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Top Seven Advantages of Early Childhood Care and Education

The early years of a child’s life are filled with wonder, curiosity, and adventure. At Dibber International Preschools, we believe these formative years are the perfect time to nurture a child’s innate curiosity through early education and care, laying the foundation for lifelong learning and development. “Early childhood education is not just about preparing children for school; it’s about setting them up for success in all areas of life,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “When we engage young minds early on, we help them build essential skills, develop confidence, and foster a love for learning that lasts a lifetime.” The Benefits of Early Childhood Education and Care Research and experience show that early learning has a profound impact on a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development. Here are seven key advantages: Creating Holistic Learning Experiences At Dibber International Preschools, our approach to early childhood education goes beyond academics. We provide children with opportunities to explore, create, and connect through play-based learning and carefully designed activities. “Every moment in a preschool setting is an opportunity for growth, whether it’s discovering new concepts, building friendships, or understanding the world more deeply,” says Assis. Dibber’s commitment to holistic development ensures that children receive the emotional, social, and intellectual support they need to thrive. “Parents can trust that their child is not only gaining knowledge but also developing the skills and values needed for a fulfilling life,” Assis concludes.

December 17, 2024
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Preparing your Toddler for Preschool – Practical Tips

Starting preschool is a major milestone in a child’s early development, and for many families, it comes with a mix of excitement and apprehension. Dibber International Preschools is here to support parents through this transition with expert advice to help toddlers feel prepared and confident as they begin their preschool journey. “Preschool is often a child’s first step into the world outside the comfort of their home, and this transition is significant for both children and parents,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By focusing on preparation and creating a sense of security, we can help young learners embrace this new chapter with enthusiasm and curiosity.” Building Confidence Through Play and Familiarisation Preparation begins at home, and playful activities can make a big difference. Assis recommends using pretend play to simulate typical preschool routines. “Take turns being the parent, child, or teacher, and act out scenarios like saying goodbye, singing songs, or playing with toys,” she suggests. “This role-play helps children feel more in control and eases the anxiety of stepping into a new environment.” Books about starting preschool are another effective way to spark conversations. Reading stories together can help children understand what to expect and provide an opportunity to talk about their feelings. “Ask your child how they think the characters in the story feel and relate it to their own emotions,” adds Assis. Practising Independence Preschool encourages independence, and parents can support this by teaching simple self-help skills. “Activities like hanging up their coat, unzipping their backpack, or opening a lunchbox can be turned into fun games,” says Assis. “These small practices build confidence and help toddlers feel capable on their first day.” Visiting the Preschool Visiting the preschool before the first day is crucial in familiarising children with the new environment. “A tour of the classroom and some time on the playground can go a long way in making a child feel comfortable,” advises Assis. “It’s about helping them see this new space as safe and welcoming.” Easing Separation Anxiety The first day can be emotional for both parents and children, but there are strategies to make goodbyes smoother. “Plan to stay for a short while, exploring the classroom together before saying goodbye,” suggests Assis. “It’s also helpful to create a special goodbye routine, like a secret handshake or a kiss on the palm to ‘hold’ throughout the day.” Assis emphasises the importance of maintaining a positive and confident tone during drop-offs. “Children take their cues from their parents, so staying upbeat and reassuring can make a world of difference,” she says. Supporting the Transition Even after the first day, some children may show signs of worry or regression. Assis encourages parents to be patient and understanding. “Acknowledge their feelings, offer extra support, and celebrate their small victories,” she advises. “This helps children navigate their emotions and adapt to their new routine.” At Dibber International Preschools, the team understands the significance of this transition and works closely with families to make it a smooth and positive experience. “Preschool is the start of a lifelong love for learning,” concludes Assis. “By preparing children with care and intention, we set the foundation for a successful and joyful educational journey.”

December 10, 2024
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Raising Environmentally Conscious Children

As the world faces unprecedented environmental challenges, fostering eco-consciousness in young children has never been more critical. Dibber International Preschools is dedicated to nurturing the next generation of environmentally responsible citizens by instilling sustainable values and practices from an early age. “Children are the stewards of tomorrow,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By teaching them to respect and care for the environment, we are not only empowering them to make a difference but also ensuring a more sustainable future for all.” Building a Connection with Nature One of the most impactful ways to raise environmentally conscious children is by fostering a connection with nature. Spending time outdoors, whether exploring a local park or planting a garden, helps children appreciate the beauty and abundance of the natural world. “Children who develop a bond with nature early on are more likely to grow into adults who protect and nurture it,” explains Assis. Teaching Resource Conservation Understanding the efficient use of natural resources is another key aspect of environmental education. Assis advises parents and educators to demonstrate how small actions—like turning off lights when not in use or conserving water—can collectively make a big impact. “Children are naturally curious and eager to learn. By involving them in simple conservation efforts, we can instil habits that last a lifetime.” The 3 Rs: Reduce, Reuse, Recycle Introducing the concept of waste management through the principles of Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle helps children understand their role in minimising waste. “At Dibber, we incorporate these principles into everyday activities, turning them into fun and educational experiences,” says Assis. “For instance, children can create art projects using recyclable materials, combining creativity with environmental stewardship.” Practical Activities to Inspire Eco-Consciousness Hands-on activities like gardening or planting saplings provide children with tangible ways to engage with nature. Caring for plants teaches responsibility and nurtures a sense of pride in contributing to the environment. “It’s through these small, meaningful actions that children begin to understand their role in nurturing the planet,” Assis explains. Additionally, fostering a love for animals helps children develop empathy and a broader understanding of the interconnectedness of life. Visits to conservation parks and safaris offer opportunities to teach children about the importance of protecting wildlife and their habitats. Leading by Example Children learn by observing the behaviours of adults around them. “If we want our children to care for the environment, we must model sustainable choices in our own lives,” says Assis. Simple actions, like reducing plastic use or choosing eco-friendly products, demonstrate the importance of making thoughtful decisions. Dibber’s Commitment to Environmental Education At Dibber International Preschools, environmental education is a cornerstone of the curriculum. “We believe that by unlocking children’s creativity and curiosity, we can encourage them to think beyond textbooks and embrace the importance of sustainability,” Assis notes. Dibber’s initiatives focus on three key areas: “Our goal is to show children that small, everyday actions can lead to significant change,” says Assis. “By embedding these values early, we’re helping to shape a generation that will prioritise the health of our planet.” A Shared Responsibility Raising environmentally conscious children is a collective effort that involves families, schools, and communities. “Together, we can teach children that they have the power to make a difference,” concludes Assis. “It starts with simple, intentional steps—steps that not only protect the environment but also instil hope for a brighter, more sustainable future.”

December 4, 2024
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Tips for Potty Training Success 

Potty training is a milestone that brings both excitement and challenges for parents and toddlers alike. Dibber International Preschools offers practical, easy-to-follow strategies to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. “Potty training isn’t just about timing; it’s about building trust, consistency, and creating a positive experience for the child,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By following some essential tips and remaining patient, parents can make potty training an enjoyable journey for their toddlers.” One of the key tips for potty training success is consistency. Toddlers thrive on routine, and establishing a regular potty schedule – such as after meals or first thing in the morning – helps them adjust to the idea more quickly. “The familiarity of a consistent schedule makes toddlers feel secure, making it easier for them to understand and embrace potty training,” explains Assis. Incorporating rewards can also be a powerful motivator. Simple incentives, like stickers, a small treat, or even a congratulatory high-five, reinforce the child’s success and make the process more enjoyable. “Using rewards teaches toddlers that each successful potty trip is an achievement worth celebrating. It builds a foundation of positive reinforcement, encouraging children to continue developing their new skills with enthusiasm,” says Assis. Making the potty-training process fun is another effective approach. By introducing a potty-training song, reading a favourite book, or creating a playful atmosphere, parents can make the experience feel more like an adventure than a task. “The goal is to ensure that children feel relaxed and comfortable,” says Assis. “When toddlers associate potty time with fun, they are much more open to engaging in the process.” Dibber also emphasises the importance of recognizing each child’s individual readiness. “Not every toddler will be ready at the same time, and that’s perfectly normal. If your child is showing interest in the potty, waking up dry from naps, or indicating they’re uncomfortable in diapers, these are signs they may be ready. But if they’re not, giving it a little more time can prevent frustration for both parent and child.” Potty training is a unique journey for every family. Dibber International Preschools encourages parents to approach it with patience, positivity, and a willingness to celebrate each small success. “Every child’s potty-training journey will look different, but with consistency and encouragement, you’ll reach that milestone together,” concludes Assis.

November 26, 2024
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How Mealtimes Shape a Child’s Heart for the World

The simple act of sitting down to a family meal can sometimes feel like a lost tradition, but the transformative power of shared mealtimes in shaping a child’s sense of connection, confidence, and belonging is as essential today as it was in the past. “Mealtimes are so much more than just nourishment for our bodies; they’re a time for children to feel truly seen and valued,” says Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools. “When families and educators make time for these moments, they create a space where children learn that their voices matter, instilling confidence and a sense of belonging that prepares them for the world.” At Dibber, mealtime is a cherished part of each day, providing sustenance and an opportunity for fellowship and connection. By encouraging children to set aside screens and distractions, Dibber creates an environment where children can fully engage with each other. The table becomes a vibrant place of learning and bonding. Conversations are encouraged—about the food they are eating, where it comes from, and how it nurtures their bodies. “These discussions allow children to connect with their food and each other, gaining a deeper appreciation of the world around them,” explains Eyre. The experience of shared meals also fosters independence in young children. At Dibber, children are encouraged to serve themselves, use utensils, and make choices about their meals. This practice, often mirrored at home, helps children develop a sense of autonomy and confidence. “When children feel empowered to make their own choices at the table, it gives them a sense of responsibility and pride that they carry beyond mealtime,” adds Eyre. Dibber believes that mealtimes are equally valuable for families. Sitting together as a family without screens or interruptions opens up moments for genuine conversation. “When parents take this time, they discover so much about their children’s worlds—their joys, worries, and curiosities. It builds a foundation of trust and emotional security that is vital to a child’s development,” says Eyre. Regular family mealtimes also establish a comforting rhythm in a child’s life, creating a shared space for stories, traditions, and values that shape who they become. “What happens at the table extends far beyond our school walls. When families continue these mealtime conversations and practices at home, they’re nurturing their child’s physical growth and emotional and social development. These are the moments where memories are made, and traditions are born.” At Dibber International Preschools, mealtimes are about more than eating—they are about nurturing children’s hearts and souls. We give children the foundation to thrive in a connected, compassionate world through simple, intentional acts at the table.

