. Slipper socks also work great. Cotton underwear, preferably in a dark or black colour. One that fits you well but rises above the uterus. This is good for moms who have a caesarean section and natural birth as it offers support and doesn’t cause pain along the wound site. Nipple cream – If you’re planning on breastfeeding, your nipples will be happy you are being so proactive. Toiletries – You will want to brush your hair and have a shower after baby has arrived. Take your shampoo, face cream, lotion and body wash, as well as your toothbrush and toothpaste. Deodorant, lip balm and extra hair ties are also a great items to have on hand. Cell phone charger – Because your phone will be full of photos of your new addition to your family. Water bottle and snacks. Take a reusable water bottle as its very important to keep hydrated during and post-delivery. Snack on dried fruit and wine gums to keep your sugar up and to give you energy (with permission from your midwife or doctor of course) A magazine or book, your laptop or some music. Labour may sometimes become a little long. It’s good to keep busy. Most hospitals and birthing clinics supply towels, pillows and blankets. If you have a favourite, take yours along to the hospital. A set of clothes to go home in. Your make up bag and straightener or curling iron. While you won’t be focused on looking great during labour, you may want to take some photos after the birth of your little one. Get someone to help you and make you feel good about yourself (and the great work you’ve just done!) Dad/Birthing partner Camera – Take photos! Lots of them. This is a great job for dad to do during birth. It will make them feel a lot more involved. Snacks: Another great job for dad. Full his bag with plenty of snacks and treats that you can both enjoy during your stay. Comfortable clothes – As he may be sitting with you for quite some time, let him pack some tracksuit pants, t shirts, slippers and hoodies. Extra underwear is also a winner if he is staying overnight. Chargers – For phones, laptops and cameras. The longer the wire, the better, as most plug outlets are likely to be far from you. Toiletries – He may want to freshen up during the course of your stay. Many private hospitals offer you a baby bag when you are admitted for delivery. This is a great item and will contain most, if not all baby’s toiletries such as soap and creams. If you forget something, it’s not the end of the world. The nurses may be able to help or someone can go to the shop for you. All baby ideally needs is a clean nappy, milk, and most importantly, you.

October 13, 2025

Putting together your birth plan

As you enter your third trimester you’ll have probably done a fair bit of research on the birth process (if this is your first) and may have a good idea of what you want before, during and after delivery. There are many options and opinions, from whether or not you want pain medication to how many people you would like supporting you. However, trying to keep track of your choices during labour may be tricky, which is why you’d put together a birth plan. So what exactly is it and how do you put one together? Why should I put together a birth plan? Your birth plan is your choices or preferences before, during and after labour and delivery. While things may not always go according to plan, having your preferences written down and communicated means you, your midwives and doctor have a more mutual understanding. However, if your pregnancy doesn’t go accordingly, you need to be prepared to make adjustments on the day. What should be in my birth plan? Your birth plan is how you’d like everything would go in the best-case scenario. Your birth plan will also have to take into consideration what is available at the hospital or place where you are giving birth. Some birth plans are very basic, just outlining a simple overview, whereas others may be far more detailed and in-depth. The choice is yours. Typically a birth plan will include before, during and after labour and birth preferences. Such as who you want to assist you during birth, whether or not you want any pain medication, you birthing positions, and requests for newborn care, such as skin-to-skin time. How can I learn more about the birth process? If you feel like you need to top up your birthing knowledge before putting together a plan they are a few ways you can go about this. Joining antenatal classes are a good way to learn more and to meet other women in your position. Chatting to friends or family who has been through the birthing process themselves is another good way to see what would work best for you. If you and your partner are having a baby together, keep them in the loop as well. Find out what they expect during labour and you can chat about what you want, and what role you see them playing in the process.

October 6, 2025

What is abdominal separation and how do I deal with it?

Abdominal separation or diastasis recti is the separation of the two parallel bands of muscle in your belly. This is common in pregnant women, and luckily often heals on its own, or with the help of exercises, after pregnancy. This condition is not only experienced by pregnant moms, but also by men, as well as women who’ve never been pregnant. You may be wondering how you’d know if you have abdominal separation, how to tell if it’s bad and what you can do to help your tummy return to normal. How do I know if I have diastasis recti? If your muscles have separated, you may notice a bulge in your abdomen where the two muscles have pulled apart. In addition to this, you may notice a sore lower back, constipation and bloating. Women who are expecting multiples or women who have been pregnant more than once (especially if the pregnancies are close together) are more likely to experience muscle separation. There is a way you can check if you have diastasis recti yourself. Lie flat on your back and then sit up slightly, engaging your core muscles. Put your fingers just above your belly button on the middle of your stomach. If you feel like the gap between your fingers is more than three fingers, then you probably have diastasis recti. However, this is not an exact science but rather a way to gauge if you may have a problem. How can I correct my diastasis recti? If you have a smaller separation, it may go away on its own or with the help of exercises, however, bad cases may need the help of a physio or even surgery. If you have a gap, chances are it’ll close up one or two months after birth. However, certain exercises may help the gap close up quicker. That being said, be careful of what exercise you do, some fitness practices make it worse. If you are worried about it, it’s best to talk to a health care professional and they can help you make the best choice for you and your body.

