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Kip McGrath

Oh, My Word (Problem)! How to help your child with word problems in maths

“I like maths, but I hate doing word sums.” This statement is true for many students. At primary school level this is often the area where most students lose marks in both maths tests and exams. Word problems, word sums or story sums require comprehension and analytical skills. Children who battle with word problems often struggle with comprehension-based tasks in their languages as well. These sums also require “reading between the lines” and being able to make sense of what is expected of them without being told directly. Here are some tips to help your child at home: 1. Let’s start at the very beginning Your child needs to know his or her number bonds and multiplication tables. If a child struggles with basic addition, solving word problems that require his or her having mastered this skill will be more difficult. 2. Draw the “story” Encourage your child to make an illustration based on the facts mentioned in the problem. Let him or her use circles, triangles or dots to represent the numbers mentioned. Do not let the drawing become the focus of the exercise. 3. Choose an operation Make a list of the key words associated with each operation. Help your child identify the operation required, namely addition, subtraction, multiplication or division.  4. Use different or smaller numbers If your child is nervous when working with bigger numbers, replace the numbers with smaller ones. After deciding which operation to use and carrying it out, replace the smaller numbers with the original numbers to complete the sum. 5. Trial and error If your child is not sure whether it is, for instance, an addition or subtraction sum, let him or her roughly calculate answers for both operations. Ask your child which answer makes the most sense when you read the question again.  For example, John’s mother is twice his age. John is 20 years old. How old is his mother? If you say 20 times 2, his mother would be 40. However, 20 divided by 2 is 10. Clearly, John’s mother can’t be 10 if he is 20 years old. 6. Practice makes perfect Ask your child’s teacher for additional exercises or search for word problems for your child’s grade online. If your child really battles, try to find examples two or three grades lower than his or her actual grade level. Once a child realises he or she has mastered this skill, introduce more difficult examples. Key Words Addition Subtraction Multiplication Division plus altogether total sum more than add combined increase minus difference less than decrease take away fewer remain left times multiply by per product  equal groups twice as much quotient out of divided by share average each ratio half Chrizelle Prinsloo is the owner of Kip McGrath Education Centres, Walmer.  She has a background in psychology and has taught in mainstream and special-needs schools both locally and abroad. Chrizelle is passionate about helping children gain confidence in their own abilities and about finding different ways to help them learn.

Abbotts Colleges

A Principal’s Perspective: Nurturing Resilience & Endurance in Your Child

Resilience and endurance are indispensable qualities in today’s fast-paced world, and parents play a crucial role in cultivating these traits in their children. But while we all understand the importance of these traits, helping our children develop them isn’t always easy. In my many years as an educator and now school principal, I have, however, learnt there are some surefire ways to help your child develop strength and resilience. Key among these, is helping them to develop a Growth Mindset. Teach your child to view challenges as opportunities for growth rather than failures, and emphasise the importance of dedication and effort in developing skills and abilities. It is also important to Model Resilience, and to lead by example. Show your child how to tackle challenges with a positive attitude and perseverance, and share stories of your own setbacks and triumphs to highlight the importance of resilience. We should also help our children build Emotional Awareness. Help your child identify and express their feelings openly, and teach them healthy coping mechanisms for managing stress and disappointment.  Again, lead by example. You do not feel the same and on top of your game every day, and neither should your child be expected to.  You may be emotional and express your feelings in a healthy and appropriate manner, and our children should be encouraged to do the same. Supportive Relationships and their importance can’t be overstated.  Foster open communication and trust within your family and encourage meaningful connections with peers and mentors who can offer guidance and support during tough times. Do not feel that you failed as a parent if they open to someone else, but rather welcome the fact that they are building a broad network of support.    One of the biggest gifts we can give our children, is to Promote Independence. Empower your child to take on responsibilities and make decisions independently, without hovering over them and eyeing their every move like a hawk. Encourage your child to step out of their comfort zone and take on new experiences. Offer support while allowing them the opportunity to learn and grow from their experiences. Offer guidance and support while encouraging them to problem-solve and find solutions on their own.  Tell them in conversations of examples where you as a parent made the incorrect decision, how it affected your future, and also how you were able to move on from mistakes. We all make them, and dealing with them is part of the learning journey. Celebrate Progress, not just Achievements. Recognise and celebrate your child’s efforts and progress, regardless of the outcome. Focus on the journey rather than the result to reinforce the importance of resilience and perseverance. Encourage your child by emphasising that he or she is not there yet, but that constant and sustained effort will pay off. Prioritise physical health through regular exercise, nutritious eating and adequate sleep. Healthy Habits are the building blocks on which everything else rests. A healthy body lays the foundation for emotional resilience.  Ensure that there is a healthy balance between the child’s academic, sport and leisure time.  Teach problem-solving skills and Cultivate Optimism. Equip your child with effective problem-solving skills to navigate challenges confidently. Encourage them to brainstorm creative solutions and learn from setbacks. Help your child develop a positive outlook on life by focusing on the lessons and opportunities for growth in difficult situations, and always keeping things in perspective. By Sanet Van Rensburg, Principal: Abbotts College Centurion.

The Bridge Assisted Learning School

Children need to be equipped for life, beyond the classroom

One need only look around you to see how young South Africans exemplify the boundless potential of a future in constant flux and change. As educators, it is our duty to create an environment where every child has the opportunity to maximise their unique potential so that they can affect a brighter future for our country.  Ultimately, it is our youth who will shape the future and it is imperative that they are equipped and supported to become positive and responsible contributors to society. Beyond a curriculum-based education, we need to instil values and life skills that will guide moral and accountable decision-making.   In today’s pop culture society, many children are learning false values from the social media platforms that permeate their daily lives, promoting the need for immediate gratification and an intolerance for values such as self-discipline, stickability and hard work. Educators and parents have a shared obligation to equip our youth as they take on adult  responsibility We need to provide them with the skills for the jobs of tomorrow and, help them develop, nurture and grow the independence and life skills they will need. I am always struck by young people’s immense power of creative thought. Their innovative ideas and energy is what is needed to build a better society for us all, and this requires us to provide a space where they can be encouraged to realise their full potential. The next generation will be the most affected when it comes to our global future, we need to start fostering a youth that will think critically and provide ways to design a sustainable society, economy and community that cares for their own generation and those to come. According to Statistics South Africa, the youth remain vulnerable in our country, with the total number of unemployed young persons standing at 4,7 million (44,3%) in the fourth quarter of 2023. There are numerous reasons for this. However, I believe that one of the most pressing challenges is that they are not adequately equipped with the right skills or values to enter the workplace. In my experience, one of the most important life-skills is to know how to manage themselves in different environments. Learning environments must best reflect the true diversity of the world, both inside and outside the classroom. Children learn valuable life lessons from atmospheres of collaboration where girls and boys learn to get on. We should be promoting schools whose diversity encompasses a microcosm of the real world, so that once they leave the safety of this environment, they are able to cope with the demands of the world at large. During their school-going years, a child will develop their own perspective on the world and learn how to respect the individual ways of thinking that each of their fellow students bring to the table. By bringing different perspectives into the mix, we provide young people with valuable opportunities to learn from each other – intellectually, emotionally and socially. Inviting all kinds of students to work together in the classroom and share in extra-curricular adventures can better prepare a child for long-term goals. This will help in ensuring their future successes in their tertiary education and a well-balanced adulthood. It is important to recognise that children are born eager to learn and have individual genetic traits. We need to promote an education system that acknowledges that children are unique and have different abilities. It should accept that children learn differently and at different paces, and recognise the concept of a personalised education. Once a student leaves school, they must start building their own life, make decisions independently, find housing, secure a job, become a fully integrated member of society and fulfil civic duties. This is a great responsibility for any person, and while I think it’s rewarding for many to direct their lives themselves, schools should be there to provide them with the support they need in their formative years to help them become engaged citizens.  Together with parents, we must give them enough information about what it means to become independent. Young people need to learn basic everyday skills, and this can be achieved by ensuring they have a support network and someone to guide and listen to them. By considering their opinions and strengthening their general participation, we can help guide our children to find a career path that is best suited to their individual strengths.  Educational facilities should focus on improving a child’s motivation towards realising their individual mastery and purpose. It is also vital that parents are fully involved with the development of their child, as this has long-term benefits for both child and parent. This enables children to make the most of learning opportunities. Our role is to build a physical and spiritual environment that allows children to make independent choices, and improve their emotional development. Promoting independent learning in a child’s earlier years helps us understand how to advocate independence in them. Our teachers can extend and enrich their practices by seeing themselves, the children, the curriculum and society as a whole. Children who show a high degree of independence have higher confidence, self-esteem and motivation. Young people who become gradually conscious of themselves, other genders, cultures and history become aware of their freedom and develop the confidence to manage particular situations later in their lives. We need to continue to strive toward creating an environment which will nurture independence and promote our children’s well-being. I encourage educators to provide an environment that supports a child’s journey to obtain the freedom they need to ultimately become self-sufficient. I challenge teachers to rethink traditional teaching methods and to give greater emphasis to values that build character and resilience in the children who are entrusted into our care.  By David Clark, Head of School at Bridge House

NB Hearing & Balance

Incidental Learning in Children

The Impact of Hearing Difficulties and the Importance of Early Intervention Incidental learning is the process by which children absorb information from their environment, often without direct instruction. This type of learning is crucial for developing language, social skills, and cognitive abilities. However, children with hearing difficulties may miss out on many of these learning opportunities, which can impact their development. At NB Hearing and Balance, we support early intervention to help children reach their full potential. The Role of Incidental Learning What is Incidental Learning? Incidental learning occurs as children interact with their surroundings. This can happen during conversations while listening to stories, or through observing interactions between others. It plays a vital role in: Language Development: Children pick up vocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation through listening to speech around them. Social Skills: By overhearing conversations, children learn social norms, empathy, and appropriate responses. Cognitive Growth: Incidental learning helps in understanding concepts, problem-solving, and critical thinking. How Hearing Difficulties Affect Incidental Learning Children with hearing difficulties may not fully hear or understand conversations, instructions, or environmental sounds. This can lead to: Delayed Language Acquisition: They may struggle with vocabulary, sentence structure, and overall language comprehension. Social Isolation: Difficulty in following social interactions can hinder the development of social skills, leading to isolation or withdrawal. Delayed Development of Auditory Processing Skills: Hearing loss can lead to auditory processing difficulties that may impact reading and spelling.  Academic Challenges: Hearing difficulties can impact the ability to follow classroom discussions, instructions, and peer interactions, leading to academic delays. The Importance of Early Intervention Early detection and intervention for hearing difficulties are crucial for minimising the impact on incidental learning and overall development. Benefits of early intervention include: Enhanced Language Skills: Early use of hearing aids or other assistive devices helps children hear and learn language more effectively. Improved Social Integration: With better hearing, children can engage more fully in social interactions, leading to better social skills and relationships. Academic Success: Addressing hearing issues early allows children to participate more fully in classroom activities, improving their academic performance. Intervention Strategies: Regular Hearing Screenings: Early and regular hearing tests can detect issues promptly. Solving Medically Treatable Hearing Loss: A thorough assessment can identify hearing loss caused by ear issues, leading to the right referrals and the restoration of hearing as early as possible. Use of Hearing Aids: When medical or surgical treatment is not an option, properly fitted hearing aids or cochlear implants can significantly improve hearing and restore access to sound, improving learning and development. Speech and Language Therapy: Targeted therapy can help children catch up on language skills they may have missed. Educational Support: Schools can provide additional support and resources to help children with hearing difficulties succeed academically. We Can Help! Incidental learning is a critical component of a child’s development, and hearing difficulties can pose significant challenges. However, these challenges can be mitigated with early detection and appropriate intervention, allowing children to thrive. Prioritising hearing health and seeking timely professional help ensures that children have the best possible start in life. If you have concerns about your child’s hearing, don’t wait. Schedule a consultation with NB Hearing & Balance at any of our Cape Town offices and take the first step towards ensuring your child’s healthy development and bright future.