November 19, 2024
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Encouraging Mindfulness in Young Children 

Helping young children navigate their emotions, improve focus, and reduce stress can be achieved through simple and engaging techniques—mindfulness. Dibber International Preschools highlights the many benefits of introducing mindfulness practices to children from an early age, as it is a powerful tool for enhancing their overall well-being and promoting emotional balance. “Mindfulness for young children is about teaching them to be fully present, to notice their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. It helps them build emotional resilience and mental clarity, which are crucial in their development,” explains Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By starting mindfulness practices early, we are giving children the tools to manage their emotions in healthy ways.” Mindfulness is naturally suited to young children, as they often live in the present. Simple practices like mindful breathing exercises, noticing sensations, or reflecting on experiences make mindfulness fun and relatable. For example, parents and educators can ask children questions like, “How did it feel when you bit into that apple?” or “What did you notice while playing outside?” These questions help children become aware of their emotions and surroundings, fostering emotional intelligence and self-awareness. Key Benefits of Mindfulness for Young Children: “Mindfulness is not just about quiet moments. It’s about giving children lifelong tools to manage their emotions, foster resilience, and thrive in their environment. A mindful child today becomes a balanced and thriving individual tomorrow,” concludes Assis.

November 12, 2024
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Effective Strategies for Managing Intense Emotions in Children

Managing intense emotions in young children, especially when they manifest as anger or frustration, can be challenging for any parent. Dibber International Preschools is committed to providing parents and educators with practical strategies for handling these situations effectively. With a focus on children aged 0 to 6 years, Dibber is helping families across South Africa support emotional growth and foster positive behaviours. “Emotional regulation is a skill children can learn from an early age,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By teaching children ways to understand and manage their feelings, we are equipping them with tools for life, allowing them to navigate their emotions with resilience and empathy.” One of the key principles behind managing intense emotions in children is validation. When a child has a meltdown or displays aggressive behaviour, the initial step is acknowledging their feelings rather than jumping straight into discipline. Simple affirmations like, “I can see you’re upset,” help children feel understood and can reduce the intensity of their emotions. Assis explains that grounding techniques are also highly effective. “For instance, the ‘Five Senses Activity’ encourages children to identify something they can see, hear, touch, smell, and taste. This practice helps shift their focus from overwhelming emotions to the present moment, providing an immediate calming effect.” Observing patterns and identifying triggers that lead to emotional outbursts is another valuable approach. “If a child becomes irritable when hungry, it’s best to avoid challenging conversations or activities during that time,” Assis advises. “This approach not only helps parents manage child aggression but also teaches children the importance of self-awareness.” Dibber encourages parents to discuss emotions with their children during calm moments, helping them recognise the physical and mental signs of intense emotions. By teaching children to notice when their body feels tense or when specific thoughts accompany frustration, parents empower them to use self-regulation techniques. Deep breathing, counting, or taking a momentary break are all strategies that can prevent emotions from escalating. “Children learn so much by watching their parents. When parents model healthy emotional regulation, they demonstrate that it’s okay to feel strong emotions and that there are positive ways to handle them. These shared practices turn self-regulation into a bonding experience and a valuable learning opportunity,” says Assis. Through strategies like grounding techniques, validation, and modelling, Dibber International Preschools is helping parents and educators manage child aggression effectively. “Our goal is to foster an environment where children learn to navigate their emotions with confidence and compassion. These early lessons in emotional regulation lay the foundation for resilient, well-rounded individuals.”

November 5, 2024
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THE TOP SEVEN ADVANTAGES TO EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION

As parents consider the best path for their child’s development, early childhood education and care stand out as essential building blocks for future success. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the profound impact of early learning on a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development. “Learning begins at birth, and the experiences children have in their early years lay the foundation for lifelong learning. At Dibber, we recognise that tapping into a child’s natural curiosity through structured learning and social interaction offers remarkable benefits,” says Assis. Early childhood care and education provide numerous developmental advantages beyond the classroom. From literacy and numeracy skills to nurturing independence and social interaction, the advantages of early learning experiences are transformative. Here are the top 7 advantages of early childhood education and care: Literacy and Numeracy Skills Early exposure to a structured curriculum helps children easily grasp fundamental concepts like letters and numbers. “A well-designed early education program ensures that children build a strong foundation in literacy and numeracy, essential for future academic success,” explains Assis. Independence Being introduced to a world outside of their home environment allows children to develop independence. They learn to explore, solve problems, and make decisions in a safe and supportive setting. Socialisation Early learning centres provide valuable opportunities for children to socialise with their peers. “Socialisation is critical for children as they learn the basics of teamwork, cooperation, and empathy through interactions with other children of the same age,” says Assis. Confidence Encouraging teachers play a significant role in helping children feel seen and heard. When a child’s contribution is valued, their confidence and self-esteem grow. “At Dibber, we are committed to fostering an environment where children feel empowered to express themselves,” adds Assis. Routine A structured daily routine helps children feel secure and in control of their environment. Knowing what to expect throughout the day supports emotional well-being and helps children manage transitions more smoothly. Lifelong Learning Early childhood education cultivates a positive relationship with learning by making learning enjoyable and stimulating. “When children develop a love for learning early on, they become eager to explore new ideas and challenges throughout their lives,” Assis highlights. Exposure to Diversity Early childhood education introduces children to a diverse world. They meet peers and educators from various cultural, religious, and social backgrounds, helping them appreciate diversity and fostering a sense of unity in difference. “Exposure to diversity from a young age allows children to develop a global mindset, which is invaluable in today’s interconnected world,” notes Assis. The holistic benefits of early childhood education cannot be overstated. Children develop crucial life skills, improve their academic readiness, and build strong social connections, all within an environment that encourages play-based learning. “As we continue to provide high-quality education at Dibber International Preschools, we are dedicated to giving children the opportunity to grow, learn, and thrive in a nurturing environment that supports their development in every aspect of life,” concludes Assis.

October 22, 2024
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NURTURING MENTAL WELLNESS FROM THE START : building a strong foundation for your child

October is mental wellness month, and while we often associate mental wellness with the teenage years to adulthood,  it is essential to remember that nurturing a child’s mental health begins in the early years. Parenting is a journey filled with love, joy, and the responsibility of shaping a child’s emotional and mental well-being.  “Fostering mental health in children starts from their very first experiences,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “By being responsive to their needs, celebrating our rich cultural heritage, and embracing mindful practices, we can help children develop the tools they need to navigate the challenges of life with confidence.” A key element of this journey is embracing South Africa’s rich cultural roots. Our traditions, languages, and stories offer a treasure trove of experiences that can help children feel connected to their identity and heritage. Whether it’s sharing folktales like the stories of Anansi the Spider or teaching simple greetings in Zulu, Xhosa, or Afrikaans, celebrating diversity from an early age fosters a sense of belonging and pride. At Dibber International Preschools, we recognise the importance of creating an environment where children feel comfortable expressing their emotions. “It’s vital for children to develop emotional intelligence early on. We create safe spaces where children can talk about their feelings, whether it’s joy, frustration, or sadness, and we give them the language they need to express themselves,” says Assis. Play also plays a central role in a child’s emotional and cognitive development. Exploring local parks, building sandcastles, or engaging in traditional South African games like “diketo” helps children develop confidence, empathy, and creativity. These outdoor activities support their mental well-being and instil a deep appreciation for nature. Nurturing healthy relationships is another cornerstone of a child’s mental health. “In South Africa, where community is deeply valued, it’s important to teach our children empathy and the importance of kindness,” explains Assis. “By fostering loving relationships at home and encouraging positive social interactions, we lay the foundation for strong connections throughout their lives.” Establishing consistent routines, especially in the early years, also contributes to a child’s mental well-being. Predictable daily rituals provide structure and security, helping children feel in control of their environment. This sense of stability reduces anxiety and teaches life skills like time management and responsibility. Mindfulness practices, such as deep breathing or listening to the sounds of nature, are also effective tools for promoting inner peace and emotional regulation. “Mindfulness is a simple but powerful way to help children manage stress and develop self-awareness. It’s a practice that benefits parents and children, creating a calm and balanced environment at home,” adds Assis. Assis also emphasises the importance of seeking support when needed. “Parenting is not a solitary journey,” she says. “Whether it’s advice from healthcare professionals, joining parenting groups, or simply reaching out to friends, asking for help is a sign of strength. When we have concerns about our child’s development, seeking guidance is crucial for their mental well-being.” Throughout the journey of parenthood, leading by example is one of the most impactful ways to instil healthy coping mechanisms in children. By demonstrating constructive ways to manage stress and healthily expressing emotions, parents teach their children essential life skills to help them navigate future challenges. Finally, celebrating milestones—big or small—reinforces a child’s self-esteem and builds a positive self-image. Whether taking their first steps or making new friends at school, recognising these achievements boosts their confidence and motivates them to keep trying. “Building a strong mental health foundation in a child’s early years is a journey of love, patience, and discovery,” concludes Assis. “By nurturing their emotional well-being and embracing the richness of our cultural heritage, we are laying the groundwork for a resilient and mentally healthy future. Every day is an opportunity to learn and grow together, and these small steps make a big difference in shaping the adults our children will become.” Written by: Kelly Eyre

October 15, 2024
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UNDERSTANDING THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HEALTH IN EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT

This Mental Health Awareness Month, Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools shares her insights.  “As parents, you are the cornerstone of your child’s early experiences, and this period is more crucial than many might realise. Early childhood is a time of rapid growth and development, not just physically but emotionally and psychologically as well. In South Africa, where family dynamics and societal challenges vary widely, nurturing your child’s mental health from the start can have a profound impact on their future. “The first few years of a child’s life lay the foundation for their long-term mental well-being. During this time, the brain is developing at an astonishing rate and the experiences children have shaped their ability to handle stress, build relationships, and understand themselves. Positive early experiences are essential as they set the stage for healthy emotional and psychological development. “One of the most important aspects of early mental health is building resilience. This means helping children develop the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges. A supportive environment, characterised by positive interactions and consistent caregiving, fosters resilience and sets a strong foundation for handling life’s ups and downs. “The relationships children form in these early years are crucial. Secure attachments with caregivers provide a sense of safety and love, which in turn helps them manage stress and build confidence. In South Africa, extended family and community support play a significant role, adding an extra layer of care and connection that can enhance a child’s sense of security. “Now, imagine if every child knew just how valuable they are. Envision a world where children grow up with a deep understanding of their worth and potential. When children are aware of their intrinsic value and feel genuinely loved and appreciated, it profoundly impacts their mental health. They are more likely to approach life’s challenges with confidence, seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles. This self-awareness creates a strong foundation for their emotional well-being and resilience. “Moreover, nurturing a child’s mental health is not just about their individual growth; it’s also about preparing them to positively impact the world. When children understand their worth and feel supported, they develop empathy and a sense of purpose that extends beyond themselves. They are more likely to approach others with kindness and to contribute meaningfully to their communities, fostering a heart for the world around them. “Creating such a nurturing environment involves more than just providing physical care. It includes positive parenting practices, like active listening and offering encouragement, and engaging with community and cultural practices that support well-being. Leveraging community networks and cultural traditions can provide additional layers of support that enrich a child’s development. “If you notice signs of distress or developmental concerns in your child, seeking professional help is crucial. Early intervention can provide the resources needed to address challenges effectively. Additionally, taking care of your own well-being is essential. A balanced and healthy parent is better equipped to create a nurturing environment for their child. “Focussing on mental health and well-being during early childhood is about more than addressing immediate needs; it’s about laying the groundwork for lifelong development. Understanding the significance of these early experiences and actively creating a supportive environment can help your child develop resilience, confidence, and emotional health. Imagine the impact if every child grew up knowing their intrinsic value and was nurtured to embrace a heart for the world—it would enhance their mental well-being and contribute to a more compassionate and empathetic society.”

October 8, 2024
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NAVIGATING MENTAL HEALTH CHALLENGES IN EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION

Early childhood is a time of immense growth and change, filled with exciting opportunities and unique challenges. For parents with children aged 0 to 6 years, understanding and addressing mental health issues can significantly impact your child’s development and well-being. As October is Mental Health Awareness month, Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools shares her insights.  “Young children often face several mental health challenges during their early years. One common issue is separation anxiety, which may arise when they first start attending school or are away from their primary caregivers. This can result in excessive distress during separations and reluctance to go to school. Behavioural issues, such as tantrums, aggression, or withdrawal, are also prevalent and can be attributed to difficulties in regulating emotions or adjusting to new routines. “Social skills development is another area where young children might struggle. They may find it challenging to share, take turns, or understand social cues, which can affect their ability to build relationships and engage in group activities. Additionally, children exposed to trauma or high-stress environments may exhibit signs of anxiety, depression, or withdrawal, impacting their emotional health and learning capabilities. “For educators, managing the diverse needs of students can lead to emotional burnout. Balancing the demands of teaching while providing emotional support to children can be overwhelming. Effective classroom management and addressing individual student needs require effective strategies, which can be challenging without adequate mental health and emotional support training. “Families also face their own set of challenges. Parental stress from juggling work, parenting, and managing a child’s needs can affect their ability to offer consistent support and impact family dynamics. Communication barriers between parents and educators may lead to misunderstandings and inadequate support for the child. Limited access to mental health resources and support services can further complicate addressing these challenges. “Imagine if every child knew just how valuable they are. Envision a world where children grow up with a deep sense of their worth and potential. When children understand their intrinsic value and feel genuinely loved and appreciated, it profoundly impacts their mental health. They confidently approach life’s challenges, seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. This self-awareness creates a strong foundation for their emotional well-being and resilience. “Moreover, nurturing a child’s mental health is about more than individual growth—it’s about preparing them to contribute positively to the world. When children understand their worth and feel supported, they develop empathy and a sense of purpose that extends beyond themselves. They are more likely to approach others with kindness and a heart for positively impacting their communities. “Identifying and addressing these mental health challenges involves a collaborative approach. For young children, early observation is key. Pay close attention to signs of distress, withdrawal, or behavioural changes to identify underlying issues. Open communication with your child about their feelings and experiences is vital for understanding their emotional state. Seeking support from child psychologists or counsellors can provide targeted help. “Educators benefit from ongoing training in mental health and emotional support strategies. Professional development can equip them with the necessary tools to recognise and address mental health issues effectively. Collaboration with other educators, school counsellors, and mental health professionals can create a robust support system for managing classroom dynamics and addressing individual needs. Self-care is equally important for educators to prevent burnout and maintain their effectiveness. “For families, active involvement with educators is crucial. Regular communication about your child’s progress and challenges can help in addressing any concerns. Seeking out community resources, support groups, and mental health services can provide additional support. Managing parental stress through counselling services or stress-management techniques can improve the family environment and enhance your ability to support your child. “Addressing mental health challenges in early childhood education requires a collective effort from parents, educators, and families. By recognising common issues, fostering open communication, and seeking appropriate support, you can create a nurturing environment that promotes mental well-being. Imagine the impact if every child grew up knowing their intrinsic value and was nurtured to embrace a heart for the world—it would enhance their mental well-being and contribute to a more compassionate and empathetic society.”

October 2, 2024
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Enhancing Early Childhood Development in South Africa: A Critical Analysis and Call to Action

“The state of early learning and literacy in South Africa presents a profound challenge that requires immediate and comprehensive action. A staggering 81% of Grade 4 learners cannot read for meaning in any of South Africa’s 11 official languages*. This statistic highlights a literacy crisis and signals broader systemic issues within the educational framework that must be addressed to safeguard the future of the nation’s youth. Understanding the Barriers to Early Learning “The root causes of this literacy crisis are diverse and complex. In South Africa, many children, especially from less privileged backgrounds, are denied access to quality early childhood development programs. This lack of access is a primary barrier to forming the foundational literacy skills necessary for future academic success. “The challenges extend beyond access. The quality of education, particularly in early learning, is hampered by several factors: Inadequate Teacher Training: Many teachers lack the necessary training to effectively deliver literacy education, especially in environments with significant language diversity. Socioeconomic Disadvantages: Economic hardships significantly affect children’s educational readiness and access to educational materials at home. Language Diversity: With 11 official languages, South Africa’s linguistic landscape presents unique challenges in teaching and learning, particularly when the language of instruction differs from the children’s home languages. Parental Involvement: The engagement of parents in early learning processes is often limited, which is crucial for reinforcing the skills learned in classrooms. “There is a need for systemic reform. To address these challenges, a concerted effort must be made to improve the quality of ECD facilities, enhance teacher training, and increase parental involvement. We need to ensure that every child can benefit from inclusive and effective early learning opportunities. The Importance of Multidisciplinary Early Learning “The importance of integrating various disciplines into early learning cannot be overstated. By exposing children to a range of subjects from an early age, we not only foster a love of learning but also equip them with critical thinking, problem-solving, and communication skills. These skills are essential for literacy and overall academic success. ” This multidisciplinary approach is pivotal for addressing the literacy crisis in South Africa. It helps children navigate the complexities of language and literacy from a young age, setting a solid foundation for their educational journey. The Transformative Power of Play “Play is not merely a leisure activity; it is a critical educational tool that impacts a child’s cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being. Through play, children engage with their environment and learn crucial life skills that prepare them for future challenges in study, work, and personal relationships. Play integrates children’s natural curiosity with structured learning, thereby creating a dynamic environment that fosters the development of crucial cognitive and social skills. Dibber’s Role and Recommendations “Dibber International Preschools plays a vital role in implementing strategies that address these systemic issues. We are committed to integrating innovative teaching methods and technologies to enhance learning outcomes. Our initiatives include community-based programs, teacher training workshops, and the incorporation of digital tools that facilitate interactive learning experiences. “To combat the literacy crisis effectively, Assis advocates for several policy recommendations: Increase Investment in Early Childhood Education: Prioritizing funding for ECD programs is crucial for improving accessibility and quality. Enhance Teacher Training: Providing ongoing professional development to equip teachers with the skills needed to address the challenges of multilingual classrooms. Foster Parental and Community Engagement: Encouraging active involvement from parents and local communities in educational processes to support children’s learning outside of the classroom. “The challenge of improving literacy rates among young learners in South Africa is formidable but not insurmountable. With strategic investments in early childhood development, comprehensive training for educators, and robust community engagement, significant progress can be made. Our children’s ability to read and comprehend is the cornerstone of their future success. We must all work together to transform our educational system and ensure that every child has the opportunity to thrive. Through collective efforts and innovative solutions, we can pave the way for a brighter educational future for South Africa’s next generation.” *Progress in International Reading Literacy Study (2021 PIRLS) 

September 26, 2024
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Understanding Responsive vs Reactive Parenting

Parenting is a journey filled with countless moments that shape a child’s development and the dynamics within a family. In South Africa, where diverse cultures and traditions influence how children are raised, understanding the difference between responsive and reactive parenting can be particularly valuable. Responsive parenting is about tuning into your child’s needs and responding thoughtfully and emphatically. It involves actively listening to both verbal and nonverbal cues, understanding and validating their feelings, and creating a stable environment where they feel secure. When parents respond with empathy and encouragement, they not only support their child’s exploration and learning but also provide the guidance and reassurance necessary for healthy development. “In South Africa, where the emphasis on strong community and family ties is deeply ingrained, responsive parenting plays a crucial role in fostering trust and connection within the family,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “Being responsive to your child’s needs, especially in communal settings like family gatherings, helps them feel integrated and valued, laying a strong foundation for their emotional development, self-esteem, and social skills.” On the other hand, reactive parenting occurs when responses to situations are driven more by immediate emotions rather than thoughtful consideration. This often results in quick reactions to a child’s behaviour without fully understanding their needs or the context of the situation. Emotional reactions, rather than considered responses, can lead to inconsistency in discipline and create confusion for children about what is expected of them. In busy households, where parents juggle multiple responsibilities, reacting impulsively can strain relationships and create a tense home environment. Finding the right balance between responsive and reactive parenting is key to nurturing a healthy family dynamic. One effective strategy is to take a moment to pause and breathe before reacting to challenging behaviour. This pause allows parents to respond more thoughtfully and constructively rather than impulsively. Understanding a child’s unique temperament and needs can also help tailor responses more effectively. For example, if a child feels overwhelmed in a busy setting, offering a calm and reassuring response can help them feel more comfortable. “Parenting is not about being perfect; it’s about being present and intentional,” adds Assis. “Parents can gain valuable insights and encouragement by seeking support from family, friends, or parenting groups. Regularly reflecting on your parenting approach and adjusting as needed can also help strike a better balance between responsiveness and reactivity.” Parenting is a continuous learning experience. Parents can create a nurturing environment that supports their child’s growth and development by striving to be more responsive and less reactive. In a country like South Africa, where family and community play such a crucial role, responsive parenting benefits children and strengthens the bonds within families and communities. Embracing the journey with patience and reflection fosters a loving environment where children can truly thrive.