October 1, 2025

Why contraception should be treated like any other preventive health measure

While flu shots, pap smears and blood pressure checks are the preventative measures we more readily associate with preventive healthcare, contraception should feature just as prominently on that list, yet it is still often considered an ‘optional extra’. According to a recent study, about 49% of all pregnancies in low- and middle-income countries are unintended. In South Africa, more than half of pregnancies are reported as unintended, with about 20% unwanted and 35% mistimed. Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas, says that the public must become more informed on the importance of it. ‘Contraception must be recognised as a core part of preventive medicine, because it directly reduces maternal complications, unsafe abortions and the social and economic strain that unplanned pregnancies place on families.’ This year’s World Contraception Day, themed ‘A choice for all. Freedom to plan, power to choose’, is a reminder that the conversation on reproductive health cannot exclude the topics of prevention, choice and empowerment. Tackling barriers to access Despite its proven benefits, contraception remains out of reach for many South Africans. Barriers such as cost, limited availability in certain regions, stigma and misinformation continue to prevent people from making informed choices about their reproductive health. Dr Hadebe notes that making contraception a more prominent part of preventive healthcare starts with knowledge and support. ‘For our members, normalising contraception as preventive medicine means providing clear information and, of course, easy access to the benefits they are entitled to. The more people understand their options and how to use them effectively, the more confident they can be in making decisions about their health and their futures.’ For medical scheme members in particular, contraception should never be seen as an out-of-pocket luxury. At Bonitas, all women up to the age of 50, have access to contraceptives alongside other preventive measures such as wellness screenings and check-ups. In this way, individuals can make proactive choices that protect both their health and financial wellbeing. Normalising contraception as routine care ‘Preventative care should not only be viewed as the notion of keeping illnesses at bay, but rather as a means for empowering people to make decisions that keep them healthy and secure,’ says Dr Hadebe. ‘This includes reproductive health, which is central to overall wellness.’ This year’s World Contraception Day calls for contraception to be viewed and treated as routine healthcare. When placed alongside the already normalised forms of preventative care, contraception becomes less stigmatised and more widely accepted as part of the everyday health toolkit. This has a number of positive ripple effects, namely reducing maternal risks, as well as empowering women and their families to make informed decisions about their own reproductive health.

September 26, 2025

Postpartum bleeding – what is normal?

Giving birth to your baby after 9 months can be a relieving, beautiful and exciting experience. Postpartum your body will still be going through adjustments for a while, and as you care for your new baby, you’ll need to remember to take care of yourself as well. Postpartum bleeding, also known as lochia, is normal after both vaginal and c-section births, however, it is best to know what is and isn’t common in post birth bleeding. Normal postpartum bleeding Lochia is similar to menstruation in the way in which it is made up of blood and tissue, it’s just heavier and longer lasting – it should stop between 4 and 6 weeks after giving birth. Initially, your bleeding will be heavy. This first phase of postpartum bleeding is known as lochia rubra and you’ll experience this in the first 3 to 4 days. Bleeding will be red to reddy brown and you may have small clots. In the next few days after birth your lochia will decrease in volume. Lochia serosa lasts 4 to 10 days and during this period your blood will darken in colour and become more watery. Blood clots should get smaller and disappear. Finally you’ll experience lochia alba, which usually lasts about another 1 to 2 weeks, but can be up to 28 days. Discharge will be yellowy white in colour, you may see pinkish or brown stains on some days. There should be no smell other than what you would experience during a normal period – a strong odor can be a sign of an infection. When to reach out to your doctor Even though lochia is normal, if you are bleeding heavily this can indicate that you have a postpartum haemorrhage. If your bleeding is heavy a week after birth, you experience fever or chills, a tender abdomen or foul-smelling discharge, you’ll need to seek medical assistance.