Curro

Is my child ready to start primary school?

“Will my child be able to keep up in class? Will they make friends? Will they be able to go without me for a longer school day? Will they enjoy school and feel confident to try new things?” These are some of the questions that parents may have as their children near school-going age. Starting “big school” is a major milestone for every child and something that’s both exciting and potentially scary. But how do you know if your child is ready? According to Dr Jenny Wright, Pre- and Primary School Curriculum Head at Curro Holdings, it is important that preschools prioritise their school readiness approach. This will ensure that children and parents navigate the transition from preschool to primary school with ease. She cites Dr Melodie de Jager, founder of the Mind Moves Institute and early childhood development specialist, who says there are three major milestones that signify readiness for primary school: The child can sit still and sit straight. Dr Wright says that this requires core strength, achieved through hours of physical play. Children also need to be able to manage themselves (to self-regulate) for long enough to learn from their seat in the classroom The child can listen to instructions and make a connection between a sound and a picture. This will have come through hours of listening to stories, songs, rhymes and exercises focusing on the ability to work with sounds in spoken language.   The child can grip a pencil with ease. This is learned through fine-motor development play, such as tearing paper, playing with blocks and lego, creating art and patterns, with various media, and manipulating playdough, sand and water.   Beyond these milestones, Dr Wright says the most important thing a parent needs to check is whether the child feels confident. “Are they sure of their ability to problem solve and do things independently?” she says. “Children should not begin Grade 1 before the age of six because they need to be socially and emotionally ready as well as physically and cognitively. All of these factors play a crucial role in learning, coping and belonging at school.” Parents have an important role to play in building a child’s confidence. “Parents need to build a child’s sense of belonging,” says Dr Wright. “A child’s need to feel loved unconditionally is fundamental to their ability to achieve independence and self-confidence. Parents can assist in building a sense of achievement when children manage tasks independently, listen to and follow instructions, or show emotional control and consideration for others. All of these “skills” can be fostered and developed at home and stand a child in good stead for a positive start to primary school.” Grade R is for “ready” Dr Wright says that preschool focuses on early childhood development and that this continues in Grade R. During this ‘reception’ year many multi-sensory activities help children to learn concretely, and thus prepare them for the world of symbols and numbers in Grade 1.  “At Curro, we understand the significance of Grade R in a child’s schooling journey,” she says. “When approached correctly, this foundation can have a major impact on the child’s life-long self-confidence and future academic success. The play-based, skills-based approach followed in our Grade R classrooms is designed to prepare children holistically for the transition to formal learning in Grade 1. The emphasis in Grade R is on purposeful, often teacher-directed play intended to build physical, social, emotional, and cognitive skills. This approach enables children to think, plan, make decisions, and problem-solve; all the while building the essential core strength and physical agility that will be required in a formal, paper-based setting.” She adds that it’s important to allow children to progress and reach their milestones at their own pace. “Some children are developmentally ahead of their peers at the start of Grade 1, but their friends soon catch up. A child should never feel that they are ‘behind’, as a knock to their self-confidence at this stage can be very damaging to their future confidence – even at Grade 12-level. It is important to remember that children starting in Grade 1 are still effectively Grade R learners and should be seen as such. Children learn at their own pace and have their own individual learning styles and needs. Parents and schools should recognise children’s individuality.” For more information about Curro’s preschool and Grade R offering, visit curro.co.za. References  De Jager, M, Efimove, O. and Efimova, V. (2020) GRAVITY – A missing link in child development. Johannesburg, Mind Moves Institute Publishing.

Abbotts Colleges

Maths vs Maths Lit the ongoing battle for parents and students

One of my first bad memories of primary school was when I was moved from the “A” class to the “C” class because I struggled with numbers. I was by far the best reader in class and finished books way ahead of my peers, but for some reason in this school, my mathematics results were the reason I was booted from the streamed “A” class.  I was devastated and I can still remember the tears and the feeling of stupidity that I could never be a mathematician. To this day, I consider numbers my weak area, as from that day on, I believed I could not do math. It was with relief then that I dropped maths in high school, which was still an option back in then. As an adult, I’ve managed to work around my so-called inadequacy and can do the everyday math that my job requires. Strangely enough, I scored quite high on the numbers section of a profile assessment one is required to do as a principal. I would have been the perfect Mathematical Literacy student if that subject was available in my era. Instead, I took Home Economics and learned how to make a really good white sauce. Back to today, and the pivotal moment that arrives for our Grade 9 students as they need to determine their subject choices leading up to Matric. Managing a delicate dilemma, schools often face challenges when students with subpar Grade 9 marks express a desire to pursue Mathematics. Despite recommendations and firm policies advising against it, students may persist in selecting this subject. Notably, opting for the Mathematics/Physical Science combination becomes pivotal for those eyeing university programmes like Engineering, Medicine, and Commerce that necessitate these foundation subjects.  The critical consideration lies in evaluating the student’s capabilities and their capacity to navigate these rigorous subjects. By the conclusion of Grade 10 and the commencement of Grade 11, if attainment remains consistently below 50% in these areas, a shift is warranted.  The notorious ‘double fail’ association with the Mathematics/Physical Science combination arises from the common struggle students face in mastering these subjects while steadfastly aspiring to careers like medicine, engineering, or architecture. Frequently, the dilemma extends to parental expectations and the child’s apprehension about failing to live up to the predetermined paths envisioned by their parents.  This is a sad reality and I have seen many a young student become anxious, resentful, and fearful about their future. Unfortunately, even with policies in place and against the better advice of principals and teachers, the choice still lies with the family. I am not for one moment suggesting that a hard-working student cannot ultimately achieve in these subjects, but if it becomes a major stressor in their lives, one has to weigh up the cost between a child’s mental health and the desire for a future career.  Remember, a student can always return to repeat Mathematics and Physical Science after school when they have matured and there is less pressure. I have many success stories of students who have done exactly that. At Abbotts JHB South, in Grade 9, we embark on an extensive subject choice process for both students and parents. We engage universities to come in to speak to our Grade 9s, so they have a better idea of university entrance requirements. We also conduct aptitude testing with an external company, where students receive feedback to help them identify their strongest subjects. This information empowers students to choose subjects aligned with their desired career path.  As a parent or guardian, what can you do to ensure that your child is taking the best possible subject set for Grades 10-12? Here are some factors to consider before making these important choices with your child: Remember not every child can become a doctor or engineer. The demand for these courses is intense and many exceptional, academically gifted students have been denied access to these courses.  Know your child’s limitations and abilities. A child’s aptitude is an innate ability that can be developed further and will enable them to perform well in a certain area. There is normally a close relationship between aptitude, interest, and academic performance. It is better to let your child complete an excellent matric with subjects in which they are capable of achieving above 50% to achieve entrance to university courses. Re-evaluate career choices if Mathematical Literacy is the better option.  Take your child’s personality into consideration. Howard Gardner’s Theory of Multiple Intelligences is a theory proposed by the Harvard psychologist that is worth looking into to understand your child’s strengths and intelligences. Your child, and not the parents, is the one that ultimately has to write assessments and examinations on the subject set chosen to fulfil the requirements and demands of the subject. The student must therefore be the centre of the decision-making process.  Decision-making needs to be informed, meaning that a student cannot make a proper decision without researching the requirements of a future course/degree, and what the minimum requirements are for acceptance into these tertiary courses.  Physical Science and Mathematics are demanding subjects and if a student wants to be considered for these subjects, they should be achieving marks above 50%.  Parents should not force their children to take subjects that they consider important or “better” than others. The best choice will always be the subjects with which the student feels they can cope, and those that interest them the most. By Marion Kohler, Principal: ABBOTTS Joburg South

The Turning Point Education

Supporting Your Children Through Their Exams

Exams are a significant aspect of your child’s life. Most schools have mid-year exams coming up in the next few weeks. Exams typically create more work for the children, which means more stress, late nights and bad eating habits. Parents may not realise it, but this is a time when they need to take the lead and guide their children step by step through the exam period. Your role as a parent is crucial in providing the support and encouragement your child needs during this challenging time. Children don’t automatically know when and how to study. Good study habits don’t come naturally to most of us. While exams may seem overwhelming, there are a number of ways you can help your child to navigate their way through them with confidence and resilience.  1.Open Communication Establishing open communication with your child is paramount. Encourage them to express their concerns, fears, and aspirations regarding exams. Listen attentively, empathize with their feelings, and offer reassurance. Create a safe space where they feel comfortable discussing any difficulties they may encounter. 2.Set Realistic Expectations Help your child set realistic goals and expectations for themselves. Emphasize the importance of doing their best rather than achieving perfection. Acknowledge their efforts and progress, regardless of the outcome. Encourage them to focus on personal growth and learning rather than just grades. 3.Provide a Supportive Environment Create an environment at home that fosters studying and concentration. Ensure they have access to necessary study materials, a quiet space for studying, and minimal distractions. Offer encouragement and praise for their dedication and hard work. 4.Establish a Balanced Routine  Help your child to establish a balanced study routine that includes regular breaks, healthy meals, exercise, and sufficient sleep. Encourage them to maintain a balance between studying and relaxation to prevent burnout and exhaustion. A well-rested mind is more receptive to learning and retaining information. 5.Offer Practical Assistance  Provide practical assistance by helping your child organize their study materials, create a study schedule, and prioritize tasks. Offer to quiz them or provide feedback on their practice tests. Assist them in breaking down complex topics into manageable chunks for easier comprehension. 6.Encourage Self-Care  Emphasize the importance of self-care and stress management techniques. Encourage your child to engage in activities they enjoy, such as hobbies, sports, or spending time with friends and family. Teach them relaxation techniques like deep breathing to alleviate exam-related stress. 7.Promote Positive Thinking Foster a positive mindset by reframing negative thoughts and self-doubt. Encourage your child to focus on their strengths and past achievements rather than dwelling on failures or setbacks. Teach them to replace negative self-talk with affirmations and constructive feedback. 8.Celebrate Progress Celebrate your child’s progress and milestones throughout the exam preparation process. Acknowledge their hard work, perseverance, and dedication. Celebrate achievements, no matter how small, to boost their confidence and motivation.  9.Stay Engaged but Avoid Micromanaging  Stay engaged in your child’s academic journey by checking in regularly, asking about their progress, and offering support. However, avoid micromanaging or imposing excessive pressure. Trust your child’s ability to manage their studies independently while providing guidance and encouragement when needed. 10.Prepare for Exam Day Help your child prepare for exam day by ensuring they have everything they need, such as stationery and a healthy snack. Encourage them to get a good night’s sleep before the exam and avoid last-minute cramming. Offer words of encouragement and remind them to stay calm and focused during the exam. 11.Provide Perspective Put exams into perspective by reminding your child that they do not define their worth or future success. Encourage them to view exams as a learning opportunity rather than a source of stress or anxiety. Remind them that setbacks are a natural part of the learning process and an opportunity for growth. 12.Offer Unconditional Support Above all, offer your child unconditional love and support regardless of exam outcomes. Reassure them that you are proud of their efforts and resilience, regardless of their grades. Remind them that your love and support are not dependent on academic achievements. Supporting your child through exams involves a combination of empathy, encouragement, practical assistance and fostering a positive mindset. By providing a supportive environment, setting realistic expectations, and emphasizing the importance of self-care and resilience, you can help your child navigate through exams with confidence and success. Remember that your support and encouragement are invaluable assets in helping your child thrive academically and emotionally during this challenging time.