September 16, 2024
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Parent’s late night worries proliferating Google searches: What are the top eight concerns?

As the world quiets down and little ones drift off to sleep, many parents find themselves in the glow of their screens, typing out their latest concerns and questions. The age of instant information has made it easy for parents to seek answers in the middle of the night. Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools explores the top eight concerns keeping South African parents of children under six awake and offers insights and advice to ease those worries. Developmental Milestones Every parent wonders if their child is on track with their development. From the first words to taking those initial steps, concerns about whether a child is meeting milestones can be overwhelming. Parents often compare their children’s progress to others, which can fuel anxiety, especially when extended family or community members express concern. It’s crucial to remember that every child develops at their own pace, and there is a wide range of what is considered normal. However, if you’re concerned about your child’s development, it’s important to consult with professionals, including paediatricians, early childhood educators, and therapists. Teachers and managers of schools and early childhood centres can also provide valuable insights into your child’s progress and suggest activities to support their development at home. Health and Nutrition In South Africa, where access to healthcare can vary widely, parents may worry about whether their children are getting the right nutrients or are healthy. Concerns often centre around ensuring a balanced diet, understanding the importance of specific nutrients, and knowing how to handle common childhood illnesses like colds or fevers. South African parents may also face challenges related to food security and access to nutritious foods. It’s essential to offer a variety of foods and encourage healthy eating habits from an early age. Consulting with healthcare professionals, such as paediatricians and nutritionists, can provide reassurance and guidance. Understanding the local healthcare system and having access to emergency services or local clinics can also help parents manage health concerns more effectively. Education and Learning With the country’s diverse education system, parents often worry about giving their children a good start. Questions about the best early childhood education options, how to encourage a love of learning, and whether they’re doing enough at home are common. The country’s unique blend of public, private, and home-schooling options can make this decision even more complex. To support your child’s early education, consider engaging with teachers and school administrators to understand the curriculum and how you can complement learning at home. Creating a stimulating environment through educational toys, books, and interactive play can also nurture a love of learning. Remember, the goal is to foster a supportive learning environment that encourages curiosity and exploration, regardless of the formal schooling path chosen. Behavioural Issues Tantrums, picky eating, and bedtime struggles can cause sleepless nights for many parents. These common behavioural issues often lead parents to search for solutions and advice on managing these challenges without resorting to harsh discipline. Finding a balanced approach can be challenging in South Africa, where different cultural norms and parenting styles exist. Positive parenting techniques, such as using time-outs, setting clear boundaries, and offering choices, can help manage these behaviours. Understanding developmental stages and the reasons behind certain behaviours can also provide context and reduce frustration. Engaging with professionals, including paediatricians and child psychologists, can offer strategies tailored to your child’s needs. Additionally, teachers and caregivers can provide insights into your child’s behaviour in different settings and suggest consistent approaches across home and school environments. Safety Concerns In a country with diverse social and economic landscapes, safety is a top priority parents. Concerns often revolve around childproofing the home, road safety, and teaching children about stranger danger and personal safety. Given the country’s unique context, parents may also worry about neighbourhood safety, access to safe play areas, and emergency preparedness. To address these concerns, parents can take practical steps such as installing safety gates, securing hazardous items, and teaching children basic safety rules like not talking to strangers and understanding emergency contact information. Additionally, it’s beneficial to familiarize yourself with local safety resources and community support systems, including neighbourhood watches and emergency services. Schools and early childhood centres often have safety protocols in place, so engaging with teachers and administrators can also provide peace of mind and ensure consistent safety practices. Screen Time and Technology In our digital age, parents often worry about the impact of screen time on their young children. The prevalence of smartphones, tablets, and TVs has made it challenging to limit exposure, leading to concerns about the appropriate amount of screen time and its potential effects on development. South African parents may also face the challenge of balancing educational content with entertainment. Experts recommend that children under two years old should avoid screens altogether, and for older children, screen time should be limited to high-quality, educational content. Co-viewing programs with your child and discussing the content can enhance their understanding and learning experience. Encouraging other activities, such as outdoor play, reading, and creative arts, can provide a balanced approach to technology use. Schools and early childhood programs can also guide appropriate technology use, ensuring that it complements rather than dominates a child’s day. Socialisation and Friendships Parents frequently worry about their child’s social development, especially if they are shy or reserved. Common concerns include questions about making friends, attending playdates, and developing social skills. In South Africa’s culturally diverse context, parents may also consider how to expose their children to different languages and customs. Encouraging interaction with peers through playdates, preschool, and community events can help children develop social skills and build friendships. Participating in group activities, such as sports, dance, or cultural programs, can also foster social development and a sense of belonging. Parents can model positive social behaviour by demonstrating good manners, empathy, and effective communication. Additionally, teachers and early childhood educators can provide feedback on your child’s social interactions and suggest ways to support their development both in and out of the

September 12, 2024
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Five ways to boost your baby’s brain development during pregnancy

Pregnancy is an exciting journey, and there are simple yet effective ways to support your baby’s brain development even before they arrive. Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools, looks at how you can nurture your little one’s growth in a natural and enjoyable way. “First and foremost, paying attention to your diet can make a big difference. Eating a balanced diet with plenty of leafy greens, whole grains, lean proteins, and fresh fruits supports both your health and your baby’s brain development. Incorporate Omega-3-rich foods like fish, nuts, and seeds into your meals, and enjoy nutritious offerings like spinach and eggs. Staying hydrated by drinking plenty of water is also essential, so try to avoid excessive caffeine and processed foods. “Staying active is another wonderful way to support your baby’s growth. Regular, moderate exercise, such as walking or swimming, can enhance brain development. Many South African communities offer local exercise classes for expectant mothers, making it easier to stay fit and connected. Just be sure to consult your healthcare provider to choose activities that are safe and appropriate for you. “Your baby can start hearing sounds from around 25 weeks, so talking and singing to them can be incredibly beneficial. Share stories about your day, sing traditional South African lullabies, or simply chat about what’s happening around you. This not only helps build an early bond but also stimulates your baby’s auditory development. “Managing stress is crucial, as high stress levels can impact your baby’s development. Finding ways to relax, whether through meditation, deep breathing, or spending time in nature, can make a big difference. Enjoy the stunning landscapes or spend time with loved ones to create a peaceful environment for both you and your baby. “Finally, attending regular prenatal check-ups is vital for monitoring your health and your baby’s growth. These visits provide an opportunity for you to discuss any concerns and get personalised advice from your healthcare provider. They can guide you on the best ways to support your baby’s development and ensure everything is on track. “By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’re giving your baby a strong start and creating a nurturing environment even before their first breath. Embrace this special time and enjoy the journey of preparing for your little one’s arrival.”

September 4, 2024
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Art and Craft Ideas to Stimulate Right Brain Development in the Early Years

Art and craft activities play a vital role in children’s early development, particularly in stimulating the right hemisphere of the brain, which is responsible for creativity, imagination, and emotional expression. For young children aged six and under, engaging in these activities not only nurtures their artistic skills but also introduces them to the rich cultural and natural diversity of their surroundings. “Engaging children in arts and crafts activities from a young age is essential for their cognitive and emotional growth,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools. “These activities help children develop fine motor skills, spatial awareness, and an appreciation for the beauty around them, fostering a lifelong love for creativity and learning.” Here are some age-appropriate arts and craft ideas designed to foster creativity and cognitive growth while celebrating South Africa’s unique heritage: Nature Collage: Take a leisurely stroll through a local park or garden, gathering leaves, flowers, and small pebbles. Back at home, transform these natural treasures into collages on sturdy paper or cardboard. This hands-on activity encourages children to explore textures and shapes while developing fine motor skills as they arrange and glue down their creations. Cardboard Box Creations: Unleash creativity by repurposing cardboard boxes into imaginative structures such as castles, forts, or vehicles. Using simple art supplies like markers, stickers, or paints, children can personalise their creations, fostering spatial awareness and problem-solving skills through play. Paper Plate Masks: Explore South Africa’s cultural richness by crafting masks inspired by local animals or traditional designs using paper plates and safe craft materials. Decorating these masks with paint, feathers, or yarn encourages imaginative role-play while introducing children to different cultural elements in a fun and interactive way. Salt Dough Shapes: Mix flour, salt, and water to create pliable salt dough. Guide children in shaping the dough into animals or simple sculptures, which can be air-dried and painted afterwards. This tactile experience enhances sensory exploration and creativity, allowing children to express themselves through three-dimensional art. Recycled Art Collage: Promote environmental stewardship by collecting recyclable materials like cardboard tubes, bottle caps, and egg cartons. Help children create collages or sculptures by arranging and glueing these items onto paper or cardboard, fostering creativity while instilling a sense of responsibility towards the environment. Bubble Wrap Printing: Transform ordinary bubble wrap into a printing tool by dipping it into non-toxic paint and pressing it onto paper. This sensory-rich activity not only introduces children to different textures but also allows them to create unique patterns and designs, stimulating artistic exploration and experimentation. Found Object Art: Go on outdoor adventures to collect natural objects such as leaves, shells, or small stones. Then, back indoors, use these found treasures to create simple artworks or patterns on paper, encouraging children to appreciate the beauty of nature while expressing themselves artistically. Easy Origami and Paper Crafts: Introduce children to the ancient art of origami or simple paper crafts using colourful paper. From folding animals to crafting bookmarks or greeting cards, these activities enhance fine motor skills and spatial awareness while providing endless opportunities for creative expression. “By embracing these age-appropriate projects inspired by South Africa’s rich heritage and natural beauty, families can create meaningful experiences that foster imagination, skill development, and a deeper connection to their surroundings,” Assis adds. “Let these activities be a gateway to endless exploration and discovery as children learn and grow through the joy of creating art.”