September 22, 2025

New Dad’s roles

The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Know that it’s normal to have fears – there is no simple way to prepare for parenthood and all new parents (yes Moms too!) have some concerns or fears about their new role. Learn as much as you can about your baby’s daily routine and offer to help out with activities you are comfortable doing. Make “Daddy Time” a special time every day by spending one-on-one time talking, reading or singing to the baby – work with Mom to build these activities into the daily routine. Offer to attend your baby’s doctors’ visits whenever possible – it helps you learn about your baby and provides a second set of ears to hear what the doctor has to say. Be actively involved in providing a safe environment for the baby – help keep an eye out for safety hazards. Make sure your baby is never exposed to second-hand smoke and has a drug free place to live. Be gentle with the baby – never shake your baby or toss them in the air. Be mindful of how you talk and act around the baby – a gentle voice and kind gestures are always best. Support from Mom to Dad The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Ask Mom to teach you to do things you may not know how to do yet – this way you can help out and support her as you learn about your new baby. Once you’re comfortable, offer to watch the baby so Mom can get some extra rest – this gives you time with the baby while supporting Mom as well. Take care of yourself, get regular check-ups and exercise daily – work to stay healthy for the newest member of the family. Set a good example and keep smoking and drugs out of your baby’s home. Talk with Mom about how she feels about herself after her pregnancy – she may need your support and encouragement to resume intimacy and sex since things like her self-image and her body may have changed. Treat Mom to small gifts and simple gestures that tell her that you care about her – these will help her understand that she is still special to you even if she is feeling tired and her self-image has changed. Emotional aspects for Dad The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Especially in the first few weeks after birth, use compassion when dealing with both Mom and baby. They both have just been through a difficult experience and your compassion will go a long way in supporting them as they move into the next part of their journey. You may often find yourself in new and challenging situations where you have the choice to either laugh or cry – choose humour, it helps everyone survive and thrive during challenging times. Life doesn’t always prepare us for our role as a parent so as a new Dad you will often find yourself in new situations with no rulebook – rise to the occasion by using your creativity and imagination to overcome new challenges. Remember that patience is a virtue – this is especially true when you have a newborn, so remember to slow down, take a deep breath and relax before you react to trying situations. Always keep in mind that much of what you are doing in the early days after the birth of your baby is a form of service for both baby and Mom – don’t see it as a negative, rather see it as a time for you to develop a new leadership role as you offer yourself in service to others. Dad comforting a crying baby The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. As a first step, always make sure your baby has been fed and changed and that they are comfortable – if so then go on to the next steps to soothe them. Swaddling: holding a baby close can help them feel more secure, so snuggle them in a soft blanket. Side/Stomach: holding your baby on their side or stomach may help calm them. Shhh: making this noise often helps sooth your baby. Sucking: is very comforting for your baby, so if it’s not feeding time, give them a pacifier to suck on. Swinging: gentle movement is often soothing to a baby, so gently rock them in your arms or put them safely in an infant swing. Remember that even though it may be frustrating, it’s important for you to be patient and gentle with your baby. Use this time to bond with your baby and allow Mom a much-needed break from her role as a caregiver. Getting Dad involved The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Talk with Dad about his thoughts, feelings and concerns regarding his role in caring for your newborn – this will help you understand his comfort level. Get Dad involved in your baby’s care – he may need help in learning how to hold the baby or change diapers so include him in as many of the day-to-day activities as you can. Have Dad help with a night feeding when possible – if you are breast feeding consider pumping a feeding ahead so he can take one feeding for you during the night. Have him talk, read or sing to the baby every day – build these activities into your baby’s daily routine. Involve Dad in doctors’ appointments whenever possible. Ask Dad

September 15, 2025

Reasons why your baby is crying

The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. If your baby is crying, the first step is trying to figure out the reason. Some of the most common reasons why a baby is crying are: Hunger is usually the first thing you should think of – they may give other signs first like rooting, fussing, smacking their lips and putting their hands to their lips. A dirty diaper – many infants don’t like a wet or dirty diaper, so changing their diaper when they cry is a simple thing you can do to help calm them. In need of sleep – babies may not just nod off to sleep when they are tired, they may get fussy and cry, so after feeding and changing diapers you may want to try soothing activities like finding a quiet place, holding them close and rocking them to help them get to sleep. Wanting to be held – babies like to be cuddled, so if you have tried all of the above tips without success it could be that your baby just wants you to hold and cuddle them; also talk in a soft voice or sing softly. Tummy troubles – babies can develop gas pains, colic, constipation, milk allergies and other conditions that make them cry; if this happens often talk with your doctor about ways you can soothe their tummy. Needing to burp – a trapped gas bubble in your baby’s stomach can make them uncomfortable, so if they are crying after a feeding, try burping them to see if that helps. Additional reasons are mentioned in the following tip. Additional reasons why your baby is crying The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. In addition to the reasons mentioned in the previous tip, the following are reasons why your baby may be crying: Temperature troubles – babies will often cry if they are too cold, this may happen when you are changing them or washing them; it can also happen if they are too hot, though this is less common. Little irritations – babies are very sensitive to small discomforts like a hair wrapped around a finger or toe, scratchy clothing or being placed in the wrong position, so look for little discomforts if the big things don’t appear to be the cause of their distress. Teething – newborns don’t have teeth coming in but sometimes their teeth will move around under the gums causing them discomfort; their teeth won’t usually start to come in until they are about 4-7 months; a cold washcloth and gentle pressure on their gums may be soothing. Over stimulation – newborns can’t always process all the things that are going on around them, so if you think your baby may be suffering from too much stimulation take them to a quiet spot away from bright lights, hold them close and soothe them until they can calm down. Not enough stimulation – some babies are outgoing and like to see what’s going on around them, so if you think this is your baby’s issue try carrying them in a sling, front carrier or backpack so they can get the extra stimulation they need. Not feeling well – if you’ve met all your baby’s basic needs and they are still crying and fussy they could be coming down with something, so keep a close eye on them, check their temperature if you think they might have a fever and contact your doctor if needed. Things to try to comfort a crying baby The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Sucking is soothing for a baby and can lower their heart rate and relax their stomach, so give them a pacifier or a clean finger to suck on when nothing else seems to stop their crying. Babies are used to being warm and secure in the womb so when all else fails try imitating that experience by swaddling them and holding them securely or carry them with you in a sling. Some babies respond well to sound and movement, so try putting on some music and dancing with them – gently of course! Try white noise – often babies like noises that mimic the whooshing sounds they heard before they were born, so try running the vacuum cleaner, a fan or the water faucet or use a recording of a water fountain, a gurgling stream or waves. A change of scenery can sometimes help, so dress your baby appropriately and step outside your front door; walk around slowly and talk in a soothing tone. Get them moving – babies like motion so try carrying them around or take them for a ride in the stroller or the car; sometime this will work when nothing else seems to help. Massage may be helpful for some babies – don’t worry about knowing the right movements, just try a soft, gentle massage in a warm place free from drafts. Start all over again – sometimes it’s helpful just to start at the top of the list again; change their diaper, hold them close, feed them if their hungry and see if something works the second time around. If you ever think your baby is in distress because of a health-related issue don’t hesitate to contact your doctor. No question is ever “dumb” if it involves the wellbeing of your baby! Feeling frustrated when a baby won’t stop crying The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Keep in mind that crying won’t hurt your baby, they may just need a release so let them cry. 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September 8, 2025