Future Nation Schools

Embracing Language Diversity in Education: The Heart of Our Children’s Future

Imagine your child feeling a surge of pride and connection every time they speak their mother tongue. This is the power of integrating indigenous languages into education – it not only bridges the gap between learning and cultural identity but also enriches the cognitive and emotional development of our children. Sadly, ours is a continent where the dominance of foreign languages, such as English, Portuguese and French, has often overshadowed the rich mosaic of our indigenous tongues, disconnecting our children from their roots. This is particularly detrimental in how it has changed our country’s education.  Rewriting our children’s narrative through decolonised education Encouraging the use of indigenous languages in schools enhances learning, boosts cognitive flexibility, and nurtures a sense of belonging. This linguistic inclusivity is vital for preserving our cultural legacies and empowering future generations. To decolonise education is to liberate it from the remnants of colonial influence that still dictate the languages and methodologies of teaching. This transformative process involves redefining educational content to reflect the authentic voices and experiences of our communities. It’s about creating a space where every child feels seen, heard and valued. And while changing a system takes time – and the collective effort all – there are many things you can do as a parent to ensure your child’s native tongue is not lost because of our education systems.  Four easy ways parents can champion language diversity As a parent, your influence is monumental in shaping an inclusive educational environment: Create a multilingual home: Many African parents champion English at home in favour of their home language in order to ensure that their children have a high proficiency in the language. While understandable, this can create major identity and cultural issues for your children later life. Instead of favouring one language over another, host regular conversations in your home language to enrich your child’s linguistic skills and deepen their cultural connections. Share your cultural richness: Introduce your child to folktales, songs and traditions in your native tongue to foster a deeper appreciation of their heritage. Advocate for language inclusion: Encourage your child’s school to support and teach indigenous languages, transforming the educational landscape together. Celebrate multicultural events: Participate in cultural festivals that highlight the diversity of languages and cultures, making these experiences a joyful part of your family’s life. Be part of the change: Join our FutureTalk Webinar In celebration of Africa Day this May, Future Nation Schools is hosting a free FutureTalk webinar entitled “Reimagining Foundations: Indigenous Language Diversity as the Pillar of Decolonised African Education” where we are inviting parents and educators to learn about the transformative power of language diversity in education. This dialogue will equip you with the knowledge and tools to advocate for a decolonised and inclusive learning environment that honours and elevates our continent’s rich heritage. Date: 20 May 2024 Time: 18h00 to 19h30 Venue: Zoom  Cost: Free Register here By embracing language diversity, we not only enhance our children’s educational experiences but also sow seeds of cultural pride and understanding that will flourish for generations. Join us in this heartfelt journey to reshape education in a way that truly reflects the vibrancy and diversity of our continent. Together, we can ensure that our children’s education is a celebration of their identity and potential. By Pheelo Mokete, Future Nation Schools

Kumon

Active technology can benefit students in a digital world

In today’s classroom, students might be as likely to talk about the Elmo Visual Presenter, a computerized digital projector, as Elmo the red, fuzzy and lovable “Sesame Street” character who loves hugs. It’s the digital world they live in, and today’s children are enveloped by it in both their home and school lives. How they embrace technology and use it in their lives matter. If implemented thoughtfully and with balance, technology can more deeply enrich the educational journey of a student. Today, technology surrounds every facet of modern life. It’s prevalent in school, college and the workplace. It can be used for digital skill development, research, collaborative learning, job hunting, general time management and organizational skills. Learning proper technology habits early can help set students up for success. Kumon has launched Kumon Connect, a web-based app that allows students to complete their worksheets using a tablet and stylus. Passive Technology  Eyes can glaze over as users scroll through endless streams of YouTube videos. The same goes for swiping through the latest viral crazes on TikTok or posts on Instagram. The threshold for engagement for a user of one of these platforms is extremely low. In social media and entertainment platforms like these, the user isn’t required to do anything to interact with what is happening on the screen. The same can be said for television programmes. In each instance, the user isn’t required to interact with the programming presented, and no skills are gained in the process. They are consuming viewed material rather than having meaningful interaction that facilitates creating and discovering new skills. This passive consumption of technology isn’t healthy or appropriate for young learners, and the lack of engagement may be more detrimental than the hours spent in front of screens, says the American Academy of Pediatrics. At home and in the classroom, passive screen time could include watching too much television, social media scrolling or playing non-educational games on a tablet or phone. Active Technology At the other end of the spectrum is active technology, which can be used as a learning tool by parents and teachers to engage children in specific learning activities that develop skills meaningful to student development. Those tools can be delivered through various kinds of devices – tablets, computers, televisions and mobile phones. A number of large-scale studies have shown that integrating educational technology into a student’s life can improve academic outcomes, according to the Brookings Institution, a nonprofit based in Washington, D.C. The key is using the devices and the programmes on them for constructive use that engages the students in a meaningful way and encourages learning, creativity, active play and exploration. Technology can make many aspects of a child’s life more accessible and convenient – even practicing their Kumon. Just like with paper Kumon worksheets, students using Kumon Connect attend class at their local Centre twice per week and do homework the other five days; the difference is they do their worksheets on the tablet. After assignments are submitted, they are graded within 24 hours, and students are notified if corrections are necessary. The student’s next assignment will be ready when they sign in. Instructors can replay the work of completed assignments to see skill development and provide feedback, and parents can see their child’s progress in real time on the app. Engaging technology can be fun. Digital games and online videos provide an outlet to let children visually learn and reinforce educational concepts like sharing, collaboration and problem solving. Online audio programmes help younger students with auditory cues and instructions that give them a more immersive learning experience. These games and audio books develop similar skills but also provide a chance for the student to hear proper pronunciations and the ability to speak with the instructor or programme. Virtual reality and augmented reality experiences also provide for other active learning experiences where children are surrounded, through a headset, in a virtual learning environment. This allows them to be able to see and visit places they otherwise wouldn’t experience outside the digital realm, like zoos, aquariums, historic sites or outer space. Conventional thinking might lean toward an oversimplification of how digital devices and screen time should apply to students. While no child should be figuratively glued to a phone, tablet or computer, for the next generation of students to miss out on a digital world that encourages educational experiences would be a shame. As mentioned above, Kumon has introduced worksheets in a digital format via KUMON CONNECT, making Kumon’s tried and tested worksheets even more accessible and convenient for students to study using their tablet and stylus. To find out more visit www.kumon.co.za/kumon-connect/    This article is courtesy of the Kumon North America website* _________________________________________________________________________________ * https://www.kumon.com/resources/active-technology-can-benefit-students-in-a-digital-world-2/?doing_wp_cron=1714137736.1361100673675537109375 

The Bridge Assisted Learning School

Neurodiversity and change: How schools can support students

Neurodivergent young people often face a range of challenges related to variances in sensory processing. Some students may be hypersensitive, meaning that they take in far more stimuli than other students. For example, they may perceive noises or lights to be excessively bright. Behaviour related to sensory avoidance may arise from this.  Some students, however, may be hyposensitive, meaning that they are much less sensitive to sensations and require more sensory stimulus to identify the sensation and/or feel comfortable. An example of this would be that they detest quiet areas and would much rather listen to music in order to focus. Behaviour that is sensory seeking may arise from this.  Events that could be stressful, like change, tend to reinforce these responses. That is why, at school, students’ sensory demands must be considered, and suitable help must be given. Particularly in the case of events that could be stressful, like change, which tend to exacerbate these sensations. It is therefore helpful to create sensory-friendly areas where students may go to self-regulate when they feel overwhelmed. It is important to recognise the value of the psychological safety that students feel in an assisted learning environment, especially once they have established a routine and can predict their immediate future. For this reason, caregivers must consider how changes may affect children who are neurodivergent.  THE VALUE OF ROUTINE Students who regularly follow their daily routines may feel more secure and in control of their lives. A practical aid for students is to provide a clear visual depiction of their daily routines and the anticipated changes, for example, to use a notice board for scheduling and timetables. Time and timing are very important. Notifying students well in advance of any impending changes is crucial. Students need this time to prepare psychologically for the change. One should provide visual indicators, social stories, or verbal reminders to convey changes well in advance to accommodate different students.  The type and frequency of reminders required to enable a seamless transition through the change will depend on the student’s developmental stage and or preferences. Students can learn about changes more effectively by seeing visual representations of what to expect. THE VALUE OF EXPLANATION Providing students with clear and concise explanations of the reasons for the anticipated change will enhance their understanding of the change, and therefore lower possible resistance to change. Since all students are different, it is important to remember to communicate in a manner that accommodates their individual needs. While certain students may require short, frequent reminders, others may prefer longer verbal explanations, with the opportunity to ask questions to seek clarification. THE VALUE OF CHOICE Students are often voiceless in decisions that directly impact them. Whenever possible, students should be given options to mitigate their sense of helplessness. This may be as easy as having to select between two nearly identical options. Nonetheless, it helps support the development and preservation of a sense of autonomy and self-worth.  Effective communication is essential to change management, just like it is to any other process. Teachers, parents, and children can identify specific worries and anxieties connected to the change by having open conversations. Thus, it makes sense to set up a system that allows pupils to communicate their emotions, whether orally, visually, or through other channels. It’s critical to keep in mind that every neurodiverse learner is unique and that change management processes should be customised to meet their specific requirements. Comprehensive support requires regular communication between parents, caregivers, and specialists involved in the child’s care. www.thebridgeschool.co.za

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When to Push My Child and When to Step Back

