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Boredom: The Secret Ingredient to Raising Resilient, Innovative Thinkers

Lessons from a mother, educator, and principal of St Teresa’s Junior Primary School on the quiet power of unstructured afternoons, cardboard castles, and the early roots of entrepreneurial thinking. In a world filled with instant entertainment, glowing screens, and tightly packed schedules, the idea of letting a child be “bored” might sound strange, or perhaps even unkind, to many parents. However, boredom is not something to be feared. In fact, it might just be one of the greatest gifts we can give our children. As a mother of four and the principal of St Teresa’s Junior Primary School, I’ve seen the power of boredom in action in both my own home and in our school environment. When my children were younger, our afternoons weren’t scheduled with endless activities, extra lessons, or screen time. They were filled with cardboard boxes, paper scraps, masking tape, crayons, and other ‘junk’ items. The crafts created were not Pinterest-worthy masterpieces, but rather messy, genuine, and joyful expressions of creativity. My children spent a great deal of time outdoors – they were blessed with a garden and Johannesburg’s beautiful weather. Sticks, stones, mud, water and various other natural elements were readily available for their imaginative play.  My house was often filled with blankets, cushions, and sheets that were constantly being turned into tents, castles, and pirate ships. There was noise and a touch of chaos, but also concentration, collaboration, and innovation. Those hours of unstructured time contributed to the confident, resourceful adults my children have become. Three of my children are now working, finding success and fulfilment in their various fields: medical, financial, and engineering. My youngest is at university, studying engineering. He is what we affectionately call a ‘laat-lammetjie’. Due to the age gap and my own demanding work schedule, he has spent many hours entertaining himself. I smile when I see how easily he generates ideas, tackles new challenges, and sees opportunity where others might see boredom. In fact, in his first year at university, he’s already launched one small business and is working on a second. That kind of entrepreneurial drive doesn’t come from being spoon-fed entertainment; instead, it comes from having time and space to explore, experiment, and fail. From boredom came creativity. From creativity came confidence. From confidence came a young entrepreneur. When children are bored, their minds are given the space to wander, wonder, imagine, and create. It is in these moments that creativity and innovation begin to bloom. A cardboard box becomes a spaceship. A stick transforms into a wizard’s wand. A blank page turns into a comic book, a board game, or an invention. Boredom encourages children to solve problems, generate ideas, and direct their own play. I was watching a little girl in our school’s mud kitchen just the other day. She had “baked” chocolate cupcakes (a clever mix of mud and water) and was decorating them with “sprinkles” made of dry soil. No adult told her what to do, she invented it all by herself. When children are left to decide what to do next, without step-by-step instructions, they are practising planning, organising, and thinking ahead. These executive function skills underpin academic success and emotional regulation. They are learning how to break a big idea into small steps, how to persevere when things go wrong, and how to keep going when there is no immediate feedback or applause. These are the building blocks of resilience, adaptability, and internal motivation – qualities that help children grow into capable, confident adults. Allowing your child to be bored is not neglect: It is allowing your child to grow in confidence, It is saying that what they initiate and do has value This is one of the best ways to boost self-esteem As parents, we have an important role to play in this. We need to create an environment that allows this free play to take place. We need to allow certain sections of our houses, classrooms, gardens, and playgrounds to be a little ‘messy’ because children are allowed to play freely and without concern in them.  At our school, we use large foam blocks, ribbons, fabrics, masking tape, and other items that the girls use to build shops, animal clinics, homes, or whatever their imaginations inspire. During this type of play, the girls collaborate, create, and take ownership of their learning. Over-scheduling children and constantly rescuing them from boredom can rob them of important developmental experiences. Many children today are overstimulated but underdeveloped in terms of problem-solving, patience, and emotional regulation. We should allow them to have unstructured, adult-free play to learn to negotiate, listen, debate, collaborate, lead, and follow. They become more emotionally resilient, socially skilled, and cognitively curious. These soft skills are essential in adulthood for building healthy relationships in the workplace and community. When we stop filling every moment, our children start filling it with their own brilliance. So, the next time your child sighs and says, “I’m bored,” try smiling and replying, “That’s wonderful.” Let them know that boredom is not something to be feared or a problem to be solved by an adult. It is something to be solved by their imagination. In the quiet spaces where nothing is planned, skills are being developed, and something extraordinary is waiting to be discovered! Lynne Elfick  St Teresa’s School  Junior Primary Principal