Everything you need to know about having a miscarriage

Deciding to become a mom, or even finding out by chance that you’re pregnant can be an exciting time in your life. However, sometimes you will spontaneously lose the embryo before 20 weeks and this is known as a miscarriage. You may be wondering what causes a miscarriage and how to notice the symptoms and signs of one. What is a miscarriage and what causes them? Miscarriages are defined as the spontaneous ending of a pregnancy before 20 weeks. Miscarriages can both be emotionally and physically painful to deal with, but it is thought (according to the NHS) that 1 in 8 pregnancies end in miscarriage, with many happening before a woman notices that she has missed her period (meaning she probably won’t even know that she’s been pregnant. American Pregnancy Association (APA) states that the most common cause of miscarriage is an embryo that is genetically abnormal, which can be either genetic or spontaneous. However, miscarriages can be caused by underlying health conditions such as diabetes, or poor lifestyle choices, such as drug use and drinking. Maternal age is also a contributing risk factor, as women over 35 have higher chances of pregnancy loss. How do I know if I ‘m having a miscarriage? Symptoms of a miscarriage can be similar to that of your menstrual period. You may experience cramps and abdominal and back pain, as well as bleeding which can vary from light spotting to heavy discharge. It is normal to have pain and bleeding after a miscarriage, and these period-pain type signs should stop after two weeks. If you experience heavy bleeding, fever or chills be sure to seek professional help as you could have an infection. Unfortunately, the miscarriage process can’t be reversed and if you think you are having a miscarriage you should speak to your doctor about how to manage it. Can I have a normal pregnancy after having a miscarriage? Many women may worry that having a miscarriage may affect their chances of getting pregnant again – however, many women have healthy pregnancies after miscarriage. Most doctors recommend waiting a period of time before trying again, so speak to your health care provider about the best way forward.

September 1, 2025

When’s the last time you had a Pap smear done?

By the time most women get around to booking a Pap smear, it’s often already overdue. Between work, family and the mental load of daily life, preventative health checks down the list of priorities, but when it comes to cervical cancer, later can be too late. Cervical cancer is one of the most preventable cancers, yet it is the second most prevalent type of cancer affecting South African women. The tragedy is that, in most cases, the disease could be caught early or avoided altogether through regular Pap smears and early treatment of abnormal cells. “When cervical cancer is diagnosed late, treatment becomes more invasive, more expensive and survival rates drop dramatically,” says Dr Themba Hadebe, Clinical Executive at Bonitas. “If abnormal cells are picked up during a Pap smear, they can often be treated before they ever become cancer.” For most women, Pap smears should be done every three years between the ages of 21 and 29. From age 30 onward, there are two screening options: a Pap test every three years or an HPV PCR test every five years. If previous results have been consistently normal, screening may no longer be necessary after age 65. The hidden costs of skipping your Pap smear Problematically, there aren’t many noticeable signs and symptoms in the early days of cervical cancer, and by the time symptoms like unusual bleeding, pelvic pain or discharge appear, the cancer is often advanced. It’s also worth noting that survival rates plummet the later it’s caught. Along with the negative physical health implications of neglecting cervical cancer screening, there is also the financial and emotional costs that come with treating advantaged stage cancer. “A late diagnosis means exorbitantly high medical bills, since treating advanced cancer can run into hundreds of thousands of rands. Compared to the simple act and lesser cost of a screening, the better choice is of course prevention over cure.” Medical schemes like Bonitas are stepping up by covering Pap smears in their preventative care benefits, tackling one of the biggest barriers to cervical cancer screening head-on – cost. “We don’t want our members to think of their medical aid as just something that’s there when they’re sick. Taking proactive measures to protect your health is crucial and starts with something as simple as booking that screening,” adds Dr Hadebe. If it’s been more than three years since your last test, or you can’t remember, book your Pap smear now. Cervical cancer is preventable, but only if abnormal cells are detected early. Waiting until symptoms appear could mean the difference between a simple procedure and a life-threatening diagnosis.

August 28, 2025

Preparing your home for your baby

Waiting for you baby to arrive is both exciting and nerve wrecking. In order to mentally prepare yourself and your family, you can start getting your home ready for the newest addition of your household. The urge to get your home ready for your baby is also known as nesting, and it’ll normally happen near the end of your third trimester. If you are ready to start spring cleaning, here are some tips on how best to organise your home for little one. Have everything ready for your return from the hospital When you and your baby return from hospital you’ll probably be feeling tired and sore, so making sure your home is ready before you go into labour is a good idea. Food prep, cleaning and buying home supplies are all things that’ll become more difficult with a newborn. Meal prepping, having a stocked baby changing table and home essentials stock piled will all be things you’ll be glad to have done beforehand. Baby proofing your home Baby proofing your home can ideally start up to 3 months before your due date, as this will give you time for any projects that may take slightly longer. Cover all electrical sockets, get safety latches for cabinets and get rid of any loose or dangling cords. Not only can you take your time prepping your home, but you can also make sure that you are ready with baby essentials, such as a changing table, a baby monitor and newborn baby clothes. All things you don’t want to be looking for postpartum with a baby to look after. Don’t over do it Although it can be tempting to go full throttle with home adjustments there are certain things you should avoid to prevent injuring yourself. Don’t move large furniture, as your ligaments and tendons are softened by pregnancy hormones, making a strain or injury more likely. Avoid reaching too high, as this can put strain on your lower back (which may already be achy). Delegating to your family and friends eager to help will give you the opportunity to rest while making sure that your home is perfect for your newest addition.