August 26, 2024
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Understanding Bullying in Preschool: A Heartfelt Perspective

As both the head of curriculum at a preschool and a mother of two—one of whom is on the autism spectrum—I carry a unique blend of personal and professional insights into early childhood social dynamics. Being on the spectrum myself allows me to view the challenges children face through a deeply empathetic lens. I often see parents’ concern when their little ones come home with stories of being treated unfairly by classmates. Worrying is natural, but it is essential to understand that what may seem like bullying in preschool is often just children learning to navigate their social world. So, what is bullying? Bullying is defined as repeated and intentional harm—whether physical, verbal, or emotional. However, in preschool, these actions often stem from children trying to assert themselves, explore boundaries, or express their needs and feelings. At this tender age, they are still mastering the skills needed for positive interactions with their peers. In our vibrant South African classrooms, we celebrate a rich tapestry of cultures, languages, and backgrounds. While this diversity can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, it also provides a wonderful opportunity to teach empathy, respect, and inclusion. When a child snatches a toy or lightly pushes another, it’s often because they’re unsure how to ask for a turn or express their feelings. If teasing or exclusion happens, it’s usually a way for them to test social limits rather than a deliberate attempt to hurt. While sometimes concerning, these behaviours are part of a normal learning process at this age. Imagine if every child knew how valuable they are—creating a heart-centred individual ready to engage compassionately with the world. This awareness can lay the groundwork for them to grow into caring individuals who positively impact those around them. As educators, we guide children toward healthy social behaviours by modelling respectful interactions. We teach them to share, take turns, and use kind words, nurturing empathy by encouraging them to reflect on how their actions affect others. It’s vital for children to recognise their own worth. When they understand their value, they are more likely to treat others with kindness and respect. Positive reinforcement plays a significant role here; celebrating cooperative behaviour and acts of kindness reinforces the idea that empathy and collaboration are profoundly important. Establishing clear, consistent boundaries helps children grasp acceptable behaviour. When conflicts arise, we address them promptly and constructively, guiding them toward better ways to connect. Parents are key players in this journey. Engaging in conversations about your child’s day, asking about their friendships, and discussing how they handle challenges can provide valuable insights. Role-playing different scenarios at home can equip your child with tools for positive interactions and responses to demanding situations. Consistency between home and school in encouraging these behaviours is essential. Our goal is to foster understanding and compassion, helping children navigate the complexities of social interactions with confidence and kindness. By addressing early signs of bullying with empathy, we create an environment where every child feels valued and understood. Together, we can nurture a generation that not only recognises their own worth but also extends kindness to others, laying the foundation for a more harmonious and inclusive society. Written by Kelly Eyre, Quality and Pedagogy Lead at Dibber International Preschools

August 19, 2024
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The Power of Independent Play: A guide for parents

As parents, we all remember those moments from our childhood, lost in a world of make-believe with our toys, following our own lead. Independent play offers that same magical experience for young explorers today, and the benefits go far beyond just keeping them occupied. It’s about nurturing their creativity, confidence, problem-solving skills, and independence – all crucial for their development. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the importance of independent play. “Encouraging children to play independently fosters essential life skills and prepares them for future challenges. It’s a beautiful way to nurture their creativity and confidence. “Independent play can sound intimidating to parents who worry their children will get bored, frustrated, or lost along the way. However, independent play isn’t about leaving your child on their own. Children often thrive with a bit of structured guidance and a safe, stimulating environment that sparks their curiosity and invites them to explore. “Start by creating a safe and enchanting space that inspires your child’s imagination. Fill it with a variety of age-appropriate toys and materials that encourage exploration and creativity. This could be a cosy corner of your home transformed into a mini-adventure land with open-ended toys like blocks, dolls, puzzles, and art supplies. Rotate the toys and objects periodically to keep things fresh and inspiring. “Independent play is when your child dives into their world of activities without needing direct help from adults or peers. It’s about them taking the lead, entertaining themselves, making their own play decisions, and exploring their interests solo. This kind of play is vital for “their growth, fostering creativity, problem-solving skills, self-reliance, and emotional balance. “As they navigate their play world independently, children learn to trust their abilities and problem-solving skills. During independent play, they engage in critical thinking, build a sense of autonomy, and grow more confident in their abilities. For example, when children build a block tower, they learn to think creatively about preventing it from falling, control their emotions, and regulate their behaviour. “Independent play is a training ground for problem-solving. Playing alone requires children to entertain themselves and think creatively, fostering innovative thinking. Imagine a child trying to fix a toy that isn’t working as expected – this critical thinking is essential for tackling challenges now and in the future. “Playing independently also allows children to explore their emotions and experiment with different ways of expressing themselves in a safe space. Acting out a story with toys can help them process feelings of frustration or sadness, teaching them valuable emotional regulation skills. “One of the most delightful benefits of independent play is that it taps into children’s creativity and imagination. They can be superheroes, doctors, or even astronauts within their play space, seeing the world from different perspectives and thinking creatively about solving problems. Independent play is essential for building self-confidence. As children navigate their play world on their own, they discover their talents and interests. Imagine the pride on a child’s face when they complete a puzzle all by themselves or create a masterpiece with their crayons. “In today’s fast-paced world, it’s more important than ever for children to learn how to entertain themselves. Independent play reduces their reliance on screens for entertainment, encouraging them to read a book, draw, or invent their own games. “Independent play also prepares children for school, where they may have to engage socially but spend time playing alone. It helps with emotional development and self-regulation and enhances their attention span. Additionally, they learn to manage their time, share resources, and navigate social interactions. “While your child takes centre stage during the independent play, you’re not completely out of the picture. It’s important to offer encouragement with a simple “Have fun!” or “Wow, that’s a cool tower!” to show your interest. Let your child know you’re nearby in case they need help, but resist the urge to jump in and solve problems for them. “By fostering a child’s ability to play independently, parents and caregivers can support their growth and development meaningfully. Encouraging independent play helps children build essential life skills and prepares them for future challenges and successes,” Assis concludes.

August 12, 2024
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NAVIGATING THE CHALLENGES OF OVERSCHEDULING CHILDREN – FINDING THE RIGHT BALANCE IN SOUTH AFRICA

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy for South African parents to fall into the trap of overscheduling their children. Our little ones can quickly find their days packed from morning till night between school, sports, cultural activities, and playdates. For children aged 6 and under, finding the right balance is crucial for their development and well-being. In South Africa, where cultural diversity and vibrant community life offer a plethora of activities, it can be tempting to enrol children in everything from soccer to dance and from isiZulu classes to music lessons. However, overscheduling can lead to stress and fatigue, even in the youngest children. Imagine the life of a child who spends most of their day moving from one activity to another without a moment to breathe. The joy of exploring their surroundings, playing freely, and simply being a child gets overshadowed by the constant rush of scheduled activities.  As parents, we want the best for our children, aiming to provide them with opportunities to learn and grow. However, it’s important to remember that unstructured playtime is equally valuable. Free play allows children to use their imagination, develop social skills, and learn at their own pace. It’s during these moments of unstructured time that they often discover their interests and talents. Children thrive when they have a mix of structured activities and free play. Think of it as creating a balance between learning and relaxation. Structured activities, like soccer practice or a dance class, help develop specific skills and introduce children to teamwork and discipline. On the other hand, free play fosters creativity, problem-solving abilities, and independence. To find this balance, start by observing your child. Notice how they react to different activities and their overall mood. Are they excited and eager to participate, or do they seem tired and overwhelmed? Listening to your child’s cues can guide you in adjusting. In South Africa, creating a weekly schedule that includes downtime is beneficial. This doesn’t mean eliminating all activities but rather spacing them out and ensuring there are periods for rest and relaxation. Having a predictable routine helps children feel secure, but it should be flexible enough to accommodate their need for free time. Communication is key. Talk to your child about their day and how they feel about the activities they are involved in. Their feedback is valuable and can provide insights into what they truly enjoy. Sometimes, children might not verbally express their feelings but might show signs of distress through behaviour changes, such as irritability or a lack of enthusiasm. Family time is another important aspect of achieving balance. Simple activities like reading a book together, going for a walk, or cooking a meal can be incredibly enriching. These moments not only strengthen family bonds but also give children a sense of stability and comfort. In South Africa, where community and family are deeply valued, it’s essential to manage our expectations and resist the pressure to fill every moment with structured activities. Trust that giving children the freedom to explore and play on their own terms is just as important for their growth. By finding a balance between scheduled activities and free play, we create an environment where our children can flourish. They will learn to enjoy both the structured opportunities to learn new skills and the invaluable time to simply be kids. In the rich and diverse cultural tapestry of South Africa, striking this balance will help our children grow up healthy, happy, and well-rounded. Article by: Kelly Grace Eyre

August 5, 2024
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Language and Literacy: The Benefits of Reading in Young Children and it’s Vital Importance in South Africa