Parental involvement in child development is a multifaceted endeavor that requires a delicate balance between providing support and fostering independence. Knowing when to push a child to excel and when to step back and allow them to navigate challenges independently is a critical aspect of effective parenting. In this article, we explore the factors to consider when making decisions about parental involvement in a child’s development. Recognizing Signs of Readiness One key factor in determining when to push a child is recognizing signs of readiness for challenge. These signs may manifest as curiosity, enthusiasm, or a desire to explore new opportunities. Observing cues from the child’s behavior and interests can provide valuable insights into their readiness to be pushed beyond their comfort zone. Understanding Individual Differences It’s essential to recognize that each child has unique learning styles, strengths, and preferences. What works for one child may not necessarily be effective for another. Tailoring parental involvement to accommodate these individual differences is crucial for promoting optimal development and fostering a positive learning experience. Setting Realistic Expectations While it’s essential to encourage children to strive for excellence, it’s equally important to set realistic expectations. Placing undue pressure on children to meet unrealistic standards can have detrimental effects on their self-esteem and overall well-being. Setting achievable goals that align with the child’s abilities and interests is key to fostering a healthy approach to learning and development. Encouraging Independence Fostering independence is essential for empowering children to take ownership of their learning and development. Encouraging children to take initiative, make decisions, and solve problems independently helps build confidence and resilience. Providing opportunities for children to explore their interests and pursue their passions autonomously nurtures a sense of self-efficacy and agency. Providing Support and Guidance While fostering independence, it’s essential for parents to provide support and guidance along the way. Offering encouragement, praise, and constructive feedback can help children navigate challenges with confidence. However, it’s equally important to strike a balance between offering assistance and allowing children the space to learn from their mistakes and grow. Recognizing Limits It’s crucial for parents to recognize when a child is feeling overwhelmed or stressed and adjust their level of involvement accordingly. Pushing a child too hard or too fast can lead to burnout and diminish their enjoyment of learning. Being attuned to the child’s emotional well-being and providing support to help them manage stress and anxiety is essential for promoting a positive learning environment. Seeking Professional Advice When unsure about the appropriate level of parental involvement, it’s important for parents to seek guidance from educators or child development experts. These professionals can offer valuable insights and recommendations based on their expertise and experience. Consulting with professionals can help parents make informed decisions that are in the best interest of their child’s development. In conclusion, knowing when to push a child and when to step back is a nuanced aspect of parenting that requires careful consideration and judgment. By recognizing signs of readiness, understanding individual differences, setting realistic expectations, fostering independence, providing support and guidance, recognizing limits, and seeking professional advice when needed, parents can effectively navigate the complexities of parental involvement in their child’s development. Maintaining a balanced approach that prioritizes the child’s well-being and autonomy is key to fostering a positive and nurturing learning environment.

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Benefits of Including STEM into the Classroom

In today’s rapidly evolving world, the integration of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics (STEM) education into the classroom has emerged as a crucial component of modern pedagogy. This article explores the myriad benefits of incorporating STEM disciplines into the educational curriculum, highlighting the transformative impact it has on students’ academic development and future prospects. Fostering Critical Thinking Skills STEM education serves as a catalyst for nurturing critical thinking skills essential for navigating the complexities of the 21st century. Through hands-on experimentation and problem-based learning, students are challenged to analyze, evaluate, and synthesize information, fostering a deep understanding of core concepts while honing their analytical prowess. By engaging in STEM activities, students are encouraged to think outside the box, fostering creativity and innovation that are indispensable in an increasingly dynamic world. Preparing Students for Future Careers The integration of STEM education in the classroom is not merely about imparting knowledge; it is about preparing students for the demands of the future workforce. In an era defined by technological advancement and digital transformation, proficiency in STEM fields has become a prerequisite for success in a wide range of career paths. By equipping students with STEM skills, educators empower them to pursue diverse opportunities in fields such as engineering, computer science, healthcare, and renewable energy, ensuring they are well-positioned to thrive in the ever-evolving job market. Encouraging Collaboration and Teamwork STEM education transcends individual achievement, emphasizing the importance of collaboration and teamwork in problem-solving. Through collaborative projects and group activities, students learn to communicate effectively, leverage collective expertise, and navigate diverse perspectives to achieve common goals. By fostering a collaborative learning environment, STEM education cultivates essential interpersonal skills that are invaluable in both academic and professional settings, laying the foundation for future success. Addressing Real-World Challenges One of the most compelling aspects of STEM education is its emphasis on addressing real-world challenges. From environmental sustainability to healthcare innovation, STEM disciplines provide students with the tools and knowledge to tackle pressing societal issues. By engaging in hands-on projects that simulate real-world scenarios, students develop a deeper understanding of the relevance and applicability of STEM concepts, empowering them to become agents of positive change in their communities and beyond. Enhancing Technological Literacy In an increasingly digital-centric world, technological literacy has become a prerequisite for active participation in society. STEM education plays a pivotal role in enhancing students’ technological literacy by exposing them to cutting-edge technologies, software applications, and coding languages. By equipping students with essential digital skills, STEM education empowers them to navigate the complexities of the digital landscape with confidence, opening doors to a myriad of opportunities in the digital economy. Promoting Diversity and Inclusion In the pursuit of STEM excellence, fostering diversity and inclusion is paramount. STEM education initiatives strive to create an inclusive learning environment that celebrates diversity of thought, background, and experience. By promoting equity and access to STEM education for all students, regardless of gender, race, or socioeconomic status, educators cultivate a diverse pipeline of future STEM professionals who bring unique perspectives and insights to the table, driving innovation and progress in STEM fields. The integration of STEM education into the classroom heralds a new era of learning characterized by innovation, collaboration, and opportunity. By harnessing the power of Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics, educators empower students to develop critical thinking skills, pursue diverse career paths, and address real-world challenges with confidence and ingenuity. As we chart a course towards a future defined by technological advancement and societal transformation, embracing STEM education is not just a choice—it is a necessity for unlocking the full potential of our students and shaping a brighter tomorrow.

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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION STRATEGIES FOR NAVIGATING HIGH SCHOOL YEARS

The teenage years are a time of transition, growth, and challenges for both parents and children. As teenagers enter high school, they face new academic, social and emotional pressures that can affect their well-being and behaviour. While this time might feel perplexing and very challenging for parents, they play a crucial role in helping their child navigate the transition from childhood to adulthood, an education expert says. “Many parents find it hard to understand and connect with their teenagers, who may seem distant, rebellious and unnecessarily moody. However, effective communication is arguably the most effective strategy to help parents navigate the teenage years and support their teenagers’ development,” says Desiree Hugo, Academic Head at ADvTECH Schools. But while most people probably understand and value the importance of effective communication, making effective communication happen is easier said than done for a great many parents of teenagers, she notes. Hugo says parents must acknowledge that high school represents a big change for teenagers, who have to deal with more complex and demanding coursework, higher expectations and increased competition, amidst new friendships and social environments. “They have to make important decisions about their future, such as what subjects to take, what career to pursue, and university choice. These decisions can cause constant stress and anxiety for teenagers, who may feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their choices.” “Teenagers may experience bullying, harassment, or discrimination from their classmates, teachers, or online. They may also face temptations to engage in risky behaviours, such as smoking, drinking, or using drugs. High school can also affect teenagers’ emotional development, as they go through hormonal changes, mood swings, and identity issues,” says Hugo. “It is important for parents to understand their children’s well-being, and that they often feel isolated, misunderstood, or unsupported by their parents, who may not know how to deal with their emotional needs.” THE ROLE OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION Building an environment characterised by effective communication is essential for parents to help their teenagers cope with the challenges of high school and foster a positive and trusting relationship, says Hugo. “Effective communication can help you and your teenager understand each other better and avoid misunderstandings or conflicts and build trust and respect for each other’s perspectives and choices. You want to be the first person your teen contacts when they are facing difficult decisions and situations.” Effective communication benefits your teenager’s academic, social, and emotional development. By communicating effectively, you can help your teenager: Improve their academic skills, Develop their social skills, Enhance their emotional skills and resilience, Boost their self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-identity, and Prevent or reduce their involvement in risky behaviours. Build trust in family relationships GUIDELINES FOR EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION Hugo says developing effective communication skills is a marathon, not a race, but that consistently being aware of the benefits will ultimately be rewarding for both parent and child. She advises parents to consider the following guidelines: Choose a good time and place to talk, when you and your teenager are both calm, relaxed, and free from distractions. Use open-ended questions, such as “How was your day?” or “What are you interested in?” to invite your teenager to share their thoughts and feelings. Use active listening skills, such as nodding, smiling, or paraphrasing, to show your interest and attention. Use positive feedback, such as praise, appreciation, or encouragement, to acknowledge your teenager’s achievements and efforts. Use “I” statements, such as “I feel” or “I think” to express your own thoughts and feelings, without blaming or accusing your teenager. Use assertive communication, such as “I need” or “I want” to state your own needs and expectations, without being aggressive or passive. Use compromise and negotiation, such as “Can we agree on?” or “Can we find a middle ground?” to resolve conflicts or disagreements, without imposing or giving in. Use humour and fun, such as jokes, games, or activities, to lighten the mood and bond with your teenager. Use empathy and compassion, such as “I understand” or “I care” to show your support and understanding for your teenager’s challenges and emotions Don’t underplay your teens concerns by highlighting future positives, let them live in the moment and acknowledge the concern. “Effective communication is not a one-time event, but a continuous process that requires patience, practise and perseverance. The more you communicate consistently and effectively with your teenager, the more you will strengthen your relationship and enhance your teenager’s social, academic and personal development journey,” says Hugo.

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Unlocking the power of reading

READING … It has been said that in Grade 0 – 3 a child learns to read and from Grade 4 up, they read to learn. Learning to read is different from learning to communicate. Children are born with the inherent ability to learn to communicate, but they are not born with the inherent ability to learn to read. As such, teaching reading needs to be systematic and intentional.  Sadly, for many of our children, they miss out on the foundations of learning to read which impacts negatively on their ability to learn throughout life. Although accurate statistics are hard to come by, the evidence is conclusive that South Africa’s rate of illiteracy in our schools it frighteningly high. In 2021, the Progress of International Literacy (PIRLS) study reported that 80% of students in South Africa, in Grade 4 were illiterate! This is beyond frightening and we need to systematically and intentionally intervene to turn the tide of growing illiteracy.  In a world dominated by screens and soundbites, the art of reading seems to be fading into the background. Yet, it’s importance remains as crucial as ever. Learning to read properly isn’t just about deciphering words on a page, it’s about unlocking a world of possibilities, expanding horizon and empowering individuals to navigate the complexities of life with confidence and insight. The Gateway to Knowledge Reading is a key that opens countless doors to knowledge, wisdom and imagination. From textbooks to literature, news articles to scientific papers, reading with comprehension allows a person to access to a wealth of information. Mastering the skill of reading is paramount! It takes a child beyond the doors of their classrooms into a world of possibilities.   Once you learn to read, you will be forever free.” — Frederick Douglass   Empowering Critical Thinking Reading isn’t merely about absorbing words. It’s about engaging with ideas, analyzing perspectives and challenging assumptions. Proper reading comprehension cultivates critical thinking skills essential for navigating an ever increasingly complex world. Student who can read effectively are better equipped to evaluate information critically, discern fact from opinion, and form their own well-informed judgments. Fostering Empathy and Understanding Literature has the power to transport readers into the lives of others, which fosters empathy and understanding. Through the pages of novels, short stories and poems, children encounter diverse characters and perspectives, gaining insights into different cultures, experiences and emotions. These literally journeys broaden children’s worldview and cultivate empathy, which is a vital attribute for building harmonious relationships and thriving in a multicultural society. Enhancing Communication Skills Reading also extensively is a cornerstone of success in both academic and professional realms. Reading extensively exposes students to various writing styles, vocabulary and sentence structures, which enhances their own language proficiency. Furthermore, exposure to well-written texts serves as a model for developing coherent arguments, articulating thoughts clearly and communicating ideas persuasively. These are skills which are invaluable in academic essays, presentations and other everyday interactions.  “Children are made readers in the laps of their parents.” -Emilie Buchwald Fuelling Imagination and Creativity Books are portals to boundless worlds limited only by one’s imagination. Through the pages of fiction, students embark on fantastical adventures, explore distant galaxies and immerse themselves in richly imagined landscapes. Reading stimulates creativity, igniting the imagination and inspiring individuals to think innovatively. For students nurturing creativity through reading fosters a sense of possibility and fuels their aspirations for the future. Building Resilience and Grit The journey of learning to read proficiently is often fraught with challenges – encountering unfamiliar works, grappling with complex concepts and overcoming moments of frustration. Through perseverance in the face of these obstacles that resilience and grit are forged. Students who persist in honing their reading skills develop the confidence to tackle academic challenges head-on and the resilience to navigate setbacks with determination. Cultivating Lifelong Learning Reading is not merely a skill to be mastered in school but is lifelong companion on the journey of personal growth and self-discovery. Students who cultivate a love for reading are more likely to become lifelong learners, continuously seeking out new knowledge and experiences beyond the confines of formal education. Whether delving into non-fiction to expand the expertise or losing themselves in the pages of fiction for pure enjoyment, the habit of reading enriches their lives immeasurably. In an age dominated by rapid technological advancements, the ability to read properly remains a timeless and indispensable skill. For children, mastering this skill is not just about meeting their academic requirements but about equipping them with the tools needed to thrive. By unlocking the power of reading, children embark on a journey of discovery, a journey that transcends the confines of the classroom and shapes the course of their lives.   And all this begins by parents developing a love of books in their children!