August 22, 2025

Should I be exercising while pregnant, and if so, how much?

For most exercise is a part of life, so it is natural to want to keep active for as long as possible while pregnant. You may wonder how much exercise you can keep doing as your baby develops, and what routine changes you’ll need to make as your baby grows bigger. If you have a complicated pregnancy or are dealing with a weak cervix, a low placenta or suffering from a heart condition, diabetes or asthma, it is best to consult with a doctor or health professional before putting together a pregnancy exercise plan. What are the benefits of exercise during pregnancy Improving overall health and wellness, exercise is a vital part of keeping you feeling your best and can help with backache caused by pregnancy, as well as prepare you for labour and delivery. If you were active before your pregnancy, you should be able to keep training with modifications made to your program. Exercises that are low impact and carry small risk of injury are best and you should be able to remain active until birth. Exercising during pregnancy can help boost your mood and energy levels, improve muscle tone, strength and lessen back pain. Exercise can also help reduce fatigue and stress, as well as help improve your sleep, all of which helps make your pregnancy easier on your body and mind. Staying fit can also help shorten your post delivery recovery time, however, getting back into exercise postpartum can be difficult and you should avoid pushing yourself too hard in the beginning. Exercising during pregnancy isn’t only good for your overall wellness, but studies show that it can also improve your baby’s health. What type of exercise should I be doing? During pregnancy it is important to keep tabs on how your body is feeling. If you have been exercising frequently pre-pregnancy it should be fine to continue to do so in moderation, however, if something feels strange or uncomfortable it is best to consult a health practitioner. Swimming, prenatal yoga and pilates, walking and water aerobics are all exercises that you can focus on during your pregnancy. Water activities are good as they give you buoyancy and put very little strain on your body, especially when you are close to giving birth. If you were an avid runner before, you should be able to continue into pregnancy with some alterations to your program. Exercise to avoid High impact sports with a risk of falling should be avoided. These include horse riding, mountain biking, downhill skiing. Contact sports, such as rugby, kickboxing and soccer are also preferable to avoid as there is a risk of being hit. Scuba diving is a big no-no as the baby has no protection against decompression sickness.

August 14, 2025

Working and Pregnancy – When to Stop and How Much Is Enough

As an expecting mom with a career you may be wondering when the best time would be to stop working and how you can stay comfy and productive when you are still in the workplace. Morning sickness, back pain, frequent bathroom breaks and other pregnancy related symptoms can make working as you used to a more challenging task for you. It’s important that you calculate the risks that your job could possibly have to you and your baby. For instance if you are working with chemicals, heavy metals or radiation you’ll need to either stop working or take extra precautions. Heavy lifting or labour intensive jobs and lots of travel for work are also jobs that’ll become more difficult as your pregnancy progresses. Desk work and computer work are generally regarded as safe, whereas jobs that require lots of standing will become more difficult in later pregnancy. Dealing with work and pregnancy Working can be stressful without having a growing baby in your belly. The physical and emotional changes that you experience can make meeting your body’s and workplaces’s demands a challenging task. However, some moms with healthy pregnancies are able to work almost until they go into labour, how much you can do will depend on your pregnancy. Morning sickness is something many moms have to deal with. There are ways you can help manage nausea at work. Avoiding dining areas, packing mouthwash and a toothbrush and packing in soothing lemon and ginger are all things you can do to make yourself more comfortable. Eating and drinking little and often can also help keep the nausea at bay. Be sure to dress comfortably, and try to take frequent breaks and walks, as this’ll also help you stay more comfortable. What rights am I entitled to as an expecting mom in South Africa? As a pregnant employee, you are probably wondering what rights you’re entitled to. It is a good idea to inform your employee as soon as you can, so that your employer can manage the situation as best as they can (for both of you) – they are required by law to maintain a work environment that is safe for their employees. As an expecting mom, you will be glad to hear that you’re well protected under South African law – you may not be discriminated against or dismissed due to your pregnancy. You also have the right to four consecutive months unpaid maternity leave, anytime from four weeks before your expected birth date. Unfortunately employees are not obligated to pay you during this period, however, your job will be kept open for you until your return to work after maternity leave.