As parents in South Africa, we all want the best for our children. We dream of bright futures filled with opportunities. One of the most effective ways to set our children on the path to success is by fostering early language and literacy skills. Reading plays a crucial role in this journey, offering numerous benefits that extend far beyond the pages of a book. In this blog, we’ll explore how reading benefits young children and why it is especially important for us here in South Africa. The Importance of Early Language and Literacy Development Language and literacy are the building blocks of education. They involve the ability to understand, use, and enjoy language in all its forms—speaking, listening, reading, and writing. When we start fostering these skills early in our children’s lives, we lay a strong foundation for their future learning and development. As South African parents, we have the unique opportunity to enrich our children’s lives through storytelling, conversations, and reading. In our culturally diverse nation, this can also mean sharing stories in multiple languages and celebrating our rich heritage while boosting our children’s cognitive abilities. Benefits of Reading for Young Children Cognitive Benefits Vocabulary Expansion: Reading to our children introduces them to a variety of words and phrases they might not hear in everyday conversations. This helps expand their vocabulary and enhances their ability to express themselves. Improved Comprehension Skills: Regular reading helps children understand and process information better. This skill is crucial for their academic success and overall cognitive development. Social Benefits Better Communication Skills: Children who are read to frequently develop superior communication skills. They learn how to articulate their thoughts and listen actively, which are essential skills for social interactions and future learning. Enhanced Empathy: Stories allow children to see the world from different perspectives. This exposure helps them develop empathy and understanding towards others, fostering a sense of community and respect. Emotional Benefits Bonding with Caregivers: Reading together is a special time for bonding. It provides a sense of security and belonging, strengthening the emotional connection between parents and children. Stress Reduction: The soothing nature of reading can help children relax and manage their emotions better, reducing stress and anxiety. Challenges and Opportunities in South Africa South Africa faces several challenges in promoting early literacy, but there are also many opportunities to make a positive impact. Overview of Literacy Rates: Despite progress, literacy rates in South Africa remain a concern, particularly in rural and under-resourced areas. Many children do not have access to books or quality early childhood education. Socio-Economic Disparities: Economic challenges can limit access to books and learning materials, making it harder for some families to prioritize reading. Opportunities for Improvement Government Initiatives: Various government policies and programs aim to improve education and literacy. Supporting these initiatives can help create a more literate society. Community Programs: Grassroots initiatives and non-profit organizations often provide books, training, and support to families and educators. Getting involved in these programs can make a significant difference. Role of Technology: With the rise of digital platforms and mobile apps, more children can access reading materials and literacy programs. Leveraging technology can help bridge the gap for many children. 1,000 Books Before Age 6: A Vital Goal There is a growing movement encouraging parents to read 1,000 books to their children before they turn six. This might sound daunting, but breaking it down means just one book a day over three years. Here’s why this goal is so important: Building a Strong Foundation: Reading a vast number of books exposes children to a wide range of vocabulary, ideas, and concepts, strengthening their cognitive abilities. Developing a Love for Reading: Consistent reading fosters a love for books and learning, setting the stage for lifelong educational success. Improving Concentration and Patience: Regular reading sessions help improve a child’s attention span and patience, skills that are crucial for school readiness. Enhancing Imagination and Creativity: Diverse stories stimulate a child’s imagination and creativity, helping them think outside the box. Strengthening Parent-Child Bond: The daily ritual of reading together strengthens the emotional bond between parents and children, creating lasting memories. In South Africa, reaching this goal can have profound impacts, especially in under-resourced communities where early literacy can be a game-changer for future educational success. The Importance of Reading to Children as Parents As parents, we are our children’s first and most influential teachers. Reading to our children is one of the most impactful ways we can support their development. Here’s why it matters so much: Creating a Nurturing Environment: Reading aloud to your child provides a comforting and secure environment. It’s a special time for bonding and shows your child that they are loved and valued. Setting a Positive Example: When children see their parents engaging with books, they are more likely to develop a positive attitude toward reading themselves. Encouraging Curiosity and Imagination: Books open up new worlds and ideas, stimulating your child’s imagination and curiosity. This encourages creative thinking and a love for learning. Preparing for Academic Success: Early reading habits prepare children for the academic demands of school, giving them a head start in literacy and comprehension skills. Fostering Independence: As children grow, their ability to read independently enhances their self-confidence and sense of achievement. Strategies to Promote Reading in Young Children Tips for Parents and Caregivers Make Reading a Daily Habit: Incorporate reading into your daily routine. Even a few minutes a day can make a big difference. Choose Age-Appropriate and Diverse Books: Select books that are suitable for your child’s age and interests. Include stories from different cultures and languages to broaden their horizons. Engage in Discussions About the Stories: Talk about the stories you read together. Ask questions, encourage your child to share their thoughts, and relate the stories to their own experiences. Role of Schools and Educators Incorporate Regular Reading Sessions: Ensure that reading is a regular part of the school day. This can foster a love for books and learning. Provide a Variety of

July 18, 2024
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Forgiveness: A Gentle Guide for Young Hearts

Forgiveness is an important value that helps our children grow into kind and understanding individuals. In South Africa, where we have a beautiful mix of cultures and traditions, teaching forgiveness from a young age can help create a community where everyone feels loved and accepted. What is Forgiveness? Forgiveness means letting go of hurt feelings when someone does something that makes us sad or upset. It’s like saying, “It’s okay, I won’t stay mad at you.” Forgiveness doesn’t mean we forget what happened or that it didn’t matter; it means we choose to move forward with a happy heart. Why is Forgiveness Important? For young children, forgiveness helps build strong friendships and maintain a positive outlook on life. It teaches them to be empathetic and to understand that everyone makes mistakes. Practising forgiveness in our diverse South African communities can foster unity and harmony. Teaching Forgiveness You can show your children how to forgive by practising it yourself. If you make a mistake, apologise and explain that everyone can be forgiven. Reading stories that highlight forgiveness can also be very impactful. Tales from our rich South African heritage, like those of Nelson Mandela’s forgiveness, can help children understand the power of forgiving. During playtime, encourage your child to share and resolve conflicts amicably. If a disagreement happens, guide them through the process of forgiving. Praise them when they forgive someone, saying things like, “I’m so proud of you for forgiving your friend. That was very kind.” Encouraging Forgiveness A simple activity to encourage forgiveness is creating a Forgiveness Jar. Have a special jar where your child can place a note whenever they forgive someone. At the end of the week, read the notes together and celebrate their kind heart. Role-playing can also be very effective. Use dolls or stuffed animals to act out situations where forgiveness is needed. This makes the concept more relatable and understandable for young minds. Art and crafts can be another way to help your child express their feelings. Encourage them to draw or paint their emotions. Discuss their artwork and gently guide them towards understanding and expressing forgiveness. Cultural Connections In South Africa, we have a concept called ‘Ubuntu’, which means “I am because we are.” This philosophy emphasises our interconnectedness and the importance of community. Teaching forgiveness aligns perfectly with Ubuntu, helping children understand that forgiving others strengthens our bonds and builds a better society. Teaching forgiveness to our little ones is like planting a seed that will grow into a strong, compassionate tree. As parents, we have the wonderful opportunity to nurture this value in our children, helping them to become loving and understanding individuals. Let’s embrace the spirit of Ubuntu and make forgiveness a fundamental part of our children’s lives. By nurturing forgiveness in our children, we are creating a child with a heart for the world. Thank you for being such wonderful guides for your young ones. Together, we can create a world full of kindness and understanding, one small heart at a time. Article by: Kelly Grace Eyre

July 11, 2024
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A Safe Space is Essential to a Child’s Wellbeing and Growth

As a parent what should your pre-school do to safeguard your children? The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child is a comprehensive guide to creating an environment that allows children to thrive. This guide embodies a child’s right to a safe environment and an education that helps them develop who they are, their talents, and their abilities. It’s crucial to acknowledge these rights for every child and provide them with a space where they can thrive. The Importance of a Safe Space Ursula Assis, Country Director, Dibber International Pre-schools, explains. “Children need an environment that promotes healthy practices and focuses on their physical, mental and social wellbeing as this allows them to maximise their learning abilities,” says Assis. A fact reinforced by research from the Thomas B. Fordham Institute that said ‘feeling safe and valued is vital to a child’s development’. The Institute also pointed out that such an environment doesn’t happen by chance – it is the product of strategy, evolving through clearly defined rules and expectations embedded within the school. “We believe it is important to take a proactive and preventative approach to safeguarding children. Health and safety risk assessments are undertaken regularly, and we remain current with any legislative requirements required in South Africa,” adds Assis. What are the key safeguarding strategies in place at Dibber? Staff are trained in health and safety regulations and expectations regarding children’s health and safety as well as environmental and school health and safety. Parents can request insight into the policies defining acceptable and unacceptable standards of health and safety as this gives them visibility into Dibber’s principles and commitment to the health and wellbeing of their children. These policies are included in the parent contracts, unit manager operations handbooks, staff handbooks and staff training materials. Staff undertake continuous assessment and training to ensure the best possible care for children in an environment that is nurturing, safe, and healthy. What legislation is recognised by the school as integral to the health, safety and wellbeing of children? The Children’s Act 38 of 2005 and the Children’s Amendment Act 2007 that regulate the establishment of Early Childhood Development (ECD) centres. The National Environmental Norms and Standards for Premises, Notice 1229 of 2015, National Health Act 61 of 2003. The Occupational Health and Safety Act 85 of 1993. Foodstuffs, Cosmetics & Disinfectants Act 54 of 1972. Regulations No.638 of 22 June 2018 governing General Hygiene Requirements for Food Premises, the Transport of Food and Related Matters. “These are just a few of the Acts and regulatory policies we follow at Dibber. In addition to the above, we follow whitepapers on childhood development, nutrition regulations, and educational policies. Our list is comprehensive and detailed, and consistently updated to ensure we are always aligned with state, provincial and local authority legislation. “We have also developed forms, documents and protocols designed to prioritise a child’s health, safety and wellbeing throughout the school. We have applications and forms for compliance, medication, parental reporting, childcare protocols and a detailed safeguarding policy.” Dibber invests in monthly risk assessments to ensure staff identify and monitor potential hazards, monthly inspections of indoor and outdoor spaces and equipment, and has paid time and attention to cultivating a culture of proactive safeguarding and hazard management. “We have also refined our admissions policy to ensure safeguarding children starts from the very beginning of our relationship with parents and their children. We consider the individual situation of every child and assess any disability and/or neurodivergent developmental condition, so we ensure they can benefit from our resources and staff in a space that prioritises their wellbeing. “All our schools also have stringent access control and security measures in place to ensure the safety and wellbeing of everyone within our facilities. Every step is carefully managed and monitored from arrival to departure to visitors. We believe that by prioritising safety at every touchpoint throughout the school, we give parents peace of mind and children peace within which to thrive. Our focus is on cultivating and maintaining a safe and nurturing environment where children can thrive and discover their full potential,” concludes Assis.