Future Nation Schools

The Game of Chance and Logic: Why Board Games are the Perfect Introduction to Coding for Kids

Board games and puzzles are not only fun activities for children, but they also provide valuable learning opportunities that can help them develop various skills, such as problem-solving, critical thinking, creativity, perseverance, and teamwork. Snakes and Ladders is one of the most popular board games among children, and it can be an excellent way to teach them the basics of coding while also promoting these soft skills. In this blog, we will explore how playing Snakes and Ladders can be similar to coding the game piece, and we will highlight the key coding and soft skills that children can learn from playing this game. Playing Snakes and Ladders can be compared to coding since both require following a set of rules that govern how the game is played. In the same way, coders write code to direct a computer to perform specific tasks, and players of Snakes and Ladders follow the game’s rules to move their game piece. Additionally, the game has a goal, which is to be the first to reach the top of the board. Likewise, coders write code to achieve specific objectives such as developing a website or creating a game. Another similarity between playing Snakes and Ladders and coding is that both require breaking down a problem into smaller parts. Snakes and Ladders players must determine the best way to move their game piece up the board while avoiding the snakes that can send them back down. Similarly, coders must break down a problem into smaller parts, such as creating functions to perform particular tasks or dividing a complex program into smaller modules. Playing Snakes and Ladders can teach children several key coding lessons These concepts include: Logic and Sequencing: Snakes and Ladders necessitate players to use logic and sequencing skills to determine the best moves to make. This is similar to coding, where coders must use logic and sequencing skills to create code that performs a specific task. Debugging: Snakes and Ladders also teach children about debugging. When a player lands on a snake, they must go back down the board. This can be frustrating, but it also teaches children about the importance of identifying and fixing errors in their code. Planning and Strategy: Snakes and Ladders requires players to plan and strategize their moves to reach the top of the board. Similarly, coders must plan and strategize their coding to achieve the desired results. In addition to these coding skills, playing Snakes and Ladders can also teach children important soft skills: Perseverance: The game can be frustrating at times, especially when a player lands on a snake and has to go back down the board. However, the game also teaches children the importance of perseverance and not giving up, as they keep striving to reach the top of the board. Creativity: Players can get creative in their strategies for moving up the board, such as taking a risk and climbing a ladder instead of playing it safe. Similarly, coding requires creativity to come up with new and innovative solutions to problems. In conclusion, Snakes and Ladders is a fantastic game that can help children learn coding skills while also promoting soft skills such as perseverance and creativity. It teaches them about following rules, breaking down problems, and using logic and sequencing. It also helps them understand the importance of debugging, planning, and strategy. So, the next time your child wants to play Snakes and Ladders, encourage them, because they could be developing valuable skills without even realizing it.

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NAVIGATING LIFE AFTER SCHOOL: OUTLINING THE OPPORTUNITIES & CHALLENGES

As the Class of 2023 embarks on the journey beyond school, and the Class of 2024 prepare to do so next year, these young people stand at the crossroads of exciting opportunities, daunting challenges and significantly, a bucket of options that can quickly entangle them in analysis paralysis. Leaving behind the familiar halls of high school, they enter a new chapter of their lives which is filled with a range of possibilities that will shape their futures. However, these possibilities also come with their own difficulties and risks. “After school, you will be faced with numerous choices and options, each of which will shape and impact your future journey. Understanding an overview of the main paths generally embarked upon by young people, as well as the most salient challenges, can help guide these important decisions,” says Peter Kriel, General Manager at The Independent Institute of Education, SA’s leading private higher education provider. Higher Education Pathways One of the most common and rewarding opportunities for school leavers is to pursue higher education. Higher education institutions, both public and private, offer a gateway to in-depth learning and a platform for personal and intellectual growth. “A higher education qualification also provides a competitive edge in the job market, as employers generally prefer candidates with relevant qualifications and skills. However, not all higher education institutions provide equal value, so it is important to match your vision for your life to an institution most likely to help you realise that vision,” says Kriel. He says some universities may have outdated curricula, overcrowded facilities, and large classes, which can affect the quality of education and student satisfaction and outcomes. “Whether you decide to go public or private, make sure that your chosen university has industry-relevant, up-to-date curricula, excellent facilities, and smaller classes, which will enhance the learning experience and outcomes.” School leavers should carefully research and compare the different options available to them and choose an institution that best suits their needs and goals. Vocational Training and Skill Development Another opportunity for school leavers is to pursue vocational training and skill development, notes Kriel. “In a world that increasingly values practical skills, vocational training provides an alternative route to furthering your education. School leavers can pursue courses that equip them with specific, job-ready skills, enhancing their employability in various industries. Although many roles require a degree, there are also rewarding positions that can be accessed with a vocational training qualification under your belt,” Kriel notes. Entrepreneurial Ventures Some school leavers may have an entrepreneurial spirit and choose to start their own business. “The rapidly evolving business landscape encourages innovation, making it an opportune time for those with a vision to carve their niche. Entrepreneurial ventures can also offer school leavers a unique platform for innovation, personal development, and the potential to make a lasting impact,” Kriel says. However, he warns that entrepreneurial ventures also come with significant challenges, such as financial uncertainty, the impact of the entrepreneur’s limited experience, and market competition. “Navigating this path requires a combination of determination, adaptability, and a willingness to learn from both successes and setbacks. Therefore, school leavers who choose this option should be prepared to face both the risks and rewards of entrepreneurship. And even though you may not at this stage wish to pursue further education, one thing that all outstanding entrepreneurs have in common is a commitment to lifelong learning. “So, consider doing distance studies or shorter courses to bolster your knowledge in those areas that will help boost your business.” Entering the workforce For some young people, there are logistical or financial barriers to furthering their education or embarking on entrepreneurship, which means they will aim to enter the workforce straight after school. “Unfortunately, given SA’s high unemployment rates, these candidates will face stiff competition for entry-level positions. We would recommend that these young people do everything possible to continue their academic journey and develop their skillset, by investigating relevant part-time short courses or online courses. This will demonstrate to employers that you are serious about your career and your future and may open up opportunities down the line. “Also be sure to regularly check in and speak to your manager or HR about your development plans and goals. Many companies offer deserving candidates subsidised opportunities for further study and professional development.” Global Opportunities The interconnected global economy opens doors for school leavers to explore opportunities beyond borders. International internships, exchange programmes, and remote work options allow them to gain exposure to diverse cultures and working environments. “Global opportunities can also broaden their horizons, enrich their perspectives, and enhance their skills. However, global opportunities also come with their own challenges, such as cultural differences, language barriers, and travel costs. Taking a gap year is often the approach of choice for international exposure, but it should be well planned and structured to add value to one’s personal development,” says Kriel. “It is also a sound strategy to ensure that if you are in the position to take advantage of global opportunities after leaving school, you are able to align the opportunity to your future vision and endeavours. Take the time to develop those skills that you can build upon later, so that your time spent abroad provides a strong base for future endeavours.”

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Mastering School Transitions: A Guide for Students, Parents, and Educators

In the intricate tapestry of a student’s academic journey, transitions represent pivotal moments that can significantly shape both their educational experience and personal growth. Whether moving from one school to another or ascending to a higher grade, these transitions carry profound implications for academic performance and socio-emotional well-being. This article delves into the nuanced dynamics of such transitions, examining the psychological, social, and academic facets that students encounter during these pivotal moments. The Psychological Dynamics of Transitions Transitioning from one school to another or advancing to a higher grade is a complex process laden with psychological nuances. Students may experience stressors such as adapting to a new environment, forming new relationships, and adjusting to different academic expectations. Understanding the psychological underpinnings of these challenges is essential for developing effective coping mechanisms that support the mental well-being of students. Navigating Social Dynamics Social dynamics play a crucial role in the transitional phases of a student’s academic journey. The prospect of forming new friendships, fitting into established social circles, and adjusting to the social norms of a different academic setting can pose challenges. This section explores strategies for students to navigate these social dynamics successfully, fostering positive interactions and building meaningful connections with peers. Academic Adjustments The academic landscape undergoes significant transformations during transitions, presenting students with new challenges and expectations. From adapting to different curriculum structures to facing diverse teaching methodologies, students must navigate these adjustments to ensure a seamless academic progression. This section discusses approaches for students to ease the academic transition, ensuring a continued focus on learning and achievement. Parental Involvement and Support Parents play an integral role in supporting their children through transitions. Their involvement, understanding, and proactive support contribute significantly to a smooth transition experience. This section provides practical tips for parents to actively engage in their child’s academic journey, addressing concerns, and fostering a supportive environment at home. The Role of Educators in Transition Support Educators bear a significant responsibility in guiding and supporting students through transitional phases. Creating an environment that acknowledges and addresses the challenges inherent in transitions is paramount. This section outlines strategies for educators to provide effective support, facilitating a seamless transition for students under their care. Building Resilience for Future Transitions Navigating transitions, when approached with a positive mindset, can cultivate resilience in students. This resilience becomes a valuable asset for future transitions, empowering students to adapt to new challenges and opportunities throughout their academic journey. This section explores the long-term benefits of effectively managing transitions and building resilience. In conclusion, the transition from one school to another or from one grade to the next is a critical juncture in a student’s academic journey. By understanding and addressing the psychological, social, and academic dynamics associated with these transitions, a collaborative effort among educators, parents, and students can ensure a smooth and successful progression, setting the stage for a fulfilling educational experience.