August 8, 2025

Staying healthy during your pregnancy

Welcoming a new addition to the family is exciting but also a little daunting. Parents are anxious to make sure everything is done correctly to ensure the best start for their little one. Part of this preparation is also maintaining a healthy lifestyle and diet, during the pregnancy, crucial for both the mother and developing baby. Dr Themba Hadebe of Bonitas Medical Fund says that what you eat during your pregnancy, directly affects foetal development. ‘A diet rich in vitamins, minerals and other key nutrients can help ensure a healthy pregnancy outcome. Proper nutrition supports the development of your baby’s brain, bones and organs. It also aids in building the placenta, which supplies the baby with oxygen and nutrients.’ He advises eating a balance diet that includes a variety of food groups, such as fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains and healthy fats. Each offers unique benefits that support both maternal health and foetal growth. What foods should I be eating? Bearing in mind that you may feel nauseous in the beginning and not be able to eat certain foods and may have cravings for others, as far as possible try to follow a balanced diet, rich in nutrients. Foods you should include in your diet are dairy products, such as milk and yoghurt, as they provide extra protein, calcium and probiotics. Legumes, such as lentils and soybeans, are other good foods to include as they contain protein, fibre and folate, which is particularly important during pregnancy. Sweet potatoes, which are high in vitamin A and fibre, are also a good addition to your shopping list. Other wholesome foods include eggs, broccoli, lean meat and berries. ‘During pregnancy your vitamin and mineral needs will change,’ say Dr Hadebe. ‘And although a heathy diet should supply most of the vitamins and minerals needed, often healthcare professionals suggest prenatal vitamins as a good way to supplement and cover nutritional gaps, even though they don’t replace a healthy lifestyle and diet.’ What vitamins and minerals are essential and why? Folic Acid: Or folate helps prevent neural tube defects, such as spina bifida and supports the development of the baby’s brain and spine. Iron: Supports healthy growth and helps prevent anaemia by ensuring that blood (in both mom and baby) carries oxygen effectively. Iron-rich foods like lean meats, beans and spinach can help but most pregnant women need an iron supplement to meet the increased demands. Calcium: Calcium supports the development of the baby’s bones and teeth. If the mother’s calcium intake is inadequate, the baby will draw from the mother’s stores, potentially weakening her bones. Dairy products and leafy greens are great sources of calcium. Vitamin D: Aids in calcium absorption and supports the baby’s bone health. Exposure to sunlight and foods like fortified dairy and fatty fish (salmon, mackerel) can help ensure adequate vitamin D levels. Omega-3 Fatty Acids: These essential fats, found in fatty fish, like salmon and also flaxseeds, support the baby’s brain and eye development. Omega-3s can also help reduce the risk of preterm birth. Vitamin C: Helps with iron absorption and boosts the immune system. It can be found in citrus fruits, strawberries, bell peppers and broccoli. Iodine: Essential for the production of thyroid hormones that regulate the development of the foetal brain and nervous system. You will need more iodine than usual when you’re pregnant or breastfeeding. Iodine can be found in dairy products, eggs and seafood. ‘Getting the correct micronutrients is essential for a healthy pregnancy and best possible development of your baby,’ says Dr Hadebe. ‘Deficiencies can lead to complications such as hypertension and low birth weight which is why prenatal supplements are often prescribed. However, it is important not to exceed the recommended dosages. Consult your doctor or gynae before starting any supplements, they will help determine the appropriate dose for your individual needs.’ In additional to a balanced diet, Dr Hadebe also recommends you exercise regularly – it’s a great way to stay in shape, boost your mental health and releases ‘feel good’ endorphins. In addition to maintain a healthy lifestyle, cut out alcohol and nicotine, cut down on caffeine and find way to manage your stress levels. *Plan dependant.

August 1, 2025

Symphysis pubis dysfunction (SPD) and to deal with it

Symphysis pubis dysfunction or SPD is pain in your pelvis, which is caused by the relaxing of ligaments in the pelvic bones too early before birth. Many aspects of pregnancy can cause discomfort, and SPD is one of them. Here are the signs of SPD and what you can do if you think you to alleviate your discomfort if you are suffering from it. What is SPD and what causes it? Not all moms-to-be will experience SPD but it is thought to be fairly common in pregnancy. SPD is a pain in the symphysis pubis (which can range from moderate to serve) caused by the relaxing and stretching of the ligaments around the pelvic bone. Pain can be brought on by opening your legs, walking up stairs or even turning over in bed, and this may be accompanied by a clicking/grinding sensation in the pubic area. The cause of SPD in pregnancy is the hormone relaxin, aptly named as it relaxes your joints and ligaments to make it easier for your baby to come out at birth. SPD happens when these hormones come into play too early. Not only that but you’re shifting centre of as your baby grows, which can cause main in your lower back and pelvis as your body shifts to accommodate your little one. What can I do to relieve SPD Living with SPD can be uncomfortable at best, so you may be wondering what you can do to help alleviate some pain. Being fit before pregnancy can help, as stronger glute and abdominal muscles can help support your pelvis. Physiotherapy can help manage SPD pain, as a physio will be able to work with you as your pregnancy and pain levels change. Speak to your doctor first, as they may have recommendations for you. Your pelvis should return to normal between 4 and 12 weeks after birth.

July 21, 2025

Don’t let Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) bring the blues this winter

