As the new school year approaches, the team at Dibber International Preschools reminds families that preparing emotionally is just as important as packing a lunchbox or buying new school shoes. While the start of the year can feel exciting, it can also bring anxiety – especially for toddlers and preschoolers taking their first steps into a structured classroom environment.
“School transitions are big milestones in a young child’s life. They bring a range of feelings – from curiosity and joy to nervousness and uncertainty,” says Ursula Assis, Country Director at Dibber South Africa. “By offering children consistent routines, open conversations, and gentle preparation, we lay the emotional foundation they need to walk into school with confidence.”
At Dibber, educators view the transition into a new year as a moment of connection, a chance to honour each child’s emotions, while also equipping them with tools to adapt and thrive. One of the most powerful ways to ease this transition is through routine. After the relaxed pace of the holidays, families are encouraged to gently reintroduce familiar rhythms such as earlier bedtimes, regular mealtimes, and quiet evening play. These small steps help children feel safe and ready for the day-to-day structure of preschool life.
“Children thrive on predictability,” explains Assis “Something as simple as brushing teeth at the same time every night or sitting together for breakfast each morning helps them feel anchored as they prepare for change.”
Communication is another key ingredient. Dibber encourages parents to listen attentively to their child’s thoughts and feelings, no matter how small they seem. Young children often express their worries indirectly – through behaviour or play – and offering empathy in return can go a long way.
“Speak to your child in your home language – whether it’s English, isiZulu, Afrikaans, or Sesotho,” says Assis. “Familiar words feel comforting. When children feel heard, their emotional load lightens, and their confidence grows.”
To strengthen that confidence, Dibber recommends celebrating small wins; from remembering to greet a friend to helping pack their own bag. These moments build emotional resilience and a sense of pride, which are essential when navigating unfamiliar environments.
Dibber educators also collaborate closely with parents, building continuity between home and school. These warm relationships (what Dibber calls ‘Engaged Educators’) are the cornerstone of their approach.
“When children see their grown-ups working together, they feel secure. They understand that they are supported on all sides,” says Assis.
Storytelling can also be a powerful preparation tool. Reading books about starting school or inventing your own story where your child is the hero can ease anxiety
And above all, never underestimate the power of play.
“Pretend play at home – from packing a snack to role-playing as the teacher – transforms the unknown into the familiar. “Play is how children practice life. It gives them a sense of control and excitement.”
As South African families prepare to turn the page on the holidays, Dibber reminds parents that perfection isn’t the goal – connection is. With a little structure, playful practice, and openhearted teamwork, school transitions can become joyful rather than daunting.
“At Dibber, we believe every child deserves a warm, secure start. That’s why our educators walk hand-in-hand with families to make each new chapter as smooth and meaningful as possible,” concludes Assis.
To learn more about Dibber’s approach to emotional readiness and play-based learning, visit your nearest Dibber International Preschool or connect with the team at www.dibber.co.za.
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2 thoughts on “Easing First-Day Jitters: Dibber’s Guide to a Smooth Start for Preschoolers”
Wish I read this before bay started preschool would’ve helped way more.
Perfect timing and insightful article!