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Three Ways to Empower Students in their Tertiary Application Quest

As the academic year concludes, Grade 12s nationwide are on the brink of making life-altering decisions about their future paths. The multitude of careers, tertiary qualifications and higher education institution options can induce overwhelming stress, emphasising the need for collaborative decision-making. In this crucial journey of tertiary applications, the guidance of parents, counsellors, and peers becomes pivotal to ensuring school leavers are making informed and confident choices. According to the data provided by The South African Institute for Advancement (2021), South African universities are only able to accommodate 18% of matriculated students and out of that amount, a staggering 47% will drop out during their studies. Parents and advisors, therefore, play a huge role in supporting learners so that they not only get accepted but also fully complete their studies. The Earlier the Better The first hurdle learners often face is the delay in initiating the application process. As Atelisha Harilal, Head of Marketing and Student Recruitment at STADIO explains, waiting until after exam results are released may lead to missed opportunities as limited positions in high-demand programmes are quickly filled. “The administrative complexity of the application process, coupled with the scarcity of positions in public higher education institutions in South Africa, underscores the importance of early planning,” she warns. Parents play a pivotal role here, in guiding learners from an early stage. Harilal advises starting discussions around subject choices as early as grade 10. “Conversations about interests, skills, and future goals set the foundation for informed decisions. However, it is crucial that these discussions are honest and non-pressured as this will ensure learners enter Grade 11 with a well-defined plan and a variety of options,” she says. Learners are advised to do thorough research on institutions such as STADIO which have a transparent application process and eliminate the confusion often found at other institutions. Avoid Peer Influence and Misconceptions Peers can also significantly impact application decisions, with learners’ choices often swayed based on which institutions their friends have chosen. However, this should never be the primary factor influencing decisions. “It is important that learners and their parents understand the selection process as academic success alone usually does not guarantee acceptance. Parents need to educate themselves on various selection criteria, including specific subject requirements,” advises Harilal. Those students who have not applied, or who have not been accepted to their first choice should not lose hope either. Harilal explains that public universities are not the be-all and end-all of tertiary studies and with the right parental support, these students too can find the right path for them. Parents are encouraged to actively embark on their children’s academic journeys, at every stage, and encourage that all is not lost.Explore the institution’s website and help them consult with student advisors to help lead to positive, well-thought-out decisions, crucial for success in the life-shaping process of tertiary education choices. While involved parents are invaluable, Harilal again emphasises the importance of allowing pupils to find their own voices, as opposed to the voices of their parents or their peers, to ensure a higher chance of success. Build a Supportive Community Harilal believes in the proverbial ‘it takes a village’ approach. Encouraging knowledge sharing within communities empowers parents and learners to have critical conversations about career choices. Seeking advice from institutions offering free career guidance, attending open days, and interacting with academic teams are essential steps in making well-informed decisions. “Seeking guidance from a student advisor can really help navigate the complex terrain of career choices. Student advisors possess up-to-date information about various industries, emerging trends, and the educational requirements for different careers. Their insights empower students to align their interests, skills, and goals with suitable academic and vocational options, ensuring a more targeted and successful career trajectory,” explains Harilal. By encouraging knowledge sharing within communities, student advisors contribute to a supportive environment where parents can engage in critical conversations with their children, fostering a collaborative approach to educational and career planning. This collaborative effort ultimately enhances the likelihood of pupils making better-informed decisions that align with their aspirations and the demands of the ever-evolving job market. As Benjamin Franklin famously said, ’By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail’. A more proactive support network prepares learners to make well-informed decisions that both resonate with their aspirations and align with the fast-evolving job market demands. Offering a helping hand now also strengthens the foundations of their educational journey and reduces the risk of them dropping out of tertiary later.

Kip McGrath Education Centres

Homework Wars

The year is in full swing and the novelty of being back at school or starting in Grade 1 has probably already worn off. The excitement of a new grade, new teachers and new friends has been replaced by the reality of tests, projects and busy afternoon schedules. Grade 1 pupils are starting to get used to “big school” with all its challenges. One of those challenges for parents and children is homework. Parents are eager to get their children into an afternoon routine to create a suitable environment for homework to be completed. However, parents of children of all ages are often overwhelmed by the volume of homework being sent home and are not sure whether they are helping their children correctly. Schools in many first world countries, and even some in South Africa, are moving away from the concept of homework. They believe that children should have enough time to play and have reading programmes instead of homework. These  theoretically reinforce concepts taught during the school day. The reality is that this has not yet taken off in South Africa and most teachers will agree that completing the curriculum relies on concepts being reinforced at home. Parents of children in primary school can try the following tips to make homework less tedious and frustrating: 1. Keep R1 coins to use as counters for Maths homework. This will help the child to see the link between addition and subtraction using real-world examples. 2. Skip counting is an important skill to master and becomes the foundation of times tables. Trace your child’s hands on a piece of paper and write the numbers of the skip counting in the fingers. The child will associate the number with the finger used to count on. 3. Print 100 chart templates from the internet and let them colour in every second, third or fourth block, depending on the number being counted in. This will help them to see the pattern created for each number as opposed to trying to remember a list of numbers off by heart. 4. Create your own set of flashcards for sight words. Review words covered in previous weeks’ lists on a regular basis. 5. Let your child break spelling words into sounds. This will help them to develop a strategy for attempting new words. 6. Use the sounds of letters (“a” for ant) as opposed to the letter names, such as A (ay), B (bee) and C (see) when reinforcing reading. Parents should not feel alone in fighting homework wars! Speak to your child’s teacher or book a remedial assessment if you suspect that your child is unable to cope with the demands of his or her grade. Chrizelle Prinsloo is the owner of Kip McGrath Education Centres, Walmer.  She has a background in psychology and has taught in mainstream and special-needs schools both locally and abroad. Chrizelle is passionate about helping children gain confidence in their own abilities and about finding different ways to help them learn.

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Returning to School After the December Holiday: A Fresh Start

The holiday season is a time for joy, celebration, and relaxation. It is a time when we can take a break from our everyday routines and spend quality time with family and friends. However, as the new year dawns, it is time to bid farewell to the festive season and return to the familiar classes of education. For many students, this transition can be challenging, but with the right mindset and a few helpful tips, returning to school after the December holiday can be a fresh start filled with opportunities.   Reflect on Your Achievements As you prepare to return to school, take a moment to reflect on your accomplishments from the previous year. Think about the projects you completed, the new skills you acquired, and the challenges you overcame. This reflection can boost your confidence and remind you of your academic ability.  Set Clear Goals Setting goals is a crucial part of a successful return to school. What do you want to achieve during the upcoming term? Whether it’s improving your marks, becoming more organised, or participating in extracurricular activities, clearly defined goals will provide you with a sense of purpose and direction.  Get Organised   Returning to school after the holidays is an excellent opportunity to get organised. Review your school supplies, textbooks, and notes. Make a list of what you need and create a plan to keep everything in order throughout the term. Staying organised can help reduce stress and increase your productivity.  Re-establish a Routine During the holiday, your daily routine may have become more relaxed. It is essential to reestablish a regular schedule that includes time for homework, studying, demands of school more easily.  Reach Out to Friends  One of the joys of returning to school is reuniting with friends. Reconnect with your peers, share your holiday experiences, and look forward to spending time together. Supportive friendships can make the transition back to school more enjoyable.  Seek Help When Needed If you are struggling with any subjects or concepts, do not hesitate to seek help. Your teachers, parents, or tutoring programmes like Kip McGrath are there to support your learning journey. Asking for help when needed is a sign of strength and determination.  Stay Positive Maintaining a positive attitude is key to a successful return to school. Remember that each new term is an opportunity to learn and grow. Embrace the challenges and celebrate your achievements along the way. Returning to school after the holiday may seem daunting, but it is also a chance for a fresh start. By reflecting on your past achievements, setting clear goals, getting organised, re-establishing a routine, reaching out to friends, seeking help when needed, and staying positive, you can navigate the transition with confidence and enthusiasm. With the right mindset and a commitment to your education, the new term holds the promise of new opportunities and growth. Welcome back to school, and here’s to a successful and fulfilling year ahead!

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HELPING YOUR CHILD MAKE THE LEAP FROM JUNIOR TO SENIOR PRIMARY

The leap from Junior Primary in Grade 3 to Senior Primary in Grade 4 – the so-called Intersen Phase – can be a significant change and adjustment for children. They are faced with new subjects, new teachers, new expectations, new routines and new challenges. Some children may find this transition exciting, while others may feel anxious, overwhelmed, or resistant. Parents have an important role to play to prepare their children for this progress between grades and help them take this important next step in their academic journey, an education expert says. “Parents should prepare their children for the change, by talking to them about how their school days will be different when they move to Grade 4,” says Desiree Hugo, Academic Head of ADvTECH Schools Division. “In Grade 4, they need to start taking greater ownership and responsibility for their own learning, including an increase in workload, homework and assessments, plus they are expected to develop independence,” she says. For parents who have children heading to Grade 4 in 2024, the following guidelines can assist them to ensure they start the year on a strong footing, ready to perform to the best of their ability and enjoy the exciting challenges ahead! Create a consistent routine Children thrive on structure and predictability, especially during times of change. Establish a regular routine for your child’s daily activities, such as waking up, getting ready, having breakfast, going to school, extra-murals, doing homework, having family fun time and dinner, and going to bed, preferably with a story book. Try to stick to the same schedule on most school days, and make sure your child knows what to do and when to do it. Try to keep deviations to a minimum, so that the rhythm of their daily routine becomes second nature. Support your child’s learning In Senior Primary, there may be a wider range of subjects that may be new or challenging for your child. You can help your child learn and master the content by providing guidance, encouragement, and feedback. For example, you can review the lesson notes with your child, help them with their homework, quiz them on the key concepts, praise their efforts and achievements, and discuss their mistakes. You can also provide extra resources, such as books, websites, videos, or games, to supplement their learning and spark their interest. However, avoid doing the work for your child or putting too much pressure on them. Let your child work at their own pace and level, and respect their learning style and preferences. At the start of Senior Primary, getting into a healthy learning routine is probably one of the most important milestones, which will assist your child throughout their educational journey. Encourage your child’s social and emotional development Senior Primary is not only about academic learning, but also about personal growth, as your child develops and continues to grow and develop their unique identity. Your child may face various social and emotional issues, such as making friends, dealing with peer pressure, coping with stress, managing emotions, developing self-esteem, and expressing opinions. You can help your child develop these skills by being a good role model, listening to their feelings and concerns, validating their emotions, offering advice and support, teaching them coping strategies, and encouraging them to join extracurricular activities. You can also help your child build positive relationships with their teachers and classmates by communicating with them regularly, attending school events, and resolving conflicts independently and peacefully. Celebrate your child’s progress and achievements The transition to Senior Primary is a big milestone for your child, and they deserve recognition and appreciation for their hard work and accomplishments. It is important to celebrate your child’s progress and achievements, while at the same time avoiding comparison with others or focusing only on results. Emphasise the process, the effort, mastery and the improvement that your child has made. Consider failure as a first attempt in learning, and support them in building resilience to ongoing relearning. “Senior Primary is an exciting and illuminating period in a child’s life. They continue to build their own identity, learn new skills, and encounter new challenges. This is an important time to help them cultivate a love of learning and a growth mindset. Parental and teacher support during this time is crucial, to ensure continued connection while also learning to strike a balance between supporting the child and giving them the room to discover their own strengths and abilities; we want to maximise children’s success and gratification in life,” Hugo says.