As the colder months settle in, many of us brace ourselves for more than just runny noses and shorter days. You may have noticed a heaviness that creeps in that feels like a dip in mood, energy and motivation. While it’s easy to brush off as the ‘winter blues,’ this slump could be a sign of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a type of depression that follows a seasonal pattern most commonly triggered during winter. ‘Mental health is a key component of your overall wellness, yet it’s often neglected, especially during busy, high-pressure periods,’ says Dr Themba Hadebe, Bonitas Clinical Executive. ‘Recognising the signs of SAD early is essential, because the sooner you acknowledge it, the sooner you can take steps to manage it.’ What is Seasonal Affective Disorder? SAD is more than feeling ‘a bit off’ when the sun disappears behind grey skies. It’s a clinically recognised form of depression linked to reduced sunlight exposure, which can disrupt your body’s internal clock (circadian rhythm), affect serotonin and melatonin levels, and ultimately throw off your mood and sleep patterns. Symptoms of SAD often include persistent low mood or sadness, fatigue or lack of energy even after sleeping, difficulty concentrating, cravings for carbs or weight gain, and withdrawal from social interaction. If this feels familiar, you’re not alone, and it’s not just ‘in your head’. SAD affects many South Africans each year, and yet often goes undiagnosed or misunderstood. How to lighten the load If winter tends to weigh on your mental health, there are a few strategies that may help. First, try to get more sunlight. As simple as it sounds, making time for natural light, even on cold or cloudy days, can significantly boost your mood. Sit near a sunny window, go for a midday walk, or consider using light therapy lamps that mimic sunlight and support your body’s internal clock. Moving your body can also make a noticeable difference, since exercise is one of the most effective natural mood-boosters. You don’t need a full gym session either. Even a 15-minute stretch, dance break, or walk around the block can help to lift your energy and shift your mindset. What you eat matters too. While it’s tempting to dive headfirst into comfort food, try to balance your meals with options rich in omega-3s, like salmon or walnuts, as well as vitamin D and whole grains. Research shows that low levels of vitamin D, which naturally drop during winter, are closely linked to symptoms of depression. And, perhaps most importantly, talk to someone. Whether it’s a psychologist, a trusted friend or a support group, opening up about how you’re feeling is a powerful first step. ‘For those with medical aid, be sure to check what mental health benefits are available to you through your plan,’ adds Hadebe. ‘Bonitas members, for instance, have access to mental health support, including a wellness questionnaire, consultations with registered professionals and wellness programmes designed to support emotional wellbeing all year round.’ Bonitas covers psychology consultations as part of its comprehensive care benefits, and its wellness programmes offer digital resources and support tools to help you manage mental health year-round. You’re not alone We tend to prioritise physical health, but our mental health is just as critical. SAD is often overlooked, but it can significantly impact your quality of life if left unaddressed. And, if you or someone you love is feeling persistently low this winter, don’t wait it out. Take it seriously, speak to a professional, and explore your options. ‘Mental wellness isn’t a luxury, but a necessity for overall wellbeing,’ says Hadebe.

July 17, 2025

Breastfeeding tips

Symptoms you may experience when not breastfeeding The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Care for your breasts when not breastfeeding The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Try ice packs on your breast for 15-20 minutes at a time. If ice doesn’t help, try using a warm washcloth on your breasts. Wear a well-fitting bra that is not too tight. Let your baby nurse at your breasts for a few minutes at a time. Ask your doctor about methods to help release a small amount of milk from your breasts, which may relieve some of the discomfort. Contact your doctor if you have any questions or concerns or you develop chills, or a fever and your breasts are still uncomfortable and swollen after 1-2 days. Benefits of breastfeeding The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Breastfeeding is a skill and can take time to learn; don’t get discouraged if it’s not easy for you at first. Breastfeeding educators are available and can be helpful in overcoming some of the hurdles. Choosing to breastfeed your child provides many benefits for both you and your baby. Some of these include: How to breastfeed The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Some simple tips on how to breastfeed: Keeping your breasts healthy The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Keeping your breasts healthy during breastfeeding is important. Here are some things to watch for:

July 14, 2025

Neonatal jaundice, what is it and what happens if my baby is born with it?

Jaundice is a yellow discolouration of a baby’s eyes and skin and is fairly common in newborn babies. Although it may be alarming to you to see your newborn baby with a slightly yellowish tint, thankfully, most cases of jaundice are considered normal and will go away on their own. You may be wondering why your baby may be born with this condition, or what treatments are available if your little-one has jaundice – read on, we outline the causes and common treatments thereof. Why would my baby have neonatal jaundice? Babies are born with neonatal jaundice when they have excess levels of unconjugated bilirubin in their blood. Bilirubin is a yellowy substance which comes from the breakdown of red blood cells, however, baby’s livers sometimes can’t break this substance down fast enough, giving their eyes and skin a yellow tint. When your baby is born they will be checked for jaundice, as high levels of bilirubin can lead to more serious problems. A baby is more likely to get neonatal jaundice if they are born premature, have a different blood type to their mother or are being breastfed. Babies who are breastfed can develop jaundice if they don’t get enough breastmilk, due to trouble feeding. What happens if my baby has neonatal jaundice? If your baby has jaundice, this will typically be seen in the second or third day of being born. Sometimes jaundice will go away on its own and other times it will need to be treated. If your baby is struggling to breastfeed it’s important that he be breastfed more often, or even receive formula as a supplement during this time. Phototherapy (light therapy) can also be used to help your baby. Light can turn the bilirubin into a form that can easily pass out the body. If the jaundice is very bad, your baby may receive a blood transfusion which will quickly lower bilirubin levels.