July 4, 2024
DIBBER SA

The power of  play  is real 

With the focus on Youth in June, Dibber International Preschools  emphasises the importance of pretend  play in childhood development. Ursula Assis, Country Director, urges parents and educators not to overlook  the  power  of  play  amidst  the pursuit of academic achievements. “While the focus on achieving specific learning outcomes is important, it’s equally crucial to recognise the role of imaginative play in a child’s holistic development,” says Assis. The Significance of  Pretend Play Pretend  play, or imaginative  play, is a vital  part of childhood that goes beyond mere entertainment. It is integral to the developmental process, helping children explore and understand the world around them. “Engaging in pretend play allows children to use their creativity while developing critical cognitive, social, and emotional skills,” Assis explains.  Stages of Pretend Play and Developmental Milestones Pretend  play  evolves as children grow, with each stage corresponding to specific developmental milestones: Symbolic  Play (18 to 24 months): Toddlers begin to understand object substitution, such as using a block as a phone. Dramatic  Play (2.5 to 3 years): Children start to enact familiar experiences, often using dolls or stuffed animals to represent people they know. Role-Playing (3 years and up): Children adopt various roles from their everyday lives, enhancing their ability to navigate social situations. Imaginary Objects (3 to 4 years): Preschoolers engage with elements that are not physically present, like pretending to drink from an empty cup. Pretend Play with Others (3 to 4 years): This stage involves interaction with peers, where children begin to cooperate and negotiate roles in a shared play scenario. Fantasy Play (4 years and up): Children delve into more complex, imaginative scenarios, often involving magical or fantastical elements. Imaginary Friends (4 to 5 years): The creation of imaginary companions helps children explore different aspects of their personality and the world. The Benefits of Pretend Play Pretend  play is more than just fun. It provides essential benefits that contribute to a child’s development: Creative and Critical Thinking: Children learn to think creatively and solve problems while navigating their invented scenarios. Communication and Social Skills: Engaging in role-play  enhances verbal and  non-verbal  communication, teaching children to express themselves clearly and understand others. Emotional Intelligence: By acting out different roles, children  develop empathy and the ability to manage their own emotions. Self-Regulation and Conflict Resolution: Pretend  play  often requires children to follow rules they set for themselves, helping them develop self-discipline and negotiation skills. Celebrating Youth Month with a Focus on Well-being This June, Dibber International Preschools celebrates the intrinsic value of play in education. “It’s essential that we provide our children with ample opportunities to engage in pretend  play. This  not only  supports their immediate happiness and satisfaction  but also  contributes to their long-term well-being and success,” concludes Assis.  

June 24, 2024
DIBBER SA

Embracing Every Step: Navigating Special Needs

“My journey with Dibber International has deeply intertwined with the lives of countless families, each with their unique, cherished children. As someone on the autism spectrum and a parent to a special needs son, I deeply grasp the intricacies and joys of nurturing children with diverse needs. From autism to developmental delays and learning difficulties, every journey is as unique as the precious children it encompasses. “I know firsthand how daunting it can be to embark on this journey. Even with my qualifications and experience, I initially struggled to acknowledge and navigate my son’s challenges. It was a journey filled with denial, fear, and uncertainty. But with the help of dedicated teachers, supportive managers, compassionate doctors, and skilled therapists, we began to navigate this uncharted territory. Each step was arduous, but with their guidance and expertise, we gradually found our footing. Today, we stand stronger, armed with knowledge, resilience, and an unwavering determination to overcome any obstacle that comes our way. “Looking back, I often wished I had the support of Dibber International when our journey began. The personalised guidance, holistic approach, and unwavering support that Dibber provides would have been invaluable during those challenging early days. That’s why I am deeply committed to this cause—not only as an educator but also as someone I wish I had when we first set foot on this path. I’ve learned firsthand that I am not alone, and neither are you. “The COVID-19 pandemic brought unprecedented challenges, disrupting the lives of families and exacerbating existing barriers to education and support services. For young children, especially those with special needs, the absence of in-person preschool experiences deprived them of vital opportunities for social interaction, sensory exploration, and structured learning. The abrupt shift to remote learning posed significant challenges for children who thrive “on routine, consistency, and hands-on experiences. Isolation from friends, teachers, and routine has been particularly challenging for young children’s social and emotional development. Many missed out on crucial interactions and experiences that lay the foundation for empathy, cooperation, and emotional regulation. Furthermore, the sudden change in routine and increased screen time may have impacted their sleep patterns, attention spans, and overall well-being. “As we navigated these turbulent waters, Dibber International’s commitment to families remained steadfast. We adapted our strategies, providing virtual support, resources, and guidance to bridge the gap created by remote learning. However, we acknowledged the limitations of virtual platforms in meeting the holistic needs of young children with special needs. In-person preschool experiences and supportive learning environments became more crucial than ever. “Development in young children under six unfolds across multiple domains—physical, cognitive, social, and emotional. Every milestone, from learning to walk to understanding emotions, contributes to their growth. For children with special needs, this journey may require tailored interventions and support. Early intervention services play a pivotal role in identifying and addressing developmental delays, equipping children with the tools they need to thrive. “At Dibber International, our approach to child development is grounded in the belief that every child possesses unique strengths and abilities. We call it the Dibber Way—a mastery that celebrates individuality and fosters growth. Our team collaborates closely with families to create personalized education plans prioritising each child’s well-being, growth, and happiness. Through play-based learning, sensory exploration, and tailored support, we empower children to reach their full potential, one step at a time. “Together, as a community of parents, educators, and supporters, we stand united in our commitment to nurturing and empowering every child. Though the road ahead may be challenging, it is also filled with endless possibilities and moments of profound joy. With each step we take together, we weave a tapestry of hope, resilience, and boundless love. Let us continue to embrace every step of this journey with open hearts and unwavering determination, knowing that our children’s futures are bright with promise “If you suspect your child may be experiencing challenges or difficulties, trust your instincts and reach out for support. As parents, you know your child best, and early intervention can make a significant difference in addressing developmental concerns. Our teamis here to listen, provide guidance, and support you through every step of the process. From assessment and diagnosis to creating personalized intervention plans, we’ll work together to ensure your child receives the support they need to thrive. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and together, we can empower your child to reach their full potential. “What if all children could know how valuable they are? Together, we create a world where every child is cherished, included, and empowered to thrive, creating a child for the heart of the world.” By: Kelly Grace Eyre

June 17, 2024
DIBBER SA

Nurturing Minds at Night: Why sleep is your child’s best learning tool

Dibber International Preschools recognises sleep’s profound impact on a child’s holistic development. Emphasising the need for a good night’s rest, Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber International Preschools, discusses the vital role sleep plays in young learners’ physical, emotional, and cognitive growth. The Crucial Link Between Sleep and Early Brain Development “Sleep is not just a restorative process; it’s a crucial building block in a child’s developmental journey,” Assis explains. During sleep, the brain is incredibly active and engaged in processes essential for healthy development, such as memory consolidation, information processing, motor skill refinement, and neural pathway strengthening. Research shows adequate sleep improves focus, enhanced problem-solving capabilities, better mood regulation, and increased resilience. Moreover, it plays a significant role in physical growth, particularly during infancy. Addressing the Consequences of Sleep Deprivation The effects of insufficient sleep can range from mild irritability to more severe impacts on a child’s academic performance, often mimicking ADHD symptoms. “It’s alarming that one in four children under the age of five are not getting the sleep they need, which can lead to long-term issues including obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular problems,” Assis adds. Ensuring Adequate Sleep: Recommendations for Parents Recognising the varying sleep needs of children as they grow, Assis advises parents on how to establish effective sleep habits: Infants (0-3 months) require 14-17 hours of sleep, including naps. Infants (4-12 months) need 12-16 hours, including naps. Toddlers (1-2 years) should get 11-14 hours, including naps. Preschoolers (3-5 years) benefit from 10-13 hours, including naps. School-aged children (6-13 years) need 9-12 hours. Teenagers (14-17 years) should aim for 8-10 hours. Tips for Promoting Healthy Sleep Patterns Assis encourages parents to adopt a consistent bedtime routine to help regulate their child’s sleep patterns. This routine might include turning off screens well before bedtime, engaging in calming activities like reading a book or listening to soothing music, and ensuring the sleep environment is conducive to rest. “Creating a relaxing atmosphere, limiting evening stimulation, and maintaining a regular sleep schedule all contribute to better sleep hygiene. By establishing these habits early, parents can set the foundation for a lifetime of healthy sleep,” says Assis. Dibber International Preschools remains committed to nurturing the academic and overall well-being of its students. It recognises that a well-rested child is better equipped to face the challenges and opportunities of each day. “By prioritising sleep, parents are investing in their child’s future, enhancing not just their health but also their capacity to learn and grow,” concludes Assis. “At Dibber, we strive to support families in understanding and implementing these critical practices, ensuring our students can achieve their full potential.”

June 10, 2024
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Beyond the Classroom: Dibber’s Seed-to Spoon Philosophy Fosters Healthy Habits

Dibber International Preschools is  a leader in early childhood education based on the Nordic model and international standards. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, emphasises the importance of early childhood development and literacy in shaping the futures of young learners. “At Dibber, we believe that a well-rounded education begins with the basics, which includes literacy and cognitive skills and well rounded  practices like mindful eating,” says Assis. The Importance of Mindful Eating in Early Education Mindful eating is a practice that involves being fully attentive to one’s food and using all senses to enjoy and appreciate meals. At Dibber, cultivating this habit in young children can significantly improve their lifelong health and well-being. Assis notes, “By teaching children to engage with their food mindfully, we are helping them to develop healthy eating habits that will serve them well throughout their lives.” The Dibber Meal Concept, focuses on nutritious, seed-to-spoon meals that are integral to our educational approach. “Nutrition is as vital to a child’s development as any academic subject,” Assis states. “Our meal concept is designed to nurture not just the body but also the mind, making every meal an opportunity for learning and growth.” Activities and Benefits for Attendees Mindful eating and its benefits for children, include: Enhancing sensory experiences and appreciation for food. Recognising hunger cues to prevent overeating. Promoting better digestion through thorough chewing. “Understanding and nurturing the connection between body and mind from an early age is crucial,” concludes Assis. 