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RECOGNISING COMMON SIGNS YOUR KIDS ARE BEING BULLIED

According to Affinity Health, a leading provider of high-quality health coverage, bullying is a serious issue that can have profound emotional and psychological effects on children and teens. “Bullying is a widespread concern that affects millions of children worldwide,” says Murray Hewlett, CEO of Affinity Health. “Recognising common signs that a child may be experiencing bullying is essential for early intervention and ensuring their emotional well-being.” What Is Bullying? Bullying among children refers to repeated and intentional aggressive behaviours that cause harm, distress, or fear to another child. Bullying can occur in various settings, including school, aftercare, extra murals, and sports activities. The Different Forms of Bullying Bullying among children can take various forms. Physical bullying involves actions like hitting, kicking, or pushing. Verbal bullying encompasses name-calling, taunting, or using hurtful words. Social bullying involves exclusion, spreading rumours, or manipulating friendships. Cyberbullying involves using technology to harass, threaten, humiliate, or intimidate others. Psychological bullying involves intimidation, manipulation, and control. Signs Your Child May be the Victim of Bullying Recognising the signs that a child is being bullied is crucial for taking immediate action and providing the support they need. Some signs that may indicate your child is being bullied include: Emotional Changes: A child being bullied may exhibit increased irritability, anxiety, or depression. They may become withdrawn, show a loss of interest in activities they once enjoyed, or display signs of sadness without an apparent cause. Changes in Eating and Sleeping Habits: A child who is bullied may suddenly lose their appetite, skip meals, or overeat to cope with their feelings of stress and anxiety. Bullying-related stress can also disrupt a child’s sleep patterns, leading to insomnia, nightmares, or a sudden increase in night waking. Physical Complaints: A bullied child may experience unexplained physical complaints, such as headaches, stomach aches, or other somatic symptoms. They may also have unexplained injuries, such as bruises, cuts, or scrapes. Withdrawal from Social Activities: A child who is being bullied may withdraw from social activities, including school clubs, sports, and gatherings with friends. They may become isolated and reluctant to engage with peers. Decline in Academic Performance: Bullying can affect a child’s ability to concentrate and perform well in school. A noticeable decline in academic performance may be an indicator of bullying-related stress. Loss of Personal Items: Bullying sometimes involves theft or damage to personal belongings. If a child frequently loses items or comes home with damaged possessions, it may be a sign of bullying. Changes in Social Media Behaviour: Watch for changes in a child’s social media behaviour, including harassment or exclusion. Avoiding Certain Routes or Areas: Children who are bullied may try to avoid specific routes or areas where they have encountered their tormentors, such as streets, bus stops, or corners of the school. Frequent Requests for Money or Belongings: Bullies may extort money or personal belongings from their victims. If a child frequently asks for money or items without a clear explanation, it could be a sign of bullying. Loss of Confidence and Self-Esteem: A child’s self-esteem and self-confidence may suffer due to bullying. They might start doubting themselves or expressing feelings of worthlessness. What To Do if Your Child is Being Bullied  The first step in addressing bullying is establishing open communication with your child. Create a safe and non-judgmental space for them to share their experiences and feelings. Let them know that you are there to listen and support them. Keep a detailed record of each bullying episode, noting dates, locations, individuals involved, and any evidence you can gather, such as screenshots or photos. This documentation may be helpful when discussing the issue with school authorities. If bullying occurs, contact school staff, including teachers, counsellors, or the principal. Share the documented information and request a meeting to discuss the situation. Collaborate with the school to develop strategies to stop bullying and create a safe environment for your child. Empower your child with coping strategies to handle bullying situations. You should encourage them to avoid confrontations, use assertive communication, and seek help from trusted adults when needed. Teach them the importance of staying composed and assertive when responding to bullies. If your child is experiencing severe emotional distress or displays signs of anxiety or depression due to bullying, consider involving a therapist, counsellor, or online support group like SADAG or Childline South Africa. These professionals can provide the necessary support and strategies to help your child cope with the emotional impact of bullying. In extreme cases where bullying involves threats or poses a real danger to your child’s safety, don’t hesitate to involve law enforcement. Lastly, stay involved in your child’s life and support them while closely monitoring the situation to ensure the bullying stops and doesn’t resurface.

Loreto School Queenswood

Striking a Harmonious Chord- Loreto School Queenswood reflecting on the year that was, with our theme this year being: Year of Balance and Service

As we stand at the end of this academic year, it’s time to pause and reflect on the guiding principle that has shaped our journey throughout: “Balance.” This theme, “Balance” has been the North Star, illuminating the path towards a more fulfilled and meaningful life, encompassing equilibrium in justice, needs, desires, relationships, and our coexistence with the world around us. From the very beginning of the school year, we set out to instil in our learners the vital importance of creating a holistic life. We emphasized the need to strike a balance in various aspects of life – academics, extracurricular activities, personal growth, and relationships. We conveyed the message that a well-rounded life is,  key to overall happiness and success. One of the fundamental aspects of balance we explored was the concept of justice. We encouraged our learners to reflect upon and advocate for fairness and equity, emphasising that a balanced society is one where everyone has equal opportunities, and rights. The scales of justice were painted vividly before them, urging them to contribute to a world where fairness prevails. Balancing needs and desires were another critical aspect of our focus. We guided our, students to identify their essential needs, aspirations, and desires, teaching them to harmonize these elements in a way that nurtures personal growth while remaining, grounded and responsible. We believe this understanding fosters contentment and purposeful living. Living in harmony with others and creation emerged as a core principle in our pursuit of balance. We encouraged students to build empathetic relationships, to understand diverse perspectives, and to coexist in peace with the environment. This holistic approach is essential for nurturing a generation that respects and cares for each other and the world we share. Our goal? We aimed to instil and inspire our children to serve others and to leave a positive mark in the world! Lastly, our ultimate goal this year was to inspire our learners to enter our school to learn and leave to serve. We aimed to instil a sense of duty and responsibility towards society within them. We encouraged them to apply the knowledge and skills gained within our school for the greater good, emphasising that a fulfilling life is one that serves others and leaves a positive mark on the world. Looking back, it is heartening to witness the profound impact of our collective focus on balance. The students have internalized these values, and we see them applying them in their daily lives. We have faith that they will continue to carry this torch of balance and service forward, positively influencing the world they inhabit. This year has been a testimony to the transformative power of balance, setting a solid foundation for the learners to thrive as compassionate and responsible global citizens. We Grow Children for Life! Author: Teacher Wendy Freitas Editor: Thabs Nyamane www.loretoschoolqueenswood.com

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How do I make my child love reading?

As a grade six English teacher at Maragon Ruimsig, I am frequently asked this question at Parents’ Evenings. The child concerned inevitably struggles with the comprehension section of my assessments and while the diagnosis is simple, the “medication” is very difficult to administer…think squirming cat here and the thankless task of attempting to force a pill down the hapless feline’s throat! An almost impossible task.

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This One Is For The Teachers…

I often hear teachers from around the globe complaining about how difficult their job is. I have watched video clips where teachers moan about drinking cold coffee, having limited bathroom breaks and having to do in-service training. I have read blogs where teachers simply request sympathy from the community because their work is so hard. Well, I am a teacher and I have the best jobs in the world! Here are some of the reasons why …  I get to shape, influence and mould young minds. I get to show children that they are loved, valued and important. I get to be a part of their success. As much as I share in their glory, I am often the first port of call when things fall apart. I get to teach children to have an opinion. And when they are older, I get to challenge that opinion to make sure that they understand the reasons for what they believe. I get to teach them to win humbly and loose graciously. I get to see children’s potential and work alongside them to help them achieve that potential. Every day, I get to work alongside a remarkable team of people. These people live their work. They are constantly striving to better themselves for the sake of their students. We get to share in each other’s highs and lows. We get to celebrate together and hold each other up when things get rough. This team, go above and beyond the call of duty. They are truly wonderful! My work is never boring! I get to re-invent myself every year. In a world that’s ever increasingly technology crazy, I get to connect with real people, in a real way, every day. Perhaps we need to revisit the reasons why we teach. Your job is not thankless. It is one of the most incredible jobs you can ever do. You have the opportunity to mould futures, to change lives, to open up a world of possibilities …  I asked some of my colleagues to tell me the first thing that comes to mind when asked “Why do you teach?” This is what they said:  I teach to inspire. It is so rewarding watching children achieve something they couldn’t do before they met me. To share my passion with others. I absolutely adore seeing children happy and secure in class. Another big reason is that I want to be the teacher that believes in every child in class, especially those that don’t believe in themselves! I know that a child understands the world a little better because I have taught them. Working with children makes me genuinely happy. Changing their lives for the better and seeing them achieve makes it all worthwhile. I love the children’s innocence and the love they reciprocate. I teach because I love to see the sparkle in children’s eyes when they find a lesson exciting or when they understand something that they have found difficult. I want to teach children to be their best possible selves and to know that they can do whatever they set their minds to. I teach because I love to see people grow. Teaching allows me to impact lives and create growth opportunities. To sum it up, I teach to help people (students, parents and staff) grow in knowledge and character. I teach because I love it! I also love the look on the children’s faces when they discover something new or feel a sense of achievement. That list is the tip of the iceberg! Perhaps you know a teacher who needs a little encouragement, please feel free to share this with them. We are teachers and we should look forward to getting out of bed in the morning because we have the best job in the world!

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School sport: Where did the fun go?