July 7, 2025

Smoking and pregnancy – should I quit

If you’re an avid smoker you’re probably wondering if being pregnant means you should wave your smoking habits goodbye. Unfortunately, even if your health isn’t enough for you to stop, your baby’s health should be. What can happen to my baby if I keep smoking? Smoking during your pregnancy is harmful to your unborn baby. The chemicals in cigarettes are both damaging to you and your baby; nicotine and other harmful poisons increase the risk of health problems for unborn babies. Second hand smoke, vaping and e-cigarettes are all still damaging to your baby’s health and should also be avoided (or quitted). You may need to designate your house a non-smoking area, and ask any friends and colleges not to smoke around you. So what exactly does smoking do to your unborn baby? Smoking lowers the amount of oxygen available to your growing baby and nicotine damages the baby’s brain and lungs. Smoking can make it harder to conceive, and if you do fall pregnant, can lead to miscarriages or stillbirth. Babies can be born premature, have a low birth weight, or be born with birth defects. Smoking during pregnancy can also affect your baby’s health after they are born, leading to cases of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, asthma and other respiratory problems and infections. Help – I am really struggling to quit! Even if you have decided that quitting is in both of your best interests, this may be easier said than done. If you are pregnant already it is best to quit without using any medication, as this is healthier for you and your baby. You also won’t be able to transition to vaping or e-cigarettes, as these too, are harmful and usually contain nicotine, which is damaging to health. In order to quit for good, try avoid the triggers that make you want to smoke, and try find something else that you can do when the craving kicks in. Get the support of your family and friends, or join a stop-smoking group or self help plan. Whatever your plan is to stop, you can be sure that both you and your child’s health will benefit from it.

July 1, 2025

Your pregnancy – a comprehensive guide

Morning sickness remedies The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Relieving morning sickness often takes some trial and error before you find a method that works for you. Here are a few suggestions you can try to see if you find them helpful. To find relief from a smell that is bothering your stomach try carrying a handkerchief or washcloth with a few drops of an essential oil in it that does not cause nausea, such as lemon. It may relieve morning sickness if you breathe into the handkerchief or washcloth, so you no longer smell the bothersome odour. Eat smaller meals every two hours or so. If you have morning sickness try eating cold foods as they have fewer smells that can make you feel sick. Vitamin B6 and B12 taken regularly as advised by your doctor could help reduce your nausea and/or vomiting due to morning sickness. Folic acid and pregnancy The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Neural tube defects are birth defects of a baby’s brain and spinal cord that occur early in a pregnancy. They can often be prevented when the mother takes folic acid just prior to getting pregnant and through the first part of the pregnancy. Because much of this time period occurs before a woman knows she is pregnant, and 50% of all pregnancies are unplanned, it’s recommended that all women of childbearing age have folic acid supplementation. The recommended amount of folic acid intake is about 400 micrograms (or 0.4 milligrams) for women of childbearing age. For women who have had a pregnancy that resulted in a neural tube defect a higher dose is often recommended. Less folic acid is required at other life stages so check with your doctor to determine your exact needs. First Trimester The first trimester (weeks 1 to 12) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. The first trimester can be a difficult time for many pregnant women. Some may feel great, while others may feel horrible. Here are some of the changes you may experience during the first 3 months: Nausea is normal in up to 85% of women; this may or may not include vomiting Light spotting is normal and about 25% experience this during implantation Tender breasts Constipation Increased vaginal discharge that is thin and milky white in colour Increased fatigue Cravings and aversions to certain foods Increased urination Heartburn Mood swings Gaining weight Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Significant bleeding, cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain (more than 3 kg (6.5 lbs.) per month or less than 1 kg (2 lbs.) per month) Second Trimester The second trimester (weeks 13 to 27) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Most women find the second trimester the easiest and most enjoyable. Usually, morning sickness and fatigue fade and you start feeling like your usual self again. There are many big changes that occur during these weeks, some of these include: Growing breasts Gum discomfort, swelling or bleeding Increased pressure on back which can cause back pain Nasal congestion and increased nosebleeds Thin, milky white vaginal discharge continues Increased urination, heartburn and constipation continue Increased hair growth of current hair and in new places such as the face, arms or back Headaches Haemorrhoids Flutters of movement can sometimes start to be felt around 20 weeks Increased sensitivity to the sun Stretch marks, spider and varicose veins may show up Brown pigmentation on the face (“mask of pregnancy”) and a darker line down the abdomen (linea nigra, Latin for “black line”) may appear Increased weight gain Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Significant bleeding, cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain (more than 3 kg (6.5 lbs.) per month or less than 4.5 kg (10 lbs.) by 20 weeks) Third Trimester The third trimester (weeks 28 to 42) The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. The third trimester can bring some uncomfortable symptoms as you prepare for the birth of your baby. Here’s what to expect during this time: Back pain Braxton Hicks contractions Increased breast size Increased discharge from previous months Fatigue Increased urination, heartburn and constipation continues Haemorrhoids Difficulty breathing Swelling in your feet, ankles and hands Increased weight gain Call your doctor right away if you experience any of the following: Cramping or sharp abdominal pain Foul-smelling, green or yellow discharge Severe nausea or vomiting Severe dizziness Too much or too little weight gain Pain or burning with urination Sudden swelling in your feet Contractions that are regular and get closer and closer together and more intense Spotting or any bleeding Nutrition Good things to eat The following information is to be used as a guide to and at the discretion of the end-user and should not replace a doctor’s opinion. Good nutrition is essential for a healthy pregnancy. Here are some ways to eat healthy during your pregnancy: Take your prenatal vitamin Eat a variety of foods each day Eat more fibre (pasta, rice, fruits, veggies and cereals) Eat more calcium (at least 4 servings of dairy products, green leafy vegetables, etc.) Eat more iron (red meat, eggs, green leafy vegetables, beans/lentils, dried fruit and iron-enriched cereals and grains) Bad things to eat The

June 23, 2025

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