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Taking your young child out of school could cost you more in the long run

Over the past 18 months we have noticed a worrying trend of parents choosing to take their young preschool children out of school, thinking that they can slot back into formal education once things return to normal. As educators and specialists in Early Childhood Development (ECD), we know that the stimulation and consequent growth of the brain, the body and the emotional heart, has an influence on every aspect of your child’s future life. Our advice to parents is to think carefully about what educational building blocks are necessary for their child’s overall development and how best to ensure that your child is in a stimulating environment where the young child’s needs are prioritized. There are no shortcuts when it comes to growth and development, and prioritising early childhood education now (from Grade 000) will set a solid foundation that will significantly impact your child’s success in Primary School, High School and later in life.  Why is early childhood education so important? It is well documented that the first 2000 days (or 5 to 6 years) of a child’s life are critical to a child’s development: emotional, cognitive, social and physical. During this time the brain’s architecture is forming and the child’s physical environment has a huge impact on brain development. In the Foundation Phase of a school, we lay the foundations for future learning and for life. This begins with our little preschoolers in the ECD section of the school. The educators are experts on the various childhood development stages and their training and experience means that they can specifically provide what the child needs at crucial moments for their development. How do young children actually learn? Young children learn with their senses: sight, touch, sound, smell, movement and taste.  Preschoolers learn through play and it’s important that they have the opportunity to play in a variety of ways all day, every day. Sometimes they learn with their hands, sometimes with their heads, and sometimes with their hearts. In order for brain development to occur, children need certain types of stimulation to create synapses or connections between neurons in the brain. As educators, we want to create plenty of opportunities for those synapses to be created because it helps children to fully understand and process the world around them. According to research by Dr Karyn Purvis, scientists have discovered that it takes around 400 repetitions to create a new synapse in the brain, unless it is done in play, in which case it only takes 10 to 20 repetitions.      Let them make a mess. The messier the better! For further cognitive learning to take place, the development of the child’s sensory system is vital. ‘Sensory play’ gives the child the opportunity to see, touch, feel, smell, hear and taste different things. Sensory play is often called messy play. Things used for messy play can be sand, water, mud, sawdust, grains, paint, dough etc. This play should be creative, explorative and experimental.  When your child is interacting with these materials through messy play, disorganised information going into the brain throughout the play is then stored in an orderly manner within the child’s brain. In other words, letting children play in the mud literally helps their brains grow, and has a great influence on life-long learning.  “The messier a child is when she goes home, the happier I am as I know that her brain is being developed through the creation of new synapses in the brain.” ~ Lynne Elfick, Principal of the Junior Primary, St Teresa’s School.  Imagination, fantasy play and emotional development Imaginative and fantasy play give children the opportunity for self-expression and to develop life skills to control impulses, to problem-solve and to make plans. By interacting and engaging with other children, in an environment where caring educators explain and unpack emotions, the child learns to understand different emotions and starts to have an understanding of her own emotions. This then leads to an understanding of others’ emotions, which allows her to respond in an empathetic manner. The young child learns to express her needs in an acceptable manner, to work collaboratively together, to listen to opinions, and to form her own opinion. Debating and negotiating, which are essential life skills, starts at a young age and needs to be guided by caring educators with good values and morals.  A happy child is a learning child The child needs to form positive relationships, in a nurturing environment where the educators actively seek a positive connection with each child, allowing her the freedom to feel safe, loved and accepted. This influences the developing brain, and lays important foundations for emotional well-being. This in turn forms a stable and calm state for the brain, which is vital for learning to take place. Put simply, a happy child is a learning child.  A sound early childhood education gives your child a solid foundation for life Right from our little ones in Grade 000, we encourage a love of learning by stimulating the child’s natural curiosity. The ‘what’ questions of the toddler are replaced by the ‘why’ questions of the preschooler. A good educator plans well, but then follows the curiosity of the children in her care. There are days where you look back at the end of the day and perhaps not much of what you had planned has taken place, but then when you reflect on what learning has taken place, you cannot help but be content that the children have been engaging with one another and have grown in wonder, curiosity and knowledge. We consider it a privilege to be the custodians of your child’s early childhood education and learning. By Lynne Elfick          Principal of the Junior Primary               St Teresa’s School in Craighall Park, Johannesburg

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