There is a sign that can be seen on the side of sports fields around South Africa. With variations, it goes something like this: Please remember: They are only kids. They are here to have fun. The coaches are teachers. The referees are volunteers. This is not the World Cup. As a parent, attending your child’s match can be a challenging task, especially when you have many wannabe expert coaches in the parental spectator crowd. According to John O’Sullivan’s article, “How Parents Take the Joy Out of Sport”, there are six ways that adults can ruin the joy of sports for children: Coaching from the sideline, Yelling instructions while the ball is rolling, Disrespecting officials, Questioning the coach, Commenting on the child’s teammates, and Making the ride home/post-game talk a “teachable moment.” Every parent wants to help their child, to comfort them when they may not have had their best game, when they don’t understand a decision, or to help them to be the best they can be. But what is the best approach? Hayden Buchholz, Director of sport and Physical Education and Head of community Engagement at Somerset College Prep, offers the following advice to parents. What to focus on if they wish they were more naturally talented. Resilience, resilience, resilience. As parents and coaches, it’s crucial to remember that children have varying emotional maturity and cope differently with losing. Younger children may be especially vulnerable to feeling upset or discouraged after a loss, and it’s important to be sensitive to their individual needs and feelings. Offering appropriate emotional support and encouragement can help children build resilience and coping skills that will benefit them in the long run. Remember, sport is a marathon and not a sprint. School programmes are carefully designed by educators who want the best for children. Children will show GRIT when they feel supported and comfortable with the expectations. Help them manage these expectations by partnering with the school. Take time to understand these programmes yourself so that you can communicate effectively with your child. It is crucial to introduce children to diverse activities and experiences, regardless of their proficiency level. Do not overwhelm them with too many extracurricular activities but, equally, avoid a narrow focus on a specific sport or position at an early age. By diversifying activities, children can explore new interests and cultivate an array of skills that will benefit them in the long run. It must be fun! They are children. It must be fun. Acknowledging and celebrating our accomplishments is crucial for our personal growth and motivation. However, it’s equally important to acknowledge and wisely praise the effort that led to our success. According to Carol Dweck, a renowned psychology professor at Stanford University, we should avoid solely praising our children’s abilities or skills, such as saying, “You are so clever” or “Good at chess”. Instead, we should offer honest and meaningful feedback about the process that led to their achievement. This helps children understand that success is the result of hard work and dedication, rather than just innate talent or intelligence. By doing so, we can motivate our children to put in the effort and hard work required to achieve their goals, leading to personal growth and development. What should a post-match conversation in the car with your child look like? Don’t comment on the game or how they played. Your child is already mentally and physically exhausted. Instead, start with 5 simple words, “I loved watching you play.” If your child starts talking about the game, encourage them to reflect first before verbalising it. This also gives YOU a moment to collect YOUR thoughts too. Encourage them to take a warm bath and have something to eat or drink before discussing the match once emotions have settled. It is crucial that we give our children the opportunity to self-evaluate their performance, independent of our opinions as parents. As such, before we place our stamp of approval or disapproval on something, we must encourage our children to reflect on their performance and share their thoughts with us. By doing so, we can gain valuable insight into their perspectives, and we help them develop a stronger sense of self-awareness. It is important to remember that we should never have a (potentially) permanent discussion on a temporary emotion. Keep in mind that there are valuable lessons to be gained from losing, making mistakes, and failing. These experiences offer chances for our children to cultivate resilience. Let your children know that it is okay to feel disappointed and express their emotions. However, it is equally important to remind them that losing does not define them and that there is always a way to move forward. Life presents challenges, and shielding children from disappointment will only limit their growth and experiences. How to react if they think something unfair has happened? Parents see the best and worst of their children. Teachers don’t. Listen to your child in the evenings when you’re tucking them in at night and they share their fears or concerns about school. Partner and engage with the school by sharing these conversations (that which you can) with those concerned. At the heart of it, we all want the best for the children in our care. How to counsel them if they are “dropped”. We take this very seriously at Somerset College. Player feedback is an important part of our programme. Feedback is given before, during and after practices and matches and this can take on many forms, whether verbal or nonverbal. We have a rotation policy in the lower grades that aims to give every child a turn to give their best effort. Things get more serious when they enter the senior teams. When a player is dropped for performance and not rotational, we pull them aside and communicate the reasons clearly. We encourage them to ask questions, not to debate but to understand. We then announce the team to the group in a controlled manner that keeps the emotions

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Choosing the right career path : A comprehensive guide for Matrics

The transition from the structured environment of high school to the expansive horizon of what comes next is a challenging one, filled with excitement and anticipation. However, for those Grade 12 students who are still unsure about their future moves, it can be an extremely anxious and perplexing time. Most Matrics who are standing at this critical juncture find themselves balancing the enthusiasm of youth with the responsibilities of impending adulthood, having to make one of the biggest decisions they will ever make in their life. “For many, this is the first time they are asked to make significant decisions that will shape their futures. While parents can guide the process, ultimately the buck stops with the Matriculant who will have to live with the decision, which can easily lead to analysis paralysis on their part,” says Adrian Garden, Deputy Dean: Teaching and Learning at The Independent Institute of Education’s Rosebank College. While there may be endless possibilities, making the ‘right’ choice can be daunting. What career should they pursue? Which path aligns most closely with their dreams, skills, and values? How do they ensure that their chosen path won’t lead to regrets later? “This choice, undeniably, is monumental. It’s not just about securing a job or determining what they will study next; it’s about sculpting the foundation they will build for the rest of their lives. Each decision has ripple effects, influencing their immediate years after school and potentially determining their satisfaction, success, and well-being for decades to come,” says Garden. But the decision process can be made easier and more effective by following a few guidelines which will channel into a good choice, rather than just hoping the right idea will arise at some point, he says. “Through thoughtful, structured exploration and informed decision-making, school leavers can carve out a path that aligns with their aspirations and the ever-evolving demands of the modern world.” THE PLAN SELF-REFLECTION Attempting to understand yourself and what drives you is the first step. Ask: What am I naturally good at? Which school subjects or extracurricular activities resonate with me? What are my core beliefs and values? If you are not sure about who you are and what you want to do, there are a few structured assessments that can be illuminating, to help individuals align their intrinsic qualities with potential career paths. These include, for instance, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), the Holland Code, and numerous other free career interest and personality assessments online. JOB MARKET ASSESSMENT It’s important to study the current and future job market, to view your options through a pragmatic lens. Research careers in high demand both locally in South Africa and internationally, potential income brackets in various professions along with future earning potential, and the expected longevity of the field and future growth prospects of specific sectors. It is also important to match your skills and subject choices with the careers you have an interest in. Student support and career services at good higher education institutions are invaluable in this regard – as they will have deep insight into careers of the future, as well as being able to help you match your strengths to specific fields of study. STUDY OPTIONS DEEP DIVE Further study after Matric is very likely a crucial stepping-stone to making your dream career a reality. But remember that not all institutions and programmes are created equally. So if you have an idea of your area of interest, thoroughly investigate the reputation of the various institutions that offer the qualifications within your field of interest; the content, curriculum and faculty; financial factors that come into play such as tuition fees and living expenses; and campus life, to see if it will be conducive to personal growth and networking. REAL WORLD DEEP DIVE To gain a real-world perspective on your prospective career, connect with mentors and professionals in the field who can give you a better understanding of what the field is like in reality. Try to understand day-to-day experiences and potential challenges faced in the role, essential qualifications, skills, and attitudes beneficial for that profession as well as personal stories of lessons learned. If possible, try to gain some hands-on experience by seeking out internships and volunteering roles. DEAL WITH FLUX Our current world comes with a level of uncertainty and unpredictability that can make it so much more difficult to take life-altering decisions. This is where resilience and adaptability come in. While one’s choice of study post Matric is important, it’s a misconception that one’s first career choice is permanent. In today’s dynamic world, many individuals change careers multiple times. The ability to pivot, adapt and build creatively on your experience is invaluable. MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOU, NOT OTHERS If you are uncertain about your next steps, it can be easy to let the ideas of others and outside forces sweep you in a direction. While well-meaning parents, teachers and parents may inadvertently pressure you towards a popular or lucrative career, remember it’s essential to value their advice but balance it against your aspirations and interests. The most successful career is the one where you will feel fulfilled, and which allows you to continue growing. “At the end of the day, you must take your time and do your research, and then trust your instincts,” says Garden. “Your journey is unique, and you must remember that choosing and pursuing a fulfilling career is a marathon, not a sprint. Every experience, be it a triumphant success or a challenging setback, will contribute to your tapestry of growth.”

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HOW TO BUILD UP YOUR CHILD’S CONFIDENCE IN MATHS

It’s a common experience… your child sits down to work on Maths homework but very quickly becomes visibly stressed, frustrated, or upset. For many kids, doing Maths can seem like a daunting task, even a scary one. And while many do overcome it, some of us carry this Maths anxiety with us for much of our lives. If you’re looking to help your child reduce their Maths anxiety, we have a few suggestions.  Be Empathetic to Maths Struggles  Empathy can go a long way. Whether it’s because you experienced similar struggles as a child or watched someone else struggle, making your child feel like they’re not alone can help ease their stress. When kids hear that others in their lives faced similar challenges it can help them to feel understood and a little more confident to tackle the task in front of them.   Teach Them to be OK with Making Mistakes  Learning to be OK with making mistakes is distinct from addressing the emotions that bubble up with failure. Once your child is no longer feeling overwhelmed, helping them to feel OK with making mistakes is all about showing them that mistakes are often how learning happens. We often remember our mistakes more clearly than the times we didn’t need to struggle at all. Identifying where we went wrong is one of the best ways to learn how to get to the answer or solution on your own. Understanding the path it took to get something right means committing to memory the path to success.   Tip: Try pointing out something that was previously hard for your child and is now easy because they figured out their mistakes and practiced until they got it. For example, learning to ride a bike, practicing a sport, or an earlier Maths concept.   Explain the Importance of Finding (And Filling) Gaps  Lastly, very often the cause of Maths anxiety is the fact that earlier concepts weren’t mastered. Gaps in foundational knowledge create a shaky foundation for more challenging concepts. Particularly, if children don’t do well in Maths at an early age, it can have a cumulative effect.   At Kumon, we focus on mastery. We start students off at a comfortable starting point, which can sometimes mean starting on material that is below their current grade level. Current struggles might be top of mind for parents and the kids themselves, but often the solution to current struggles is filling in gaps in knowledge of earlier concepts. If a child never fully mastered addition, multiplication, division, and other foundational concepts, they are likely to hit a wall when more complicated concepts are introduced.   Enrol In a Maths Programme to Help Them Practice and Master their Skills  Enrolling your child in an additional Maths study programme (such as Kumon) can help them fill those gaps as they consistently practice their Maths skills. While school studies march on, often leaving a child feeling overwhelmed and increasingly left behind, a supplementary programme can provide additional practice in key concepts and allow them sufficient time to truly master a concept before progressing to the next. This additional support can often help a struggling child to catch up, become confident and finally succeed in a previously dreaded subject. Maths anxiety is a condition that can be very detrimental to a child’s long-term school success, causing them to feel inadequate, not smart enough or even a failure. Anxiety can cause a child to get into a negative reinforcement cycle that perpetuates their feeling of inadequacy. When Maths work comes up they feel anxious because they don’t understand the work. This anxiety causes their brains to become confused or shut down which then prevents them from thinking logically or rationally and reinforces the experience that “I can’t do Maths!”  So, in conclusion, it is important to notice how your child feels about their Maths work and to identify Maths anxiety as early as possible. Then, if you notice this occurring, take every step possible to address the anxiety and to enable your child to overcome, feel confident and believe in themselves. This article is courtesy of the Kumon North America website* * https://www.kumon.com/resources/how-to-build-up-your-childs-math-confidence/ 

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What does crossing the midline really mean?

There are many terms that teachers, psychologists and other professionals may use that, at times, are perhaps not explained effectively leaving parents at a loss to the significance of these difficulties. It is important to understand what the importance of these conditions are, (especially if they have been mentioned in your child’s school report) what they mean, and the possible consequences and repercussions thereof. The midline is akin to an imaginary line going down the middle of one’s body from head to toe. Midline crossing is important for many skills to develop later on. For example, midline crossing is important for a youngster to develop the ability to use one hand to write across the entire page. This will also determine whether the youngster will have the necessary skills to read the length of the sentence across the page from left to right A child who can’t cross the midline, for instance, would use his/her left hand to write or paint on the left-side of the page and his/her right hand to write or paint on the right-hand side of the page which can hamper the learning process. Crossing the midline is also an indicator of bilateral co-ordination which is the ability to use both sides of the body and brain simultaneously. This is important for gross motor skills such as climbing stairs, walking, riding a bicycle and swimming. In addition, bilateral co-ordination is also important to read, write and learn. In other words, the right and left brain have to work together, for example in reading the left brain’s task is to decode a word whilst the right brain facilitates the understanding and meaning of what was read. Midline crossing is therefore essential for a youngster to develop as it is a very necessary skill for learning in all areas of life.

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