June 6, 2024
DIBBER SA

UNLOCKING SOUTH AFRICA’S FUTURE – the critical role of quality Early Childhood Development and Education

In a world where investing in the future is paramount, no investment is more crucial than that in early childhood development. Research¹ has shown that the first one thousand days in a child’s life could hold the key to unlocking their lifelong potential. By age five, almost 90% of a child’s brain is developed, making these formative years pivotal in shaping their future. Ursula Assis, Country Director, Dibber International Preschools comments.  South Africa’s Alarming Literacy Statistic “Like many nations, South Africa faces the challenge of ensuring quality early education for its youngest citizens. Shockingly, an international report² reveals that 81% of Grade 4 learners in the country cannot read for meaning in any of the official languages. This stark statistic underscores the urgency of addressing early childhood development. The Impact of Quality Early Education “Early childhood programmes that are sustained and of high quality can have long-lasting impacts on children. These programmes prepare them for formal schooling and set them on a path to lifelong success. Benefits include: Improved Academic Performance: Quality early education lays a solid academic foundation, allowing children to excel in reading, math, and language skills throughout their school years. Enhanced Social and Emotional Development: These programs focus on building crucial social and emotional skills, such as cooperation, communication, and empathy, which are vital for positive relationships and emotional well-being. Long-Term Educational Attainment: Children who receive quality early education are more likely to graduate from high school and pursue higher education, leading to better career opportunities and economic stability. Reduced Special Education Placements: Early childhood education identifies and addresses developmental delays or learning difficulties early on, reducing the need for special education services later in a child’s school years. Economic and Social Benefits: Quality early childhood education programs contribute to a more skilled and productive workforce, lower crime rates, and decreased reliance on social welfare programs, benefiting society as a whole. A Unique Approach to Nurturing Children’s Potential “Our approach goes beyond traditional education. The Dibber Childhood places an emphasis on not only a child’s learning achievements but also their future health, happiness, and growth. Through the Dibber Heart Culture and customised approaches to learning, children become keen explorers who love to learn and develop the competencies needed for everyday life. The emphasis is placed on developing all aspects of a child, from the cognitive and physical to the emotional and social. “A warm and inclusive atmosphere fostering positive and supportive relationships is also vital in early childhood development. Jack Shonkoff, Director of the Centre on the Developing Child at Harvard, highlights the importance of these relationships, which are the roots that allow all children to thrive. Children need to feel valued, know how to form relationships and understand their role in a greater community and the world. Everyday Moments are Golden Opportunities “There is great importance in tiny everyday moments that leave lasting traces, influence relationships, and shape culture, so we strive to make every everyday moment “golden” by actively building trust with the children and nurturing their sense of self-worth. “Investing in early childhood development not only sets children on a path to success but also contributes to the overall well-being of society.”

May 28, 2024
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WHY RESPONSIVE PARENTING IS THE NEW BUZZWORD IN MODERN CHILD REARING

A fresh parenting style has been capturing caregivers’ attention worldwide: Responsive Parenting. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this emerging trend, explaining its significance and its profound impact on child development. Understanding the Core of Responsive Parenting Assis describes responsive parenting as a holistic approach that focuses on the child’s needs, emotions, and developmental milestones. This style is distinguished by its sensitivity, empathy, and commitment to fostering a secure, nurturing environment. “Responsive parents are keen observers of their child’s behaviour. They engage in active listening, validate their child’s feelings, and provide guidance that is attuned to the child’s emotional state,” Assis explains. This approach is about being present and connected with the child, ensuring that the parent’s actions and responses are consistently supportive and encouraging. It’s about establishing trust and mutual respect, where the child feels valued and understood. The Four Pillars of Traditional Parenting Styles To appreciate the uniqueness of responsive parenting, Assis contrasts it with the four traditional styles: Authoritarian, Authoritative, Permissive, and Uninvolved. Each style represents a different approach to discipline, communication, and nurturing. While Authoritative parenting shares some similarities with the responsive model, especially in terms of nurturing and communication, responsive parenting goes a step further by prioritising the child’s emotional and psychological needs. The Benefits of Adopting a Responsive Approach Research has shown that responsive parenting has a myriad of benefits. “Children raised in a responsive environment tend to excel in cognitive, social, emotional, and physical development,” Assis states. These children often develop secure attachments with their caregivers, which leads to better problem-solving skills, independence, and emotional regulation. Furthermore, responsive parenting fosters a peaceful home environment where children feel loved and supported, reducing the likelihood of behavioural issues. Practical Applications of Responsive Parenting Responsive parenting is actionable in daily interactions. It involves: Being sensitive to the child’s needs and responding warmly. Accepting and understanding the child’s emotions. Setting realistic expectations and helping the child achieve them. Engaging in meaningful conversations and reasoning with the child. Demonstrating consistent behaviour for the child to model. Embracing Imperfection in Parenting Assis emphasises that responsive parenting is not about perfection. “Even the most responsive parents have their off days. It’s about the effort and intention behind our actions,” she remarks. Mistakes and missteps are part of the parenting journey. Apologising and reconnecting with the child after a mistake teaches them about humility, resilience, and emotional intelligence. Responsive parenting represents a paradigm shift in how we approach child-rearing. It underscores the importance of a nurturing, empathetic relationship between parent and child, laying the groundwork for an emotionally healthy, secure, and capable future generation. As Assis concludes, “In the end, it’s not about adhering to a perfect parenting model but about being the loving, present, and responsive caregiver that every child deserves.”

May 21, 2024
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EXPLORING THE IMPACT OF HELICOPTER PARENTING

In the delicate balance of parenting, a fine line exists between nurturing and hovering too closely. Helicopter parenting, characterised by overprotection, micromanagement, and excessive involvement, while rooted in love and concern, can inadvertently hinder a child’s development. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this and its long-term effects on children, urging parents to find a healthy balance between support and autonomy. Understanding Helicopter Parenting As Assis explains, helicopter parenting stems from a deep desire to shield children from harm and ensure their success. However, this hyper-vigilant approach can impede children’s ability to develop crucial life skills, such as independence, resilience, and problem-solving. The Long-Term Impact on Children Assis outlines five significant long-term effects of helicopter parenting on children: Decreased Confidence & Self-Esteem: By constantly intervening and limiting their independence, helicopter parents inadvertently hamper children’s confidence and self-esteem, hindering their ability to navigate challenges with resilience. Inability to Cope with Emotions and Failures: Sheltering children from failure deprives them of valuable learning experiences and coping mechanisms, leaving them ill-prepared to handle setbacks and disappointments. Increased Anxiety: The constant pressure to meet parental expectations and the lack of autonomy can lead to heightened stress and anxiety levels among children, affecting their overall well-being. Sense of Entitlement: Children accustomed to having their every need catered to may develop a sense of entitlement, expecting success without putting in the necessary effort or facing adversity. Non-Existent Life Skills: Overprotected children may lack essential life skills, such as problem-solving and resilience, making it challenging for them to navigate the complexities of the real world independently. How to Avoid Helicopter Parenting Assis offers practical advice for parents on how to avoid falling into the trap of helicopter parenting: Empower Independence: Allow children to tackle challenges and solve problems on their own, gradually increasing their autonomy as they grow. Encourage Resilience: Support children in facing setbacks and disappointments, emphasising the importance of perseverance and resilience in overcoming obstacles. Promote Life Skills: Provide opportunities for children to develop essential life skills, such as decision-making, problem-solving, and emotional regulation, through hands-on experiences and real-world challenges. Be the Net When They Fall Assis underscores the importance of being a supportive presence in children’s lives, offering comfort and encouragement when they encounter difficulties. Parents can help children build the resilience and confidence they need to thrive by serving as a safety net rather than a hovering presence. “It is important to balance support and autonomy in parenting, allowing children the freedom to explore, learn, and grow while providing a safety net of love and guidance. By avoiding the pitfalls of helicopter parenting and fostering independence and resilience in children, parents can empower them to become capable and confident individuals, prepared to navigate life’s challenges with courage and resilience,” concludes Assis.

May 14, 2024
DIBBER SA

FOSTERING RESILIENCE IN YOUNG CHILDREN IS VITAL TO THEIR HEALTHY DEVELOPMENT

How do we do this? Nurturing resilience in young children is paramount for their growth and development in a country and world filled with challenges. Ursula Assis, Country Director of Dibber International Preschools, sheds light on this crucial aspect of parenting, teaching, and early childhood education and development. As Assis explains, resilience refers to a child’s ability to respond positively to adverse events. While some may perceive resilience as an innate trait, she stresses that it can also be cultivated through cognitive, emotional, and social skills. “Resilience is not just about bouncing back from setbacks; it’s also about equipping children with the tools to navigate life’s uncertainties with confidence and adaptability,” says Assis. Here are nine practical ways parents can foster resilience in their young children, according to Assis: Setting Boundaries: Assis advises parents to set boundaries and encourage independence in their children. Saying ‘no’ when appropriate and allowing children to tackle tasks independently instils a sense of self-reliance and responsibility. Avoiding Overprotection: While ensuring safety is essential, she cautions against overprotecting children. Allowing them to explore, experiment, and occasionally experience failure is crucial for their growth and resilience. Building Strong Family Bonds: A supportive and loving family environment lays the foundation for resilience. Spending quality time together, fostering open communication, and nurturing emotional stability contribute to a child’s ability to cope with challenges. Asking Empowering Questions: Assis suggests asking ‘how’ questions to encourage problem-solving skills and a positive outlook instead of focusing on mistakes. This approach helps children develop resilience by shifting their perspective from dwelling on failures to finding solutions. Embracing Mistakes: Making mistakes is a natural part of learning and development. Assis advocates for allowing children to make and learn from mistakes, emphasising that resilience is built through overcoming challenges. Encouraging Healthy Risk-Taking: It is key to highlight the importance of encouraging children to take calculated risks and step out of their comfort zones. Providing guidance on assessing risks and taking appropriate precautions empowers children to explore new opportunities confidently. Storytelling and Inspiration: Sharing stories of resilience and perseverance inspires children to believe in their own abilities. Assis recommends storytelling as a powerful tool for instilling values of determination, passion, and resilience in young minds. Positive Communication: The tone of communication plays a significant role in shaping children’s perceptions and responses to challenges, with parents encouraged to communicate positively and emphasising encouragement and support rather than fear or negativity. Providing Unconditional Support: While fostering independence, the importance of maintaining a supportive presence in children’s lives needs to be stressed. Knowing they have a reliable source of love and guidance gives children the confidence to navigate obstacles and seek help when needed. In conclusion, Assis reiterates that parents play a crucial role in modelling resilient behaviour for their children. By incorporating these strategies into parenting practices, parents can empower their children to thrive in the face of adversity. Dibber International Preschools is dedicated to supporting parents in this journey of fostering resilience and nurturing the next generation of confident, resilient individuals.

May 7, 2024
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